7 Nice Guy Mistakes That Chase Girls Away

[@TrippAdvice]

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[@zkhan9936]

1. Complimenting 2. Agreeableness 3. Buying attention- buying her things 4. Letting her dictate when you guys hang out 5. Texting her unless you are asking her out 6. telling her about your struggles

[@Mikey_is_on_yt]

I think the texting one is SO BAD. I used to do it back in the day. Us guys, when we have no life, we have this habit to always text our guy friends, then we try to translate over and do the same with the girls which is horrible. Guys listen to Tripp. These tips are true. Dont be a simp. Lol

[@63MIJ63]

What I have found is be good to her, treat her well, respect her but also have your own life and goals.

[@daviemorrison8514]

There's 2 extremes, the jerk and the nice guy. You need to find the middle ground.

[@MastaInferno]

🔥🔥💯💯 With Standards/Backbone On Your Purpose!

[@daviemorrison8514]

@@MastaInferno exactly, tripp is leaning more towards the merkin side instead of being grounded in the middle where true relationships belong.

[@michaeljeacock]

perfectly balanced as all things should be. the problem here is where you think the middle is. the opposite of the nice guy is not the bad boy, the opposite is a murderous psychopath. so the bad boy is closer to the middle than you think.

[@daviemorrison8514]

@@michaeljeacock a murderous physicopath is not even on the scale, it goes way beyond extreme and isn't even related to the good and bad boy. So yes, in this case the bad boy is one extreme.

[@donniecain4266]

@@daviemorrison8514 totally agree with you ! You can give an occasional compliment ( once a week ) an occasional inexpensive gift less than 10.00 once a week these are not nice guy traits but traits of consideration which most women like and do not consider wimpy !

[@raizahanmohamad9888]

Only compliment when she do a good job...Have own opinion...Don't invest too much on her...Take lead on plan...Only text a girls with high interest,most time she will reply...Showing emotion apply to girl with high interest too

[@JukeboxJoeB]

Listen to the man gentleman! I'm not messing around! This guy is the absolute MASTER! Listen to the master, and your life will be altered forever in a very positive way!

[@Haktuar]

Appreciate it, Tripp. As a "nice guy" by nature, your videos and especially your podcast have really helped me transform from consistently being friendzoned to being considered a sexy guy that ruthlessly deletes numbers haha. Keep up the great work.

[@DYoung2112]

Women.especially younger women,naively tend to confuse 'bad boy' behaviour with masculine traits ie dominance and assertiveness as being able to provide for offspring.Older and more insightful women ,on the other hand,understand bad boy is a liability because it indicates immaturity and instability. Wise women want good men who can also assert themselves and protect them.

[@jasluvdeepsingh8491]

I gotta tell you guys- don't become bad boys if you aren't naturally one. If you are someone who was raised with values like respecting someone and treating them nicely and never be an asshole, stick to it. Problem arises if you start getting down to your knees for them. Basically begging. I've been a nice guy and I have won girls in the same race from many better looking bad guys who were competing with me. Why? Because girls will actually choose a nice guy over bad guys, if they are both masculine, playful, dominant. Only time when they will actually choose bad guys is when the nice guy is a simp who is desperate for a girl and isn't confident in himself. If you are nice but are also self respecting, have your boundaries, care for others, are confident in your tone and do not ass lick, you'll get all the right girls before any bad guy. Just trust me on this.

[@danbowers20]

Not giving compliments. Great advice. Thank you.

[@shadowknight6040]

Ehh i don’t get why giving compliments or talking just to ask them how they are is so wrong besides that. Most of the rest seem pretty agreeable to me

[@wolfman231]

@@shadowknight6040 because most guys give away compliments to pretty girls. If a girl is physically attractive, how many times do you think she's been told that by thirsty ass-kissers in her life? Be different, be authentic, stand out.

[@NeverMetTheGuy]

For whatever reason, I've had success by remembering details in conversation, and then saying and doing whatever I want otherwise. Also, in recent years I've also almost completely stopped paying for a woman I'm not actively dating. The Christmas gift I'm giving my best female friend this year, is literally dead, dried flowers, and a rock; it's literally a rock.

[@Holypikemanz]

"Women say" vs "Women do" never similar

[@srini9267]

I am exactly all those 7 traits of a "nice guy". WOW! FML!

[@EricMartonelli]

I think “nice guy” is misinterpreted. The nice guy that does gentlemen things does get women, we just confuse it with a “simp” so to speak.

[@ibrahimkamara599]

Thank you Tripp GOD bless you for the great advice. Since I came across your KZbin Chanel life has changed over women not to settle for less and stop being nice guy when I was. GOD bless.

[@influencedbythesystem5105]

Sometimes I would spice it up and create a small argument so things don't get repetitive and boring

[@atiqgrde8597]

BRO YOUR TIPS ARE SOOOO .. PRACTICAL

[@fvdham]

Stoics were known to speak truth to power and be exiled or executed.

[@rishiraz1993]

It has been ages since I haven't complimented a woman out of fear of what she's gonna think. It's much easier for me to just keep quite and pretend I am unaware of their existence. HELP

[@Ariyaan666]

😆

[@BloodyHeck]

It's interesting that for most guys, doing these things will chase girls away but NOT doing them will also chase them away. Of course that's if you're a regular guy, Bad boys can do whatever they want and women will still do anything for them.

[@kostasplafountzis6602]

the worse and more selfish you are,the more attractive you are to women...

[@MrAnthonyDraft]

Kind of confused about complimenting. I'm not someone who compliments someone a lot by habit because I find that shows the intent straight away, but genuinely complimenting a woman every once in a while is fine. The point in this video was about not to over compliment a woman too eagerly, did I get that right?

[@officialthomasjames]

I think it all depends on the kind of compliment. If you are complimenting a woman on the surface level too much, she will be turned off. However, if you give her genuine compliments that may relate to their style, intelligence, mindset, etc. the woman will appreciate them much more and not feel like they are being put on a pedestal.

[@Waleed-zx4pf]

Don’t compliment on how beautiful she is naturally, every other guy does that, go for more subtle features, like her hair, shoes, outfit etc.

[@andresfuentes3327]

2:20 it starts your welcome 🙏🏻

[@dangerous_tangerine]

Overall, pretty good information! However, I really have to disagree with your point on complimenting. I mean yeah, the way you talk about complimenting people is manipulative where you are trying to get them to like you. However, if you genuinely like something about someone, I see no harm in letting them know that. The key is being authentic with your compliments, not trying to use them to get people to like you or shutting them down completely. Just some food for thought.

[@ObjectiveAnalysis]

I over-text today. Asked her how her night was on Friday when I don’t actually give a f**k 🤦‍♂️

[@MenMovement]

Great point of view, keep up the good work 👏🏻

[@siavashrohani1604]

Thank you, sir!

[@danielsantana540]

Tripp advice isn't worrying about who your girl talks to and or gets jealous cause she is interacting with another guy say classmate or neighbor etc is this a nice guy trait.

[@Nirajkumar-br1wm]

Your videos might be lengthy bt depth and content of your videos are unmatched

[@peterojas7490]

I sent a lady a birthday card in October & recently gave her a Christmas card. We follow each other on Instagram, are Facebook friends. But she very infrequently accesses her social media accounts. Hopefully doing this one correctly here. Maybe writing a note and mailing it to her home asking for her phone number will be helpful. If I went to her house and asked for her phone number, maybe that would make her feel uneasy. Nor do I want to come across as creepy either. She lives about 10 miles away from me. We used to go to the same community college at one time.

[@ahamoment773]

Complimenting, agreeableness, buy attention, accommodating, text if you want to ask her out, tell her your struggles

[@alananderson007008]

I'm not a nice guy. But not a bad boy either

[@wolfman231]

Being the good guy is finding the balance between the two

[@vimalkrsna]

Great insights bro

[@karbon-sgs3350]

Only compliment when it’s earned, just because she exists is no reason to compliment her.

[@gamehub4574]

The longer u know each other , that's the key

[@IAMKVM]

Well said 👍

[@harrisonomamuzoedeta3514]

Thankyou

[@christinehope6317]

Subscribed to this by mistake but everything I've heard him say is true so far

[@zack1610]

Definitely! Girl who complains about everything...complete turn off

[@bryanmccallum4614]

Oops I'm screwed up! I'm being too much of a nice guy!

[@ajs9603]

I always become a robot in the relationship not when I'm trying to ask them out

[@Kyle-f2l]

I disagree, if a girl likes you no matter what you do, unless it's terrible, she'll like you!

[@ziaulhoq9231]

But isn't it too quick to ask her out for a date at the first place?

[@Waleed-zx4pf]

You gotta build that flirtatious vibe in the first few texts, don’t linger on for too long for no reason, make your intentions know to her by being subtly flirtatious, when the vibe feels strong enough, set a date.

[@mrhlhl5679]

I heard somewhere that. Everyone has their own love idea how they imagine that their love life will look like and that there are different variants almost as in 5 love languages. are they something you know or have heard about it would be fun if you made a video about that

[@monaural2.988]

It's gonna be hard for some guys to take. But THERE WILL BE LOSERS in this game of "love". That goes for whatever it is you do, whatever action you take or direction you turn. Too much in the area of gambling here, and simply not enough of the "quality squad" to go around. Best to have the plan B in the background, meaning learning how to take the solo path.

[@emmanuellukeesuk606]

Tripp 👍

[@AngelLine77]

Christmas gifts??

[@GetFitPhil]

So on the agree part because i see this continue to see this pop up, What if you are actually agreeing with the things she says, that makes you like minded. how is that a nice guy thing. Don't get me wrong i will disagree on shit but there is one girl I've actually agreed on almost everything she said because that's what i agreed on lol? That needs more defining.

[@wolfman231]

Agreeing, as in "yes man" brown-nosing to gain points. It's a turnoff when people do it to me too. Nobody likes a contrarian, arrogant, argumentative jerk either. Gentle correction when they're wrong and it will boost trust and respect.

[@anshulagrawal9974]

I reside 200 Km away from her........I can't text her to ask her out........Then?

[@AshTheDuke]

listen to trip dont be a simp

[@Sahil360__]

3 comment from India

[@austintang1645]

Is leading the interaction by opening car doors too nice?

[@nathanfrench6268]

It's it's being a gentleman. I'd do it once and if she doesn't appreciate it I'm not doing it again. Atleast show her u give a damn, u don't always gotta be red pill

[@thamuzm2684]

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHHA NICE GUY WINNING OVER A BAD BOY OMG HAHHHAHAHAHAHAHAH this joke made 2020 better funniest thing i ever heard 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bassian86]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@yovanbidenovic4940]

Unfortunately, that research mentioned at the beginning of the video is bullshit, I got proof when she dumped me 2 weeks ago

[@Waleed-zx4pf]

Better to be dumped by trash people than to stay in their zones.

[@yovanbidenovic4940]

@@Waleed-zx4pf that is true. SHADY RECORDS 🤝

[@joshfernandez8475]

but dont girls seek attention :/

[@frankiefernandez7129]

Aka: 2:45 Don’t be a simp lmfao

[@oly0247]

Autentic man .Ceau from Roumaine😀

[@RichDatingDragon]

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