TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS | THATS YOUR STORY

[@GotDamnZo]

I think the reason i don't be so quick to make other videos, yall don't show them love like messy monday, so hopefully this video does well..... I like doing other material

[@yuhhniaa]

We love you zo and will ALWAYS show love ❤️🥰

[@fadzwa5307]

faaaacctsssss people fuck it up for the OGs who miss THAATS YOUR STORYYY

[@mykidsme]

I love all of your content Freen!! 😘😘

[@split5491]

I love the That’s Your Story videos ❤️ because it teaches me a lot of stuff and also I can relate to it so keep doing what you do

[@shortstop4800]

I'm here for whatever you put out .......I enjoy watching you and hearing you laugh.

[@j1918]

Chile that 2nd girl was all over the place. In the words of B. Simone: "She's making this up as she goes"😂😂😂😂

[@Chuckysdiary]

Facts that was me I was so confused 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Niya-gv4cf]

im fucking weakkk

[@semajjphilly88]

😂🤣😂🤣I actually hear her saying it

[@Chuckysdiary]

Semajj Philly ight now

[@lifegoeson1007]

😭

[@khanaemiller4736]

“Heal before having children, so your children don’t have to heal from having you as a parent”

[@KeKeBoissiere]

THIS!

[@roxanacoffie6154]

I always tell my sisters ,before you get pregnant seek counseling for you're own heeling

[@itsjstkiz]

Oooou what bible verse is tht 👀👀

[@lex_htx]

👏👏👏👏

[@LateefahABrown]

I wish I had done this, but I’m glad my kids and I are getting better, now.

[@sanny1876]

A toxic momma can get cut off too tf. Her stress is no reason to treat her kids poorly, my grandmother did that to my mom and my mother made excuses for her behavior because she fed and clothed her and some parents aren’t approachable you can’t even sit and talk to them.

[@kay.rariii]

Exactly. I’m glad she appreciates her mother but her job is to take care of the children that she birthed and she shouldn’t be taking things out on any of them 💯

[@keshaperson]

@Novelist Davis Da Wine Luva i literally just did that on Friday(the 11th). I'm 40 n I need my peace

[@sanny1876]

Daisy Trujillo No rant away, and if that’s your truth I am so sorry, I hope that you are in a better place now ❤️❤️

[@sanny1876]

And I know that Zo’s advice is coming from a place of good but we need to be careful what we normalize, parents are not always right and children should not have to accept their wrong doings, they should be called out on those behaviors. Telling a child to accept the abuse of a parents can lead them to accept abuse in relationships when they get older because they have been conditioned to shut their mouths and take it

[@Room4Tea]

Sanny Miller right

[@breanna455]

the second girl IS NOT a good story teller 😂🤦🏽‍♂️, bout to have a stroke trying to understand her story.

[@deannawillis4004]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@imPrettygirlkp]

Rightttttt Exactly #SMH🤦🏽‍♀️😂

[@MetaMortis21]

😂 I'm bad at telling a story too...which is why I wouldn't do this lol. But I can speak elegantly about microbiology or chemistry 🤦🏽‍♀️ unbelievable...oh wait just saw her...I'm not that bad Holy fuck 😂

[@brokenbutterfly309]

The first story. A toxic parent has nothing to do with the child. I have a toxic parent and growing up was so hard that it made me really start questioning who I was and I was made to feel like I was worthless. I even thought about suicide, Sis it's not you momma has some deep rooted pain that she needs to heal from. You can love your mom but sometimes you have love a parent from a far.

[@aaronvod]

No seriously. My mom has 7 kids and she didn’t have the best education so when it came to school she let all my sibling drop out . I was the first to actually graduate high-school etc . I’m #6 by the way , and I swear it was like she was hoping I’d drop out . She only came to honor roll stuff never any extra curricular. When it came to my younger sister she was heavily involved though cause she let it be known that’s her favorite .

[@Daughterofthekingg]

That second story confused me she saying that girl this girl the other girl ion know

[@GotDamnZo]

lol

[@Marnimarni18]

She can't explain herself good

[@dipmeingloss]

Child- she gave my headache a headache after listening to her rambling.😂🤦🏾‍♀️🥴im still confused lol

[@bribri6818]

@@dipmeingloss lmfaoo😂

[@isolatedmichele]

Sorry she reminded me of @Chythagreatest or whatever her name is For me I stopped trying to listen 🎶 😪 😕

[@ThugDrina]

We have to stop being so forgiving of the mistreatment we were given from our parents. They provided for us because they CHOSE to have us.

[@kshaun13579]

Exactly. We didn’t ask to be here. Plus it doesn’t matter if they provide for us, that doesn’t justify mistreatment at all. That’s almost like a woman saying “he beats me but he pays all the bills”

[@dipmeingloss]

❗❗

[@ブラクマト]

Thug Drina u forgive them for you not for them

[@Coffee23.]

Honestly

[@azoriashivers]

Steele Pitbull exactly

[@Sara-vl3ql]

a parent can disrespect df out they child and you want me to ask myself why she doing it? why do people always make excuses for the parents THATS TOXIC AND LAME. let’s start holding bad parents accountable also.

[@keashiclem]

I just said the same thing!

[@overlyover5253]

Yes! And my sister tried to sit here and justify my parents abuse cause she’s the least affected.

[@LuvKitKatt]

THANK YOU

[@breannajohnson22]

Overlyover same here👏🏽 I can’t wait to finish college and get tf out from this toxic parents

[@Cheftrinitty]

I was thinking the same thing cuz sometimes you can EVERYTHING RIGHT & it still won’t be good enough for them .

[@queensathnee729]

I’m sorry but I can’t agree with the first story’s advice. I’m dealing with toxic parents and they are not approachable. Whatever they say goes and anything I say is seem as disrespectful. I’m 18 years old and this covid mess has made things even worse. Girl literally focus on yourself, save your money, and when it’s time GET TF OUTTTT. Stress shouldn’t be an excuse to treat your kids however. Toxicity is not good for anybody especially growing children

[@meliycon-roma4112]

Point blank period

[@melanin_666]

I'm 20 and i still have this problem

[@ohthatsbre780]

I agree.

[@imajroyster2469]

My moms been toxic all my teenage years and now that I’m an adult she still toxic... and on top of that throws my feelings in my face and can never apologize when she’s wrong.

[@Christina-C.D]

Everyone's situation is different. What might have worked for you might not for her. It's always best to try before giving up. My mom was toxic and hit me for ever damn thing, she was 17 when she had me. Even told me I ruined her life...trust I contemplated suicide out of stress...but after becoming an adult, we sat down and had a deep conversation, cried and now we are in a better place. Now she's mom...before she was her "first name". Everyone deserves a chance to be understood; if she still acting toxic after the talk, then leave...let her reach out.

[@410kisha]

2nd story: “...let me introduce myself first...” NO! You should’ve gotten that story together 1st. 😂

[@uniquelyfashioned]

I'm so confused

[@bristraphouse.8432]

LMFOSOAO IM CONFUSED TOO

[@jayna_thequeen]

The second girl should’ve got her story straight before hopping on camera talking about a whole bunch of nothing

[@peteadenuga]

💀😂😂

[@mariahhudson2730]

Friend number two had me so confused. She talking about this girl and another girl and another girl and somebody daddy

[@gamegirl85]

Mariah Hudson lool

[@atourist9135]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@lynrosario6756]

Write that shirt down girl. I had to go get a snack.

[@Tstrongs90]

Messy Mondays Tricking Tuesdays Wildin Wednesdays Thristy Thursdays Freaky Fridays

[@blaquelottus5141]

Wildin Wednesday

[@Tstrongs90]

@@blaquelottus5141 yep❤

[@zariaa2973]

CocoMami oooo I like it👀❤️

[@Rare3reed]

Not Zoie about to work a 9-5 again lmaoo

[@deesmoove3198]

BHEE lol

[@lwazikunene7331]

my mother is also very toxic. my mother has abused me, starved me, she even stopped paying for my school fees. I finnaly left my mother and I live with my dad and he does everything for me. I love him so much, shout out to my dad for being a mom and a dad. literally my super fucking hero. love you pops❤

[@ZoesofRose]

Can I have some advice on toxic parents? My mom is a extreme religious psychopath and she says I'm going to hell because I don't agree with her religion. She doesn't believe that girls should wear pants, jewelry, weave, and many other bs.

[@lexxxus.crxwnzlexxxus.crxw5990]

Rose Louis honestly, do what makes you happy, she’s going to talk, talk,talk but she will eventually stop and if she doesn’t, at least your happy🤷🏾‍♀️💗

[@blessedbygodnotman6406]

Stay strong love and continue to work hard in school. Get an education and be something show her that you can amount to anything you want to in life!

[@Dream-xe8ej]

I'm so sorry that you had to go through that bullshit. I'm 40 and I have a 20 year old daughter. She's my heart walking outside my body. She moved a few months ago and im so sad. She's my best friend I miss her so much. Look there's a woman out here that lost their child and wish they had a relationship with someone that reminds them of their kid. If you have a older woman in your life. See if yall can have some kind of friendship. It works💕

[@rahjeealoure]

Monday: Messy Monday’s Thursday: That’s Your Story Saturday: Vlogs/Mini Vlogs Like if you agree

[@laquishamitchell1986]

Yessss

[@Niqueemariee01]

Rahje’e Aloure and Sunday mukbang ☺️👌🏾

[@needtoknowdaily]

I miss his vlogs

[@honestlydisrespectful7612]

"The only reason I don't wanna dog her out is because she did take care of the kids she have" babe? What?? That's what she is supposed to do. We gotta stop staying because of her raising you...I hate when they use "parents go through alot" as an excuse to be toxic. You can't always sit down and talk to parents because they would think you are being disrespectful.

[@jd57092]

I agree with u 100%.

[@kortney3767]

yesss!

[@AmiraB01]

As soon as you decide to not take the disrespect they call you ungrateful...

[@honestlydisrespectful7612]

@@AmiraB01 Seriously and it's annoying asf

[@yahariegreene9419]

ATA B. I still deal with this

[@ayomide1658]

The second girl is pretty but I don't even understand what she is saying 💀🤚🏾

[@latoyaabrams4845]

I think she is trying to tell the story but not tell her business... Which I feel like you should keep it to yourself, if that's the case... Cause I won't give any advice to what I don't understand fully...

[@warnerwhite]

She just trying to show her nails💅

[@kennediwilliams3427]

Fr like girl where’s the story line😂😂 what’s really happening what’s the plot💀

[@Za1naa]

"What's the wifi password?" "It's on the back of the router." The back of the router:

[@WhoShe.]

she told her bestie her businesss right so the bestie told some other girl her business she dont like that shes mad but something about somebody dating the mommy or the daddy idk i got lost there but the bestie ran her mouth somehow somewhere the girl got her ipad taken away

[@papime18]

I'm sorry but the 2nd lil girl need to make sure she stay in school & learn to articulate better..ion know wht she was tllmbout...made MY head hurt & mad

[@latoyaabrams4845]

I think she is trying to tell the story but not tell her business... Which I feel like you should keep it to yourself, if that's the case... Cause I won't give any advice to what I don't understand fully...

[@daijahfanning376]

Like get to the point when zoie left out I lost it 😂😂😂😂

[@zepporah9692]

😂😂😂😂

[@brecollier4919]

Zo is such a Gemini talking to his self “relax”

[@Daphneamy360]

Shoot im a Gemini so ya

[@margoporter7222]

Lmao!!! I'm s Gemini and I talk to my twin too😂😂😂😂

[@Blackmixdwitblack]

The Gemini’s are in the chat 😂

[@alexis_renee]

Call me Poetic Right!!♊️

[@aharichannel1756]

Gemini ♊️Gang check in

[@Demetriados]

Chile the second story.... I was just laughing the whole time. And when he left out the room I was done ✅ 😩

[@Iamneia_]

Gurlllll I was on the floor. It was the walk fa me 😂😂😂😂 like your 60 seconds are up sis

[@Demetriados]

@@Iamneia_ Period 🤣🤣🤣

[@victoriajones6966]

When she said "she got her tablet tooken away" i died and zoe was like a tablet 💀💀💀💀

[@messiahlove6909]

😂😂😂

[@morganstinson2419]

Right😂😂😂 she was all over the place lol

[@dimexy]

Same 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@imPrettygirlkp]

Rightttttt Exactly “REALLY TABLET”

[@chanique444]

I’m going to have to disagree with the advice for the first story. Toxic parents can be very traumatizing, if you can, love her from a distance for your own mental health... if not and you have to stay with her avoid her and save up your money to move out. Good luck 👍🏽

[@overlyover5253]

AGREED! Do not try to sit there and tolerate the abuse, it’s so traumatizing.

[@peteadenuga]

so apt ! family should be by what they show u not by blood.

[@timberly6231]

Exactly!

[@abigaildenike7575]

Agree 100% girl!

[@agentj3942]

She should still talk to her mother about it. You don’t want to leave stones unturned. Then save your money and move out.

[@cassandrawright2781]

Im a parent. Walk away sis. Love mama from afar. Dont blame the victim. If mama is out of pocket she out of pocket. Walk away sis. Walk away.

[@dipmeingloss]

💯

[@jameelaali5115]

Period

[@dipmeingloss]

@Althea Bourne i felt the same way parents don't get a pass for being toxic simply because they provide for us or gave us life, you can always correct your behavior & stop the cycle.

[@elianamercedess]

exactlyyyyyyy there’s nothing to justify a toxic parent

[@shehatemel]

Really all she can do

[@atourist9135]

The 2nd one had me until she said tablet. After that she was speaking alien tongue

[@charde3845]

right

[@carrollsexplore]

Lmao Alien Tongue 😂😂😂😭😭😭

[@huntergreene9781]

Not alien tongue!

[@itzzkayy2985]

To The Girl Who Said The Boyfriend Disrespected Her Lemme Say This Baby A Disrespectful Man Gone Always Be Disrespectful If He Loved You Like He Said He Did And Respected You He Wouldn't Have Called You Out Of Your Name And Trust Me You Ain't Tha First Girl He Has Disrespected

[@bernicejackson42]

Two months of toxic relationship and you wanna go back! He showed you who he is, believe him.

[@Ms_blk_Arktect]

Sad how common this is tho. Father wasn’t there, mom is closed minded, toxic, so it feels like you don’t have either. I’m 25 and still struggle to talk to her.

[@sweethearttiff2392]

BLK. Rose I’m in the same boat. So I feel this.

[@jaybae7315]

May God keep you amen. I get it.

[@chocolate_cosmos]

I'm 27 and I gave up trying since I was a child. It's not a relationship I wish to start up. She makes my spirit uneasy.

[@UriyahMommy]

Same here I’m 25 with similar story

[@Ms_blk_Arktect]

At the end of the day, mother n child has to make an effort, not just child.

[@treasurecristion]

the second girl got me weakkk😭😭😭that didn’t make any sense hunny!

[@letricesmith4469]

The Second girl: GET TO THE POINT...BABY GIRLLLLLLLL YOUR RAMBLING....WHEW CHILD🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ GET IT TOGETHER

[@meliycon-roma4112]

🤣

[@imPrettygirlkp]

Rightttttt Exactly She was Sturding her OWN Story “LIKE GIRLLLLLLLLL GET TO THE DAMN STORY 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂😂😂

[@Cybo-18]

As long as Zo’s fine mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically, I don’t care if he’s slacking on videos.

[@teyanahaynes4195]

After listening to the 2nd story I had to “1 + 1 = 2” in my head just to make sure my brain was still functioning😰

[@ginah.9229]

🤣🤣🤣

[@niyabugg2011]

Teyanå Haynes I was trying to connect the dots on her story, that girl must be lying, I swear her story sound made up and thrown together

[@410kisha]

🤣😂🤣😂

[@neysaedwards-turnbull4494]

Haaaa

[@shayhayden837]

Kathy Fishburne-Garvin no she said she was Nervous and I think she was trying to tell the story without telling her personal business y’all be careful what y’all say in these comments y’all got that lil girl cryin and shittt

[@JamaarandZack]

“Who clicked on the video and came straight to comments?😂” (OMG GOTDAMN ZO thanks for commenting on my new video)❤

[@sherryannanthony9378]

Claimed

[@anitaspears176]

Damn sis I be trying be first it say 1 min ago posted I look and dammmn .lol

[@antblow2710]

Meeeeeeeeeeeee

[@mixedenergiesmovementllc9653]

I’d like a ticket please

[@1NOnlyyTJ]

i claimed

[@rawuncut6890]

I can relate to that first girl so much and my advice to you is SEPARATE YOURSELF!! A lot of the times you aren’t the problem. She’s suffering from her own trauma and while it’s no excuse, we must remember that it isn’t them. It’s a spirit. Once you’re old enough to move out, do it. You don’t have to put up with a person just bc they hold a certain title. TRUST ME!! I’m 27 now and my mother and I FINALLY get along bc I STOOD MY GROUND. You can be tough without being disrespectful as well. Much love to you young Sister❤️

[@LuvKitKatt]

YESSSS ITS A DEMON I ALWAYS SAY THIS!!!!!!! ITS A DEMON HALLELUJAH SOMEONE ELSE REALIZES THE PROBLEM

[@rawuncut6890]

@@LuvKitKatt everybody doesn’t view things in the spiritual. We can only keep spreading what we know

[@Utriedit215]

Girl bye she a grown ass woman if you don't like what your mom say to you get your dusty ass out her fucking house and watch how great your relationship will improve she doesn't have to distance herself from her mother she just has to get her own shit I'm tired of all y'all bum ass kids trying to blame it on your parents get the fuck out their house

[@pinkgermz]

070719 you must be a toxic parent LMFAOO. was them kids in the room when they was bumpin n grindin asking yall unfit ass parents to conceive them ? no. lmao yall all got that abusive mentality thinking yall can do or say whatever you want to your child like they aint human because you’re the “parent”.like get it together and learn to heal from your childhood trauma before popping them cooters 💕

[@rawuncut6890]

@@pinkgermz exactly lol. Up here popping shit like she talking to her child. Ho better check my dental records. Grown as fuck. And she miserable as fuck bc she toxic and her momma probably was too.

[@pinky10444]

“When you don’t tolerate something you let it go” !!!!!! A GOTDAMN WORD ZO!

[@imPrettygirlkp]

Rightttttt Exactly “JUST LET IT GO” #FACTS💯💯💯💯💯

[@jaz_evette8739]

That second story had me ctfu..sis story went up, down, round, and round & Zo reaction didn’t make it no better 😂😂😂

[@alanciajoseph6682]

That second girl is mixed up🙄...SHE'S AH WHOLE LOTTER WHOLE LOTTERRRR😧

[@Theekaylanae]

She lost me at tablet 🤣🤣🤣

[@kaylee4567]

that shit sound like middle school shit

[@yvemishajoseph9769]

Frr 😂😂

[@tayboogie1115]

@@Theekaylanae I didn't even make it that far ...I was sooo lost ...her hands were distracting me ..lmao

[@ki.styles2972]

Lmaooo she was pissing me off!

[@yvenisem]

I don’t agree with the notion of “ask yourself what you’re doing to make your mom like this”. That just blames the victim, which is horrible. Her mother is a grown woman that made her own choices to be a single parent and she’s taking her issues out on her child. I’ve had to live with my toxic parent for so long and I tried so hard. But in the end, I just moved out. She has her own issues to figure out and I won’t be her punching bag whenever she’s not in a good mood. The first girls experiences are completely valid and are in no way a reflection of what she did to make her mom that way. Of course a parent most of the time) is going to always want the best for their child and ask them to clean up and not go to a certain place. But there is a huge line between parenting and abusing. Anyway, I do love this series as much as I love Messy Monday ❤️❤️

[@overlyover5253]

Agreed!

[@kbutterfly420]

@1400baby X so true.... I really hope she didn’t listen to that advice because that will definitely send her into feeling worse than she already feels. Dealing with a toxic parent, you feel as though you’re always wrong in the first place

[@yakyim2114]

@1400baby X i don't think he meant it as blaming the child but in my experience, especially with my sisters They would talk back to my mom do things that would make her upset then they would all get into the yelling and cussing battle it was very toxic. My mom would do the same thing she'd come into the room say something my sisters didn't like and I had to be the one to sit her down and tell her what she did wrong. Now we may not know what this happens in her household but I know when I make someone upset I do sit back to myself and say "hey what did I do to make them feel this way" Then I'll go back try to talk it out and work on things. On the other hand her mom could just be really toxic and the girl is doing her best to listen to her mom and her mom just pops off. At that point it's time to save up and love from a distance. if one is too young to do that. I would honestly stay out of that parents way and try to distance myself within the house or just go elsewhere when I could. Sorry for the long reply dealing with a Toxic parent is never easy =(

[@davinahill1392]

I fully agree with this thru and thru but I promise nobody chooses to be a single parent I’m sure her mother didn’t think she’d be doing it all alone whether she continued to have kids or not whatever that case maybe...But I understand fully the right views of having a toxic parent damn near everybody has one or had one

[@yvenisem]

Davina Hill definitely most people don’t chose to be single parents. I meant that her mom made certain choices that lead up to her being a single parent, sorry!

[@yveee0]

To anyone who is reading this, i love you and stay safe😊

[@The9paige]

We love you too🧡💕🥰

[@rolemartyrx]

SAME TO YOU AND YOURS

[@randizzle4346]

Love you too ! ❤️ you too

[@monet4143]

Love u too❤️ Ty

[@dailylyss2987]

Love you too and stay safe as well❤️

[@Utriedit215]

How about WTF Wednesdays where you talk about random shit going on in the world and viral videos

[@itsryryent]

Aint that basically messy monday🤔😂

[@Utriedit215]

@@itsryryent I said in the world not on black social media that's what Messy Monday is maybe you should step outside your neighborhood projects or the Section 8 home you live in with your mom and see that there's more going on in the world than just motherfukers this beefing on social media😂🤣

[@Utriedit215]

@@itsryryent that awkward moment when you try to be funny and make your stupid ass look even Dumber😁😆🤣😂

[@itsryryent]

@@Utriedit215 ight sure😂😂

[@keyunadejahnee9737]

You lost me at black social media 😕

[@aerieunique4222]

When the 2nd girl said tablet, Zo was like "how old are yall?" lmao

[@undeniably_crissy2902]

The second girl.. CHILEEEEEEEEE! What was it? The problem that is?😂😂

[@niyabugg2011]

Undeniably_ Crissy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@undeniably_crissy2902]

@@niyabugg2011 I'm still lost..😂😂

[@nylaaaa8826]

Frr i was so lost 🤣🤣😭

[@jerseyrose_]

Child im still stuck on tabbbblllettt😂

[@niyabugg2011]

Kelly Swarn fr🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thugtastic02]

Chile the whole tablet story had me so confused too 😭😭😂

[@Jazziefaye16]

You too?? 🥴 ..

[@Miz292]

NEXT 🤯🥴

[@Chuckysdiary]

Yea it was me

[@poppymsp8828]

Sahaja Sawyer girl that story was everywhere

[@Chuckysdiary]

Poppy msp facts

[@pretty_rere8071]

Nah the second girlll Chillle she needs to GET TF ASAPPPP

[@banana_bread4514]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@black_butterfly4947]

😂

[@nylaaaa8826]

Lmaooo nah frr i was so confused 🤣

[@tayboogie1115]

Ion nothing she said...

[@meliycon-roma4112]

Lmaoo

[@AceLoozeCannon]

The second girl was ALL OVER THE PLACE! I don’t even understand the story. I’m actually surprised she sent the video seeing that she didn’t make a lick of sense.

[@shaniyahmonye21]

Second girl is me when I’m explaining a story I be all over the place too💀💀

[@caylak.7122]

dealing with a toxic parent/family no matter what i did it was never right..i was never a problem kid and i always maintained grades but i’ve learned to just love from a distance or just move out (that was my option )

[@overlyover5253]

Yeah I love my mother for carrying for me but she don’t know the type of long term damage she did for my mental health.

[@LuvKitKatt]

THIS ONE!!!

[@LuvKitKatt]

@@overlyover5253 EXACTLY

[@NyNyD4me]

Overlyover RIGHTT. I was at a point where I would’ve listened to Zo but Nahh sometimes u have to do what’s best for you. Regardless of if they your immediate family or not, friends or associates. You gotta cut that 💩 out ✂️

[@overlyover5253]

Nyree Dixon Fr do not sit there and be compliant to the abuse, you’re further allowing them to continue on with the abuse. What’s funny is that Zoe said the same thing my dean and history teacher said, no matter if your stressed out with work and paying bills and other things that gives no excuse for abuse. When you choose to be a parent you sign up for taking care of us, I couldn’t agree with Zoe on that part but I still love and respect him.

[@tasha4455]

The second girl story was so confusing! Po' baby started confusing herself 🤦🏿

[@leggz8480]

Of course, you can ask yourself “what am I doing to cause this?” However, there may be something from your mom’s past that makes her act out on you. Is it just you she does this to? Name calling or other toxic behaviors may be something that her mother did to her. Single parents have it hard…especially our beautiful black single moms and exhaustion can come out in all sort of ways. Sometimes, it is simply not the child’s fault or doing, that makes a parent act the way she acts. Something is hurting her and hurt people hurt people. Ask her about her and her mom’s relationship. Some clues may into the story she tells about her past family relationships that you don’t know quite yet.

[@GotDamnZo]

thats why i encouraged friend to TALK to mom, communicating goes a longgggg way. you'll be shocked what you learn talking to your parents. kids tend to shut down and think parents are being mean just build a love hate relationship instead of talking.... not saying mom is right but they need to TALK

[@leggz8480]

@@GotDamnZo exactly...and please don't stop doing these types of videos. if you help just ONE ....that will make a difference. xoxo

[@mrssimmons363]

But not every parent thinks they need to talk or explain to they kids

[@leggz8480]

@@mrssimmons363 I most definitely get that too. sometimes, as adult children may love the abusive parent but also need to love from afar and separate from toxic behavior DNA involved or not. the young girl is hurting bad everyone deserves happiness and peace and sometimes you just have to choose.

[@overlyover5253]

The damage has been done.

[@niyabugg2011]

The last two girls are definitely back doing the same thing they did before, they always say I don’t tolerate this or tolerate that, but at the end, they missed them and go right back to these types of boys, hoping maybe he has changed... Girllll I THINK THE THINK NOT!!!!! These young ladies are indeed in a cycle ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@itsryryent]

Tyyyy im the 3rd girl named RyRy

[@syncereseneque7070]

No no. Like i get what friend sayin, but theres a difference between upset and toxic. When someone is upset yes sit and look at it from their perspective, see what u did, what they did, all the hooplah. But TOXIC, baby you cant fix toxic thats sum that person gotta do. I went through the same with my mom. Once it hits that line you need to separate yourself from that person. Not sayin to be like "F**K YOU MAMA" but just emotionally disconnect yourself from that person to preserve you spiritual and mental state.

[@britclark1674]

The second story was super confusing and longer than a minute.

[@furkids2789]

Sounds like we biich is gay 😂😂

[@MSSWALKER]

Definitely longer than a minute 😂😂

[@toyyail]

The second story LMAOOOOOO I’m confused as hell.

[@EtheDragun]

Right lmaoo

[@mya4dapeople]

The 2nd girl story made me have a stroke trying to comprehend it😭

[@exclusiveempire5929]

zoe: don’t put all the blame on parents also zoe: ITS YOUR FAULT REALLY !!

[@marciachase8671]

Story #1: It is NOT the child's responsibility to take on adult/parent problems. I've had to deal with my own mother's issues that she's had since her teens. Hence my mother was a teen mom. It took me about the age of 26 to realize that my mother's issues, hang ups, or strong holds are NOT mine. I love my mother very much but respectfully so I still try to be the best daughter that I can be and not what she or others want me to be. You'll never be able to appease or satisfy others if they are not happy or satisfied with themselves. Her mom is hurting and is portraying that out on her. Now she has to decide to either feed into it and allow the hurt to transfer to her or take what she knows and use it to empower and build herself up. Continue to respect your mom and if you can yes, try to have a civil conversation with her to see if you can find out where she's coming from .

[@queenspenterprise7261]

That’s first story sad I’m praying for her and her mother 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ivorygilmore7115]

Who else fell out when they heard TABLET 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

[@shaudaecampbell]

its the tablet fa me 😭😭😭

[@chase_4lifee80]

Me cause I know they not over here talking about a tablet

[@sarahj309]

the rude headache I caught from trying to follow that second story😭

[@GeminiGangsta86]

When Zo walked out. Me trying to leave 2020 behind. Come on 2021

[@whisperblox]

Taking care of their kids is a responsibility parents have because we never asked to be here nor told them to make us😭

[@ishak3312]

Zoie keeps it real at ALL TIMESSSS💯💯

[@luhkobi2799]

“We started from the daddy to the mama, to the sister to the tablet”😂😂😂not the tablet

[@aaliyahswrld4451]

The first girl is so relatable

[@VenessaA.Crusoe]

That second story She’s confused I’m confused My newborn is confused listening to that damn story

[@Goldeexo]

not the newborn 🤣🤣🤣

[@VenessaA.Crusoe]

Goldee 😂 😂😂😂😂 Girl he’s still confused 😂😂

[@mariamesy380]

Lmfao😂😂

[@Goldeexo]

@@mariamesy380 EXCUSE MEEEE, YOU ARE GORGEOUSSS

[@mariamesy380]

Goldee omg thank you love! You are beautiful as well💕🥰

[@410kisha]

Story two had me like 🤔😒🧐🤦🏾‍♀️. It felt like I started watching 4 movies and didn’t finish any of them.

[@MoroMoro1]

I really be feeling sorry for ppl with abusive and toxic ass parents. Makes you really grateful and appreciate your loving parents.

[@laya1225]

to the third & fourth girl, NO!!! do not go back. from personal experience letting them back in is such a bad idea do not do it yall

[@itsryryent]

Learned the hard way😬 but tysm

[@user-xd7ql8of7b]

It’s the tablet for me , It’s this girl, that girl, my girl for me 💀🙉

[@SOPHIA-wh6uq]

😂😂

[@SimplyAisha16]

The second girl sounded like my 7 year old when I ask him to summarize the book he just read 🥴

[@BotanicalBritt]

Facts 😂😂😂

[@tiaramoore4674]

😂😂😂

[@queen_tingz5435]

just because the parent pays for food and gives you clothes doesn’t mean you are there for me emotionally. Emotionally my parents are very toxic so in my mind.. the respect your telling her to give the parent.. I’m not finna give them shit. You bash me 25/8 then expect me to give you respect.. it doesn’t work that way I’m sorry parent or not🤷🏾‍♀️ 6:56 THISSS‼️

[@Itsbriannaandrea]

PERIODDDDD 💯👏🏽

[@thatsbrujaafrikana]

Whew!!!! THIS!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@t.s.1868]

I’m completely lost with the second story 😂💯

[@alexisjohnson7575]

As a parent, you are supposed to provide for your children since you decided to have them, using what you have provided for them as a way of manipulation is dumb, you made that choice therefore your are required by LAW to provide.

[@LuvKitKatt]

THANK YOU

[@TheSweetForever]

Hello 🙄. Exactly haha. How you gone throw that in their face. The hell. They didn’t ask to be here 😒😂.

[@Utriedit215]

Didn't she say that she was 19 her mother doesn't have to provide it for her

[@CookieBeenTight]

070719 legally no, but morally yes... its really unrealistic for a 19 year old to have it all together and have the finances to 100% provide for themselves

[@mayaingraham0305]

The way Zo would start randomly talk to himself has me rolling 🤣🤣

[@j.williams4507]

That first story was so relatable. You gave her great advice too. It hard. But we gon make it.

[@zaviawalker2111]

The second girl took bout 5 mins, I'm like what happened to a 1 min video sis🤣

[@yuhhniaa]

The second story gave me a headache 😂🤣🤣

[@nyreeevans7460]

“If you can’t look good, it’s okay I don’t eitherrrr” 😂

[@kemmiitv762]

the second story lost me.

[@armaniganevia892]

made my damn head hurt 😭

[@cielorodriguez9610]

same

[@kemmiitv762]

@@armaniganevia892 fr i’m like girl get to it 😂

[@lacyhall2012]

@@armaniganevia892 lol

[@lacyhall2012]

@@kemmiitv762 hahahaha

[@Akichan07]

I felt the first story I went no contact with my mother 4 years ago. It was the best decision l made. Sometimes your parent is too toxic to make amends. My mother will be never be at my wedding. She will never know when I have children. I will never attend her eventual funeral. And she has only herself to blame

[@NOLAbae91]

I had a very toxic upbringing. And every time I try to be honest with my parents they just shut me down so now I just deal with them when I feel like it. Thanks for covering this topic.

[@MyGoodenessGracious]

Her toxic mother's attitude may not stem frm stress...it may come frm the way she was raised. She may not have anythng to do with why her mon mom acts tht way, it may be misdirected hate for her father or anythng. Talk to your mom bby girl but dnt automatically assume u are responsible for your mom's behavior. Pray first, ask God wht u need to do & wait....while waiting stay out of mama's way, do wht u should be doing & the answer will come. Even if its just a conversation God will let u knw wht to do & say & how to handle it. I'll pray for u too because I totally understand. It gets greater later bby girl.

[@adoreejai2782]

That 2nd story all over the place sweetie🤣🤣

[@Chuckysdiary]

Facts that was me juss all over the place 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@adoreejai2782]

Sahaja Sawyer LMFAOO were you nervousss?🤣🤣cause I was confused asf

[@Chuckysdiary]

Adoree Jai yess I was nervous 😬🤣🤣

[@johneleacock]

Sahaja Sawyer lmaaoooo girllllll🤣🤣🤣🤣im cryinnnnn. I was so confused❤️ I get nervous too

[@Chuckysdiary]

Johné Johnson yea it happens

[@JasmineBarbee]

I’m so lost bruh... the second story is all over the place. 😭😭😭

[@nicolesavage3708]

Her story over a min...long lmao

[@cicicheri5298]

“I gotta stop being so loud” 😂 Proceeds to still be loud 🤣. Friend it’s okay do you pop yo shit we love it. 🤞

[@starharris4116]

Really good advice on that disrespectful boyfriend situation!!

[@poppymsp8828]

You should do this live!! Have people join the live and tell there story and you help them live!! And then post it to KZbin

[@niyabugg2011]

Poppy msp That’s a good idea, I hope he sees your comment

[@nylaaaa8826]

That’s a good idea tho

[@asiabrandy7083]

the second girl had me confused fr like girl it’s too much goin on😭😭

[@Chuckysdiary]

Yess that was me yess juss all over the place 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@carolinablue20]

For the first story, I encourage her to look up "narcissistic mothers." See if her mother meets those conditions and know that it's not you or your fault. :-)

[@meggo010]

Agreed!! The advice was solid for a “normal” mother but for a mother that is narcissistic, her approaching her will be seen as criticism (and they can’t handle that) which could lead to narcissistic rage. Definitely research narcissism and see if your mother fits the bill! May need to limit contact in adulthood (once you leave the home).

[@Utriedit215]

How about you advised her to get her 19 year old ass the fuck out her mom house

[@carolinablue20]

@@meggo010 I definitely agree, 100%.

[@carolinablue20]

@@Utriedit215 sounds like that's the advice you're giving and you certainly have that right. 🙂

[@conceited.m5892]

Soooooo, what is the second girl talking about??? I’M LOST

[@tamiyahragsdale5534]

Shid u ain't the only one

[@messiahlove6909]

I think we all were pretty confused as to what she was even talking about I still don’t know what advice she was looking for because the story was all over the place and made no sense 😂

[@conceited.m5892]

Messiah Love lmaoooo right

[@basixstrands]

😂😂😂

[@faithmckenzye4420]

The second story genuinely made me laugh 😂😂😂 I needed that.

[@alyka.m___]

It ain't even up for 5 minutes and it already has 2 dislikes... Yall is some haters🤦🏾‍♀️

[@yem0ja]

people always will hate u without a reason

[@DenzelDewy]

Their view still counts so He still getting paid so ironically their filling his pockets💅🤑

[@alyka.m___]

@@DenzelDewy true

[@Jazziefaye16]

Bruh 😩 that second girl had me like 🥴🥴 ... definitely longer then a min..

[@swiigbe05]

Man I have missed that’s your story 😊

[@aminarobinson200]

Your absolutely rite ,you not telling her nothing wrong far as that "toxic" mother. And telling her to just let mom know she is hurting her with her name calling was priceless .

[@itsryryent]

Yoooo thats crazy I didnt think u was going to do another thats your story and btw I'm the third story. So what I did was I called him n asked why He wants to be with me or talk to me as friends and he was basically saying that we got stuff in common and that we're compatible whether we like each other or not which threw me in a loop like it didn't makes sense but my feelings took over and I ended up being friends with him anyway just to try it out, just Straight Talk, texting all of that. then when we were talking as friends we live close to each other so we met up a couple times because he was gonna leave off to college and I wanted to hang out with him before he left and then he mentioned he wanted to kiss me or whatever but we were both acting goofy at the time so we didn't really think about that too much but fast forward. Then we've been talking for a good month and next thing you know like we started to not be on the same page and with his sense of humor is started to not match mine so half the time he was serious I was joking and then when I a as serious hes joking so then I was just like OK this is not making sense n then I started losing feelings at the time so at that point i was like I don't care what he does when he goes out it's whatever we being cool friends. Then he started acting weird and I was getting fed up because he was being annoying so then at that point i was thinking bout cutting him off. I thought he was just toxic in a relationship but he just has a toxic immature mindset so i ended the friendship and then I saw my requests he was saying "O so can I still come for ur birthday" which was so random so then I just blocked him from my Spam acc and stuff so now he just watch my story n like my posts in my regular Instagram account. But ty for the advice tho❤😂

[@shehatemel]

💯 G shit. Don't take no wooden nickels queen 💜

[@TheAmbyc92]

Glad you did what was best for you!!

[@thatsbrujaafrikana]

I hope you found your self worth and DUMPED HIM.....Baby, 20 years ago an older woman gave me THE BEST ADVICE surrounding men, and I'm gonna give it to you: NEVER LET A MAN TELL OR SHOW YOU HE DOESN'T LOVE OR RESPECT YOU MORE THAN ONE TIME.... Please receive this in love.... Adjust your crown sis..

[@Fikavision]

For the last one, ABSOLUTELY ZOE! it always start like that. Little disrespect, a fake apology and promise of change then a long time of emotional damage you have to rebuild. It's a red flag girl don't go to him!!

[@Blossomwithmeadow]

This jacket is fye Zoe 👀❤️😌

[@jasmineoutram5092]

That jacket fire 💙🔥‼️

[@GotDamnZo]

thanks a supporter made it i loveeeeeeeee it

[@nickioh9194]

GOTDAMN ZO yaaaaaay I’m happy you liked it 🙏🏽❤️

[@amoreamari8590]

Nicki Oh you made it? I might need to invest! Do you have a business?

[@nickioh9194]

amoreA’Mari Yes I did ☺️, I been making custom clothes, but I’m in the early stages of getting things legitimized

[@blessed18888]

In social distancing you have brought so much joy to my life tfs and blessings to all who are still here

[@stpstp7963]

U hit the nail on the head with that parent advice. Sometimes how our parent was raised or there experience. I agree with Zo but sometime family need distance for our peace too.