What message do you have for Victoria? You can reach her through her number: 0792330676. To share your story with us, send an email to yvonne.kawira@tuko.co.ke or eucabeth.mukami@tuko.co.ke.
@ThymaKlone Жыл бұрын
Try light/bright background.
@cathrinejaphet1103 Жыл бұрын
😊😊ll
@cathrinejaphet1103 Жыл бұрын
😊😊ll
@chachairene3499 Жыл бұрын
Same I've worked as a watch lady...life has been tough but am graduating this month of November date 10, i thank God for i know this is the first blessing as i wait for marriage in Jesus mighty name 🙏
@oguta_254 Жыл бұрын
People are afraid to let go of toxic situations because they hold onto every good memory they have of someone, and attach to it, thinking the exact feeling will revisit again. Toxic people are like drugs, having you search for what’s gone and destroying you slowly in the process. Normalise respecting your intuition at 1st place. Prioritise your peace of mind over disrespect and dramatic people.
@judymulewa9302 Жыл бұрын
Sure l support you l was in toxic relationship once l notes l walk away now am in peace no drama no stress❤❤
@luciahmwai3527 Жыл бұрын
They are scared of starting over again not even good memories
@shiromutie640 Жыл бұрын
it's called trauma bond
@rosenannyonjo3431 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@KawiraMercy Жыл бұрын
Inafaa Ivo bt manze si rahisi especially kukiwa na watoi involved
@nanaiyadi2039 Жыл бұрын
You were dealing with a classic textbook narcissist… so sorry! May God protect women from such toxic men
@Leylakhalif Жыл бұрын
The death of her mum was the only painful experience she underwent. She spoke about her ordeal with her husband and she was all smile waah her strength was in another level
@bosslady3187 Жыл бұрын
I don't care whether he is a good provider or giver my happiness cames first period
@Tmacpherson Жыл бұрын
This
@MyJOSE2013 Жыл бұрын
As wemen we must realize verbal or emotional abuse begets physical one. sisemi ni vizuri but truth is truth. If you want to heal relations or families bring both sides and create peace. that is when social media will be useful. Anyway keep God first. I dont know who else one can depend on in this life other than the Most High.
@Nyambura135 Жыл бұрын
Vicky you are such a beautiful soul and you will go far. What you went through does not determine your destiny, keep holding your head high and bring up those pretty girls in love. So sorry for the loss of mom, it is well
@deborahmoige2363 Жыл бұрын
When it comes to this stories i prefer kuskiza both sides.Boy child uumia sana bila kuskizwa.May she find peace
@alphany4897 Жыл бұрын
kabisa both side
@luxuryarena1 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes we should learn to swallow our pride and reset your life. This lady held on to the relationship because of her pride, thinking that there will be change!
@Alba-Shi Жыл бұрын
Plus the dude's family was rich. She's overemphasizing
@jojocontortionist7325 Жыл бұрын
The mum was not supportive alijua kijana ni bure ask me , as long as the son is ok she support and she will support the next coz of his problem
@papa71725 Жыл бұрын
Its time young people to learn from their place what marriage is most of the breakups now are for young people and other people are raising kids who are not theirs, its good she learnt the hard way its time to move on in the right direction.
@annahnechesah1301 Жыл бұрын
Ukiona mother in law anakupenda jua kijana yake ako na shida
@kelenkely3035 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@wambuanyokabi009 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@gracegithendia1698 Жыл бұрын
Kabisaa, kabisaa
@angelinemuriuki73849 ай бұрын
By the way... another one is if everyone loves you in that family, look deeper...
@uwasejanet79204 ай бұрын
True 😢
@bernardkariuki6183 Жыл бұрын
Pole sana Victoria. God will see you through. Huyo mwanaume ni bure kabisa.
@hildadavids217 Жыл бұрын
Women please sit your daughters down and explain to them about the cruel world out there. The predators are out there are lurking out there. Take your time and look after themselves. Travel, see the world and when you are ready, you will be able to see a woolfe in sheep"s clothe.
@shillahmugambi5700 Жыл бұрын
True we are so protected hadi when we go into the world we can't
@catekariuki3567 Жыл бұрын
Do they listen?
@feimanjos4905 Жыл бұрын
Story of my life..narcissist are real n they know how to manipulate
@valanddidzchannel4837 Жыл бұрын
I escaped a toxic relationship just around the time waiting to go to uni and just finishing high school. Im super happy I prayed and asked God to let me escape the relationship n im always grateful i did involve God in this
@erickarthurongale4738 Жыл бұрын
She said " You never know the strength you have inside of you, Nobody but you"
@eshererude6500 Жыл бұрын
Aki Vicki may the Lord heal your heart ♥ I knew you as a strong girl back in Buruburu. Pole for all you went through baby girl 😘
@felixomondi9091 Жыл бұрын
Walai I just knew she might be from buru, anakaa tu buru sijui mbona
@elizabethmwalo8424 Жыл бұрын
Kawera you are God sent to inspire our Souls thro Tuko. God bless you girl. You will move far
@lucywamucii7759 Жыл бұрын
Vicky you are a strong woman , thank you for sharing i am certain you have just inspired many to make the right decision.
@helenwaithera Жыл бұрын
That was so relatable when you said you prayed to God to just kill him. That was me a few years ago. That is a clear sign that it's the end. Sending you hugs mama.
@ashaismael2379 Жыл бұрын
wueh... I remember well when I knew it was time to leave my toxic relationship... I was boiling maji ya ugali kwa kettle, then nikaweka kwa sufuria, and for a split second I thought of kumwagila (we were not fighting, we were in good terms)... nikajua wachatu nijitoe.
@ThymaKlone Жыл бұрын
DARK BACKGROUND DOES NOT LOOK GOOD FOR CAMERA. Not sure why TUKO lately chose dark background for their studio taping.
@gladwellanddee Жыл бұрын
You spoke my mind
@thejoysoflife254 Жыл бұрын
I had also seen the same. White will always be the best for a TV production
@Marion_Phyl Жыл бұрын
White background always bounces back light,,Incase they decide to use a dark backdrop they should consider getting backlight to illuminate the background
@stephenkatua9395 Жыл бұрын
Personally I feel a dark background is excellent. It highlights the people and foreground very well
@clarabanduka2979 Жыл бұрын
The background iko poa
@fatmaadan113 Жыл бұрын
Aki your story has made me cry, your un iron lady I love you
@pamelaachieng684i Жыл бұрын
Be gentle with your comments please
@sharonnyaboke4345 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@addahochieng Жыл бұрын
My situation right now,i just want to move out😭💔
@khadraali2507 Жыл бұрын
Sis leave now!!!!!!!!!
@Kimberlydiaries237 Жыл бұрын
I hope you left
@jacintamugo26711 ай бұрын
Welcome to team singles...utajua hujui. Club singles hakuna membership fee, its absolutely free. Karibu!
@shiru-f4k20026 ай бұрын
My situation too ,I don't know what to do
@julieloves_arts3 ай бұрын
@@jacintamugo267 stress tuko nayo ni ya government peke yake😂😂
@mildredalalia142 ай бұрын
If that guy is resistant to police and the authorities, report him to God ..
@chachairene3499 Жыл бұрын
She's a very bold and intelligent woman ❤
@maggienjeri6099 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for what you went though be strong and continue praying your going far and u will May God bless you and your children too mob love
@irenekabata5189 Жыл бұрын
Narcissist husband you had..you are a strong lady may God protect you.
@aminaabdul55311 ай бұрын
Rule number one usiwai wacha family ju ya mtu... reason why I hate to get married si rahisi akii 💔😭
@marie-wh6jq Жыл бұрын
Omg is it me or she kinda looks like Angela white a.k.a Black china
@Kimberlydiaries237 Жыл бұрын
She's beautiful ❤️
@elizmutai9562 Жыл бұрын
May GOD Protect and keep you In Jesus Christ Name
@ALI_ROBERT58 Жыл бұрын
you are a strong woman vicroria...sio rahisi....
@LucyKariuki. Жыл бұрын
The amount of abuse you've been through in that marriage is unbelievable I wish you healing in Christ 💕
@vdjpeter254official4 Жыл бұрын
Bring the HUBBY too... We wanna hear His side of the Story. This Women especially working class we know them I'm a Victim 🤭
@johnosumba1980 Жыл бұрын
Do you think he can do that after hearing all that she has said about him?
@micahmasitsa9783 Жыл бұрын
Very true you are right 👍
@uniquecritical7628 Жыл бұрын
Is he gonna confirm that he was a wife and a husband at a time 😂😂😂
@nabbosabeldine8885 Жыл бұрын
You are strong sorry about the tears may God continue helping you and other abused people 😭🙏🏽😊
@athleticssportshub5505 Жыл бұрын
Ati bwana yake pia alikua bibi ya mtu mwingine. Hopefully, she recovers and find happiness in this life.
@ezramwakio23957 ай бұрын
beautiful girl! That jawline shows that her ancestry was of royal family
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
Yes her jawline inakaa ya celebrities kama Brandy
@catemunani5130 Жыл бұрын
Problem of mum's boys and rich families
@kipkiruikosgeybrian9743 Жыл бұрын
Am moved and encouraged by this. May God bless you
@millicentesther1315 Жыл бұрын
These days I don’t judge till I hear the other side of the story. Personally I do say a coin has 3 sides and not 2. So in this story there is her side ( Vicky), the guy ( Njoro) side and the truth ( God) otherwise stay strong and all the best.
@Wanjamburu.2311 ай бұрын
That was a perfect example of a Narcissist. They shift blame, they shield you from your loved ones, they manipulate they threaten, they abuse and then they confuse you by bombloving
@bethtoox94358 ай бұрын
True it's a cycle idealization,devaluation,discard
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
@@bethtoox9435exactly I went through this and do you know according to Tim Fletcher ako youtube he talks about narcissists it can take you 2 years to recover from narcissistic abuse ata kama muli date for only 2 months utakua na lifetime of trauma after that ...
@davidmwangi4811 Жыл бұрын
I see a strong woman despite what she went thru and the mistakes she did, she decided to pick lessons and grow instead of self pity and destruction, everyone should takes que from her, she is a believer of self and porpuse, am proud of you gal
@reahanjoseph7728 Жыл бұрын
Am not judging lakini kwanini upeleke mwanamke kwa kitada utalala na bwanako?
@dripslick44 Жыл бұрын
Unasema you don't drink be he used to drink. WHen you started living together mnakunywa pamoja kwa nyumba. WHich is which?
@dripslick44 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for what you went through. I now understand what you mean. And sorry for judging you too early. Be strong. You'll make it
@Tmacpherson Жыл бұрын
You have never had a drink with your husband or boyfriend?
@teresiawayua4343 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful you are strong lady, God see you through.
@amyjoy5077 Жыл бұрын
A Christian family that does not visit upcountry, 😮😮😮
@sharonodera2035 Жыл бұрын
He hit you coming back late on the same day you lost your mum😢😢
@maureennthenya265 Жыл бұрын
that guy was a narcissist, insecure and a control freak....i hope you heal my dear.
@Tmacpherson Жыл бұрын
If you have never been in a toxic situation you will never understand..It’s like running on a ever ending treadmill with different settings..Sometimes it’s hard to jump of it..The only way is to switch the treadmill off and walk away..
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
Good the comment I was looking for especially to those who keep saying she didn't see red flags ukiwa na narcissist huwa uko in a world you don't understand he will love bomb you ufike heaven Mara gifts mara kukupikia mara attention etc but acha ukosee kidogo hivi he will turn around and even abuse you they are extremely cruel individuals
@suzyben9643 Жыл бұрын
He was a narcissist he used to manipulate you and gas light you.......women mungu atupe tu nguvu
@kadzo6614 Жыл бұрын
Throwing words that you don't even know the meaning..nkt😢
@elizabethnganga Жыл бұрын
I am worried for this man. How sad.
@danielamicheal4680 Жыл бұрын
sielewi mbone watu huvumilia ujinga mimi mungu hajanieka nipende kufa i dont love to an extent nivumilie upumbavu
@crazykids5779 Жыл бұрын
Me too, sinanga uvumilivu mimi ata kama sina kitu ntatoka
@shikuliz4134 Жыл бұрын
Anaogea pride Sana
@MargaretChepchumba-qr9kg Жыл бұрын
Kawaida if mother-in-law ana kutreat poa then the husband opposite huwezi pata yote
@territ.2573 Жыл бұрын
What shocks me are the women usually involved in the 'live act'
@elizabethmwalo8424 Жыл бұрын
Evyon, it's really painful to loose a loved one. I am already on the same and am praying for God to see us thro.
@dorcasmaina2363 Жыл бұрын
Narcissistic and separation from the loved ones
@bs9283 Жыл бұрын
This story is very informative however describing him as " nurturing and a good provider baffles me...I doubt he was any of that.
@elizabethiradukunda1950 Жыл бұрын
stop hating without evidence.. were you there?
@independenthoney15 ай бұрын
Of course it is possible. The good action they do is calculated, they are strings attached, nothing genuine.
@carolwangui78956 ай бұрын
My schoolmate 😊... Thank you for sharing your story Shaz
@marywambui-l5q Жыл бұрын
Story of my life😢😢
@pmk8877 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is not for the weak at heart..inachosha...
@delphinemoraa3552 Жыл бұрын
I have enjoyed how this lady narrates her story ..I just like how she is being herself ...yaani anajua kupiga story ..... Alafu wengine wenu mnaona ni maringo ako nayo...she is just being herself.. She is just being herself. Back to the topic...I wish her the best.she seems to be a nice lady.
@Tmacpherson Жыл бұрын
I agree..She is just confident with a large good heart..I wish her the best..
@janekogi6442 Жыл бұрын
In Habakuku,it says in a certain verse that a man without God is like a beast
@dripslick44 Жыл бұрын
When a guy gets broke he becomes a narcissist. Akiwa na doh ni Mr. charming. Why wait for 8 years kama uliona signs
@daisydaisy3383 Жыл бұрын
Mimi I've been in such situation and I can tell you for sure that getting out of such relationships is the hardest thing in life. These people are psycho
@dripslick44 Жыл бұрын
@@daisydaisy3383 understandable since you are speaking from experience. I know it's like Stockholm's syndrome where you want to leave but something like a strange force or spirit is holding you back
@shikuliz4134 Жыл бұрын
Actually narcissist men are mostly moneyed the reason for abuse because they provide but very arrogant
@kiinganemwene Жыл бұрын
@@daisydaisy3383 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣hii yako mni mchezo
@evelynmumia5246 Жыл бұрын
Hh
@immanueljuma584611 ай бұрын
Heee 🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️,, let's salute Yvonne ladies & gentlemen 🫡🫡 Yvonne you have the capacity to hear all these things mehn 🤦🏾♂️. We celebrate you 🙌🏾
@babasegy7545 Жыл бұрын
Wished it was all in English or at least with a subtitle
@maggien222 Жыл бұрын
Tap on cc(closed caption)of the screen of whatever you are watching on.
@elizabethmwalo8424 Жыл бұрын
Kesi ilienda na meli. Such a beautiful hearted wife.
@catemunani5130 Жыл бұрын
Please bby girl it's time to move on with your life.marriage sio must.
@isaackibe954 Жыл бұрын
Can't judge based on one side of the story. Just fear ladies.. watakuangushia ngori ushangae.
@teejayangel6638 Жыл бұрын
Hawawezi kuangusha kama wewe mwenywe ukona Tabia nzuri.
@ms.t191811 ай бұрын
Hao wanawake wanasema they need the other side of the coin.....i believe you gave a VERY VERY GOOD LIFE
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
Mimi husema hivi let people know that those who keep making victims look like villains by asking the other side of the story hiyo side wajue wataiyonea kwa maisha yao experience ndio watapata
@reginadavid4454 Жыл бұрын
Waaa 😫 people go through hell in the name of marriage,it can not be me 🥹but after you come out with testimony 🫰🏽
wah am a man but huyo wako hapana that was to much of him am so sorry gal u deserve better by ur story u deserve better but also ladies why stay somewhere because of peer pleasure or people
@gracegithendia1698 Жыл бұрын
Wooooooiiiiii, ati the husband was someone's wife too. 😢😢😢 So saaaaad
@eunicelefty9835 Жыл бұрын
She's so cute
@florencenyandiko313611 ай бұрын
very.
@sharonbiwott775410 ай бұрын
nimekulilia machozi ikaisha....you're a strong woman
@keshar591 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou very important 😢😢
@doctorrees4473 Жыл бұрын
a lot of missing dotes in this story, how can you bring a girlfriend to your bed when your husband is around and you know he would come to sleep at some point.
@adrianamary4254 Жыл бұрын
My question too
@johnosumba1980 Жыл бұрын
She must have been naive.
@mercykwendo9156 Жыл бұрын
I thought the same
@ms.t191811 ай бұрын
Hamjawahi teswa akili ikasimama!....we hope you never experience such
@aworievelyn35916 ай бұрын
It's all over....I'm not even following
@catherinenash5790 Жыл бұрын
She didn’t say where she is at the moment
@shikuliz4134 Жыл бұрын
Im i the only one who is not understanding this story
@vanessachiunda7262 Жыл бұрын
Try switching on English subtitles. There's translation.
@ridianedenis752711 ай бұрын
Touch the screen and touch the square with the two letters cc.
@mollynokello877811 ай бұрын
She has many stories 😂😂😂
@glorybanda305911 ай бұрын
The story is interesting but since they are mixing up their language it's a blow to some of us ...
@juliekute-yn7ns11 ай бұрын
imagine
@ednahlumumba4508 Жыл бұрын
Hii ni story ya jaba, nothing adds up honestly,its very one sided ;tarnishing the guy, herself acting very innocent
@wambuanyokabi009 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@ntundukaari5324 Жыл бұрын
Felt the same 🤣
@mokz91 Жыл бұрын
Plenty fish in da sea❤
@natashajullie1935 Жыл бұрын
Story ya njoro wa uba. But i sympathise with you in the whole story. Pole sana dear. Your strong.
@annnjeri6559 Жыл бұрын
A very strong woman
@phanicewangari8 Жыл бұрын
POOR SOUND QUALITY. It's irritating to listen to this nice story. Editor jamani!!!
@stepmum2451 Жыл бұрын
Bring the hubby too to give his side of the story
@EdTe09 Жыл бұрын
He is dead, long gone alishikwa na babies ya wenyewe n got shot
@stepmum2451 Жыл бұрын
@@EdTe09 waaaa no words
@maggyclara609 Жыл бұрын
You lying he's still alive I used to date him before her.
@daisydaisy3383 Жыл бұрын
@@maggyclara609hebu tuambie story😂
@purityjohn3867 Жыл бұрын
@@maggyclara609😂😂
@ruthkairu9491 Жыл бұрын
I don't condone violence, but truth be told,this dame looks too proud and she has an attitude....looks like a script to taint someone.... She stayed because the guy was "loaded"..she wanted soft life.....as per her words. This interview is down and off .😡
@damahdamer3146 Жыл бұрын
💯. I feel the same
@crazykids5779 Жыл бұрын
Hapo kwa proud aky ni ukweli
@christineviolet8322 Жыл бұрын
Something is seriously not adding up.story za jaba
@makenajean5385 Жыл бұрын
Starting a sentence with "i dont condone violence" and then the things u say next are victim shaming and blaming? So u want the victim to be appealing to you for her experience to be valid? You dont think her strory should be aired coz u dont like her? How dyu know she's lying? Whether you like her her not should be irrelevant. Her personality does not justify violence. You are judgemental and rude.
@margaretkonyango6158 Жыл бұрын
Stop stereotyping
@maryjones3523 Жыл бұрын
Yawa.... yani this life don't balance ♎⚖️ pole sana beauty.... It shall be well...
@joelkatamu9386 Жыл бұрын
Kwani wewe ulikuwa umerogwa,was emust you stay with him or tolerate him
@lucywanjiru2183 Жыл бұрын
Tangu lynn aende tuko haijapata a good host ,this lady is like she's talking to herself the host is not entertaining her with questions
@clairedavids7935 Жыл бұрын
Some parts are not adding up..we need the man's side
@EdTe09 Жыл бұрын
He is dead
@florencenyandiko313611 ай бұрын
@@EdTe09 really?
@joelwanjau1038 Жыл бұрын
bring the other side of the coin madame pia hutuingilia saana
@michaelodhiambo669611 ай бұрын
I blame the man yes, he was not a good person, but again, i think the relationship was a joke from the start, you didn't involve parents and you were kids who were supposed to be in school at that time.
@jdezeeuw6540 Жыл бұрын
Can you turn on your subtitles 😊
@lecavie4648 Жыл бұрын
Baraka tele Vickie It is well
@angewinou780 Жыл бұрын
Just a question kwani all stories people are always crying? hakuna story ya positity?