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[@Tuko]

To contact Ruth and offer her any Free legal advice/services kindly email her [e-mail]

[@petrahmaggie4768]

There is solution on this and that man can never come across those kids and he will be burned not to come to Kenya.

[@bellaferrer3390]

Can I get contact with Ruth??? I'm a Kenyan living in Valencia Spain.... Ruth has all the rights here....that dude took advantage of her coz she doesn't know her rights

[@bellaferrer3390]

Ruth should receive social help !!! She has all the rights to get help...of which it's always 300 euro per child until they are 18 yrs!!!! That stupid guy has to loose his inheritance coz of negligence!!! How can I get Ruth?

[@periswangai3205]

Some comments though, akuje London how? You will process her visas and where she will stay and give her a job? Fucks sake, she was assulted and abused abroad, you think she wants to go abroad? This lady needs to heal, she went through fire. She needs to go to Spain Embassy in Westlands, that man needs to support those children by Law. Second, he needs to stay away from Ruth and her children, the man is using drugs, he is a nutter. Ruth if you are here and reading this, and you cannot get any leads to a bright road, keep pushing! No situation is permanent, but you seriously must go to Embassy of Spain. It's off Peponi road. I will get in touch with you.

[@keziahmyself4296]

Naomi Foard akuje kufanya? Are you going to process the visa and all?

[@catherinembinya9878]

Let's appreciate the judge, doctor and social workers who helped her in a foreign country. May God protect your children.

[@hassanabdi1145]

god bless them

[@swahilimandela5610]

Typical European BAST ARDS THEY RIB MY LAND SPANISH BOTCHES.

[@Kosovan_Zionist]

Swahili Mandela Typical europeans what? Lmao we had the whole world , the whole world speaks our languages , we rule! Get on our level

[@munalook4477]

Mungu Yuko na sababu

[@judyj5753]

God bless them so much

[@yayaj8727]

Can we all show some love to the woman who help Ruth fight for kids 😍💯💯💯👏👏💅💪

[@bcaiqs]

yaya J God bless this angel

[@torinomambo1212]

Im working with spanish people is true there are very bad against african and racist it is true

[@marilynisaac3473]

She should have married a black man and not date outside of her race.

[@wilmagregory8967]

Thank you from a white woman married to a black man for 42 years. I would have killed him if I was this sweet woman and say he made me crazy for a short time from fear. No one should be treated this way, thank God for this wonderful woman that helped her gain freedom. Peace and God's love.

[@Timewithmabel]

yaya J ❤️

[@prestonkenyaofficial]

The doctor the judge and lawyers acted as Angels this story shows us how God can be there for us even in the darkest moments

[@f.m2542]

Sure

[@FutureLeadersKidsGhana]

AMEN 🙏🏻

[@sweetladyhotmommy6294]

I can't understand why so much Africans women marrying these white men then in the end they suffer .they only want you because your children are stronger

[@Garabella]

Preston Kenya Official God? God no, the Spanish laws against gender violence !!

[@cdub0911]

@@sweetladyhotmommy6294 Why are these men leaving their kids behind?

[@teckie__songsofworship6680]

The woman who helped Ruth to fight for her kids she's an heaven sent Angel

[@ValueSeekerOnline]

That's crazy, He may not know it but Mexican isn't even a race. Tell him to take a DNA test because more African slaves during the Trans Atlantic Slave Trade where taken to Latin America than the US or anywhere else. There's many Mexicans that don't know that they descend from West African Nigerian and Ghana tribes. Plus both you could possibly be Hebrews from the 12 lost tribes of Israel that are currently scattered to the 4 corners of the Earth.... please research West African JEWS ..... they fled into the borders of West Africa and could've possibly mixed with many of those same African tribes that helped sell them into slavery, He could've descended from a Hebrew Tribe in Mali or the Igbo tribe Hebrews, you could also possibly be a Hebrew and don't even know it, it depends on the tribe that you descend from but remember that according to the Bible everyone is who their father is, for instance if he is Mexican ( from the tribe of Issachar which is one of the 12 lost tribes of Israel than that makes your children from the tribe of issachar too ) VIDEO SEARCH this fully >>>>> The Israelites: So called #Mexicans are of the tribe of #Issachar

[@Myworld-dn1nt]

16:0 we Africans the problem we have is we respect white people so much but we don't respect each other

[@yaameera5835]

armaaz mohazim at the point

[@florigustafsson7618]

Money talks bullshit walks

[@kaifali686]

Good point

[@mamawa3mamawa321]

True

[@Myworld-dn1nt]

@Elizabeth Irungu yea I will watch

[@Nia.s.Care.]

I can't marry anybody that isn't serious with God. Foundation of God leads to a stable marriage

[@JesusLovesYouSoMuch1]

Amen

[@mf7883]

True my sister

[@chosenchild6122]

Thank You! Unless you mention God.. then u haven't really started with anything! Sis Thank You!

[@nanaakua7530]

Naomi Kao you are soo ryt

[@kiiza2886]

hahaha hey Sis you can marry some showing you that he is holy and in few year changes like nothing therefore just ask God for real partner

[@elizcringle6505]

He looks like a homeless drug addict. I'm glad she got her kids back. I wish them all the best.

[@Nasro_Warsame2023]

😂😂😂😂

[@ukiniita_909]

We ukinunuliwa pombe si utatombwa tu...

[@elizcringle6505]

@@ukiniita_909 I don't speak Swahili and google translated the above as: " If you buy alcohol, you will not be drunk"... which makes no sense.

[@shay1999]

@@elizcringle6505 This one killed me!! I am so sorry, wish I could translate for you

[@elizcringle6505]

@@shay1999 Well, hopefully it was a positive comment 😁

[@staciquinton2794]

That man doesn't need custody of those children. He would teach them to hate themselves and their mother. 4-25-2020(Sat.)

[@ginadoll00901]

Yes you are right. He is crazy & racist. He will abuse those babies. He does not need them at all.

[@melissiacharles5229]

Yes...100%. Im happy she did not become depressed or turned to alcohol. She's winning.

[@eunicekamene816]

Ghai Ruth hayo ndo yalikupata aki pole nakumbuka tukiwa na ww umoja

[@smw372002able]

Probably abuse them sexually as well.

[@staciquinton2794]

@@smw372002able , you are right. He could possibly do that. He is already wicked. 11-24-2020(Tues.)

[@patrickthariki7465]

This is a very nice person. A good mother. Even the way she talks. She is very genuine. And God has been with her from the beginning. God is great all the times.

[@rezene-j5n]

Absolutely.

[@jpjboi1]

I’m glad she manage to get away and save her girls.

[@risperkubai8431]

I'm glad too

[@namukwilamwambazi920]

Moral of the story. Know somebody better before getting serious.

[@deedee7520]

Facts detected.

[@kaybee3757]

God bless all the people who came to the rescue of Ruth.

[@fleur-de-lyscoeurbleu3059]

Amen

[@patrickkunobwa2720]

Amen

[@shelleyniquillatate8695]

Her baby breathing, lying on her chest, is the best feeling ever.. ❤️❤️😘😍😭

[@haadroon]

@George Barnett then when they see somalis they will call them arabs foreigners let them having white people in there life it will soon end up them being real atabs somalis dont marry out of their clan but kenya they defy mzungu white man like jesus 😂😂😂😂

[@floridagirl386]

@George Barnett lol

[@eva2636]

Am married to a Russian man and its the best decision of my life, your life partner can come from anywhere, her husband was just a heartless man

[@naomiengatha4684]

The best feeling ever 🥰🥰

[@EXORCIST441]

He didn't change it was the mask that fell off

[@lutsanpedro9687]

like that .

[@EXORCIST441]

it's so sad right?

[@JAkin-wl8sf]

@franck njosh You're SPOT-ON!👌🏾

[@KATIBUSTAR]

True

[@gracelynjack2769]

True he was wearing a mass

[@gracependo3191]

This woman shouldn't be afraid at all, this is her country and those baby girls can not be taken away from her.

[@uncleblack4215]

Grace who is going to stop that, are you going too?

[@angiewamwangi6175]

This is Kenya my friend.kenya republic of china 😥ama niite "kani Kaka 🤣

[@lucymbugua8906]

@@angiewamwangi6175 lol I need some I'm running out of my popcorns for this comment lol this a merit 😂😂😂😂😂

[@fartunabdullah6702]

We will stop him and you know what this is Africa you don't know Kenya you will never see him

[@angiewamwangi6175]

@@fartunabdullah6702 what are you even saying 🙄🙄🤷

[@unknownspai8045]

Why don't she go to embassy and they will ban he's passport from coming to Africa

[@XOLIRWAXA]

He has a right to visit his kids😔such animal I'm sure given a chance he can abuse those kids also

[@nalouchaa]

There are 54 countries in Africa. Just a reminder for you, Africa is a continent.

[@ZuzuHaji]

danniah kay I guess she means in this situation not all African countries needs to ban him coming close to impossible to do so for he has the right to visit in other African countries. Although it is serious matter still not big enough to ban him coming a country in the continent.

[@Max-poirot]

@@nalouchaa Thank you for this comment, I've been trying to tell people this for a long time. African food, African snacks, African shop, African restaurant, African clothes. These are the things we deal with outside the continent and the culprit are Africans, to the extent now people in other countries think Africa is a country not a continent.

[@sophia4christ]

Why did she get back with him after his disappearing acts? I don't deal with men who pull that madness! This man is a narcissist and a psychopath!

[@LibertyMadison]

I was thinking the same thing, she should be telling this story with One child not two

[@Nichellesinae]

Maybe she got back with him for the sake of her kids

[@maxwell6525]

@@Nichellesinae That sounds like lack of accountability for her poor selection of a partner.

[@amasion2882]

max well : Speaking in her defense, immigration laws vary from country to country. It’s not unusual for engaged or married couples to endure long separations between visits and finalizing legal immigration arrangements. But once his antisocial behavior was obvious it would have been best to leave immediately. Often when a person is closely involved with a disturbed spouse (or other close relative) the abuse is “normalized.” Things we objectively KNOW are wrong or inappropriate are explained, justified, or minimized. Sometimes you have to “hit rock bottom” (hopefully without permanent injuries or death) before you realize the person (and the relationship) is beyond help.

[@marcopolo2913]

Because she worship white man white skin for mixed kids...

[@kwagalakweirene]

Please Africans let us love ourselves every thing will be okay!!

[@أنوحمزهإسماعيلالحاج]

I love you

[@getoutofthematrix3757]

True, its self hate. If Africans only knew the ture origin of the wazungu, they would not even mix with them. The Bible even states that their king is Satan and apparenty they are the seed of fallen angles! That is why they do what they do.

[@ejikemeinegbu14]

MAY GOD BLESS YOU

[@minaeli5989]

Sad story nimeogopa

[@cocolacecoco4200]

That is a big lie . Human race is one whether black,white,yellow or brown. Nothing makes one superior to the other.

[@Keren-happuch-Miracles123.]

How come no one is talking about how cute her babies are

[@equarles8825]

WURAOLA IKUPOLATI Gorgeous.

[@vayqueens1038]

Aki they are pretty😍

[@EXORCIST441]

They're cute for real!

[@virginiarios6902]

They are beautiful and come from a great mom that don’t let no one take her kids

[@mellajoe]

Because that’s irrelevant considering the circumstances!

[@dinecify]

"If someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time" Maya Angelou. Run when you see the first red flag

[@quincyicon6441]

Uyuhhjh I'm in ok uno rules and sister oijjjjjuyyyuuuuuuuu I uuu I think we will oui it to the right and selling a

[@biblereading9280]

By the time i saw the first sign it was too late I was already pregnant though I love my son it was God's plan to get a child with him....... but what I went through thereafter ....................... he almost killed me, he assaulted me....... I don't know how much longer I have to live but God will heal me

[@lorddsschool8421]

Many don't know where to run. There should be a place to run...

[@carcher3279]

@@biblereading9280 Ruth is that you? 🧐🤔 How is your life now? Updates?

[@ntsoakimotapanyane5689]

He looks like he could play a role as one of the 'wrong turn' horror movie cannibals🤦‍♀️

[@mariamkikula1614]

I just remember those movies.too hard to watch

[@ntsoakimotapanyane5689]

@@mariamkikula1614 tell me about it😣

[@EricRickdees]

Ntsoaki Motapanyane 😂💦💦💦 very true

[@kashindebahatinasibu914]

Kenyan Govenment please protect these little girls from this racist, hands up for this lady who stood up for Ruth to the end. Haki Mungu ambariki.

[@marialekgoathi4424]

He is going to abuse those children, please do not let him.

[@cuddlesbear9020]

Exactly!he could do a world of harm to them

[@Drina-sq3zg]

I was thinking the same thing! Protect your girls. Some people are just sperms donors but not fathers! Keep it moving.

[@balisflem9400]

I agree..he wants the children in a insidious way

[@andrewishepe6212]

She is fearing nothing, let her get anywhere in Nairobi and change her conducts

[@aliwest3507]

Sister, bakiya na watoto wako njo bahati yako , bahati yetu wana wa Afurika. ❤️🇷🇼

[@sheilaachieng809]

Somehow women need to be aware of the red flags from the beginning of a relationship. They go a long away

[@hcoolguy2430]

Very true

[@faithauma8235]

He was on and off, in and out. Those were red flags.

[@jeordanchavannes5239]

We women need to stop feeling bad to cut someone off after the first red flag. They go a long way, and can destroy your spirit and faith in love. From experience!

[@lucygithongo7470]

Its so unfortunate that those around are the ones that usually see the red flags but not the woman in the situation most of them are usually blinded by love and only see the flags when its too late

[@duduetsangthabisoselaledi3960]

The moment he disappeared first I wouldn't have never trusted him

[@childofgod8607]

I watched this video and was disgusted the way that guy treated his wife and kids ,I am white and British , God sees everything and one day he will face his creator, I wish this lady all the best and am so pleased she got back home , I have many friends from Africa and love everyone of them , may God bless her and her children , please just know we may have different colour skins but that is the only difference ,inside we all have a heart and we all have red blood the blood of our creator and he made us all equal 🙏 Godbless 🙏💕 one Love 💞✌ & I would like to add I think black women are very beautiful as for him calling her names he should first look in the mirror 😱😘

[@ruthtricia9728]

you are the type of friends i want to meet. Thank u for ur kind words

[@eno-obongokon4057]

Thank you for your love,God bless you

[@childofgod8607]

@@ruthtricia9728 Godbless you ruth tricia ☝️💯🥰🙏🇬🇧 one love 4 eva 💯🙏☝️🇬🇧🥰🥰

[@childofgod8607]

@@eno-obongokon4057 Thankyou I'm humbled and Godbless you too 💯🥰☝️🙏🇬🇧🥰

[@ritathompson9548]

God Bless u too

[@elizadeyiz4760]

Oh God protect those children and their mother😔look how cute those children's are

[@MsHappytoo]

@donthavetime4that Yea! Way too many!!!!

[@MsHappytoo]

​@Daughter of Enoch You are so right! How can the Dad be U G L Y and the kids are "JUST SO CUTE"? Those commenters' minds have been brainwashed and colonized...they are sad and don't even know it.🤣🤣🤣❗

[@jennyrhein3031]

Husband need to be black listed not only to enter Kenya but Africa. She needs also to apply for children benefits which they are entitled for monthly by EU law +Spanish passports for kid's in Spanish Embassy. Report him in their Embassy & by DCI. Hope she get a good lawyer to get her through. Sad what she is going through. All the best in their lives.

[@maalizzy5149]

God will take care of the children not all that glitters is gold.African women be wise.

[@Timewithmabel]

Harold Matouba Infact entire africa is corrupt

[@luzzonakits2768]

Jenny Rhein true you need to fast and clever get the children European Union passport get benefits every month and you can always move in European Union and work freely

[@luzzonakits2768]

No one is supposed to threaten you especially in European Union the moment he insult you divorce and move to another country in European Union and you can work wish you knew

[@ladyelatestnewstv9325]

You are right!but so sad 😢 to say that our Africa leaders don't have that Sense

[@duduetsangthabisoselaledi3960]

I see so many red flags. After he disappeared first I wouldn't have trusted him at all. Also getting married alone without your parent's consent was not it.. I am sorry my sister the Lord will see you through.

[@daintyflygirl4va]

Yes she is a fool.

[@blesseddc5093]

Very unwise decision, good she escaped . Could have ended much worse.

[@JoyFay]

It’s not about marrying or having kids with someone of another race. The problem is that she didn’t get to know the man well before having sex with him and having kids.

[@dinamuehombo4088]

extactly end of the story

[@JoyFay]

@donthavetime4that well black men abuse black women the most. Black men are often sexist and colorist, and often their behavior isn't any better than a racist white person.

[@tot2523]

Bingo! I’m American. And mixed with other crap but I’m black. Kiss my ass. My ppl were stolen. This isn’t home. We aren’t welcomed here. They will never respect ya. And until we stop being divided, we will continue to fall.

[@thebridge5483]

tarsha sutton our people on the continent don’t understand white people black and white will never coexist, our relationship will never evolve past tolerations

[@paulvenmanonga6641]

dop

[@hafsamusa9769]

After all the torture he did to her she still has the guts to say “my husband “😪😪😪

[@themorningreport9705]

hafsa musa she is a fool.

[@kadyxoxo]

👍

[@scovyaporsha]

Woye msamehe

[@MM-ly7be]

She is respectful that man is the father to her kids......and she can't call him "names" in front of the kids........all over the world this things are happening every day.....our African men too some got this behaviour beating up their women you know.......but its better walk away than someone rule over your life

[@traceymandloe1194]

Was also asking myself that , she is not well . Going away with a foreigner without her parents' consent , she deserves what she got . Never go against your parents .

[@joycenjeri5895]

""mwanamke anafaa avumilie ndoa tu"" that statement has taken many women six feet under with their untouched dreams holding on to their dead-end marriages just to please society.

[@walkz007]

Ukweli!

[@nancynaila5593]

Sad truth

[@lilianwilson4195]

Kwakweli

[@susannwambugu4939]

Amen

[@shirleyevelyn5663]

That's the problem black women are facing. Just get out of any abusive relationship. You will just die leaving the society you are pleasing 😪

[@lacheekah1849]

The babies are sooo cute 😍 May God protect this cute family ❤️ and give you strength

[@goodsamaritan7041]

May god bless everyone who helped Ruth and her children through this difficult times.

[@mkenyamzalendo4130]

This narcissist may even kill those kids,luckily you have the kids.

[@esthernyamoita4784]

Mkenya Mzalendo yes mkenya mzalendo

[@qatatvip5451]

👍

[@Danmetrofm]

That story is touching

[@nancyruoruo1025]

Her own mother said he is a violence man......he can also rape them. ...sad

[@susanmuthoni1167]

Yep!!exactly a Narcissist

[@gogontlekhumo8362]

i wish the kenyan govt helps this lady, the man should be banned from entering kenya! please help protect this lady and her kids.

[@ruth-pb6rn]

Mama wapi after all hako Kenya amepeana pesa as you know Kenya Yetu ni pesa court hilisema achukue watoto after 5 years nikingangana peke yangu

[@EmmahEmmahh]

​@@ruth-pb6rnpole sana dear keep on praying for strength

[@goodnessgraciousv]

Us Black women are beautiful Queens and should never sell our self’s short and learn to love our selves before we give love. It’s so sad but I’m glad she and her babies are okay

[@MARSHAJAN1983]

@Supreme Ace You can have short hair, long hair, weave, braids, hair extensions, dye your hair different colors...and still love yourself.

[@floridagirl386]

I think every woman is a queen.

[@ginadoll00901]

@Surpreme Ace Not all Black women have weaves. They have long hair too. That statement you made was way out of line.

[@mbwanabaruti7496]

@@floridagirl386 Yah! That is true!

[@aishadahirhassan4098]

Wong Lee What do you mean?

[@ahmedasigri7703]

Does anyone hear the sleeping child breathing? At a point I thought it was me. Well done to the social workers and all who helped RUTH.

[@mercyamuhaya1846]

Ahahaaa mimi too

[@Iamnilasky]

Lol I heard that part laying next to my sleeping daughter but when I moved away I realized it’s her child😂

[@hannahpayne9509]

Me too oooo

[@calvinbutts945]

I kept checking my breathing too 🤣

[@joano462]

@@Iamnilasky LOL

[@janekapita6144]

Get close to God you will find everlasting love that has no end you will never look back Jesus Christ will not forsake you

[@timakapend5411]

dedetea ,what do you mean ? Undressing saint peter to dress up saint paul? God is Jesus and Jesus is God for your information if you do believe that there is God. I pray that God will forgive you for your ignorance.

[@libaliba254]

True

[@kerrennicole2457]

This is true

[@ahhuud9886]

Yahusha Hamashiach

[@polotieno229]

stay blesses jane you have made my day and empowered me

[@nellypheans2248]

The reason why I love my African men gonga like kama hupendi hizi pua refu

[@annyungelle3792]

Help her please in any way you can

[@kaninistella4130]

@@annyungelle3792 am here

[@rosenatalia5802]

Kudos💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻...brownskin kiatu

[@reservedartist1141]

The doctor and the judge and the lawyers, thank God for them. Yoohhhh

[@nathaniscool5016]

So sad..it happened to me just this year in Denmark.. Never again will i date a different race from mine..pole mummy,Pray alot watoto ni blessing

[@mariakronhofer3125]

Wazungu Wengine Ni Madevil

[@tinashesved1598]

True,my sister is in such situation,inaniuma sana

[@preciouspreshy7460]

Ooooh so sorry Juliana😓

[@preciouspreshy7460]

Ngai😭😭😭😭

[@fungaimabuda3377]

@Abisola Abiodun may God increase you in wisdom.mmmm well spoken words

[@dysfunctionalfam2023]

It's not even about race here, that man is a psychopath, unstable and outright evil....may God keep those little angels safe..

[@BrothaEnock]

Yea slaves owners slept and rapped our ancestors and still called us negros. I know a white lady that’s married a black man and still calls her kids negros. Yes it has a lot to do with race and on top of that he’s sick in the head

[@gracelynjack2769]

I think he's mentally ill

[@CarlaYvonne]

It has everything to do with race. Know your history. I will never date outside my race. Racism is very much alive.

[@CarlaYvonne]

@@BrothaEnock FACTS!

[@turtlesage28]

No it's all about race. He is not mentally ill as this has been a pathology of Caucasians for the last 500 years.

[@elizanjuguna2682]

Why was the Kenyan embassy not involved with this matter?

[@presentershelly6755]

Was Kenyan embassy send that woman to get married to that colonizer? The answer is noooo then oleka na watu wenyu wazungu wacha wazungu wao and that is

[@karrey2706]

Right. In such a case the embassy should've been responsible for bringing her back. It is sad that Ruth did not know exactly what to do.

[@fruitsarelife148]

Africa doesn't have embassies.😂

[@mutuamumbua7854]

@@@fruitsarelife148 we have our Kenyan embassy in Madrid Spain and I think Ruth was not free in this country so she never knew what to do in such case

[@cocobutterchin6768]

Kenyan Embassy are like any other USELESS African Embassies.

[@sharifsonkarey4090]

Tell him that you and the kids moved to Somalia, and no longer live in kenya, and he can visit them in mogadishu,

[@kevinsendora6484]

😂😂😂😂 yeees

[@sharifsonkarey4090]

One thing for sure he is not paying child support now , but don’t worry the ransom money will be sent to the kids for their education, case closed

[@charitywanjiru4520]

😂😂😂😂

[@yusairaissack361]

😂😂😂😂

[@qkventertainment5828]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@julieharris9622]

I'm glad that people while she was in Europe eventually help her when they realized what was up even though that's his so called country. Nice 2 see all he can run is his mouth n nothing more

[@estherking4491]

Sad. Terrible. I Comment those who helped her to raise money to escape. That lady in the video is also a shero or hero for organizing for her to leave. Ruth so sorry for all you went through. Take ❤ care of your girls. Buy land somewhere else and report the fool to immigration.

[@Afrikan]

File for divorce, cut all contact with him and move to a different location. Also file an injunction against him. As soon as that comes through, forward it to immigration in Kenya.He will be denied entry into Kenya if he tries. May this serve as a warning to all Africans. These people showed us who they truly are during the colonial era. Don't be dilusional to think their Nazi self changed. Well done Ruth for speaking out.I hope you find peace.

[@mildredmaganga8370]

This is so true... 100%

[@majeeduganda4013]

You can imagine calling some one a monkey with beautiful kids

[@awezayekyando2203]

Yeah ofcourse these people are still bad to us

[@peaceloise]

If this was solved by the Kenyan system, she'd have lost her kids. I hope we can learn to value ourselves over any foreigner.

[@Ella-hu6ds]

Thats the sad truth. Her husband was right about that. He could take her kids here if he wanted to

[@mgtvnews6890]

It's a rotten country. I don't go to courts or police station.

[@kaybee3757]

The best thing is that you have custody of the kids. The lesson is that you don't just start having kids with someone you don't know much about, especially a foreigner.

[@mwendapoleee]

When do you know a person,ppl change we don’t know even what our own relatives are capable of.

[@NurseSnow2U]

@@mwendapoleeeso true.

[@NurseSnow2U]

When you guys say foreigners do you mean just internationally or locally? Culturally?

[@tanganedzanimamagau7111]

Once you marry secretly without your family knowing,you must know that you are in for a high jump

[@nasroadan2221]

She is beautiful lady and strong but she doesn't have gentel Man sister may God bless you as soon as possible km

[@isafacooh1297]

Haki the reporter she knows how to conduct a great interview 👍

[@mimisam2091]

Well said she is a classic professional and a good listener

[@isafacooh1297]

Mimi Sam I hope she wins an award for the way she is a great reporter

[@sierrakamau1510]

Like what special thing did she impress u with???

[@floridagirl386]

@@sierrakamau1510 she asked questions she had typed up for her

[@yahiakubara7446]

I’m Sudanese I live in USA 🇺🇸 but I never married withe women or even sleeping with them im African and I want an African woman period

[@XOLIRWAXA]

My brother I don't think it's about the race even black people can be so cruel to each other 😔it takes God's grace to get a suitable partner

[@childofgod8607]

@@XOLIRWAXA Amen 💯💯🙏🙏❤❤🌍🌍 and that is the truth, Godbless you 💯🙏❤🌍 one love as Bob Marley said 💯🙏❤🌍

[@yahiakubara7446]

browneet caramell same thing right

[@seyfuayub1863]

Xoli S it is about race her fellow country man will never do this to her in another country am not kenyan but it’s better to marry ur kind of u can but there is always good and bad in every race but stick to ur own people I lived in America since u was 9 years old but I will never marry where women I will try to marry a girl from my country if not African she has to be black or else I will not get married

[@zaitunabdul7407]

Remain with your stand

[@paulaan881]

SHES IS A QUEEN and she deserves to be treated as such. Much love for her and all beautiful souls from Colombia, our Latino culture WOULD NOT BETHE SAME WITHOUT THE BROTHERS FROM MOTHERLAND (AFRICA) ... thank you.

[@adammohamed5256]

Smart Mucha Gracias

[@jeanyves4705]

Paula An Unceasing Peace and Wellness unto you Paula .Thank you so much for the empathic message .I am planning to visit Colombia from North America .Do you still live in 🇨🇴?.can you please send me your contact information through [e-mail] when you get a chance please ? I would like to connect to learn more about Colombia 🇨🇴.Looking forward to speaking to you 😊✍️🙏🏻

[@habibachiomaukaruitha5754]

Absolutely #PAULA

[@ladyvodka717]

A queen don 't easily fall inlove in just a week or month.. a real queen knows how to turn up shit & to throw up shit! In otherword #IntelligenceIsTheNewQueen #IntelligenceIsTheNewSexy

[@paulaan881]

Hannibal Barca you got me right there... 100% right.

[@TheMaria2606]

This story broke my heart. 😭💔 May God protect our lives and our children..

[@callieduval3000]

If he hates her he hates the kids too this is why I'm afraid to date men who do not share my ethnicity and culture

[@onlytasha950]

I am in an interracial relationship. He loves me, and our daughter, and our 2 son's. It has nothing to do with race. Its just the man that this woman got with is nuts.

[@redsak5311]

Thankyou.

[@sanyalenan6413]

So true, I'm afraid too...I read a story about a White guy only dating black teens or young adults to give them HIV , it 's really scary....Now Everytime, a White guy wants to hit on me, I give him the side eyes ...Some of them are really seeing Black women as experiment or objects for their crazy and evil desires 🙄🙄🙄

[@patriciamalyango6892]

You are right

[@patriciamalyango6892]

Did anyone noticed that she is still wearing a ring?

[@gariballagariballa913]

I'm so happy she got custody of her daughters and thanks for everyone who helped her get through her ordeal

[@giudataddeo7150]

Lesson ladies:Men are just men!whether white or black,if he ain’t consinstent from the word go,drop him🚮

[@DaisyKiprop25]

consistency is really a key⚠️..if there is not consistency kanyaga kubwa kubwa don't wait for it

[@mdbafrica2299]

Uko right

[@carolhew73]

This is the most insightful and balanced answer to this problem on here. In this case he would have been a loser no matter which race, culture or creed he belonged to. She, unfortunately for whatever reason, was far too accommodating and compliant and he exploited that fully.

[@Introvert_Fi]

True...

[@getoutofthematrix3757]

So you are saying a black man would treat her like less than a human the way he did?

[@thebridge5483]

As sad as this story is I want to just shake this women for being so naive

[@zashzelish6885]

Mee too

[@NickyM_0]

It wasn't JUST naivite, it was low self-esteem!

[@deejay5102]

some Black folks think the grass is greener on the other side but it is really more racist...

[@ashleyfrancois3268]

same here!! I understand the first pregnancy. But the second one😏 seriously.

[@MrAmhara]

She loves devils. She got what she deserves. I don't care about his children. He can have those little half demons!

[@joank256]

He's the one to be called monkey actually monkey is better than him.

[@redemptorbbombo402]

Thanks dear.

[@emilykajaira973]

Kabisa he's not ahuman being he's just amonster

[@zoharborage6609]

Colonizers aren't really human.

[@gold9ja]

I'm glad her and her daughters are fine in Kenya. She will be fine from that racist man now since she is in her homeland. She is a strong women to deal with what she dealt with. The only thing good thing she got out of the relationship is her beautiful daughters. I don't think she should worry about that nutcase, she is educated woman, so I can tell she will be able to take care of herself and children.

[@dorismadonsela5924]

May God bless you Ruth. you are the strongest woman.God will never leave you nor forsake you.

[@estheroppong4782]

I do not think he can even love his kids the guy looke like a killer already, thank God for saving you all.

[@carolkaleshy1119]

Once he comes promise him septic tank as a free gift

[@bellaolum9768]

I'd rather stay single than marry such a beast!

[@bryanuncensored146]

The problem you can't know esp in the early stages of a relationship. All men can be angels at the start as long as it can lead them into your pants. I really can't blame her

[@zoharborage6609]

@@bryanuncensored146 You can blame her, she ignored her parents wishes to wait and didn't even wait for the dowry. She pretty much ran off with him. She saw pale skin and got star eyed.

[@claragang1494]

Annabelle Olum true

[@agreysaimon7817]

Yeah

[@KushQueen9]

😂😂😂 he looks disgusting!!!

[@laura51085]

Just came across this video. Interesting the part where the interviewer says "so he just wants your children, he doesn't want you" and Ruth agrees. He doesn't even want the children. He's an abusive man and abusive men thrive off of power and control. He knows Ruth's weak spot is her children, and he's using that as a way to maintain control and power over Ruth. She needs to find a way to cut that control and power and he'll lose interest. I'd love to see a follow up of Ruth and hope her and her children are happy and thriving.

[@blessinghutchinson7183]

I totally agree with you. I suspect he has evil agenda since he abuse drugs and drugs goes hand in hand with human trafficking. There is more to this Man than what is said, seen and experienced by Ruth

[@leejoecarternkatha7202]

I support you

[@njerudeltafootballacademy804]

Hmmmm

[@Nichellesinae]

Sorry but something Isn’t right with that man he looks likes a rapist I’m so glad she got custody of the kids sad to say but he was planning to hurt them and how dare he call her a monkey he is the 1 who looks like a monkey she is beautiful and so are her kids.

[@stormfighter7756]

This man is a Goodman only the devil

[@ItmeFatima]

He did coke, marijuana. She knew

[@ItmeFatima]

She thought she had a white rich man

[@rehemakhamis]

File for a restraining order and he can also be banned from getting into Kenya.

[@rehemakhamis]

Java Konjo I cannot but the government can.

[@rehemakhamis]

Java Konjo Google they can. That’s not ‘domestic stuff’ those 3 are Kenyans and we have rights. You life is on the government......or you didn’t know that??? You can’t even commit suicide in peace 🤷‍♀️. If it fails it’s life imprisonment. And you say what again????? Why do people get deported???? You think these people can book the next flight back to those countries?????? Anyway if she complains well she can be helped even though we know in Kenya everything is about money.

[@susanwanjikuwaithira2918]

He can be restrained from going to kenya but will they restrain corruption? Through corrupt heartless greedy people he can do anything from where he is. Including killing Ruth God forbid! I think she needs help to relocate to another country that's the only solution.

[@cathykimani5502]

Pls stop calling that scarecrow my husband....hes a devil incarnate

[@susannwambugu4939]

Niice

[@brownskingirl1131]

Agree

[@afriqandaisy2808]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@asheli254]

😂😂😂

[@NickyM_0]

@Cathy Kimani YESSSS! this is why you have to be careful who you sleep with as a Woman. We get mentally & physically yoked to that person through demonic strongholds.

[@michellehubbard8865]

A part of this lady didn’t love herself or was desperate for what she thought could become a better situation. Somehow, this man is the best she thought she could do. I don’t think he ever treated her well. He is a narcissist & they are really good at exploiting a person’s weaknesses.

[@idesireit31]

She was desperate and blinded by his whiteness. Should never have seen him again after she got pregnant because he was completely absent for 2 years! So why would she then allow him to walk in and out of her life when he felt like it,marry him ,get pregnant again and then move to another country with his crazy ass. Hes an evil racist who would have killed her if he got the chance . I can tell She still Dosent value herself even now.

[@rahabkarisa2311]

100 percent true.

[@theredroadeast723]

Because our people associate whiteness with God and purity, and love that image instead of loving themselves.

[@homodeus8713]

It could have happened with an African man. Abuse is abuse. She was just naive or socialized to accept abuse like many women worldwide. She was tricked into marrying him

[@homodeus8713]

It could have happened with an African man. Abuse is abuse. She was just naive or socialized to accept abuse like many women worldwide. She was tricked into marrying him. He was a narcissist. Stop blaming her because she hadn't seen that side of him. Had nothing to do with being impressed with whiteness. Such a ridiculous thing to say.

[@babanicole815]

From Arusha - Tanzania, much love and respect for you my beautiful sister. I am cutting onions. But, Stay strong.

[@PrisTvv]

That's so sad to hear, after having kids.

[@NyweleStyles]

It’s sad she fell in love with a narcissist psychopath

[@shein3626]

His response was a big indicator that is he a narc-psychopath. I wonder what he was planning to do with the kids when he was never in their life for almost 9 years. What man wants to take a child away from their mother? He’s messed up on the head

[@geelle6169]

Record a statement in a police station in Kenya and submit a criminal case to the court providing all his details including his passport so he can be arrested upon his arrival to Kenya.

[@lydiamuthoni7166]

The problem of doing things chini ya maji..if u married your family shld b aware of how the things u r going through. I can't b married secretly

[@Nations_judged]

Young women in Kenya listen to her very well, she is very right!!!!!

[@bettyreuter1255]

To what extend are you sure?

[@bonface221]

ni kiherehere ya pesa 😹😹😹😹😹

[@nancymuseve514]

Young women in Kenya are still stupid..they'll not listen..

[@Nations_judged]

Betty Reuter i live in Europe i know from a-z.

[@Nations_judged]

Boniface Maina aki na choco kids lol

[@quinncordelia4902]

Thanks for those who stood with ruth while in Spain..and congrats to ruth indeed ure a strong woman with beautiful dotas.may God favor you with wisdom and knowledge and also may His protection be upon you and your kids..my prayers I decree and declare no evil shall be formed against you and your kids will prosper in Jesus name.Amen 🙏

[@tiyahisrael]

Mogati Obaba TheBossLady I don’t think they did enough..He is still threatening her.If Spain’s judicial systems awarded her back her children realizing he was the threat and the aggressor,why don’t they put restrictions on his passport..Restricting him from stepping foot in Kenya..Even if Kenya wouldn’t do it,Spain government and judicial system has jurisdiction and authority to restrict his passport from traveling internationally or abroad

[@quinncordelia4902]

@@tiyahisrael true it's our Gov't n Spain to help our lady ruth by restricting him and that's the only way...

[@trooper190]

Amen

[@morninglight8300]

What a very strong woman, respect to you sister. Continue to keep your head up, always!!!

[@morasimba290]

The love of our sisters to muzungus are unbelievable

[@dorcuskencey6816]

😂😂

[@opondocaren1275]

@@dorcuskencey6816 Hahahahaha and the way i hate those people i really dont like them at all i prefer our black men and appreciate them at all times

[@karisbenisrael7842]

@@opondocaren1275 B1!!! It don't crack!! I love my Black queens

[@nancyruoruo1025]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@nancyruoruo1025]

@@opondocaren1275 I love our black men I swear

[@ainembabaziruth6304]

God who protected you and led u to come back safely to ur country will still protect your children from the hands of such devil so called their dad

[@Sarah-ob2rz]

At his age, he must be having many failed relationships behind him

[@susanapollo284]

That is how total loosers act.

[@feyrol42]

He might not even have women back in Spain. He seems like the type that struggles to get women and because of that grows to hate women.

[@RaevenBrown]

Lisa Roberson Why are you victim blaming? Abusers don’t always start out blatantly abusing their partners it’s more complex than that. It takes the average women 7 times to leave an abusive relationship because the emotional and psychological control is so strong. Please develop a shred of human empathy for the new year 2020.

[@hopegasasira7223]

weee mzeee mpumbafu kabisa

[@EyeSpyBlackAmor]

He probably abused all his women

[@maggyablor6646]

This is a really sad story and needs to be broadcast worldwide on major channels. This frustrated, violent man fortunately met a good,kind,humble and loving African woman,if he had met some tough ones like me,I bet the story would have been different!😄 Long live Africa! Long live Ruth✌ Hugs and kisses to this gorgeous lady and those lovely children.

[@honestytruthreality931]

He’s calling her a monkey so whose more foolish to be with a monkey. May God hurry come for his world and separate the good from the bad

[@andersonmusk7618]

Honesty truth Reality hallelujah so true. He is sleeping with her

[@mariastewart8810]

Just make sure you'll be ready for Him😏

[@natasharupanga6122]

May God Protect u Ruth ur a strong woman.

[@dequeen7559]

Red flags ..mtu akitoroka run for your life too...and that statement pisses me off [mwanamke ni kuvumilia]

[@joymax7320]

I hate the statement too. kuvumilia nini??? 😏Some people even quote bible when they refer to this 🙄🙄

[@blossomlarrysakura929]

i agree thats some bullshit ingrained in our minds...inanikera sana..mimi siwezi vumilia

[@dequeen7559]

That’s why our girls get killed daily .

[@nancyruoruo1025]

I hate that statement

[@BlackPanther-lt7wr]

The red flags were there from the beginning smh

[@maridadi8]

The husband should be caught when he comes to Kenya. He should not be allowed in Kenya. Get a restraining order.

[@elifasinimpagaritse8925]

Mulenga the government should put him in jail when he come to any Africa country

[@carolinemwaniki819]

Why because he is the father of these beautiful girls, before you comment would you like you to be denied of your child, just because it's not you doesn't mean those girls don't love their father, they will grow up and go visit their father. Stop commenting what you wouldn't want to happen to you.

[@paulokemark7398]

​@@carolinemwaniki819Why are you afraid of reasoning a racist near kids? You are a joker

[@najatibrahimsheikh6058]

"Usirukie hii rangi ukiona" haha. Enyewe aki am happy u have the kids now. That man is a monster. So evil. He should be banned from coming to Kenya!

[@partohmsee5992]

Who's else saw the Beautiful Kids ~~ Tujuane na likes hapa chini tukitarajia mungu Atawalinda na kuwabariki

[@calebjuma7648]

BLACK BABIES ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LET US STOP THIS OBSESSION WITH MIXED BABIES!!!!!!!!!!!

[@juicykindess3129]

@@calebjuma7648 thank you I am tired of that

[@juicykindess3129]

@Rich T And there are even divorced

[@getoutofthematrix3757]

@@calebjuma7648 It's self hate!

[@gold9ja]

+partoh msee yea they are beautiful girls but I am just happy she is safe in her country with her children thats the more important fact. They are safe now from the psycho racist

[@Starsparkle69YT]

Thank God she's alive and back in Kenya with her kids. That man has weired looks I wouldn't even have dated him, he looks evil from the start 😈😈😈😈

[@rubenprince8990]

In the process of getting married the so called 2pac of Spain 🇪🇸 gave her another pregnancy 🤰 what a shame 2pac of Spain 🇪🇸

[@Starsparkle69YT]

@@rubenprince8990 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dan9886]

@@rubenprince8990 😂

[@trdr1915]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@tamarokay]

@@rubenprince8990 😂😂

[@audreykoskei4072]

What I find most problematic is her saying "mwanamke avumilie ndoa" which translates to women need to endure whatever happens in their marriages. Let's leave this attitude behind. Also, I'm really worried for the psyche of all immigrants after this.

[@leonardmabunda69]

This a sad story but i hope our African sisters learnt something about trusting strangers outside Africa

[@evelynmumia5246]

True

[@lydiaojiambo4864]

First this lady thought by having a relationship with that man,her life would be better.The times he came and vanished without communication should be a clue on the kind of man he was,most of the white guys are just having fun/exploring as in this case,he was not serious that’s why he never addressed her as a wife.just raise your kids,he cannot take the kids from you,let him go to that lawyer,the kids are minors,they have Kenyan passport.

[@deborahmarville6497]

That should be a lesson for women do not jump into bed without knowing who you are going to bed with and then you let him father your children and he want them what a shame for a man do not let your children everrrr visit him where was his parent's all this time did there fine him or give birth to him wicked people my sister God save you and your girls be grateful and praise him daily by keeping you and your girls close to him he will protect you all from that monster for a man God bless you and all who help you all of us are not the same love that woman for helping you she have a heart 🇧🇧

[@mariaabwooli4993]

That man is a devil. He wanted an easy way of having kids, Africa was his target and unfortunately Ruth became his victim. He couldn't do that to women in his country. Ruth shouldn't be scared because he will not come. He lost the case in his home and be sure he will not in Kenya. He is a coward, he looks too impoverished to even afford the 10K. He thought he was going to start receiving welfare on the kids as a single dad with a mad woman. Foolish man

[@tandekangoma5715]

Maria Abwooli I would ask him to come and get his kids, and then I would retaliate and he would curse the day he met me. In my country there’s no way he could bully me at home.

[@DrLoren668]

He just wanted sex. Then he got her pregnant and realized that she was carrying his DNA...that's where the few feeble attempts to send money and get the family to Spain comes in. If he loved her ...the money, phone calls and video chats would have been more frequent. Typical Westerner split story

[@bgalwest]

Maria Abwooli you are very right!

[@gadaffihemed2370]

An abusive man he only find his way to less develop country to look for kids

[@RobinB26]

Honestly she made herself an victim. How do you trust someone who keep disappearing for years? Not even once but multiple time. That doesn’t make any sense. Plus she knew he had a women on the side or she could be his wife.

[@roxannemeeks8985]

She went through Hell. She is strong! Hope she commit her life to Jesus Christ. He will supply all her needs.

[@alvinbenito9115]

Many black women love white people even crazy that is a problem,theres no bud people in this world like white people damn.

[@alvinbenito9115]

No justice without security

[@libanmohamed3954]

The most painful part is when she said " he calls me monkey in front of the children" Mom is always mom, she is feared for the children with respect the impact such words could have in the lives of the innocent and beautifu souls. God bless you mam.

[@cheropch1744]

So many women go through this abroad. RACISM IS RACISM PERIOD.

[@TheBeyerleBunch]

This is so unfortunate. I can’t even begin to imagine what you’ve been through. Sending prayers your way.

[@MariamsLifestyle]

This is very sad story jamanii ... may god protect you with your beautiful kids🙏🏾🙏🏾 You’re such a strong woman and your kids must be so proud of you

[@ashleysumpter5656]

Mariam Lifestyle y’all are truly pathetic 🙎🏽‍♀️

[@sicilymicere4773]

Let's learn from this confession. Before you get into a relationship please be sure of the partner. Signs will always tell you if this life will work. Take precautions dear ones. Men are men be white or black or yellow.

[@whitneywiz6183]

He's here calling samone a monkey an yet he's the one looking like a monkey, broke, n a drug addict, heheee,nmependa watoi tu BT this story is too sad

[@jesuswilljudge7296]

Shes not attractive

[@whitneywiz6183]

Jesus will Judge even though BT u CNT call same one a monkey, its God who created us n the bible says we were created on God's image. . . am nt here to argue ooh ,was juz an opinion

[@deniset6049]

"when I arrived in his country I was shocked by his character because he was a totally different person"....Didn't he clearly show her who he was by constantly appearing and disappearing from her life? Sad she could not see this before she left Kenya.

[@deniset6049]

I hope she and her daughters remain safe. I think he needs to be in that hospital. Love how the younger child was sleeping so peacefully in her arms, all the way through the interview.

[@Shixc-s3x]

She ignored jst like many gals do. Bora mlami

[@grstjo]

It's not about a white man, it's about being love starved and eating from any plate☹️

[@neemohwairimu9845]

The fetishizing of mixed babies is real going by the comments. Everyone is like those kids are so cute, adorable etc and YES they are Very beautiful but I never see this energy on melanated babies and no I'm not trying to stir up anything. That being said, may this Mama get Justice.

[@carolinenjoroge9351]

Yeap ujinga ya WaKenya

[@theonly6359]

True

[@somina4003]

True. Nowadays Africans are obsessed with mixed babies.

[@mutegikanana2085]

Colourism will always be there .....its hard to fight it coz its us blacks who have inflicted it upon ourselves!!

[@elena-lc4uk]

I think this sick man wanted bi -racial kids,,but no Black wife