My grandma never remarried after my grandpa passed when I was just 4yrs. She stay single until she was 95 years of age pass away.
@koumoua29802 ай бұрын
Wow! This is the best, the saddest and a very unique story that I have ever heard! It’s all your dad’s fault to start with. He should never force you to marry your ex-husband at the first place. And, he should let you divorce him when he abused you the first time then you could have been married to the American guy. But, at the same time, I’m glad you connected with him and his wife again and were able to attend his funeral at end of his life. That was the best thing for him and you, grandma!❤️I also very happy for you that you live a long happy,and healthy to see some many generations of grandchildren and great grandchildren in your life! Happy for you, grandma❤️👏
@kaoxiong61482 ай бұрын
Sad love story…sister…you are very fortunate to have a longevity life…you are very blessed…😩👍🤠!
@madiayang2 ай бұрын
Something different from all other story. Amazing true love story.
@hlubmykids51192 ай бұрын
Lawv....cas kuv mloog hmong cov txiv neej lub siab phem no es cas kuv yuav ntxub txiv neej hmoob tag npaum no es xav kom txiv neej hmoob tuag kom tag xwb....ntxub txog qhov kuv muaj 43 xyoo lawm los kuv yeej hlub tsis tau thiab tham tsis taus txiv neej hmoob dev no li...kuv ces yeej xav kom txiv neej hmoob tuag kom tag cas yuav coj tau txaus ntxub tag ib sim neej li
@maoher6232 ай бұрын
Ohyo. Koj haislino mas cov txiv neej hmoob yua ros los cej n.tsua teem dua os. 😊
@สุวนาแซ่ว่าง-ฮ1ธАй бұрын
Cas zaj dab neeg no yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li os 😢😢😢
@kle3hawjАй бұрын
Such a sad story. And what a true lover 😢 Tu Siab os Niam tais es 😢
@MaiProject20242 ай бұрын
Aww I never heard of a hmong girl back in those days dating an American. What a sweet love story. Sorry the elder didnt support you niam tias. You would've been in a real happy marriage.
@cheexiong1634Ай бұрын
❤😢what a sad story
@dohcvtecboy2 ай бұрын
My grandma never remarry since the 70s after my grandpa got murder. She's about almost 100 years old.
@shouavang62112 ай бұрын
Hlub koj os me niam tais
@Memaijmaij15 күн бұрын
This is a good, sad, lost love story 😭. Nrog koj mob siab thiab tu siab kawg os tus me niam tais aws.
@PC-bm8er2 ай бұрын
What a sad story of an innocence hmong girl whose life and heart were ruined forever
@mayxiong39522 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your beautiful love story grandma. ❤
@uaibsiabhlub1655Ай бұрын
Tu siab ua luaj os
@yourfutures2608Ай бұрын
Wow even sad life
@ncotxhuatiamchannel56252 ай бұрын
Vuag me tais aw ua cas kuv nrog koj tu tu siab rau koj zaj neej neeg os hlub koj tshaj vim koj txoj kev hlub uas hlub nrog lwm haiv neeg es koj txawm tu siab thiab nco nws npaum Li cas Los tsis pom qab mus nrhiav nws thiab tsis paub tham qhia nws qhia tsis tau rau leej twg li os hlub koj mog me niam tais aw .nco ntsoov khaws koj txoj kev hlub nqa mus tham qhia yawm saub es mus nrhiav kom tau koj tus hluas nraug Meskas rau lwm tiam mog.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@kylesmommy262 ай бұрын
Such a good and sad story..thank you for sharing your story ❤
@blueberrysmilie12 ай бұрын
Hmoob limhiam. History li cas los hmoob yeej siab phem pauv tsis tau.
@thestoryofmylife69792 ай бұрын
I’m with you woman, I’ve been single for over 20 yrs. I have friends who’s been married/divorced multiple times, and I’m stiiill single. 😅😅😅 and wants to remain single and enjoy my grandkids until the day I return to my Lord Jesus Christ. I’m not going to pog nplas and yawg plas like y’all hmoob people say.
@sarahtotoro34482 ай бұрын
This needs to be a movie!!! Please some one we will definitely help contribute some money towards this project ❤
@loojherr86502 ай бұрын
Moral of the story is once you go Meka you'll never go back
@janessathao91082 ай бұрын
Your story deserves to be a movie. Bc it’s something different. This is so sad 😭💔
@blaiyang90932 ай бұрын
Agreed
@RedmanLS32 ай бұрын
Nah. It's boring asf
@dragonlittle772 ай бұрын
@@RedmanLS3keeping it real
@deldoe23982 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. What a beautiful and melancholy love story.
@chuethao50932 ай бұрын
Ntxim hlub thiab tshua tshaj plaqs os pog aw! Thiv kom koj ntsib tus txiv hlub2 koj ntawd os mog!😊
@maiaflateboАй бұрын
Kuv mob siab rau koj tshaj plaws os niam tais. 😢 She’s not wrong about longevity, I have an old maid aunt that has never been married and she’s so active and out going at the age of 82. I also have a cousin that went through an abusive relationship and never date and married since her divorced, she lived a very long time.
@seeyeelor78282 ай бұрын
Txhua yam ces pov kiag rau txoj hmoo. Qhov koj muaj koj ntau kuv yeej pab nrog koj tu siab thiab ntxub kawg. Tiam sis thaum koj nrauj tag koj tsim nyog rov mus pib dua lub neej tshiab... txhua yam ces nyias yeej nqa nyias txoj hmoo los ua neej tiag tiag li.. thov kom koj noj qab hnav zoo nawb..
@nengvue71482 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss. What a future it could have been. I can see why your sad😢
@indiaxiong16452 ай бұрын
Tu siab tshaj plaws li os 😢
@MirogYang-or4zn2 ай бұрын
Ca pab kj mob siab tu siab tshaj li o pab koj nco tu koj g tau heev li o
@nkaujhmoob86jual722 ай бұрын
Tau say cow bone txawv chicken bone 😮 Meskas tsis yuav niam yau li hmoob liam 😮
@lotusvert70242 ай бұрын
Uacas yov ntxim hlub ualuaj zaj no mas thiaj yog ib zaj love Story ua tu siab thiab mobsiab tshaj plaws 😭
@SusanLor2 ай бұрын
Funny how yesterday, I literally just asked my mom if there were any hmong girls who dated and/or had any kids during the war era. Great to hear stories like this!
@fuemoua83452 ай бұрын
hmoob lub ntuj yog dab ntxwg nyoog yeej tsis muaj qhov muag pom li
@phanglee39142 ай бұрын
Tais aw nrog koj tu siab tshaj peb yus los ua ib tug ntxhais hmoob mas txiaj txawj raug tsim txom tshaj plaws os nyob rau ntawm 100 leej ces ntshe tsuas 1 leej thiab tsis tau kev nyuaj siab xwb os
@nyc5942 ай бұрын
I always thought if there were love stories like this when the war was happening back then and if any Hmong women fell in love with a military person. Wow would have loved to hear the other side of your boyfriend’s story too but unfortunately he has passed. You’ve endured a lot of pain and abuse in your life. Thank you for sharing your story.
@kaciewanh19862 ай бұрын
Koj lub neej raug tsimtxom ua neej lwjsiab, yog tim koj txiv xwb. Yog vim licas niam&txiv thiaj ntsia taus luag ntaus ncaws tsimtxom yus tus ntxhais nqaij ntuag ntshav nrog?
@KoVang-m9d2 ай бұрын
Wow..that's true love..
@maryly092 ай бұрын
Wow, u are the first hmong girl that I've heard of that dated a white guy during the war.
@thatasainboy13462 ай бұрын
Koj tus txiv koj tuag los tseem nyob na los qhia kuv mus muab nws xyuas me ntsis sob ntsej muag txiv neej hmoob siab qias neeg
@xeexiong69082 ай бұрын
Niam tais aw nrog koj tu siab rau koj zaj dab neeg os mog ❤❤
@payang37012 ай бұрын
Txiv neej Hmoob lub siab lim hiam os lawv aw!!! Hmoob txoj niag cai dev no mas ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws
@khouher54122 ай бұрын
Zaj no yog muab ua movie ntshe yuav tu siab thiab zoo saib heev li os
@maivelasquez90242 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It was beautiful to hear. Just know that it was meant to be because if it is, you guys would’ve been out together anyways. And that was not the case so let it go and live your life.
@pangher89032 ай бұрын
Love this story. Women are very strong and as wise as men.
@Ntxhi672 ай бұрын
Kev hlub ib vuag tsis sib tau nco mus tag ib sim. Long life yog nyob ntawm txoj hmoo
@waatchdogs61842 ай бұрын
Wow such a sad story. Feel so sad for you. So heartbreaking 💔
@ZeVang-h1v2 ай бұрын
True love will never die 😢
@MalissaVang-i7c2 ай бұрын
Cas lub neej kho siab ua luaj li niam tais los 2 kua muag
@liaxiong81292 ай бұрын
Cas yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj tsis tau lub neej li yus lub siab xav li os peb cov ntxhais mam yeej ua neej tu siab tshaj li 11:03
@vanhthor19742 ай бұрын
Tais aw koj zaj dab neeg ma tu siab tiag tiag li os
@tiachang-sn5ic2 ай бұрын
Too sadly 😢
@hlubkojforever19012 ай бұрын
Hello Grandma!!!!!
@Nploojsiab862 ай бұрын
Omg such sad story..Thov kom neb sib tau rau lwm tiam os tus me niam tais aww😢
@greenladylalaland42222 ай бұрын
War and Love....congrats you're a very strong woman live close to 100 years ❤️ 💙
@maivlis11202 ай бұрын
Omg..such a sad story 😢
@cyou322 ай бұрын
Tus siab tshaj li o. Lwm tias thov kom neb tau ua ke nawb tus niam tais. ❤
@nkaujqhualauj-w1g2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@maivang80722 ай бұрын
Zoo kawg os❤😂
@hmoobliscalifornia7142 ай бұрын
She be missing the BWC her whole life.
@pajthao48132 ай бұрын
Nrog koj tu siab os me niam tais
@sadysong2 ай бұрын
So sad
@nkaujhmoob76422 ай бұрын
The title is confused me
@shoualyvang4522 ай бұрын
Me, too
@vangyang41182 ай бұрын
Thought it was about some children.. 😅
@leelaiyah7892 ай бұрын
I think its tus hlub los muaj tus tsim los muaj
@caaspasvang74272 ай бұрын
Niam tais aw… sorry rau koj lub neej os😢😢
@life-qx6im2 ай бұрын
Cas tug siab ua luaj li nco mus ib sim
@chuechang47402 ай бұрын
Hmong OG….please don’t come between peb menyuam kev hlub. Especially yog nej twb kam peb tham in the first place. Peb nplooj siab hlub leej twg lawm ces peb yeej nyob tos tau tus neeg ntawv. Zaj neej neeg no tu siab heev. Thov kom lwm tiam neb sib tau mog tus mi grandma.
@abmemyangbtyang2 ай бұрын
Kv mas pab koj chim siab txog twg li os 😢🤬
@nkaujhmongnkaujhmong72292 ай бұрын
As zaj no mob kuv siab kawg
@NkaujzooXiong-t3f2 ай бұрын
เป็นคุณยายที่ความจำดีมากและอายุยืนมาก👏👏👏👏👏
@paoxiong45482 ай бұрын
Meka has a saying, “Better to be love than to be loved”.
@khamyang51282 ай бұрын
Huh?
@maryly092 ай бұрын
Do u mean "it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?"
@wandachang37452 ай бұрын
Tus me niam tais Ua cas Koj Txoj Neej neeg yuav tu siab Ua luaj li os tiam no tsis tau Los twb laus2 lawm es mam tos rau tiam 2 os mog vim yog tej laus xwb os es Txhob tu2 siab hnov Koj txoj Neej neeg mas hlub Koj kawg nawb mog hais txog Ntawm lub Hnub nyoog ces tej zaum Ntshe Koj tseem Hlob kuv niam os mog tab si kuv niam ces twb ncaim peb mus yug dua Tshiab Thaum xyoo 1980 lawm os mog es nrog Koj tu2 sib kawg li es thiaj li sau ntau2 Los Txhob xav li Cas mog nyob Koj thiab Koj Tsev neeg os
@ShouaTojsiab2 ай бұрын
Ntsej muag txiv dev siab neeg nyoog ntawd twb tsis hlub yus cas tseem muaj plhus hlub muab koj ntaus heev npaum li ntawd thiab.
@oppoA-un1bi2 ай бұрын
Tsuas thov kom peb cov mloog siav ntev li kj xb os phauj, thov kom kj mj lub zog khov kho lm yav tom ntej nb
@miabhlub632 ай бұрын
What a sad story. She's so disappointed about love and never opens her heart to find love again. She could have found true love and happiness with someone else.
@kuab502 ай бұрын
Qhov koj xav tías nyob ntev vim tsi muaj tus txiv, kuv xav tias yuav tsi muaj tseeb no nawv.
@payang37012 ай бұрын
Koj tus txiv lim hiam ko 10 tiam los tsis tas yuav xum mus Vaj tswv neeg tsis xum ua nws xeem neeg .
@meexiong99612 ай бұрын
Txiv neej hmoob mas phem tshaj Dab...nws yuav niam yau cas nws ho tsis tuag ..tus mus yuam yuav luag tej ntxhais xwb ....tseem ntaus luag tej ntxhais thiab..Sim neej no...txiv neej hmoob mas siab phem tshaj Dab...tus txiv neej quav dev ntaus neeg li ntawd...pes tsawg tiam Los tsis thov ntsib ntxiv lawm ...o hmoob
@JohnnyVang-lc3un2 ай бұрын
Siab phem npaum li ko cas ho yuav ua dab tsis os
@sunnygirl9732 ай бұрын
Ntuj aw Tais aws. Ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj lis os. Thiab tsis muaj peev xwm lis os. Leej twg ncaws kuv ib ncaws ces kuv ib qws rov qab xwb ntag los hos.
@Wayne1512 ай бұрын
First
@Thao222 ай бұрын
Peb hmoob 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@minamoua65462 ай бұрын
Tittle must be( tus hlub los muaj, tus tsim los laib.)
@camuathi8052 ай бұрын
kV Niam Niam los yos peb Niam tais kuj nyb ntev kawg li thiab twb yuav muaj 100 xyoo lm o peb yawm txjv twb tuag yuav muaj 30 xyoo lm tab sig peb Niam tais noj2 tshuaj es tseem Niam hnub mus ua teb thiab o
@thatasainboy13462 ай бұрын
Niag ntsej muag txiv no khav lub ntau xwb es nws tuag lawm ls tseem nyob na
@JhaPik2 ай бұрын
😢😢😢
@fuemoua83452 ай бұрын
es ua cas dab xwm kab ho nthe who tus neeg dag thiab tsheej yus txoj kev hlub hos hmoob lub ntuj los tuag ntsiag to tib yam nkaus thiab
@yeeyang53042 ай бұрын
Cas lub neej tu siab ua luaj😢
@yangmeethao23272 ай бұрын
Ua neeg nyob es koj yuav mus ntshaw txiv ua luaj li na lov. Yog yus niam yus txiv ua tsi tau txiv neej yawg ces txhob sim qws yob...
@daleevaj78852 ай бұрын
lub npe dab neeg no tis tau txawv2 li es twb tsis phim zaj dab neeg li
@hmoobheroeАй бұрын
Another story to prove that Hmoob men like your father and ex-husband, including all the men in your ex-husband's clan, are evil and abusive to you as a Hmoob woman. There's no justice for you in this lifetime. Thank you for sharing your sad love story.
@isabellexiong2272 ай бұрын
Koj lam hais kuv mua ib tus niam laus muaj 12 tus mes nyua m muaj 94 xyoo nws li tub tsis muaj mob thiab
@maryly092 ай бұрын
Honestly, i don't think it would have lasted if u and him ended up together anyways. Ntses dim ntses loj xwb.
@monayang97202 ай бұрын
The title is so confusing it doesn’t make any sense
@chiayang78462 ай бұрын
Title is confusing. Mam li tuaj yuav mes Kas teb chaws mes Kas no mas
@SunnyVue-g5x2 ай бұрын
Koj ces to tsis muaj txiv los laus li ko los vim koj yog ib niag poj laib nyob tim nplog los ma
@chialee99412 ай бұрын
Nyob zoo os kuv tuaj Oklahoma new year cas tsis ntsib koj li os niam ntsuab teev aw
@kerlee70152 ай бұрын
Hais twb tsis txaus ntseeg li.
@เรวดี-ล2ฅ2 ай бұрын
Xav xa 1 zaj neejneeg tuaj rau koj tham tiamsis tsis paub xa rau li cas.
@7stars2love2 ай бұрын
Wow what a sad story😢😢😢
@kavang98262 ай бұрын
Agree. How heartbreaking.
@MonyFlagg2 ай бұрын
Tus pog no tham li nws yog Npib vwj.kopuas yog npib vwj os .puas yog koj tham txog ib tug thab ham mis kas tuaj ua hauj lwm rau looj ceeb.zoo li kuv twb yuav paub koj sub ne
@SkyFlower-ug9lm2 ай бұрын
Tim koj txiv xwb os
@drive88922 ай бұрын
Tsis nkaj siab lub title li
@judythoj69042 ай бұрын
Nws sau ntawv tsis yog lawm.
@drive88922 ай бұрын
@ zoo li koj hais yog lawm
@stellaxiong40842 ай бұрын
Ntshe nws txhais tias ( tus hlub nws los muaj ib zaug lawm tus tsim nws los nws twb tau lawm thiab) kuv xav li ntawv xwb
@Lisa_X52 ай бұрын
I’m trying to read it over and over to understand the title but, I don’t get it either.
@judythoj69042 ай бұрын
@Lisa_X5 Tus hlub los muaj tus tsim los tau.
@Ncohnubno2 ай бұрын
May koj Piav ruam uas luaj. Twb tsis qhia seb thaum pom koj tsej muag tawg tas tus mekas pom es nws ua cas pob.