I am a divorcee too. My husband was a single guy never married. His family was against me, but my husband didn't care. He went against them and married me. Now we have been married for over 10 yrs. Happy and still in love with one another. It doesn't matter about the status of a person. Its about willing to love that person without judging their past.
@chialee34595 ай бұрын
Same here. Married 2 times with two boys. My friend from High school came back to my life. He was single. We are still together for 17 years with 3 kids. My husband loves my other 2 boys. Yes it was a roller coaster ride with the inlaws, but we made it through.
@zhangxuanzhangxuan5 ай бұрын
😅
@paynicha44585 ай бұрын
Why do our hmong women get the worst when they're divorced? Smh. I was divorced with 3 kids, my husband single man came into our lives, love my kids as his. We have a son together and still so in love.
@Fang_Olivia5 ай бұрын
A lot of have the same story. I am one too. My husband’s family gave him an ultimatum and he chose me. We have been married for 13 years now and have 3 boys. Own our own home and have good careers with good pay. 😊
@roseanimetor81575 ай бұрын
You are a true leader of your life and your family, not a follower and not easily influenced.
@Gazalle125 ай бұрын
I love your story because you are a true and genuine man. God bless. Need more of this kind of story
@chang35685 ай бұрын
I'm glad you stood your ground. I wish all parents would put their children's happiness first before theirs.
@puayang25065 ай бұрын
I am glad you love her. I hope that you will love her til her last breath. Best wishes to you and your family.
@xNUMBER20x5 ай бұрын
Yup! Always protect your spouse and don’t ever allowed anyone to disrespect your spouse.
@bluewhisper50085 ай бұрын
I think you should forgive your parents. I think most of it they're protecting you. You could've regret marrying your wife and divorce her because she's a divorcee. I would try to talk my son/daughters out of it too because marrying someone who already has a past comes with a lot of baggage. There are so many people who wished they didn't and it's already too late.
@nkaujhmoobvaj14915 ай бұрын
Love is the strongest thing in the world. Glad u followed your heart and did not listen to anyone. Forgive parents and cherish whatever time they have left with you.
@youavu14335 ай бұрын
Parents just want the best for their child. They want you to not ever regret your life because you can never undo it.
@kumapandax87295 ай бұрын
Yes but I feel like the father in this story was trying to manipulate him and live through him too lol. Like how the hell are you gonna curse your kid saying they're a waste of everything just for not listening 💀 ew bye.
@pogtxawjtshiavchannel46595 ай бұрын
He's definitely a protector of a dad, husband, and son. There is nothing wrong if it's all about love. So proud of you, son.
@paulavang29875 ай бұрын
This story is very strong relationship I can tell and see that you are a true Hmong son can show your parent , your family that you love her and protect her because you love her then you have to tell everybody know that she is part of your life that is why you can’t let your wife down you are doing the right thing don’t hate your parent and don’t turn your wife down too you do the right things.
@shujilor1127Ай бұрын
Nrog Nej zoo siab hev❤❤❤❤
@stacythor76395 ай бұрын
Beautiful story! Wish a lot of the men can be like you! Its sad that a lot of the men are not men enough to stand up for their situation that they cause for their girl and what she go through! They promise their girl and after that they betray her!❤
@tubhmoobchannel42585 ай бұрын
Tu tu siab heev
@uh72765 ай бұрын
This guy no good. Why would you abandon your parents just becus of this reason? So much for a cop!
@tsimkhohmoobchannel5 ай бұрын
I like your channel ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
@kausxyooj1325 ай бұрын
yog ib txoj neej zoo thiab tu siab kawg li...I am tear to your story brother...
@chaovue18955 ай бұрын
Cov coob ces yej ntxeev siab thaum laus es thiaj hais ualuaj. Koj yog thawj tug ua siab zoo hlub koj tus pojniam, Uatsaug nawb.
@miahart89325 ай бұрын
A true man
@nyiamnkawgsaiv97485 ай бұрын
Hope your parents learned their lesson. Most Hmong men are so obedient to the point that they lost everything they want in life bcuz of parents like yours. I applaud you.
@susannelor72165 ай бұрын
This is exactly my story by then in the 80s. My parents and my husband’s parents didn’t like us getting married too. So we ran away too but we both are very much in-love and we both are single. Our parents think we are too young and the marriage will never last. We been married for over 37 yrs now and still much in-love
@TheOfficialTouFresh5 ай бұрын
A dad should not "check out" or bring girls around you that fits his taste as a man, nor should put you in a situation that makes you uncomfortable. Even if he is your dad, you don't need to bow to his wants. Thanks for showing us Hmong brothers to be strong and fight for what we want/need.
@NaNa-rj4tw4 ай бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@seeyeelor78285 ай бұрын
Yeah koj mas ua yog kiag lawm. I like. Tiam 22 lawm yuav tsum khov li ko lub neej tom ntej thiaj li tsis tu siab rau koj tus kheej.
@mainhiaxiong58685 ай бұрын
Lovely story. We need more love story like this.
@tabathayang72175 ай бұрын
I would do the same thing. Yug yuav tsum tiv thaiv tug neeg yus hlub. I am so happy for you both. Sis sis hlub moog kuas txug nub kawg nawb mog. ❤
@nataliemansfield8945 ай бұрын
Wow! Zoo siab rau tug txiv tsev nos. Cas yuav hais tau tu sab ua luaj os. Xav kom tau coob tug txiv neej lub sab zoo le tug txiv neej nuas. Cag peb cov nkauj nra es yuav tau lub npe phem ua luas.... zoo sab tas thaum kawg es koj tau tug koj hlub lawm os tug nug. Yog ib qhov kev kawg rua cov nam txiv khwv tij tib tib cov nkauj nra nkauj tsog yawg nra yawg tsauj. Lub neej sibsib hlub tseem muaj yog muaj coob tug tseem xav zoo les tug txiv tsev no.
@vilaiphonethor82525 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@Nlorbliaya5 ай бұрын
Thank you. brother
@nkaujmoobleeg5 ай бұрын
Wow! All husbands should have protected their wives the way you protect your wife. She was so lucky that you chose her.❤
@maiaflatebo4 ай бұрын
I wish my ex was as brave as you… I was not even a divorcee and was treated badly by his family all because I speak a different dialect and is driven. May you guys love each other forever! So happy for your happy ending.
@pajthao48135 ай бұрын
Txhob tu siab rau cov laus kom tas2 vim tej laus twb pom los lawm txiv neej siab phem2 vim thaum laus txiv neej laus txaus siab phem mam tawg mam ua phem xwb yog koj lub siab hlub koj tus niam tsev li ko kom kawg los kuj zoo thiab thov kom sib hlub kom kawg lub neej kom zoo xwb mog
@xeeramirez94615 ай бұрын
You are good man
@maimoua13715 ай бұрын
What is a real hmong gentleman God bless your
@myprecious67515 ай бұрын
Brother, I applaud you. You did everything right
@ashylove9095 ай бұрын
Wow zaj no mas zoo tiag2 li os kuv nrog tus me niam zoo2 siab heev rau tus txiv hlub thiab nyiam nws heev li os
@pkcyang29105 ай бұрын
What a great love story! I applaud you for standing up to your wife and not married or cheat on her with the girls in Laos
@Ncohnubno5 ай бұрын
This man is so romantic! Are there more of you in the Hmong community?
@AaAa-kp2lz5 ай бұрын
Txoj kev hlub uas dawb huv thiab caj ncees yog hlub tawm hauv nruab siab tuaj , g hais yuav phom sij, nyuab thiab txom nyem npaus cas yeej g muaj leej teg yuav txwv txiav tau thiab yuav yeej tag txhua 2 yam, i support and respect you brother ❤
@doogvang5 ай бұрын
Hopefully, you will not regret it when you get older, most of the guys married to pojnrauj always complain when they get older they will start to see differently.
@fmfm73755 ай бұрын
Nrog neb zoo siab os tu me nu koj thiaj yog tu txiv neej txawj xav tshaj plaw li , thov kom kj hlub kj tu me niam tsev li no mu ib sim neej mog
@AtLpb-l7m5 ай бұрын
Tau tu kj hlb lm es sib2 hlb nawb ❤❤❤
@maivang83615 ай бұрын
What a real man!!!! ❤ Happy you stood by her.
@darinsaesong9005 ай бұрын
Nyias yug nyias mam paub os hmoob aw
@OppoOppo-d3s7p5 ай бұрын
zoo siab nrog koj o viv ncaus ua koj tau tus txiv hlub2 koj o❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@tvang85 ай бұрын
I don’t understand Hmong people about divorce women. Imagine if that was you, your sister or your daughter. Would your thinking still be the same?
@flryprn7455 ай бұрын
It’s the mentality 🤔. Someone that been through more, done more! It’s not pure like a virgin. But honestly, these kids now in days be dating like they married so what’s the difference between a married woman sleeping w her husband vs a singled girl sleeping with her BF?!
@klanstarlu98125 ай бұрын
What a beautiful love story. Sad that you two both had to prove yourself marriage to your family. It all comes down to you…. Continue to Love and respect her the way she deserves. May God bless the both of you.
@Hmong6644 ай бұрын
You are one of a kind. Please forever love your wife and prove to people that status is nothing.
@susannelor72165 ай бұрын
That’s great. You are a great guy and stood your ground.
@elisely53535 ай бұрын
Cov niam txiv OG no twb tuaj nyob Meskas teb no lawm thov tseg txoj kev qub 2 tau 2-3 tiam tas los no lawm es pheej yuav xaiv nyab xaiv vauv rau tej megnuam cia lawv xaiv lawv tus lawv nyiam es lawv thiaj li xav nrog lawv tus txwj nkawm nyob. Tus tub koj ua yog kawg lawm txhob cia koj niam koj txiv xaiv koj lub neej rau koj thiaj li yog kev hlub tseeb.
@Karena3125 ай бұрын
As parents, we need to change the way we see a divorcee. There’s nothing wrong with loving someone who once married. We need to give our kids a choice in finding love for themselves and not for our own happiness. I would never be happy with someone I do t love as well.
@mailoryang2975 ай бұрын
Tib neeg txoj kev hlub loj tshaj plaws txhua yam, yog koj tus tub, tus ntxhais nyiam tus twg lawm, yuav tsum cia nws yuav tus ntawd, nws thiaj kaj siab, nws thiaj zoo siab thiaj xav pib lub neej nrog tus nws nyiam. Tsis txhob yuam nws kom yuav tus peb cov niam thiab txiv nyiam.
@shouavue5554Ай бұрын
Most the men yeej hlub thaum hluas tab sis ntu laus lawm ces txiv neej mam txob thuam cem os lawv aw..😊
@chiliayang58325 ай бұрын
Wow thov ua koj tsaug nawb brother koj kuj hlub peb cov poj nrauj kawg li thiab thov kom neb sib hlub nawb mog
@shouathao62815 ай бұрын
Thank for protecting your wife
@gjsgisthf48505 ай бұрын
Kj g tsim nyog kj txiv yug kj li os
@chatvang56485 ай бұрын
Not everythings your parents, wanted are right but some parts are also important, too. Once you are older you will know. One day you will wake up and realize some of things said are also true. Nothing happens right now because things are going good and you are happy but only time will tell.
@judyvang90895 ай бұрын
Don’t be so harsh and mad at your parents. They were looking out in your best interest. Imagine if it didn’t work out, you would be living in regrets and upset at your parents for not stopping you. Dam if your parents did stop you and dam if they didn’t. It’s hard being parents. You will be in your parents’ shoes one day and will understand where they were coming from.
@YeeVang-ve8ow5 ай бұрын
You might regret it in 20 years, believe your parents.
@chialee34595 ай бұрын
Why would he regret it? Even people who married their virgin women in the beginning. Not happy with their marriage at the end, they still end up with a divorced woman. So why does it matter.
@flryprn7455 ай бұрын
@@chialee3459Bcuz men R known for always talk the talk but never walk the walk…
Good for u. U should forgive your parents because they love u and care u. Nrog koj zoo siab os brother kam tsi hlub hlub koj tug niam tsev os.
@yeevang12235 ай бұрын
Very less men love the one once married like your story.
@akaay815 ай бұрын
I'm a divorced woman with 2 beautiful boys, very similar situation, I was dislike because of my status, but my husband (single guy) and I have been ❤️ together for over 17+ years! Don't judge poj nrauj, we didn't choose to be divorced, we chose to not be a victim of abuse by leaving our abusive partner.
@Ronaldo_fan3215 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you!!!!!!
@mkue015 ай бұрын
Its sad being a hmong woman. Once divorced u have to carry a scarlett letter. You as a hmong woman have to have a strong will to move forward.
@payang37015 ай бұрын
Txiv neej mas luag tau tus luag hlub mas luag txaus siab ua txhua yam Txiv neej tau tus tsis raws siab xav mas tseev ua qhov zoo los yeej tsis pom luag zoo Tsuas pom qhov phem li phem xwb
@pavang55315 ай бұрын
Hopefully you will remain the same way until the end. But also remember that you can’t take back the time missed with your parents. They are getting older each day and you will regret all those times. So make up and move on.
@cheelee92405 ай бұрын
Very sweet love story brother. It’s good you followed your heart and not let anyone influence you to leave your wife after you married her.
@thestoryofmylife69795 ай бұрын
Definitely hmoob people problem. Hopefully when all the og passes the new generation will change.
@meexiongvang33735 ай бұрын
Saib koj hlub koj cov me nyuam zoo lica ce koj niam koj txiv yeej hllub koj lis ntawm thiab qhov koj ua tsi yog lawm koj tej yam tsi zoo rau koj lub
@meexiongvang33735 ай бұрын
Yog koj niam koj txiv tuag kiag los koj yeejyuav cia nkawm tuag thiab vim koj tsi muaj kev hlub yog koj cov me nyuam ua li kos rau koj koj puas tus siab kuv xav hai tia koj tshuav nkawm nqi ntau heev nawb.
@Gurlhmong5 ай бұрын
Hmong people and their prejudice against divorce or orphan kids is ridiculous! Those people are the type that knows how to love because they faced hardship!!!!
@chiliayang58325 ай бұрын
Vim li cas nej niam thiab txiv ho ntxub ntxub poj nrauj li nes yom
@yatengyang37525 ай бұрын
you did a great job i would do the same thing like you too
@xiongvang95845 ай бұрын
You did right. Old Hmong ppl will say what they say at the end to make excuses but we all know if it was up to them. They would never accept a divorcee woman for their sons.
@myprecious67515 ай бұрын
WOW, I can't believe your parents knowingly that you're a cop yet they want you to marry an underage,,. Forcing you to marry their choice. Glad you stood up for your love...
@ashton88785 ай бұрын
Nah, won’t be letting my boys get with a divorcee. No baggage allow.
@phoebelor11735 ай бұрын
Kuv tus nyab twb 2 tug txiv 5tug me nyuam lawm los kuv twb tsi txwv kuv tus mi tub es tsuav lawv sib2 hlub xwb
@hmoob-usalauj39345 ай бұрын
Let’s hope the you love her until death due you part. Most men changed when the woman is older. The love is no longer there. You made a choice for yourself. Don’t ruin her the second time.
@yerxiong83215 ай бұрын
Kj txawm chim npau cas los Nc ntsoov tias muaj kj niam thb kj txiv es thiaj li muaj kj tiam neej no nkawv txawm phem npau li cas rau kj los hnub twg nkawv zam txim rau kj lm kj yuav tsum Nc ntsoov nkawv txoj kev hlub tu kj los mog
@tiachang-sn5ic5 ай бұрын
U did right brother But Hmong people always like that Too hard to complain 😢
@PhouLis-md7wp5 ай бұрын
T 1
@HeyItsGaoTV5 ай бұрын
Can my husband be THIS sweet/obsess with me?! 🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻
@jackieyunan48993 ай бұрын
Cov poj nrauj tam sim no siab phem phem lawm ceev faj nawb...
@xavxeevxwb4865 ай бұрын
This guy will never know the feelings of eating a fresh fruit for the first time 😢 why drive a used 🚗 when you can drive a new 🚗
@maivlauj82495 ай бұрын
Koj zaj neej neeg zoo heev koj kuj ua tau zoo heev li 我舅舅的儿子来娶我大妈家的女儿,去了有三天舅舅他们未经我表哥的允许,就把我堂姐送回来了,说嫌弃我堂姐有点矮,可是他们两个很相爱,却不能在一起,后来有外省来的人把我堂姐娶走了,从那以后我表哥就离家出走了,直到现在都有二十多年了,从未回来过,也不联系家里人。
@pajhuablaujchannel37315 ай бұрын
TOS kj niam nkawv txawv kj los kj tus poi niam yog poi nrauj lwm hnub kj yeej tsis hlub Nws lawm vim txiv neej hmoob siab phem heev
@nouyangvideos62955 ай бұрын
Txiv neej ruam thiab hlwb tsawg ces yog tus tub no nthag
@Money-q9n5 ай бұрын
I hope you don't ever regret down the road and complain that you married a divorce woman. And I hope you better NOT say anything if your sons or daughters ever marry a divorce. LOL
@Justin-q4w6d5 ай бұрын
It’s ok I got a used Toyota Tacoma and I’m happy 😂😂😂😂😂 the previous owner took good care of it 😂😂😂😂
@Maliyaahveeh5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 good one😅
@hlubmykids51195 ай бұрын
Tos cov laus tsis pub yuav los txiv neej siab phem222 nej nyiam thaum tshiab xwb nej yuav poj nrauj nej yuav tsis kawg koj tuaj hais li no tab sis kuv tsis ntseeg koj. Yog koj pojniam tuaj hais kiag tias koj zoo no mas nyaj yuav ntseeg me22 ov.
@yerlee12775 ай бұрын
Koj mas yog ib tug tub uas tawv ncauj tiag tiag li ntag , vaj tswv txoj cai yeej sam hwm kom tej me nyuam hlub thiab hwm yus niam yus txiv xwb vaj tswv tsis tau kom peb niam peb txiv los hwm los nyoo peb , yog peb tsis hwm niam hwm txiv ces vaj tswv yuav tsis pub peb muaj sia nyob ntev ua neej nyob no xwb peb cov uas yog niam yog txiv ces vaj tswv kom peb hlub peb cov me nyuam txhob pub peb tej me nyuam tu siab no xwb , nej cov me nyuam no mas tsu nrog tus poj niam twg pw lawm ces cuag li tug ntawd thiaj yog poj niam xwb ntag .
@cindyvang92153 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@liaxiong81295 ай бұрын
Me tub aws cas koj lub siab yuav tawv ua luaj koj tsis ntshai tsam lwm hnub es koj cov hos khiav mus thiab los, yog koj khiav lawm los cas koj tsis hu rov los noog ob tug laus moo li na koj yeej ua yuam kev me me lawm thiab
@ntxawmxyooj65955 ай бұрын
Koj zaj niag neej neeg no cas koj tseem muaj ntsej muag coj tuaj hais rau ntiaj teb mloog thiab es koj tsi paub txaj muag li los niag tub dev
@chialee34595 ай бұрын
Can someone please tell me what is so wrong with divorce women. Why can't a single man married to a divorce woman. Is okay for man who divorce many times to marry a single woman.
@niammeejvaj29805 ай бұрын
😭🥲❤❤❤🎉
@flryprn7455 ай бұрын
Hmong MEN have come a long way to CHANGE this CAST system thinking that only singles can marry singles, or only rich can marry rich!! I applaud 👏 you for the change! The newer generation singles R MoRE accepting of divorcees now than ever b4. You also said some GOOD things about life that I AGREE, however I DONT AGREE with you running away……your parents R your life also. They gave you breath. Even though it’s tough for them to accept, a REAL MAN can stand the pressure n take control without RUNNING away …. I feel bad for your Old parents having to live 10 yrs missing you!! That’s NOT COOL of you to do!! Some men …..like you…..love just a little TOO HARDCORE lmao 🤣……overdunn!! Honestly, if I have to judge, I would say YOU R just as stubborn/hardcore as your dad…..y’all R both same! Sorry, I don’t support runaways!! That’s alittle too immature to me! What u did was WRONG, considering you’re a cop, that’s BAD practice! I hope u don’t ever have to face your kid running away. Your heart will break in every way possible! 🙅🏼♂️🙅♀️
@koumoua29805 ай бұрын
Wrong Title. It should be “Tso Txhua Yam Tseg Khiav Nrog Tus Yus Hlub”
@kuexiong14985 ай бұрын
loyal 🐖.
@drive88925 ай бұрын
Yawg no muab faib rau sab pawg ruam! Mus txog nplog teb thiab maiv maum nrhab tib si tseem ua aib xiab hlwb tsawv tseem hais “ excuse me “. Npom5 nib xiam tiam li yawg txiv hais haha.
@yingvang12765 ай бұрын
Your parents swear single women are virgins 😂. Virgins are a rare find..