trends I’m skipping / NOT buying | fashion anti-haul

[@stephanieg2000]

"some cool, hot person wore_______" sums up all of these trends imo :(

[@breh9243]

I'm glad you are deinflucing overconsumption

[@jjenniferr91]

The boxer trend i isnt weird to me bc its not new. we were doing it in 90s grunge and every trend comes back around eventually same with baggy jorts.

[@jericson1109]

Yeah it was round in the early eighties. Never lasts long but it's fun while it lasts and then the boxers harmlessly go back to being for sleeping in.

[@clairewillow6475]

I bought a pair of pleated khakis.. like the kind a boy school uniform wears when they want to wear shorts. and that’s my version of Jorts 😂 I pair it with a super feminine top

[@LalaMyers]

i can help you feel reassured about the sambas because they are hands down the least comfortable sneakers i own. i bought them because i didnt own a casual sneaker and i genuinely thought they were cute. but the soles are so thin i can feel every single crack and crevice in the sidewalk so i cannot wear them longer than a few hours.

[@thegirlyghoul]

Some are cute tbh I can understand why you wanted them!! I hate that they didn’t work out for you, I’m sorry lol.. but I appreciate your honesty!!

[@Ciaoies]

Always remember tabis are traditional Japanese shoes, so imagine that rather than hooves and they’ll be less offensive 😭I have the Nike rift’s and they’re actually very comfortable. But yes, I do wear special tabi socks 🤝

[@crowjams266]

Same here and I genuinely have thought of wanting to get one with the tabi socks (especially paring with clothing that have kimono prints or inspired by kimono)

[@thegillmachine]

The dad shoe trend was kind of confusing to me because it’s literally the type of shoe EVERYONE over the age of 40 wears in my small Midwest town where no one cares about fashion (except the women do it in neon colors). Crazy to see it with the fashion girlies

[@saraluckhardt3927]

One trend I'm hard skipping on is capris - bad memories from middle school/high school on that one lol. Frye boots however are something I'm keeping my eye out for at the thrift store, but not buying online.

[@HeyimflylikeaG6]

I got capris because I found ones I thought were super cute at the thrift store but I have to admit I have not worn them

[@TarynRMartin]

I don’t understand why anyone would want to (visually) cut off their calf at the widest point? Capris are just so unflattering on pretty much anyone who doesn’t very long, very thin legs.

[@ivyward1393]

i looove the history behind tabis, personally, and i think they're a great shoe esp for the "elevated basic" crowd. mesh shoes i'm ehh on but i got some mesh slip ons and my sweaty feet are being saved this summer. would love some barrel jeans but i'm pear shaped with larger thighs so i haven't found any that are barrel enough, kinda weird that they're just the balloon style leg with a new name. "quiet luxury" drives me up a wall bc you can't be "quiet luxury" with unethical fast fashion with poor quality materials. the luxury is the ethics and quality of materials, not the way something looks.

[@claressadubs]

It was so weird to see long denim skirts become Fashion. To me they will always be enforced modesty. 😅

[@thelazyfashionedit]

Pentecostal chic is so real. That's exactly what I picture when I see a denim maxi skirt. Very common here where I live but i rather not partake because of the trauma loll

[@plumblossom44]

Tabi shoes look horrifically uncomfortable. Though I do share you're sentiment about leaving footprints like a mythical creature would be cool and whimsical.

[@lolal-t2027]

They are actually made to be comfortable, used by peasants as well as royalty, first introduced in the japanese edo period. They are probably uncomfortable at first for our western feet, but they are actually kinda engineered to be great.

[@TarynRMartin]

Do you just…shove two toes in one side and three in the other? What am I looking at here? 😳

[@plumblossom44]

@@TarynRMartin I've never worn them but I'd guess it's like wearing thongs (flip flops for the Americans), so the split is between the big toe. But don't quote me on that 🤣

[@MCMXCIII]

@@TarynRMartin Normally, wearing high heels cause the foot to slide down until the toes jam in the front of the shoe. I have a pair of 8 cm heeled Tabis and they're actually the most comfortable and stable heels I've ever worn BECAUSE the big toe is separated from the rest. So I guess the flat models would feel even better. I also exclusively wear Tabi socks with any closed shoe cause they provide more flexibility whereas normal socks feel constricting.

[@chimchilla404]

I had the small rectangle glasses in middle school and I cannot go back 😂 also, the jorts trend has been a plus for me cuz I realized I felt uncomfortable wearing normal shorts. They're longer, so I feel much more comfortable in them and they're great for summer. I got them right from my brother's closet plus a pair of cargo shorts!

[@orenji196]

Appreciate the commentary on shoe trends. I noticed the Sambas taking off and I looked at my chunky Filas and high top converse in my closet and realized I still love them and they’re just the shoes I prefer to wear whether or not they’re on trend or not. They look good and feel good on me and I’m just going to keep wearing them until one the trend comes back around 🤣

[@parentingadabsurdum]

Same same - my platform adidas and of course my rometty docs will continue to be my favorites.

[@melaniefarrow7152]

Thank you for helping me identify why I have not jumped on the maxi denim. I love denim skirts in general. I suddenly flashed to menonite girls skiing our local mountain in long denim skirts. They looked so controlled. Everyone with a singular identity. Nope, not gonna wear it. Thanks for the clarity.

[@malisarai6516]

Oof i do want those ugly 90s dad shoes. So expensive tho 😭😭 they look so comfy and i love big shoes

[@jellyfishgarden]

Frye boots make me think of that spongebob episode with the huge squeaky boots 🤭

[@Katiesgotmail]

Jorts looking the same no matter how styled is SO TRUE!

[@lilyshapland8657]

Jorts I feel are mainly worn for practicality? Atleast in my experience- longer than normal denim shorts to cover my bum and be more comfortable without wearing full jeans

[@k0rn0ndac0b]

Nah I wear them bc the 2000s skater numetal vibes lol I also have teeny shorts that have my bum out depending on the vibes I want that day 😂

[@lilyshapland8657]

@@k0rn0ndac0b Yeah I mean I pick on the vibe,mainly the vibe or occasion not to have my bum out tho😂 I can see how they fit a certain outfit style tho definitely

[@marysmith-w7n]

You are so well spoken!! Can't wait for for video essays

[@jenna0158]

The tabby shoe is one of the few trends I truly dislike haha

[@teoleno4019]

I call them goat feet shoes.

[@coolchameleon21]

tabis are giving goat hooves tbh, but i think that’s the appeal for some people. the boxer trend seems comfy tbh, lightweight and stretchy! i’m also a big fan of jorts as a plus size girlie. they also work well with my sensory issues in the summer. i hate burning my legs on a hot car seat or on a hot bench when i’m wearing shorter shorts. i also don’t like feeling the chairs i’m sitting on or how i sweat on chairs when i wear short shorts 🤢

[@simplereddot]

girl ur so prettyyyyy🫦🫦🫦 ur smile is so beautiful and i love how ur lashes look

[@shannonscheible7985]

Love my balloon jeans. They fit me better than all my jeans. If you have large thighs you know.

[@thejulietocean]

It’s the best trend that’s ever happened for the thick thigh gurl ✨ I’m so happy

[@Bejewelle88]

Lol! Imagine if you were wearing tabi shoes/ boots when you got sucked back in time - you'd be immediately burned at the stake! They wouldn't even bother with a court case! I don't hate them though, they're kinda interesting, though not for me.

[@thegirlyghoul]

omg you’re right, let’s hope no tabi wearers trip and fall into a time machine then anytime soon lol!! 😅

[@ivyward1393]

actually, depending on time and place you wouldn't! they're inspired by traditonal japanese footwear

[@lilyshapland8657]

Looking at these trends being some of my daily wears for years now😢😢that are now considered ugly

[@thegirlyghoul]

That’s never my intention to make you feel that way! Please keep doing you! There are plenty of things that I wear and love that are considered “ugly” or “outdated” by many lol. I only mean to encourage people/myself to think critically about what they like/are buying and why 😊🫶🏻

[@k0rn0ndac0b]

She never said they are considered ugly by society -in fact most of these are currently trending which is the point lol; this video is literally about her personal tastes and what she will not be seeking out to wear herself though it’s trendy currently

[@lilyshapland8657]

@@thegirlyghoul completely get your intentions! My comment was meant to be more lighthearted than I think it came across haha! Influencing critical thinking I do think is very important💗

[@lilyshapland8657]

@@k0rn0ndac0b completely get you💗

[@randomnotyettaken5871]

Had never seen or heard of Tabi shoes before. Not my thing.

[@chinami6534]

I have dupes for sambas and I don't know. They are comfy af. 😍

[@plarsen2654]

agree with what you say about the maxi denim skirts!!!!

[@TwentyOneOlivers]

I tried to like the samabas cause I love them on everyone else but they look so weird on my own feet 😓

[@rachymarie]

Omg i had never heard of them but the tabi shoe is soo bad lol what are we tryna be - cows??? Esp in the black or darker colours 😂 I'm all for innovation in fashion but they seriously look like hooves. Might work for the up and coming trending aesthetic: cottagecore cow aesthetic. P.s you're tooo cute/pretty 🤩

[@thegirlyghoul]

Yeah they were definitely intended to look like hooves!! Lol and thank you!! 💕☺️

[@rachymarie]

@thegirlyghoul I kept watching (still watching 😊) and must say I loved your idea about leaving hoofprints everywhere like some kind of mythical creature! (As a bit of a mythical creature myself 🧚‍♀️) That's cute. And i think they do look kinda cute in a weird way in the lighter pastel colours. But yes as a fellow neurodivergent, sensory nightmare lol and I won't be rushing out to get them (or dupes, rather - cos i haven't the $$$ to afford designer prices (in this economy??). Also a lil random but I love your collages for each trend, nice compilation and editing 🥰 forgive the long comments i am hyperverbal autistic ETA @

[@nancyjones3235]

Thk u ❤

[@SdotStylezTV]

Everything you named in this video is terrible and Will be More terrible sooner than later.

[@SocialExperiment232]

Between the tabi and those stupid mesh ballet flats what are we doing to shoes lately? And please just stop with the boxer shorts please 😭 stop wearing those out!