Facing our Biggest Challenge as a Couple

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In this video we face our biggest challenge as a couple. We update you on our search for Swedish property, vanlife and tell you about our biggest challenge behind the scenes.
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⭐ About Travel Beans:
Hello and welcome to our channel! We are Alex & Emma, a British couple who have been exploring the world together for over 10 years - from backpacking to vanlife:
2012/13: We both embarked on our own solo backpacking trips through Southeast Asia, where we would eventually meet at a hostel in the mountains of Thailand and begin traveling together. After a year and a half of backpacking around Southeast Asia & Australia, we returned home and to the corporate world!
2015: Travel Beans was born and we filmed our first videos on a road trip around Europe with friends! This was our biggest trip yet.. and you can go back and watch the entire adventure because we filmed ALL of it! This trip took us through Russia, Mongolia & China, on the longest railway journey in the world. Followed by highlights such as staying on a local island in the Maldives for a month, going on safari in Sri Lanka, couchsurfing & hitchhiking in Korea, seeing the snow monkeys in Japan, island hopping in the Philippines, trekking 60km through the centre of Myanmar, exploring the Indian Himalayas, and checking out some of the incredible US National Parks.
2016: Despite an unbelievably memorable year and a half of travels, which we were incredibly grateful to have had the privilege to experience.. we found ourselves in New York City, battling depression. At this point, we decided to go home and confront this problem head-on.
2017: After 6 tough months at home we decided to go away again, but this time with a goal in mind.. to turn travel into a lifestyle. We left the UK with just £500 in our bank account and a dream to make a continuous travel lifestyle happen! We both got online English teaching jobs to be able to fund our travels and to keep creating videos. We can't quite believe that our younger selves decided to take this plunge but we are so grateful they did as we are still on this journey today!
What now?
Over the years, we've discovered that we LOVE road trips and even decided to renovate our very own little VWT4 van into a campervan to be able to enjoy vanlife and spend more time on the road. We are now the proud owners of 2 awesome little campers - one based in the UK and one that we keep in the USA. You'll often find us using one of these vans to explore Europe and North America. If you enjoy this kind of content we'd recommend checking out our Italy Road Trip series, USA vanlife series and our Japan in a Tiny Van series as well as our UK vanlife content.
Our time spent overcoming depression has influenced our outlook on life dramatically! We are now traveling the world in search of what makes us happy. We love sharing the highs and lows of our trips through our videos and hope to spread a little positivity and light to all of the beautiful people who take the time to tune in and watch each week!
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BEANS OUT!

[@TravelBeans]

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[@KyleRuggles]

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[@DeborahAnneWeber]

The Indie Projects www.youtube.com/@theindieprojects are selling their original property, has fruit trees, other garden, cooling mini-plunge, bath-house, etc, etc. It'd be great content for both your channels...

[@AnnAmbler]

I hope people can see a therapist, but Better Help is absolutely only a payday to KZbinrs. So sad that it’s happening all over again. I know this life isn’t free, but this brand deal isn’t it. Too many poor business practices. I hope you find a better brand deal.

[@Joe-Bazuka]

If you continue to work with these scumbags its going to look bad

[@Lonnwriting]

Yip yip yippie

[@sandrabutcher1961]

You guys DON'T need to explain, vlog when you want, release them when it feels right for you, if that's 1 a month or every couple of weeks do what feels right for you guys

[@TheresaPowers]

Oh, I guess they will love having your permission what to do. Sarc/

[@janinedevilliers510]

​@@TheresaPowersIt was actually a very kind comment and was what I was thinking. Without subcribers the Beans won't have a YT, they won't be able to get an incime from what they do. They have built up their subscribers to 346 thousand, which is no easy feat. The Beans as a couple look exhausted at the moment. My partner and I have a camper van, I know how challanging it is living in a van already, and with having a baby boy it escalates that difficulty as we can see in this video. Having a baby changes everything. If the subscribers understand what to expect, they will stay subscribers regardless of when videos are posted and will follow the journey wherever it may lead. I also follow Leave Everything and Wonder on YT with Luca and Sara. They also had a baby and tried to continue van life and it just wasn't working with a baby girl. Sara and Luca bought a bigger van. They bought a piece of land in Sicily. And they bought a 1 Euro arpartment to fix up. As subscribers we enjoy them for who they are and still follow them no matter what they are transitioning to. It is all good and part of life. And we will follow the Beans because they are great people who have to reprioritise. Sarcasm was so unnecessary attacking an innocent comment of support. Is that what you enjoy? Cutting people off at the kneecaps? Please don't, we have enough trolls and nastiness going on on YT. It would be so much more productive leaving an encouraging comment of your own. Peace.

[@ariannecollman1972]

@theresapowers she wasn’t giving permission she was showing support.

[@brendariley8982]

Well, we don't body shame. Period So you have grown into your mature older bodies. Yes we all do that. So now you feel the need to create more healthy bodies where you can be more active. That's okay, and you can do that. But, never shame your body or yourself, instead remember that life hands you lessons, and maybe this is one of them. Here's to great health and happiness. Cheers.

[@oneeyedphotographer]

That's an excuse for doing nothing. As an autistic, I do little to please others, but I care about my health and general health. See my separate comment about this.

[@michellec8273]

​@@oneeyedphotographerthe only thing was said not to shame, nothing about not getting more healthy. Shame never helps anyone or anything, it only makes you dislike yourself.

[@Diorella_scent]

I’d seriously love to understand the terrible lessons that life has thrown at me over the past 12 years. If you elaborate more on your theory of not body shaming, and where you got or give that advice from. I’m very interested with the mental health and weight loss issue 😢

[@user-ct2wx6ir7d]

@@Diorella_scent I consider it body shaming that people make remarks because I am underweight. It isn't a compliment for people to make any remarks about someone's weight and some people think that thinner people should take everything as a compliment. I am perfectly healthy but how does anyone know I don't have an illness that they're pointing out is something they have to make a remark about. I don't have to explain myself to anyone. People have to mind their own business about stuff that cannot possibly, personally affect them.

[@OmegaWalple]

What Alex means to say is "I've found the person I want to annoy most in life is you, Emma."

[@sheaholloway9537]

Can't live with 'em, but god knows ya can't live without 'em!

[@joyceannrunions4127]

Good for you guys !!! After my husband passed away 8 years ago, I tried to eat my grief away, using food to comfort me. Last year I turned 70 and cut out sugar and got off my butt. I walk 5 to six miles every day and lift weights. I have now lost more than half of myself. I run up and down the stairs at the park on the lake near my house, Thats 73 stairs and I am now able to do it 5 times. My dream is to take my daughter to Positano for her 40th next year and thats why I am doing the stairs. I think doing this for your son and of course for yourselves is such a great motive. I wish you so much success. You got this !!!!

[@gabygaedecke2411]

So many of us can identify with you and your struggles in daily life. We love you, we all hope that putting Noah and your own health first pays off in real time. You've got this - go for it! Rooting for you!

[@susanlewis1875]

^^^^ What Gaby said ^^^^ This is a great time to make this choice... You're young, inquisitive, committed and funny! And you have a strong network of loving support here. Unless you quit drinking. Then the deal's off. LOL JUST KIDDING!!!!!

[@juliemitchell9835]

Good on you,you can do this.

[@norm4907]

Honestly it doesn’t matter what you do, people will follow you because of you (three now). It’s about character and honesty.

[@sroberts605]

Yes, lovely people, and Noah's turning into a star in front of us - the speed with which he sussed out the new bedquarters... and it's escape routes was impressive. It may have worked better if you'd said 'you can't sleep in the cardboard box'... and then left him to curl up in it, lol.

[@stuarttownsend6756]

No body shaming just what it is. I can relate. In some ways I am fitter than I used to be but in others not. Definately need to increase the exercise l. For years never really put.on weight but realised that over the last couple of years have. Not much but can feel it. May be good to be part of a group.

[@teresahouston2577]

Concerning Noah and his sleep - I highly recommend having a very fixed bedtime ritual . Get two new books that are only read right before he goes to bed. Come up with some phrases that you only say at night as you get him into bed, give him the same drink in the same cup, right before bed. Whatever you do, wherever you are, as much as possible, keep the bedtime ritual.

[@sarahsue42]

Yes,babies know where they are with fixed routines..also watching for tiredness windows and starting bedtime wind down then. 2.5 hours is way too long ,an hour max for bath,stories, cuddles,bed was always my intention

[@mariannejensen5244]

Ditto. What she said

[@oneeyedphotographer]

When I was 12-14 I was in an institution where bedtime was 21:00, lights out 22:00, up at 6:00. I regularly lay there in the dark, listening to the grandfather clock chime each quarter, past midnight. I simply did not need that amount of sleep.

[@Red-Robin4]

LOL!!! I love it when Alex makes funny jokes and his dirty jokes are hilarious! He is so cute and funny!😂😂😂😂

[@Red-Robin4]

“Don’t Show Him Your Crannies Ladies “ LMAO that was hilarious!!😂😂😂😂😂

[@karenkeller5866]

I’m 65 and nearly 8 years ago I became vegan, it changed my life and I feel like I gained 10 years of life.

[@roryheath]

Hey guys I get it. I'm 67 years old and the last time I got weighed back in September I was 213lbs. I couldn't fit in my 33" waist jeans anymore and was seriously thinking I would have to go to 35". I just couldn't do that, so In Jan (a resallution) I weened myself off of sweetened creamer in my coffee (the way that I had drank it since the age of 19) and pretty much cut out dairy. I also have cut down on prepared meals. Thanks to my grandson I get at least 3miles of walking in 5 days a week. I don't know how much I weigh because I don't have a scale, but I have been back in my 33" jeans since middle of May.So I would be willing to continue this journey with you guys so that I don't fall back. I have allowed some desserts on special occasion, but near as much as I used to. Being a Heinz variety of European blood I love sweets and bread! Bread is the one thing I won't go without. Sorry this is so long. I like you guys and "Endless Adventures"

[@pzpoppazulu7801]

Congratulations on getting married 🎉

[@annaschmidt2]

I'm a Mom of 3 kids (now teens) and I've found that the most important aspect of my health, since becoming a parent, is getting a good night's sleep. I think you should sell the van and do the type of travel that allows you to sleep well most nights. That might mean Air BNB or hotels or a new camper van. But having a full night's rest is super important.

[@jacks2222]

So true

[@bonniehollingsworth1996]

Essential!

[@oneeyedphotographer]

I think a problem with that is that soon Noah will need to go the school, or his Mum & Dad are going to have to start home schooling. And he will need to socialise with kids around his own age. The van might then serve well for holidays and weekend trips. For home schooling, or a second baby, then consider a larger van.

[@suesmith4209]

I agree

[@KatesThings]

Sleep! Yes so important for health both physical and mental.

[@MrRobbyc]

Intermittent fasting , cut out sugar and eat things that have always been food , it really is that simple and your body will reset 👍👍👍 I speak from experience and made the same decisions when I became a parent

[@sandyj479]

When the right property comes to light, you will know it. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. If you guys feel like you need to take time off to care for yourself,, please do. Noah is growing so big and adorable. Even if you can't post a full video, could you please just post that you are all ok. Good luck with all your future endeavors.

[@Tameasa]

I laughed out loud when Alex said, "You'll do!" Noah is getting way more adventurous, use him as your exercise coach! I'm so happy for your upcoming wedding...so happy.

[@mscarlarn]

We watch you two-three of you because of you. Not because you travel. You two make my heart happy with your love for you have for each other for Noah and for life. Take care Beans!! Xoxo

[@caroleh8499]

Noah’s sleep patterns/habits will change many times. Whatever you have to do now to accommodate, will be change in a year or two. You’re a darling family. It will all work out.

[@reneecloyd6114]

It's truly not about size, it's about being fit. If you focus on being healthy, the weight will come off. Don't get trapped in the looks part, focus on how you feel when doing things. And definitely get some mental health behind you cuz it's so easy to beat ourselves up. Love you guys and we'll be here EVERY time you post.

[@davestevens4263]

Me too ! Ill be here even if your living in a van down by the river , great people

[@MsSmcinerney]

We love watching you. You are both down to earth, and don't pretend to be what you aren't ❤ sadly. health issues hit us all one way or another, and we all have our own fight to try to get healthy. Please don't feel ashamed and just keep working towards your goals. Love you both and Noah 😊

[@susanrichards9846]

I love watching your travels and how down to earth you both are. Noah is such a cutie too. Good luck on your health journey and congratulations on your upcoming wedding❤️

[@sandramillward8759]

Applauding you for realizing this on your 30s and taking the steps now! Go Bean family!

[@JudyCurrie]

I really hope you never have to read any nasty comments. Self care takes a lot of time but is so important. Your biggest enemy is processed food and sugar. Eat clean and continue with your very entertaining ventures and you will get where you want to be. ❤

[@stevediggs2123]

Proud of you guys. I did the physical health stuff wrong into my 30s...100+ hour work weeks, no exercise, eating like a starved elephant. Then, at 39, BOOM! Five heart bypasses and given 1 to 2 years to live. Thankfully, God had other plans for me. Lots of prayer. Changed a lot of bad habits. My docs are still in stunned disbelief. I just turned 72 and feeling great.

[@TheSoapChef]

Love how open, honest and raw you are about everything in your lives when you don't have to at all. Take care of yourselves, if you don't put yourselves 1st, there's nothing left for anyone else. Your people will still be here whenever you are ready. Oh, and SO happy for the nuptual news. Cheers U 2

[@karenrn5607]

I love you two so much. I’d love to join you with the new healthy lifestyle! Excited! ❤ Thanks for the invite! (I’m amazed how fast Noah is becoming a little boy and less a baby!! He’s brilliant!)

[@sarahpringle2899]

Don’t be so hard on yourselves. You are both amazing and Noah is gorgeous. You need a comfortable sleeping place as number one priority. Congrats on your wedding plans.

[@songfta]

Definitely put on your own oxygen mask before helping others - self care is important! And helping yourselves means you'll be better parents to Noah, which is vital. Just take it one step at a time, and whether you choose to take us viewers along for the ride is entirely up to you. We're here, whether you post regularly or not. Take care and be well, all of you!

[@k.j.2481]

I love the fact that you are all together, and like your friends the Newbys, that's probably the way it's going to stay. You guys give stability to people that have lost hope of happiness. You may say "that can't be true?" But it is. Keep trusting yourself, you'll succeed. Because look what you've done so far.😊

[@shannonkelley4658]

No apologies needed. It's fun to watch the adventures.

[@mikeanderson6522]

My daughter has a one year old boy. Your life is all about watching a 1 year old child . Love it and your very tired. Film anything. We are here watching with love.

[@maemae1770]

😂😂”doggy bed” made me spit out my coffee!! I just love you two (three!) and how you embrace all your adventures and challenges, keeping it real, keeping it funny! 🎉Congrats 🎉 on your upcoming wedding! I so enjoy the glimpses of your lives you share with us. ❤️🇨🇦❤️

[@kristennone785]

Yay! Beans!!❤. Love yall. Im so glad your not quitting, I was scared for a minute. Happy to wait for vids if and when you need to take a break and focus on your health. I live in the US and absolutely love watching your videos. I will watch as long as you continue making them. ❤

[@deirdremccann3212]

I am a 60 year old Nana. I was overweight and unhealthy all my life. 2 years ago I prioritised my health, best thing I have ever done. Especially to remain active with our grandchildren. My only regret is not doing it sooner. You will never regret it, you just have to prioritise it and make time. Sending you lots of good wishes. 💙👏🏻

[@bernedicte5860]

same

[@teresatucker3446]

Well done!! I’m 63 and really need to get back in shape! My physical health took a turn for the worse following covid lockdown, as I couldn’t go out on my bike. Never felt so unfit and unhealthy, so will be inspired by you guys and all the comments! xx

[@deirdremccann3212]

@@teresatucker3446 Seriously the best thing I’ve done. I just gave myself time, prioritised me. 💙

[@cherylbrunette2490]

Yes, That is it, make it part of your daily routine.

[@audreymurray4375]

I so agree the reason can be different but we all need that push to get started good luck small steps will help😊

[@Cloudey88]

My wife and I very much relate to your pain. As fellow wanderlust/inspired van owners of a similar age (minus child for now) we have been inspired by your videos for some time and feel oddly invested in your journey! We also struggle with maintaining healthy waistlines for long durations and have periodic needs to strip life back to basics to create the runway to focus on health. It’s not easy when life revolves around food, talking about food or travelling to eat different food. Take as long as you need out and don’t worry about us. Love your idea of a little community and perhaps even a organised group hike or something might be cool to try. Good luck guys.

[@lisaward7519]

For me whenever I started something new with my kids, I always made a commitment to give it a week to make the change. It takes a while to train a baby or a child to something new. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!!!

[@dawnlupton2416]

Happy you have made the decision to prioritise your health. I would really recommend to start by cutting out as much Highly Processed Food as possible. It really works at resetting the micro biome and the desire to eat more than is necessary. Best of luck guys, real food all the way xx

[@maryhyndman4767]

Mostly, just cut the carbs way down. Try to avoid sugars and toxic seed oils. Meats, fish, and above ground vegetables and you've got it made. Good for you for making the decision to better your health.

[@carolineandria7431]

Please don't give up on family van life. We have 2 girls, in a transit mini bus. One sleeps in a murphy bed above our fixed double, the other is in a very similar set up to yourself. Our first night in the van, our youngest, who was 2 at the time, screamed, literally all night...allllllll night. There on after, she slept better and better. Now, the first night in a while can be a challenge, but on the whole, both girls sleep better than at home, so do I. I don't know if it's being more active, being outside more, being close together as a family, or a combination of the three, but we all love being in our van.

[@NLR759]

Buy a property in the UK, get a mortgage. Continue being digital nomads for part of the year, and while you are away, rent your house out as an airbnb to pay the mortgage. I would personally find it very difficult to maintain a healthy diet while travelling, when there are so many new and interesting foods to try, and little routine to make it easy to prepare healthier food. You don't need to feel bad about yourselves regarding this issue. Most of us would end up the same way! You guys are my favourite youtubers! You're very genuine and relatable, always a pleasure to watch. Oh, and did you know they actually make dog beds for full grown adult humans?? They sell them on amazon, totally hilarious looking, but I bet they would be so comfy!

[@mgraham_Indiana]

I really want to understand this phenomenon. Of the youtubers I follow who have young families, how is it the wee ones seem to grow up at an amazing accelerated pace? Noah was born a few episodes ago, and he’s running across the field. Time is crazy on this platform. It’s like watching a sitcom on TV where one season the kids are babies and the next they are in school.

[@HeyHollyYoo]

If I see anyone being mean to you in the comments, I will give them a piece of my mind!! You guys are amazing, and thank you for reminding us that our health is most important ❤ And congrats on the nuptials!!

[@heavenlyvilla8681]

Give them a piece of mine too. This is third youtuber couple I know going through stuff, including negative feedback. There is no need for negativity.

[@lpittman1509]

Before you sale your van, think a bit longer term. Noah won’t be in this stage for long. When he is a bit older, he will understand bed time better and sleep where you put him.

[@pandrew3146]

All the best with staying healthy, happy and nourished in every possible way. 😊❤

[@tommidukes93]

Good luck to you both! I would love to join you in your journey of becoming healthier! I will watch whatever and whenever you post!

[@dianesilverstein6475]

I turned 70 last year and it really hit me hard. Out of shape emotionally and physically and sad to be this age and so unhappy. In early April, I quit processed sugar cold turkey, and began eating really healthier with my husband. I've lost 25 lbs! My big appetite has shrunk! I'd love to join you in your journey! On another topic...Noah is as beautiful and cute as can be! He's quite a walker and runner now! Stay happy and healthy! ❤😊

[@jj-if6it]

Maybe it's just not big enough though and he needs his own room. I hope they continue to have a van either way

[@brendaw2255]

The correct word is sell not sale. “Before you sell your…”

[@ablanco5]

I finally just started a low sodium, low sugar, better quality food diet because my health has been suffering. Good luck with your efforts! I will watch you guys no matter what! And--congratulations!!

[@kristilucia3491]

I'm in the middle of my own personal health crisis, and I fully agree with the prioritization of your bodies' physical and mental health so that you can 1. Be the best parents for Noah, 2. Be the best spouse for each other, AND 3. Perhaps continue in your career as video creators. No pressure and lots of love being sent your way!! 🎉❤

[@SamanthaMar20]

You two are such candid inspirations. Thanks for sharing little pieces of your life with us all, beans

[@ninareeves2995]

This brought back memories of keeping a German campsite awake all night with an overtired, screaming toddler who refused to go to sleep and then woke every 2 hours😖😰 A year later, he was fine, so my advice would be to stick with it as young kids do love campervanning.

[@yorkslad9589]

Whatever you do, do it together and enjoy it. Noah will grow so quickly so take time out to enjoy whilst you can. Wishing you all the best.

[@OldEarthWisdom]

I am 69 years old and switched to a whole food plant-based diet 15 years ago. I am the only one in my family who has no health problems and can do as I please. I moved to Mexico as a solo woman expat after traveling as a nomad for 5 years. I hope you will explore a whole food plant-based diet. Oh yeah... I also lost 70 pounds!!! and have kept it all off even though I was fat since I was a little girl. Good luck with this new adventure!!!

[@lauragosnell2481]

Funny I did the exact opposite. I had been on a plant based diet and was sick in bed without any good days. I watched a video on the carnivore diet. I didn’t eat meat because I feel bad for the animals. Which I still do, so I only do pasture raised. But, I may have one bad day here and there but I too lost 70 plus and all my labs are excellent. I am 56 and I workout everyday for at least an hour!! I feel like I hit the health lotto. So if something doesn’t work don’t give up!!

[@no_clot_shot1128]

​@@lauragosnell2481I guess she never tried the full carno diet. Her case sounds like going to that from eating unhealthy. Western processed foods, fast food, sugar bombs etc... That's my guess. Anyway...

[@terristott7433]

Good for you

[@campingourway9705]

Yes! My family went WFPB and we all lost weight without even trying. It was the easiest diet (actually new way of life) that I’ve ever done. I’m so happy knowing that I’ve reversed comorbidities and I can maintain this way of eating for the rest of my life. Look up doctors Esselstyn, Greger, Fuhrman, McDougall, and many more, who show the actual scientific evidence supporting a WFPB diet.

[@karenking850]

Love your videos, love you guys fat or thin. I went plant base for the animals and for my health and my weight dropped over the years. Good luck with your journey.❤️

[@glennmartin346]

Hey y'all! Don't be too hard on yourself.... What you're starting to realize is that as you get older, it's harder to lose weight and harder to maintain your weight. Different foods are you were able to eat as you're young. You just can't eat them the same way you used to... So go slowly embrace this new life that you're going to have and enjoy it. Hugs to all

[@singersoll6123]

It’s a lifestyle change that will make the difference - by that I mean food choices, fitness and the like. I think it’s a great move in the right direction, which will in turn benefit your mental health 👍🏻 I support your decision 💯% Best to you guys in your new adventure!

[@josephinebrinkman9942]

You both are doing something that a lot of people can relate to. I applaud your joint decision to make your health a priority. It is hard to find a balance but when you are young and new parents, you could not have picked the right time. I am 68 years old and have struggled with loving cooking, baking, traveling, drinking wine and keeping all the effects of those loves. Good for you, I watch your channel faithfully and will continue to do so on this journey. Cheers!! I have lost five pounds this month. Coming back to the U.S. from a three month trip to Italy I got Covid 19 (first time) I lost five pounds as a result and stopped drinking any alcohol or having dessert with every meal. It's a start but it is not killing me. Keep the faith, your faithful fans are cheering you on.

[@AbominableJoshie]

Good for you both! Kinging it just got a new sponsor for their episodes that seems to be a good fit for your new initiative. It looks like a fitness and personal trainer system that could well fit with your semi-digital-nomadic lifestyle.

[@sharonlundquist8433]

Ah, there's my favorite beans. I will miss watching your videos, but I understand the health issues. I would love to join you on your health quests. Please keep me posted. 💌

[@philipfieldhouse9229]

You are who you are and what you are, never feel you should be someone else. Live your life now and always be decidedly undecided. Life is like a british summer , sunshine and showers.

[@EldoonNemar]

I’m so proud of you both. I too have been trying and trying to lose weight. I went on a weight loss plan and dropped 15 lbs, but as soon as I thought I was strong enough to begin making my own foods, I failed and gained it back. I work out 30 minutes a day but at 43, nothing is easy anymore. I’m glad you’re putting yourselves higher on the priority list. Congrats on the engagement also!!!

[@lancelotlake7609]

We're in.. no mater what adventures and challenges life has in store for you all. We've been following you two... now three, for so long, you feel like family. We're old parents.. we understand the challenges you young'ins go through and both worry about you and celebrate your victories. We applaud your taking the time to work it all out... and appreciate when you check in with us every now and again.

[@allan4054]

Good on you both for getting fit. You will feel better mentally as well 👌

[@jaclynwilliamson9646]

Alex, love the idea of an online community! Emma, woman to woman, I think you are absolutely gorgeous! But I totally understand the need to make sure you are happy and healthy. Also, The audience starts watching KZbin channels by a common interest but then they stay watching for the people and their personalities:) you could post about anything and id still watch! 😊

[@ah3312]

Highly recommend using the NHS couch to 5k app. You don't need to reach 5k to feel the benefit. Just repeat the shorter run walks as its just great at getting you moving and do the stretching afterwards. It gently builds strength!

[@appledumpling4766]

First of, congratulations on your pending marriage. So happy to hear you’re putting your health as priority. One suggestion. If you’re not doing this already, get in a cadence of having annual check up appointment with your doctor. Get your labs/tests done that are needed. It’s always great to know (versus not know) where your body stands in terms of “healthiness” Focus more on eating the right foods in a balanced way and getting exercise daily ( versus say taking vitamins/supplements, running 10ks etc). In retrospect, I wish i would have done this when I was your age. One more thing, constantly remind yourself that while you can’t “undo” some damage you’ve done from the past, but you can alter your behavior and priorities so that you have the greatest opportunity to live a long, healthy and happy life.

[@cherilangguth2151]

Do what you need too! Just so glad you weren't saying goodbye to us all and ending the channel! In my opinion Noah is at the hardest age. Old enough to have an opinion but but old enough to discuss it with you 🙂 when he is a bit older van life will be easier again. Just hang in there. Looking forward to what you guys try next.

[@rubired123]

Similarly to you, my husband and I have realized that we have succeeded in so much - EXCEPT our health. That’s constantly on the back burner and this year we decided that everything else would take a step back and the priority would be our health. We started working out 3x a week in Feb and have been consistently doing it. We signed ourselves up for a half marathon in September to keep ourselves accountable. Then we started focusing on nutrition. I started intermittent fasting, which was easy to do with our schedule. Just small steps. Totally worth it, and wish you the best on your journey!

[@deborahwilson8482]

Love you Travel Beans! Go with the flow, follow your instincts, on every journey of life! Many, many blessings to you every step of the way! ❤

[@brandycortez671]

Exactly how myself and my husband are feeling. We have put ourselves last and now we want to put our health first again ❤ Congratulations on the beginning of great health good luck.

[@martinsaunders3797]

I follow 30 vloggers (max) Travel Beans are my number ONE, honestly, why, because you are so honest with your vlogs, good times and not so good ones! So you are first of all parents to a beautiful boy and secondly you MUST put yourselves first and do what is right your family, your followers understand. (ignore the negative comments) I will look forward to your next vlog whenever it may be and will thumbs up it...before I watch it!

[@findingouradventure_]

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[@cher9653]

Hope you can post again soon. I love the way you experiment with the possibilities of living in Colorado, Scotland, Portugal, Italy. You WILL find your place. Thanks for sharing.

[@chris_dowsett]

I believe most viewers are here to follow your journey, where ever that leads you. So do what’s right for you. Also congratulations on your upcoming wedding.

[@nicandtris]

Congratulations on the wedding. Health is everything. Support and motivation are so important. Re Noah in the van, also don't forget it's new and exciting, he'll be fine as he gets used to the setup. Go Beans!

[@terrigough9679]

Congrats on the upcoming wedding. So happy for you both. Good luck on your health journey from someone who sadly let things slip too much and now has mobility issues. Afterall your mental health is deeply entwined with how you feel physically as you no doubt already know. Ignore any negative comments because I'm damn sure you will have far more positive ones from those of us who love your humour and realness. Do things at your pace and keep being there for each other ❤

[@Ellainthevanlifeworld]

i work with children and know how it feels when they don't sleep quick enough, you guys are doing sooo well, keep it up.

[@helenwheels4444]

I would be keen to join you on a healthier journey. Actually, you guys have put me on that path already, though you don’t know me. I bought a red T4 in Australia a few years ago and stumbled on your channel shortly after. Your idea of having a van in USA inspired me to percolate that idea and as a result a week ago I arrived in the UK and in a week I pick up my new-to me van in the Netherlands to embark on my gap year (at age 54) travelling Europe and documenting it on KZbin!!! I’ve been wanting to reach out to thank you for the inspiration so seeing your video today seemed like the perfect time to do so. Thank you. It really was a health decision, to travel while I can, when the opportunity arose and to use the opportunity to get healthier also. So yes please, if you want support and collaboration on a healthier journey, I’m in!

[@stephenpaller7747]

You both are lovely people, no matter what size you are. Still, changing things in your life to improve your health is never a bad thing! Good luck!!!

[@ann-mariejensen2623]

Good for you two! Physical and mental health are so important. I'm impressed and wish you success. Congrats on the upcoming nuptials!

[@kimmcalister3594]

Congratulations on your upcoming marriage! So very happy for you! Life with a baby is hard, even though quite wonderful. I never would have been able to raise my now grown girls in a camper van! Y’all will get it all figured out. Props to you both for working on your personal health and fitness.

[@debbiegordon7684]

I started walking at least 40+ minutes every day, rain or shine….and eating healthier…one year later I feel so much better and I’m down a whole pant size….no stress and I allow myself to cheat occasionally. Good luck and don’t forget to enjoy the journey! 😎

[@Patricia-ps4yh]

Congratulations!! Love you guys regardless of what size you are I'll always watch!Do what makes you happy! Carry on Beans!💝

[@EvaVilla-pm5mv]

Y’all have a very active lil man there. Totally adorable but wow all that energy.

[@TheAtanyrate]

Have you toured the properties in Sicily? You should go visit Leave Everything And Wonder and tour some homes. We are all fighting the eat healthier battle. You have my full support! Cheers to tasty, healthier options!

[@StephenandSusan6557]

I’m glad for your sakes that you want to change things up. But it’s your personality and sense of humour (both of you) that keeps me watching. It seems like you are being your best possible selves as you face all the challenges, including living part of your lives in public. All the best and take care.

[@dkonieczny1]

Perhaps if you always start your video on what you did this week to improve your physical health you will encourage us to get healthier as well. A win win.

[@heather91582]

I’d be down to join a group…I’ve made the same decision to take care of myself and be more active in the past few days. Good luck guys! And congrats on the future wedding ❤️

[@monten3801]

Hey, vast majority of us r gonna keep watching y'all even if ur just doing crossword puzzles! Y'all r smart/savvy and will figure it out. Best regards Blue & Monte

[@megs_holland]

This video could not have been more timely for me personally. This year is my 10 year anniversary at my place of employment. I started just before my 40th birthday and was really happy. The last five years have not been very enjoyable and I have worked long hours in stressful roles with bad management. I have also put on over 35kgs. It is easy for me to blame the job and the stress, but I know I have made poor choices and used my unhappiness at work as the reason for these choices. But you are right - we might be getting better at improving our mental health, but I very seriously need to look at my physical health. So here is to us - moving more and eating better!

[@RocketDog73]

No public shaming here. You two rock. Emma’s laugh is contagious 👍

[@nessabridge5019]

Beans need to be happy beans ! We will be glad to see you whenever you can fit us in. We all will be here for you.

[@kerrypennings4294]

You are absolutely right on! Two powerful things are jumping to my mind here and perhaps they'll help you? One is, you could hike the Camino Frances. People do do it with a baby. You could watch: "Walking The Camino Six Ways to Santiago" It's become crowded, but the Frances feels like the one for you...it's long enough to help you make the changes as well as iconic. It is transformative in so many ways! And, it's a gorgeous hike too. I think of my life as before and after the Camino. Number two is, listen to The Secret. It's really powerful and exciting! Listen while you're driving...get it into all your cells! Love to you three!! 🙂 Congratulations!!!

[@user-ct2wx6ir7d]

Wow, there are some sad-sacks out there if they want to make fun of people who want to prioritize their overall well-being. They must not have had parents who put their family first. Good luck Travel Beans. Thank you for sharing your story. I look forward whenever you choose to post a video but do so at your leisure. You have a beautiful little boy.🌺💓

[@hcarpam1]

Let's do this together. I started keto middle of April. I've lost 20 pounds so far. I am a nomad that wants to do more too. I'm 64 traveling the states with my 86 year old mother. So proud of you ❤

[@trevorpoxon401]

Life’s full of excitement and uncertainty’s so face them and enjoy. Life is too short not to. Love of love to the 3 of you. Trevor & Linda 🇬🇧

[@bernedicte5860]

I'm 60 been overweight all my life. i didn't eat a lot. trying to fix my diabetes (type 2) I've lost more weight than i could imagine. 6 kg in 2 months. 15 in 1 one year. i suppressed carbs and sugar. i want to say that everyone is different (that's the difficulty). good luck and you're right to do it for good reasons❤

[@trinagezzi6974]

Noah is to darn smart!

[@mgraham_Indiana]

Noah = wildman.

[@kirgeek]

i am FIRST! what a great start to my 4 days off from work x yous are great

[@TravelBeans]

Hope you have an excellent few days off! 🙌

[@jeannecody5583]

Oh please know you’re both beautiful lovely people I’ve loved following you so so much. I’ve struggled with weight my entire life so I can relate… But also realize the first 4 years with kids will always be a big adjustment so please don’t be hard on yourselves much. I’m interested in your journey. Much love❤

[@shaunna6673]

I understand the struggle with changes happening every year and those around judging. I'm so glad you have each other for support as life goes on. People will judge, but make sure you show kindness to yourselves, even if others aren't. Get out and Live life with Love. Enjoy the moments! Treasure each other wherever you are =)

[@Botoburst]

No idea why you'd want to buy a place that's even colder than England, but you do you.

[@Supremewin777]

EXACTLY! And get 6 to 8 months of winter and total darkness😢

[@Michaels_Angle]

The Indie Projects is selling their off grid property in Portugal

[@lizstone3353]

I admire you both for being open and honest. You’re such a lovely couple, don’t be too hard on yourselves and make sure you have time for you as a family ❤ I look forward to keeping up with your progress 😊 take care xx

[@denisewebster5655]

You have to do what you need for yourselves. It's not that you won't be missed, but everyone should understand - and if they don't, to heck with them! Take care of you and your family - it is, after all, your life and not the viewers' life! Best wishes for all of you, and Congrats on the upcoming nuptials!!

[@JA-sb4go]

You now have a child. You need to focus on his needs : nursery, school, acquiring social skills by mixing with other kids within his age group. Buying in the EU unless you’re prepared to acquire residency is unrealistic

[@teresaqureshi9909]

That bed was not even straight, it sloped. The steering wheel & other hard parts like the dashboard he could wake himself on

[@munmun74]

Congrats on your upcoming marriage! I just turned 50 this year, and my husband is 54. We are both in the worst shape of our lives. 2020 was the start of "the great fattening". We are tired of being overweight and also want to increase the chances of living a long, healthy life. The biggest and easiest change is we need to move more. The biggest challenge is eating better. I know what I should be eating, but that big juicy bacon cheeseburger just looks better! I would be interested and inspired to watch you make changes for a healthier lifestyle. ❤

[@deanndasilva8467]

I just found your channel and am so happy I did. My husband and I are in our late 50's and are full-time travelers. I feel your struggles with making our health a priority. I look forward to engaging with you on this health-focused journey.

[@oldsambo]

In my view physical fitness (ie exercise) is most important followed by not smoking, moderate alcohol intake and lastly a good diet. Starting in your 30s is important. Continue to enjoy travelling