Twin Flames-Can Separation Be Avoided

[@VanessatheCreativeWriter]

had it not been for separation I'd probably not have done the work: inner child healing, etc.

[@edatnatcir]

I think separation is a blessing in the very beginning because the ego can override the spiritual so I think both twins have to get accustomed to their "new body of one" before they can live in a 3D union. The universe conspires to make sure the twins are subconsciously aware at best to what's happening after the first meet. I met my counterpart several months ago and am just now getting it and it's profound! RIP Mel thank you for sharing such grounded experience and knowledge.

[@jamescadzow9545]

Everyone has a little boy or a little girl inside of them that has been kicked around, spit on, abused, picked on, from the outside world. I had trauma created by my selfish older brother as a a child, yet it didn’t effect my life in the least because I didn’t allow it to. I choose not to take my pain out on others, because I had been hurt in the past and learned to let it go. You can blame all your shortcomings and deficiencies on your siblings, your parents, your past, the family pet, hell even the mail man, yet it would all be a lie. Humans create their own problems by the choices that we make throughout life on a daily basis. You are responsibly for your own happiness and no one else. The universe gave you this precious gift and the last thing anyone should do is run away from it like a broken insecure child looking for attention. If something triggers you be strong enough to work through it in the present instead of causing more confusion, more unnecessary pain or drama your own selfish gains. They might be not there when your done with your year long or decade drama meltdown hiatus. Vulnerability is an amazing strength not an insecure weakness. The truth in life is the only thing that will set you free. Running away from the greatest gift ever is a cowards way of handling it, and it’s the easy way. Love does not run, love does not chase, yet unbalanced children do everyday.

[@edatnatcir]

You don't get it. It's all about your energies. Think of two magnets they helplessly push against each other when out of balance and collide together effortlessly when in balance. You're thinking with the ego mind. That's not what this is.

[@rachelross5829]

❤

[@rachelross5829]

If that's how mature you were then, I can only imagine you now! Beautiful in and out.

[@PeaceOwl]

Mel is the best teacher on KZbin. Thank you for these videos.

[@reguladhedhi]

Mel! What wonderful and relevant information!! If folks simply could really listen and try to truly understand the potential behind your information. One could realize how easy it is to be in an unified field with oneself (and TF) for much of our current 3D physical experience! I think one of the biggest handicaps that folks have is to let go of the assumption that the TF union has to always manifest in the physical (i see you, i touch you, i live with you, we are physically sitting next to each other, etc)..rather than understamding that the Union can simply be a process on an energetic level and all the goodies (bubble love, psychic abilities, ability to create & manifest, feeling universal love and balance) all can be created without your TF next to you physically!!! Why is this soooo hard to understand, that you can evolve and grow to a higher state of consciousness and bring in the beauty and love for all through the state of union with your TF only by being in an energetic connection...that the physical connection actually limits and hinders the process? Try the exercises that Mel is offering - but also understand that you can do this without your TF next to you physically!! You can do this using your visualization skills and staying aligned with your heart (you all have an open heart center and use this as a direct connection)! It is easier than you think and with some persistant practice and letting go of expectations on what this process should manifest, but instead just "go with the flow" and being amazed of all that is possible ... you can "CREATE" and strengthen your soul connection into a "new form of relationship" that works energetically, is always present and gives you immense creator power...and the bubble love phase whenever you are aligned with that energetic vibration ...generally regardless what your TF is doing or where he/she is at the time .. but when your Souls are in "sinc" ( not your mind, not your physical bodies")... That is when the real exchange happens.. to catapult you and generate growth to reach your potentials. Fous on you, play with curiosity and w/o expectations - give it some time , practice, revisit...it will work!

[@melissa-hw7jr]

One of the most insightful twin flame commentators.

[@EternalflameC.L.]

I tried all of this with mine he wouldnt even listen and was almost scared to just stop and look at me and dismissed everything I was trying to tell him or teach him.Without his knowlwdge I put thoughts in his mind and kept communicating telepatically to which he was also sceptical,he brushed everything off .And so I am so happy that I could really relese him as he showed me how much more I deserve from a partner.He was not my partner and lover,he was only my teacher and me his.

[@B4-1light]

Watched this video twice, back to back. Tears streaming. Everything you said resonates so true in me! While I relive those magical moments with my TF, I do fully sense the transmission again, very brightly, feeling my energy field expand really wide... I feel my inner being being pulled to him... How beautiful to be able to be a steward of this precious connection! I accept the responsibility of carrying the twin flame energy! I embrace the template shift trying to work through me. I feel deeply humbled and honored to be able to be a part of this wondrous gift. May all beings be free and fully embody the truth of our higher selves as Source Energy co-creators. Thank you so much, Mel! You are indeed a clear channel of grace to all who will listen with open hearts and minds. May you always be blessed!

[@aaroni78]

This is such a good video. Union is here 😇

[@jyotikagupta5925]

Thank you for precious guidance. First time the entire process feels easy and possible. Gratitude

[@willmdrelmtopper9767]

This is a awesome technique Mel! You just helped us big time. My twinflame and I just did this together and it was indescribable. This really helps! Thank you so much. ❤

[@SaRa_LiLi]

Wow.. either your videos are becoming too good or I am growing and being able to connect to what you speak.. thank you so much :)

[@kristinal.4285]

For a set of separated TFs who are able to do what is suggested in the video (physically hang around without talking, but just looking into each other’s eyes), one must be in such an elevated state of consciousness that if it really existed between the two, they would not even have been in separation in the first place.

[@thekundalinichannel]

You are the man in this video Ray.. and by crikey you now what you are talking about... I love how real this is and how you drop a bit of humour like 'if you are still talking to each other' thanks.. so solid

[@debbiegrossman4289]

For me, this may be your best post yet!! Thank you Mel!

[@katevann157]

I resonate with ALL you are saying.......I absolutely do remember how I felt when I was last in a certain persons company.....alas I haven't seen this person since......I think we both 'bolted' ......that was 6 years ago.....we didn't do the 'deed' although we shared a bed....but the glow in my heart actually physically remains with me.....in my memory.......I'm happy to have felt it!

[@geminipham521]

Yes! U do!! Know what ur talking about, blessings Mel 🙏 thank u, u make understanding this journey less complicated, knowing ur craft! Beautiful thank u! Appreciate you 💚💚💚 much love.

[@LuisMuniz2]

I am watching this again.

[@Thefoodgoat]

Always, come back to you. You are very grounding.

[@sherryyyberryyy235]

Mel I just want twin bubble love ALL the time please and thank you 😝

[@RedbushTea1]

Dear Mel, thanks for this ! Just what I needed just right now ! :)

[@LaaraCopley-Smith.Designer]

This is a jewel of a video . Brilliant & clarity filled for me X

[@anastasiahansen3800]

Hi thanx for your videos which always have some wisdom and info that nobody else is informing about.

[@tatianasspiritualtoolbox6053]

Thank you mel. This video came in at the perfect time, because I totally am very decided to avoid separation and do the work that im on earth to do. I have been practicing what you say in harmonizing and keeping the energy in the heart and the heart flower meditation and it really is working, and everytime something happens with my divine partner/twin or whatever, that i have to observe my energy, i emember your words and what we are here for. I do think separation can be avoided like you say by really doing the daily work! So much love and thank you!

[@travelchannel304]

This is awesome even if not in Union or unacknowledged by each other. Great skill building video here! Ray since you're in Non.physical now. 👍👍 i think I merged in the etheric with client (transference) while working massage 4 yrs aho. 😮

[@gadaziebak1654]

You are extraordinary great .. where ever you are ...

[@hayleyparker2807]

💯 %Right.. No movement...

[@Jillady]

This is pure magic. My life has turned into a magical synchronistic journey. I feel him with me all the time. I mean it’s weird ~ I feel like he’s watching me, but I don’t feel invaded. I am so happy to feel his energy. Between the Universe, that blesses me with amazing gifts every day, to this connection, I am truly loved. I try to stay in alignment, ground my energy and stay balanced but there are outside sources, influences that continuously try to jam up my program, so to speak. As far as I am concerned individuals would have to actually live in a bubble to be in a bubble phase. Long distance vibing has a knowing about it that no one would understand. Even when they don’t consciously know, they try to screw it up, lol. Thank you very much sir, for your insight. I was just guided to your channel tonight. I have some questions for you. May I ask what’s with the 144, 141, 441 etc. it’s everywhere with me every single day. Even on the first video I watched “likes” and the communication I had with someone in the comments. It’s undeniable. Also, are all the synchronistic events each day and numbers an ascension thing or twin flame thing specifically? I am grateful to have been drawn here and hope to hear a reply. Blessings🌈✨

[@Jillady]

Starseed Story Yes, the number of God and the Universe. Very interesting about the Fibonacci. So grateful to hear this. Many blessings💚☮️

[@Hippieatheartxsoul]

Mel doesn’t believe in synchronicity but I do. I see it constantly. He believes we allow ourselves to see it. Anyhow it’s ok to agree to disagree because I know what I see for the last 6 years since I’ve been awakened to many things. I think the words ‘synchronicity’ and ‘allow’ are the same thing in the end. Just a word. Blessings 👑🙏🏼

[@missyjoy3642]

Thank you so much Mel.

[@usagi_t]

No moving is also known as karezza, some kind of form of tantra.

[@mustardseedministries6148]

What if you are in the separation phase with your DM and you meet someone else who you feel you have a soul connection with? Can we deny the DM and choose to move on with someone else or do we have to like bow down every time the DM decides he wants to grow up and learn to communicate like a grown man?? Just asking lol

[@mustardseedministries6148]

Kind of just tired of the games that this twin flame union is bringing..

[@arki_dan]

How are you?

[@kikilomino]

bowing down is never the solution... being humble, understanding, putting your ego aside, meeting eachother half way is. listening, talking, ... But you are not obligated tp continue this. Maybe you did what you had to do and gave the time and effort to it. But if the other person don't want to stay, thats his free choice and if you want to meet another person that's your free choice too. You havent signed any contracts of staying together is this life time. Maybe you'll meet again in another life time when you are both ready for it or maybe you both learned everything you had to learn from eachother and of yourself.... Not every good relationship has to be a DM either, but their are otften more then one in this lifetime. You are free in loving and sharing with the person you want.

[@pzvbn]

i try it what you said mel, so no separation for 3yr but 2wks ago ,i feel like his soul wants the separation experience we have a loving separation, no bitterness, i however get chest pains when i think of him

[@CIRRkittens]

Mel. Kari here. The eye contact alone, sounds wonderful. .....but at this time , for 4 months straight, were not in contact. In fact, the last time you mentioned the eye contact I mentioned it to him. He said that sounded too intimate cause he's married(cry me a river im married too doofus I was thinking) and we ended up, within a week, in a unplanned rendezvous that led to near intercourse... Now nothing. In fact he has had me blocked and deleted. Even though it takes two to tango obviously. My question is Do I just wait for him to return in order to present the eye contact idea again? How do I speed up the process,as you mention when he may never reach out. And how do I know when it's on me to do so? Thanks for the video. Your voice always soothes me.

[@CIRRkittens]

Because just the eye contact, despite what occurred before, is enough.

[@wandalee5977]

yeah. I wanna know too, even though we talk?

[@sofiademir4904]

Kari Morrissey are u getting chest pain ? I have same problem! We have eye contact for now ! Sometimes I’m going nuts !

[@CIRRkittens]

@@sofiademir4904 ya, chest pain at times. Why you ask?

[@sofiademir4904]

Kari Morrissey I just asked ! This pain hurting me a lot ! My life is change since I meet him ! I’m trying to heal my self ! So hard !

[@redviolet8511]

GREAT. it's all true. thank you.

[@transformationalhypnotherapy]

We are separated and I felt so much, after listening this video, crying all day, because I realised I also pushed him from anger, that he again run away (20 years I know him) I felt so tired from this pull and push relationship, but I still love him too much. Nothing seems to change...What to do? Wait or ask him to forgive my anger? I do not know.

[@kikilomino]

Love can be a scary thing, it can make us feel sad, angry, afraid,... and maybe does feelings go for the both of you. Beeing able to give eachother space in re-grounding you're or his energy can be a good thing and doesn't have to be seen as a everlasting separation. And when the individual has refound his stabilty he or she comes back with lots of new love and energy. Don't let your ego or anxities lead you. If you really love eachother you can also let go. Love isn't claiming the person to stay besides you. But wanting the best for eachother. And if the both of you learn to speak openly and talk about your feelings, love will bloom in the way it can... relationship, friendship,... Only if you both want this. It is not an obligation.

[@lilness20]

Since break up / separation he is having a ball and Im not. Not fair when he betrayed me ugh

[@aNnAkt1qw]

Thank you so much 💙 always

[@angelaoh106]

Thank you! 😊🤗

[@Meicena8]

Mel, can this be done via photo of our twin?

[@dianaadkins9340]

I was thinking the same thing. Thanks for asking.

[@goldraytwinflames]

Yes It can if its a recent one.

[@Meicena8]

Thank you for your reply.. 🙏

[@LuisMuniz2]

Thank you.

[@MisterFuturtastic]

How do you tell the divine masculine this when they are unawakened to the connection though?

[@kikilomino]

bring information before their eye's. But if they don't want to know...they won't. You can't foce it only guide it....

[@dawnlegge7695]

Hi Mel, I appreciate your videos & was wondering if you knew ... can the bubble love stage be one-sided?

[@goldraytwinflames]

Yes it can and many times it is .

[@dawnlegge7695]

Thank you so much for the reply mel, I appreciate that & I appreciate you.

[@patricialima2437]

❤❤❤

[@1Xana11]

Mel how can I learn more from you without physical presence, or Skype (I Am not fluent in English speech.....) but I would love to buy your services and your beloved by, for example a book or something writing.....a book will be excellent.....how can it be possible? Please? Thank you for your videos! 🙏🏽🌀🌟

[@goldraytwinflames]

We once considered a book .But the issue is growth and evolution move so quickly that by the time you write a book get it published ,its already out of date .I have advised or mentored people who language is a bit of an issue .

[@Thefoodgoat]

Can I get it by myself?

[@goldraytwinflames]

Yes its not limited to two ,can be done by one .I did so for many years and still can now at 74

[@moondrop9212]

I love brock he is my devine masculine counter part my special twinflame ,he has cut me out agin and and it hurts not as much as it used to but when it come up i get so upset i miss him so much and i want him to come home to me...he is in a karmic relationship and i have to respect that .. i get some telephony msg from him now and then and i feel him checking in on me from time to time but i just dont no what to do anymore my heart akes and its been i think 4 ,5 years and in saying that we did cross paths not that long ago and my lord my heart wass racing i was sceard excited all these feeligs running through me and the goddess woke up inside me she new, was kinda awcord because his girlfriend 😭was there and i didnt want to b disrespectful as i love love and i love brock... im not sure what to do anymore

[@michaelbraun5074]

I don't know if you covered this in previous videos as I just subscribed to your channel not to long ago and haven't had the time to watch every single video. I have a question and you seem pretty knowledgeable in this situation, in this "twin flame" journey is age another factor in identifying the real deal? This is a big age difference (11 years) between us, but I clearly remember the night as I was going through an awakening of this super super high level of certainly this woman was something out of the ordinary..

[@Illuminated333]

Can we use picture to eye gaze?

[@magkarma]

Mel can you give us more information on having a TF that is around and you aware of the work between the two but finding another that you have so much with. The guilt is it cheating? I truly feel I worked enough to find a true soul connection with someone yet the energy work between what I’ll call my TF pulls me back at times. I can’t help but feel like it is so wrong. Am I just being selfish?

[@liraven7676]

Cant have both? Probably depends on the purpose of your twin flame connection...what you want out of it- what is possible from it- Its not wrong to be mortal..i cant imagine a universe that wouldn't understand that. Good luck!

[@jocelynferreira7875]

So, be naked on top each other and don't move? Or is there a specific position to do this? Lol. 😅

[@msdecemberloveangel8236]

I need more info on the bubble up phase because my flame mentioned to me when we were in a sexual moment, he told me not to move. But I didn't kno how not to move. He knows something more about our bodies than I kno. I need to kno. And we are in separation now. HELP!!!

[@llorika]

Can I bring lower vibrational twin flame to the higher level or the TRUE twin flame can only coinsist on the same frequency level? Also which one of the twin flame needs to level up? Is it always the one who finds the union, relationship more difficult to deal with?

[@SolJourney]

You have to meet halfway, work on each individual separately until you meet halfway at similar vibrational frequency.

[@eyeseeyou3209]

Hi and thanx for the video. With regards to having sex with your TF: are you saying that everytime you have sex with your TF, you may not move, or is it just the one time?

[@kikilomino]

offcourse not. You do it when it feels right for both of you. Their isn't one way of having sex... It's a way to expirience the union in an other way. That's what he meant, not the only way.

[@melissa-hw7jr]

Wow!

[@Abeauty.innature]

How do I contact you

[@michaelajones2853]

I only discovered this channel a few hours ago, but I have learned that Mel has passed away in Dec 2020. May he rest in peace and guide us, the TF, from the higher realms.

[@SharonMcauley-h1w]

Nicole is still available on this channel

[@dubinatub1]

as ways a pleasure

[@maiab9622]

👌🏻🙏🏻