Hi girl, Hope you're well. The reason why many women (excluding pick me-s) put up with bad behavior is because the men are funding (a sizeable chunk of) their lifestyles. Whether it's the college girl on Seeking or the wife who removed herself from the workforce to raise the kids, the women are dependent on the men's finances. So until she plans and executes her exit, she is trapped. Which is why women need: 1. Their own money 2. Property in their name only 3. A solid prenup or cohabitation agreement which specifies her stuff remains hers and what compensation she gets upon separation 4. Her own car in her name, paid out of her account, especially to escape abusive situations 5. A friend or family to fall back on till getting back on her feet, or at least enough money to stay in a hotel for a couple of weeks when making her exit. Buying a condo and renting it out is wonderful tactic, the rent takes care of the mortgage payments, it's an asset that can be sold and the money used in old age or hard times, a legacy to give to your daughter and a place for you to go to if the primary residence is hostile.
@MichelePearl2 жыл бұрын
Yes I have ALWAYS said this
@aphroditeg2712 Жыл бұрын
The key is to recognize untrainable ones as well, and not wasting YOUR energy on them. #walkaway
@Alexcatchh2 жыл бұрын
Treat 👏🏻men 👏🏻like👏🏻 dogs 👏🏻
@Sgreenenov132 жыл бұрын
Ah toxicity
@Alexcatchh2 жыл бұрын
@@Sgreenenov13 yes
@JungkookBestBoy12 жыл бұрын
We have to sadly haha
@Sgreenenov132 жыл бұрын
@@Alexcatchh It ain't cute. More like childish
@cherie4744 Жыл бұрын
@@Sgreenenov13cry bout it
@pri4358 Жыл бұрын
Love this.."train a man like you would train a dog" lol
@cc_chi1232 жыл бұрын
💯 VERY true. If he's not treating you like his dream woman... remove yourself and keep it moving!
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
Never be afraid to leave and replace them
@MM-mf1vr2 жыл бұрын
Please more about standing on own boundaries.
@nothingbutme11502 жыл бұрын
You are so right because the beginning sets the tone for the rest of the relationship always
@MoveInSilence0003 ай бұрын
Yes you have to train them to respect you!!! Do not be a pick mesha because he will walk all over you. This is a good video. Men do whatever they want to pick mesha women. Reward them when they do good and punish them when they disrespect you be silent or remove yourself completely let that jerk go. Yes he got disrespectful with me and I got up and left without warning.
@onyekachi96622 жыл бұрын
This is Genius.
@KTD888 Жыл бұрын
Girl you fucking rock. Thanks for sharing your winner mentality
@selfologyy Жыл бұрын
No more explaining you aren’t his mom. I’m directing this statement to all women. He KNOWS he’s being disrespectful he just doesn’t give a shit and if he doesn’t give a shit, you WALK.
@LaValkyRican2 жыл бұрын
I completely adore you. You are a Gem on YT. Especially for me. Thank you Always. You are absolutely right about everything* on your channel. I be forgetting sometimes. F that BS! Cry in the corner! 🤣🤣🤣 Yezzz! Lol Blessed be My Love! 🤩🥰
@biancapomponio40992 жыл бұрын
You are my favourite mentor
@MichelePearl2 жыл бұрын
This man I was dating always asked me out for another date after the date but this time he didn’t so what did I do? I occupied myself with another man. #Rotation
@Moon-qt5ep2 жыл бұрын
I love your stories
@anonymousfourth24912 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for making me feel powerful
@Askandyoushallreceive2 жыл бұрын
You saved my dignity , this came at the right time.thnk you a lot 🙏💓💞
@indigohelps77152 жыл бұрын
Love you… I love your arrogance… so attractive
@Vanillababe72 жыл бұрын
You are very smart. Love your content. I try to learn from you. Eventho I was always beautiful I always let men treat me badly because of my very self esteem was. Deep down I believed I dont deserve better. I improve slowly. Yet eventho I'm pretty and I take care of myself...I only attract men on dating apps who want to date me on park benches. 🙄🙄 Or who are stingy and dont like to spend money on women...you can see the pain in their eyes when they buy me some food in a restaurant. What can I do about it? Also I live in Germany and feminism ruined a lot here. Too many women go 50/50 on everything and teach men that its ok and acceptable. So men get used to it. And then they hate it when they have a women in front of them that is old school. They feel used for money. I don't know how to deal with that. It makes me feel guilty for wanting a provider. And then I accept less than what I want. What can I do about it? How can I sort them out right away? How can I recognize the f*bloys on the apps right away? Those are the worst. I attract so many of them on the apps...it ruins the entire experience for me. I would be so grateful if you make a video on it. 🙏
@adaoraochiobi8060 Жыл бұрын
Stop using dating apps, Go out to nice places Set your standards and boundaries with these men Be ready to leave him if he disrespects you The extremely wealthy men don’t mind spending money on women they really like. If he doesn’t spend he doesn’t like you. Men love to provide for the women they want.
@codycrowe67492 жыл бұрын
Im so grateful for this channel thank you hun x
@nothingbutme11502 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video about the crazy eyes than men have on dating apps ? You did mention this in your old videos.
@انتصاراسماعيل-غ1و2 жыл бұрын
From Yemen iwatch your video thanx💜
@lorenajules465110 ай бұрын
You give some good real talk! Love your videos!
@dreamsculptor112 жыл бұрын
Good Content, it resonates so much with me, i've been there before.
@MM-mf1vr2 жыл бұрын
What if I dont recognise my boundaries?
@antoinettecollins80796 ай бұрын
16:42 💯👏🏾💯👏🏾💯👏🏾
@mynameisess2 жыл бұрын
Misssed you miss girl 🥰
@flyfly51722 жыл бұрын
Thank God your back
@yumazou35202 жыл бұрын
Facts!❤missed you girl, thank you!
@jennifergordon70832 жыл бұрын
You are awesome! Love it!! ❤
@yudollia2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL !!!!!!!!!
@MichelePearl Жыл бұрын
You are teaching me. I got earrings, a bag, tons of chocolate, flowers and dinner for Valentines Day. What did I give him? The pleasure of my company. I was dressed to kill. ❤No sex. Not yet.
@KimBrce Жыл бұрын
Please do a video how you find all these men so easily, how do you make them approach you and without dating apps cause there are more patients lol. My standards include men who are emotionally mature(respectful), emotionally available, hardworking and into personal growth (you can't force someone into this). And these ones are hard to find.
@shanamohanty2253 Жыл бұрын
can you pls do a video on how to get started to start this journey of being the supreme lady and get any man and the right man... just tips on how to n where to start from
@madylines6364 Жыл бұрын
You can do all this things when THE MAN LOVES YOU because if it's not the case girl you played yourself 😂🤷🏾♀️
@SamartL-w2q9 ай бұрын
I am a guy, i watch your videos and learn to be a better man. I love your videos! 😇
@Lightmotivationofficial Жыл бұрын
We need more videos sis
@MichelePearl2 жыл бұрын
Accutane is magic
@julijakeit2 жыл бұрын
💯
@ronilevy417 Жыл бұрын
SHOW A MAN THAT YOU ARE LOOKING AT HOT MEN PICTURES INFROMT OF HIM -- IF HE LOOKS AT HOT WOMEN !! DO NOT BOTHER SOWING HIM THAT YOU ARE ANGRY JUST PULL THE PHONE AND LOOK AT HOT MEN AND SMILE ,AND LOOK TURNED ON ,LET HIM BE ANGRY AND JEALOUS!!