I'm a married man and I know that women don't just wake up and make up wild allegations about their husband unless there is some truth in it.
@irenegee8134Ай бұрын
Pewa kitu kwa bill yangu, I salute you
@mariakamau225Ай бұрын
Sarah stand up for ur life. Am praying for u. Marriage is not everything without peace.
@ThriveThoughtАй бұрын
You are a simp.
@MAYWAHITOАй бұрын
Aki😢😢😢
@Moe-JoeАй бұрын
That's exactly why you're married
@MercyKangethe-fz7zoАй бұрын
Keep talking and telling your story.Do not go silent. Fear not! God will see you through.
@stellawanjiku3359Ай бұрын
Hope milly and diana are ok juu siwezi imagine them going throw this i pray for all celebrities too all to be well with them
@annejayden7305Ай бұрын
My mother is in the grave for 20 years now for believing that a narcist can change.Mimi nikiona dalili zozote i murife run immediately
@MuringiNduta-f4pАй бұрын
I had to cancel my wedding coz wueh it's not easy 😢
@almahnjambiАй бұрын
The reason it got this far is because she did not act sooner and wanted to save face and avoid embarrasment. Sad
@josphinekiuna7088Ай бұрын
That's what so many women do ! Ad then when u get courage to get out u realise how strong you are!
@emmymutama2394Ай бұрын
Very true most of us women like hiding but men destroy publicly without caring. Kidogo kidogo bibi anakufa ndio stories zinaimage. Most narcissist can't even kill a fly
@jk-yr1rxАй бұрын
Why was she chasing the other woman with a knife , the reason she says this is because she was exposed in the cctv
@keziahmethu7469Ай бұрын
Now I know why he released that video of her beating the nanny. He was threatening her to keep silent about the abuse. Narcissists always know how to manipulate every situation. I applaud Sarah for coming forward and advocating for Domestic Violence!! May God give her strength.
@skeryl7426Ай бұрын
Yep now this is the whole plot Sarah threatened to talk about And he went ahead to make her public Yep narcissistic men will use anything to tarnish you So you have no reasoning n be quiet I bliv Sarah Whether she fought back she was defending herself Kabu is guilty of domestic violence Narc are very big pretenders They wear masks in public and are demons behind closed doors I know this too well And they will threaten you with anything if you try to report them or leave Sarah run for the hills
@MaryFlavor_kaniniАй бұрын
That's how Narcissist behave. Am a survivor I left and we are now comfortable with my kids as I let God to avenge for me.
@fridahiminza8659Ай бұрын
Am married to one 😢😢😢am dead inside,self esteem down,he separated me from my family😢they believe him 😢😢wamenitenga😢😢sina mtu ni mimi na my 2 kids 😢😢worst thing ni am jobless n I depend on him financially 😢😢it is really painful
@MaryFlavor_kaniniАй бұрын
@fridahiminza8659 , listen or watch about Narcissist and you will be well guided. Anza kujipanga financially hata kama ni pole pole.
@RuthBoro-g2gАй бұрын
How did you start?
@MaryFlavor_kaniniАй бұрын
@RuthBoro-g2g , it's not easy my relatives have been assisting. Am hustling here and there but I trust that the new year will be better.
@MaryFlavor_kaniniАй бұрын
They believed when I played for the the video of abuse and threats
@charity4908Ай бұрын
Kabu, you can not misbehave like this. You are international business man. Simply because you decided to kulala na wengine na unamistreat bibi yako na ni yeye ilitoa idea ya biashara. Pesa shows who people are. Wherenever you let a third person in your marriage, then it is doomed. ❗️❗️❗️
@AnnWamai-k4eАй бұрын
I feel you,I walked away from my marriage last year after 10yrs,I choose peace, and I choose peace.dealing with a narsist is the worst feeling ever
@fridahiminza8659Ай бұрын
It is draining. Narcissists dont deserve to live aki ni mashetani na miguu 12.am with one😢😢😢
@AkajasiАй бұрын
This includes men who are always in church i think not only rich but also poor ones. Thanks Sara your story has been an eye opener.
@wajayds2670Ай бұрын
Lemmi send this to my mom coz she needs to leave coz she is now healing wounds as we speak
@lucynthenya2943Ай бұрын
😢 OMG
@MarionKamwanaАй бұрын
Soo sorry darling
@getrayngala1298Ай бұрын
Pole sana
@graceoketch5937Ай бұрын
May God heal her completely
@Rachel-lq8szАй бұрын
Waaah ebu atoke mm nilitoka last year with 4 kids,na GOD is faithful
@dennismercy4980Ай бұрын
She looks messed up aki woishe...needs to go for a counselling...Mungu ni mwema you have money mommie
@zara.smithwickАй бұрын
I know. Only women who've been through it can understand. Abusive marriages leaves you with some emotional mental dents. We however heal with time and good self care. She'll be fine
@faithwanja1077Ай бұрын
Ameen@@zara.smithwick
@janekariuki942123 күн бұрын
Hi Sara, thanks for the courage. You have the power to help so many women through your story. Please keep us going.Dont look back. You are my Hero.
@AKELLORACHEAL-u9yАй бұрын
I am team Sarah.....men with money are not easy....am speaking out of experience
@MarionKamwanaАй бұрын
Mee too
@doughtykola7188Ай бұрын
even those without money are even worse,it rains everywhere
@chebby7351Ай бұрын
Those without money do not have a are ignorant that's the reason u don't hear them.
@monicabubu5139Ай бұрын
I think it cuts across ,because even the poor still abuse ladies.
@NimuhGАй бұрын
Same..men with money r so proud
@jacklinechahilu6659Ай бұрын
Pole Sarah mtalii, kwa kuvumilia hiyo madharau yote😢this kabu should know there's God ooo!
@angieblessedАй бұрын
I went through beating from my x..thank God I left
@kalindiongati3936Ай бұрын
This guy is a narcissist 😮
@njerimuturi353Ай бұрын
Mimi nikikumbuka she bought a home at nanyuki to kabu then the range Rover discovery she was gifted let me keep off
@faithkimochu5545Ай бұрын
Remember ata eluas alikua hapa na tulikua tunamlaumu
@keturaequalizerАй бұрын
We applaud you Sarah! Walk away. Walk with God. The devil is a liar and will always be exposed. 🙏🏽💪🏽🤎💯
@genesisbera7761Ай бұрын
This is sad 😭 i secretly admired your marriage from the time you showed up in DJ Mo ad Size 8 show! I am truly sorry for your sufferings, may you find the grace to forgive and heal.
@martharinebiseko1457Ай бұрын
Am I dreaming..... Brave lady....I hv always loved you. I must pray for you
@glaqgloryaqram7511Ай бұрын
I do understand Sarah!Men with money and they make themselves so nice n good ppl in community but at home they are more than a snake....speaking from experience...I left all behind n run with my son
@bettynjoki6489Ай бұрын
Looking at Kabu you can tell he is lying.
@christinemuga9956Ай бұрын
Yes he is lying
@alwaystales24Ай бұрын
Fear such..
@esthernjokimwaura683Ай бұрын
I truely understand Sarah Kabu,i underwent the same violence.And in public we played the best couple,but once behind the closed doors i would automatically be turned into a devils advocate and strungling me at nught.Thanks God i left the Misri too.
@lucynthenya2943Ай бұрын
Women's are going through hell😭😭
@jackiem992Ай бұрын
Whaaat? Am scared
@carolinemutisya6209Ай бұрын
Wueh!! pole..
@joycemwangi6198Ай бұрын
To be fair before judging don't believe one side of the story ...listen to both...because also women can be something else than they act victims....I don't condone going physical for either(wife/ husband).
@AnnWamai-k4eАй бұрын
I would advise all women to keep an eye on red flags aki, and walk away before things get worse choose your happiness.
@CWM-1606Ай бұрын
Sarah you're already looking good and at peace
@eunicewairimu518Ай бұрын
Ten years ago,i was in a such situation,i thank God for saving my life,i let it go and choose my peace.
@miriamkaranja4972Ай бұрын
Oh no am so sorry Sarah its so easy for peopel to judge without listening to both sides of the story.....i had the privilege to attend your wedding and have watched you grow the bonfire brand to what it is today and it saddens me learn this sad truth. May God give you peace as you handle things and praying that no more drama will be witnessed again and for the sake of your children. May the truth prevail when all is said and done
@GraceKiarie-h3eАй бұрын
I believe we get everything we want and put God as second .let's learn to put God first in everything we do and have .that's the only secret lise is full of a lot of pressure dear ones.
@rosemarymuthoni898611 күн бұрын
Am going the same momma, God will see us through
@gracewanjiru4858Ай бұрын
Men with money is issue, men without issue, aki hii maisha ni God tuu.
@winnieonyango8108Ай бұрын
But why yaani issues Kila mahali😠😠
@teamsheilablessings.6076Ай бұрын
No balance in this life 😢😢😢
@MAYWAHITOАй бұрын
The poor ones are messed ones
@Trainer-Coach-Mentor29 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@gracenyamanga2790Ай бұрын
Kabu you don't employ a house girl Hiyo ni strictly sector ya mama Respect your family. That is not a house girl
@scholasticawambugu2256Ай бұрын
You can but some jobs should be strictly done by the wife and also an unfaithful husband will always cheat. Whether you have a house girl or not.
@winfredmundali5441Ай бұрын
If he turns physical , run for your life, he doesn’t deserve a queen like you.
@annashegu8278Ай бұрын
He is defending nanny what a shame.umelaaniwa sana mzee
@FadhiliOtieno-s9xАй бұрын
Sarah we are behind you dear
@JJ-hw8obАй бұрын
Hypergamy does not care , hypergamy does not wait. Men learn .
@elizabethhinga437Ай бұрын
Women women women trust your guts, red flags all round.... run run your life matters.... these material things will surely take us to the grave
@keyzytowangilah591Ай бұрын
It's high time we do away with marriage kila mtu akae kwao
@nasenyaphaustine-cp8hsАй бұрын
Na wengine watatoa wapi kwao?
@velichkaomukuba36Ай бұрын
Thank you Sarah, it wasn't easy to come on social media. But it may save other women out there. Also it solidifies your own decisions. Many narratives come from partners but its in justifications. Stand with your truth and let friends and family surround you for support.
@stellakerubo7061Ай бұрын
What I know is no woman will walk out of a happy marriage just like that. Find peace mama
@teamsheilablessings.6076Ай бұрын
Thank you God for everything today in the Name of Jesus Christ 🙏❤️💯. Awesome 👍. Amen and Hallelujah 🙏. No one to be trusted 😭 in this world 🌎.
@Karolina-xr5wtАй бұрын
Going through kind of similar shit after yeye kupatia side chick mimba...i am sensing their evil plans but trusting God to prevail
@nancymumbua8825Ай бұрын
I hatemen who see other women better than theur own wives ..nonsence .who is supposed to hire nanies sually...who is supposed to take care of the wellbeing of the kids in the house??? Hizi ninmawhat wanaume wanatupitushia?? Narcissists..na wakienda nje ..the pretence ...they are seen like angels yet kwa manyumba zao ni vitu zingine hazieleweki.
@LydiaKevoiАй бұрын
At least umeongea imekutoka😢😢mimi ni soldier kwa office yenu nilikuwa naomba kama kuna voucher munipee niende maasai mara juu nachunga office vizuri ❤❤❤ nipitieni tugrow pamoja
@florencepatience99Ай бұрын
😂
@elizabethwairimu2383Ай бұрын
Weh kaireto umejaribu,I was married by a narcissist weh sema kujifanya in public,nilikuwa nachapwa nikikataa kushikwa mkono jiani.nilikuwa nakataa nikikumbika vile nafanyiwa behind the bar.hio marriage iliisha haraka after 3 years.
@alicekimono3484Ай бұрын
So sorry dear but its good you spoke out early enough before losing your dear life
@abbyachel8687Ай бұрын
I believe you sarah 100%.pole for what you went through..people should remember abusers are not abusive all the time they can be sweet sometime until they are angry then you will know their true colours…Ogopa watu wafupi hasira wanakuanga nayo
@teamsheilablessings.6076Ай бұрын
I agree 💯. Short men are dangerous 😅. I can relate 😢. Am so sorry 😞 to Sarah Kabu 😢. There's too much to these people beyond money 💰.
@tinatujaАй бұрын
Sara God is on your side.
@marieimanishimwe4874Ай бұрын
I got you Sarah .it's hard to convince society what you going through when you live a narcissist .no one can trust you but God knows.
@samuelngangamwangi6395Ай бұрын
At some point spouses become enemies and when it happens the best decision is to separate and live far from each other. Sadly for public figures they continue staying together to protect their image which hurts them further due to piled up resentment. Anyway time heals and would wish that you reconcile in future. But for now give each other space and avoid sharing your issues online for the sake of your children. Marriage works but doesn't work when portrayed online because it forces spouses to always act good which is not sustainable. Women like Romeo and Juliet portrayal of love and romance but that is a house of cards. NB: Marriage is never really about love. Marriage operates like politics or warzone in order to create conducive environment for both spouses and children. Thus it needs vision, strategy, negotiations, compromises, boundaries, rules on duties and responsibilities, agreements on sharing resources, exit clauses and ability to use coercive power not violence when necessary.
@faithkarimi3904Ай бұрын
Let's say no to domestic violence,I was there two years ago with a narcissist I had no peace.
@jennyrhein3031Ай бұрын
Sarah😢...you've gone through alot. May justice prevail & may you get your peace back.
@erickik254Ай бұрын
Hii story ya Media ni upuzi. Imagine how children will feel when they grow up and analyse their parents videos😢
@eveishawna7934Ай бұрын
It's better they grow up and see... Rather than suffering in silence.. Men are selfish
@Lilianmuriithi-nx3pvАй бұрын
Justice in Kenya ni ngumuuu, mimi hata child surport siwezi itisha and by God's grace my kids have never lacked. Muache Mungu and ujionee maajabu
@GetrudeAmmoАй бұрын
Penye imefika,nimeshindwa,kutetea Kabul, let him face the law,😢
@etjames8420Ай бұрын
I am praying for you Sarah. May God lift you and heal your trauma. When this is over, please seek therapy. It helps alot.
@PamellahNyanjomАй бұрын
That's the problem of social media.
@maureenauma7397Ай бұрын
Mimi social media haiwezi nipea pressure,I take one step at a time
@winnieonyango8108Ай бұрын
Yeah happy couples don't need to prove they are happy hapa,couples that are happy wako off media🙌🙌
@fridahiminza8659Ай бұрын
I begin to doubt the wajesus juu size 8 na djmo ,alafu pia the kabus na wote ni mabeshte
@winnieonyango8108Ай бұрын
@@fridahiminza8659 yeah na akina Bahati,social media is a scam!
@susankariuki449Ай бұрын
Ha, ha, wajesus na kujifanya ni watu wa mungu@@fridahiminza8659
@susankariuki449Ай бұрын
@@fridahiminza8659ha, ha wajesus na kujifanya ni watu wa mungu
@millioner-lw4qlАй бұрын
Na nilikua nime tap blessings kwa hii couple 😢😢. Nitaenda deliverance 😢
@teresiahwachira1099Ай бұрын
I usually see people do that and I just warn them but some thinks am jealous never tap things U see on media some are just lies
@fridahiminza8659Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂umenifurahisha
@lydiahkimani4147Ай бұрын
Ata bible imekata kutamani maisha ya wenyewe live yours and be thankful
@hannahrhodah2018Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@margiem8590Ай бұрын
Deliver yourself first.tongue has power.Disconnect with violence n claim peace in ua marriage n happiness too
@irenewanjugu221Ай бұрын
Sarah am Soo proud of you doing this is not easy I hope it goes well with you and your babies.hugs mum
@angieblessedАй бұрын
Sara i relocated from kenya too because of that
@hannahmuturi9432Ай бұрын
Kabu no any other amount of shame u can bring Sara!she is now healed and wil tell ur story!best u can do is to own up your mistakes!!!!
@mnimpezagiraАй бұрын
May God be with you through this
@UnveilitShowАй бұрын
Like Sara says I also wish to relocate😢...Women are in trouble
@lucykabuitu7085Ай бұрын
Kabu you wanted freedom have it to the fullest we are all equal get busy it is recovery time don't look for words
@faithV-SАй бұрын
Nikama Kabu anatembea na huyo dame anatetea, shame on you kutetea nanny badala ya wife wako, pthuuu nimetema mate
@gracenyamanga2790Ай бұрын
Dear Sarah achana na Kabu Look for a man who can take care of you. He doesn't deserve you. Move on Sarah and keep Bonfire going
@BellaDeshyАй бұрын
Ooh,My God all along I thought it was true love with just little normal marriage challenges, only to hear this shocking message I don't trust social media love and lovers
@Godsfavouriteidiot.Ай бұрын
❤❤❤I support Galtoto always Sarah keep going 💪 ❤️ Gal
@peterkamau581Ай бұрын
Never never be someone witness in this country
@judithkathambi3213Ай бұрын
Ni vizuri Sarah ameongea..ndio wenye wamezoea kuenda kwa online couples kusema "I tap these blessings " mjue..kwa public na private ni totally different
@EstherThenyaOfficialАй бұрын
Say it again
@OfficialJellyroll-r5tАй бұрын
😂😂😂
@teamsheilablessings.6076Ай бұрын
Add volume 😂
@princessofjehovah6534Ай бұрын
@Judith, you have made my day.
@faithmukami223Ай бұрын
Add volume, repeat repeat repeat
@rosemumbi5483Ай бұрын
Love you ❤may God protect you always.
@cathynjubi9485Ай бұрын
Trust in God he will see you through it all let God be your lawyer Sarah and your case will favor you may God give you peace
@Gorgeousij27 күн бұрын
Ha aaiya,Mimi mtu ajaribu ndio atajua hajui
@Ilovekenya780Ай бұрын
Kabu this is ur down fall man pls u never lay ur hands on ur woman pls pls Mugikuyu weninaa.
@BridgitKirrutiАй бұрын
Woishe
@RenewedkindnessАй бұрын
Walking away is the best option, say no to domestic violence 😔
@wanjikuvictoria1616Ай бұрын
Sarah with you,we support you,been their,am on my way out
@candidtalkswithlauvena1835Ай бұрын
Love you Mama Sarah Kabu, yes most people will be like we will be praying for you for restoration, but eish let them pray, however Mama Sarah run for your life my dear your children's, especially needs you. That justice challenge is almost all over Africa 😢
@marychege5429Ай бұрын
Strong lady. It's not easy..I used to fake my marriage is ok until I faced reality with health issues..
@doreenbellawilfred2152Ай бұрын
I pray for you and your children to ease the pain. Find your own happiness Sarah. Kabu ni makanga tu, not even money can change that about him! Nkt!
@susanm3103Ай бұрын
Big up Sarah for bracing yourself and saying no to toxicity
@rhodawangari2137Ай бұрын
I feel for Sarah 😢. Wish you share the Company. Bonfire Adventures & Bonfire Ventures, n believe me Sarah you're go far 🙏
@peninakingara7080Ай бұрын
Ngai pole Sarah surely ❤
@Servant555Ай бұрын
Sarah praying for you let God be your judge domestic violence it's a big No !
@joycemwangi6198Ай бұрын
Exposing your husband will not solve anything... just separate and move on....people will not help they will laugh at you. Look for therapy and justice in court .......
@phililemosia6956Ай бұрын
Awoo shame Sarah my lovely sister, this broke my heart bt u mst knw I'm praying for u sisi. ❤ frm South Africa ❤
@keystonekoko5433Ай бұрын
Sarah you have fought for your marriage and i swear no woman wants to leave her marriage some die trying to salvage,Am sorry for you Sarah and the children but God is coming through for you.
@joybarine942Ай бұрын
It is well Sarah. You can start again. God be wirh you
@sarahruth1718Ай бұрын
good woman, run and never look back
@Shishinaya1554Ай бұрын
Jipende mama...hakuna ki2 mzuri kama amani ya moyo..pole mummy
@Rules5005Ай бұрын
Yeah ✌🏾🥀💙, say that AGAIN
@salomenewsome4188Ай бұрын
Huyu ndiye alikuwa ana advice the Wajesus how to be married. What part did you take What did you do? So you are an Angel? Women are harassing men too nowadays
@monics145Ай бұрын
I agree, and it's only women who talk,we don't hear the other side of the story..we are all human
@keyzytowangilah591Ай бұрын
Who will believe you as a man@@monics145
@kw-gp7yhАй бұрын
I thought she was a second wife, Ist wife has been praying
@nurngigiАй бұрын
Before anything I want to hear both side. Sarah is on camera with a 🔪 pushing/ harassing another woman . My trust and sympathy are on empty. Why wasn't she talking before the video came out? Sort your mess/issues off camera
@wabugiwabugiАй бұрын
I also feel like not trusting this woman
@dhiambiokuom2159Ай бұрын
#IstandwithSarahKabu#.......Justice for you mami.....You will stand stronger.....jitoe!
@monicanjerimeier-karimi4149Ай бұрын
Sara You are a blessed woman...you did the right thing by leaving ❤.for your safety and that of your kids
@wangarijane1669Ай бұрын
Wuui, my God I can't believe she couple was fighting. Girls run run run
@wanjirugrace6811Ай бұрын
It's a shame Simon umakanga bado iko dani yako
@njorogeruth4414Ай бұрын
People in Africa should not stay in any abusive situation beate you are. Rich big names or small tukae kama erupo country hakuna kiwaiste time ati ufirahishe watu Sara ondokea ur inner peace ndio muhimu na live
@JANETMWENDE-ph4nmАй бұрын
Sarah you need to go for Counseling.... during separation parties involved go through Loss and grief.... grieving is a process.... you will get better
@Rules5005Ай бұрын
Nanny recruited by HR, GM ni nanny tuu? Mbona wasiwasi hivi?
@brendahlisi8116Ай бұрын
Justice for Sarah....maisha ya social media isikupee stress