Trad Dating Influencers Are Giving TERRIBLE Advice To Young Women

Dating coach Karla Elia gives really terrible advise. Cenk Uygur and Ana Kasparian discuss on The Young Turks. | Your Support is Crucial to the Show: go.tyt.com/jointoday
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"Dating coach Karla Elia tells women not to go out with a man who is “nice” or who “treats you right,” but one who can “afford” them.
Her advice, while highly criticized by some who have seen her videos, has dominated a pocket of the internet that depicts heterosexual romance as a deal between men and women, in which women are receivers and men are providers."
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[@Divine_Health_And_Fitness]

Why are people listening to dating influencers-go to therapy

[@IndyAvocadoKid]

Also self help books can be good because reading paper books can be educational and a little known 'factoid' is that cellulose based paper can filter out local airborne toxins in your room👍😏😃😂jk

[@ParacordPalsandHeroes]

Blue waffles aint for eating. Memphis, 10

[@katra777]

What kind of therapist?

[@IndyAvocadoKid]

@@ParacordPalsandHeroes …..😳😱😬🤢🤮🤣jk

[@crobinson2624]

What does that woman even have to offer? Sounds like a high maintenance head ache. I’d rather deal with a flooded basement.

[@NameName-lv4lu]

Hahahahahaha, your truth to God's ear brother. Absolutely. A flooded basement is something fixable, this type of person will be a perpetual problem, will never be pleased

[@IndyAvocadoKid]

If you have a flooded basement I recommend a sump pump from Lowe’s or Home Depot 🤔😏😃😂jk

[@roland1912]

No one in their right mind would give her the time of day.

[@AnonymousAnonymous-fm9iw]

also she isn't even attractive

[@Wildcat82164]

​@@IndyAvocadoKidactually u should call your local fire department they have pumps that will take the water out. Free of charge. At least in my area they do

[@tonedowne]

Grooming young women to be gold diggers is terrible. It’s every man’s worst nightmare, regardless of political persuasion

[@antclerfont8478]

Exactly. Which is why they shouldn't listen to these crackpots on social media. But sadly.... We just can't help ourselves...

[@ryanisbelle6107]

Can you tell me how all the richest women in the world got their wealth?

[@dpjmj]

@@ryanisbelle6107 by taking it from rich men in divorce court ...

[@solesoulsorrow]

So she sleeps with him, he gives her money, and it's transactional? Got it.

[@bryanreynolds8721]

I'm pretty sure there's a word for that.

[@suedoughnim6665]

@@bryanreynolds8721A man asks a woman if she would sleep with him for a million dollars and she says yes. Then he asks her if she’d do it for $100. “What kind of woman do you think I am?” “We’ve already established that. We’re just negotiating the price.”

[@wrenbyrd1093]

@@suedoughnim6665And guys do it for free because they are the actual hoes. This joke is insulting to all women everywhere.

[@suedoughnim6665]

@@wrenbyrd1093thank you for calling f--s to give. Please hold. It’s intended to be insulting to gold diggers everywhere. Sorry I don’t have a Venn diagram to show that those are a subset of women.

[@ParacordPalsandHeroes]

That woman has "broccoli" growing out of somewhere, I bet. Or 'blue waffles'. Warning ya. Memphis, 10

[@pudgyfolds2186]

Why she look 50 when she only 24 ???

[@jordyb57]

Who? Ana?

[@AngelicVirgo]

Thank you someone finally answered my question.

[@AngelicVirgo]

@@jordyb57 no the influencer

[@sensualeye]

I don't know if she looks 50, but she does look like she is in her mid-30s at least.

[@darex0827]

Gen Z in general have aged like milk, poorly...

[@anonunknown2491]

She's 24? Looks like 35.

[@sheila-pu5me]

to submit got me beaten and had all financial decisions taken from me in my 43 year marriage, she is wrong.

[@scottparr5606]

Read and understand the Tao De Ching and perhaps you will find that serving in certain ways is natural thing and different from being a victim of abuse.

[@FromDesertTown]

Gotta love "dating influencers" who promote greed, selfishness and shallowness as dating wisdom. Grow some values.

[@Richard-ug4el]

Yeah... If you're under 30, stop giving "life" advice ok? Just stop.

[@imnotmike]

The irony is that young people typically won't take life advice from people who are older than them, who actually have the experience to give good advice.

[@Richard-ug4el]

@@imnotmike Haha true. I've been on both sides of that equation. I guess we all have, or will be at some point.

[@melanoskhiron8307]

24 year-old and giving dating advice to grown women? Yikes.

[@yeshua7560]

And women in America wondering why you got passport Bros😂😂😂

[@angelaschone2847]

Many women around the world are like that you just want to bodyshame american women

[@jordanjohnson9866]

Nah. /

[@antclerfont8478]

This is why Passport bros existed.

[@sidadams7394]

its all over the world. the whole world has all the dating apps and sugar dating sites lol you can't "escape" this mentality now.

[@angelaschone2847]

You just want to bodyshame american women

[@brendajohnson3173]

She's 24, I'm 70. This advice she's giving is what leads women to having to eat cat food when the man has a heart attack and she finds out their finances haven't been handled well; or he decides to replace you when you're no longer young and cute.

[@TobyTBD]

Listening to this and as I’m someone who is involved in BDSM. These women aren’t being “submissive” they’re trying to manipulate a partner into trying to take care of them. However, the partner they’re trying to get is going to be someone whose conservative, or doesn’t do well socially, and most likely going to end up in a relationship that ends up being physically or emotionally abusive either to the women or the men.

[@Chronix-]

It's a sad state of affairs when people are actively trying to remove emotional attachment from the relationship equation.

[@Lon.BedStuyforLife]

💯💯👍🏽

[@masquarra]

These women are bringing in victims for narcissists

[@jordanjohnson9866]

Nah. /

[@Dhuxul9]

They are the narcissists

[@MaximoToro]

That woman is sure making a helluva lot of demands for being a 4

[@eatmorenachos]

That's being generous. She's not even a 2.

[@rodimcgeesums633]

Bro her cheek bones are like a🗿. Who TF wants that?

[@shad0wCh8ser]

Maybe Maybelline doesn't work. 🤣

[@larasownful]

This girl is a 4 thinking she's a 10... 😂

[@crazymulgogi]

I don't want to insult her but she looks like a 64-year-old who had plastic surgery to make her look like a 24-year-old.

[@saritysanimation]

This girl is not living in reality. Anyone can be fired or laid off anytime, including for reasons beyond their control. Is someone who was reeling 6 figures when you met suddenly no longer dating material if he loses that income? What if the company he works for dissolves right after you marry or have a child? Attaching partner compatibility exclusively to income is dumb, dehumanizing, and open to go wrong in so many ways.

[@P.A.DINDIEFOLKYARTISTROCKER]

right on..........that is what everybody forgets money and work only go so far..........

[@sqlb3rn]

I can't take seriously any woman making tiktoks while doing makeup or sitting in a car

[@Lon.BedStuyforLife]

I agree... 💯

[@leothenomad5675]

"I never once entertained men who couldn't afford me" I wonder how much her "entertainment" cost.

[@giornogiovanni5655]

That 24-year old woman is a dating influencer, but telling women to embrace traditional gender roles and telling them to have a materialistic approach is not a traditional dating influencer. Her suggestions is to put all of the onus of a relationship on the man and that he will love it. She is not suggesting a traditional relationship. She has just rewrapped gold-digging and misses the most important thing that men want from their women - love, respect and fidelity.

[@Anthony-hs9wb]

I have a question: is she married? Because if she's not, then no one should listen to her advice, since she hasn't been successful.

[@davidhatcher7016]

😂

[@RaysGuide]

And even if she was, which from the language she uses I doubt it, how long has she been married? Two, maybe three years. The people worth listening to are the ones celebrating decades of marriage. Unfortunately they are, by definition, too old to be instagram influencers.

[@inesyomar2]

The girl is hard 4 and she has high demands 😂

[@jlconnors7872]

These "trad wives" have never witness financial abuse in their lifetime and it shows.

[@janschulte8434]

Or they have and are suffering from Stockholm syndrome

[@17Perez]

It is frustrating how corporate greed has pushed people to the extremes of believing people like her, Tate and all the other online relationship "gurus." If people had a decent livable wage, people wouldn't have to be resorting to gold digging, OF, grifting etc. The elite is killing the middle class, people are either making too much or too little. And we can't blame women for looking at the top instead of the bottom. We all want what is best for us. If we were to have income equality, much more people would be marrying for love and not money.

[@sidadams7394]

this is such an excellent dystopian commentary and analysis.

[@christophermapes5176]

These "Relationship Experts" NEVER disclose or discuss their OWN relationships, and I'm often wondering IF they even have an ongoing healthy relationship!!!! NOT.

[@katiefountain2407]

Or have ever had a healthy relationship. A lot of them talk like social recluses.

[@monkhasheart]

she is painting on a fake face as she gives advice on relationships. Selling a fake image for cash is an old industry

[@meandyouagainstthealgorith5787]

Just me, but I've been successfully married for 39 years. We don't care about staying in roles. We care about contributing to a relationship.

[@Ellieempress]

You’re a real partner to someone. Trad wife nonsense is just another grift .

[@ryanisbelle6107]

"We don't care about roles." Okay, so how many of those 39 years did you spend bringing on 0 income while she worked 40 hours a week and covered every single expense? I'm guessing NOT ONE. Otherwise you'd be divorced. Guarantee it.

[@meandyouagainstthealgorith5787]

@@ryanisbelle6107 Except for student, why would a person bring home zero income? Even the disabled get Social Security.

[@kims7287]

She says "manipulation is wrong" but her entire action plan is based off attempts at subtle manipulation 😅..

[@Suryal]

That just sounds like most boring version of prostitution

[@AndreaAreizaga-kg2cs]

Shallow, narcissistic, superficial, materialistic, empty people will always end up miserable and lonely.😐

[@jordanjohnson9866]

Nah. /

[@jordanjohnson9866]

@marytenn378Nah. /

[@Lita-yr4wt]

This is the female version of gross dating advice from people like Andrew Tate

[@AlexLopez-vm7uq]

😂 EXACTLY 💯 👏

[@Dhuxul9]

Andrew Tate gives the best dating advice

[@MultipleOffenses]

Everyone with a camera and a mike is an "expert/influencer" now... 🙄

[@handlemchandlehandle]

"A woman who tries to control and manipulate is left with nothing but frustration and emptiness." .... Whatever you say "influencer".

[@elizabethstanley4541]

She doesn’t even really know what being a man or being a woman is about she is 24. She’s talking like she’s 50 something and has been through it.

[@beanabovethefrank1499]

She's just butthurt that her stepsister, Cinderella, found her happiness and did it without being a doucheknob about it. Still trying to cram her ugly foot into that ridiculous slipper.

[@artvanderlay6974]

Why would anyone take dating advice from a 24-year-old child? She knows nothing.

[@IndyAvocadoKid]

True, the best advice is probably from an old boomer in her 70s or 80s, because she's truly had many life experiences that young folk can learn from that she may even actually regret🤔😏🙂 (unlike old boomer guys on the other hand who don't have too many regrets, except for the tattoo on the back of one's neck that says "I have no ragrets!”😳🙄😆😏)….

[@loboahriman7680]

@@IndyAvocadoKid old ppl usually have the same advice: "Be true to yourself, have fun with your loved ones, be kind/love fully, and reject negativity in all forms"

[@covfefe_drumpfh]

@@IndyAvocadoKid Maybe I should become an internet dating coach?

[@rebeccajay2262]

Idk..I do understand why people would want dating advice in their mid 20s. & other young adults are probably looking to people thwir own age, or close to it. I just think it's terrible advice Even in my early 20s I felt that relationships are so much more than a transaction. She's missing SO much & encouraging others to miss out on such a wide & diverse part of life - having a partner that you love & respect, even if it's not permanent, is worth more to me than simply having a 'simple' life where I depend on ANY other for my needs.

[@loboahriman7680]

@@rebeccajay2262 the main element of any successful relationship has always been the "connection" and I find it very sad when I hear ppl swear that it has to be something like money or status. That's not a relationship, that's a business transaction.

[@xx133]

Capitalism logic. Everything is about maximizing profit and removing all human elements.

[@ericantone8709]

Wow. That lady was 24? Looks at least 30.

[@AlBundyOz]

0:07 "I've never entertained men who couldnt afford me!" Oh, sweetie, _I_ got $20 for the full hour!!

[@user-mo9tu7wq1v]

Shes missing one important part , love . A good loving wife doesn't expect things . A good loving husband wants to give and cherish his wife with the extra he has. Sometimes I cant afford to buy my wife things but when I can I do because I want too.

[@queensheeeeba]

It sounds like she's auditioning for the next season of Handmaid's Tale.

[@waynefrench756]

my advise to her !! don't give up your day job LADY !!!!!

[@Lita-yr4wt]

Alternative title: How to get yourself into an abusive relationship (2-way abusive lol)

[@ray_donovan_v4]

Dating at 41.. Friends: kids, married, s/o's etc.. Me: "I'm just gonna go dig a hole, and stand in it for a while.. looks like rain today" 😂

[@WattWireNet]

Ana's face when Cenk said, "I might give a performance improvement plan." was priceless. I had to laugh with her.

[@MaJoRMJR]

Life lessons 101, don't take advice from anyone who claims to be an influencer

[@MeoithTheSecond]

lol at the idea of taking dating advice from a 24 year old.

[@JuvPrimervago]

umm, just throwing this out there, is she even married? If the answer is no then please shut up because she knows nothing and its obviously not working for her.

[@mrskhumalo4723]

When l first met my husband. I was in further education and he was just starting out in work and both barely had much to our names. Our cheap dates included long walks and talking about absolutely everything and nothing and this made our relationship that which was built on respecting our journey together and we are each others cheerleaders. Our roles within the home as we had children changed constantly based on who was working long hours, early finishes and on holiday rather than what was classed as traditional genda roles or modern ones. We made it work for us so all this nonsense about women being the price and having expectations of a life they can’t provide for themselves is utter nonsense. Respect each, support each others dreams and if that includes one being the home maker and the other being the provider, cherish your roles and play your part instead of being manipulative to get money which may only work when you are youthful and fades as you get older.

[@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460]

Preach it!!!!!!!

[@a.jlondon9039]

This is the most intelligent and mature comment. Thank you!

[@thewolfofswingthat2035]

if relationship is transactional why would i want a wife anyway?

[@michaelfreedman1006]

There's 2 words for people like that it's gold digger..... He can treat you bad as long as he has money.

[@leothenomad5675]

Yea, it was very telling that she put treats you right in air quotes.

[@keithh23]

Most traditions are called traditions because reasons why they exist are no longer apply. Some people like to hold onto traditional thinking for selfish reasons and hide behind the obsolete justifications.

[@richardmyers6075]

That's one way of looking at the value of traditions. Another way is people rely on traditions because traditions have helped generations survive and even prosper throughout the ages.

[@keithh23]

@richardmyers6075 if people are doing something because it's beneficial the best way of doing it, then it's logical. If they are doing it just because it's the way its always been done, then it's seen as a tradition. Do t get me wrong, though. Some traditions have a place socially and get people together. Others can be counterproductive or harmful

[@AndrewNewZealand]

She's doing a good service to golddigger stereotypes.

[@Laoriginal718]

That lady looks 34, not 24.

[@Vahlee-A]

Okay, that's IMPOSSIBLE, for one, to not communicate any standards, because if you don't have communication, you're either guessing the whole time, or not in a real relationship.

[@Dee-wp3ul]

Lmao Ana nailed it! They will meet evil men by only dating rich men. Or a Dahmer type, take you on a trip, and it’s the last.

[@chriswerth918]

Go for the money! Wait... is this an advice for dating or for prostitution? .... traditional gender roles, you say? 🤔

[@willieverusethis]

She doesn't believe any of this. She's just making money on KZbin. These people find a "brand" and run with it.

[@mastakazam5094]

That 'coach' karla isn't promoting even a bad relationship model, she's promoting a pet&owner relationship model

[@dimxsk]

This woman wants to be a product… then she’s gonna have to accept her sell by date. Her husband is gonna get the newer model and she’s going to be helpless and alone.

[@roland1912]

Translation: "Watch me go from being a 4 to being a 6 by putting a bunch of fake shit on my face!"

[@patpowers9210]

Transactional relationships are not romantic relationships. They're just barter, capitalism. In a real romantic relationship, you have your partner's back, no matter what, and your partner has your back, no matter what. And that includes "no matter how much money you make or don't make." That's why real relationships are strong and more important than capitalism.

[@timflelter5566]

Tell that to the woke feminist independent women

[@christophermerlot3366]

If someone needs an influencer to help them date, then hell help them. That person shouldn't be dating.

[@DDuMas]

"women shouldn't be too easy to chase". There are a couple of problems with this. The first is that a lot of guys wont bother with "the chase" (persistence) in this day and age when everything leads to accusations of being labelled a creep. It also leads to these women pigeon holing themselves to about 10% of guys out there, and then they'll complain about all men in general.

[@RichWinGate]

So right about that, so maybe you'd enjoy this old "boy meets girl" trap story (verse 2) with a "Progressive" twist (trad/non-trad)? m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZXCo3uEqt-Ieck&pp=ygVQQ2FwdG4nIC0gRkgzIEJlYXRzIEZ0LiBUb3AgMTAgIlBhbmlzdHRyYXBwaXN0IiBZb3VUdWJlIMK3IEZIMyBCZWF0cyBGZWIgMjYsIDIwMjA%3D

[@kind2423]

She bragging on her page how her mother was a mistress to a married man. She was disguising it as being a “kept women” lol 😂

[@chriss-nf1bd]

She promotes tradition relationships without any of the work. As if her presence is the only requirement.

[@SkyWalker-eg5rl]

😂yes men can date other males

[@SAW_249]

The most shocking part? That girl is only 24…

[@kayanurshiya3778]

All of that manipulation is draining her your away 😂.

[@solarwindp]

I thought she was 35 and NOT ATTRACTIVE

[@GargamelTheGreat]

"be a gold digger" is very modern lol

[@syntaxed2]

Viewing reliationship as a transaction is abit of viewing men as success objects, isnt that like misandry? And yeah, she is basically pretending to be submissive to rack in the cash

[@Balletcalvero]

There's nothing wrong with expecting a partner to not be a total scrub. But she's looking for easy street. Gross.

[@saundrac9]

She’s too young to be making relationship advice.

[@jacobklein2415]

Not only too young, she basically is telling the career oriented individual that you are doing it wrong.

[@mikegiddens9694]

Melania tried that, look how that turned out.

[@ebony7177]

None of these influencers (men or women) ARE MARRIED!! Why isn't their advice working for them? I don't listen to the failing business owner about how to succeed. These influencers are ridiculous.

[@hakonosatowakugai7256]

Because they are shallow

[@asdfgh-uh6cy]

A marriage of convenience goes both ways. If you remain with a guy for his money, then he will remain with you for your looks. Once that's gone, then so are you.

[@BRIG11]

On point!

[@GaryHighFruit]

What about "It's cheaper to keep her"? It's still more likely the women will end things, because "If you remain with a guy for his money", the money often gets used up, and she may find a man with more money.

[@xmattperkins]

Seems like “trad” is simply a shiny new term for “gold digger”. If you’re all about the money, you’re a gold digger .. it’s that simple. If you value your worth based on how much people spend on you, you’re a gold digger. Changing the term doesn’t change the fact you are a gold digger. And yes there are plenty of men who need money to get a woman so they’re all for this rebranding of what a gold digger is. But if you’re really looking for a gold digger just search for women in poor countries who see a man who pays their bills as a hero. There are beautiful women in poor countries who are just looking for money to escape their current situation. A lot of times they have young children and the father of their child refuse to support them. Just understand money is not love. You can’t buy love, you can buy some people but you can’t buy their actual feelings toward you

[@yummylunar]

Single people giving other single people advice. What can go wrong?

[@lynemac2539]

And so young!

[@sagatuppercut2960]

Trying to have a traditional, early 20th century marriage in the 21st century, in a 1st world country, doesn't make any sense.

[@howlholmes7439]

Maybe she should ask Melania how this advice is working out 😅

[@CuuchCRUSHER]

Things are too expensive for that house wife crap. In today's economy, you need two incomes.

[@subant05]

Ensure the person who is courting you is able to take of himself and has the means to at least keep a roof over your head and food on the table doesn’t seem unreasonable. What’s unreasonable is expecting 6 figure salary, foreign trips, luxury items, and a lavish lifestyle.

[@mgm8822]

I agree.

[@xepher258]

She clearly doesn't understand men period

[@slevenkelevra3813]

She don't understand today's inflation.

[@folee_edge]

Woah, woah woah - I am all for traditional roles, but you have to understand these roles in a way deeper way than this kid.

[@IhaytFukkingsocialmedia]

yall need to stop treating tiktok like its a place for normal people. no thanxbye

[@seankelly7481]

She said traditional gender roles but what I heard was be in a financially abusive relationship

[@Flashpoint2]

She is talking about prostitution.

[@reezoe164]

WIFE is the literal opposite of PROSTITUTE, dxmbxss.

[@Unimpressed360]

WE in the black community have been avoiding these types of women for years. TYT is late to the game, on this one.

[@ronin7261]

liar 🤣

[@RichWinGate]

Agreed, and how do feel about the "relationship" dynamics described in verse 2 of this old trap song? m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZXCo3uEqt-Ieck&pp=ygVQQ2FwdG4nIC0gRkgzIEJlYXRzIEZ0LiBUb3AgMTAgIlBhbmlzdHRyYXBwaXN0IiBZb3VUdWJlIMK3IEZIMyBCZWF0cyBGZWIgMjYsIDIwMjA%3D

[@user-mc7tw9sc2c]

this lady is in for a rude awakening if she is qualifying men based off of money.

[@astraydhurion7697]

This kind of women doesn't realize that "beauty" doesn't last forever and that without personality and education, you can suddenly one day be easily replaced by a younger model and left with nothing except the dress in which she came in fifteen years ago.

[@reginaldrichmond9485]

She isn’t even beautiful she’s a hard 4.

[@sumonjamal1653]

Dating only men who can afford women, whether they are 'nice' is irrelevant... and being a 'submissive' woman... and manipulating a partner... are misguided standards of marriage in Asia (I would know) Granted, a man should pay for a date w/ a woman... but if a woman wants to spend her own money while out on the night, she should... And women who are financially independent and confident often make better partners to men who are also financially independent (not deadbeats) and working actively. Marriage is a financial contract; partners should also have similar goals and mutual consideration to forming a family... And I have seen too many situations where a woman manipulates her husband/ partner behind his back while acting 'submissive' and 'loving' up front... and it never works. Men and women should have an open dialogue and good communication in a marriage or relationship... or it will be doomed by secrets and affairs. These so-called 'influencers' are truly delusional. I doubt they are in a stable, loving relationship themselves... 😈

[@pri.sci.lla.]

She’s being very aggressive and she doesn’t sound happy. Not someone I would want to take advice from.

[@mudkat4424]

Can anyone blame me for just not dating anymore?

[@LiloRolland]

The second she put on that red lipstick that DOES NOT compliment her skin tone...I audibly gagged 😂

[@BLOXKAFELLARECORDS]

I like when they submit. I can afford any women.

[@Lothar-Wolfsbane]

What a weirdo reflex

[@taurustruth420]

As soon as I seen your arse on the internet. I disliked anything coming out of your mouth. 😂😂

[@miriamhavard7621]

I think it's great for a man to feel free. Why can't a woman also feel free?

[@rebeccajay2262]

Amen! Why can't a woman also be free, AND why is it woman's responsibility to make sure men feel free???

[@Kittymeow888]

She’ll be divorced in under 5 years…and reliant on a man forever. I have my own money; I date for personality & companionship.

[@PinHeadzBlackson]

Sadly, this is social media today

[@RaysGuide]

So, what is her track record in long term relationships? She sounds, since everything she is saying is in the hypothetical third person like she isn't in one now, and has never been in one, which is pretty much to be expected from someone who is 24. That's the thing, everyone that is saying 'listen to me' has zero actual success behind what they are saying/ The thing is, the people who actually are able to speak from experience are....old. I mean nobody celebrating their 20th or 30th anniversary are in their early 20's by definition. But if you talk to the people who have actually made the permanent relationship thing work, even those who were OG tradwives in the 50's and you hear something entirely different than the nonselse being spread by these 'influencers'.

[@FDR_progressive_liberal]

Melania no doubt got advice like this. See how it turned out for her.

[@vanessabrown1219]

😮24yrs old and slick. Warn your grandsons about women like her.

[@TheLastLineLive]

Her advice isn’t terrible on its own, but it is pretty heavy-handed, and does miss the mark in general. People do need to be strong and independent, but at the same time, be able to compromise as well.

[@moonlily1]

So what if your husband that you've given the final word in decisions that affect BOTH of you makes a BAD choice, and you know it's a bad choice, but you're not "being a wife" if you put your foot down? Say he makes a bad investment, and you knew it was a bad investment, but you let him go ahead and do it, then you lose your house and he isn't "providing" anymore? You can't be the solution because you're not supposed to work. Then what? You divorce him, there's nothing to GET in the divorce, the house is already gone and he's broke. You have no personal money of your own, what are you going to do, move in with your parents or siblings while looking for a DIFFERENT man to take care of you? What if the men who wan't "trad wives" don't want a divorcee, doesn't want a woman who already has kids, or you're not as young and hot as you used to be, and these guys who want trad wives, that's what they want. A hot chick in her prime breeding years, which you will not remain forever.