How To Attract A Girl AFTER You Messed Up By Being "Needy"

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Tripp Advice

7 жыл бұрын

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Have you ever been so in love with a girl that you acted needy and she stopped having feelings for you? Well on this video, you'll learn what you can do to fix things and get her to come back.
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@TrippAdvice
@TrippAdvice 4 жыл бұрын
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@dontreadmyname4396
@dontreadmyname4396 4 жыл бұрын
a girl i like a lot once said she likes me fisically (both face and body, i love bodybuilding), and that she cared about me, then i became needy and sad because no girl ever complimented me like she did or showed so much interest and she stopped complimenting me and became distant
@josephdepina6191
@josephdepina6191 3 жыл бұрын
Ok ok so what the fuck did i do wrong, went out to a bar with friends, was having a blast, when I met 2 people a guy and a girl, both were cool and friendly we chilled with my friends until bar was closing , I got the sense the girl was into me, I invited both to my place to chill further, they were down.. we get to my place we chill drinks and smoke, all the while myself and the girl are getting close feeling alot of she's into me vibes, one thing led to another it got late and she wanted to go to the beach and see it for first time at night, I suggested I could take her and also take her home, her guy friend was cool with it and so was she, so we went, we get to beach the whole time we are having such good convo, and really connecting .. we are on beach its 445am and its amazing, she's in my arms and moaning with pleasure not in a sexual way just a happy and content way.. she mentions multiple times she is so glad we met Yada Yada Yada, she finally asks to go home so I drive her home, I drop her off she again says she is so happy we met, she kisses me on forehead couple times huge hugs and says when I get home to call her, I say ok I will she insists u promise pinky promise, I say yeah ok I will
@josephdepina6191
@josephdepina6191 3 жыл бұрын
So I call her, she never answers , im like ok so I text her just to say I called and glad we met and that I had fun... I figured. Maybe she's drunk tired whatever.. next day I guess I was needy who cares I text her on fb. She responds one time, and never again since.. its been 3 days.. I don't care, just what the hell did indo wrong if anything
@josephdepina6191
@josephdepina6191 3 жыл бұрын
@Nithin Babu yeah thanks brother, I know I'm good and didn't do anything wrong, just weird ya know, why show so much Interest and then nothing
@donwezlycomedy4698
@donwezlycomedy4698 3 жыл бұрын
This help me alot
@MrNYCman530
@MrNYCman530 6 жыл бұрын
Many women are like shadows. Pursue her and she backs off, and if you ignore her, she chases after you.
@budsworld1104
@budsworld1104 5 жыл бұрын
Blue Skies Media lol well said mate
@Otterjock808
@Otterjock808 5 жыл бұрын
That sounds like drama. No one likes to play mind games. Life is too short for that brother lol
@Adam-fl9uc
@Adam-fl9uc 5 жыл бұрын
No they don't. 99 percent women never come back, unless you never ever let them close to you which excludes the possibility of getting her back this way after you were too needy. You wl always have to reaproach but you need to master the art of not making it a big deal and focusing on being yourself
@modato97
@modato97 5 жыл бұрын
I do agree, I used to say hi after the breakup and she thought I'm still pursuing but when I ignored her, she approached me but I lost the interest then
@ch1bob
@ch1bob 5 жыл бұрын
@@Adam-fl9uc I still wonder why she unblocked me 5 days befor her bday after 40 days no contact.. What is her deal in ur opinion? Should i have wished her happy bday? Did i miss a big opportunity to reach out then? Did she want to see if i still cared or just ego stroke? Do i still have a chance? Now im 2 months into NC but i feel like im so done since i didnt contact her on her bday and now she probably discarded me even more. Now im depressed and wonder if i missed my only opportunity and if maybe i should wait till new years to contact her.. but its probably too late..since exes wishing new years is a meme
@Tarantula_Fangs
@Tarantula_Fangs 5 жыл бұрын
" A girl is not someone to complete who you are, it's a complement. "💯💯💯💯
@CGV.69
@CGV.69 5 жыл бұрын
Tarantula Fangs 👍
@theeplugtv6834
@theeplugtv6834 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t get it but ok I would have had a girl regardless 😂
@namanrajput5032
@namanrajput5032 4 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah
@jason21jburg
@jason21jburg 3 жыл бұрын
Thisssssssss
@aderinsolaakinnubi1110
@aderinsolaakinnubi1110 3 жыл бұрын
That line got me
@taden2007
@taden2007 2 жыл бұрын
“Treat them like a celebrity and they will treat u like just a fan…” I heard this and it’s stuck with me ever since!
@taden2007
@taden2007 2 жыл бұрын
@Arisu Veira nah im good, dont want to downgrade myself from where im already at
@Minzmensch
@Minzmensch 3 ай бұрын
Fr fr even if they asked you to treat them like a celebrity, they will still do that hahah
@subscribetopewdiepie3150
@subscribetopewdiepie3150 5 жыл бұрын
I hate that I need to watch these videos like fml
@Gare.Bear0
@Gare.Bear0 4 жыл бұрын
Your not alone
@alanop6643
@alanop6643 4 жыл бұрын
@@ballaking1000 damn, thank you for saying that
@dsilva2460
@dsilva2460 4 жыл бұрын
Learning game with women is important! Once youve mastered yourself to become calm and collective with women, I think you've won the game. Be patient with yourself. Its all about self. I am learning too, being a woman and loving women.
@wolfdomination1905
@wolfdomination1905 4 жыл бұрын
Shit blows ass
@wolfdomination1905
@wolfdomination1905 4 жыл бұрын
If can to learn girls have these same problems which is even more mind boggling.
@clock9332
@clock9332 4 жыл бұрын
Let me sum it up for you. Let go, don't care, focus on yourself and improve Let girls come to you, IF they don't don't worry they don't have to.
@aerohk
@aerohk 4 жыл бұрын
Get girl come to you is a formula for forever alone for most guys
@hdihiiehei
@hdihiiehei 4 жыл бұрын
Aerohk you need to be hndsome for this too work trust me
@himalkhatri8931
@himalkhatri8931 4 жыл бұрын
Sense of humor is way better than looks cause girls fall for whats inside you rather than outside. Maybe some girls fall for face but trust me that relation will not last even for a year
@marth_6126
@marth_6126 3 жыл бұрын
@@himalkhatri8931 Nah, that Marilyn Monroe line about "If you can make a girl laugh, she's yours" is bull. I've made lots of girls laugh who won't even send a text back.
@himalkhatri8931
@himalkhatri8931 3 жыл бұрын
Marth _ Just being able to make them laugh isn’t enough. You must be likable as well. But I suggest you focus on your self first make some money at least become a millionaire then boom there you go you’re flooded with girls. If thats what you’re looking for.
@vitocorleone1462
@vitocorleone1462 6 жыл бұрын
She got a restraining order against me, is it too late?
@bobyourmom5954
@bobyourmom5954 6 жыл бұрын
John Smith nah it's not she's just playing hard to get ;)
@namco927
@namco927 6 жыл бұрын
Lols that's DEEEP
@kylelambert1672
@kylelambert1672 6 жыл бұрын
It's NEVER too late!
@theelevennineteen1222
@theelevennineteen1222 6 жыл бұрын
Nobody 😂😂
@reemabdullah9913
@reemabdullah9913 6 жыл бұрын
It may never be late in love
@lowkey2299
@lowkey2299 4 жыл бұрын
I noticed that being a bit too needy does push her away! Give her a week or two, fix yourself, love yourself and focus on yourself and come back confident and let her know you call the shots now! And she’ll be amazed and the spark lights back up! (Personal experience)
@runout1013
@runout1013 4 ай бұрын
So you reached out to her after two weeks and she was accepting
@theuglydeko8190
@theuglydeko8190 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao the last bit when he said "us as a community" cracked me up 😂😂 cause it literally shows how all men are combining their forces together to understand girls😂😂😂
@NA-jz9zc
@NA-jz9zc 3 жыл бұрын
lmao
@motivateyourself6441
@motivateyourself6441 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
@mhbb_bigga3211
@mhbb_bigga3211 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂🥲
@junglejoy_co
@junglejoy_co 2 жыл бұрын
Girls are here to also understand how other girls work 🙃
@calebgavette5265
@calebgavette5265 2 жыл бұрын
We bout to unite an form vultron
@Amazin11000
@Amazin11000 6 жыл бұрын
I'm absolutely great in the beginning until I get emotionally attached and want more, I get weak in a certain way more emotional and then I always fuck it up. You're right and Tom Leykis is right.
@mrmcboomboom
@mrmcboomboom 6 жыл бұрын
Amazin11000 this is me :/
@cumbriacam5742
@cumbriacam5742 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@MimMdance
@MimMdance 3 жыл бұрын
Unpopular opinion maybe, but we should not be ashamed of this. Like sure, try to get better at handling our own attatchments, but not feel like we did so wrong if all we did was be happy and authentic and loving within the relationship. Maybe it's women's problem. We already showed them how important the relationship was. If they leave they will probably have to deal with the opposite and miss that feeling at some point. Or maybe not, but that is life, sometimes you lose. Don't be ashamed of having been authentic if the feelings were good.
@cryptosguns
@cryptosguns 3 жыл бұрын
100% brother. this particular behavior is what fucked up my last relationship with someone.. it sucks being a guy with strong emotions
@majincookie5716
@majincookie5716 2 жыл бұрын
Yup same have stronger emotions
@losknows7999
@losknows7999 6 жыл бұрын
Become the best version of yourself and you'll have options.
@michaelmyers6213
@michaelmyers6213 5 жыл бұрын
NO CONTACT RULE... Worked for me pretty well 👍🏼 Now she's chasing me since almost 2 Years..
@malekbenhassine3572
@malekbenhassine3572 5 жыл бұрын
How much you stopped texting her?
@michaelmyers6213
@michaelmyers6213 5 жыл бұрын
@@malekbenhassine3572 For almost 3 Months... Then she starts asking my friends, how I'm doing, why i am not texting her, why I am took so long to respond to her, not being part of the group anymore, why I am not showed up on her birthday, if I had a girlfriend and so on... And then she starts texting me, asking for hanging out and stuff like that... I always denied, cuz I had other priorities and other women in my life and she was not amused about tht, 😂 we even had a fight about tht, cuz she was very frustrated tht I am complete out of touch... Telling me, tht I had turned into an complete Asshole 😂 And when shes starts drinking , she's texting things like "do u still like me? I want to see u, whats wrong with you, do u still have tht girlfriend"... Sending me Audiofiles of our favorite Songs Or telling my buddies how cute I am and thts all her fault and bla bla bla... She behave like that especially when she's drunk... Acting pretty bitchy, when some of my buddies telling her about my affairs... And it's still like tht... Since 2 years... Okay, I have to admit, that sometimes, its pretty hard to act like the untouchable guy... But when we met, shes pretty nervous, laughing about every stupid stuff I said, telling me "tht girl that u date, is not good 4 u"... She tries to get in contact with me, almost every day... Even when it's about some daily Bullshit... Sorry, my English is not perfect... My mother language is German.
@malekbenhassine3572
@malekbenhassine3572 5 жыл бұрын
@@michaelmyers6213 well i think we're not in the same situation i hope you'll find me a solution. i was texting my crush for almost 1 month and half well it seems like she's interested in me we always talk about movies and series (i think this is the only common hobby between us) well , i asked her to hangout she accepted and she said that she missed me alot and wants to see me so i said to her to tell me whenever she wants to hangout and then we continued talking about movies and series ,after almost 8 days i asked her if she can hangout next weak on tuesday well she said she will go to an hotel and she said she doesn't know how much she"ll stay so i asked her to hangout on monday she said okay leave me a message before you leave i sent her 3 messages and she didnt even see them (well im sure she saw them but she dosen't want to show me that) and till now (after one weak of that ignorance) we dont speak to each other,i stopeed texting and she stopped replying ,i feel that i really love her and i feel that i was too much needy to her specially about hanging out i really hope you or anybody else will find me a solution for this problem
@malekbenhassine3572
@malekbenhassine3572 5 жыл бұрын
@Serl0uSBusIneSS thanks so much friend, but now we didn't speak to each other for 8 days i think she completly forgot me but im still dreaming of her im really suffering of that shit i went to her social media and i saw her flirting with many fucking handsome, rich guys she disspointed me alot and at least if i cant get her i want her to feel regretting about that and alose i want her to miss me Can anyone helo me doing this?
@malekbenhassine3572
@malekbenhassine3572 5 жыл бұрын
@Serl0uSBusIneSS i know that this is not easy at all cause she knows fucking so much handome rich guys, they're all out of my league well im not poor but im not that rich and im not that handsome too but i will do it no matter how tought it gets but at least i need someone to give me some hints how to do it and ill work hard for it
@JWalton314
@JWalton314 4 жыл бұрын
Make sure you're giving her space. If she's in a bad mood, try to not hang out with her because the smallest thing can set her off.
@juanvivero4021
@juanvivero4021 3 жыл бұрын
And if she’s in a bad mood and with you, she might associate that bad mood with you
@alexlupo7176
@alexlupo7176 3 жыл бұрын
That’s what I did she was on her periode and I was trying to force love and she hasn’t texted me all day so I’m going to give her space and do what this video says
@midnightstorm4290
@midnightstorm4290 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds a bit like my mother...
@kotoamatsukami2582
@kotoamatsukami2582 3 жыл бұрын
sometimes if u give them space they just end with someone else lol
@JWalton314
@JWalton314 3 жыл бұрын
@@kotoamatsukami2582 Yeah that's the risk you gotta take. Chances are they'll break up eventually lol but yeah it still sucks.
@livedeliciously
@livedeliciously 5 жыл бұрын
This hits really close to home. Looking back, I realize I made the relationship the center of my world and it made me happy. But the more I focused on making her happy and putting time into the relationship, the more this world crumbled. When it finally left me, there was this immense sense of emptiness.
@bravobravo673
@bravobravo673 3 жыл бұрын
Update?
@MimMdance
@MimMdance 3 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@BJ-hj2sm
@BJ-hj2sm 2 жыл бұрын
Been there brother & can DEFINITELY relate! But once you come out on the other side of it you'll be better Trust Me! Life lessons
@livedeliciously
@livedeliciously Жыл бұрын
@@bravobravo673 You get over it with time. It hard as hell to do, but you really need to find that mystical inner happiness that everyone talks about. That self-love. Or at the very least, don't hate yourself. But Tripp basically explained it better: have a life of your own. Remember, she is just a compliment to your life, not the center of it.
@AJ-CR
@AJ-CR 6 жыл бұрын
Hey guys I texted this girl NON STOP and she leaves me on read. I started talking to another girl and she replies and she talks with me and calls me. I don't really care for the first girl and I'm really happy now! Take the advice, if the girl Comes back it's your decision to let her in or not. 👌🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻
@Adam-fl9uc
@Adam-fl9uc 5 жыл бұрын
True however 99 percent of the girls will never take action unless they were in a good relationship with you or they are kinda desperate or a virgin themselves
@ch1bob
@ch1bob 5 жыл бұрын
@@Adam-fl9uc truee
@davidjuma6402
@davidjuma6402 5 жыл бұрын
So don't..
@lredd631
@lredd631 5 жыл бұрын
Bro, texting and calling your second cousin DON'T count. It has to be someone that's NOT related to you. Good try tho!✌
@RockAnimes
@RockAnimes 5 жыл бұрын
Adam c not necessarily. If he demonstrated characteristics of high value and not complete neediness nature, or any other unattractive features such as insecurity or low value, it creates back the competition nature within the initial female. You need to understand that emotional investment on a females part is congruent strong as them making emotional decisions. Logically it doesnt make sense for the female you sought out for the Male after he creates social proof, but it just works that way
@harshshekhawat9997
@harshshekhawat9997 3 жыл бұрын
CONCLUSION ❣️ THANK YOU SIR ! Go workout Read books Detoxify social media Groom your self Meditate Work hard for your future
@clarahammar8815
@clarahammar8815 3 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked for me.. whtsap me let's chat better
@clarahammar8815
@clarahammar8815 3 жыл бұрын
+1(831) 612 2886....
@imthebest7290
@imthebest7290 3 жыл бұрын
@@clarahammar8815 where r u from
@anonymoussoldier4006
@anonymoussoldier4006 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Harsh. Glad to see a brother from India. ATB Shekhawati Ke Sher.
@daveh9803
@daveh9803 3 жыл бұрын
If she says she needs space, give her the universe, and walk away. She’s NEVER yours. It’s just your turn.
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 2 жыл бұрын
Ok calm down there incel
@daveh9803
@daveh9803 2 жыл бұрын
@@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 Incel? Not me. LOL! It must be your self description…
@shvm7489
@shvm7489 2 жыл бұрын
You were never hers, it was just HER turn.
@significantother5479
@significantother5479 6 жыл бұрын
True story: I met a girl A few months ago through Facebook. I sent her flowers, messages, etc. She was very happy when I did all those things, but after a while I noticed she started to lose interest. I made her feel like she was the center of my universe & that was my death! She stopped texting & communicating. It was hard for me, but I stopped texting her & after 2 weeks she reached out to me. I’m trying to be the one in charge now, but don’t know if is going to work out for me. I hope for a happy ending.
@jachanedwards2279
@jachanedwards2279 5 жыл бұрын
What happened?
@wilhelmmusic241
@wilhelmmusic241 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah what happened Ed?
@christmasisawesome9348
@christmasisawesome9348 5 жыл бұрын
I think Ed Edmond has been consumed by her vagana already as he no longer responses to any if the reply.
@hsin-chiehliao6408
@hsin-chiehliao6408 5 жыл бұрын
heyy i think i am in the same situation now, i should try this method!
@axrye800
@axrye800 5 жыл бұрын
My man Ed is drowning in that coochie as you read this. He doesn't have time for us peasants now.
@salembeats1875
@salembeats1875 4 жыл бұрын
It’s been ten years 😎
@joseph_sse
@joseph_sse 4 жыл бұрын
shes goneee 💀
@kingfargo9578
@kingfargo9578 4 жыл бұрын
Joseph Onota 😂😂😂
@rommeljabla2909
@rommeljabla2909 3 жыл бұрын
She's coming around any second now I'm telling you! 😂
@keerthirajkc1662
@keerthirajkc1662 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@gouthamravikumar5636
@gouthamravikumar5636 2 жыл бұрын
Bruh
@kdjimmy103
@kdjimmy103 3 жыл бұрын
Best way is to be with many girls at same time this eliminated the focus on one girl. I have passed that movement, now I think more from brain don't listen to your heart. Mind is always right
@jasonleetaiwan
@jasonleetaiwan 5 жыл бұрын
2 to 4 weeks is not that long a period of time. You can reach out if you wish, but I think the most important thing is to take a different approach so she doesn't feel pressure. Ideally, she would reach out to you, but it won't always work like that. In essence, the key thing is to make her feel like you've moved on and no longer need her. Either side can reach out, but the key is to not care. A girl ironically won't get interested again until you're not interested in her anymore, but you seem interesting to her because you some how seem new and interesting to her again. That usually takes more than 2 to 4 weeks and some active social media posting, but yeah, you can try again later. Truth be told, it is usually better just to move on to a healthier option and try not to make the same mistake. Then the old option sometimes returns, but some how seems less important. Some how they know not to come back until you've really moved on.
@frederickporter8677
@frederickporter8677 7 жыл бұрын
Done right, possibly she will contact you back first. So be prepared, be cool, and be busy in your own thing! Also during the needy break period I would add you should work on your physical appearance. New haircut, workout, some new accessory, necklace or tattoo if you're into that etc. Reinvent that cool guy she met!
@Aten0506
@Aten0506 7 жыл бұрын
yeah I agree with you
@elenakusevska6266
@elenakusevska6266 6 жыл бұрын
frederick porter this is the neediest thing I have read/heard in a while. Both your comment and the advice in the video
@mertefe4345
@mertefe4345 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Ppl thinks she will fucking think about you if you don't call her for 3-4 weeks. Have you asked to the girl, if does she give a fuck about you? :D I mean this is so funny to use this strategies.
@mylohremora3386
@mylohremora3386 5 жыл бұрын
That’s some good advice
@ihatefacebook31184
@ihatefacebook31184 6 жыл бұрын
+ Tripp Advice trust me, man. I found out the hard way when it came to being needy with a few women I liked. Truthfully, I used to be needy because I didn't want the women I liked to think that I forgot about them. But then again, I learned that if she likes me to the point where she misses me, she'll reach out to me. Otherwise, she was never interested in the first place. But either way, I move on to my own thing. I go to the gym or interact with other women wherever I'm at or whatever I'm doing. Nothing good comes out of being needy and clingy
@alexfowler9785
@alexfowler9785 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. If they never have the desire to contact you or put in any effort then they don't care for you as much as you do them, or they were only using you for attention. Every woman is different but this happens a lot unfortunately.
@ihatefacebook31184
@ihatefacebook31184 3 жыл бұрын
@Veronica Nana88 it is what it is...
@some3sharks
@some3sharks 3 жыл бұрын
I keep saying this. There comes a time where you will have to lay back a lil and let the natural course take its place. The only way you can tell if they were really genuinely interested too is when they make a move to check up on you when you cut off all forms of contacts. 👌🏾
@Chuck_N0rris
@Chuck_N0rris 3 жыл бұрын
I was over needy, she ghosted me for 7 days. I didnt contact her at all. It was painful but I focused on me, met a lot of other girls and she eventually came around and it ended up being a success story.
@dv2218
@dv2218 10 ай бұрын
How long after did she come back around?
@Chuck_N0rris
@Chuck_N0rris 10 ай бұрын
@@dv2218 Several months
@imbombero
@imbombero 13 күн бұрын
Success, yes, she got rid of you…😂😂😂
@Chuck_N0rris
@Chuck_N0rris 13 күн бұрын
@@dv2218 A couple months. Sometimes you have to just give up. Send the ball back to her. When she eventually reaches out again if ever, you have your power back. Its a big mistake we often make. We push way too hard and never pull.
@abduldanish9953
@abduldanish9953 3 жыл бұрын
When he said 2 to 4.... my mind auto-completed it to 2 to 4 months🙂 time is so relative.
@mitchelldavies891
@mitchelldavies891 5 жыл бұрын
This video really made me realize how needy I was being towards a girl that I’m going out with right now thank you Tripp this helped a lot
@scottbecker3485
@scottbecker3485 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice. Rings true in my life experience. Join a men’s group, find connection with your male lineage and the whole male community, discover your self-love, and THEN open up to a loving relationship. Otherwise it’s doomed.
@adop274
@adop274 5 жыл бұрын
This video title should be changed to "how to get a life." LOL
@tivasthegamer9817
@tivasthegamer9817 4 жыл бұрын
Adonis Palacios exactly! Being needy means you don’t have one or you just put yours on hold. Needing validation means you are not doing anything worthy with your life and you know it, so you need someone else to tell you the opposite.
@tejasgulhane7754
@tejasgulhane7754 4 жыл бұрын
LOL 🤣😂
@yinyang9882
@yinyang9882 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@imbombero
@imbombero 13 күн бұрын
Nah, you still wouldn’t, loser😂😂😂
@LgtTurtlez
@LgtTurtlez 5 жыл бұрын
I feel you have helped me my friend. I express my deepest gratitude. This girl. In my life. I care too much for her. I will define myself. Through my passion. I have already reached the bottom of the barrel in this situation. It can't get any worse. I will only rise. I was insecure. It is time for me to grow.
@suhailmehar1491
@suhailmehar1491 7 жыл бұрын
Tripp, I found this video to be really eye opening, I've been going through the exact same thing. I've been texting this girl and hanging out with her, studying with her. Recently she's been aloof and distant and I now realise it's cos I was texting her too much(like 1-2 texts a day) and I was trying too hard to make her laugh, flirting a lot through texts. she still responds well to my texts and puts in the effort to continue the convo, brings up new topics to talk about, but it isn't like what it used to be. So I'm gonna take your approach on this, as your way is kinda like a win-win situation. I'm gonna take a break from her and focus on me and see where that leads me.
@tenaciousadagio
@tenaciousadagio 7 жыл бұрын
I like this nice and positive
@ronaldowalters576
@ronaldowalters576 7 жыл бұрын
walkinwhales take it and act just how she acted towards you but mix it with flirting
@Digger-Nick
@Digger-Nick 7 жыл бұрын
walkinwhales Wow 1-2 texts a day!? That's so much!!
@suhailmehar1491
@suhailmehar1491 7 жыл бұрын
Kurtis Jemison mate you being sarcastic or for real? Hahaha is it really tho? 1-2 texts a day. Usually me flirting with her and her reciprocating back and end up me asking her out to study with me
@suhailmehar1491
@suhailmehar1491 7 жыл бұрын
Ronaldo Walters I think I get what you mean. Stop texting her completely. Be aloof but flirt with her a bit when I see her in class?
@comfortfood4life
@comfortfood4life 5 жыл бұрын
Man this is EXACTLY what I need to hear right now. Thanks 😭
@scotchbeer
@scotchbeer 3 жыл бұрын
I study this stuff daily and I have to say this is one of the best red pilled videos I’ve seen yet. Wish I would have seen this 2 years ago when I started my self improvement journey.
@viiinicius17
@viiinicius17 5 жыл бұрын
I'm impressed at how relatable this is
@Rajeshwh
@Rajeshwh 5 жыл бұрын
Just exactly what I’m going through. Lucky that I watched this video. Respect brother.
@TechReviewTom
@TechReviewTom 5 жыл бұрын
This is great and all, but why the hell do I have to do all of this for some girl? They need to be putting in work too, so what if I’m needy. I’m not perfect and she’s not either / worth the effort.
@nathandennis8078
@nathandennis8078 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@mauriciolancheros7474
@mauriciolancheros7474 5 жыл бұрын
@@nathandennis8078 totally...
@melvinmadedx1658
@melvinmadedx1658 5 жыл бұрын
Y'all don't get. Men always have to pursue first. Thats just the way it is. Now in some rare cases, a dominant girl thats upbeat will pursue first,but again thats rare. The men start off pursuing you have to raise her interest, than its 50/50, meaning she doing half the pursuing now and you doing only half the pursuing also. Than its just her pursuing now and you pull back.
@YungFlaco001
@YungFlaco001 5 жыл бұрын
Tom Cunnington You sound like a BETA male. Go watch Alpha Male Strategies
@RockAnimes
@RockAnimes 5 жыл бұрын
That is a perfect logical response. However, you have to realize that a girls value in the dating life is one more higher valued than a guys. Despite you trying to make that effort and she isnt, displays that there are other guys around lacking your problems and thus making them more sought out for. If you dont have this existing problems in the first place, it shouldnt put you in this mindset that women need to work to earn you
@justingarfield2663
@justingarfield2663 4 жыл бұрын
I went a bit overboard a few months ago with a girl, so I took some time away from social media and got very busy doing other things. I feel great and realized my value as a person, instead of needing to hear validation from her, I own it myself and move forward.
@sietecarpinchos635
@sietecarpinchos635 4 жыл бұрын
There’s a tiny portion of information here on the internet that is truly valuable. One needs to be really careful with the things he consumes. You are one in of the small groups of truly wise youtubers and very good in this field. Take care and keep it going
@paulobrito6697
@paulobrito6697 6 жыл бұрын
You were my guide when i tried picking up chicks in highschool 3 years ago. Thank you for being here after all this time to shed light on how to solve the problems in my current relationship. We really appreciate it.
@moncefbenabbes922
@moncefbenabbes922 6 жыл бұрын
I found this so good tripp, a MAN should know his worth and not be dumb and act silly around girls hit us with more thnx
@AM-pk4sg
@AM-pk4sg 4 жыл бұрын
Helped me understand how to really pursue a relationship, thank you man, this helps more than you think! I will definitely imply your message to my lifestyle! Thanks man!
@bigfoot2407
@bigfoot2407 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been listening to your podcasts and they’ve helped me tremendously in just the past 3 days. Thank you for what you do for us!
@JarisJ_
@JarisJ_ 6 жыл бұрын
5:50 it actually is starting to happen, already meet 3 girls and vibed with all of them. I'm honestly slowly not starting to care about this other girl.
@konstandineiro
@konstandineiro 7 жыл бұрын
Best timing for this video
@benedicttorre3401
@benedicttorre3401 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice. Coming off a 7 year relationship. It was painful but after 2 months it's finally calming down.
@xSteezifyyy
@xSteezifyyy 4 жыл бұрын
thank you. I’ve been wondering what I’ve been doing wrong and you helped me figure it out. I’m too needy and need to find some new hobbies
@CarlosFlores-xb3gx
@CarlosFlores-xb3gx 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tripp from the bottom of my heart. 😊
@garu24sa
@garu24sa 6 жыл бұрын
This material is a masterpiece. Thanks for sharing it!
@xandercasias8017
@xandercasias8017 3 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this honestly been finding myself to be real needy with this girl I really like. Gonna take your advice take a step back & focus on myself my life 🤘🤘
@patrickruiz3139
@patrickruiz3139 2 жыл бұрын
Words can’t describe how I feel ... u have opened my eyes my friend for I have been blinded . Keep doing what u do Man U are dropping gems 👍🏻
@khalidhd3248
@khalidhd3248 7 жыл бұрын
dude: hey who are u again? :dudette
@diegofernandez4057
@diegofernandez4057 7 жыл бұрын
Khalid HD this happened to me lmaoo
@stanleyyelnats5548
@stanleyyelnats5548 6 жыл бұрын
Yep
@diegomiranda2139
@diegomiranda2139 6 жыл бұрын
My heart, my soul :(
@ericjhoncarlosantos7592
@ericjhoncarlosantos7592 6 жыл бұрын
If it's a hot approach/she knows you for a long time, 2-4weeks is recommended , but when you did was a cold approach, 10 to 14 days will do
@MrOnomatopoiea
@MrOnomatopoiea 6 жыл бұрын
Happens to me every time I forget I talked to a girl!
@landon7192
@landon7192 3 жыл бұрын
My oh my I NEEDED this video. A few months ago I didn’t have a way with girls, and I thought being a nice guy would get me this one girl. Turns out I was wrong... now after months I am incredibly confident and independent and I find getting girls to be a lot easier.
@traian2932
@traian2932 4 жыл бұрын
This is the first video I watched from you and I subscribed before you finished the first tip. Keep doing great, it all makes complete sense
@sawantrohan
@sawantrohan 5 жыл бұрын
7:26 this was the best part of the video for me. Very well said!
@adamsc1181
@adamsc1181 5 жыл бұрын
This video was very needed for me. I was just about to jump into this situation again. Now ik what went wrong in past relationships and not to go into with this new woman I like. Thanks tripp
@dahman9089
@dahman9089 5 жыл бұрын
I liked your last phrases when you said:... it's a compliment, not being needy... ♥ then I treated all my answers
@PFD6225
@PFD6225 4 жыл бұрын
No contact is very powerful ............ You need to wait 60 days or more it automatically bring back the spark to a relationship because you'll be both missing each other
@Daniel-bd5ur
@Daniel-bd5ur 3 жыл бұрын
100% TRUE
@rhyswingard8583
@rhyswingard8583 3 жыл бұрын
Only if there’s enough attraction built up. But if it’s a girl you’ve just started dating. You might need a different approach.
@bhargavkumar5412
@bhargavkumar5412 3 жыл бұрын
What if she is with other guy
@runout1013
@runout1013 4 ай бұрын
@@rhyswingard8583what would be the alternative approach
@freddierukundo5742
@freddierukundo5742 3 ай бұрын
While you bang other guys away from each other. 60 days is too long to wait on a girl unless you want to smash and run
@rolexflex
@rolexflex 4 жыл бұрын
This content really makes sense. You gotta make sure to follow this man and his advices 💯
@tenaciousadagio
@tenaciousadagio 7 жыл бұрын
Again thanks tripp! You really are helping us. I just love your common sense bro!
@emielsproviewbot1423
@emielsproviewbot1423 7 жыл бұрын
Ash true!
@MatthewFosterMusic
@MatthewFosterMusic 5 жыл бұрын
Great advice and you seem like a really genuine person. Awesome video - thank you!
@andrewbutler1423
@andrewbutler1423 Жыл бұрын
This is the best piece of advice for guys bar none! A woman wants a man not a feminine man. I’ve learned so much from this guy. Thanks
@redrum22
@redrum22 5 жыл бұрын
Duuude this helped me a lot. I stopped contacting her for a week now. You reassured me in that decision :)
@chriiskidd7300
@chriiskidd7300 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this really helped and has gotten me thinking. Thank you so much for the advice!
@thehalf8
@thehalf8 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome stuff. Wish I had known of this channel or more specifically this video a couple of years ago. Be it as it may, I've learnt this the hard way, but also learned a lot about myself through the process. Keep on making the videos.
@WiseFoolTrading
@WiseFoolTrading 7 жыл бұрын
thehalf8 I learnt it the hard way as well but I think learning it the hard way when it comes to relationships is the best because when you experience it yourself, your always able to look back at that moment and in the future you can make sure that you don't make the same mistakes. Just be yourself out there, that you attract girls who could actually be compatible with you. No sense in being someone else unless your just trying to have sex and nothing more.
@alfieervin572
@alfieervin572 3 жыл бұрын
HOW TF did this video come up in my feed literally hours after i fucked up by being too needy 🙏
@kevinjoseph4168
@kevinjoseph4168 2 жыл бұрын
Seeking validation from within. That hit me hard.
@jaketodd9232
@jaketodd9232 7 жыл бұрын
I liked the video. I thought it made a lot of sense. I see a lot of men, including myself struggling this issue.
@sit8373
@sit8373 7 жыл бұрын
This helps a lot, i had a crush for a girl who was my long time friend and we were allways hanging out but we havent friendzoned each other yet, we were flirting, teasing each other and nobody made a move and then i started looking at her "more then friends way" and I wanted to meet up but she was busy so i gave up on her and after a month I stoped liking her and I came back to teasing relationship without any romantic feelings, and acculy started to texting to other girl and now im building relationship with that other girl :D Thanks Tripp, you are my sensei for a year now :D
@TrippAdvice
@TrippAdvice 7 жыл бұрын
Great story and nice work. Thanks for sharing.
@mayadeeb8293
@mayadeeb8293 5 жыл бұрын
Luka Sitar b
@donlok9533
@donlok9533 5 жыл бұрын
Luka Sitar you failed
@Big_Sierra
@Big_Sierra 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro. Great video. I freak out sometimes because I have a long distance relationship, primarily text based. Now it’s winter with no snow and I’m stuck in four walls every waking hour. You can imagine how easily I could get wound up. I feel like we started running out of things to text about, and I started getting panicky when I couldn’t get her on the actual phone. So I started talking emotional shit for subject matter, said shit that I don’t even actually believe, freaked out when I caught myself and had a huge anxiety attack over it. I’ve since relaxed and luckily she likes me enough to let it slide, but I’m going to have to give it some space for a while. This video is just what I needed.
@mayyursudarsan3274
@mayyursudarsan3274 4 жыл бұрын
This is so specific yet relatable haha
@Chris74293
@Chris74293 7 жыл бұрын
Tbh just what i needed to hear
@KVZMAH
@KVZMAH 7 жыл бұрын
you and me both
@Danborghini1999
@Danborghini1999 7 жыл бұрын
Christiaan Vonk absolutely 😅
@wesleymaes2958
@wesleymaes2958 6 жыл бұрын
Christiaan Vonk did it work?
@ianhines2302
@ianhines2302 6 жыл бұрын
What happened
@bainstain2998
@bainstain2998 5 жыл бұрын
Same here. Since I've been focusing more on myself lately, I'm finding it more natural to just approach and talk to any girl I want to. Never be afraid of rejection bcuz there's plenty of fish in the sea. I used to dwell on past gfs and crushes but I understand sometimes it's not meant to be so you have to move on. It's hard to find a nice, genuine, honest girl these days. They want 9 inch cock or a fat wallet and good pussy eating
@shavdiamondsmusic
@shavdiamondsmusic 3 жыл бұрын
After watching this video I feel like myself again🙏🏽
@maris0038
@maris0038 5 жыл бұрын
the lessons this video features are truly essential. I know that now
@robertpeek3657
@robertpeek3657 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent ! You supported or validated my thoughts and feelings. Thank you !
@jakecubbyvaughn4544
@jakecubbyvaughn4544 2 жыл бұрын
Man this video really helped me with my girl, I was texting her 24/7 and constantly annoying her. Im hoping she will stay with me!!!
@sergiomendez3691
@sergiomendez3691 5 жыл бұрын
keep it up. thanks man. I was like that and then thought it was over. But it may be something going on. For other guys reading. Remember, is not all black or white.
@spidermikebaker7273
@spidermikebaker7273 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. This video is dead on too what's been happening. Every video I've watched said to look after myself. But YOURS (this one!) said it best. Thank you!
@kenrohloff5265
@kenrohloff5265 4 жыл бұрын
Very cool. The guy was great at explaining things. He had a great personality to do this type of teaching. I learned to give the person a lot of space, and to take more control of conversations, etc. by talking about things that are of interest to me
@BogdanV12
@BogdanV12 7 жыл бұрын
It is important to not give up at your "new life" if she comes back; she can say something like: "you don't give me attention/affection like you did before bla bla bla" and you may be tempted to be the old one and if you will do, she will leave you again 😀. So, you should put yourself some questions: she desirve me ? / can I be happy with her ? / I'm addicted to her ?
@alpha_y2k438
@alpha_y2k438 3 жыл бұрын
I asked someone out recently and got "I'll need time to think about it, and I don't want to lose you as my best friend. She plays the game of talking and then she finds out she let her guard down then enters the ignore or do other things world. The actions are there, she looks at me, she says I have a special place in her heart, she stares at me directly in the eyes, so her actions show she is interested in more than just friends. I did the needy thing and noticed her disinterest, ghosting, to busy to do anything etc. I thought I had lost her and I'm sure I was closes so this video is just in time. I am doing this exact thing and finding out she is slowly taking to me again, and she is stareing me in the eyes again. Funny how you back off interest it makes them want you more. This video is good medicine for me and just reaffirms that I am once again doing the right thing.
@rakonda
@rakonda 2 жыл бұрын
I know those stares, can't be fake, also the actions, until you start a needy thing you lose, i went from that path, i feel u bro
@N4turalNature
@N4turalNature Жыл бұрын
up to these days. This is the best advice Tripp! Thank you so much!
@sandenium
@sandenium 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I didn't know I was being needy until I saw this video. I will stop behaving like that before it's too late Thanks man
@Breadytomove
@Breadytomove 5 жыл бұрын
I should've watched this video a month ago :/ Thanks for all the new info, maybe it's even not too late to implement all that new knowledge.
@wesleymaes2958
@wesleymaes2958 6 жыл бұрын
Bought a sexbot.. only need batteries now.. :(
@jakep4982
@jakep4982 5 жыл бұрын
Wesley Maes 😂
@javierbautista9385
@javierbautista9385 5 жыл бұрын
Fisto??
@FrogEnjoyer17
@FrogEnjoyer17 5 жыл бұрын
Elon?
@dschneiderkj52
@dschneiderkj52 5 жыл бұрын
Too Needy. Better move on. Who wants to be with someone that only wants batteries?
@mrrr407
@mrrr407 5 жыл бұрын
Lolllllll
@mkschreder
@mkschreder 4 жыл бұрын
2 to 4 weeks. Now that is good advice. Love it.
@tytanowyjanusz8273
@tytanowyjanusz8273 5 жыл бұрын
You are right. I just couldn't understand by myself that women is just something extra for my life but not my life.. Thank U
@chillaakac.c7471
@chillaakac.c7471 5 жыл бұрын
He's being needy by making watch more videos. This was enough. Thank you
@awardwin
@awardwin 7 жыл бұрын
If sex is one the most basic of human needs, then why does seducing women need to be a skill which men need to perfect? It's literally mastering the art of manipulation. If women don't expect too much, then why does 99% of the female population want 1% of the male population? A man has to be successful, handsome, talented and have game to attract lots of women. For a woman to attract lots of men she just has to be pretty. The double standard is staggering.
@purplenightdrive627
@purplenightdrive627 6 жыл бұрын
Gui MV RESPECT!! Bro welcome to the small dick club ,, BAMBOEMSKA
@valporkins4453
@valporkins4453 6 жыл бұрын
bookreview nerd but your black...
@xavm3176
@xavm3176 6 жыл бұрын
Gui MV you're such a dumb little boy
@valporkins4453
@valporkins4453 6 жыл бұрын
"your guy" are you a gay?
@lilkezzivert9731
@lilkezzivert9731 6 жыл бұрын
awardwin exactly bro 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@eddieruiz3503
@eddieruiz3503 3 жыл бұрын
yes this helped and today i am going to start the 2-4 weeks not being needy or anything i going to work on myself and get my life back on track thank u
@SciFiNut1977
@SciFiNut1977 5 жыл бұрын
I thought this was super helpful! I’m really interested in this girl right now. I’m going thru a divorce presently. So she’s not interested in meeting up until things are finalized. Our dialogue was a lot more open in the beginning, but lately it has cooled down. She is also going thru a lot in her life too. So I am giving her the space she needs.
@vinaykaycee
@vinaykaycee 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot, It has taken a big load off from my head.
@jessejames2624
@jessejames2624 6 жыл бұрын
Video is Amazing! I got reassurance from this video, that what I've been doing after my most recent experience with a girl, is the right choice! Keep being the person that she seen walk in, but with a lot more knowledge and confidence this time around. Whoever comes next, I'll be even more prepared then yesterday. Better version of myself by far.
@sanderwage1730
@sanderwage1730 3 жыл бұрын
Im doing this cause i realy want a girl so much. She is so nice and kind to me i love her personality so much. She works in a store but now the people who works there said that i am kind of scaring her. I am so confused i realy want her i think we can have a great future together. So do you think i should walk in at the store some days just buying stuff and pay no attention to her at all?😢❤️
@Anw4rr10r
@Anw4rr10r 3 жыл бұрын
@@sanderwage1730 It seems you've caught a serious case of the oneitis my friend. I would know, I had it, and if you're scaring her then it's already too late. Forget about her and move on. Cut your losses while you still can. Maybe once you've become the best version of yourself and you've got yourself a girl, you walk into the store, providing she still works there, and you show her what she missed out on. That might make her feel like you're feeling now. Better yet, walk into the store with your new girl.
@thsam5623
@thsam5623 4 жыл бұрын
This situation clearly resonates with what I'm living right now. I'm gonna try to seriously put some distance. Hope it'll work out.
@user-re2wz2ez8h
@user-re2wz2ez8h 2 жыл бұрын
I was going through some videos & they were just saying to let her go but your video is more helpful. Yes gotta develop myself, give space & try 1 last time & hope it works out
@MirrorMansionQ
@MirrorMansionQ 7 жыл бұрын
This is very truthful, an ex I wanted back but I was way too needy after the breakup. The most I got out of that was some backslide sexual encounters and a one sided friendship. Now I know I ended up putting the nails in the coffin because I wasn't being the old fun person I used to be.
@MattN8tvYT
@MattN8tvYT 6 жыл бұрын
Fugg an ex....
@OnTheRiver14
@OnTheRiver14 5 жыл бұрын
MQStudios happening to me right now, im trying to make it work
@sk42bond98
@sk42bond98 5 жыл бұрын
Happend to me, i was too needy after the break up and it ended up in a friendship. What Should i do ???
@dangreenarrow2596
@dangreenarrow2596 5 жыл бұрын
@sk42 bond just move on friendship with a girl you like sexuality just doesnt work out
@bitTorrenter
@bitTorrenter 5 жыл бұрын
Don't apologise for being human. This 'community' will try to sell you tricks.
@Wiseguy248
@Wiseguy248 5 жыл бұрын
This video brings some good insights. Most guys are guilty when it comes to being needy. It’s part of the learning process haha. I struggled with it and when shifting my attention to my purpose and self personality and surround myself with more people. If she wasn’t available I didn’t care I just simply make plans with other people to meet more women. This video was good though. 👌
@ibrahimabubakar8275
@ibrahimabubakar8275 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I've been in this very situation in just last 3weeks and my friend told exact same thing and it works now that i heard it here gonna hold it tight.
@Rgb3123
@Rgb3123 3 жыл бұрын
I think you are the only person who I can trust about dating. Thanks man!
@honeaj
@honeaj 6 жыл бұрын
Hey tripp thanks for this video it really opened up my eyes about myself and the things I need to work on. Keep up with the helpful vids my man. #roadtoredemption
@yoshi8pie123
@yoshi8pie123 6 жыл бұрын
Lmbo I like how his honest like “I secretly hope you move on”
@bulldog2447
@bulldog2447 4 жыл бұрын
Thx for the advice I’m gonna try to work out all my problems and wait 6 months and I subbed 👍🏾
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