Trying to be one of those cute autumn girlies... || Fall weekend vlog // UK 2022

[@fleurs2725]

Thank you for the vlog - it was lovely and autumnal. I enjoy hearing you talking about your experiences regarding autism and I do like a time lapse! Hope Jack is feeling better now.

[@sarahlwalden]

Thank you so much 🖤

[@kelliewithanienotay]

Love the title of this vlog! Sums me up too! Want to be the girl on the sofa, under a blanket, feeling cosy, reading a book with my candles lit and a storm outside but in reality, I'm shivering under a blanket as I daren't put the heating on and my brain won't switch off to allow me to enjoy the book I want to read by candle light 😀😀😀 I'm excited for cosy vibes but can't always achieve them 😊

[@sarahlwalden]

Hahahah, sounds like me Kellie! 😅🖤

[@katrinanolan104]

For the gnats, you can use Diatomaceous earth to kill the adults. It’s a white powder insect killer that you put about 1/2 inch layer on top of soil for all your plants. I’d recommend doing this after soaking/watering your plants from the bottom so you can leave them alone for a couple weeks. It is pet safe but a completely organic alternative is cinnamon. You do the same as the Diatomaceous Earth but it more so deters rather than immediately kills.

[@Chlo_han]

Not sure if you’ve shared an update on Oakley with the whole weeing in his sleep thing but just wondered how he’s doing 😊 I’ve got a dog a similar age to him!

[@sarahlwalden]

He's got his appointment on Monday! The vets have been a nightmare. I'll do an update in a future video!! 🖤

[@Chlo_han]

@@sarahlwalden ah that’s good! Hope it goes well 😊

[@sarahlwalden]

Me too!

[@MrDaydreamer1584]

"going out for me is a struggle and if you don't know much about autism [...] I really really do want to go out but when it comes to taking the steps to go out I'm just like no like I really really don't want to I I do want to but I don't want to do the steps to do it if that makes sense and I just I hate it" That sounds like demand avoidance. Is that what it is? (Or is it something else?) (I presume you know what demand avoidance is.)

[@sarahlwalden]

I think what I mention later in the video with me not being able to do something once I'm told to is definitely that. With the steps to going out, I don't think so. I'm not 100% sure though, might be a possibility!