Trans Woman REACTS | Dylan Mulvaney's "Days of Girlhood" music video

[@ReginaBerg90]

Thank you for saying this. There is a difference between women and trans women. Dylan definitely plays up caricatures of women that are untrue and misogynistic. When I see trans women having compassion, understanding, and respect for women it is easy to see them for who they are and welcoming them into womens spaces.

[@Glenn959]

W.

[@heidiraitio8660]

Its Great that theyre showing respect for women. But they still dont belong in our spaces, theyre men. Im sorry but The truth matters.

[@GreyDoofus88]

In Mulvaney's mind, it's a journey of self discovery to become more 'feminine' by adopting such a pathetic and infantile perspective on what it means to be a woman.

[@Marsase]

Hallelujah ✋ and they are not the trans people that scream on top of their lungs "YOU MUST RESPECT MEEEEE!!!"

[@kadebebesis4204]

@@Marsase the ones who scream and make demands aren’t trans women, they’re entitled men with autogynephilia.

[@JarethTheGoblinKingForever]

Dylan is making a mockery of both the trans experience and the female experience. Good to see more trans women speaking out and denouncing this grifting troll. Dylan is hijacking the trans rights movement and making millions of dollars doing it.

[@RommelAngus2]

@@JarethTheGoblinKingForever lol

[@emilybusby6922]

Dylan had an incredible opportunity to spread a real message here and squandered it instead. What a shame. How about we write a song about being a man- some of the lyrics can include: “Monday morning, out of bed; Feet hit the floor and I farted. On my way to use the bath; hand down my pants to scratch my ass…” The lyrics to Dylan’s song read like this to me. It’s a disgusting overgeneralization of a stereotype of what being a woman or a girl is.

[@CharliStar]

😂😂😂😂😂 crying right now……. You should send the song lyrics to a parody KZbinr and get them to make a boy version - this is spot on as a reverse 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ericah6546]

HAHAH 🤣🤣🤣

[@user-whitedove]

Blasphemy

[@SM-so8hh]

It's miles better than Dylan's lyrics 😂😂😂

[@lesliemorganking3283]

I LOVE the lyrics.

[@americangirl6654]

Biological woman here. I was tearing up when you were explaining what being a woman meant to you. Thank you so much for being respectful, not just to biological women but also to people like Dylan. In our frustration and anger it is so easy to forget that the people who upset us are ultimately people at the end of the day with feelings. We also generalize and take out our anger on people like you who are just caught in the middle. I hope you know that you are appreciated and the women in your life are blessed to have you in it :)

[@KatlynJShute]

Oh my god Alexis I love your comment, “I am a guest in the this gender of womanhood, I am not an owner” that is a wonderful way to express what it means to be a trans women. And many women will welcome you with loving open arms as our guest, as long as you are respectful and don’t try to become the owner of it yourself. Thank you Alexis for not being afraid to call out the bad behavior of people in your own community even if it means getting backlash for voicing your opinions. It would be easier for you to remain silent and just go with the crowd but, you are not afraid to stand up and call out problematic behavior.

[@drrusselldelderfield817]

Me too. That really struck me about Alexis explaining her take. It immediately made sense.

[@marblelemonade76]

I still feel like it's transphobic, not only that but incredibly self centered and selfish to believe anyone can "OWN" a gender. Everyone experiences it in different ways, and i know you're the type to treat trans men as women. Seeing trans people as "Guests" will always be transphobic, because then you arent seeing them as their gender

[@freddiebiscuit9703]

KatlynJShute Albeit an uninvited one with a great many women!

[@Eragarev]

I think Dylan is a straight-up actor. Like, an actual commercial invention that they can't quite put back in the box yet.

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

agreed

[@paulalord710]

Just a thought could this be coming from a political supporters??

[@sophiacalon3463]

Go look their selves on the internet, being “trans” is what gave them the fame they’re so thirsty about.

[@shirleysp8176]

​@@sophiacalon3463he's fake.

[@di_r67]

You are absolutely correct.

[@misfitm1457]

Dylan isn't and never has been transgender, someone *saying* they are doesn't make it so. I'm just sick of males talking about our issues, forcing us out of our spaces etc. I feel for transsexuals who are just wanting to get on with life

[@Danyem]

Someone is a comment box above mentioned Autogynephilia, and it lit up a light bulb! I think that's closer than MTF 😅

[@Satanna.avemaria]

Same here

[@sophiacalon3463]

THEY JUST WANT TO BE FAMOUS😭 Dylan has tried again and again to be famous and only made it as being a “trans woman” not a woman who turns out to be trans.

[@deborahbreeden4394]

Alexis, you aren't mocking me. The respect that you give women ❤❤ comes right back at you, dear. ❤❤

[@kimberlyjones3234]

That's exactly how I feel about Alexis. ❤️

[@samanthaharrington8713]

Me too I absolutely love Alexis! She is so beautiful, and classy inside and out! When I think of how a trans woman should be, I think of her....

[@americangirl6654]

Perfectly said. I feel nothing but respect.

[@jennifera6799]

Honestly, when I listen to what Alexis says, I truly don't spend any time thinking about whether she is Trans or a "real" woman. I just think that she is a very genuine person and that I'd love the opportunity to have her as a friend. Side note, in attitude and personality, Alexis reminds me of Audrey Heburn, another truly admirable lady.

[@Tabiekat4Race]

​@@jennifera6799that is how I want to feel about all the trans community but the people acting out doesn't seem to be sincere

[@lilauberginedonson1193]

I'm a British 14 year old girl and I'm going to be honest, I think people should do what they want, as long as it is not directly impacting others negatively, but I never really felt that I could support trans peoples decisions. I think that is mainly because the first trans person I was exposed to was Dilan, and I felt she was narcissistic and made a mockery of being a girl and a woman. However, when I watch first watched one of your videos, my opinion on trans women completely changed and then I realised I had been put off from supporting trans people because of Dilan and a lot of trans influencers I has seen online. I was usually left feeling insulted and mocked after watching their videos. But then I found you, and began to realise that the trans people online were only a very small portion of the trans community. I feel my experience really demonstrates how Dilan and many other trans influencers are creating controversy around the entire community, and I'm so incredibly sorry that you are being affected by the carelessness and narcissism of others. ❤❤

[@breannankolb]

You are still young but i can promise you, outside of the internet the majority of trans people aren’t like dylan. One of my best friends are trans but they still go by their biological gender at work. It sucks but they rather that then potentially be fired because of being trans.

[@emilybeaumont7104]

I’m 16 and British too and I completely agree with you! I think at the end of the day trans people should be allowed to exist as who they believe that they are because at the end of the day that doesn’t effect me. However, people like Dylan constantly effect biological women and degrading them. He has the same views on what women are as men do so I feel like he might not actually be trans? I’m not sure I just don’t believe his efforts are genuine.

[@jessicaguarin3897]

@@breannankolb I am a trans woman, but at the beginning of my hormonal transition while I still looked like a man I kept going into the men's room, I kept dressing masculine and kept using my male pronouns while I waited for my body to change.... until at one point, when I went to the men's room, it was the same men who told me that I was going to the wrong bathroom (because they started to see me as a woman), that was the signal to change my pronouns, my name, my type of clothes and start entering the women's room with total respect.

[@Julybaby12619]

Beautiful comment @lilaubeginedonson1193. I am so happy that you found Alexis' channel. I just found it and I have immense respect for her and the Trans community. It's such a shame that the rights they have worked so hard for can be undermined by someone who is using the shock factor for attention, and to become famous.

[@CassTheStinkyChicken]

I was like you once.. just live your life and ignore all this political BS until your 30 lol. BE YOUNG! You only get ONE YOUTH

[@mindlevert5322]

Dylan winning woman of the year was the biggest slap in the face to women who have had to FIGHT for basic rights.

[@kittysoftpaws3677]

And we still aren't treated like people. Insane.

[@Celephinn]

She had to fight to become the woman she is today. And T-women are still fighting for basic rights. Sooo….

[@Krazy4Pink_Kerry]

I am a biological woman & a proud mother to my little boy. I am NOT a cis woman. I find Dylan SOOO extremely offensive. I really do. I feel like she is mocking me/women, knows that she is and doesn’t care in the slightest and I just feel if a biological woman was to do the same and was to mock Trans women and be so offensive I believe it would not be accepted for a single second and they would get cancelled before you could even say the word cancelled. Yet because this is Dylan we just have to put up with it. Why is she demanding everyone be so accepting of her but she doesn’t have to do the same for us. The reason I LOVE Alexis so much is because she is the True representation of a True Trans Woman and just think she is amazing. She takes Biological womens feelings into account and does not try to deny facts. She does not mock women she simply wants to be accepted while also being respectful. Alexis you are 1000% are accepted and you absolutely are a woman. A very beautiful and kind woman. Yes a Trans woman but still very much still a woman. However I do not feel that same way about Dylan and I just wish that Alexis was the one in Dylan position. Being the face (basically) of Trans women, getting all the bran deals and opportunities etc Because I honestly feel if Alexis was in Dylan position so many more people who are either on the fence, been pushed over the fence because of people like Dylan or those who maybe don’t understand. I feel so many of them would be way more accepting seeing someone like Alexis representing the Trans women community. So not only is Dylan hurting Biological Women she is also hurting other Trans Women also.

[@Aryana70]

Well said 😊

[@andreacoles5947]

I was going to comment but there's no point because you said it so perfectly. I completely agree.

[@Krazy4Pink_Kerry]

@@andreacoles5947 wow thank you 😊

[@Krazy4Pink_Kerry]

@@Aryana70 thanks ☺️

[@pommiebears]

I always say “it is not me who needs a prefix”. I am a woman. It perfectly describes what I am. Trans woman perfectly describes what they may be. I don’t need “cis” because they have “trans”. I also find it deeply offensive.

[@RachaelLink]

What concerns me is that Dylan said that the days of girl hood started as a joke. That's what concerns me.

[@missshannonsunshine]

What? Where?

[@RachaelLink]

@@missshannonsunshine Search ultra the beauty of girlhood with Dylan Mulvaney. On there Dylan says something about making a 'coming out video' the day before releasing the days of girlhood video as a joke.

[@bridgetilardo7878]

Yep. He was literally just bored AF during COVID, and made a “funny” video. He’s been mocking women ever since.

[@britpoppansy]

Like it's a "joke" to be a girl or a woman...infuriating...

[@shirleysp8176]

That's what happened. He made a "joke" video where he dressed in little girl clothing - like a 4 Yr old would wear - skipped around saying "look, I'm a girl. It's not that hard". He then poked fun at women. It went viral. Previously he'd been pretty much a non-entity with bit parts on stage and numerous appearances on game shows (see his appearance on the price is right. Cringeworthy). So overnight he amassed a huge following and he made another. It grew into "day 1 of being a girl" ..."day 12 of being a girl" thing. He actively sought sponsorship deals - possible because he was trending - and discovered "being a girl" was very lucrative. Watch. When the money, fame and attention dries up, his next performance will be "day 1 of being a boy again..."

[@Alexandraandersdottir]

Alexis, as another trans woman, I want to thank you for making this video. It is frustrating that Dylan continues to make the trans community look bad in front of the world, profits from it, and then cries transphobia when faced with backlash. This type of behaviour is disgusting, it creates stereotypes about trans people, and makes people less tolerant of us. It honestly feels like many of us trans people who do not support Dylan’s behaviour need to collaborate on a video calling her out. I am not sure how else we can stop this crap.

[@sophiacalon3463]

Dylan isn’t trans. That’s why they’re acting that way. They don’t want to be seen as a woman. They want to be seen as a trans woman. If you look them up, they’ve tried so many times to be famous. The “trans” identity made them get that fame. Dylan isn’t trans, it’s probably histrionic personality disorder or something similar

[@emzkoe3904]

It's actually been crazy to me to see trans people go to bat for Dylan. Dylan has been trans for 2 seconds and has been given so many opportunities that trans people who have been doing serious activism for years could ever hope to get. And it's also sad because there is something so clearly off and effed up about Dylan as a person that keeps getting conflated with being trans. The shit Dylan presents doesn't look like a trans woman navigating being a woman.. it looks like somebody living out some weird girlhood fetish.

[@johnward4239]

Trans women are MEN wearing womanhood just like blackface

[@ewuraakua9653]

Exactly that the fact that he didn't even bother changing his name speaks volumes

[@PikaNaNoDa]

💯

[@rosemaryherrick9273]

As a 77 year old lesbian I applaud you. I am grateful I had met several trans men and women before Dylan burst on the scene. You are an exemplar for the trans community, thank you for continuing to voice your truth and opinions. As a psychologists, I know that people tend to be drawn to negativity. Yet not all humans do. I also clearly remember coming out at 28 and feeling asif I was repeating my adolescence and feeling some dissonance as an adult woman. Again, thank you and stay safe🥰

[@HanChap2]

Yes! My first encounter with a trans woman was the saddest experience ever and I carry her in my heart, always. I was training as a nurse and doing a placement on an orthopedic ward. Most of the female patients in the bay were elderly with broken hips. One of my female patient's was Trans. She had a very masculine look about her so the other female patients kept complaining. I spent a lot of time with my trans patient and it turned out she was in hospital because she had fractured her hip and leg. This poor Trans woman had cancer in her bones, metastasized from breast cancer... Genuinely, welling up as I'm writing this... Her breast cancer was being fed by her hormones, so she'd had to stop her hormone therapy and the consequences of that was that some of her masculine features started to return. This amazing Trans woman, had fought to transition and be accepted back in the early 2000's when people weren't as accepting. She finally got to live the life she wanted, and needed, for life to be so cruel to her. She was ostracized by almost everyone she knew. I was with her when she died because I couldn't stand the thought of her dying alone. That lady taught me so much about what it's like to be Trans and I will always be grateful and inspired by her. There are always a handful of patients that we never forget and this beautiful soul was one of mine.

[@Insightful_Hilarity]

Wow, I really like you a lot! I am a woman by birth, I have listened to so many of your vids and you have changed my perspective regarding trans women in a very positive way😊. Thank you.

[@jdranetz]

Dylan, as you UK folks would say, is "taking a piss". You are sincere.

[@sjanex]

Bless you 😂❤ but it’s actually “taking THE piss”

[@lynnval33]

He absolutely is, he is a con man grifter doing this for financial gain, look what that university paid him, thats funds that could have been spent on computers etc not this fool

[@jdranetz]

@@sjanex I stand corrected. 😄

[@pommiebears]

Yes, taking the piss, is exactly what they’re doing. Someone needs a word with Dylan in their shell like. 😂 I know you won’t understand, but trust me….I’m agreeing with you, me old China. 😊

[@pyramid-ukulele-group]

ROFL 😂 ‘Taking THE piss’ yes, then another one is ‘Taking the Micky’ ….. Does anyone know the origin of that one ?

[@lynnval33]

Dylan has pushed the trans acceptance way back to the beginning

[@itsjxomusic]

I'm so glad more of us are standing up to this bullshit now. So many trans women & women are sick of this.... Love you for keeping it real Alexis!! I wanted to add that I transitioned at 15 (I'm now 34), and back in 2005, the world was just opening up to the idea of Trans. There was not as much hate back then as there is now. It's crazy how 18 years later, this is what the movement has become. It's causing harm to us rather than educating. It's no surprise that people get angry, but then, we also get clashed with their behaviour and that's the annoying part. I hope Dylan really sits down and considers her next steps carefully. More and more of us are starting to stand up so hopefully our voices will be louder than theirs soon and people can see that we are not all like this!!! xxx

[@lortonmusic6778]

I love your comment and as a woman, I welcome you with welcoming arms. I wish you so much happiness and peace.💗

[@itsjxomusic]

Thank you so much Lorton ♥️ seriously, I hope this ends because it affects so many people. Your voices arw important as are you spaces and I hope one day, we wont have to be dealing with this. Its crazy because back when I was younger, youd make every effort to look socially as the gender you wish to be percieved. Today, you can put a wig on and boom... You're a "woman". I get why women are mad at that, cos we are too. Don't ever be quiet, keep speaking up because genuine trans women are behind you!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Much love angel x​@@lortonmusic6778

[@geometerfpv2804]

I'm really glad you understand that all this is making trans acceptance worse. We really didn't care before...live and let live. It's only once this movement spiraled out of control and started demanding more and more power and attention that we started caring. I had no problem with the trans idea when I was growing up. Now, it seems like a huge problem...they think they are fighting for acceptance, but they're really going backwards.

[@Cloudy_blue34]

As a transgender man, who is dating a transgender woman, I hate Dylan's misogyny, whether or not she actually is transgender or just pretending she does promote a lot of stereotypes as the "norm", my gf is a girly girl but doesn't promote it as the norm.

[@Persia_artist]

As a 64yr old woman who has been wondering what the necks happening to us, I thank you from my heart for what you said and who you are... Thankyou

[@deborahcarroll2172]

Alexis, you hit it on the head. Right from the beginning, Dylan always uses these misogynistic stereotypes to describe what it is to be a woman. I don't believe she truly wants to be a woman. He is just giving a well-paid performance.

[@loumac]

So true.

[@Theworstaltinthesystem]

Totally. That's when she's being a woman not an 8 year old girl 😂

[@rowanstarling3816]

Dylan is an actor, not a true trans woman. He is being well paid to play a terrible part. All Trans women and women should unite against this farce.

[@paulineb66]

He's a troll.

[@wild_gypsy_rose]

The performance of a lifetime

[@katiecoollady]

Alexis you are such a wonderful spokesperson for transwomen.

[@katiecoollady]

PS I have seen you joyful and happy though your transition even though you have also dealt with difficulties.

[@joanneeaston2334]

I’ve stumbled upon you and your video. This is the first I’ve watched and I like how you debated with yourself and gave Dylan an honest and constructive criticism of this song and music video. Think she is as people say “woman facing”. In my opinion she’s mocking woman and trans woman the same which is causing a bigger divide. Take care x

[@norwalkspectator5275]

There is an expression in Polish that describes Dylan perfectly -- "niekulturalne". You, Alexis, are the exact opposite.

[@violetah.8675]

I love it how you managed to stay eloquent and logical and respectful throughout the video eventhough you mentioned the topic frustrates you. It is a rare thing to see these days.

[@JMC5991]

I am a gay man. I will never ever know what you go through as a trans woman. But I do respect the women in my life and I unfortunately have always been against and upset how Dylan has been portraying "what a woman is". I say unfortunately because I don't want to feel negatively like that towards a person. However, I have never met a single woman that acts that way and a lot of that stuff is private if it does happen. They acknowledge how this may affect more people around with their actions, although it seems like fame is more important than the community they claim to be a part of. I sincerely hope Dylan's actions are not lasting against you or any other trans person and real women out there.

[@amycalifornia3615]

I find the lyrics are disheartening and sad that “she” feels that’s all women have to offer! Every woman in my family is soooo strong

[@rachelb1502]

True...but you also get biological women making these type videos and these type lyrics too... misogyny sells unfortunately

[@Terminal_Boneitis]

Putting she in quotation marks makes it seem you actually just have a problem with trans people

[@kadda1212]

​@@rachelb1502I consider that just as problematic. There are some female influencers who made these kind of videos and songs. Content wise it's a bit like bad rap music: just about sex and money and drinking. So the gender aspect is usually secondary. It's a weird display of new money and self-obsession. To now explicitly slap the gender label on it and make it about "girlhood" instead of just "That's my life, look how much better I have it than you, I can sip champagne in the morning and have a pool and a giant bed with silken bedsheets"...well...very questionable.

[@scotthix2297]

Dylan is a cartoon. No one speaks for real women but real women.

[@pommiebears]

My great grandmother had 11 children. 4 of them died in childhood. Two from measles, and two from other illnesses. My great grandmother was 4’9” tall, and she was as strong as a tree. She once put a brick in her little bag, went around to my aunt’s house, and when her husband answered the door, my great grandmother hit him with her handbag, because he had hit my aunt, and my great grandmother found out. I was a teenager when she passed away, and she told me funny, sad, amazing stories, about her life. She survived wars, twice. ❤

[@becorations1]

I do not see Dylan as trans but rather drag. Dylan did this for attention, and if you look at Dylan’s past, you will see. I do feel offended by the things Dylan says and does, as Dylan is a caricature of women. Dylan is not a true rep of trans women. I find you to be so respectful and wish you were the face of trans women. You are beautiful and kind and empathetic and have common sense. That’s what the community needs. We love ya, Alexis! PS The flaming hands had me laughing for real. 😂

[@koraliee]

I feel the same way, but I feel like Dylan is even worse than drag. At least drag queens admit that it's a caricature meant for entertainment purposes only. Dylan is prancing around claiming that womanhood = makeup, emotional instability, and frivolous spending.

[@Avarcirith]

Exactly. Drag is fun because it is openly an art form, a caricature. But when you're Dylan Mulvaney and insisting you ARE a woman, no, you cannot treat womanhood as a caricature and revel in stereotypes. It's just blatantly offensive.

[@Radi0_Silence]

i’m a trans guy and i completely understand what you mean about being diffrent from cis women. I often tend to use the disabled toilets or single changing rooms because I don’t want to discomfort both the women spaces and the men spaces , i hope that some day i pass enough to go to men’s spaces but for now I feel it would make both genders very uncomfortable for me to go in and i want to be respectful of people

[@janinegriffiths8281]

Please my dear biological women are not cis women. We are just women. We would appreciate being respected by not being referred to as such. Thank you.

[@jackiejohnson1252]

I really don't know how the word 'cis' came about, but I bloody hate it!!! 😡 I really don't care what you are, what colour you are etc etc if that makes YOU happy, but please don't call us 'cis' women. Thank you 😊😊

[@rippawolf]

As another trans man, 2 years into HRT, in a red state where I have to use a public restroom at work everyday. I’m gonna pass on some advice to my brother here. The most awkward part is waiting for a stall to open. Take out your phone and lean against the wall. Play games or reply to texts, just look distracted. Wearing headphones helps too. No one’s going to wonder why you aren’t using a urinal, they’re gonna assume you have to crap. Men also pee in the stalls with the door closed or open all the time. Some like the extra privacy the walls provide. No one comments on it. Getting your period is awkward cause of the rustling. I’d recommend pocketing your waste from that till you’re outside the restroom if possible cause most stalls don’t have personal waste bins. But again, headphones help there cause you aren’t as aware of the noise you’re making. And no one’s ever commented on it to me. Hope this has helped

[@terraflora7030]

Thank you! I appreciate you not using the womens bathroom.

[@Tictacsizesoul]

Cis…

[@kristibott2437]

I am a 50 year old biological woman. I’m also a lifelong conservative. For the majority of my life, I have known trans women through work, the gym, basically all of the places you interact with people. Never, in the first 40+ years of my life, did I ever feel any negative feelings towards trans women at all. I never felt threatened, afraid, uncomfortable, or hateful towards any trans woman I can ever remember knowing. That is because every single one of them I ever knew just wanted to be a woman, and fit in just fine with the rest of us. These were truly trans women and, as a conservative, I can assure you that none of my conservative friends felt any differently than I did. We certainly didn’t hate trans people. As an outsider looking in, it is like trans women ( and men) have done a complete 180 on public behavior. Now, instead of wanting to be one of the women, and join the sisterhood, for lack of a better word, now it is all about “activism.’ It’s about trying to stand out, often in a very obnoxious way. It’s about threatening biological women by saying things like “ I will offend/frighten/insult/etc. you, and you have no right to say one word about it.” That is not how a true trans woman or man behaves, I obviously cannot speak for trans people, but I have noticed that all of them I knew previously would be horrified by that behavior. This comment is getting too long, but I have only scratched the surface. I do want to ask, have you seen Dylan Mulveney’s “work” prior to his Days of Girlhood? He was a gay man who would do obnoxious things to try to become famous. I don’t begrudge him for that, but it wasn’t working. He was kind of talented, so things may have worked out the way he wanted. Unfortunately, he literally stumbled across this Days of Girlhood schtick and it became successful literally overnight. I’m not surprised he ran with it, since that seemed to have been his goal, but I also do not believe for one second that he is truly a trans woman. I’m truly sorry that he, and people like him, are representing the true trans community at all, because you are right, it is insulting to literally everyone. I understand thee fear of trans rights being taken away, but with the exception of transitioning children. I don’t think that will ever, ever happen. We are just going through an unfortunate time.

[@KateLibby555]

This!!!! This is why we love you Alexis!!! You are always so incredibly eloquent, intelligent and thoughtful in your responses. You represent women’s concerns with the same compassion and respect as you do for trans women’s. You are not just the representation that trans people should aspire to but a person that everyone should aspire to be too. Keep using your voice, we are listening ❤️❤️

[@samanthajohnston842]

Alexis, you're absolutely not part of the problem. You always create videos with nuance, and you always remind us to bring a little compassion to those you're talking about. Its quite refreshing to have a critical commentator like you speaking up because you're not punching down on people or a group minority as say, Candace Owens or Brett. You bring a lot of reason, and a lot of light into a space thats so volatile.

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

This!

[@elenawilliams32]

Also, Dylan turned off the comments on this video mocking women and the like to dislike ratio a few days ago was around 4,000 to 40,000+. Dylans misogyny has annoyed both women and transwomen with this one. Eew.

[@AMcG-hf6yx]

Think it's now over 71k now. I'm tired of this clown. It's a detriment to the trans movement.

[@loumac]

He seems to be incapable of learning from his mistakes too. He constantly offends women but doesn’t try to change his behaviour.

[@deedee7733]

Yeah, she's in a hole and she just keeps digging. The whole video (well, the first 30 seconds of it, I could hear my brain cells dying) is tone deaf. She has been very poorly advised and in that respect I feel sorry for her.

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

@@loumac He is either getting paid to do it on purpose and stir up strife. Most likely, it's just because he's a total attention whore and he knows it gets him tons of attention. Who care if it's negative, that can be even better, since it keeps the contraversy going and keeps your name in headlines. All sort of pop stars or actresses used to live to be notorious.

[@americangirl6654]

Even men are offended. Everyone is angry, but Dylan is laughing all the way to the bank.

[@zarajones5428]

giiiirrlll you are criminally underrated! This is the first sensible take on this I’ve actually heard. Also the hair is HAIRING😍😍

[@mysticmama_3692]

As a woman...I thought this was the most misogynistic production I'd seen in a long time. If this is how Dylan sees women...then he truly has no idea what a woman even IS. I normally don't misgender trans people...but Dylan is so disrespectful to biological women that I feel no need to respect his preferred titles.

[@aimzeeee]

Alexis, you’re always on point. Your opinions and views are very well thought out and poignant. As a biological woman, Dylan infuriates me., as someone who respects the transgender community, Dylan infuriates me. Dylan is NOT a representative for the transgender community. Nor for biological women. It’s an insult to both. Thank you Alexis for being modest and respectful ❤ ❤❤

[@JenBurnett-l5j]

This. 100%. I have a friend with a transgender child. The struggle that child has gone through to decide to make the change. The counseling (not from radical counsellors) the group sessions. Choosing names, social transitioning, etc. it’s a whole journey. Watching his mom loose her son, but gain a daughter. It has been eye opening.

[@marylacken4016]

The trans community epecially trans women have a problem with their representatives. Be it Dylan, Blossom and many very loud transwomen more. They are either silly or entitled. That is why your voice is so much needed. We have one trans woman who is going against this behavior in Germany, too. She is loved and respected by many " normal" people but hated by the community, sadly. Although she is doing much more for trans acceptance than the bullies! I see you in the same spot, being a voice of reason. I see you putting so much effort to walk the world as a woman. And I highly respect that. You don't give me these "male vibes" many transwomen on social media have: always demanding and sometimes even threatening women. It is so comforting to see nice and loving trans women like you, Alexis. I hope your channel grows because you are a good representative. ❤

[@beccee3712]

I have seen quite a few reaction videos to Dylan’s song where people seemed almost triumphant about how superficial Dylan’s song is. This is the first video that really seemed to highlight the disappointment, and emotional and social impact of Dylan’s actions. Alexis you are so well spoken, I appreciate that you want to consider Dylan’s feelings whilst still acknowledging that you’re upset and your feelings are valid too. You do understand what it means to be a woman, and that counts for a lot. Just keep being you

[@amyme4066]

I think they're delighted because the song proves everything they've been saying about Dylan since the start. It's a shtick, making money off playing a role and making waves regardless of the impact on anyone else. Dylan only cares about Dylan and does whatever is necessary to gain fame and notoriety. Sadly this then reflects on the whole community until said community speaks out and says no, this does NOT represent us. I am one of those who has little sympathy or empathy for Dylan Mulvaney because I feel very strongly this is just an act and just as strongly that it is damaging the trans image.

[@katherinesteele6198]

Wow Alexis you're the first you tuber I have seen approaching such issues from a compassionate human stand point! You are so considerate of everyone involved and ther lived experiences, and you're the first content creator I've seen to really substantiate their feelings and also ackowledge that they are your personal feelings instead of just expressing an opinion or narrative!

[@rianaconklin6954]

I absolutely love that you shared that speech from the movie, and honestly could feel how much it meant afterwards, it meant the world to me. I had to pause to share, but from a mom of 3 girls, I can't thank you enough for sharing and being a truly beautiful woman ❤❤ thank you so very much ❤❤

[@JamesAlex88]

Those on Dylan’s side are missing the point as to why a lot of women are peeved. The fact is, Dylan is known for creating content based on an infantilising caricature of female stereotypes. I do believe if Dylan didn’t identify as trans, any rational person would think this is a character persona, created by a transphobic person of what they think trans people are like.

[@JerzyG84]

YES 👏

[@fullypeaked]

EXACTLY!! I’d say it’s more offensive to those suffering with gender dysphoria…

[@kaneykane3449]

That is such a good description.

[@confuseacat4451]

I honestly thought it was a right wing parody account when I saw her the first time. Incredibly surprised finding out she was meeting with the president, that’s when I realized it wasn’t a joke.

[@DanielleStarry]

@@confuseacat4451 I thought the same!

[@sophie6451]

Honestly Alexis, your self awareness and empathy is commendable. It's funny how to me your respectful nature automatically makes you feel like so much more of a woman than those who impose their presence without showing that same respect (I'm a lesbian). Also commentators like Brett and Candace point out logic, but you have the emotional intelligence to see both sides and be kind. Keep doing what you're doing x

[@janiceburnett-holler2206]

I agree with you 100%!! I truly believe you should be the face for all transwomen! You are sensible, honest and you genuinely care about all women (transgender women and biological women). I find Dylan’s video very offensive in so many ways! I vote Alexis to be the spokesperson!! ❤️❤️

[@shonadeane9996]

I just want to say that your message is so strong. I was going down a bad path of being a hateful person. But finding your channel has really grounded me. It has shown me what having gender dysphoria and being transgender really is. You are so compassionate and you have such a level head, you are able to put yourself in other people's shoes and view the debate from all angles. You are an amazing person.

[@solaronyou8610]

this is the most pissed I've seen Alexis be and its sad that Dylan doesn't see or even care about trans women like Alexis and how their actions affect them.

[@chronicgamerguy9479]

Another great video. For being an Transman, I have always found Dylan a bit off (politest way I can say). I have had friends telling me you need to watch this person. I have, and again for being born a biological woman, lived as a biological woman, Dylan has no clue in all truthfulness what a woman is. The videos Dylan puts out has made me feel uneasy, at best uncomfortable, I really do feel she is not a great representation for the Trans Community at all. Alexis If I had to choose out of so many trans content creators out there, Alexis you are number one. You are respectful, sincere, honest and you do not sugar coat things, you are a breath of fresh air! Keep being you, you are an amazing human being, mad props to you! Looking forward to all the future videos, and wish you and Liam nothing but the best.

[@colinwalker7204]

Just for clarity, Dylans 'music' video only has 9.5 k likes, but it already has 98k dislikes and climbing, not only that but i've been seeing a lot of videos from very upset women, i'd say the hate Dylan is drawing is most definitely not good for anyone that's Trans (Even though I still do not believe that description fits Dylan)

[@donnaroberts281]

Even dislikes = $$, so Dylan is making bank.

[@mgracie8129]

But is also pushs it down the recommend list. So might not be as watched over all. 😅​@@donnaroberts281

[@caroldelaney4700]

Yes

[@Thebabsdt]

I honestly believe that Dylan couldn't get famous as a man, so she decided to become a woman and is acting her best role. She is now taking the mickey out of Trans women and woman in general!

[@Larems879]

HE

[@susiesmith6892]

He will never be a she

[@Seabreeezy]

That’s exactly what happened. There are clips of him trying out on various game show type things. Very obviously desperate for attention even then.

[@redpillras3456]

Yep He was trying everything

[@shirleysp8176]

HE

[@gerisnede7307]

I was never a Barbie girl, a Barbie doll fan, never bought Barbie for any of my three daughters, thought the Barbie movie would be the funniest joke around. Was I wrong,as wrong as I’ve ever been. I laughed, I cried, I rejoiced and I even got up and danced, and vowed I’d for defs watch this movie again, and again. Best movie I’ve seen in literally decades, well done Wood of the Holly, well done indeed. ♥️🇨🇦

[@linziross2403]

The thing is, when speaking about Alexis or Blair, i say naturally, "she." When i speak of Dylan, i say,"he. " Then I keep having to change it to she. I understand that Dylan is in theatre, but transitioning is serious and life changing. Dylan is not always on stage, Dylans life is not theatre 24-7. But it comes across as overdramatic, unrealistic, and it feels like dishonest acting.

[@sounddilemma6474]

My girlhood was definitely not that.

[@twiggystardust9573]

Nor was mine. Dylan's "girlhood" only exists in movies.

[@sounddilemma6474]

@@twiggystardust9573 yeah that’s how I feel too…

[@jennifermcmillan9518]

lol, neither was mine. Lord my cycles alone would put me in bed for a week.

[@sounddilemma6474]

@@jennifermcmillan9518 I’ve just survived a super tough one :’( May our cycles be painless…

[@jennifermcmillan9518]

@@sounddilemma6474 and thank heaven for hysterectomies when it’s time.

[@Glenn959]

The fact that you shared your opinion and spoke up about this in such a respectful and polite way is a massive W

[@ireneesch8555]

I appreciate that you call yourself a trans woman and not a woman, because, obviously there is a difference.

[@VixenArt3]

I mean yeah there's a difference between trans and cis women, but trans and cis are just prefixes, both are women in many aspects and both have differences. I don't think it would be weird if she just called herself a woman, it would be weird if she called herself a cis woman because she's not.

[@ireneesch8555]

@@VixenArt3 she is a trans woman ergo a man. That is the difference. A trans woman will never be a woman as it is biologically impossible.

[@MarthaAnthony]

The thing is, when we acknowledge that, we can move on and learn from each other.

[@millennialchanneling2398]

​@VixenArt3 I reject the term cis, it's offensive. Stop it.

[@noel1075]

Even though I don’t agree with lots of the things you say, I always come back to this channel, first of all because you speak with respect to everything and everybody, you talk with your heart. And it is a perfect way to get insights of different ideologies and get a formed opinion on a topic that is as hard as gender identity. Thank you very much for the good job! Looking forward your future videos❤

[@aoibhie1208]

Every day I wake up and hope that more people like you make content and gain traction. It's so important that we as trans people try and make our voices heard over what is running rampant on social media. It's the only way to help our image. I hope this all blows over soon and we can go back to living in peace

[@LGreen_house]

Alexis, I absolutely love how you described how a woman is by what your experience is. I've always seen my mom and older sister, and have defined myself by my own experience. That is what is important, we are not a monolith, but have so many different experiences as women. ❤❤❤

[@soteed]

Dylan Mulvaney IS NOT a trans-woman. HE is a female impersonator, at best.

[@SanguinaryBlade]

Why not? What is it that distinguishes her from being a trans woman?

[@amyme4066]

Totally agree with this. Such a shame he is ruining the trans image and relations so he can make a few bucks. I love Alexis, I follow a few other trans influencers and don't agree with everything they say but have no problem seeing them as the gender they identify as because they genuinely do identify. Dylan is simply stirring a pot for money and attention. It's sickening and an insult to both bio women and trans women. Baffles me how he's become so famous.

[@MelissaBaker.]

​@@alexhunter5783 That's not being nasty. That's being critical of a problematic situation.

[@SanguinaryBlade]

@@MelissaBaker. No deliberately and consistently misgendering someone is petty and nasty.

[@Telltalesign]

@@SanguinaryBladehe is not a trans. Period

[@elleburns2445]

Hi Alexis...you are always the voice of reason and so respectful to the community of women and women's spaces. I, as a biological woman, wholeheartedly respect and accept you! Thank you for voicing your very level-headed opinion, sticking up for women and for just being you!❤

[@irisdebart3912]

I love your video. The way you articulate your concerns and disagreement with the actions of anothter person. It is refreshing to hear someone respectfully give their opinion without having to put someone else down.

[@roseannmiksich9828]

Thank you so much for speaking about this and giving your feelimgs and thoughts. I do believe the world needs to hear more from people of your caliber. Much respect to you for opening up dialogue. 🎉

[@TarynRMartin]

You are so lovely, Alexis, and it's clear that you respect and admire biological women. (Thank you for not referring to us as "cis.") Conversely, Dylan does seem to be openly mocking us "girls."

[@tarathomas4241]

I’ve been following you for a while and I can see the hurt in your heart as you talk about being represented in this manner. I want you to know as a 40 something mom of 2 kiddos - I love your content and how you share your thoughts and feelings. Keep being awesome!!!

[@jamieleedavis]

Social media and the pressure to continually produce on social media creates these kind of monsters. Meanwhile I am a trans woman out here working everyday in the public as a professional driver. I occupy these spaces with respect. I live as a woman daily and openly. Prancing around and doing campy theatrics, as well as being dramatic is turning our rights back by decades.

[@elliewillow4556]

I am a Siberian woman who immigrated to America. Obviously I did not see all of this growing up. Blaire, Amir, Buck, and yourself have helped me understand what it means. If I am being honest people like Dylan make people like me who have never seen it think it’s a joke. He has more influence than anyone can imagine

[@caitothepotato.]

I hated that scene in Barbie It makes me mad because the things she says we have to do as a woman are usually internalised. Being a successful woman is to realise the world isn’t against you and you can do anything and everything you want. When you stop looking outwards for gratification and begin finding it in yourself you will become a completely different version of yourself.

[@ArwynAvalon]

I could talk about Dylan and all the problems I have with that whole farce, but I'd just rather say that you Alexis, are a beautiful class act and I so appreciate you💖

[@andeeanko7079]

Exactly my sentiments! Alexis is outstanding in her classiness, sensitivity, and is so very articulate. Alexis gives off so much feminine energy as well. Dylan on the other hand does not.

[@Mother.Mulberry]

As a mom I truly appreciate the space you hold for the next Trans generation ❤

[@irishcoffeetruecrime]

I'll be honest I don't think HE is a genuine trans woman, HE is making loads of money from what HE is doing. HE is an actor first and foremost and has acted HIS way through this trend. HE should be cancelled as HE is destroying the chance of the trans community ever being accepted . You are brilliant and love your content .X

[@sarahpaxton6309]

I'm sure Dylan did say they wanted to be the male Audrey Hepburn before they started transitioning

[@irishcoffeetruecrime]

@@sarahpaxton6309 Well he succeeded in doing so.

[@reelmermaid8844]

I'm very rarely in the camp of cancelling someone, but I believe very strongly that DM is not truly trans, but acts out in a very performative way, as you mentioned, it ties in to his theatrical training. They are actually HURTING the trans community of people who just want to live as normal a life as possible while being true to themselves. What a shame. DM could have been such a better role model.

[@juliaduiker2241]

Thank you! Your sharing helps me gain more respect for the community. Knowing that people dont relate to this image of “girlhood or womanhood” is encouraging.

[@annroberts2446]

Thank you Alexis, we are so tired of being labelled trans phobic if we have apposing views. As a woman, I am content that people live their lives the way they want to. But compelling speech, censorship, invading women only spaces and sport is making many oppose the achievements made over the recent years. I realise Dylan is on the extreme side, but thankfully more moderate Trans women also have a platform like you to give a more balanced view.

[@icanpreptoo6673]

I am really glad to watch this and see that you understand where us women are coming from. Dylan has been taking the piss out of us this entire time and it is intentional. This is why the Lady Gaga thing really rubbed people the wrong way. Not because it was unexpected of Gaga to align with a trans person but because it was intentionally inflammatory to put that crap out on international womens day, and then the way it was defended. No wonder ppl are getting the ick. As a parent of a teen who identifies with the L part of the acronym it has been a wild ride to see the conflation of gender identity and orientation and the homophobia that comes with some of the gender ideology stuff. It is very conflicting and particularly confusing/alienating for youth.

[@hannahsarthub]

I started following your channel and Blaire White because I wanted a more balanced idea of trans women. I don’t know very many trans people in my everyday life, and the only image I had was Dylan Mulvaney and people who were smashing women’s records in sports. When I see Dylan, I can’t help but see a man in woman face. When I see you or Blaire, I see a woman. Anyway, I’m glad you are speaking on this, Alexis, and sticking up for women.

[@crowmagpie]

They are still all men

[@paupauk5162]

I agree i seen a few or Blaire’s videos before i realised she was trans & Alexis is amazing i love her take on things. Dylan is not interested in being a women & that make all the difference.

[@crowmagpie]

@@paupauk5162 what does "being a woman" even mean though?

[@paupauk5162]

@@crowmagpie if you have to ask you’ll never know, if you know you’ll never need to ask

[@crowmagpie]

@@paupauk5162 lol in other words you can't answer the question

[@desireeeaton5036]

Liam’s face popping up after the bleep cracked me up, so cute 😂

[@redbear4350]

As a biological female I want you to be THE FACE who can rapresent trans women. You are intelligent, sensitive, kind. With you public opinion can start to understand trans women and stop judging them.

[@Larems879]

Alexis, you are a gem. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience. As a woman, I find Dylan’s representation to be incredibly offensive. I also don’t believe he’s truly struggling with gender dysphoria, but is instead doing this for attention and accolades.

[@mystic22g4]

Dylan is not a her, he’s a him.

[@Necrophyllis.]

Wow so edgy

[@pain-killeryates5448]

HE HE HE HE HE

[@sosarah929]

​@@pain-killeryates5448The duality of this.....HE and also laughter!!! Perfect!

[@pain-killeryates5448]

@@sosarah929 You got me!!!

[@g3n0sc1d3]

agree. his attitude revoked his pass.

[@pneumanaut1]

As a 60 year old woman, who has lived her whole life as a woman, (and who has loved makeup! I have more MAC makeup than is healthy!!) we have fought so long and so hard to move beyond these stereotypes, to show that we are so much more than the tears and the frilly, flirtatious and promiscuous, that we are competent and strong and hold the same capabilities as man in this world, it infuriates me that we have to fight these stereotypes all over again - not just with the young women who are struggling with this stereotype and living up to what they think ... now we have to fight against this stereotype in transwomen as well. It doesn't just damage the image of transwomen, it damages the image of women. True womanhood is screwed. We're regressing, not progressing. Every one of those 'days' is not my life; maybe one or two in the past on the random occasional week, but NOT as is shown here. God help the young woman today. And Alexis, why can't YOU become the spokesperson for trans-women? I'd have no problem with you, I'd love to sit and have a beer (or glass of wine!) with you and talk about LIFE with you? I'd love to share LIFE stories with you! I'd love to hear about what you've learned and your journey. I have nothing but respect for you; I have NO respect for Dylan and the damage she's doing to our gender. Note: when you get being 60, everything changes, your face, your body, your 'femininity' ... and you become even MORE of a woman, WITHOUT all the frill and froufrou! Makeup no longer sits right anymore ... but I have never felt more WOMAN than I do now. And Dylan ain't woman ... even though she says "girls of all ages" ... give me a break! Alexis - don't stop speaking! You are being heard!! thank you!

[@Proud_Aussie]

Agree with this comment totally and was well expressed.

[@freddiebiscuit9703]

@pneumanaut1 What damages women is having male wannabes dictating to society that they should be allowed in female-only spaces and sports irrespective of how a woman might feel about having a biological male looking at her in a state of undress in a changing room. Or, competing against something biologically stronger than you in a sport because it wears a frock and a bad wig. What damages women is being reduced to a cervix haver, chest feeder, birth giver. menstruator and told that if they object they are clearly transphobic.

[@jvs1540]

Alexis, thank you for helping me make sense of the crazy world we live in. I love how you articulate your sensitivity and thoughtfulness towards both biological and trans women. You are beautiful both inside and out.

[@brucedickinsonbutnot]

very unrelated but i love your hair so much!!! the colour is very beautiful and complements your skin tone so well!! 😭😭❤❤

[@plantwitch7890]

You hold yourself with such grace Alexis , i often get wrapped up in my own feelings around these issues and forget to think about trans women who are trying there best to be respectful and mindful of the space they are trying to integrate into. It will always shock me how the world we live in raises people like Dylan to insane levels of fame and fortune, when graceful, mindful and kind people exist such as yourself. 🧡🖤

[@jonathangmallender]

Perfect analysis Alexis! The amazing thing is that even though Dylan is bringing a lot of negativity towards trans people, you are gently and positively doing the opposite. You're a wonderfully positive influence on how people see trans people. Never stop doing what you do - you're helping make the world a better place ❤

[@terryleslied]

Honestly, I believe that most of us are just trying to do the best we can. We want to be successful enough so we're not living paycheck to paycheck, have a stable relationship (maybe a family, but that's not for everyone), be healthy, feel loved and appreciated and accepted, feel attractive, and have meaningful friendships. Each one of those things is difficult to achieve and is almost a full time effort... No wonder we're exhausted and frustrated! I think you do a beautiful job of showing some of the difficulties you've been through while maintaining your grace. No one person should be "the face of the trans community" because, as human beings, we're all different and unique. There's no woman that I could pick to represent all women and no man that represents all men. We shouldn't even want that. We need to embrace what makes us unique ❤

[@ajtommo]

As a gay male, I believe this is why so many people love you Alexis ❤ being such a great rolemodel and spokesperson to those out there who are going through and dealing problems of gender dysphoria. I think a majority of people can see that Dylan Mulvaney is more of a women impersonator and not a trans woman. I am sorry if you are slightly offended by the of my opinion I have of him. However when we see true trans women or trans men like yourself who show their love, kindness and care not taking the mick out of women, but also show their respects are then accepted (like kinda passed if that makes sense) and we show our respects in return ❤ I love watching you podcasts and reactions look forward to them every time 😊 I do send my love and support to you and I'm sure with Liam by your side you will carry on strong ❤ xxx

[@njlauren]

Honestly, DM reminds me of a campy, femme gay guy parodying women. They remind me of the nastier variety of drag queens.

[@mephistofleece]

Thanks for standing with us and for us women, and you look wonderful today ❤️

[@ktisaqt5588]

Thank you for speaking on this. When I was young, studying dance I had one instructor who told me: “This is not your culture. We are inviting you to be a guest in our space. If you respect, understand, and honor our culture you will always be welcome to dance with us”. That stuck with me for my entire life and I remember that whenever I am stepping into a someone else’s space. You are a wise and beautiful woman. Keep it up 🫶🏻

[@meechie69Official]

It sounds as if she had an AI generated song to be written about days of girlhood in style of Taylor swift 😂

[@missymother]

Brett is just standing against children being allowed to transition and people telling them it will fix them when it won't. I've watched that whole episode and a lot of her other content and although there is some stuff she says that I don't agree with there is an aweful lot of stuff that I do agree with

[@just_passing_through]

I was hoping you would weigh in on this one. I look to you as my social guide, as a male, to the trans community, and this clip, and Dylan himself, irk me more than I can express.

[@arielbussart1305]

I just found you, and want to thank you for your thoughts! You're not only gorgeous, but well spoken and respectful. Thank you for being you!

[@SMW8816]

You do such a beautiful job of helping me and I’m sure many others understand the trans community more, while also being so respectful and supportive of women as a whole. Love your content and perspective.

[@clairetrevenen3418]

Your makeup is STUNNING! Please do another video showing a GRWM

[@kenzi.h]

I feel the same Alexis, I was avoiding all news and posts from dylan but I think it was worth the effort to watch yours.. yes I make lot of efforts just hearing the name dylan to do not burst! I just dont recognize a normal behavior in that person so I just ignore anything about! Thanks for your video ❤

[@kerryjones7191]

You, Alexis, are not a part of the problem. You are a part of the solution ❤

[@cookiestrong8757]

Thank you for being so respectful and rational. More people need to see this video because you bring up some amazing points.

[@sandistack5646]

I am a biological woman, and I am more than what Dylan portrays us.

[@ChautoOfStar]

For Dylan to get woman of the year was already a hit on biological women and trans women but IV seen Dylan's music video and it just pisses me off to no end.

[@landy952]

Exactly. Was there no other woman that deserved it? give it to Dolly Parton she always deserves it she does good things for the world..

[@bounce6958]

It comes down to Respect. Dylan has none. Not for women, trans women, and certainly for Dylan.

[@nataliejefferies828]

Alexis. You are a trans women to love. You a beautiful women with a pure heart . I'm a straight white women(uk) and think your bloody fantasic. lol. But Dylan really needs to take a step back and take a long hard look at what's he's doing. He's a bit of a joke on many levels. Men don't like it, women don't like it. I feel bad for Dylan... Empathy . But i can't call him a women as women and he isn't a man. Just wow. Keep. Doing what your doing ❤❤❤❤❤ xxxxxx the true trans women. And Blaire lol. I call you both she without thinking xxxx

[@aimzjane3548]

How have YOU not won woman of the year? But Dylan has? You have support from both trans woman and woman. Love your videos

[@Garbeaux.]

A very balanced & nuanced take. That’s rare nowadays.

[@audrawells1383]

It's Dylan's entitlement that bugs me. Like the fact that you don't feel like women owe you a spot at the table automatically makes me want you to sit with us at the table, you know?

[@BizzymomStudio]

Not only making it bad for trans women but insulting to biological women. Dylan just wants the lime light. Dylan doesn’t just want to blend in to society.