Toxic relationship habits: Why we almost got divorced.

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Nubia Brown

Nubia Brown

Күн бұрын

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@Explorshon123
@Explorshon123 3 жыл бұрын
I think every long term marriage undergoes serious tests over and over and it's only God's grace that keeps a marriage together. Respect your honesty, God bless you both.
@NubiaBrown
@NubiaBrown 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽
@lll3388
@lll3388 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for almost 4 years and I love him but we’ve had a lot of toxic traits that have gotten better but I know there’s still work. This video shows that perfect marriages don’t exist.... I always see these kind of perfect relationships online that made me question that maybe mines wasn’t right because we had real issues. But I realized that every relationship takes work and it’s hard! This video helps me out so much 🥺 this is so relatable! Especially on the part of control and correcting him coming from what’s right and wrong. “Playing God” telling him to stop doing this wrong thing. But like you said only God can do this
@prettysweetlimegreen8481
@prettysweetlimegreen8481 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video. So pure and real! At age 24, I've never been in a relationship or dated. I sometimes feel left out looking at my friends start their families or just date. Still, deep down I have so many fears of being with someone and the work that it takes to be open and selfless. Something really stuck out to me after watching your video...The importance of selflessness. It seems so simple and can be undermined, but it's so important. I know for a fact I would not be a good partner until God truly helps me in certain areas. Thank you so much for sharing. Sending love from The Bahamas 🇧🇸🙏🏿❤
@jazmindlt1140
@jazmindlt1140 3 жыл бұрын
Here from TikTok! Going through something so similar. Marriage is hard work. This gives me hope that we can overcome our obstacles & be better versions of ourselves for each other. Thank you for sharing 🤍
@NubiaBrown
@NubiaBrown 3 жыл бұрын
Hey 👋🏽😀. Yes it’s so much hard work! I hope you’re able to get through whatever it is you’re going through.❤️🙏🏽
@emmamindfullytrader5454
@emmamindfullytrader5454 3 жыл бұрын
Let’s be friend’s
@aniqahmir
@aniqahmir 3 жыл бұрын
Love and appreciate the rawness of this video
@ObeyJesusOurLord
@ObeyJesusOurLord 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you both are so transparent, so honest. You are a rare couple. So many Christians put on a fake front. This world needs more people like you two!
@jeanc9868
@jeanc9868 3 жыл бұрын
Spiritual transformation is the most beautiful thing we can go through 💖
@joiecloak9658
@joiecloak9658 3 жыл бұрын
I love how he respects her ,and listen to her opinion without cutting her off with his opinion.
@celestr123
@celestr123 3 жыл бұрын
Here Bc of tiktok 😇
@NubiaBrown
@NubiaBrown 3 жыл бұрын
I see you! 👋😊👀❤️
@kateb.1052
@kateb.1052 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing not only the beauty, but also the hardships of your God-centered marriage. You are inspiring others through your uplifting messages ❤
@Mm-em5cv
@Mm-em5cv 3 жыл бұрын
That's amazing I'm so glad that you guys are so real and doesn't try to sugarcoat anything. I'm also grateful to God for us all because He never lets us go, He still wins us back because we are His. I like how God restored both of You to Himself and saved your marriage. Cheers to Forever Together Nubia and Daniel!
@phelisangqokotya9543
@phelisangqokotya9543 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for transparency as it helped me understand how human we are and howmuch we need God... That achievement is not anplace of arrival but it shows Gods grace inspight of existing problems.... You spoke of bring things to God... Which means surrendering everything to God...
@MrsBreezyyB
@MrsBreezyyB 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. This is a much needed testimony 🙏 my marriage isn’t on the edge because I’m newly married but it has already convicted me on the things I need to work on and change now before it gets so bad. Nubia and I are very similar. Thank you.
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna
@BeyondCommittedwithAyanna 3 жыл бұрын
Growing in your faith and growing as a wife is definitely something that so many of us deal with.
@tonirowe1975
@tonirowe1975 9 ай бұрын
I love this video and I can relate so much in my marriage with me being newly married and me and my husband are so different and I have anger issues and I have been trying things in my own strength The transparency in the video is amazing God Bless You Guys ❤❤❤❤
@michaelsaenz380
@michaelsaenz380 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Very vulnerable video. Thank you for making this.
@morghansalvato
@morghansalvato 3 жыл бұрын
I pray God continues to bless your family. Thank you for sharing your story !
@carfuentes3549
@carfuentes3549 3 жыл бұрын
Wow you are so right if we are not good with God we can't have a good relationship with others..
@marilynnvough9849
@marilynnvough9849 2 жыл бұрын
You shared some hard things! Proud of y'all! Such a beautiful hearts for Jesus! So glad you endured that all and that you are still together; for God's glory!
@veronicaphiri7432
@veronicaphiri7432 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. What a powerful message. God bless you eternally for having the humility, courage and grace to share your very personal and intimate struggles. Forever thankful. Sending so much love from sunny South Africa XXOOxxxoooXXOO
@ritasjoy
@ritasjoy 3 жыл бұрын
Getting married next month and I think this was the most helpful video I have watched to prepare me...I can definitely relate to some of what you said Nubia. So appreciate you making this and God's work in both of you to grow your dependence on him and not your own strength.
@pinkbumblebee22
@pinkbumblebee22 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m interested in seeing the next video about how God restored your marriage. Seems like there are different components to how He is putting you back together. You mentioned several struggles which we can relate to but not a lot of people are willing to talk about. Anything you can share would be much appreciated.
@maileas3643
@maileas3643 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your life . Please keep prayer at all time God is your counselor 🙏🏾
@christinagomer2039
@christinagomer2039 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and Honest! What an amazing testimony for you both individually and as a couple. Praise God! May your story be an encouragement to others and bring glory to God.
@cesarcardona1984
@cesarcardona1984 3 жыл бұрын
We love you guys!
@NubiaBrown
@NubiaBrown 3 жыл бұрын
Love you ❤️😘
@MJ-wc6nm
@MJ-wc6nm 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this so much. Excited for part 2!xx
@reshmi2123
@reshmi2123 2 жыл бұрын
Galatians 5:13 where St.Paul explains how Lord Jesus said to love each other and serve each other! It's ok to serve and step back and keep our loved ones before us! After God we need to give priority to our loved ones that's what serving each other means and it's ok to sit down and try to think in their perspective and try to understand this applies for both the persons in a relationship everything should come from both sides! Self respect of this world has a different meaning it has a very thin line btw self-respect and ego I guess Lord shared that to be impatient is to be proud n humbleness comes from loving and serving each other! Just wanted to share this with everyone that God has put in my heart! God bless you both great that you guys give your best to figure out everything god bless you with happy, peaceful and love filled marriage and family❤️
@jessicaartea6880
@jessicaartea6880 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your testimony!
@NubiaBrown
@NubiaBrown 3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome❤️🙏🏽
@hellolucy2074
@hellolucy2074 3 жыл бұрын
All I can think about throughout the video is “wow these two are a good looking couple”. Love it!
@klekawelo
@klekawelo 3 жыл бұрын
I love this! I clicked on this and then from the scenery I noticed my home…Oahu. Keep it up sister!! 🤍🙏 Share the Lord with the world!!
@NubiaBrown
@NubiaBrown 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🌺🙏🏽😊
@XxLismixX
@XxLismixX 2 жыл бұрын
I hope your both okay? As there’s been no videos after this? This is the first video I’ve seen and thank you, it’s helping me in my time of need. I am going through an abusive marriage, and praying that he will change from a distance.
@maximmm3783
@maximmm3783 2 жыл бұрын
It's kind of scary that they just suddenly drop off the radar...
@gelilat5379
@gelilat5379 15 күн бұрын
Blessings!!!
@primaveraverano1664
@primaveraverano1664 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for sharing your story, it's very valuable information ❤👍 Greetings from Russia
@morganann_
@morganann_ 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being vulnerable with us, this wasn’t easy… so thank you❤️ you opened my eyes to some habits I need to humble myself to, and repent from regarding wanting to control my bf to “do good”… but it’s coming from pride. Thank you❤️❤️
@jenifer86b46
@jenifer86b46 3 жыл бұрын
Me encanta como tu esposo te mira tanto amor de Dios y de tu esposo🥰
@maximmm3783
@maximmm3783 2 жыл бұрын
Your content was very inspiring to me and helped me a lot, best wishes to you
@ericagamblin7590
@ericagamblin7590 3 жыл бұрын
Going through some same stuff. It is difficult... Hoping things were different :,(
@Angelesdami
@Angelesdami 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing 🙂
@daniellomov6523
@daniellomov6523 2 жыл бұрын
Hey what sport is Daniel a world champion in. Just curious
@nette9836
@nette9836 3 жыл бұрын
Is divorce for anything other than abuse, neglect, keeping a spouse from God, or cheating not permissible as per Christ's instruction?
@DanielMolinaLife
@DanielMolinaLife 3 жыл бұрын
❤️🔥💯🙌
@CherylHaurik
@CherylHaurik 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your time and care you put into making your videos. In Mark 16:15 he commands us too "Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature". I take this command very serious. In hopes that others who are not born-again will decide to make that choice. Jesus is the only way to heaven. Living he loved us, dying he saves us, and buried he carried our sins far away. Keep in mind no one is promised tomorrow, or even an hour from now. Proverbs 27:1 Boast not thyself of to morrow; for thou knowest not what a day may bring forth. John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Please call upon Jesus today.
@maximmm3783
@maximmm3783 2 жыл бұрын
I hope everything is ok with you guys, I see you had a pretty consistent uploading schedule and just suddenly vanished! You seemed to stop replying and favoriting comments about 5 months ago. Usually when that happens to a KZbinr or influencer it means something really bad happened to them. I wish you all the best, Nubia and Daniel! A little concerned but I will trust everything is alright between you two
@fabmakeup
@fabmakeup 3 жыл бұрын
i just have to stopped at 2:46 mins, when you said you have temper correct the things n control him. Did you find out about this differences before you all got married? come on you should not be getting married in the first place, i am in the same relationship figuring this guy out before tying the knot. if i can handle him in 20 yrs or 40 yrs from now his a controlling freak his not using his common sense n many more. Finally, always give n take look at your marriage you dont want your child to have a broken family. Have God always in the center of your marriage
@NubiaBrown
@NubiaBrown 3 жыл бұрын
Yes we did know our differences. I do think its so important to get to know the person and I hear what you’re saying. Even though we knew our differences, I think marriage brings new challenges because it comes with new responsibilities. You deal with new things like finances, communication, commitment, learning to live together, going from only thinking about yourself and doing life your way to now having to include someone else who may see things differently than you. I’ve been married for 8 years and even though God has restored a lot of toxic habits we both had we’re still not perfect and we are still a work in progress. It’s always important to get to know someone before committing to marriage and although my hope is that couples don’t reach the lows that we did. Marriage still has its challenges. Thanks for watching and thanks for your perspective. Best wishes❤️
@The_faithful_princess
@The_faithful_princess 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story!
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