Trading Spouses Donaho/Messina Part 2

[@kayseecoward7571]

I don’t like either of the husbands in this episode

[@numberone5680]

Kaysee Coward My exact thought!

[@laurenkubiak8795]

Kaysee Coward agreed

[@stardominguez84]

For sure!!

[@elizabethezell8749]

Kaysee 👍🤷🤦☕☕ I think they're both rotten to the core, rude as all get out and the well off couple Noooooo friggin would I'd do a quarter of what his wife does, she's his lil servant maid she can't see that . Rodney he's two fries shy of a happy meal lives with mother n law ( thank God for her ) not responsible adult at all. They both need help Wonder what the rich family Thought she was gonna do with the money and pray tell WHY were they even on the show they didn't need the money not according to leisure boy

[@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat]

I absolutely detest both of them. Hard to choose which one I dislike more. Probably Arthur.

[@princessrockman9528]

Did Rodney really complain about her not getting to know him? After he was rude as hell even so far as putting a BUG IN HER SOUP?! What an idiot! He did nothing but say from the start how he didn't think he'd like her and really just act like an ass. But he's butt hurt that she didn't "get to know him"? That guys a piece of work!

[@tandiholcomb5048]

Which one has Rodney in it?

[@lisaowens2040]

@@tandiholcomb5048 Rodney is the lazy father

[@kelbeegee4454]

According to Facebook his wife Jen divorced him.👏

[@noelle2k3]

@@kelbeegee4454 as she should

[@ohtartarsauce6301]

@@lisaowens2040lazy is an understatement

[@kojiikat]

i love how they're both great moms. just did a shitty job choosing their husbands.

[@Halp1819]

I was literally thinking that the whole time

[@llanes6287]

🤣🤣 yes!!

[@Horseluvver]

HAHAHA!!! Well, these days we women are satisfied with anyone who won't knife us in our sleep 😆

[@kritikadhurve2086]

Oh pin this comment … True💯

[@handoromper7987]

Both great moms? one is a lazy pig that flicks cigarette ash in a pool where children swim, yea lovely woman. At least the lazy cow picked an even lazier jobless slob, two peas in a pod.

[@tcm7799]

Cathy needs to open her eyes because her family isn't perfect or normal. Drew even called you their maid. Best part of that money was it being allocated to family therapy. Yes, your insurance may cover it but YOU WOULDN'T HAVE GONE OTHERWISE

[@jodiurlacher145]

That was such a rude thing for her to say. It was just vile and unnecessary!

[@Lonnie1969s]

When she said he punished the wall when he got upset..I was like anger management glasses

[@dbzennie7474]

Drew's mom is in denial about her family.

[@lauraben4049]

Facts

[@lauraben4049]

She so brushed it off ,everything!

[@becgould3772]

Yep.

[@donnafredericks2865]

She had to look at it that way, what else can the poor woman do? She’s kind. Not in denial. With all do respect.

[@juliebugiyne4121]

Both couples are codependent. Drew needs counseling to come out, his dad needs to accept his son for what he is. The other husband is a lazy man child living off of anyone who will support him.

[@xtina.campbell1234]

the commercials are so vintage, so much nostalgia.

[@tillybinkieking7258]

I live in England and these adverts are So Intrusive! I expect UK will follow US in the end. :(

[@TheImprovised]

Vintage?

[@Horseluvver]

Could do without em...

[@nix2785]

My five year old said… “what they have new chicken salads at Wendy’s!!!” 😂

[@clothilde1623]

That ‘Jared from Subway’ one has NOT aged well…

[@chrisc2661]

The only likable adult is the grandmother

[@Lonnie1969s]

That's what I was thinking too!!!

[@numberone5680]

The kids weren’t bad. We all seem to have sympathy for Drew.

[@doreenyoung7614]

Both husbands were jerks but at least one worked and provided for the family. The wife who smoked should have been more respectful with her ashes and such.

[@lisaowens2040]

But the father who worked mentally abused his son! Most likely he was physically abusing Drew too. Because we saw him push Drew and almost throw a ball at his face... Plus the youngest talked about Drew and his father beating up each other.

[@AK-qj7pg]

I can't even imagine flicking a cigarette in someone's pool! How rude, and disrespectful! She could've been the smoker she is, yet been responsible and respectful about it, when being a guest in another person's home, especially non-smokers. I liked Jen, besides how she was with her smoking. She was great with Drew

[@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat]

Quite frankly Arthur deserved to have cigarette ash in his pool. He may be more responsible that Rodney (having a job) but he was nasty man. I mean both husbands were awful and I detested both - but Arthur was by far worse a human - a sexist snob who wanted a maid more than a wife.

[@BoglimWrangler666]

@@AK-qj7pg she clearly did it as a jab at arthur.

[@jomichelle3081]

Kathy kept complaining about how Rodney was so lazy but she does EVERYTHING for her own family anyway so what’s the difference?? Her boys will grow up to be worse if she continues letting them behave and talk the way they do AND they won’t know how to do anything for themselves.

[@inlonging]

Yup. She doesn’t seem to see that he is the fruit of what she’s been planting, watering, and tending in her own sons 😓 they don’t even make their own beds.

[@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat]

......I was thinking the same originally and was a bit confused. But I think she means because he doesn't have a job - I mean borrowing $350 off your ten year son is the pits. And if you are unemployed, you can at least help your wife with housework and cooking.

[@jillcomfort6278]

100%yes

[@CandidlyCat]

Exactly. I had my kids cooking and doing dishes by the age of 7. They've been doing their own laundry since they were 9. They grew up on a farm, so they had the privilege of learning to drive at the age of 9. They are 16 and 14 now. They have their own credit cards and I make them check the balance regularly, and pay it off if they need to. I taught them to change the oil in the car this year. There's literally nothing they can't do on their own now. My daughter even sews her own clothes when she's feeling crafty. I have no worries whatsoever when they move out on their own.

[@katie3657]

@@CandidlyCat You are a great mom!

[@daniej5879]

Mrs Mess-in-a family thinks she has the perfect family and the other family was so terrible even though her family was seconds away from snapping on each other the whole time. Yeah right.. When besides the man child the other family's kids were very well behaved.

[@shaebug1996]

Remember how she said she wouldn't divorce him yea well that didn't last. She left his man child ass behind

[@bethgriesauer3825]

@@shaebug1996 - How do you know that?

[@shaebug1996]

@@bethgriesauer3825i looked them up on facebook

[@bethgriesauer3825]

@@shaebug1996 - Good thinking. Any more news? How did the older boy turn out?

[@shaebug1996]

@@bethgriesauer3825 not sure i didn't look into it a lot

[@haileemiller]

I love how they always act shocked when they find out the other mom chose how to allocate the money...like they hadn’t seen the show before lol

[@ricardomoseley]

Llmmaaooo ikr 😅

[@kwynneable]

Just depends on the season….if this is the first season then no one knows because they don’t air the episodes until like 5 months after they tape. But who knows what the producers say to these ppl

[@teallxitaliana]

the lazy guy is 34!? i thought he was like 44

[@Heaven13420]

@Amy Į, j.ě'ew] Are u high??!!!?

[@jadefuentes4628]

I was wondering if I miss understood

[@lisarobi8325]

Me too!!!!

[@mycatiswaysmarterthanmosto8500]

Same!!

[@andiegreen2304]

Yeah me too!

[@cheintze1]

One of the dads was an emotionally stunted Type A control freak, the other was basically Homer Simpson

[@DannyHBHH]

You should be ashamed of yourself, disrespecting homer Simpson like this

[@ZiggaMau]

​@@DannyHBHHthank you! Homer actually loves Marge not just himself 😂

[@corianne2099]

Kathy is a very vindictive woman. She says one thing to your face and another thing behind your back. Her family is very dysfunctional. Granted Rodney has issues, but at least you can have a conversation with him versus Arthur

[@doolally1478]

Yes!

[@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat]

Rodney certainly has issues. But if I had to choose, I would choose him over awful Arthur.

[@giulia28]

@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat His wife - Rodney- got divorced…

[@Horseluvver]

Aw Rodney's okay he just needs his add treated.

[@Horseluvver]

@@giulia28 oh. That's kinda sad. They should do updates.

[@tinaamariee832]

Kathy & her husband are delusional if they think they’re family “came off good” in this episode. Your husband FORGOT HIS OWN CHILD FOR SCHOOL! It doesn’t get much worse than that

[@michaelaprince]

I mean…every parent has forgotten their kid somewhere, but that poor boy really needed some fatherly love! 😢

[@Goddess.of.Victory]

He did that on purpose

[@karlag8671]

@@Goddess.of.Victoryi mean id forget him too he was a rude kid😂

[@Goddess.of.Victory]

@karlag8671 he has an outgoing personality obviously but he was also acting out because they were treating him like he doesn't belong in the family cause he's different from his father and brother. Glad the father realized he needed to stop acting " funny" towards his son. I actually just chuckled cause you might be right to a certain extent cause he could be draining for some people I get it🤣

[@jessicamingin9618]

​@@michaelaprinceno... not every parent.

[@lovinlife6941]

I actually think Jennifer does know what it is like to have a happy family! It wasn't her children that fought and looked unhappy...... siblings do fight, yet they aren't all unhappy.

[@fayezentner619]

So happy yea sure when Drew was throwing a fit dad looked like he was about to throw the ball at him

[@princessrockman9528]

good friends rock! I agree that Jennifer's children do seem happier however I think she needs to quit making excuses for Rodney. In their case it's not about having material things. It's about him supporting his family and NOT having to live with his mother and NOT stealing your child's money. That's not being material that's called BEING AN ADULT.

[@lovinlife6941]

@@fayezentner619 you seem to be mixed up, Drew is not Jennifer's son

[@lovinlife6941]

@@princessrockman9528 well said and I completely agree with you! quite pathetic!!

[@deboraht5079]

@@princessrockman9528 -- He needs to give the money back asap because he literally took it without consent or discussion.

[@MH-yj4qq]

That Messina mom is in denial

[@katieghoul0092]

Definitely. Hugely 👏 and it's so sad

[@sarar2286]

Drew is not the athletic type. She really should have asked him what kind of activity he wanted to do with his dad

[@taffykins2745]

It's scripted

[@mckennabowerss]

Yess you could see the genuine hurt in his eyes when she read that off

[@amberrose1108]

Taffy Kins no it’s not

[@amberrose1108]

Yes that was a huge mistake

[@kyliemarie6386]

True, but I think she was thinking more about releasing any pent up anger/frustration and probably also giving Drew an opportunity to beat the crap out of his father. In order to be able to do all of that, boxing may have been all she could come up with.

[@racrgirl08]

My favorite part of this show is the moment the people realize they probably could’ve treated their temporary mom/spouse better...priceless 😂

[@lalalife6855]

The “mom to mom/wife to wife” meeting at the end was kinda awkward.

[@Samuel-co9wm]

Its easy to say money is "materialistic" when your mother supports you unconditionally. Where would you all be if not at her house? You already drained your child's bank account. I must say you are doing something right because your boys are super sweet.

[@kutgurlluv]

Dying at the At&t roll over minutes commercial 🤣

[@AmandaPaige71]

A definite blast from the past for me too! The Jared from Subway commercials made me throw up in the back of my mouth tho...

[@juliehessballiet9291]

When he hugged his son I damn near cried 😭 That young man needs his father's love 💘. He acts negative and dramatic because that is the only way for him to get attention ( weither it be negative attention ) back from his father. Stop ✋ PUSHING sports down his throat!!!! That is NOT his passion..... Embrace what is his passion and engage in those things and a bond WILL form like you've never seen.

[@triedandtrue142]

When Kathy said "I can't believe your husband wanted me to comb his hair, Jennifer should've said, I can't believe your husband wanted me to make his bed.

[@_peachy_peach_9178]

If no one learns a thing from this experience hopefully they learned why it’s important to treat everyone kindly, even strangers. You will never know who comes to your rescue. 💯

[@saragrant556]

Both of the moms are in such denial about such obvious issues in their households. “Arthur isn’t arrogant” & “we don’t care about money” 😂😂😂😂

[@empressink_]

Drew is unbearable. If I ever acted like that, my mom would've slapped me into the sun lmao

[@PrincessZaire100]

He learned that from his father

[@vassial.fromwonderland9844]

His attitude is most likely the reaction of a child who had to deal with this type of father, being the oldest he would have to deal with more pressure and more judgement than his siblings.

[@cobravids]

I agree. I would have been sent out to the weeping willow tree to select the one branch that would teach me that lesson.

[@Tiffany-ne9fr]

​@vassial.fromwonderland9844 I agree. I acted out as a teen also because my mom wouldn't accept me as I was. I liked to be alone, reading, writing poetry, bright colored hair, drawing, playing the viola, and saxophone, collecting rocks, and taking a blanket to the woods for a nap. My dad would yell at me too, but because my older sister would be doing wrong and I was the one who got in trouble. I eventually said F it, I'll just run my mouth, knock the crap outta my sister etc so I'd at least deserve it. At 17 it was so bad I thought I'd commit suicide or just move out while they were gone and just marry the guy I was dating to just get away. I moved out, got married to a guy I didn't like, divorced him a year later, cleaned out my bank account and ran away to Mexico for a few years.

[@kasapbandy1776]

Wow the end when the moms met. You can tell a loooot of that convo is left out and there’s mad tension on their faces

[@jewelzorn3191]

👍👍to the producer....that was perfect when she said “she doesn’t know what it’s like to have a happy family “

[@sonyg0640]

siblings fight, parents argue, families argue its called THE REAL WORLD. NOBODY IS PERFECT

[@katieghoul0092]

Well. Moral of the story: be nice to everyone you meet, because you just never know. 🤣🤷‍♀️

[@finallyfinally9317]

True that

[@ktrudy1]

Yes and no family is perfect. U never know what goes on in their homes.

[@allieduncan4183]

Id love to see arthurs wife talk to him the way she talked to rodney at dinner. Someone needs to put arthur in his place. He doesnt treat drew equally or fairly and tbh wouldnt be suprised if he abused him it deffinetley seems like he does. Sadly arthur is so aggressive she probably never will out of fear :((

[@AK-qj7pg]

I think Drew is dying inside to be himself fully. I think he holds back because his dad clearly doesn't like how he is. Drew is an amazing kid, and I hope he is now able to be himself, and also have a relationship with his dad. I would love to see a "where are they now" episode of both these families!!!! Anyone have any info or updates??!

[@christievanderlaan7575]

A K you can see on Facebook that Drew is working with his dad in the business and they look happy.

[@Mr123Gibson]

Drew is ungrateful and uses his sexuality as an excuse for not behaving like a real man. His younger siblings are more mature.

[@allieduncan4183]

@@Mr123Gibson he never even said he wasnt straight thats just the comments so he hasnt used that as an exscuse actually

[@JanieBgrand]

Oh puhlease! Drama boy dished out more disrespect behavior than any young person I know! He can be who he is without being so hateful and rude to others!!!

[@AK-qj7pg]

Drew is amazing! I pray him and his Dad have become closer since this. Jen was really great for him.

[@joyceadair3003]

How is Drew so amazing? Isn’t he the one that was so rude and disrespectful!

[@MurrmorMeerkat]

@@joyceadair3003 Maybe in your close mindedness but the reason why drew acts out is because his father treats him like garbage literally forgetting about him half the time.

[@donnar9864]

Drew was not amazing..

[@tracyl1368]

Drew was a spoilt little bugger quite frankly and his Mum enabled him..... OK the dad wasca bit of a twat and could be doing thing differently but with that said I hope Drew matured as he got older!

[@ekg891]

@@MurrmorMeerkathe’s acting out because he’s in the closet and it’s eating him up inside. Hopefully he accepted himself became a better person

[@lovinlife6941]

"You get to beat the heck out of your father"....... too funny!

[@angieuvalle2685]

I wonder if Drew ever came out to his parents.

[@jodiurlacher145]

I was wondering the same.

[@Lonnie1969s]

I dont think he had too

[@angieuvalle2685]

I do because I feel like most of his anger was that elephant in the room and he took it out on everyone else.

[@morganphenix374]

I think it was well known, he mentions how he has trouble dealing with men & relationships with men since he & his father don't get along.... several non direct comments make me think it just wasn't totally open on film. But I think it was already out & that's why his dad didn't like him. He didn't know how to have a gay son. He's gonna blossom once he moves out & is on his own path. 16 years ago show, be great to get update

[@mildredmmeywa7936]

Am imagine the same

[@carolynhough6090]

Made my night when he hugged his son!! So so awesome!!

[@kelbeegee4454]

According to Facebook, Jen divorced her lazy husband.👏

[@6626A0]

Where’s the Facebook account

[@cmtaylor]

If you google it you can see where a lawyer filed for the divorce. Not sure about the FB side of it though@@6626A0

[@WILDANDPEACEFUL23]

YAY!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@samdasilva1914]

I really enjoy seeing the husbands and kids who treat the new Mum's badly or disrespectfully realising that she's the one who gets to distribute the money. Probably some of the best moments on this show.

[@mckennabowerss]

The fatherly hug at the end made me tear up 🥺

[@rosefinley6461]

That hug was long overdue but man I could see Drew ease up a little and I really hope their relationship is better today!

[@maidahaltrecht6577]

Me too. Also when Drew talked about not being part of the family I teared up too.

[@kaynickels970]

So many things to say about this episode. Both women need their men to step up in a different way. Drew was very much drama and some chaos mixed in, but at the end when Arthur and Drew hugged bc Drew was having a bad day, it was BEAUTIFUL and you can tell it just changed his mood instantly. Arthur has that ability with Drew. Not all the time bc Drew is a teen and hard headed but just small things like that make such a big difference.

[@cmtaylor]

I was surprised at the Messina family's reaction to being told to go to therapy. It showed a really healthy state of mind that's open to healing/doing better.

[@Pretty_Mess]

Drew crying about taking kickboxing after spending the entire show punching his little brother and dad is laughable. Arthur though uptight showed a lot of restraint to not put his kid through a wall.

[@lisascott2449]

Remember, this is still a young man and should not be mocked. This could be your son or daughter.

[@eh-i1841]

@@lisascott2449he’s probably a dad himself now.Hope his behaviour has improved.

[@rosegoldbanks4842]

@@eh-i1841two men can’t have babies 😂😂

[@dgooz]

​@@rosegoldbanks4842 not too bright are ya?

[@rosegoldbanks4842]

@@dgooz actually it was bright it was a fact Bozo it’s obvious the boy is a homosexual

[@mpumesibiya8899]

I don't understand why everyone is sticking up for Drew when clearly the boy has issues. He is abusive to his younger brother simply because he's gay and he knows it. He's jealous for his younger brother for being something he can't be..... Hes giving everyone a hard time because of his own insecurities. His father is trying with him but hes so rude its ridiculous.

[@ConfidenceinChrist90]

No way! I couldn't date a man who don't wanna work. One of the first things the bible says for man to do is to cultivate the land (WORK).

[@cherylmcelveen2817]

Cultivate the land means cultivate the land. We could all learn a lesson there with the supply chains being taken down.

[@inlonging]

If he doesn’t provide for his own he’s worse than in infidel, is what it says. In the context of taking care of extended family, too. 😓

[@mayorofhalloweentown2071]

"You can get a nip or a tuck, anything u want"... lmao!!! Her face!!

[@AK-qj7pg]

Drew's brother lol..why wouldn't you want to go kick boxing, you get to kick the crap out of your father lol

[@elizabethlovesalbert]

“ You get to beat the heck out of your father!” Love that kid 😅

[@taniandmyminime1422]

Her family not gonna come off looking well!!! Lmao this chick is delusional!!

[@JennaLeeEquals3]

HEY RODNEY- THERES A DIFF BT CHOOSING TO NOT WORK & PROVIDE FOR YOUR FAMILY SO YOU DONT LIVE WITH YOUR IN-LAWS & HAVING MATERIAL THINGS TO KEEP UP WITH THE JONE’s.

[@amberrose1108]

Jenna G. Jones’s

[@bethgriesauer3825]

@@amberrose1108 - Joneses

[@JesS-Amine]

I think it's funny when Rodney's wife reads that they're to take $6000 to clear some debt and Rodney's reaction to that was to ask if it's for their younger son.

[@SusanMinhTrangNguyen]

I would rather spend the rest of my life single than be married to a guy like Rodney!

[@aniee6798]

Drew calling his mother towards the end sounded like Harold from Hey Arnold when he’d call his mother 😂

[@jiayouchinese]

25:46 "She's here. She's heeere. She's heeeeere. MOOOOMMMMYYYYY!"

[@allysonauld3416]

The Dads face in the batting cage!😂😂😂

[@Bunnysaurus_]

'She screwed me 😁 but that's to be expected' lol

[@mst_angel437]

😂😂 that was great

[@princessrockman9528]

I think he's lucky she gave him $1000! She should have stipulated that he has to use $350 of it to pay his kid back. So he needs to count his blessings because she could have REALLY screwed him!

[@yeahdawggy7677]

It’s Jack Black if Jack Black had no motivation at all

[@AK-qj7pg]

Jen deserves a better man in her life! One that pulls his weight, and provides for his family!!!

[@finallyfinally9317]

But she is happy with him. It works for them

[@helenritch9617]

They ended up divorced

[@6626A0]

@@helenritch9617 how’d you find that out

[@cmtaylor]

Google@@6626A0

[@kasapbandy1776]

For what it’s worth, The “rich” family mom is very very personable, sweet and articulate. Head on the ground. Conservative principles. She was so respectful approaching the topic of him not being like his dad *edit* WOW both moms are like that. Incredible ! This show is such an amazing documentary of the 00s human condition

[@amandaw.8524]

I wish the commercials were edited out like other channels do! 😒

[@sanaxx7635]

I remember 1st seeing this episode back in 2004. I think there is a part missing where both families invites friends over and the Messina family organized caterers and Jen was surprised as she’s so down to earth she doesn’t often use caterers for when her friends back home come over etc and she felt some of their friends were talking about her while she was there. Xx

[@TheBrittanyMonster11]

I feel like the moms on this show never truly speaks their mind when they finally meet each other. I’d be spilling ALL the tea!

[@C0yotie]

They use 2....it turned into Jerry at some points

[@melrose8213]

The grandmother, lil Ryan (?), and Derrik were my favorite. They were the only ones to speak up when the others were uncomfortable or acting out lol

[@lovinlife6941]

You have it wrong, it wasn't their family that comes off not looking so well... and to find pleasure and laugh about it, shows you just being unkind!!!

[@lisaowens2040]

Facts! I can't stand how Drew's father treated him! Pushing him, ready to throw that ball at his face, not helping when Drew asked him to make his brother stop then gets mad at Drew when he handled it in his own way. It was disgusting how he treated Drew but they act like they are the perfect family.. At the reading of the letter, the only thing I felt bad about was she picked something that's a sport for him to do with his father. That part was sad. It really hurt Drew when that was read because they had became so close.

[@christinalove6344]

Typically most deflect their unhealed emotions onto others lives rather than take the time to consider why they may find it so easy to point and judge rather than look within.

[@N.Sardone]

25:17 as Jennifer is hugging her mom Rodney is patting her butt! 😂

[@joshipp761]

I saw that too🤗

[@rhiannonmahoney1919]

I love how much Kathy hated her letter it was awesome.. She was embarrassed because she needs everyone to think they are perfect with zero issues at all.. Also Drew is amazing I would love to see an update on just Drew!!!!

[@jolee3633]

The commercials are so numerous it is crazy

[@detriotman]

Just look up Drew on Facebook he looks almost the same and I believe that he owns a limousine company along with his daddy.

[@FreddieandBrenda]

I bet in 2023 Rodney still doesn’t have a job 😂😂

[@karenlm9062]

I think no one is saying what is really going on with the son who claims he doesn't like athletic activities. Everyone needs to perform some sort of exercise to be healthy. He's just using that as an excuse for his frustration. I'm not judging; cause there's nothing wrong, but I think the son is gay. The father can't deal with it, the son is very immature expressing it, the mother probably knows and pretends to not know, and the youngest probably has no idea what is going on.

[@nathanpaul3872]

The poor kid isn't allowed to be his true self, because of his fathers clear toxic masculinity.. When you aren't allowed to express yourself, that results in anger, or suicide for a huge amount of gay people. Gay people live in a straight world

[@TheImprovised]

You would be spot on.

[@alexkennedy1820]

I love the beautiful cat.

[@letsbetogether7467]

Right?!

[@Heaven13420]

Me too gorgeous baby😻😻

[@jadeanderson1743]

Blind wife! blind Mothers! 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@aprilholton1150]

Has anyone looked any of these families or individuals up to see them today, 2020?! I am curious to know if and how there were changes. They should do a follow-up show to see them today, and show it after the first one..........

[@lisaowens2040]

You can usually find them on Facebook

[@aprilholton1150]

@@lisaowens2040 Thanks, I don't use facebook, but your right, they would probably be on it. Someone should do videos of "after the show"! It would take a lot of time, but many people seem to like to create them........

[@marty7549]

@@aprilholton1150 do it lazy

[@aprilholton1150]

@@marty7549 Excuse me?!? Wow, you must be a pleasant person to be around............

[@katie2928]

28:20 “that’s just all pretend” 🤣🤣🤣

[@inlonging]

He was right, tho. After taxes it’s nowhere near $50k and thus they wouldn’t be able to follow the new moms designations even if they wanted to.

[@Brittsawitch]

The commercials in these take me back to a happy place

[@miekam9675]

Jennifer is pretty

[@ticl8348]

She is super cute and her smile is so kind

[@ohitsmimi096]

Part of me feels like the way they split up some of the money was their way of attacking the other family.. some parts i definitely agree with though

[@ricardomoseley]

Honest. I’ve seen episodes where I think the money Is spent In a certain way . Where It’s petty as hell. All over. Llmmaaooo I be like gotdamn

[@ohitsmimi096]

@@ricardomoseley this show much be so awkward to film lol

[@lindsaysheffield]

I so wish she had given that money towards an activity Alex picked, or they compromised on. There are so many other activities they might enjoy together, something non-athletic and non-theater. I see why she picked kickboxing, but that’s still something dad will be like “you missed, try harder” instead of “that’s okay, you got this next one.”

[@coryreid8419]

Lindsay Sheffield yes true but it's drew not Alex

[@amberrose1108]

Yes

[@KylieeeP]

Bro the insurance comment was HILARIOUS 😂😭

[@hanthony6]

I think they showed Arthur in a bad light throughout because at the end he was encouraging his son. Rodney is ridiculous!!! He’s just plain lazy and should be ashamed. He’s the one that needs counseling.

[@allylondon9579]

It's funny Danoho is giving advice about Andrew to be a "man" Meanwhile, her husband is a man child

[@aarde7036]

This was great! Thanks for uploading both parts!

[@tillybinkieking7258]

I feel So for Drew. He is in a state of confusion. I do wish him very well with his life and I hope he will find out how to live how he wants to be. I also hope that at some stage his father will rack his mind and work out how it feels to bond and love. X I also feel for the middle boy, he needs to develop more and not live in the shadows. I know he is trying. Little girlie, she will know how to develop. :D

[@Katrielible]

4:12 .... She is a class act for saying what she said to him without cutting down his father like the other woman did.

[@cynartz]

I'm tired of the ads. Just give me the tea. ☕😂

[@chesterlockwood1629]

I wonder what's gunna happen when the dad finds out drew is gay.

[@yourmamacita6636]

He probably guessed and that's why he isn't comfortable around him.

[@NoudlePipW]

Writing "here's $$$ for plastic surgery" is HORRIBLE!!

[@chriswilliams203]

I know!! I thought I was the only one who thought that was dick move.

[@Lonnie1969s]

My mouth hit the ground

[@brittany1679]

"Everyone looks at the Messina family and they think that we are perfect." Wtf? Boy no . 😆. The bickering killed that delusion. The dad should be more supportive of all of his kids

[@TheHedgehogsDelimma]

"You like bird, Drew don't like bird" lol

[@MontoyaBrandy]

I believe the older boy has Asperger’s!

[@johanneabelsen1644]

I think, that they should have a trip to NY AND watch a wonderful show on Broadway!

[@susanavery5348]

Ty Tinsel!!iam by no means a tv watcher but have always liked this show..

[@coryreid8419]

Susan Avery same with partner was glad to show him for instance my friend pepper who passed November

[@susanavery5348]

@@coryreid8419 what??omg!!what happened?

[@coryreid8419]

she had numerous health struggles esp with organs KZbin showed me a show how the other half live she is on my fb next thing i know I find out she's passed it's clear tho not a legacy page yet or many posts I've felt her spirit trying to help me focus on chores and just being a little company on my boring days haven't talked to shay yet but unfortunately the other Cory blocked me pepper told me it was to fresh for him and judy didb4 pepper passed but pepper kept me as a friend we only talked sometime

[@susanavery5348]

@@coryreid8419 rest in peace pepper!!iam sorry you lost your friend..i was really impressed with Pepper and Judy and the way they parented..i hope you and peppers loved ones move swiftly into the healing process .

[@coryreid8419]

Susan Avery thanks I been thru a few deaths dad when I was 11 a few cousins and dogs grandparents only met one side of them 3 friends plus am an empath then there's exs but u already seem a cooler Susan and I've got my forever partner now so where ru from

[@SheikahSoulFamily]

Did Kathy really say JENNIFER'S family will not come off as good? Kathy has an a-hole as a husband, and angry, overly dramatic teenage son and she's bitter. But no, Jennifer and HER family are the problem. LMAO

[@autobotdiva9268]

drew has 4 letters in his name and i would get him together in 3. she wouldnt trade rodney in for nothing, what do they have to trade?

[@effedorf]

I thought Jen was going to send Drew to Drama School.

[@WILDANDPEACEFUL23]

ME TOO!!! That would've been perfect !

[@AnnaVaralli]

Laying in bed recovering from the flu and stumbled on this gem, where a grown man who doesn’t hold down a job, support his family, lives in his MIL’s home and can’t comb his own hair, is laughing at haven taken $340. of his son’s money and left $.24 in the kids account!!!!! I’m so angry I think I just exploded my fever away. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

[@kerrydehorney2949]

So wrong for talking about her body image like that. Gym membership and cosmetic surgery that was way too much you would being a mean girl

[@corianne2099]

Well, it wouldn't surprise me if her husband Arthur was screwing around on her so a gym membership might be good. Plus she needs to have her own interests.

[@natalierichter8245]

And in my opinion Jennifer was way worse body wise

[@amberrose1108]

It’s too personal and not appropriate

[@billslojkowski4197]

The wealthy mom is snooty!

[@jodiurlacher145]

I want to know what the 3 page letter said, that Drew gave whatever her name was. This was one of the worst episodes. Both of the husbands were absolute assholes! Even the kids were a hot mess. I’m glad some serious money was allocated to Grandma! She keeps that family functioning and deserves some recognition and something that’s just hers and isn’t about the entire family! I’m still in awe with how horrible and wickedly rude each husband was. Hopefully after this episode aired and they watched it back, they realize what embarrassing clowns they were and changed their ways.

[@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat]

🙄 Two of the worst husbands ever.

[@joshipp761]

I too am curious what the letter said Drew wrote

[@mitchvalencia9200]

anyone think that was jack black portraying chris pratt character from parks and rec

[@AnaliseFrank]

jen did not portray Arthur as an arrogant man; its just hard to take feedback sometimes no matter how its dished out. They are both wonderful, respectable women.

[@elisestokes6961]

Rodney was sweet how happy he was to see his wife and give her a sneaky pat on the bum 😂