TOP 6 SARTORIAL MISTAKES MEN MAKE

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The Chap's Guide

The Chap's Guide

Күн бұрын

In this video we respond to a viewers question about the often observed sartorial issues encountered by the intentionally well-dressed man.
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@MrHammyHunter
@MrHammyHunter Жыл бұрын
I once wore a tweed jacket, chinos and white shirt to a work night out. A colleague turned up in a similar outfit. But I had a pocket square. Someone said he was the 'council' version of me. 😂
@28pbtkh23
@28pbtkh23 6 ай бұрын
You must have loved that 😊
@theoldman5769
@theoldman5769 Жыл бұрын
Ash, your point about having the confidence to be intentionally well-dressed is such a valid one. Along the way, there were many times when I put the jacket back on the hanger or took out the pocket square, etc before I left the house. As someone who was never the best-dressed man in the group, I decided last year to step up my style game. Now, wearing a navy blazer, or a wool sports jacket seems quite natural. And I am always the only one with a pocket square. Have a great weekend all.
@mungulor
@mungulor Жыл бұрын
100% this. The confidence to dress well intentionally seeps into other aspects of life too, eventually making you a well dressed, well rounded and confident gentleman in everything you do
@9er..
@9er.. Жыл бұрын
Love this!! I’m building up the cojones to start wearing silk scarfs as cravats. It’s stories like yours that provide the motivation to do so. Thanks man!
@arslongavitabrevis5136
@arslongavitabrevis5136 Жыл бұрын
Good for you "Old Man"! Why should we feel uncomfortable for being smartly dressed? As Ash said: "own it!".
@ana419
@ana419 26 күн бұрын
Keep it up, Everyone around you appreciates it more than you will ever imagine and you are setting an example to follow that can begin a movement to shape our world round again. Reclaim Sanity.
@padre2275
@padre2275 Жыл бұрын
My grandfather raised me to always be a gentleman. That meant dressing well and showing self respect. Unfortunately here in the US, a lot of men no longer have a desire to dress appropriately. I cringe every time I see grown men walking around in public wearing pajama bottoms, or t-shirts with vulgarity splashed across their chests. It is very refreshing to watch a channel such as yours and know that there are still men who desire to still be gentlemen and dress accordingly. I thank you sir.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Keep the faith - our time will return!
@markywellsboy2182
@markywellsboy2182 Жыл бұрын
The confidence issue is an excellent point. I watched this yesterday before embarking on a day out. I am currently transitioning my wardrobe and each time I go out I get a little nervous. One of my best friends of many years greeted me with, "so this is day wear now, is it?" All in good fun and I held my nerve. I was sporting a pair of cotton jeans that I've had for some time, but Chapped it up with a grey wool sports jacket, Oxford shirt, waistcoat and Loake boots. I even topped it off with a fob watch. All on a tight budget. I grew in confidence as the day progressed, got a couple of admiring glances and even a comment from one young lady, "oooh, you look smart!" It's been a long time since that has happened, lol. Stay strong and keep your faith, Chaps.
@stephanesurprenant60
@stephanesurprenant60 11 ай бұрын
"I'm going to look like a fool." First of all, just think about how little thought you spend on what others do. Second of all, if there's one man wearing a well fitted suit in a room and you have no other information than it is a meeting, what do you think? You don't think he's a clown; you assume he's their boss. The association of a suit is with wealth, power, status, prestige. So just put on that outfit you like, walk into that room and if anyone asks why the suit, just say it's Wednesday. I just love how Raphael from GG had this story about him and his wife going to a new restaurant dressed to the nines where it's so unusual for people to dress up the waitress asked them where they were going and they answered "here." So, that's what I told my wife. We'll just dress up and hit a restaurant or a bar regardless of what kind of place it is. People will just have a good stare and we won't care. Otherwise, we'd always be dressing sloppily because that's what everyone does all the time -- sometimes even at weddings and funerals.
@kevincorby435
@kevincorby435 Жыл бұрын
Love the content. One thing I never do is unpick my suit jacket pockets.Stops me putting items in them, to spoil the line. Not the internal pockets just the hip pockets.
@markywellsboy2182
@markywellsboy2182 Жыл бұрын
That the same great piece of advice that my father gave me as a boy.
@lynn5447
@lynn5447 9 ай бұрын
I love it. Last week, a lady came up to me and said that I am always so snazzy! I thanked her and knew that I was on my way to Chap Nirvana. And yes, I was by far the best dressed man in the room.
@Larry-qz3es
@Larry-qz3es Жыл бұрын
My favorite saying from George Fraizer, former style editor of Esquire "Wanna know how well a man is dressed? Look down at his shoes."
@kesfitzgerald1084
@kesfitzgerald1084 Жыл бұрын
Your last point is salient. The need to conform is so strong and naturally so when young. As I have aged I have acquired a wardrobe suitable for most social occasions, along with a very patient seamstress, and I can say with confidence that I am able to dress appropriately and well. Many an evening I have gone out on a social excursion, and perfect strangers, very often younger people, have gone out of their way to give compliments. At first I was taken aback at the attention and tended to be a bit self deprecating but over time, I learnt to smile and say, "thank you". A bit slow on the uptake, I have realised that whilst I enjoy dressing well, the enjoyment is not always all mine.
@iangreenwood9328
@iangreenwood9328 Жыл бұрын
One of the new fashion statements that drives me crazy is when a well dressed man wearing nice shoes doesn’t wear socks or the socks are so small it gives the appearance they aren’t wearing them - this totally ruins the look in my opinion and has the same effect on me as someone dragging their nails down a chalkboard
@flasherol3764
@flasherol3764 Жыл бұрын
Good morning, sir. I'm ready to sit back and enjoy your video while having a coffee. Have a great weekend.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Good morning!
@barrysmith8193
@barrysmith8193 8 ай бұрын
Here here. You are not alone sir. I start my day every day at 4:00 am working out on my mountain bike then it’s coffee time with a great learning session such as Ash and his great channel.
@wordupmybrotha
@wordupmybrotha Жыл бұрын
I bought a fedora about 4 months ago because I like the men's look from the 1950s. I don't see anyone wearing it in Los Angeles, so I have to muster up the courage every time I wear it.
@YouCanChangeYourWorldToday
@YouCanChangeYourWorldToday Жыл бұрын
Cholos wear them in Los Angeles 😅 be safe out there 🙏✌️
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Confidence begins within sir - have courage and stap out in style!
@badger9961
@badger9961 Жыл бұрын
I had the same problem years ago. In addition to the fact that I often was the only one who wears a hat, my wife didn't like it, too. But I wore my hat aswell. Not all the time, but more and more often. In the beginning it was a sort of a challenge for me, I earned looks from other people on the streets, but I got used to that. Nowadays I see quite a lot of other men wearig a hat, it becomes to be usual. Was I a trend setter? My next challenge is to wear in public my bowler hat - which I bought last week. This will be even more challenging because I've never seen anyone wearing such a hat in "normal life".
@YouCanChangeYourWorldToday
@YouCanChangeYourWorldToday Жыл бұрын
@@badger9961 yea you’ll definitely stand out with a bowler hat 🎩 lol
@jazzman1626
@jazzman1626 Жыл бұрын
@@badger9961 You’re a leader and anyone who gives you looks are merely followers. We need guys like you. It’s guys like you who change attitudes and teach by example, the difference between fashion which goes in and out, and style which lasts.
@sipes23
@sipes23 Жыл бұрын
I have to tell you, when I dress better I feel better. You are correct about having the self-esteem to dress well. If you value yourself properly, you'll dress well to make the external appearance match the internal value. I think that's the thing about dressing well that I didn't understand for years.
@Alandale45
@Alandale45 Жыл бұрын
This is an important reason for dressing well. When this balance is attained, some of the issues Ash mentioned are eliminated. Thank you for your useful comment.
@ronaldpoppe3774
@ronaldpoppe3774 Жыл бұрын
Ash. Great advice as always. Fit is King and I agree one of my biggest pet peeves is seeing pant legs spilling all over the shoe. Also have to agree fully with you on owning your look. Lead by example and others will follow. A fellow co-worker the other day said how nice I looked and the other associate next to him said he always looks nice. That is what you're striving for. I have also been able to mentor a couple of young gentlemen. And one in particular is always texting me asking my advice. Cheers Ron
@antonylaing2499
@antonylaing2499 Жыл бұрын
I put a new cover on my ironing board yesterday. I iron all my clothes including those worn for sporting activities as they fit better without distracting creases. A coach, who went on to do great things, once told me that taking care of your equipment and arriving with purpose as though you belong there, is the first step in the psychological game, particularly where confidence is critically important to both performance and safety.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Your coach was absolutely spot-on in my experience - victory begins with the iron!!
@dteun
@dteun Жыл бұрын
This morning i showed my daughter (9) how to fold her karate GI when we where done she had folded them again in to her bag. Great advice from your coach.
@28pbtkh23
@28pbtkh23 6 ай бұрын
⁠@@TheChapsGuide - I love that saying: ‘Victory starts with the iron!’
@jrh11254
@jrh11254 4 ай бұрын
@@TheChapsGuide - 1966 was a pivotal year for me…I began ironing my clothes at age 12 when I didn’t think my mom gave enough attention to them. I always cared how I looked - even as a very small “chap;” e.g., there were clothes I would only wear in our backyard - not thinking them appropriate for the more public front yard.
@martincrean7993
@martincrean7993 Жыл бұрын
Hi Ash. Thanks a million again from Ireland. I devour every single word of your advice..
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
My pleasure! Whereabouts in the Emerald Isle are you from.
@martincrean7993
@martincrean7993 Жыл бұрын
@@TheChapsGuide Co.Cork ...
@misteroz
@misteroz Жыл бұрын
I’ve followed a number of men’s style channels over the years, and I think it’s the first time anyone has mentioned ironing - but it’s absolutely fundamental! Great video, a pleasure to subscribe.
@scrambaba
@scrambaba 9 ай бұрын
Agreed it is not a waste of time.
@ludwigalmedal4243
@ludwigalmedal4243 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ash for your advises! I (22 years old) have always tried to dress up and think of my appearance, but since I started to watch at your superb tutorials have I stepped up a game! Adding the pocket square or the tie for instance make you look shaper. So again, thank you and keep the good work up!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@adarter2422
@adarter2422 Жыл бұрын
A new video from you sir, is a great start for the Weekend. Thank you.
@jt1559
@jt1559 8 ай бұрын
I love brands like Private White VC, Allen Edmonds and Rancourt & Co where the cost is in the quality of the materials and the craftsmanship, rather than a brand. With these brands, there is no logo so no one has any idea what brand they are. I was out a couple of months ago with my cousin who was dressed like a hobo (his hoody jacket was dirty, ripped and faded), who was boasting that his jacket cost more than my Private White VC Mac because it had no logo and his did. I didn't correct him as I really don't care what people think of my clothes, but it just goes to show what the average person thinks regarding brand logos and cost. At work, I am always the best dressed in my team of 12. We work in data, but for one of the Big 4 banks in Australia, and other than one other guy (out of eight men), everyone else dresses like crap. I always get complimented by the women in my team for looking sharp with my pocket square, and stylish (but classic) sportscoat.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 8 ай бұрын
Bravo sir. Keep leading the way.
@nigelreynolds7330
@nigelreynolds7330 Жыл бұрын
A fantastic and informative video sir. The last part about having the confidence is so valid. I used to be exactly that person but as I got older I stopped worrying and started to be proud. I was in the TA and heard often that shiny shoes meant shiny mind. I've never forgotten this.
@zockerplay3314
@zockerplay3314 Жыл бұрын
Absolutly love the last part! 14:47 Held me back a lot but I‘m slowly overcoming it. Own that look! This translates also to almost everything in life too. Thank you Ash.
@markwalsh6714
@markwalsh6714 Жыл бұрын
Morning Ash. Great video as always. Some really good pointers. Especially the point of trying to hard. I’m often guilty of that following the ‘preppy’ style and I often feel like I’m over dressing for popping into town for tomatoes etc. I need to look a bit more natural I think. Thankyou great video.
@viclucyzia
@viclucyzia Жыл бұрын
The trend of slim and super slim has stubbornly been around for too long. I wonder when fashion will finally move on. I can't stand seeing those compressed limbs anymore. It has been for years now.. My style might be often colourful even flamboyant at times but I pay great attention not to slip towards the clownish side.
@zoltanvincze5101
@zoltanvincze5101 Жыл бұрын
Im so glad for the new video sir ! Thank you
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Hope you enjoyed it!
@0017Bulldog
@0017Bulldog Жыл бұрын
On target as usual. Another fantastic motivational piece. Thank you.
@biermann5614
@biermann5614 Жыл бұрын
I am currently starting my sartorial journey and can only support everything said in this video. Which brings me to another good video to further the knowledge about this topic: it is from the youtube chanel sartorial talks "climbing the sartorial latter". It gives some good advise and works as a nice addition to this video.
@karltheheretik
@karltheheretik Жыл бұрын
I just discovered this channel, and I think it's BRILLIANT! I've been upping my style game because I'm 54 and need to stop dressing like a 16-year old metalhead from the 80's. I've been taking in several style-mavens in the US, but I love harkening back to our style roots from across the pond. Love it!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@user-jb6hn1db8x
@user-jb6hn1db8x 7 ай бұрын
Nailed it!
@simonsoo124
@simonsoo124 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I enjoyed listening to you, particularly your last point on confidence & leading the pack 👍
@sammyb1651
@sammyb1651 Жыл бұрын
Shoe polishing/shine is suitable for flannel/suit trousers only. Wearing shiny shoes (even if good quality) with jeans is a universally terrible look. I've seen this pushed on so many menswear channels and it's just not a go-er. For any non formal look, shoes look much better in a matte finish and even with a bit of wear/patina to them. Leather should be nourished/conditioned (not scruffy, obviously) and they should remain in sound structural condition, however a polish/shine finish is to be avoided like the plague.
@Dunkelzeitgeist
@Dunkelzeitgeist Жыл бұрын
Great video! Loved the inspiration at the end
@salemslotandmore8278
@salemslotandmore8278 5 ай бұрын
Thank You for the List and Video 😀
@Mamba0809
@Mamba0809 9 ай бұрын
Awesome video. Your video reinforce my knowledge about mens fashion.
@eddielopez3702
@eddielopez3702 Жыл бұрын
Good advice for us older Gents! A trip to the tailor will fix a lot of things. Thanks Ash!
@thormusique
@thormusique Жыл бұрын
Excellent video, thanks, and very well said! I'm so glad I stumbled upon your channel; it's so refreshing to see someone celebrating the choice to dress in a manner that allows for individuality and self-confidence. I was fortunate in that my parents both worked (quite successfully) in the fashion industry. I was perhaps an odd child, in that I preferred to wear suits and a top hat, and often walk with a stylish cane. No doubt, adults around me were amused, and I know that my friends were mostly perplexed; I think they assumed I was an alien. And although my parents worked in women's fashions, I had the benefit of shopping for my own clothes with my parents pointing out garments which exhibited 'faulty lines' or were badly sewn. I grew up wearing tailored suits and coats, and when I attained a rebellious age, I even went so far as to buy suits that weren't bespoke! Of course, I laugh about that now, but at the time my parents were mortified. My mother would point out everything that was 'wrong' with the garment in question, and although I shrugged it off, I'd secretly be troubled by it and quickly lose interest in the garment. Eventually I admitted the error of my ways. Not that I buy much bespoke tailored clothing these days, but I do remain quite careful about the choices I make. For better or worse, I've also passed on my 'obsession' to my daughter, and I'm happy to see she certainly knows fine clothes when she sees them. But I digress.... Anyway, I look forward to watching your other videos, cheers! 🙂
@realwarriorscholar
@realwarriorscholar Жыл бұрын
Great advice as always Ash! Get a well fitting suit or sartorial piece and wear it until you’re comfortable in it. Once you are, you will emanate a sense of sprezzatura or effortless style. I’ve received many compliments wearing a Bavarian Alpine hat and an edelweiss flower pinned on my lapel.
@MagnitudeUK
@MagnitudeUK Жыл бұрын
Your remarks about quality really resonates with me. I am a working gentleman who needs quality of rugged workwear, while wearing some more traditional but smart blue collar workwear. I am a 6xl shirt size with a 33" inside leg, so clothes cost a lot regardless of brand, so by buying quality I pay more upfront but not more in the long term. I would also say that dressing according to your body shape is important. As a portly chap, I find proper button-on braces tend to work better than a belt, and making sure that you aren't girdled as a belt does.
@creakycracker
@creakycracker 8 ай бұрын
When I was working I was 6'4" and weighed 357 pounds. I was told by my Physician to get suspenders because I was impeding my digestion by cinching my belt so tightly....
@NguyenVinh-di6rl
@NguyenVinh-di6rl 7 ай бұрын
Very well said Sir!
@darthdiamo6902
@darthdiamo6902 Жыл бұрын
Great video, Ash. I'm convinced that you'd do such a great job if you decided to make a whole video series on the maintenance & correct sizing of how a suit should fit. Also, where did you get that flatcap from? I can't remember if you've mentioned it in a previous video or not. Cheers!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
The cap has been with me for decades and I can’t recall it’s origin story. I’m certainly considering your video suggestion - thank you.
@lorenzoleongutierrez7927
@lorenzoleongutierrez7927 Жыл бұрын
Excellent advices , thanks a lot 😊!
@tobyjackman3212
@tobyjackman3212 7 ай бұрын
Superb video - well done
@adamg393
@adamg393 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video and very true
@supersonique001
@supersonique001 Жыл бұрын
Could not agree more to all your points, well done sir. Keeping it simple as you say was one of Cary Grant's tenets as so incredibly executed in my favorite movie of his 'North by Northwest' , a two button mid-grey/blue suit ! Of course, it helps if you're good looking ! LOL.
@jeffhreid
@jeffhreid Жыл бұрын
Good advice on the details
@Fanakapan222
@Fanakapan222 Жыл бұрын
Top advice as always. On the confidence angle you discussed, it may be worth considering the wise words of the Swan of Avon, ''All the world’s a stage, And all the men and women merely players''. If one takes the trouble to put some effort into ones appearance, the rest of the 'Players' will have a natural tendency to maybe defer to one they assume to be higher up in the billing of life's play. That will have a synergistic effect on acquiring confidence. :)
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@lorenzoleongutierrez7927
@lorenzoleongutierrez7927 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree in the confidence point!. Certainly you will be the only one in the room with a tie. And will be some commentaries at the beginning ( man confused and ladies with compliments generally) but after a time all people doesn’t notice your tie or attire it’s normal for them… and you enjoy all the benefits of being a new chap seeking chap nirvana. So… let’s do the first steps ! 😊😊
@thewanderer2410
@thewanderer2410 Жыл бұрын
Good morning Ash a well ironed shirt is like a pair of well polished shoes it shows people that you care about your appearance. As you said you are judged on your appearance, it doesn't take long to iron a shirt or a pair of trousers and to polish your shoes. A friend of mine would just iron the front of a shirt if he was wearing a suit jacket until he had to take it off one time when he got to hot when he was giving a presentation in front of top executives . He's was given a right rollicking by his manager at the time, this was before everything went casual in the workplace.
@jonathanhardin8075
@jonathanhardin8075 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I came across this video. Thank you.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@ClassicBryanStyle
@ClassicBryanStyle Жыл бұрын
What a great video!!! Greetings from New York!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Hello there!
@ABC-rh7zc
@ABC-rh7zc Жыл бұрын
All good points, Ash!
@flabbybum9562
@flabbybum9562 Жыл бұрын
Great advice, and very true on the issue of brands. People pay a lot of money over and above what an item is worth, for the brand name. They do so, because they hope it says something about them. The good news is that it does. The bad news, is it's not what they hoped for. Go for quality.
@ShaneLindie
@ShaneLindie Жыл бұрын
Very good advice.
@hunterluxton5976
@hunterluxton5976 11 ай бұрын
You are en pointe when you state everyone is on their own " sartorial journey". We all invent or re- invent ourself through our lives. We end up becoming our true selves, as apposed to pretending to be ourselves.
@SteveMrW
@SteveMrW Жыл бұрын
Excellent tips and not just for the young.
@nairazone9838
@nairazone9838 Жыл бұрын
Well done ash ❤
@stephanesurprenant60
@stephanesurprenant60 11 ай бұрын
Some quality items are definitely going to be worth their price. For instance, goodyear welted and blake stiched leather footwear is a good example as the uppers can last decades and either of these constructions allow the soles to be replaced. Some higher end leather bags are also worth the price as good leather ages well, can be repaired and is very durable. The same goes for overcoats are things you can basically buy once and own for decades. Now, for suits, I have seen some bespoke suits survive almost a century. High end suits are NEVER dry cleaned -- they get a sponge and press from a tailor and you can learn to do that yourself even for your cheaper stuff. Now, it doesn't have to be a bespoke suit to last you a decade or more, but it might have to be structured by a canvas and not a fused interlining as the glue would eventually give out. Also, most men will have issues with their pants before they have issues with their jackets -- friction between tighs, at the knee, from a belt, etc. are where dammage is most common -- so it's not uncommon for people to buy 1 jacket and 2 pairs of the same pants. So, here, it depends, but if you take good care of it and NEVER send it for a dry clean unless of an emergency, a quality suit in a natural fabric and with a full canvas (or just no lining for the summer) can survive a very long time. I know a guy who wears suits made in the 40s every day. They still look like they're in top shape, but they were made with high quality worsted wools (or some cotton/linen options for summer suits). Now, what if you can't splurge on that stuff? Well, one strategy is to purchase one or two higher quality items and compromise on the rest until you can replace them with higher quality items. That way, you can still get dressed and start out somewhere, but it won't cost a fortune all at once and you'll end up with a gentleman's wardrobe all in good quality items a few years later.
@paulwilliams4156
@paulwilliams4156 7 ай бұрын
Well said Ash.
@barrysmith8193
@barrysmith8193 8 ай бұрын
Being an intentionally well dressed man is easily done when practiced daily along with a hearty helping of self worth. The highest opinion of yourself. Your daily attention to your personal appearance, your health, your stance, understanding your financial position, your ability to speak well, showing appreciation of others and more will generate a level of unmatched confidence in yourself and those around you. Understanding that it’s not about net worth… it’s about self worth.
@Stampistuta
@Stampistuta 5 ай бұрын
What a fantastic point regarding sticking with the tie and not being afraid to dress smarter than others in the room. I have certainly been the guy to whip the tie off in the bathroom before unfortunately.
@seraphol
@seraphol 4 ай бұрын
I'm about 2 videos into your channel and I'm hooked. Excellent advice so far and given very eloquently. I do want to share something from growing up. My paternal grandfather was as stingy as he could be. He would buy the cheapest clothes and never really took care of how he looked. He took the view that clothes will wear out so why spend extra money on them. In his defense, he was an outdoorsman, but he was also an owner of a fairly popular burger joint. My grandmother viewed clothing as something that should be well made and if it was pricey, so be it. She never equated price means quality but quality can be expensive. As she put it, if a pair of shoes cost $100 and last a year and another cost $30 and last 3 months, how much money did you spend? I say shoes because she was a stickler about shoes. She said, as a man, I should have at the minimum 3 pairs. One for work, one for play, and one for dress. Regardless of what they were used for they should be cleaned appropriately and taken care of.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 4 ай бұрын
It sounds like you had some sound role models on your sartorial journey so far.
@bjoernaltmann
@bjoernaltmann Жыл бұрын
Another example of a faux pas that we must add: leaving the tags on the suit, coat, or jacket. By that I mean the lightly sewn on branded tags on the exterior of the sleeve. These are just there for advertising purposes in the shop and must be removed before the suit or jacket are worn. The same applies to the thin thread holding the vents in the jacket together - usually stitched like a cross. Sometimes the pockets also require the removal of a thread. -I have witnessed the above on many occasions in London and it pains me to see this. It be even worse than an ill-fitting jacket. Well, at least on par
@Dan.Maxim1
@Dan.Maxim1 Жыл бұрын
I saw that at the races and immediately thought that they do this because they plan to return the suits after the event which isn’t a good look
@bjoernaltmann
@bjoernaltmann Жыл бұрын
@@Dan.Maxim1 I’ve seen too many do this in all sorts of scenarios, so I don’t think that was the reason
@robertappleby9099
@robertappleby9099 Жыл бұрын
Here in the USA , men in general dress sloppy, under the guise of being "casual " I was being fitted for trousers immediately tried to give me the bunched look on my shoes I said no way! I wanted a clean straight line no bend or bunching. David Niven, nor Grant or Sinatra or Dean Martin had a kink in their slacks.
@28pbtkh23
@28pbtkh23 6 ай бұрын
Hell - you have heard of David Niven!! You’re a champ. I have downloaded quite a few images of him from the web as he was always well dressed, particularly during the golden age of Hollywood. These pictures give us brilliant ideas on how to dress well. Grant, Sinatra and Dean Martin are also superb style icons. As are Fred Astaire and Gregory Peck. Many of these men had their wardrobes made in Saville Row.
@victorhobson373
@victorhobson373 Жыл бұрын
Hi Ash,as always, magnificent advice as always for us well dressed men on trip nervana.
@Crazy_Joe_Davola
@Crazy_Joe_Davola 7 ай бұрын
I once needed to shop for an attorney concerning a matter of importance. The first attorney I visited, I noticed, had grimy fingernails. I immediately dismissed him in my mind and went elsewhere. One of my better decisions, and it was based on that one singular detail.
@arslongavitabrevis5136
@arslongavitabrevis5136 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic video Ash! As I am an "oldie" (I am 63 years old) I have been there and done it. Having said that, luckily my instinct, or common sense, prevented me to do most of those mistakes you pointed out. I would like to highlight two things you said: A) EVERYTHING with a famous logo is overpriced junk! I never fell for that. In fact, I had an experience that confirmed my point of view. I was living in Australia and in 2001 I got a job as a salesman in a Ralph Lauren shop in Sydney. Of course, all the garments were ridiculously overpriced and I noticed that some of the shirts, retailing then at 120 Australian dollars, were made in Sri Lanka or India. What a rip off! B) I am proud to say I never felt insecure or uncomfortable for being smartly dressed among people who were not. As you said once, the main thing is to not go OTT. As a friend of mine once said. "A truly elegant man does not seek to impress anybody, neither to please anyone". Best wishes from a terribly hot Buenos Aires (37 degrees Celsius!)
@kevinbutler1968
@kevinbutler1968 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video, I agree with everything and think you could easily do a part 2 at some point. Stuff light skin tight trousers, too many colours and jogging pants need to be shamed.
@marlinspike1235
@marlinspike1235 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for an exellent video. By the way what is that jacket you are wearing? It looks good!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Just a chore jacket from Costco. £16.
@quietatse
@quietatse Жыл бұрын
As they say 'fit is king'
@ana419
@ana419 26 күн бұрын
God bless you for this direly needed content in this dismal world! ❤🙏 Thank you for this guidance!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 26 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@ana419
@ana419 26 күн бұрын
@@TheChapsGuide Beyond helpful, it is a much needed movement on so many levels.
@woodyjames3680
@woodyjames3680 6 ай бұрын
this guy is great!
@stevegarrod4764
@stevegarrod4764 5 ай бұрын
Hi Ash. I am new to this channel and have found it fascinating. Do you have any advice on the which sort of colours suit certain complexions? Keep up the great work.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 5 ай бұрын
Find a well known celebrity who resembles your own tones. Then check out their styles on such sites as Pinterest and IG. See what would work for you - in other words, use them as the test pilot for your own style.
@stevegarrod4764
@stevegarrod4764 5 ай бұрын
Will do, thank you and a happy New Year!
@stephanesurprenant60
@stephanesurprenant60 2 ай бұрын
I showed up to an academic workshop last Monday wearing khaki chinos, a white shirt, a mid gray sport coat (it's a wool and silk blend with interesting variation in the color and with some nice texture in the weave), a navy striped tie (it's a wool and linen blend, so it's not particularly shiny and it has some texture to it) and brown leather shoes and belt. I was the only man weating a jacket, a tie or dress shoes in the room. It was nothing excessively formal, but I definitely stood out. I got a few compliments and some people approached me for a chat because of it.
@scrambaba
@scrambaba 9 ай бұрын
I find that ensuring proper fit is almost always a 2 step process: Buying the right size; and then getting it altered for the right fit.
@ryancascardo66
@ryancascardo66 Жыл бұрын
As far as confidence and dressing well go, it can be a bit of a Catch 22 situation. My advice to younger gents, or those inexperienced in dressing sharp, would be practice makes perfect. Practice wearing your suit or sports coat at home and looking in the mirror, practice walking in those dress shoes or boots, and practice tying and wearing a tie and wearing other sharp accessories. This channel and others dealing with classic men’s style are great at-home resources. Use them to your advantage as guides, but also do a bit of your own research to figure out and develop your own personal style. Best of luck!
@Alandale45
@Alandale45 Жыл бұрын
Very good advice. Thank you.
@kletts42
@kletts42 3 ай бұрын
These are all quite good and spot-on! Sometimes I use a steamer instead of an iron for in between ironing just to get out some wrinkles. I also hear "fit is king" and "be the best dressed in the room" a lot. I enjoy a good neck tie and I like a bow tie. My wife likes the bow tie. (Nothing obnoxious).
@andrewlosseff2361
@andrewlosseff2361 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ash.Hello from east
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Hello there!
@danielmanor605
@danielmanor605 Жыл бұрын
Hi Ash, thank you for a wonderful video! I have a question about the last mistake you referred to. In a previous video, you mentioned that one should dress according to the situation that they’re at. So that in mind, wouldn’t you say that the imaginary gentleman who chooses to remove his tie upon seeing that non of his peers are equally formal at a team meeting, is simply adapting to the overall level of social formality?
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
That is one interpretation, but I would suggest that a chap, who amends his dress standards to fit in with others in such a situation has bowed to peer pressure and has allowed a lack of personal confidence to steer him away from his desired appearance.
@johnc.4871
@johnc.4871 8 ай бұрын
Seems like very few guys know how to iron. Glad that I do know how and I love the way my shirts fit.
@johnbunton9177
@johnbunton9177 6 ай бұрын
"We seek to set the example, rather than to follow the herd." -Excellent observation, Ash. To my mind, nothing says "I'm trying too hard" or "I'm looking to impress people re: the size of my wallet" like branded clothing with huge, prominent logos. -In many cases, the quality of the garment is dubious, the price is incredibly inflated, and the production has occurred in Third World sweatshops. Go for a silk, wool, or cotton pocket square in a colour/pattern that compliments, but never matches, your tie. -I don't leave the house wearing a suit, blazer, or sport coat without a pocket square. (I'm just about addicted to paisley at this point.)
@stebo-pv2hq
@stebo-pv2hq 4 ай бұрын
proper break in the pants is important as well.Pants that are all bunched up,unseemly gathered,and dragging the ground in the back is abhorent
@oxxoearth
@oxxoearth 2 ай бұрын
Thanks Ash. May I ask which jacket you are wearing? It’s looking great. Thanks
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide 2 ай бұрын
It’s a cheap utility jacket from Costco.
@05Rudey
@05Rudey Жыл бұрын
ill fitting Blazers is a massive pet peeve, not only on others but on myself, I got lucky on my first Navy Sports jacket purchase where it fits perfectly and to this day is my template for newer blazers. Every sports jacket and suit blazer has had to be altered. I can't stand big shoulders, even if I buy a few inches smaller than what I am, 46 - 44, the shoulders are still way too long, making this one alteration, reducing shoulder length by 3 inches turns shabby into sharp imho
@michaelmclaughlin7328
@michaelmclaughlin7328 Жыл бұрын
I think this has been my favourite video that you have made. You came across as very passionate, earnest and by the end it, it looked as if it had been quite cathartic for you to get all that off your chest.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
It was a rather passionate unloading of information!
@andrewrollinson7739
@andrewrollinson7739 Ай бұрын
I spent my teenage years in jeans and a flannel. Then I spent my adult life wondering what to wear, and just feel back on what I knew. Now, I get a lot of joy living an intentionally well-dressed life.
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Ай бұрын
Bravo sir.
@Rob-cv3vh
@Rob-cv3vh Жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more about fit. It isn't just the size, it's the shape that matters. If a bespoke item is too expensive it's worth having an off the peg one altered by a skilled alterations specialist. I once heard a superb saying - "Either you've never seen a tailor or your tailor has never seen a tape measure!" Also I've just joined your Patreon as Esteemed Patron. Well worth it!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Welcome to our exclusive club sir.
@MrBurtonshaw
@MrBurtonshaw Жыл бұрын
Good vid... You probably notice the current PM Fishi Sunak wears trousers that look like they were cut for his little brother... Odd considering he is a billionaire and could probably buy Jermyn Street, let alone afford a suit there. It has been speculated he's bought kids clothes to avoid VAT...
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
I have been continually dumbfounded by Mr Sunak's choice of clothing. As a man of unlimited financial means, I simply cannot fathom why he dresses so poorly. He is a small chap, only 5ft6in and lean (verging on skinny) so why he wears clothes that make him look smaller and draw emphasis to his meagre frame his baffling! He needs a friend to give him a nudge and sent him to Dege & Skinner for a makeover.
@MrBurtonshaw
@MrBurtonshaw Жыл бұрын
@@TheChapsGuide he he, to paraphrase an old Labour man, when talking about Thatcher "Maybe they know the price of everything, but the value of nothing". You can't buy class, it seems lol ...wish he'd splash out on the hems though
@Fanakapan222
@Fanakapan222 Жыл бұрын
There was an old saying that you dont have to have money to have class, and Sunak is living testimony that the inverse is true :)
@Molach101
@Molach101 Жыл бұрын
Glad you said this. Rishi Sunak's clothing drives me mad. I keep thinking there's something about his shirt collars... they're so small and stubby they seem to make his head look huge, then because of the cut of his suit and trousers his feet look enormous.
@Molach101
@Molach101 Жыл бұрын
​@@TheChapsGuide I have heard he does indeed have his clothing made bespoke at a London tailor so it seems like this is very much Mr. Sunak's personal taste, as horrible as it is!
@Bjartone
@Bjartone Жыл бұрын
Thanks for another good and useful video. I agree with everything said. Regarding shoes, what is your opinion on soles: leather, double leather, dainite, commando? And shirts, do you prefer to fold them or hang them? I always iron my shirts and then fold them very carefully, mainly due to lack of wardrobe space.
@williamkazak469
@williamkazak469 Жыл бұрын
I hang them on wooden hangers. Portable racks can be inexpensive and can be moved anywhere that there is room.
@Bjartone
@Bjartone Жыл бұрын
@@williamkazak469 Thanks for your input. I'm glad you use wooden hangers (rather than plastic or the metal ones from the dry cleaners) .
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
I usually opt for Dainite soles on most of my footwear due to the weather here in the UK, but I do have boots with commando soles for outdoor situations and I also have most of my smarter dress shoes shod in leather - it is a true case of horses for courses!
@countalma9800
@countalma9800 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. Ironically, many of Daniel Craig’s outfits actually fit very poorly as he’s a victim of silly fashion trends. That started with Skyfall in 2012. You may notice that his suit from Quantum of Solace (at 11:36) fits very different from the suits in his later James Bond films. It’s perfection! Speaking of “heritage brands” vs “fashion brands”, the old heritage brands with rich history (of which there are plenty in the UK) often lack the kinds of interesting stylish elements that the slightly more fashion-conscious brands have. After all, fashion designers exist for a reason. Yes, many fashion brands do not offer high quality products, and many fashion brands are obnoxiously overpriced, but people do not only pay for the name on the tag, they also often pay for the style. Old traditional brands, as much as I love and respect them, do tend to look boring and dusty at times. It is important to find a good balance without going to the extremes.
@28pbtkh23
@28pbtkh23 6 ай бұрын
I’m so glad that you noticed that as well - I thought that I was the only one. There was one of his films where the suits looked cheap and nasty, yet they were from Tom Ford!!! His suits cost a fortune, but on Daniel Craig they looked ghastly.
@philipbarton2634
@philipbarton2634 3 ай бұрын
The first step in my journey after hitting the like and subscribe was looking up the definition of "sartorial" 🤣
@auxiliary4023
@auxiliary4023 3 ай бұрын
Ash, back in the late 70's I was a carpenter apprentice. On one job I was on, the woman was a nightmare and her husband a very nice guy. He had a shed at the bottom of the garden where he spent 70% of his time. This takes me back..😂
@sebastianbillings7807
@sebastianbillings7807 2 ай бұрын
Ah. The proverbial “DaD shed”
@beargritter7618
@beargritter7618 3 ай бұрын
Before and after my time in the Army I have always polished my shoes/boots. Obviously after service my polishing was much better. I never, ever, ever go out with having ironed my shirt or trousers. It doesn't take much to look presentable just a little prior planning and preparation.
@rajg5377
@rajg5377 Жыл бұрын
Good morning Ash, would be good to know if you have any grooming tips on moisturisers for the face
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
Next Tuesday's video is on this very topic - stay tuned.
@rajg5377
@rajg5377 Жыл бұрын
Perfect thanks, btw am meeting Ryan from Greylan today following your channel recommendation, looking forward to seeing his sartorial offering!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
@@rajg5377 Raj, that's great news and I'm sure that he will do a great job for you - please give him my regards and wish him all the best. Let me know how you get on!!
@M15Guys
@M15Guys Жыл бұрын
Given the subject of this vlog, does the fur ball you are sporting, in your central chest area, add value to your overall appearance, or do you need a more discreet microphone ? 🥰
@muffemod
@muffemod Жыл бұрын
You can use a white cotton pillow case as an ironing cloth.
@jessebechtold2973
@jessebechtold2973 Жыл бұрын
Keep it simple….reminds me of Cary Grant’s advice of keeping to the middle!
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
So true!
@YouCanChangeYourWorldToday
@YouCanChangeYourWorldToday Жыл бұрын
Show more pictures of your dress style back in your 20’s ! And show how you evolved and matured over the years and how your taste has changed
@azmike3572
@azmike3572 Жыл бұрын
For the first second looking at your thumbnail, I thought it was a picture of Mike Love, of The Beach Boys.
@thematchbox55
@thematchbox55 Жыл бұрын
Went into Durham yesterday for a drink and group of guys were wearing the same brand clothing (the tag was a cross hairs) same jacket but different colours and they just looked like clones.
@simonlowey5524
@simonlowey5524 Жыл бұрын
Well Ash, I did something I never thought I would. Took the plunge an bought a pair of boots of EBay. Arrived on Saturday...a tad tired. Shoe trees, Saphir and a couple of hours later, like brand new :)
@TheChapsGuide
@TheChapsGuide Жыл бұрын
The route to affordable and elite footwear lies open to you sir.
@henrywest7217
@henrywest7217 Жыл бұрын
Sound advice
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