Txhob Tos Koj Hlub. 10/16/2020

[@darleneyang582]

Koj hais yog kawg li lawm os vivncaus. Peb pojniam hmoob yuav tau sib hlub txhob sib ntxub txiv neej twb tsim peb txaus lawm.

[@suavyaak5203]

Tig rov hlub koj tus kheej thiab os mog cov txiv siab ncaj siab zoo. Txuag koj lub zog, zais koj lub siab ncaj ncees rau tus pojniam uas yuav los tom ntej no thiab os mog.

[@myself.kuvxwb8406]

SUper woman #11 Yes, break free but stay true to yourself and your conviction. So proud of you! Good luck!

[@mayloutxiachaheu9915]

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os viv ncaus aw ,peem kom tau es pheej yus txoj mhoo yawm saub vwj tswv Yeej yuav pom koj txoj kev tu siab xwb mog

[@MissPeachie]

Ladies, stop waiting and begging for a man’s love. Once your man stops loving you, his heart is already gone and will not come back. Accept it and move forward. Self love is your only true love. The best revenge you can give him is to find happiness without him and move on.

[@maipha8560]

Also start preparing for your future without him in the picture the minute he starts cheating. No one should tolerate cheating/infidelity and that should always be a non-negotiable for anyone both woman and men.

[@chang3568]

I'm proud of you sister. Please continue to love yourself. You deserve to be happy.

[@callaflower233]

I'm sure it was very hard for you but I'm glad that you found the strength to love yourself and to leave someone who does not deserve you. You made the right choice.

[@tuamvwj7516]

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[@กันยาแซ่ท่อ]

Tus niam laus koj hais yog kawg lawm o yus hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua o

[@mv.3dfsm715]

Kuv nyiam coj ib yam nkau tu tswv ntawm zaj neej neeg no ntag👍👍👍

[@maymoua5472]

Me koj niam yog koj twb zoo2 npaum koj ces koj nyov nrog koj cov me nyuam yov nawb mog tsiv neeg ces yeej zoo li no peb cov poj niam ces peb tuag koj txoj kev no ntshua tus tau taug los lawm os kav tsij nrog koj cov menyuam nyob nawb mog zoo ntsaj li ov koj cov menyuam yog koj txoj sia nawb mog

[@nhiavang4813]

Rov mloog kj cov neej neg ca yv kho siab ưa luaj o

[@maovang2294]

Tus viv ncaus aw qhov ua koj ua yeej yog lawm vim cov txiv neej no nws muaj tus zoo tus phem 9s mog nrog zoo siab qhov koj txiav txim tau yog kawg lawm os

[@vuexiong8050]

Kuv xa tias kuv tus txiv thiaj li cem kuv ruam ib leeg xwb ntse yuav tsis muaj lwm tus txiv neej txawj cem li kuv tus os

[@missysmart8620]

Sad that it took her this long to leave this marriage. Don’t ever set yourself that low for your partner to disrespect you. Have self respect, love yourself and move on.

[@truongvang3479]

Koj ua yog lawm os niam laus

[@cheexiong1634]

Good love yourself lady!🙏❤

[@chueyang5392]

Yog kawg nkaus......thanks for share you story

[@kellielee9829]

So if a Hmong man is a cheater and doesn’t love his wife at all it’s alright to all the relatives as long as the wife is patient. BUT if the wife finally let him go then she’s a cheater? She is a bad wife? WOW. Sister, I’m so glad that you got out of that misery and learned to love yourself. I need to learn to love myself too.

[@maipha8560]

No relative can decide your life and future for you. Why listen to their non-sense. They are not the one suffering, depress, or having hair loss. You are the one suffering through it all, why even consult with them. If this was me, divorce paperwork would have been signed and court date set up. Once it's finalize, just informed the relatives, you don't need their approval. You can move on with your life and future, anyone questions, show them the signed divorce papers. What are they going to do? Call the cops because you got divorce? Things like this, Hmong women need to start taking their own actions. Enough is enough.

[@daisiaxiong4585]

@@maipha8560 agree with you tso tsis tom tso ib zaug li nawb yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb kuv twb raug los lawm tu siab kawg

[@maipha8560]

@@daisiaxiong4585 yog kawg and I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Plus one other thing I hate about the Hmong clan system is there is no privacy. Everything said and done there are shared with the whole village. Sorry but what happened in my marriage and my life stays with me.

[@thekidsshow7972]

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[@gaonenglee3073]

Viv ncau koj hais yeej yog qhov tseeb lawm kuv los kuj xav li qhov koj hais thiab hos viv ncau.

[@Loves_GodSR]

Sister, I'm so glad you found the strength to leave him and started loving yourself. Sometimes we gotta go through hell to come back better than before. May you find love and happiness.

[@maigiang2424]

Zoo kawg li lawm

[@etee8361]

Abuse doesn’t have to be physical. This is a perfect example of emotional and mental abuse. Good for you sister!

[@minecraftboy2676]

That's why we women have to love, respect, take care, and put ourselves first before anyone. We have to learn to let go once your husband doesn't love and cheat on you.

[@maigiang2424]

Hais yog lawm

[@paulavang2987]

I am agree with you every things you had shared your life for us I am glad that at the end after you woke up and looked back you can see the real life , real love, real husband , real father’s for the children’s he is not a humans being in this world to be there for you your kids to share the love, to support you your kids, so the good thing is don’t let him torture you any more re- expect your self, love your own body safe your energy always think that you are very valuable so don’t please him to be with you he will think that he is to good , to powerful, you had been a good wife , mother and support you your children’s by your self so he mean nothing to you he live the life of low class people so don’t be sorry for him let him learn his lesson Dear suffer I understand you clearly because I had walk through the same road as you did I know how much pain you been through you are strong so proud of you thank god blessed your family.

[@Iabiabsiab]

Tus me viv ncaus aw, yus hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej os mog. Yog koj tu/hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej ces koj tus txiv tsi khiav tsi mus qhov twg kiag li os mog. Kuv muaj 14 tus menyuam, kuv yuav kuv tus txiv thaum kuv 16 xyoo teb chaw no tabsi kuv kawm ntawv, mus ua 2 txoj hauj lwm, kuv nav khaub ncaws tshiab (like a teenager) xwb. Kuv mus txog sab nraud, tibneeg nug tias kuv puas tau muaj 21 xyoo? Kuv tus txiv hlub kuv heev li os. Txhob hlub tus txiv neej ko tag tag maj...thiab txhob thov txiv neej kiag li lawv thiaj pom yus zoo os mog. Kuv li kuv tsi tog txiv neej, kuv tsi thov leej twg li, luag thiaj saib taus yus os.

[@maimoua2570]

I'm glad you found the strength to move on and love yourself. Moving on does take time.

[@pebtsevxeemthoj3391]

Tus viv ncaus koj tsi nco qab hlub koj lawm....koj tsua xav kom luag hlub koj xwb es nws puas xav hlub koj mas...yog li koj tus Dr. hais lawm. Txog thaum kawg koj kuj tig nco tim xav tsag rov los hlub koj lawm thiab os tus viv ncaus aw....hlub koj kawg...

[@ShannenChang]

Tusiab tshaj li os vivncaus awe ! Ua pojniam hmoob Nyob cas Yuav tau txoj kev Uv, txoj kev mob siab lwj siab tag li xwb ! Hlub yus tus kheej xwb txhob tos ib leeg twg txoj kev hlub li os mog ! Wish you the best and stay beautiful and strong !

[@gaohm.6718]

koj hais yog lawm os yus yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej nawb vim cov txiv tsev muaj qee leej yeej siab phem heev li os

[@niytakrinwicay8396]

Koj hais yos lawm

[@juliehawj3385]

Yog! Hlub yus tu kheej zoo tshaj! Yeej tsis tuag txiv neej ib zaug!! Yeej yuav miaj ib tug zoo hlub yus thiab...muaj miions of tiv neeg nyob lub ntiaj teb no..yeej yuav muaj ib tug yuav hlub yus !!

[@YajMorey81]

Good for you for finally realizing your worth!

[@minnie9175]

It’s true that no one can change your heart if you are not ready. When you have enough, you will be able to make that decision.

[@pajthao4813]

Peb cov poj niam hmong raug txiv tsim txom los lus kawg ntawm txiv neej hmong ces tias pojniam tsis tsim txiaj tham hluas nraug thiab nyiag deev hluas xwb tsis muaj lwm lo lus hais Liam peb li os

[@Nploojsiab86]

Woman empowerment story thank you!!

[@Cooljami24]

You go girl ❤️ koj hais yog lawm tsis thxob tuag rau ib tus txiv neej tes

[@meexiong9961]

Tsis K..leej twg yuav xav li cas rau yus Los lub Ntuj yeej paub tag lawm ...hlub yus tus kheej kom yus ciaj tso..tiam no kev npam nyob qis qis thisb npam sai sai lawm xwb ..tsis txhob nyob rau nws tsim yus mus txog hnub tuag

[@chailee2815]

Neb txoj kev sibhlub twb tsis yog kev hlub tseeb es kev hlub mas yuav tsum hlub li no nawd, hlub tus uas hlub tsis tau koj rov qab thiaj li yog kev hlub naw. Yog xav paub ntaus tshaj qhov no lwm hnub koj yuav pom xwb yog koj hlub li kuv hais na.

[@beautyyushon9003]

Txeev taw khav theeb. Xa mus nyob jail ces kawg kua muag ntshave poob.

[@xwmkabyang354]

Yog peb cov pojniam hmoob zoo npaum li koj xwb ces ntshe tsis muaj ib tug txiv yuav xyeej li od hos yog leejtwg xyeej ces ntshe ntawv tag lawm od, ntshe tus txiv no ntawv ntuag tiam no lawm es nws thiaj li tsis pom koj txoj kev ua zoo li od.

[@xyoojmeelauj7355]

Hmoob ces yeej coj li no mas. Tus civ ncaus aw ...

[@cianavang789]

Thov kom peb cov poj niam txawj sib hlub thiab os .

[@maryly09]

Good for you, sister! At first, you were super annoying with how u can't live and function without your ex, but as the story went on, you showed such growth and strength. I love this kind of stories where women grow, learn from their past, better themselves and their lives, make better decisions, and have stronger mentality. Not like those stories where an abused woman left her husband only to regret later on why she left him and why she didn't tolerate him. I can't stand women like that. I applause women like you. I wish you the best and please forever be this strong minded. Don't ever fall back into the same hole that you dug yourself out of.

[@sengvang05]

Glad you got counseling to help you

[@beautyyushon9003]

My life was same. I m happy now he got out my life. Feel so free of him He s sick now, nobody wants him n he tried to back w us. I said good luck n bye bye Bye bye forever to him.

[@ไพศาลเจริญศิรินุกกุล]

ใช่เลยค่ะ ความคิดม้งๆแบบเราบางคนที่คิดแบบนี้ ควรเปลี่ยนได้แล้ว เพราะมันเหมือนความเห็นแก่ตัว ผู้ชายม้งส่วนใหญ่คือรับไม่ไหวจริงๆ

[@meemeezong1827]

Being a divorced person is not a bad thing. It’s only bad if you let it bring you down. You should look at it as an opportunity for “do over”, a chance to start over. Learn from your experience and try taking a different path.

[@victoriavang4152]

I'm glad you redeemed yourself sister

[@nkaujhmoobnplog6663]

poj niam hmoob ua neeg nyob ma tu siab tiag tiag li os

[@khouanchaythao469]

Tiam 21 lawm yuav tau txhob nyob lub neej qub thiab lwj siab lawm mog sister.

[@Hmoobsibhlub2022]

Cas laj2 mloog pog ruam no dlau os... mloog2 mob hlwb dlau os... tabsis thaum kawg koj mam xav qeeb dlau os

[@maitongvue5397]

Cov kwv tij hais li ntawv ces yog cov ruam tshaj qhov ruam lawm xwb mas nws twb tsis pom nws tus ua phem rau yus li ne

[@amandavang4747]

Good woman you are a good wife love yourself

[@vavang2287]

I’m proud of you, sister!

[@nengthao8318]

Peb poj niam hmoob yeej ruam ntshaw lub koob muaj txiv tshaj. Muab tus txiv saib tsim txiaj dhau lawm yus cia li tsis hlub yus tus kheej li lawm txiv neej thiaj li saib yus tsis muaj nqis. Zoo siab uas koj ua taus ib siab li ko koj thiaj tsis mob hlwb lawm os.

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Sad sis😭😭😭

[@kaciewanh1986]

Niag ntsej muag txiv dev ntawd xav tias nws rab qau yuav yeej tag tiam no. Tsis ntev no nws yuav swb txhua yam tas lub neej txojsia.

[@melodythao6721]

kuv tseem nyob rau txoj kev mob no os💔💔💔💔💔💔

[@kajsiab9000]

Tus viv ncaus koj zaj dab neeg no mas muab mloog mas thaum pib kuj ua rau kuv meem txom heev pab hlub koj tsis paub tag hais tias cas yuav ruam tag npau es yuav txaus siab muab koj tus kheej rau tej tug txiv dev uas tsis txawj xav tsim txom ua luaj ho nrog zoo siab tias mag txaus lawm kuj rov pab tau koj tus kheej lawm thov kom peb tsoom viv ncaus los yog tsoom niam tsev yuav tau muaj lub siab tawv thiab hlub 22 peb tus kheej tias txawm lawv tsis xav hlub thiab tsis xav yuav peb es hais tias peb laus phem no los lawv kuj laus kuj phem thiab zog los kuj ntaug tag thiab es peb txhob ho ua ntsus xav tau lawv dhaum ces lawv twb ntsia peb tsis muaj nqes lawm thiab mog

[@hummingbyrde]

Some people like to be depressed and miserable...seriously even her shrink discharged her!

[@gaosayvu6554]

Zoo siab uas koj ho tsim dheev rov los ua neeg os , yog koj pheej nyuab siab ces ntsai kawg mob stroke xwb ces haj yam tsis muaj neeg saib koj os

[@somman9639]

Koj ua tau zoo thiab yog lawd mi niam tsev zoo aw

[@mandilee8590]

I’m glad you left and found happiness

[@kevinyang3400]

Tus viv ncaus tsi koj xwb vim koj tus txiv twb tsi yuav koj lawm lo koj pheej yuav nyob nes peb uas neeg nyob no luag tsi yuav yus lawm ces tawm xwb ho

[@nraughmoob7684]

Zaj dab neeg no ma zoo li kv lub neej vim kv tu txiv twb yuav niam yau lawm ma tu siab kawg li os niam laus aw

[@mamkhawskojciahauvsiab7785]

😭😭😭😭

[@pntravels7514]

Cov txiv neej hmoob no siab phem npaum li no es cas yuav ruam ua luaj li tseem pheej cia kom cov niag txiv dev tsim nas. Teb chaw vam meej no tsis muaj txiv dev yus yeej ua tau yus neej es txhob care cov txiv dev ntawv kiag.

[@nragxyoojchannel7265]

Lub niag neej lwj siab kos tsi xav mloog li lawm aws

[@nancyvang2126]

F... this kind of aswhol, sister the Lord loves, and glad you overcome this aswhol...turn to the Lord...

[@chuaxeemkhab3724]

cas txiv neej siab phem tiag2 li niam laus as yg kv yus yuav tau tus zoo ces g luaj twg o ho yg tau tus txiv g hlub yus ces ua dab g los g zoo rau lawv li o

[@Aurora-cb2ji]

Women need to stop blaming themselves and the other women because of their husband. Husbands make their own decisions. If a husband wants a good wife he will be happy with a good wife. If man wants to mess around, he will.

[@nyiajhawjxyooj]

0k me muam me aw koj mas txawj hais tiag2 lis os ua tsaug pub rau koj mog.

[@vavang2287]

Txojkev UV mas UV tiag tuag tiag nawb!!!!!!

[@naibmua8014]

Yg

[@jertongvang6158]

I’m

[@bliathao5878]

Tus me niam tsev aws tsi txhob tu siab os mog ntshai koj los pem ntuj ub los koj yeej nqa daim ntawv phem los ua neej nyob ntiaj teb no los uv tus txiv neej siab phem li ntawm xwb

[@katewan9956]

Peb cov niamtsev Hmoob pheej xav lub tswvyim ruam2 li koj xwb, thiaj nkim peb coob tus lub neej. Nco ntsoov tias thaum mob txaus2 ti txha nkaus lawm ces luag tsis hais los yus yeej tso tau.

[@xaihlub34]

Boring but at least she wasn't desperate for a new man after she divorced him. Don't love your spouse too much or serve like queen and king. Not me. I don't serve him like my king. He's doing some work in the house, too. If he complains about my food, then he need to cook. I'm not his maid. Lol

[@julieannayang657]

Sister, peb cov poj niam sometimes koj muab koj tus txiv hlub dhau lawm es koj tsis nco qab tu koj tus kheej lawm es koj tsis zoo nkauj rau nws lawm es nws thiaj ua siab phem rau koj, seb hnub no pom koj tu koj tus kheej zoo2 nkauj nws twb tsis kam nrauj koj.peb cov poj niam yuav tsum nco ntsoov hlub yus tus kheej thiab tu yus tus kheej kom zoo nkauj mas txiv neej thiaj khuv xim yus ho

[@dejntshiabhawj8224]

Good for you sister. My ex- husband used some of those words that your husband used to you for me too. My ex run away with someone else wife and we got divorce and I remarried 18 years now

[@dejntshiabhawj8224]

I am very happy with my marriage now

[@beautyyushon9003]

Gd luck sister. Gd decision

[@kongthao3912]

She's saying Koj txiv sounds too nice. Lol

[@amazinggrace8136]

If your significant other is cheating on you and will NOT stop, leave! Do not stay and get stepped on hoping one day they might come back. You can change your future! There is someone who will love you. If not, it’s better to be alone than to be with someone who doesn’t love you anyways.

[@colleenbui1009]

Kuv tsis tau taub rau cov Níam tsev hmoob uas tus txiv tsis hlub nej! Thov kom nej tau taub hais tias thaum tej lawv cov txiv neej hmoob noj lawv tsis hlub nej lawm thov kom nej txhob nyiaj hnub quaj rau lawv. Yog nej ua li no ces lawv yeem muaj ntsej muag ua phem ntxiv rau nej, yog nej ua siab Loj Es mus ua lub neej tshiab xwb kom lawv Pom tau hais peb poj niam hmoob kuj muaj peev xwm tsis ntshai cov txiv neej no thiab.

[@youavu1433]

Ntseeg tsis tau tseem muaj cov viv ncau xav li nos nyob rau tiam nos.

[@eiathorthor9867]

To lawv hai tia cov neeg ua coj tu cwj pwm li khob dej ua puv 2 lawm lwm tu yuav hliv dej ntxiv npaum cas los phwj 2 li phwj xwb yeej tsi nkag ntxiv ces zoo ib yam li koj tiag ua neeg nyob cia yus lub khob dej ib nta xwb kom lwm tu hliv lo yus tseem ntim ntau thiaj li ua neej kaj siab

[@lindawong1717]

Ntuj aw....poj hmoob aw...tsis tim koj tus txiv os tim koj yog tus neeg bwb xwb nas cov neeg es tso Dr tseg ces tsim nyog txom nyem lawm.mas nawb

[@luvinniceboxers]

This one should be titled, "Mob siab vwm tag rau txiv neej xwb" LOL

[@MsBL32]

You took a long time to leave your horrible cheating husband, because you had to learn it for yourself and love yourself before you were ready to leave. I’m glad you did. We are women who have to love ourselves and be more confident in order to be happy. Thanks for your story.

[@pheejyajyaj5079]

Hi nyob zoo os niam lau kv xav muab kv li neej neeg rau kj pab tham thiab e yuav ua ca thiaj xa tau rau kj os

[@ณัฐสิทธิ์กตเวทีธรรม]

Cas nim tawm tau lawv os tseem muaj ib tug li tseem uv mob tawm tsis tau los li es yuav txog thaum twg kuv mam li tawm tau li koj es txoj kev lwj siab thiaj li plam mus os....

[@gaonoogvaj5398]

You should love yourself...children..don't care about men..they cheating all the time..

[@maipha8560]

Listening to this lady story gives me high blood pressure. Ladies, stop having all these kids where their dad is a deadbeat, cheating/infidelity should be non-negotiable and leave his a$$ the minute he cheats and walk off to another woman, and know your worth. One of the many reasons why these cheating husband continue to cheat is because you don't value yourself. I can't emphasize enough on stop having so many dang kids, when the husband is not around when you are together, the chances of him being around after you are not together is very slim. Too expensive to have so many kids in this country. Just have enough that you can afford, now is not the time to keep reproducing with the hope that will tied the husband to you. If anything, that makes them want to run away as far as they can. Take birth control or get your tube tied once you have enough that you can afford to raise.

[@MissPeachie]

Amen! For real, these women need to know that having many kids will only tie HER down, not the husband. He doesn’t give a crap about his kids, which is why he keeps cheating.

[@chailee2815]

I think only one side story lol!

[@leejmuam1]

I just don't understand these type of women. They have doctor and live in this country but didn't do a damn thing about birth control. Just keep popping babies. They talked as if they are in 1975 back in Laos.

[@chailee2815]

Gyl lily hahahahaha you’re got that right bro!

[@chailee2815]

Mai Pha yeah me too bro. I think she’s lying.

[@npisxiong657]

Yeej yog li kj hia lm niam luas aw

[@yenthoj9061]

👍👍👍👍

[@hmong7894]

Yog lawm koj yeem yog ib tus poj ruam .koj cos yog paub maub siab, tus siab es zoo ab cis nawb.

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Txhob tu Siab os mog, kuv li es kuv Twb tsis paub mus nrhiav Kev pab li koj es Hnub no kuv thiaj tseem nyob Zoo li no os tus mi niam tsev aw, thaum yus UA Tau ib Siab CES yus Twb Laus tas lawm es mus los tsis Zoo li kuv lawm os mog

[@meexiong9292]

Yog Tau tus txiv neej siab phem siab dub tshob cuab.ces tsis muaj nws lis xam Tia's Yu's dim txoj Kev lwj siab xwb o hmoob e. Kub yog ib tug uas Tau tus txiv neej siab phem siab dub tshob cuab hais lus phem thiab muaj lub siab Liam xyiam tshaj li ....tu siab uas Yu's Ruam dhau es muab uv nws kis ntev dhau mam li ua Tau ib siab nrauj Tau nws .thaum nrauj tag Yu's mam li paub Tia's tsis muaj tus neeg siab phem siab dub tshob cuab li nws nyob hauv Yu's lub neej lawm Yu's tseem Kaj siab dua na

[@koslis6833]

Sister take care of yourself first before your husband. He keep cheat on you no matter what. You should let him go. It's only temporary enjoy for him. When he go marry the other lady thing will change?

[@yerxiong2611]

Our Hmong women need to stop thinking that we are nothing without a husband. We need to love ourselves and move on, especially when your husband treats you this way.

[@tongyang6314]

Tus niam tsev aw...koj tus txiv tsis los hlub koj lawm ces ua ib siab tso nws mus thiab lau, nws twb tsis hlub koj cas koj yuav xav yuav nws ua luaj li na. Koj mas tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws li koj tus txiv hais tiag2 li lau.