My DM was sleeping with so many different women and treated me so bad that I couldn’t bear the pain anymore. I decided to stop chasing and worked on myself. Showing up for myself and just loving myself better. Setting better boundaries and raising my standards. I am grateful that he showed me that I have anxious attachment style due to childhood trauma. Very grateful for that but since doing all the work and loving myself better, the obsession feeling is slowly going away and I really don’t find my DM as attractive as I thought he was. His behavior is a complete turn off. My manifestation has definitely become stronger too since I dropped him completely. I wake up excited everyday. This journey is so much more than just the relationship.
@WingANNAPrayer Жыл бұрын
Every time I'm in that neutralized state when he not crossingmy mind every minute....i feel at peace and calm.... then it feels like he realizes that my energy isn't on him then his energy comes back with a vengeance. That bombarding energy has lessened since I stopped chasing 2 months ago. But geez girl....i can neutralize mine all day and be goochie....then WAMMY ....he makes himself known! He's very powerful telepathically....
@JBGuarino43 Жыл бұрын
The cruelty of it is is that I’m in my 50s I spent most of my life alone and very temporary relationships. I find someone that I feel good about and they leave and then I find them in a twin flame thing where I have to do energy work that’s most challenging not clearly laid out before that person even thinks about coming in if they ever come in. On top of seeing what seems like everyone enjoying being with a partner ,but I must embrace stress of walking this narrow path. Beautiful Yeah that’s rough.
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
It's not an easy journey but it does get easier once you begin to understand it is an energetic connection.💛
@Mrs.TJ516 Жыл бұрын
Best of luck and just because you see "happy couples" does not mean they're happy.
@ingridjonker970510 ай бұрын
I am almost seventy and I felt the same way.Asking why happens this,I would rather have a soulmate. Right now after one year I am enjoying this journey.It is al about me and I don"t focus on my twin anymore and I sort of don't care anymore. And guess what he is contacting me every other day,wants to come over. The most important thing for me is to keep the focus on myself and stay in the neutral state As soon as I"m all" high" and having expectations ,he will run as fast as he can.
@JBGuarino4310 ай бұрын
@@ingridjonker9705 thanks for your reply. I’m good I cut contact working on myself. Haven’t heard from my Twin honestly feel a bit of a hole not like when she first left and I don’t have that strong desire. I still question if this is really a thing and that keeps me peaking or rather have a thought pop in at least a couple of times a day. I understand a lot more now and I get the whole look to yourself. I really would like to forget the whole thing. I want confirmation, only to say ok it’s real. Now I’m so tired in getting to the point of not caring, more curious not wanting to think I was making this whole thing up. God Bless I feel better and determined to work towards being my best for myself.
@Divine777Love Жыл бұрын
At first all I wanted to do was chase the person! Now it’s like I am okay without the person. I am not like I was in the beginning. I am very grateful for this journey. I am still getting the mind quiet. It’s getting there, I keep focusing on myself more and more. Thank you for this I wish I saw this sooner.
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
Glad it resonates!💛🧡
@Gingerclaww2 ай бұрын
Once your fully spiritually evolved, you will meet your twin flame
@Qhht.Illinois Жыл бұрын
I almost fell like at this point in time I have no desire of he comes back in right now. He's got his own work to do and it's better off apart right now. Even though I live and miss him, it's what is best for sure!!🌱 hope the seed grows into a beautiful flower someday🙏🥰
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
🥰🧡
@Qhht.Illinois Жыл бұрын
@@Mrs.TJ516 same to you. I'm not sure what a happy ending would entail and if he'll even be in it. Lol. I just give it up to God at this point. Go with the flow. Nothing else I can do🤷♀️
@manishamore9016 ай бұрын
My DM always told me be neutral,be normal I never understand it,he always guided me but now im.realising slowly Thank you universe ❤
@AlonzoDuncan-nz9ne Жыл бұрын
Our energy is neutralized i was overreacting...... I had to understand that we are true twins..... The energy when we firsr met was immaculate i had to go through body dna and soul upgrade.... I have much more understanding now
@purplesoul1111 Жыл бұрын
This neutralized is so peaceful. Zen..
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
Yes!🧡
@loves2sing4fun2 ай бұрын
Can you do a video on what it’s like to be in a harmonious union relationship with your twin flame?
@Flufero2311 ай бұрын
This is true. I have finally neutralized my energy. It is a feeling like nothing is happening, kind of an empty feeling. I am not even thinking of DM as much. Through doing the inner work in solitude hours each day since the breakup six months ago, I am beginning to make progress. I am beginning to see changes in the outer 3D world also. With Spring coming, I will regain activities with family and friends. I even feel periods of Satori. I will continue my inner work and step up the outer, especially exercise.
@e.o9470 Жыл бұрын
Letting go is one of those things, i always had problem with letting go before meeting my divine counterpart but after months of separation i finally started to do so and now i’m as calm as a summer night near the lake😅
@valeskaschacht4242 Жыл бұрын
Neutral is equal to peace for me ❤thank you for this video 👌 💜
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful 💛
@jamesc3375 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. I sent my tf this song (Cold play The Scientist), to try to explain how I was feeling. I was trying to get over my heartbreak because he is married and the obsessive thoughts etc. Then I found this other song by Cold Play, Higher Power, which healed me quite a lot so that I didn't have such overwhelming emotions. I have to admit, I am still in contact with my tf at least once a week now, so it is not as painful. When i do get the pain, I do deep breathing until it passes. It is almost like labour pains, I have had a baby, so we are all giving birth to something? The new us. 😊
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
It's all about balancing your energy if you are in contact 💛
@dilara_soul2 ай бұрын
Yes, everything is like this ❤❤❤
@michellem72902 ай бұрын
All resonating! ❤ It was a rough month of awakening but I am in a new place, and (much to my relief actually since I am married to someone else) currently not feeling reciprocative of romantic attachment… focused on spiritual and psychic development and it’s feeling pretty awesome 🤩 😎
@TrinityShining Жыл бұрын
my journey was very different to usual - in our relationship, it was the DM who was the conscious one. every time she tried to teach me about certain mystical topics, something would happen to prevent me from finding out. we even had a thunderstorm appear from nowhere, and this warned her to steer clear of those areas. she could find no guidance from the twin flame community - there are no readings entitled "what your DF is feeling today". from my side, I didn't know the identity of my twin flame, and I didn't know about the twin flame journey, but I was guided by dreams, portents, and living sages. when our union happened, it was of such intensity that the energies became manifest around us in vivid form.
@TrinityShining Жыл бұрын
The neutral energy can appear as shifting lights in the room, and around the chakras which are brilliant spheres of luminescence
@TrinityShining Жыл бұрын
@simoneevans6824 not necessarily - she had activated third eye from birth whereas mine was occluded until ascension. She also followed spiritual teachings - we both did, from childhood. Her path was the exoteric - she mastered manifestation and would also channel directly with her voice, which only happens to me very rarely. When we reached ascension our kundalini took visible solid form - there is no doubt which was which. Some teachers have remarked that this could be because we are male df and female DM, and biological tendencies can override spiritual ones, and this may well be the case, however it also aligns with our purpose. My path was blindfold - I made the same discoveries and had similar experiences to other DFs, but with no knowledge of twin flames. My divine twin discovered the teachings, and reached out for coaching, and it was pointed out to her that she was definitely DM - there weren't any coaches who catered for that, so her intended coach, a df in harmonious union, arranged a meeting with her divine twin, who seldom spoke about mysticism. This catapulted is towards union, with the blessings of the supreme. Up until ascension, whenever she or her coach began explaining to me about twin flames, then something would interrupt - including a literal thunderbolt which sent my divine twin running to the hills in terror. The goddess, who had deliberately obscured my third eye, was keeping me from finding out because I later gained the ability to perceive the energy flow to a very fine degree. I think most df people can perceive the energy visually before union and stumble upon twin flame teachings but I could only sense them, like textures, until our awakening and ascension. She was the definitive runner in many ways, and I learned to manipulate this to our mutual advantage, for example magnetising remote objects or situations, and causing her to run towards these in alignment with her personal outcomes. I was the one who gathered heating energy from the cosmos, and by directing this inwardly I found it manifest around her in the outer, making her shine, and filling me with a warm glow from within. I was the one who learned to purify the metaphysical energy, and direct it towards her, where she amplified it and caused it to expand and multiply, reifying into physical events as harmonic feedback, like an echo or reflex action. Our union involved tangible energy forms - sentient light fields - and culminated with her stepping into the light eternal whilst I remain a while to fulfil our soul contract. Many blessings ☯️
@GeoffGaul9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for a great explanation! You've been such a big help on my journey!
@anelisa3339 ай бұрын
You're welcome!💚
@Flufero2311 ай бұрын
Now I feel in neutral state. I do think of him from time to time. I am doing the inner work and raising my vibration. Strange thing is I’m starting to dream about him, feel his energy, and get intuitive messages about him. I am not trying to get him back. I experience Satori briefly. My task now is to cease thinking about him and cease watching any TF videos. I find the most difficult task is to stop the thinking. I will ask the Divine for help with that.
@KiranRawat_144 Жыл бұрын
I love your every content..every content is unique 💟
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
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@SatumainenOlento Жыл бұрын
Great video! ❤️🔥 Thank you so much! 🥰
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
My pleasure! 🧡
@ameerbasha7025 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. ❤️
@AlonzoDuncan-nz9ne Жыл бұрын
My twin does this but i need her to just relax
@kalkaur2706 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou 🙏🏽
@joyulareign-himbert5218 Жыл бұрын
Thank you and much love
@anonymous-vr8ex Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wonderful guidance.
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
You're welcome 🧡
@vert6537 Жыл бұрын
i seem to be in this neutralized state rn, just waiting for something
@TheFireGoddess1113 ай бұрын
If you are waiting you are not in neutral and detached
@ribcribsbest Жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@asabrantlov7775 Жыл бұрын
Fantastisc video- Thank you🙏❤️🌈
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!💛🧡
@Flufero23 Жыл бұрын
I have been doing the work for several months, after DNOTS. I don't think about my Other Self as much anymore. When he crosses my mind, it's like someone I don't even know. Strange feeling since my feelings used to be so strong for him. I'm more excited about my new life in 2024 and the things I want to do and have. I have more time now without him. Strange. It helps that we don't know the same people and no long work together. My sister and friends who know him never mention him. We have both "vanished" from each others lives.
@Nitrochic7311 ай бұрын
So I had neutralized our connection and felt great and did not act crazy. But three weeks later I felt like he wanted me to come so I went and nothing happened but him running again. How will I know when it's time for reunion? And why was it naturalized and then started the the obsessiveness all over again?
@anelisa33311 ай бұрын
You are balancing your energy..so great job for that! It's key to keep choosing you and focusing completely on yourself. You will know because their energy will show you that.💜
@AlexisSanders-c5x Жыл бұрын
Does energetically neutralizing the energy even if you’re not reaching out mean that you have no desire or feelings for twin as you’re energy is not on them anymore? This seems so challenging…
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
no
@AlexisSanders-c5x Жыл бұрын
@@anelisa333 can you try to explain this? I’ve heard energetically shifting means the desire is gone and the soul energy does not desire as it’s lower vibrational
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
@@AlexisSanders-c5x That's correct
@AlexisSanders-c5x Жыл бұрын
@@anelisa333 Do you still have feelings for your twin when the energy is neutralized? Just trying to make sense of what it’s like when you truly have neutralized the energy!
@darkodom4856 Жыл бұрын
How long does this stage last?
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
As long as you allow your energy to stay neutral.🧡
@ScorpioMarsMotionPictures9 ай бұрын
tHIS JOURNEY IS ALL ABOUT GETTING THEM TO GO AWAY FOREVER (TWINFLAME) SO YOU CAN DO YOUR BEST SOUL WORK. .
@anelisa3339 ай бұрын
Not exactly 🥰
@Illuminated3336 ай бұрын
No it’s not.
@ashdance8087 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to be contrary but my experience of the journey not being 'beautiful' isn't because I am wondering about the other person. After being activated i was not able to feel romantically or sexually about another human and through syncronicities and coincidences I was put into 6 years of near complete isolation. I'm in the 7th year now and even though I may have received intuitions and messages that it was always going to be a 7 year cleansing period I just feel beaten and flat with life. Like I have had no joy or connection or human support in so long that it has changed me. The tf in my situation has close to ignored me the whole 6 years, so even though the confirmations and signs have been undeniable my logical mind and heart cannot figure out how things r going to work out. So I guess my question I'd like you to do a video on is ... what if the journey, not the missing the other person, just feels like it has been too much. I cleaned I detoxed I had faith I believed, and now I feel just blank and hopeless. Like it's too late. I've been in isolation too long. Like I'm just tired of it. I've been so through so many cycles and deaths and dark nights and been pushed beyond what was bearable and I can't enjoy anything or anyone here except music and dancing now. I feel like I failed. Hope u get what I mean. Thanks
@ashdance8087 Жыл бұрын
The best way of describing it is that I feel 'too neutral' now, if anything. Like I'm indifferent to what happens to a numb kindof ptsd degree.
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
It's a connection of the soul, not the mind. Solitude is what's needed and everyone goes through it. A key component is to raise your vibration and step in soul mission.🧡💛
@ashdance8087 Жыл бұрын
@@anelisa333 well I'm not sure everyone goes through 6 straight years of absolute solitude. I feel like u didn't really register what I'm asking. I watch all your videos so I know what the theory is. Feels like your answer just blew me off, but thanks for responding
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
@@ashdance8087 It's never too late because time in the upper realms doesn't exist. This journey is about raising your vibration and serving humanity. It's not too late nor hopeless which implies you're waiting for an outcome and this will keep you looping if your in limbo.
@ashdance8087 Жыл бұрын
@@anelisa333 Thanks. I take your point. I think what I was getting at was the idea of how to bring the energy up when it has become too flattened and neutral and disconnected. X
@Nitrochic73 Жыл бұрын
Ok when they come back in do they stay? Or do we start all over again?
@anelisa333 Жыл бұрын
Depends on how you're balancing the energy💜
@aiLoveE11 ай бұрын
it's funny that there seems to be the agreement in the tf space that dm is the unconcious :-D
@anelisa33311 ай бұрын
Yes, the subconscious one.💜
@aiLoveE11 ай бұрын
@@anelisa333 there is also another way of looking at it ...
@anelisa33311 ай бұрын
@@aiLoveE Absolutely...it will resonate differently to others💛
@aiLoveE11 ай бұрын
@@anelisa333 on each level a reversal ;-)
@mickeyc2137 Жыл бұрын
the length of this video is my DM's birthday 🥳
@jeffreywalkerJrCEO11 ай бұрын
I just wish I never was chasing my DF it works both ways
@anelisa33311 ай бұрын
The DF energy is the chasing energy...the DM is the running energy that pulls away. They can only attract back when you Choose you.🧡💜
@jeffreywalkerJrCEO11 ай бұрын
@@anelisa333 I might as well just disappear and choose myself
@anelisa33311 ай бұрын
@@jeffreywalkerJrCEO It's real important to raise your vibration and pull your energy back. If you need help, feel free to look at my workshop coming up on the 12th.
@jeffreywalkerJrCEO11 ай бұрын
@anelisa333 you do help masculines can you make A video for us masculines
@anelisa33311 ай бұрын
@@jeffreywalkerJrCEO So if your listening to me, most likely your the DF energy. I coach many that are men. This connection isn't gender based.❤