Trapped With My Ex In The Dark | Cut

[@sunairaaltaf8559]

My heart cries for that guy who lost his girlfriend and his bestfriend. I just wanna give him a hug.

[@landonkirby3700]

Be sympathetic human, not dum.

[@adrielblake732]

@@theop107 I'd say to those people to evaluate how it's gotten to that point and to maybe try to do some self evaluation maybe put themselves out there. Also they've never experienced those things but also didn't have to go through the crushing loss

[@BleedGreen2l5]

Can’t trust anyone smh

[@kewlboy9584]

He's not a best friend. He betrayed his ass, and he can't see that. My friends won't ever date an ex I had cause that's what respect it.

[@noggodtv]

I know exactly how he feels. The only difference is that I lost my girlfriend and my cousin! He’s going to have trust issues for a long time

[@kevinjacob356]

"If I dont have to see her I'ld rather not see her". My man's hurting bad.

[@DA-js7xz]

You reap what you sow. Dude didn't want to acknowledge her.

[@xziuto]

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[@abhalalalalalala]

indeed🥺

[@aberlope5239]

If it was dark enough so they couldn't see each other then why are their shadows there

[@Superoeli]

@@aberlope5239 Because they used infrared lights. Those lights are invisible to humans, but not to the camera they used.

[@harlowmelow4223]

Ma guy lost his girlfriend and bestfriend, you can tell by his facial expression that his still hurting. I hope you can find someone that you can be open and share your feelings with

[@ChattieCathie]

He looks betrayed

[@jaw.619]

He's a simp for forgiving her and his "home boy". Home boys don't take your girl, neither your ex if it's a serious relationship. He should have cut tie's with both of them by not doing so he's causing more pain for himself.

[@hamzaabdullahi3545]

@@jaw.619 he said 'ex bestfriend' im pretty sure he cut ties with them

[@mirrorball1]

dear louis, you don't have to forgive them,

[@kankan3558]

His homeboy broke the bro code, there's no coming back from that

[@Fablles]

It’s so crazy how people can leave you and then blame you for letting them leave

[@EyeOfTheCat2002]

Yup it's a case of the other person putting their happiness on you, so if you don't act how they want you to it's not their fault that's how people with no accountability think.

[@jessp8238]

I mean if you push others away or treat them badly. Then it is your fault tbh.

[@kengfaihui9575]

Girls.

[@paolobrigante1761]

You mean WOMEN 🤣🤣

[@fitsumf9837]

Only women do that 😂 surprises me that logic in their kind

[@rennie404]

girl really said “wanna have kid together?” to her ex husband right after discussing why their marriage didnt work

[@fleshmaiden69]

Yeah 😂

[@andreipatuschinsky7858]

bro fr what the hell is she talking about?????

[@MHLave_17]

And then she said we don't have to be together, we can just be good parents. Bro she's absolutely mad

[@rustyshackleford2185]

Women ☕

[@itsrro]

🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@aaronbain5482]

“This is my home boys girlfriend I can’t hate her” . Dude you deserve better people in your life, personally I would not be friends with someone who’s dating my ex, it’s just weird.

[@mirrorball1]

and louis if you see this, just know that it's okay if you hate them, sometimes forgiveness isnt the answer

[@YuhasLol]

"Weird" is not the word here. Betrayal, back-stabbing, self sabotaging, etc is

[@DA-js7xz]

Someone didn't listen...

[@xziuto]

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[@phantomjosh2148]

Lmao I read it as soon as they said it

[@chelsy222]

It's the way she's dating his BEST FRIEND and still had the nerve and audacity to say she hates him and proceeded to get upset because he didn't "prevent" it. Some people just need to be humbled sometimes honestly.

[@el.c.8858]

although i too def agree that her getting in a relationship with his best friend is irritating, he himself admitted to not have tried as much as her esp from an emotional standpoint. regardless she seems shady while he seems so hurt, hope he finds someone that’s great for him too.

[@vanilla2234]

Or killed off

[@lootje2005]

this is the exact reason i don't want a high school relationship

[@fastname6519]

It sounds she never liked his friend but dated him anyway for a reaction from her Ex but caught feelings in the process cause she did asked him why he didn't say anything about her dating his friend like she wanted a reaction lol and if I was him I'll get rid of them in my life and move on with better stuff

[@em.pxthetic]

Basically they both had toxic traits. Granted... homie shouldn't go with the "I dont like talking about my feelings" shit but she gives off *waayyyy* more red flags

[@DewyTrent]

Man shout out to Louis for being a real one, he pushed through it all, found out his ex was with his bestfriend and then we he finally talked about she laughed in his face. He could of spazzed on her but kept his composure, shout out to the bro. I hope you find love soon, and someone right and true to you

[@yamezdext2651]

she fcks his friend and she blames him for the relationship ending?? and at the end he still blames himself? thats not composure thats being a weak man and he needs to realize that...he is crying for a woman who doesn't deserve him but the problem is he doesn't seem to grasp that ,since he looks all teary eyed and sht...

[@yamezdext2651]

"this is my homeboys boyfriend, I cant just hate her".....what a weak lame comment!!!....I hope he reads this and realizes that he needs to stop being a pushover and man up....thats not your homeboy bro....most probably they were still fcking when she was together with this guy thats why the woman is shifting all the blame onto him because of the guilt she feels....

[@grace-jl8sc]

@@yamezdext2651 the turn man up boils my blood oml

[@Absurdity101]

You have to realize. He wasn’t giving her what she wanted and needed. The bare minimum being thorough and comprehensible communication. Which is key for a healthy relationship. Although, she is pathetic for lowering her pool down to his best friend. He gave her what she wanted, and that is that. Who knows what might’ve happened; they both did eachother dirty though. She could’ve just told him they can’t be together cause of the emotional communication she isn’t getting and moved on. But she stabbed him.

[@jellyluver22]

His ex and friend didn’t respect him enough. He should just drop them

[@cyrustrembinski6648]

bro was holdin back tears 😭 respect to the man who lost his girl and best friend. He aint need em 💯

[@hoorishlashari9396]

Exactly,I feel bad.

[@Its_yo_boy_victory]

He had it very hard 😢, me personally would’ve made a flood cuz this is a high level betrayal

[@85catnip]

@@Its_yo_boy_victory why is it betrayal? they're consenting adults and both admitted that he wasn't there for her, which is part of why they broke up. an ex of mine dumped me and got with my friend, they're now happily married, it's sure as shit not betrayal lol

[@Its_yo_boy_victory]

@@85catnip The betrayal is the part where his ex best friend is dating her, he broke the bro code

[@85catnip]

@@Its_yo_boy_victory lol the 'bro code'... like we're in school. enough said.

[@Person-bp7qk]

i feel soooooo bad for the louis like you could tell how badly he wanted to cry, I literally wanted to give him a hug so bad

[@ashleynewman5598]

Andrew ended things in his head way before things actually ended.

[@Cankalay]

I don’t think that’s the case. I think he is a really really closed man who rather stay silent instead of admit to the slighest of his feelings. I can’t imagine nobody could ever make it stick with someone like that. People really need to work on themselves to be better…

[@awkwardlys6640]

@@Cankalay my boyfriend currently is like this and it’s very hard to manage a steady healthy relationship. But I gotta also understand that he’s probably been silenced from telling his feelings when he was a child

[@Cankalay]

@@awkwardlys6640 I wish you guys best of luck and hopefully he is willing to change for the better :). He is lucky you are understanding like this.

[@kwamenyantakyi8398]

Just like women do all the time, so miss me with the shaming language

[@hnmpu8303]

@@kwamenyantakyi8398 lol you're the one who made it about gender

[@ElectricPansies]

The vibes between Andrew and his ex-wife are so awks. I think Andrew would be okay with never seeing her again, judging by his interactions in this vid 😂

[@LunarySSF2]

he really just wanted to go home

[@VOIICENetwork]

I totally agree

[@luthohlazo7431]

I was looking for this 🤣🤣

[@brianawhittaker8152]

He seemed so much like he didn't care I can see why that didn't last.

[@anonnona6433]

But she wants him 😝😝😝😝😝

[@Recuji]

IMO Bailey deserves better. I understand she loves Tre but I don’t think Tre is wanting a relationship, just sex. She’s just setting herself up for more pain.

[@bklynkat23]

Clearly you can tell that's all he cares about. That's why he asked the question where do we stand right now in terms of sleeping with each other and was disappointed when she said she just wanted to go back to being friends

[@anonnona6433]

It's a sad reality when the expectations are different. One wants only sex. One needs a connection 😳😲

[@mprice6683]

He is telling her exactly that but she thinks she can change him. She can't.

[@abeautifulmess163]

I agree tbh

[@jackieibarra2781]

he definitely treats her as a sneaky link type relationship for just sex but she actually wants a relationship and tells him she loves him. he stays because he knows she won’t leave and do everything he wants. as toxic as it gets !

[@lovvesickrose5593]

I feel so sympathetic towards the guy who lost his gf and best friend as he stated he can’t express his feelings and it’s clear it’s hard for him to do so, then she states that the other bf is more there for her the he was which must hurt as I believe the ex bf does feel alot it’s just difficult to express and the fact she couldnt see that it just…I really hope he heals in the near future :))

[@slayerdude18]

clearly it wasnt his best friend, your best friend shouldn't try to steal your gf or your ex he should've been respectful and break contact with her instead of doing what he did.

[@ryluh4258]

3:31, miss girl you went after his bestfriend wtf do you think he’d be feeling she makes no sense “you didn’t even tell me how you were feeling” girl😭😭😭

[@staredad5744]

Yeah, she is gaslighting him to make him out to be the person in the wrong here. She is a snake, just like his "homeboy" .

[@AydanJane]

"Because I don't care that much," thats brutal. How in the hell did she end up apologizing

[@marcellusayana7389]

Bro this episode had me on the floor bro, ppl hate themselves fr

[@miurtouissi1093]

Right? It was such a weird thing to say

[@miurtouissi1093]

@@marcellusayana7389 you have a cute smile

[@TheRealCandyMan]

@@miurtouissi1093 that's bad weird 🤣

[@miurtouissi1093]

@@TheRealCandyMan reading it again I can see how 🤔 😭 sorry lol

[@emmabaidoo4299]

1. Louis definitely loved his ex. He just was really bad at communicating so she left him. Her and his ex best friend getting together was definitely sour on their part but I’m glad that he took the initiative to have a convo with his ex and get the closure from the situation he deserved. 2. Girl with the man who wasn’t her man should’ve spoke up more about her desires. I think in her heart she knew he didn’t love her the way she wanted him to so she subconsciously didn’t say anything to keep her image of their relationship a reality. Cut it off sis, you’ll just end up more hurt in the end. Go be with someone who actually wants to be with you. 3. The divorced couple. Man that was hard. It seems to me that he either 1. Didn’t know if he wanted this relationship or 2. Became indifferent to it. It was nice to see them get on some good standing ground.

[@alanamendez2036]

This was beautifully put. Couldn’t have said it better

[@angie9624]

Now I’m so interested about your profession in life, you gave some deep thought perspective.

[@emilyescalante5976]

You did a whole Evaluation, I dig it

[@emmabaidoo4299]

@@angie9624 Thanks! I work in HR ☺

[@chloeischaotic22]

Um relationship counselor much? You did this perfect hands down

[@ElectricPansies]

Bailey and Tre for sure went home and slept together straight after this 😂 It’s a shame because I feel like Bailey could find someone who actually cares about her if she wasn’t so hung up on him.

[@OsamaBinDarrel]

Shawty want a thug

[@NoMoreNamesAvailabl1]

Plus he was her first and they never stopped sleeping together. That is a strong tie

[@TrueHeroAriel]

Yeah she crazy over him lol and you can tell she really wants things to work out between them but he just want the pussy😂

[@frocondones9166]

@@OsamaBinDarrel hes definitely not a thug....

[@F95GHomestead]

I think hes ghoasting her sexually and shes trying to not let people on socials know now that this video is out

[@wendyc5217]

Bailey it's time to go hun, find someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved.

[@summerfatima2525]

This just made me want to be single for life 🤢

[@craftyladybug411]

Communication is key. This year I’ll be celebrating my 27th wedding anniversary. If I had any advice it would be: validate each other’s feelings, don’t sweat the small stuff, don’t bring up the past in arguments, laugh a lot and enjoy each other’s company. Don’t try and change each other, sometimes we can change a little bit but most often we don’t. So if your partner is a drinker, smoker, doesn’t want children, has different core values than you etc .. you will have to decide if it’s something you are willing to accept. Date nights, playing board/video games, laughing, touching, compromising, understanding and caring, I believe all these things bring out the positives of being in a relationship and help you become a team. Don’t be afraid to be silly with each other. Good luck everyone!

[@2fiddy_squiddy]

I agree, specifically with the core values. Take the time when you first start talking to someone to really understand their view on things. I was talking to a girl for like a month before her political views actually came up and I was sad when it turned out we didn't agree on literally anything! It just ends up being a waste of time, so now I make sure to talk about things that actually matter, especially when first starting the conversation

[@Darcyyyyyyyyyyy]

Thank you for this. I pray I get to be the person you described

[@sarahnyhan]

Great advice. Thank you.

[@diamonmagic]

Everything you're saying I wholeheartedly agree with. Thank you sharing those gems. Wishing everyone well.

[@evanderpaulomorais7210]

I can validate some of this, thank you very much for the insight, I anticipate more happiness if I do as you say

[@Ho11is2Ho11ywood]

That one girl who said she hated that dude needs to be avoided at all costs. She's messing with his homie and seems to be mad he didn't put up a fight to stop it. The nerve.

[@YuhasLol]

Ikr. She asked him, why didn't he bring up that he was upset when she first started dating his best friend. Like, who on Earth WOULDN'T be mad that their ex started dating their best friend? You really needed him to verbally tell you that bothered him? That's manipulative behavior, man.

[@gokubaee]

@@YuhasLol how was she supposed to know lol? can she read minds. some ppl actually don’t mind their homies dating their ex… as heard in the video he said he didn’t like to talk about his feelings… so again…. how was she supposed to know. ALSO they were together 3 years, im sure she would’ve heard him out. LOL boys don’t like to communicate and nobody has to deal with that , especially if they tried.

[@gokubaee]

close minded asf

[@yunosdoll]

@@gokubaee he said that because even if he said shit, she was still gonna go do it??? Lmao y’all dumb as fuck sometimes. I feel for both of them but she willingly went for his best friend, and even if it bothered him it wasn’t going to change her mind. If she wanted him to “fight for her” then SHE should’ve said something as well.

[@dante-qt9sb]

@@gokubaee who broke your heart? Just turn lesbian God damn.

[@honeyy.dew.3554]

“Part of me feels like I hate you” GIRL you stole his best friend and you’re like “I hate you” no he should be the one hating you

[@patrickwang5000]

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[@tuli0hwut78]

DAMN RIGHT

[@shooyos]

FR

[@aadopted22]

LOUDER ONG🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️

[@jaidynmilan2874]

I agree, but we don't really know the full story, so he probably could have did something really shitty to her that we don't know??

[@kloebl10]

The ex married couple is a prime example of an anxious - avoidant attachment relationship. She has an anxious attachment and he has an avoidant attachment

[@sreyasrao9894]

"i dont like talking about my feelings" is sooooo fking true bro istg that line hit me hard just saying few words, doesnt make a bond strong its the actions and behaviour in the end which make the bond stronger

[@FGRSTUDIOSYT]

I can't image loosing your love and your best friend at the same time, my heart goes out to that guy

[@eappski]

it's rough, been there done that. and the exact same reason too, my home boy like was her mental escape because I wouldn't speak my feelings. It still hurts me to this day been over two years now.

[@ofc.wayne__]

@@eappski damn bro hope you're doing well n found better people

[@friedbaloniTV]

Not saying they aren’t guilty, but all three deserve better

[@adlerzwei]

This isn't about guilt or innocence. -.-

[@hinamatsuro1908]

@@adlerzwei The facts are some are guilty. And it's disgusting.

[@DA-js7xz]

Nah, all 3 deserve different. They all seemed to be equally responsible in their own ways.

[@DA-js7xz]

@@hinamatsuro1908 nah.

[@ananyomukherjeeixd281]

@@DA-js7xz Or perhaps you simply lack a moral compass.

[@andreamensah5341]

Second hand embarrassment for the woman with the ex-husband...

[@leahwilson8982]

For sure…

[@chloeknight1245]

Yesss! Like clearly he’s not wanting to ever see you again

[@lulutunes7496]

I don't feel embarrassed I just feel sad for both of them, it's really hard to be with someone who doesn't communicate, and it feels like they don't even care. Maybe he felt the same way as her but shows it differently! I just feel sad for them that it didn't work out, but happy that they're moving on to greener pastures.

[@HotdodoubleG]

She cuts him off right after he starts to answer her questions. It’s so annoying to be with someone who knows you well enough to feign as if they can read your mind. Even if she can anticipate what he’s going to say, let the person speak for themselves!

[@gennakale]

@@lulutunes7496 I've definitely been in a relationship with someone where you're just starved for affection from them, they don't know how to reciprocate any kind of emotion and so you're just begging for it all the time. It's really terrible

[@Arandomguy6]

louis gives me the type of vibe: I lost everything but i still keep my soul.

[@InfinitySpore]

3:40 yet she was completely okay with breaking his heart.

[@Drip.Master54]

2 years ago, but i think both of their hearts broke. Her heart was breaking because her longest relationship wasnt going to work out, and his heart broke because he was rejected and didnt understand why. It isnt easy to break up with someone either, its just easier to get over it.

[@khumbolanemtonga133]

The ex’s don’t even care. They should all just move on 💗

[@habenwoldemelak4507]

UR EX'S STILL THINK ABOUT YOU OR THEY WERE NEVER IN LOVE WITH U

[@User-1939t9]

easier said than done

[@dingowaffle5700]

@@habenwoldemelak4507 True 😭

[@bestleader8294]

@@habenwoldemelak4507 At certain point, you just move on.

[@goodnessdavid6583]

Louis is so heart broken and he couldn't hide it.. It's crazy and scary that his ex gf is his "home boy's" current girlfriend,makes you wonder if his ex and homeboy always had something for each other. You'll be fine Louis! 💪💪

[@silverghost289]

I was wondering the same thing. And I am starting to believe that more and more..Shitt crazy

[@mr_frownyexe127]

They definitely did I bet they started taking at first and then when things started getting rocky she went with the best friend

[@Seemstazz]

Oh man, I've been in the Bailey situation before. It's a bad idea girl, you're gonna keep getting hurt until you just cut off your entire relationship with him and move on to actually dating men who want to commit. He's having fun whereas for you, it's much more than that. It's not a good idea, and you could easily find someone else vs chasing someone who doesn't want you in the same way you want them.

[@valentinasjenicic5918]

Same. I just got so hurt and angry with myself that I've let myself be in that position. He doesn't care. It hearts me to see people suffering like this. I

[@xtoxickissesx2138]

To be fair though he seemed dissappinted when she said she thought they should go back to being friends, granted that could be because he still wants the fwb relationship to continue BUT it could also mean he wants more and maybe wants a relationship but doesnt know how to admit it or is worried itll rhin their friendship 🤷‍♀️ never know, ive never been im that relationship before but i know someone who has, she got tired of feeling like he was messing her around and stopped the sexual side of the relationship, they had an awkward few months of tense friendship before he finally admitted he did want an actual relationship with her for a while but didnt know how to approach it since they had both agreed it would just be fwb at the beginning

[@ivannparker4073]

@@xtoxickissesx2138 nah. He literally asked infront of the world, “so where are we in terms of still having sex.” She’s probably a good ass lay, that lets him do what he wants And does what he says. Remember, he’s her first.

[@patriot9487]

No, the only thing you bring to the table is your body. Remember that

[@faisal-ca]

5:26 Asking for a kid while doing a retrospective of what went wrong in the past may not be the best starter.

[@natedaaaaaaaaaaa]

1:33 I cant with this girl. To get with his best friend after a 3 year relationship and laugh about it. None the less telling him that SHE HATES HIM and he should be apologizing? She really needs to grow up.

[@ally9114]

When Bailey expressed wanting to be friends and get to know each other prior to diving into a failed fling and he said he was disappointed? That’s incredibly harmful, and pressuring. You can see her instantly get anxious, then she starts to try to appease him to get out of that uncomfortable feeling. Poor thing. You deserve better, sis, he isn’t even remotely emotionally ready to be what you need him to be.

[@maryf.6594]

she asked him how he felt and she pretty much said she'd take the physical part of their relationship out - I don't think it was pressuring it was honest and they can talk about it more. it only becomes pressuring if he said he'd never talk to her again without the sex or something along those lines

[@alondra30]

3:47 remembered of “Traitor” song. And the guy that his ex is daiting his ex best friend well I just want to hug him 😂🥲

[@TakecenterStage]

Tre knew what he was doing to her the entire time. Just having it actually laid out and said was a level of accountability he doesn't want to have.

[@Youstink1782]

4:41 felt this shit on a whole other level

[@jellybean8773]

To all those people thinking of cheating: If you are not satisfied with your current relationship for whatever reason, just confront it and end with your current partner BEFORE you start even thinking about dating someone else. No matter how dissatisfied you are with your current partner, cheating is just cheating. As soon as you develop any sort of intimacy with someone not your current partner, you are now 100% at fault. There is NO EXCUSE.

[@2fiddy_squiddy]

Damn this is a cool concept for a video. You could tell the ex husband didn't really wanna be in that relationship 🤣

[@hinamatsuro1908]

Just because he doesn't express himself that much?

[@2fiddy_squiddy]

No just the way he said things is how I'd say them towards someone I didn't want to be married to 🤣 and when the guy asked if they'd go on a date he was like "ehhhhh we could be friends" 🤣

[@breezeh1127]

Yup. I think he was unhappy while married and didn't know how to leave. So he just became distant until she left. That's kinda what he said.

[@boisebadboy93]

"If I don't have to see her, I'd rather not see her" that actually resonated with me. That is a struggle we guys have alot, but we don't talk about, because we don't want to appear weak or show softness in times of hardship. Seeing that someone in public (even if they never saw you) that we loved and cherished, hurts us deeply, but we deny and hide the hurt to both ourselves and others to keep our masculine facade. I know exactly how that feels. I full-on avoid going to places where there is even the slightest chance I'll see my ex, because even though I'm very happy being single, and I'm happy I'm no longer with her, it would cause emotional damage for me to see her. I feel you man, you are NOT alone.

[@CokoCake]

I honestly feel for Bailey. I've been in that situation before and it only hurts to stay when the other person clearly only cares about the sex and does not want a relationship. I know she probably thinks she can change him but that guy is a walking red flag.

[@lalalalaaAa123]

“But one day, if I just love him hard enough, he’ll finally wake up and see that I’m the one for him! And then we’ll live happily ever after as a real couple! 🥰” …That’s what we all believed at some point 😬

[@XxFr4gXxK1ng]

@@caseymetrose clearly not if he getting what he wants, and she isn’t

[@itsHangiee]

the name Trey is already a 🚩

[@sunnyflowerlife9428]

Not only do they just want sex, he doesn't even respect her enough to say no and cut ties. He keeps her tagging along KNOWING he's bad for her

[@Shinitakunai26]

@@lalalalaaAa123 No...not me

[@vins_jewls]

bro i could see the tears in his eyes, he didn't deserve to be hurt like that..

[@yoodjdjdj]

The pain in his voice

[@thtboijonesy]

“I wanted you to not let me move out of the house” sounds like she has validation issues.

[@eziahjohnson167]

Hella issues because WTF

[@themrnorwood]

My therapist once told me that men tend to be emotionally modest where women tend to be physically modest. So where women may prefer the lights off during sex as a comfort. Men should try talking thru feelings in the dark as a comfort.

[@anatkras]

Change therapist. He/she is sexist 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@arthurias7693]

@@anatkras That's not sexist at all.

[@anatkras]

@@arthurias7693 that is exactly what sexism is

[@arthurias7693]

@@anatkras How? What exactly is sexist about that?

[@Homesick47]

@An. Kras. it's not sexist to understand the differences of both genders. We are socially and physically constructed in different ways so we will act and think differently. Understanding why that is isn't "sexist".

[@ElectricPansies]

Louis: “that’s my homeboy’s girlfriend” 😭 poor guy. It’s not his fault he can’t talk about his feelings, maybe he wasn’t raised that way.

[@wanderingoldsoul420]

Bingo! Poor guy has never been taught how to communicate his emotions, let alone know how to label what he's experiencing. My heart goes out to anyone that struggles with that.

[@GurtonBuster07]

@Sarah K. yeah she may be right to leave but not date one his best friends lmaoooo

[@Khari_2099]

@Sarah K. yeah she may be right to leave him but not go and his bestfriend like wtf. If there were a possibility of my girlfriend and bestfriend ever being romantic in any way they wouldn't be my girlfriend or bestfriend.

[@Syik2020]

How is that still his “homeboy”. Ain’t no more friendship after betrayal

[@Khari_2099]

@@Syik2020 Rght. Once I find out im cutting him off completely like he never existed to me to begin with.

[@unathi.nkhoma]

All of these ex-couples are frustrating! 1. Bailey really thought she was exclusive with that man because he said he wasn't seeing anyone and that he was her first sexual partner. The only time you're exclusive is if there is a conversation about it between the two parties. The naivety is on show! I think Tre takes advantage of this. 2. Louis may have not been the best boyfriend to his ex. However for her to begin to date his really close friend is cold. Also, Louis' friend is not a friend. 3. The divorced couple was uncomfortable to watch. Andrew comes across as someone who does not express feelings and comes across as ambivalent. His ex seems to thrive on verbal expression, communication, and confirmation. I think she treated him badly towards the end and started dating soon after the divorce to partly get some sort of reaction from him. In his ambivalence, there appears to be dislike for his ex-wife. He would be comfortable never seeing her again.

[@rosalinaburton3061]

Yo, Bailey is Sad. The girl is hooked on a guy who doesn’t even want to hug her on camera. It sounds to me that the Bestfriend is no longer his best friend. It’s a pretty childish mindset to think that no one can date an ex of yours. Especially if you are no longer cool like that. Pass up a good thing for an old friend? Maybe I don’t get it. The married couple did the right thing and got divorced 😅

[@Comyupower]

@@rosalinaburton3061 I dont think you have loved if you would be okay with an ex love and your best friend to be together

[@unathi.nkhoma]

@@rosalinaburton3061 I think its possible for a friend to date an ex but there is context to every situation. In this particular situation, it is wrong. Why? Louis and his ex-girlfriend were together for 3 years. That is a serious relationship with deep and complex emotions. As a friend or best friend , as Louis describes the relationship with this guy , you wouldn't date a serious ex. Also for the best friend and ex to pursue each other shows a lack of respect for Louis. A lack of respect is shown in the timing of the new relationship.They grew closer because they were experiencing breakups at the same time (the ex-girlfiend with Louie). How can you draw closer and pursue your best friend's ex girlfriend, while both your best friend and her are still processing the breakup?

[@rosalinaburton3061]

@@unathi.nkhoma Okay, I see where you're coming from. I can understand why, given that context, it's insensitive.

[@rosalinaburton3061]

@@Comyupower I have and I absolutely would not be okay with my ex dating my best friend. I don't think any rules apply to people outside your friend circle which is what I thought he was saying. Someone who was his best friend in the past could theoretically be someone he hasn't spoken to in years. That was my logic. Your ex dating anyone right after you break up is going to be painful. That, to me, is a sign that neither party are emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship if they don't know how to be single in their healing.

[@Catsyess]

You could literally hear the sadness in the guys voice. It's sad :( (the guy who lost his girl to his best friend)

[@thesubscriptedgamer5461]

I feel bad for the guy who lost his best friend and girlfriend, the same thing happened to me and it was one of the lowest points of my life, it really makes you feel like you are less than what you really are

[@angel96005]

& what sucks is none of them thought oh this might hurt me let’s not do this 7 months healing now and still hurts ngl

[@dr_himshikha]

Louis, you'll be fine. People around you won't always be a disappointment. Don't let some ruin your view of the world. 💪

[@shadyrishabh]

But how do you do that ? I opened up and showed vulnerability to the first girl I have faallen in love with. She left aand immediately started talking/was talking to someone else. No feelings, no empathy. Just coldness. How do I start trusting anyone else ? Makes you question was it always this way. Am I dirt ? Are people deep down this shallow ?

[@mikalaybourn]

2:40 "I'm sorry" - "I don't really need the apology", he seems heartbroken anyways. I would for sure apologize though he try to make it seem like it doesn't matter for him.

[@azizmo9]

He should confront his best friend not her

[@Horac3]

He should confront them as well but both parties are guilty.

[@2fiddy_squiddy]

Yeah you already know that the homie was all on her shit immediately lol

[@coreyedmond9278]

Nah he needs to get on her as well, she ain’t excluded lol

[@shadw4701]

Nah she deserves confronted as well. They both suck for that and she isn't any better than him. They both betrayed his trust

[@JOEL-mm7th]

The both of them

[@Chippergripper]

6:42 they literally seem like amazing friends if I met them I would think they were dating😂

[@codimarie090]

I know the pain of someone close to you dating your ex... just imagine it being your blood. No one understands how bad that hurts.

[@FriedPotatoesForLife]

When she explained awkwardly that “ we were like there for each other when needed the most” I could almost feel myself in that guy’s place when he replied that he didn’t needed that apology and what kind of an excuse was that lol Total betrayal and brutal backstabbing but tbh we shouldn’t always feel that grudge what has happened has happened so we may not value that person who betrayed us like we used to but we gotta have that acceptance and try not to hate

[@dentingboi2981]

Facts and I get he may have needed closure but idk I don’t think he needed that cause the woman wasn’t being accountable how she had hurt him I’ve also seen the video where he talked to his best friend even if they say their cool and friends now that homie bond will never be as strong as it used to be

[@szatanek4826]

@@dentingboi2981 its funny all of you talk about his hurt forgetting that she was actually hurt first. Having a one sided relationship is so draining and theyve been together for 3 years so its not like she didnt try, he just never was able to show up the way he needed for the relationship

[@trismania]

@@szatanek4826 yea thats totally an excuse for her and his best friend to be together. There is absolutely no reason to do that from his friends perspective as well as his exes perspective

[@Axqu7227]

@@trismania Why do you think he has some sort of claim on her after they broke up because HE was neglectful?

[@trismania]

@@Axqu7227 In my opinion it doesnt matter if she got hurt too/first, it is an unwritten rule to not get together with your best firends ex and vice versa. Its just my moral code tho it doesnt have to be like that for you, but I dunno I think its fucked up she just could of get together with someone els entirely there are plenty men out there. Edit: Typos

[@dennizcudi1351]

Andrew had CLOCKED OUT. Homeboy was definitely not with the shits🤣 that Awk laugh at the end while the chick thinks it’s a funny joke but homeboy is like “yeah, na”

[@samarasteier4333]

the ex married couple is relatable asf - haven’t been married before but the two ways of showing they care is hard. he does care, he just doesn’t show it how she does. he doesn’t express it how she wants him to. the blonde n black hair advice to him or anyone who’s reading this never ever ask if their a better partner then you are. there is no good it gives you when they respond even if they say no the partner their with currently isn’t better then you.

[@PsycheSlut]

That's what I said. I've been asked this question before and I said "there is nothing you can hear from that question that will bring you peace or healing" I wish she didn't answer him.

[@acehchen6312]

I feel for the person who lost his best friend. I feel like a lot of the times, people don’t want to talk about their feelings because they don’t want to be seen as weak or rude.

[@sebbybastian]

I relate to Andrew so much. He’s so nonchalant and very closed off you can tell. It’s hard to express yourself or feel emotional when it makes you feel so weak and that’s something a lot of guys go through I’ve been told in my relationships I’m so nonchalant I don’t talk etc. and I know it stems from my childhood I know it’s a problem in relationships I hope I can find away to better myself for those who genuinely care for me

[@Darcyyyyyyyyyyy]

The girl with Louis is the one who fucked him up and in the end somehow made him believe it was all his fault. I don’t like people like that. I’m sure he was a great boyfriend, he still cares so deeply. She’s laughing and living he best life.

[@segamai]

Did you ignore everything she said in the video? Do you know what kind of torment it is to be with someone who doesn’t open up to you? Nah, he had to grow up and she wasn’t going to keep being miserable with him. How she got with the homie is a totally different question and we have zero info about that so I’m not gonna judge.

[@blighticus]

@@segamai bro, the fuck are you on about? There's no excuse whatsoever to get with your partner's best friend.

[@jasonalvey7656]

@@segamai This reply shows your character more than you know. Trust me buddy, that chick wouldn’t have stayed with the man for 3 years if she was “miserable”. No matter how “miserable” you get you never go behind a persons back who you claimed to love and stab em in it. Theres absolutely zero excuses for getting with your exs best friend. No matter if he swooped in at the perfect time and fed her a dream or not. Your “friends” need to keep close watch on you.

[@dyinginsidelol]

@@jasonalvey7656 If you fall in love with someone who happens to be the best friend of your boyfriend, you can't just let any ridiculous "codes" get in the way of you literally finding your soulmate.

[@oreochocolate_lavacake9960]

@@dyinginsidelol Well that's not how relationships work rather tell the person the truth and break it off.

[@Nobars-z1q]

The divorced couple though, the man looks so done with everything they had 💔😭

[@jboudie]

yeah it kinda sucks for her.. i feel like he shouldn't have married her if he didn't give a shit one way or the other

[@TheChris91173]

@@jboudie he gave a shit at one point and now he doesn't. That is why they are divorced

[@froggyfriggys1741]

The lady acts like my mom but my mom is worse but this woman made jokes that werent okay at all,the guy doesnt want to have anything with her

[@Jonathan-ek7ky]

When it’s done it’s done

[@EZ-IZZY1995]

@@jboudie why does it suck? I would react the same way to my ex. I'm not letting them have the satisfaction of knowing how I felt after they left me. She just wants validation. And men like him check out when the woman has done one too many things that are red flags, but feel trapped. It happened to me. Also divorces are brutal. So I don't blame him for being cold. This isn't the movies, we all deal with pain differently. He moved on and was ready to be friends.

[@claireh.7150]

Sometimes the first person we are intimate with could feel like the only person that's gonna give us that closeness and intimacy we want, and it's easy to get hung up on them, but there are so many people out there that will actually appreciate you, and they will make sure you know that you are the one and only person they want.

[@kana_kawalazashi]

thank you so much

[@salmaramadhan967]

i really needed to hear this

[@UnCreativeBeliever]

My first boyfriend was my only boyfriend and only intimate partner thus far and I feel this

[@jacintadavis6950]

yup, I needed to hear this

[@sofiakakleas3154]

i needed that thank you

[@ciaramonique9990]

The ex husband is like an emotionless robot and waiting for someone like that to show feelings isn’t worth it. She might not be 100% over it now but one day she will realize she probably put way more emotion and hard work than he did.

[@rileygmz8056]

the girl that got with his best friend is a manipulator, when she’s saying her sob story it just reminded me of my ex so much 💀

[@epicteddybear3666]

1:38 see the way she smiled after he said that She knows what’s she’s doing. It’s the same plays the ye ol “I’m going to sleep with your best friend to hurt you bc I didn’t get what I want from the relationship” and my personal favorite “It just happened” Toxic AF. Louis if you’re reading this that dude is NOT YOUR HOMIE! That girl is bad news and she’ll ruin your life cut both of them off and leave them in past and focus on your bright future ahead of you. KINGS UP🤴🏾

[@saaaima]

Exactlyy

[@JamesDHalliday]

Frfr

[@_Pam.]

7:38 the eyes tell everything

[@DavinaMaryMagdalene]

The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference.

[@autodidact495]

Bruh did the whole Chris Tucker Rush Hour when he said "aye chillout you scared me" lol 1:14

[@homie8289]

“ull always have a place in my heart, i loved u more than anyone, i care abt u.” -someone whos dating his best friend and stated that she hates him

[@nataif8932]

0:40 my heart broke seeing him like this..I watched this part a few times

[@senoir.]

Louise's ex deadass made most of it about her and how she feels

[@YuhasLol]

She's a manipulator, plan and simple.

[@xcoxic3259]

I feel for Louis, I really hope he gets the true happiness he deserves

[@MsDejaDenise]

The only reason I’m going to give Bailey some grace is simply because she said Tre was her first. We all know how that goes. His response at 2:46 was whack af tho. Sidebar: when they tried to find eachother in the dark was fucking hilarious 😂😂😂

[@emilypaige.1545]

"if I don't have to see her, I'd rather not see her." Bro she hurt him so bad. Felt.

[@lovelivi1591]

Andrew obviously has a hard time being vulnerable.. that can make it hurt more for her bc it seems like he doesnt care.

[@coffeytv]

Or maybe he was at one point. She gives off shitty vibes. But that’s just my observation. I’m no therapist though.

[@charlottehanks3909]

I feel so bad for Bailey. Tre clearly doesn’t care whatsoever and idk how she ended up apologizing

[@elliot5993]

fr I feel like Bailey wanted some kinda chemistry between them and Tre didn't care at all its so sad

[@montseslo2000]

“I tried not to let my love for you turn into hatred, but a part of me feels like I hate you” damn cut y’all really putting a bitch through some feels at 5:36 am

[@michellemoulton5415]

Baby I peeped that too 👀👀😬

[@jasonalvey7656]

Yall aint peep how she played victim after going behind her boyfriend of 3 years’s back and fucked his best friend?

[@djl_00]

“and that’s the truth.” I feel like that whole part cut the deepest if i were him

[@montseslo2000]

@@jasonalvey7656 no I see that definitely it’s fucked up she’s dating his best friend now but that quote just hit me cause I could relate to it

[@YuhasLol]

From that clip, I thought he cheated or something, but it actually ended up being HER that did the scummiest thing (dating his best friend).

[@grunttee8880]

1:32 the way he delivers those lines... hits hard already

[@ccshvrs]

I don’t think I’ve ever seen so much gaslighting and manipulation in one setting…

[@vholf6841]

man the first guy deserve better friend and love. what a warrior. And she laughs in his face about it, i would just walk out from that. i wouldn't agree in the first place if that happened to me

[@somairays5229]

man it hurts like hell to the guy who lost both his girlfriend and and bestfriend

[@Mr.DakotaJace]

This made me feel like I never wanna fall in love.

[@Tikiofati]

The power of leaving things how they were and not reacting is truly power…

[@staredad5744]

7:38 That's not your homeboy, brother. That's a backstabber pretending to be your homeboy and she is no better. I hope you moved on from him and her. Both don't deserve you

[@whatisupdawg]

bruh they dated for three years and shes trying to tell him he had to EXPLICITLY SAY NOT TO DATE HIS BEST FRIEND? thats rule #1. shes gaslighting hardcore.

[@whatisupdawg]

not that hes in the right either he sounds like he needs therapy instead of a relationship but shes still wrong for what she said

[@johnbalvin5401]

@@whatisupdawg you want him to smile and be happy bc his ex is with his ex-friend?

[@coreyedmond9278]

Louis is distraught and I completely understand, both his ex and “friend” are trash asf for that lol

[@kkstars369]

This one was rough. Though of course yes I think Louis’s ex was fucked up for getting with the best friend and she should’ve chose someone else. I do feel for her for not getting the emotional support she felt she needed, I also think the best friend is not getting talked on enough. Louis please ditch him, he’s not your friend and then you get to distance yourself from your ex which will help you heal too. Bailey, as other people have pointed out, you deserve better, you guys don’t seem to want the same things. And the last lady sorry I don’t remember your name. You might never get the response/closure you want from him and I think you should try to learn to accept that. It’s real hard, but it seems he does not want to be around you.

[@jaywilliams6461]

This the one💯

[@oh7807]

Here you go taking up for the female of course

[@carlosjavier771]

This honestly the best take here.

[@mari-uh1gu]

3:19 wdym why didn’t he say anything?? it’s kinda obvious you shouldn’t date ur ex’s bsf babe😭 i dint think anything has to be said

[@chair2r]

I wanna give Lewis a hug so bad. Literally cried watching that

[@Dimo-exe]

Crying tf are you a little girl 😂

[@annie.joy_]

awww i feel bad for louis it seems like he actually really loves his ex and is heartbroken shes dating one of his best friends now.... i hope they work things out whether it just ends up being friendship or more

[@alanamendez2036]

Nah he needs to drop her and his friend. He deserves better people in his life.

[@princessk.8887]

He should have communicated better 🤧…

[@Aney07]

@@princessk.8887 what? You sound ridiculous

[@princessk.8887]

@@Aney07 he should have, she stated that.. he had 3 years, but his homie out did him

[@BRUH-lf2ss]

@@princessk.8887 that says a alot about you and her

[@Shane-sf5ul]

The ex-husband definitely did not want any part of it lol

[@mushfiqaamineusha4934]

im gonna cry i relate to louis so much. i dont know how to express my feelings cause i was never allowed to and always got scolded. now i struggle with everything and i cant even express my feelings in any way. i hope louis feels better cause i can see his pain in his eyes

[@ephraimnsama9136]

Bro dating your ex's best friend is crazy

[@SporksNForks]

“This is my homeboys gf I can’t just hate her” Bro he deserves the world man😢

[@edensenergy]

I did ballet with Bailey and her sis! My face lit up when i saw her! beautiful girl, you deserve the world! Your confident, loving and fun, i remember from being a kid! you are valuable don’t forget that! you deserve everything you want!

[@austinlomeli8681]

I know how he feels. When my ex started seeing my best friend I lost two important people in my life and it shattered me.

[@незалежність-я3о]

I feel bad for that Andrew dude too. He’s telling her how he honestly felt and she’s telling him how weird he is. No wonder he didn’t want to stay with her.

[@BobSmith-ns5fh]

2:10 why the hell should he go through the trouble of caring about it when she was cheating on him. that's just wasted feelings and effort if she's already wanting to push him away and move out and leave him for someone else

[@emmayraa]

i’m actually in louis’s ex shoes rn, just i dont date my ex bestfriend. I could relate to the “you know, you’ll always be a part of my heart”. I felt that. Even tho rn i moving on with my life, have a new bf (he’s a great man), but i won’t deny about this one ex that really touch my heart in the past. Its not that i’m still stuck in the past, i dont love him anymore. thanks god that i broke up with him just so i could met my current bf, even if we tried to stay its not going to work anyways :)