Transitioning From Man To Woman - Just Saying Episode 82

[@andytai7773]

I'm very curious to follow your journey in Miss Universe Singapore. I wish all the girls good luck. This is going to be very very interesting LOL

[@wadzkuty]

Genuine question, so is she still Muslim? She said she had a Malay tradition wedding, so is it ROM or ROMM?

[@yong79]

You are very mature and self confident. Well done and keep your head held up high.

[@lol4eva224]

I think he meant surrogacy not IVF which is not legal in Singapore.

[@huzzairi]

Invite Nandita Banna Miss Universe Singapore (top16) in Miss Universe.

[@dchew5552]

Im a female since birth, took hrt since I was 17 because I had brain injuries back then and I only managed to remember the accident after nine years. after getting hit in the head with soccer ball by classmates who kicked it over the high field fence, I was walking side way while nose bleeding making my way to the general office. my mom picked me up from school and I kept tripping while on the way home. the moment I reached home I fall asleep and woke up on next two day's morning. when I woke up, i quickly rushed to school instead. but everything just went downhill from there on, I had sleep deprivation and kept vomiting till I have no appetite. my leg muscle shrink became soft like jelly and I would walk very weirdly as I would unintentionally kick my leg sideway. during morning assembly after sitting on the floor when it was time to sing national anthem, I dont have any strength to stand at all which my classmates started yelling at me. because my brain started to malfunction, I find it very embarrassing. I kept getting pranked by classmates where they would hide my bag and when I return from recess, my bag was gone, my teacher had to request one of my classmates to search for it. there's a lot of pranks like stole my textbook as everyone left textbook underneath the desk, only mine was stolen, after school while I was struggling to walk home, the moment I reached home classmates followed me home and would bang on my main door while laughing, the moment I open the door they quickly ran away. thereafter they did it for many days till my neighbours who aren't in good terms with us, scolded them by telling them off that the next time they're here she would immediately call the police. brain malfunction got worse during ebs coursework as I became very slow and didn't save the work onto thumbdrive, then got sabotage by classmate when I came back from weeks of absentees due to chickenpox, I still remember when I first started, discipline mistress scolded me saying that im very irresponsible for coming to school, saying Im dangerous to pregnant teacher. the classmates gave me wrong information and when teacher walked past to the door as he was going to staff room while we were using computer, he forgot his pass and saw I was doing the coursework and demanded me to delete it which i did. I instantly got depressed when classmate came to me and said that "luckily teacher only caught you, not the rest of us who were seated next to you and the entire row as all of us were also doing it". I stopped going to school and only attend English n level which failed as missed out many months of lesson, my brain function and memory was just deteriorating. I initially told myself that I would return back to study by taking a year break, but never did as currently in my mid twenties still struggling with falling asleep, sleep deprivation, brain malfunction where I dont have capability of remembering things. just earlier this week, I supposed to start on my hrt pills but brought out empty box, hours later I was so tired, started having mood swing which I seldom have, got easily depressed when relatives started nagging that I should start working, but I didnt say anything to them as I felt that explaining to them just sounds like excuses as they know I have pituitary gland damaged. ive done up so many research on my conditions where I joined Facebook groups where majority told me that I qualify for disability as they explained to me that it was very tough to work with such condition as brain doesnt work, couldnt remember thing, a guy commented who's local and seems like police officer told me to go to nearby social worker, I went and they dont understand what was pituitary gland damaged, and they only help low income family, my sis earned a lot but her income belongs to her own savings, she told my mom that she wouldn't help me at all and should get a job. her thinking were just the same as majority, they dont know what is pituitary gland damaged is, and they dont even want to know what it meant, and felt that I should get a job. I asked my doctor, she doesnt know and felt there's no such thing as pituitary gland damaged considered as disability, which till today I find it odd why google stated that which gave me false hope. I have unpredictable headaches which often the reason it causes sleep deprivation or disruption as lately woke up more than six time throughout my sleep, I could feel pain from my brain and aches all over my head.and just last Monday my uncle admitted himself to the hospital as he wasn't feeling well by calling the ambulance, which in fact he wasn't feeling well for quite awhile which suddenly strikes me that apart from his heart condition, in the recent years he been having symptoms similar to me which made me wonder if he have low blood pressure because I used to have zero appetite for many years, which turns out true. he request for ktph as he have been seeing his doctor over there for more than a decade, but ambulance said they're required to send patient to the nearest hospital, which was the same hospital that ive been seeing which doctor for more than eight years said I have brain tumour which we kept telling the doctor it's not until on the ninth year she then said I have pituitary gland damaged

[@Peacelily22]

So you have to take HRT as treatment for your damaged pituairy gland?

[@BomoBomo-go6wt]

Stay strong. Hope you find the right treatment and therapy

[@hrrrtbyyt]

kesian. it sounds like life hasn't been kind or fair to you. such a shame that we have no control over the cards we are dealt with in life. i wish you the best, i hope you find support. and i hope you keep fighting to at least be recognised as a disabled person. thanks for educating us on pituary gland damage because I wouldn't have known what that is if you didn't share your story. thanks for spreading awareness. i wish you the best in life. take things one day at a time.

[@happyface8674]

i hope you stay strong. my son who at 3 fell from double deck bed hit his neck and head. until now 20 years later, he having problems. i feel so useless

[@atwistoflemon19]

Boomzzzz 🤯

[@zumezoom9593]

I dont get it. I just don't understand.

[@alphacentauri6360]

That man is pretty

[@imfishcheung]

As transgender myself, I went thru gender reassignment surgery myself Every trans person journey are different and how your body react/ recover from surgery is vary, it’s helpful to go seek few doctors before deciding which doctor Recovering from surgery definitely not easy but it’s not end of the world, but it’s like pain that worth going through Always live your truth ❤

[@Mrnonolol]

The bag comment / teh balls 😂

[@HaikalJamil-s2w]

Air Longan in a pack!! Hahahaha. You burried your bijik longan girl!

[@JJOlajideOlatunji]

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