GAY PTOWN - Everything You Need To Know [Travel Guide]

[@TwoGayExpats]

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[@Pat7629]

I bought my condo in PTown 6 years ago and it was the best decision I have ever made in my lifetime. Every time I come I feel so blessed and grateful. It is such an amazing place. My favorites for dinner and drinks are the Red Inn and Pepes. Love your content! I'm heading to DC this weekend and plan to check out the places you recommended.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Thank you!! And congrats! What an amazing investment and lifestyle purchase in one! On my (Trai) very first trip to Ptown, a friend hosted a paint and wine tasting outside at Red Inn which was fabulous as was our dinner there! Also, love Pepe’s! Thanks for sharing! And safe travels to DC 🙌

[@stephen6307]

nice to be wealthy

[@Pat7629]

@@stephen6307 It was nearly 20 years of consistent saving every single week. It was not easy by any means and I started from nothing.

[@stephen2215]

You guys are the cutest! We'll be there for 6 weeks in our airstream in a few days. Then we'll be headed Sawmill in FL for a month - thanks for both great videos. xoxo

[@TwoGayExpats]

Absolutely incredible! We’re jealous! We’d love to do that! Hope you have an amazing time in both 🙌

[@brucesanborn9578]

Enjoyed the Ptown video! I have been going there for summer vacations for years!!! Thank you.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Our pleasure! Glad you enjoyed it! We had a great time! So diverse and inclusive!! ❤️🌈 🦄

[@brucesanborn9578]

@@TwoGayExpats Have you guys been to Mazatlan and done a video here? I am living here with my partner.

[@TwoGayExpats]

@@brucesanborn9578 we haven’t although one of our neighbors in Tulum moved there recently. It sounds interesting to us for sure! We’ll message you for sure for tips when we can make it over!

[@robranney-blake8731]

You should have seen The Shipwreck before it became The Brass Key. That was a crowded old guest house to stay in, with Rosie leading the fun every morning. There were hat parties. May I recommend, as a Cape Cod kid who’s done Ptown for decades: John’s Foot Longs, the hot dog stand right on the pier, always has great fried clams, fish and chips, and lobster rolls. That’s always our first meal in town. Trust old local places for the best classic seafood. The Lobster Pot is essential.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Thank you for these amazing recs!! 🙌

[@mrmrmarcus6969]

Greetings from London. What a great rundown of all the spots in PTown. Great job.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Thank you very much! 🙏🌈♥️🏳️‍🌈

[@cliffhoelzer6895]

My husband and I are visiting P Town for tge first time in April. Your video was very helpful. Thanks!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@TwoGayExpats]

Our pleasure! Glad it was helpful! You’re surely going to have a fantastic trip! 🙌

[@zx5218]

P-town is without a doubt my best vacations. It was so good I went five years in a row. I love everything about this beautiful spot.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Incredible 💯🙌

[@marc-xn8tu]

Happy to announce I joined your channel! Sending hugs to both of you! 🤗

[@TwoGayExpats]

Omg thank you so much!! We’re super grateful and hope to have more members content up very soon 🥹🙌🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@gordongt1272]

I lived in Ptown for a couple of years in the 90s. An unforgettable experience, especially in winter, when all the colors are in pastels and you didn't have to use much imagination to see how it must have been in its days as a whaling and fishing village. If you have the time and money (or a remote job), go for the season May 15-Sept. 15 (used to be anyway) and really get to know Cape Cod. Unless tyour biggest reason for vacationing there is nonstop partying, the best time to go is between Labor Day and Columbus Day, fewer tourists and still beautiful weather. As for those nonstop parties...well, the bars close at 1 A.M., so big city life ir ain't...but trust me, you won't mind, the place is too beautiful to sleep late.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Love this! Thanks for sharing! ❤️

[@snxcsnxc5399]

I lived and worked at Fire Island it’s a must visit all are welcome there as well. Never been here would love to visit one day. Although my drinking days are over 14 years sober I’m sure they have plenty of non alcoholic drinks. No longer living in New York but close by in Ct which I currently just bought a beautiful home. Thanks for sharing this I always wanted to know what it looked like and things to do there. Have a blessed day!

[@TwoGayExpats]

Thank you for sharing! I (Trai) had a 1/4 share in FIP in 2012 I believe it was! So fun!

[@robertrandy]

I been going to PTOWN for over 40 years. I would like to add to restaurant recommendations FRONT STREET on Commercial Street. You need reservations during high season. Another recommendation would be Mistralino on Bradford Street and you can’t beat breakfast at Liz’s Cafe also on Bradford Street.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Amazing!! Thank you for the added restaurant recs! 🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@mrjim1044]

Thank you for sharing your trip to P-Town. I’ve been going there since the early 80’s and it hasn’t changed that much. Except it is much more expensive, lol! Two other things I like to do are bicycling thru the dunes over by Race Point and the incredible whale watching trips! I’ve run into John Waters, Norman Mailer and Lady Bunny!!!

[@TwoGayExpats]

That’s awesome!! And thanks for sharing! 🙌

[@joshuaeben]

We come to PTown at least a couple of times a year! One of our favorite places, thanks for the video!

[@TwoGayExpats]

That's awesome! And our pleasure!! 🙏♥️🌈👬

[@richiejohnson]

8:07 I had a room in a house for $25/week across the street from Boatslip. 19 20. Had a gig at the Lobster Pot singing recycled Streisand

[@TwoGayExpats]

Wow 🤯 bet you have some incredible stories to share! 🙌

[@MarkTrombly]

Hola chicos de Guadalajara aqui. Love your stuff. And LOVE LOVE LOVE the Frogger shirt!

[@TwoGayExpats]

Awesome! Thank you! Andy has a whole collection of these Tees (or tease?)!! They fit him and his personality to a “T” 😂

[@dmnddog7417]

Hah! The only time I visited P-Town it rained almost the whole time I was there (long weekend). It started just after I got off the ferry and met with friends to go to the Tea Party. Of course, the bad weather ended before I boarded the ferry back to Boston. Suffice to say, I didn't get to the Boy Beach or get to enjoy much nightlife. I did catch a great show with my friends, but the weather made it miserable to walk outside. Maybe one day I'll visit again and I'll have better luck with the weather.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Oh no!!! Hopefully you can get a better experience next time!!!

[@snxcsnxc5399]

Forgot to mention when I worked at Fire Island at the pines it was my first time learning what tea time was. I also got to see Candis Cayne perform every night and also cleaned her room she was fantastic and absolutely very Beautiful.

[@TwoGayExpats]

That is awesome!

[@TakeTimeToTravel]

That looks like an amazing time in Ptown!

[@TwoGayExpats]

So much fun! Will need a week to recover haha 😂 💅

[@jimhertwig2220]

On our one-day visit 😢 at Halloween, our friends acting as tour guides took us to Lobster Pot. We enjoyed it, but I can’t compare to any other restaurants. But I will on a future trip!

[@mattsouter2081]

So you only stayed a couple of nights? Would you say that’s all that’s needed?

[@TwoGayExpats]

Given the trek to get to PTown, for sure at least 2-3 nights. A week could be fun with a group of friends or if you really want to relax and take it all in… many groups we met rent an airbnb for a week from Sat-Sat which makes it cost effective. A hotel for a week would be insanely expensive. For us, we find better value outside the U.S. in Mexico or Spain for example, so a week in PTown would not be in the cards for us. Hope that helps!

[@keenanpryor4965]

Sweet! Looks like you gentlemen had a great time.

[@TwoGayExpats]

We absolutely did! ❤️ Thank you 🙏

[@lisaanderson8235]

Gosh, I ❤ Ptown! There's a lot of partying, of course, but the Cape Cod National Seashore is a beautiful place to spend a day if you need a little bit of a break.😊 PS. Those Planter's Punches looked heckin lethal!🍹🍹

[@TwoGayExpats]

So true! We loved the beaches! And yes, that drink was stroooong. I actually didn’t know it was 151 until later 😅

[@rosalie4875]

Hello! Great video. I was wondering if any of the nightlife activities discussed allow people who are under 21? My friends and I are going to P-town this summer and are looking for some alcohol free things to do :)

[@TwoGayExpats]

That’s a good question! The clubs likely no but hotel events and bars likely yes, as no door man per se! We recommend confirming on websites for each venue just to be sure!

[@colinbawden4222]

Is PTown a year round party or only certain times of the year?. Whats it like when not party time?

[@TwoGayExpats]

Definitely summer time is season but more chill off season

[@user-kp1un5eq9m]

How can you talk about gay life in P-town and the Boat Slip without mentioning the late-night activities under their deck?

[@TwoGayExpats]

Yes, if you haven’t met someone on the dance floor at A-house, there’s always this option 😈 thanks for sharing 😉

[@timothybrown6252]

I’m planning to visit for the last week of April but having a hard time finding lodging 😕

[@TwoGayExpats]

Yes, P-town and PV are always so popular they book very far out :(

[@winkscruises3911]

Sadly, The Club is no longer. Now Ocean 193, a seafood restaurant (sans jazz...)

[@TwoGayExpats]

Oh no! Thanks for sharing!! Glad we got to experience it before it closed! So few like it!

[@omarkhanlilcurry]

How’s the water? Is it pretty cold? It seems like a cozy town !

[@TwoGayExpats]

Very cold 🥶 but we’re used to Mexico lol 😂 🇲🇽 ❤️

[@manilajakarta]

I learned about p town from Bear city 2 the movie nice movie I hope to visit there with my boyfriend someday

[@bruhreallybruh]

Provincetown was always families by day, LGBTQ+ by night. That was always the fun part of PTown.

[@TwoGayExpats]

100% and you still see the day trippers in mass on commercial street! But at night, P-town is your oyster starting with tea! 🙌

[@TOPOTWO]

Ciro and sals is amazing

[@mzmiller52]

You neglected to mention there are other things to do besides gay activities. The biking is first rate. Rent a sailboat. Ocean beaches also nearby if you want waves, but be careful of seals getting too close. Whale watching. The monument. It has become very circuit oriented over the years, but the place is authentic and charming. And outrageously expensive real estate. Prob worse than nyc.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Thanks for sharing! Our focus is gay hotels, beaches, bars and clubs, but agree with you, there is much more to do. There’s a reason P-town is packed with straight day trippers during the day!

[@kellycolmey3742]

I used to work at the Crown in anchor in the 60s

[@TwoGayExpats]

That’s incredible!! Love it!

[@mewsao]

what a vibrant little town! im straight girl but i wanna go!

[@TwoGayExpats]

You’d still have a blast! Lots of great live entertainment, delicious food, cute shops and galleries 🙌

[@SFBenjaminK]

i wanna know the real Estate there , might buy a house there for summer trips , looks nice..i have to check it out

[@TwoGayExpats]

Boston and Ptown are VERY expensive housing markets. Shockingly so. But we’re coming from Chicago and Mexico as recent points of reference! Beautiful tho!! Definitely worth checking out if in your budget!! 🙌

[@user-xz3dn2nt5n]

I LOVE MY PORTUGUESE PROVINCETOWN 🇵🇹🇵🇹🇵🇹

[@10-OSwords]

Do they even make 151 anymore?? They won't sell it in CA. & I knew a place that didn't have a button for it so they'd have to just charge me for a well double, it was the best scam of all time!

[@TwoGayExpats]

😂 💀

[@deniborraccini5801]

I’m seeing a lot of gay men, are gay women welcome ?

[@TwoGayExpats]

Absolutely! Really open to everyone. Also, check the themed weeks. We were there at the end of Bear Week so very male oriented. There’s also Women’s Week, Family Week, etc!

[@brucesamia6353]

i love my old stomping grounds

[@allancuseo7431]

I went for over 30 years. Thought of buying but now way beyond my budget

[@TwoGayExpats]

Omg yes! Key West is the same! Insanely expensive 😳

[@Bready4]

Nice to know

[@allyraymond9483]

LOVE! We've got to get back there! ❤

[@TwoGayExpats]

A little slice of paradise for sure!! ♥️

[@JorgeWithrow-u9b]

McKenzie Junctions

[@rodrigomaia24]

What is the Instagram of the cute guy?

[@TwoGayExpats]

Which one?? ☝️

[@willistaylor4077]

What if you're a Total Introvert? 🙂❤️🌈😄

[@TwoGayExpats]

This is one of the few gay places that everyone seems to talk to everyone! We love that. We’ve seen it at coffee shops, drag shows, sing alongs, eating alone at the bar. You’ll be in a safe space! 🙌

[@PracticalPerry]

I thought the gayest city in the USA was Providence, RI or Key West, Florida. Then comes Palm Springs, CA.

[@TwoGayExpats]

Not according to Google but those cities are also super gay!! We love them both!! ❤️

[@jameshusson-cote4635]

One time it would be nice to call it Provincetown! … resident.

[@TwoGayExpats]

We did! More than once, including the opening line! 😉 😘

[@SamSmithVev0]

$118 per person for 90 mins on a public ferry? That’s a hate crime.

[@TwoGayExpats]

It’s shockingly expensive for sure 👀

[@SamSmithVev0]

@@TwoGayExpats the monopoly of it all. But thanks for sharing in your video. I’m contemplating going to Provincetown from New Zealand, but everything is adding to be about 10,000NZD for like a week.

[@TwoGayExpats]

@SamSmithVev0 yikes! LA/Palm Springs or Puerto Vallarta might get you more bang for the buck as we’re rolling into shoulder season. For P-town, you can also take the bus to save on the ferry (but don’t do it on Friday afternoon due to traffic)! And they have beer tents for $5 cheap beer at tea at Boatslip as everything else is crazy priced. Take a picnic to boy beach. Just a few ideas to save!

[@kenyadarobinson9138]

😍😍😍😍❤️💜🧡💛💚💙

[@TwoGayExpats]

🌈👬🦄

[@LosDanisVanlife]

❤

[@em20245]

A-house has the worst music

[@TwoGayExpats]

Not in our experience! Different DJ nightly, no!? 🕺 🪩