My mom raised 8 girls and always say " let me not know better, you girls are smarter than me, don't do what I do, don't stay if he doesn't love you, life is too short."
@yingvang12763 жыл бұрын
My mother is exactly like this mother in law 😂. But I chose my own road.
@tsis-k-koj3 жыл бұрын
Doesn't matter man or women if you allow people to take advantage of you they will. Even when you have boundaries people will try to push those boundaries. If you have no boundaries people will walk all over you.
@thaocholyly44683 жыл бұрын
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@MissPeachie3 жыл бұрын
Wow, I couldn't agree more with this woman! She may not have a college degree, but she's probably smarter than some women that have their degrees. Yes, this is the 21st century, time to change our ways of thinking. We need to teach our daughters self-love and value. We also need to teach our sons to be better men.
@lubsuabdaisiabyaj48763 жыл бұрын
Some college degrees are only smart by reading not smart by the brains. I love those smart from the brains.
@JSVang Жыл бұрын
Agreed! 🙏
@tinayang84193 жыл бұрын
Yes mama! Get off from that toxic and unhealthy relationship. You deserve better! He doesn't deserve you! 🙏 Peridot!!
@mayalor50813 жыл бұрын
Wow I applaud this woman 💪💪 for speaking the truth and challenging hmong's so called "the norm." We are a patriarchal culture and majority of men use these so call rules to govern women and scare women. I am so proud of you for seeing that we women do not have to accept it!! More women need to see their woth and love themselves ♥️♥️❤️❤️. I know we've only been in the states for a short time but I feel education and knowledge will help us too. I believe that in the future Hmong women will not take this type of abuse. Thank you for your story. I've been waiting to hear this type of story 😘😘. May more women learn to love themselves and challenge the norm ♥️❤️.
@beautifulyang13023 жыл бұрын
Wow. I love this story. Everything she said is soo true
@3Dprintervang3 жыл бұрын
Yog thaum twg ob leeg tsis sib haum lawm ces kav tsij sib nraug ua ntej zoo dua nawv ....
Anyone got funny stories to share so we can hear May’s laughing? I miss her cute laugh.
@Divinely0203 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree! I miss hearing May Vang’s laughing. Please tell more funny stories, May.
@pkhang063 жыл бұрын
Yes to self respect and self love. 👏👏👏 Let's teach ourselves, our daughters, other women and society that respecting women is a must. ❤️💪
@asdpoqwer37273 жыл бұрын
You Hmong women still need lots of encouragements in order for Hmong men to change. Waiting for a year is too long. You are smart and strong. Cov laus tsis yog lawv siab loj thiab uv taus tabsis vim hmoob txoj dev npua cai yuam lawv xwb os. Nws siv tsis tau rau lub tebchaws no lawm.
Omg! Ladies know your worth and put your foot down for cheaters. Stop tolerating these cheaters. Any second staying with a cheater, you will not get that back. Know your non-negotiable and cheating should be #1 for non-negotiable. The sooner you leave a cheater, the sooner you can enjoy life and what's in the future.
@leemoua24402 жыл бұрын
I applaud you for being strong and I absolutely agree with you on we women have to change first and see value in us first. Don't wait on the men to change. That will NEVER EVER happen in this life time. You go sister! 👏👏👏
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments3 жыл бұрын
Came on Ladies...This is the 21st Century...Change begins with Us Younger Generation!!! We Must Be Smart & Love Ourselves First...Don't Tolerate Cheaters & Abusers!!!
@dub24653 жыл бұрын
I always believe that one should never force or beg anyone to stay with u. Love can never b forced cause u will only end up suffering more. Let them go n stay strong. U don’t need him to survive. Love urself n u will find that special someone that’s for u someday. And I never let those gossipers effect me. This is the new age. Change or u will b left behind. Best of luck!!!
@yeethor34543 жыл бұрын
Ua tsaug os me niam laus kj zaj neej neeg hai tau zoo heev li kv xav kom cov viv ncau uas uv2 tu txiv siab phem li no kom tau mloog tau kawm ua kev kawm paub os.
@atlasanyaandamazingplaces85973 жыл бұрын
Agree with you 💯 % lawm os.. Peb tsis zov tus txiv siab phem lawm os..pov tseg khib nyawb kiag xwb...
@godness77703 жыл бұрын
You go girl! I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself and for us women!
@shuavheu29923 жыл бұрын
Tos txiv neej saib tsis taus poj niam los peb cov poj niam kiag tseem ntxub tus poj niam uas raug tsim txom los ntawm txiv neej. Good for you for standing up for yourself!
@zoolee99923 жыл бұрын
Yes
@nangkue83713 жыл бұрын
Lady, you talk about how modern you are, but I still hear that tint of wanting to please your in-laws, friends, and extended family. You took all your dishes so you can provide for your husband's guest for his face. Girl, I'm way over that too. I cook when I want and feel like it. He cooks and cleans when he has the time. We occasionally go to family functions, but for the most part, we value our weekends and do short weekend trips out of town either by ourselves or with a few couples. When we have gatherings, the men do all the cooking and we both clean our house. My husband knows that the one time he cheats on me, the marriage is over. There's no me waiting for a year for him to return. I am nearly 50 years of old. There's no sense in wanting to keep a man who doesn't want to be kept. A man has to want you beyond your look, for your physical beauty and health will slowly fade away. He has to want your soul, your being.
@pajlugtswb53413 жыл бұрын
Hais tau yog kawg.......kuv txaus siab rau koj stay strong
@amandavang47473 жыл бұрын
It's true poj niam txiv neej los tham tsis tau hluas nkaug hluas nruag kiag li os niam pog aw
@nkaujhnubxyooj50043 жыл бұрын
Nrauj Thaum hluas zoo tshaj li tos laus mam nrauj mog cov mi niam tsev.
@tinatang86493 жыл бұрын
I agree with you sis, peb cov poj niam ces tos peb ua ib siab los twb yeej tsis muaj chaw mus lawm peb thiaj li nrauj, cov txiv dev ntawd thuam peb kawg, tabsis nws ho mus khee luag qub mas cav qab kawg thiab uv2 mob stroke kiag
@bchang2273 жыл бұрын
Change begins with you. We need to teach our children to do better than the last generation. We need to break away from this generational curse that's holding us back from our full potential.
@ThePrincessWorrior3 жыл бұрын
💯%
@puayang25063 жыл бұрын
Best story... thank you for being a good role model. I hope women would follow your advice and this old tradition will die. I could never understand why women allow their men to cheat and why women would date married men. How other women treat divorced women... change is needed now.
@flryprn7452 жыл бұрын
Thank u to many hmoob women of your generation who fought long n hard for women’s rights. Today, hmoob women R getting smarter n higher education has strengthen their minds n thinkings…… N thanks to mekas, land of the FREE, who gives equal opportunities to all!
@yl62703 жыл бұрын
Koj hais yog lawm os tus sister aw ua tsaug nawb mog
@xethao93043 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg lawm os tus me niam tsev, kuv los yeej sav li koj thiab
@ely72223 жыл бұрын
Tus viv ncaus koj mas ua yog lawm yuav tsum ua li ko zoo heev 🤗
@YajMorey813 жыл бұрын
Good lecture to some women who still can’t let go a loser husband.
@shirleythao16793 жыл бұрын
I love your story sister. Yes you are very right! I agreed with you! If the husband cheats he is out of ourlives bye and open door and open minded to someone way better will give you equality and honor love.
@Demacia923 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg cov poj niam es hais tias uv tsi tuag cia tug txiv ua hluas mas yog neeg tsuam tshaj plawg li lawm
Good for u sister! I'm glad u smarten up and your mentality got stronger. I believe the same as u.
@nkaujsuav18403 жыл бұрын
Yog kawm li koj hais lawm os
@sallyyang88102 жыл бұрын
Hais tau yog tshaj li os tus Viv ncaus aw. Yuav tau coj li koj coj ko thiaj li tsis rau lub neej yav laus os
@Aicas3463 жыл бұрын
Preach woman! 💯 This is what every hmong woman should do & don’t have the old mindset like the old days. Be smart!
@seannthor69543 жыл бұрын
You women are killing my chance at having a second wife......please be patient! Men like me will change , lol......
@baothao17283 жыл бұрын
You men don’t think about the second wife now days. You will got kick out in a second Lol 😂
@jennyX4153 жыл бұрын
@@baothao1728 aa
@nraughmoobkhosiabxiong72793 жыл бұрын
Ib tug txiv neej ua xwb txhob muab rau peb vov txiv neej hmong ev tag nro na leej twg ua ces cia leek twg ev xwb txhob muab rau txiv neej hmoob tag nro ev mog.
ua ca hai tau zoo lua li kv ma nym kj cov neej neeg heev li pab txawb zog 6kj zaj no nb
@alexthao41183 жыл бұрын
Koj hais yog lawm sister
@yonglor81823 жыл бұрын
Ua tau txaus siab kawg li
@hoasung57073 жыл бұрын
Koj haig yog kawg li lawm os
@lengvang23483 жыл бұрын
Yog lawm tsi muaj ib txoj cai hiss tais yuav tau niam yau.hmoob txoj caj uas yog dev puas cai es thiaj yuav tau niam tau xwb. Tiam twg yog puab hais tiaskev nkauj kev nrug yog kev txhaum no mas txhiaj tsi yuav niam tais thiab tsi yuav tau xwb os
@yingvang12763 жыл бұрын
I feel and think exactly like the sister in this story. Similar experience
@maimoua13713 жыл бұрын
Yog lawm wakeup all suffering women lawv men saib g taus 3 vim 3 twb khov g txaus thiab hnub twg g muaj tus niam tsev ces nws yeej kawg mag kwv tij txib hlob quav bua xwv thiab tiag
@hello-vy4fb3 жыл бұрын
Hais tseeb, apple poob tsis deb ntawm tsob ntoo yog leej txiv xuaj ces tub yeej xuaj, peb cov ntxhais yuav tau rua muag saib, mloog niam txiv hais, yog tus lawv tsis pom zoo lawm ces yeej tsis zoo.
@visaylee56513 жыл бұрын
Good job 👍 stand for your right. Hmoob txoj cai yog Dev Npua Cai txoj swb.
@gaosayvu65543 жыл бұрын
Cov uas nyiam ua niam hlob Niam yau ces yog maum dev txiv dev xwb os
@vamntujlaim3 жыл бұрын
Peb cov hmoob tseem pib ua lub neej xwb es yeej yuav muaj tej kev sib nrauj kom txog hnub peb kawm dhau lawm peb thiaj li txawj ua lub neej os. Leejtwg tsis Pom dej dag ces ua mas, yus thiaj li Paub . Tseeb tiag ces yus txawj ua ces yus rov zoo tau tabsis feem coob ces ua tag lub neej plam tag. Vim li no peb hmoob thiaj muaj Nkauj nrab nraug nrab coob li coob.
@nkaujhmoobchannel59133 жыл бұрын
Yog tshaj li os...kv lub neeg ces yog kiag li ko hais os
@chang35683 жыл бұрын
Yes! Another smart woman!
@gaoie5303 жыл бұрын
Hais yog kawg li lawm os. Gotta have some self-respect.
@kellyvue9743 жыл бұрын
Women we need to stand up for our right knowing that we are important as men. 21st century we need to change now & forward.
@user-vz5bf2oe2y3 жыл бұрын
heev kawg kuj tsis pom qab yov hais zaj twg zoo tej zaum koj kuj lam nrauj xwb tseem mob koj kawg. es peb ua neej nyob tsis hais tus poj niam los txiv neej tsis txhob muab yus lub siab 100 rau vim thaum tsis raws yus txoj kev xav lawm es thiaj tsis mob heev ua luaj lwm npaj no ces xyuam xim es thiaj li mob tsawg me ntsis nawb. lawv hais tias heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim no es cia seb pos muaj li.
@TheOnly1chaos3 жыл бұрын
Hais yog tshaj plaws!!!
@xmeivaj69763 жыл бұрын
It takes a strong woman to put up with men bosiaj!!!
@pajthao48133 жыл бұрын
Xav kom peb cov vivncaus hmong xav li koj xav es thiaj tsis raug tsim li yav tag los
@nancyvang21263 жыл бұрын
Tus niam tsev no kuj hais yog kawg lawm, peb cov poj niam yuav tsum paub sib koom siab sib hlub, sib fwm, thiab sib txhawb rau qhov zoo. Peb yuav tau qhia peb cov ntxhais kom txhob tham txhob muab yus lub pilib no rau cov txiv nej ua muaj poj niam aim, vim lwm hnub koj los yuav paub laus ib yam ces cov ntxhais hluas ntawv yuav ua rau koj thiab no nawb...
@louher38553 жыл бұрын
Yog li koj hais lawm os peb los ua neeg nyob ces tus txiv ua rau yus los yeej tsis zoo hos peb tus txiv hlub hais tsis taus peb es peb cov poj niam los txhob tham2 hluas nraug thiab os lawv los mob2 siab li peb mob thiab os zoo tshaj ces ib tug yuav tsum hlub ib tug es txhob sib ua rau sab nrauv xwb os tej no ces yeej tsis zoo rau ob le li peb tiam tam sim no ces poj niam muaj cai lawm ces cov txiv twb nyoo ntau lawm tsuas yog li ib kuag tus lawm xwb os cov coob ces cov txiv nyoo poj niam lawm os yus pom cov nroog poj niam mas yus kuj hlub thiab os koj hais ntau tseem yuav muab tus mus kaw ces lawv ntshai2 kawg os zoo li cas los sib hlub es txhob siab phem xwb os
@nengthao83183 жыл бұрын
Yog lawm. Kev uv yuav tsum yog tsim nyog tseem uv taus mas thiaj li uv. Yog dhau qhov uv tsis nyog lawm tsis tas uv uv li lawm. Nyob teb chaws vam meej sawv daws vaj huam yuav tsum sib luag. Xyov yuav yog tiam twg es poj niam li txawj hlub poj niam es cov tsis muaj txiv tsis txhob mus tham tham luag tej txiv lawm es cov niag txiv neej dev thiaj li tsis muaj muaj plhus rau txoj kev ua hluas lawm os hmoob. Tej teeb meem no ces yog pib los ntawm cov poj niam tsis muaj txiv pheej mus tham luag tej txiv nkaus xwb.
Awesome story! I told agree with is lady! Stop living in the past ladies! These men out here, think they are all that ....
@dlejsawmsiavpubraukoj58603 жыл бұрын
Niag tsov tom poj niam dev liam li koj kos es thiaj li muaj cov poj nrauj li koj kos ma lov
@kouaxiong45763 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much...the stores u has preaching is so wonderful for me to no...i thank you!..keep up the good work...bye!
@magicalunicorn58533 жыл бұрын
Finally a woman who has a sense of her worth! Thank you. When you stop accepting the things you want to change, that’s when change happens. Yes we desire love, sex and everything a human being needs to connect to another human and we are not afraid to demand it. We too deserve respect, equality to make this life worth living. Being strong means making change, not enduring pain til the next life. Women, lift each other up and stop fighting on the wrong side of men.
@praneeanan15283 жыл бұрын
txheej thaum ub poj niam tsi muaj chaw mus vim kev nrhiav noj nyuab cov poj niam thiaj uv li uv xwb.. tim si nim no peb cov poj niam tsi uv kev txim txom lawm vim peb txawj nrhiav noj duas txiv neej lawm.
@mvng15163 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I love hearing strong & powerful stories.
@springday70133 жыл бұрын
I hate that Hmong mentality that men are superior so therefore they can date or marry other girls. My MIL had this same mindset. She took care of my FIL for 15 years and always complained how he never loved her or show affection. I told my MIL, that’s because you put him on a pedestal. What do you expect.
@xohugsandkissesxo3 жыл бұрын
Women powerrr!!!!
@xaihlub343 жыл бұрын
At least it’s not a cheater come here to preach and lecture.
@MissPeachie3 жыл бұрын
I agree. I hate it when those men with niam yau send in their lectures. Those are annoying and not worth telling.
@pajiab37183 жыл бұрын
Kuv tu txiv lo yeej zoo li zaj neej neeg no thiab o kuv tu txiv ma zai siab tham hlua nkauj thiab lwj siab heev li o
@nkaujhmoobchanel26983 жыл бұрын
Niam lau aw tso koj lub neej rau peb pog os niam lau
@devinvang64123 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU, FINALLY!!! Preach on Sister!!!!
@JRxwb3 ай бұрын
There are many more things we ladies don’t need to put up with guys doing to us not just cheating. Do whatever is right for you and you know that you deserve. You don’t need to put up with his way if he is not treating you right the way you treat him. Who cares what others say… it’s not their life. When is their turn… they will do what is right for them too. More Powers to you 👍👍👏👏 he don’t deserve you just like how your parents saw in him.
@vkaotxia77793 жыл бұрын
Tsoom me niam tsev txhob ntshaw mus tu ib tug laus da quaj da zis es yuav lawv qhov nyiaj mog txoj niag kev npam no txhob ntshaw, tsis tau tu ib tug laus ces yog tau ntawv zoo los ua neej nawb es txhob ruam2 mog
@phominiklee36543 жыл бұрын
niam May aw cas hais rau nej cov pojniam yuav xwb kuv tsi pom cov pojniam ua li koj hais kuv pom peb txiv neej ua rau pojniam ntau tshaj lawm
@QaibT3 жыл бұрын
Cov me muam aw... Tam sim no g muaj pog nplas yawg nplas lawm os.. Yog nej ntshai. Ces mus tom vaj tswv lub zos xwb . vaj tswv tos peb txhua2 tus na
@randomdudeicommenthere37433 жыл бұрын
Let be happy 😃 be better because they not ur life
@caaspasvang74273 жыл бұрын
Sister Cas Tsi hais txog koj niag txiv lub neej zoo li cas lawm es cia li quab qhia pom niam lawm xwb pab tu siab os
@somman96393 жыл бұрын
Tej laus luag yeej paub zoo lub noob txiv ntseej yeej poob tsis deb ntawm hauv paus ntseej thaum lub txiv ntseej nyuam ghuav tuaj pos tus pos tseem muag chob neeg tsi tau mob tab sis thaum tus pos tawv lawm chob ko taw ntshab plaws ntag ov . Nej nco ntsoov tias noob poob tsisdeb ntawm hauv paus muaj tseeb tiag ?
@nkaujhmoobchanel26983 жыл бұрын
Niam lau aw kuv yog i tug neeg nyiam nloog dab neeg heev koj kav tsij hias naw
@katewan99563 жыл бұрын
Cov txivneej siab phem li ko ces thov lub ntuj kom npam nws rab qau kom tuag ntsws ntsee tseg. Nws lub ntsej muag ntawd yeej tsis muaj nqis ntxiv.
@xiamoua22673 жыл бұрын
Zoo kawg os ua tau li ko ces zoo kawg muab nrauj pov tseg mam nrhiav dua tshiab os mog ua tsaug uas koj tseem qhia pub rau peb ib tsoom niam tsev paub thiab ceev faj ua ntej os mog
@pornthippornthip29183 жыл бұрын
Koj lub neej zoo nkaus kuv lub kiag.
@minecraftboy26763 жыл бұрын
Sister, you are so right about if the husband is doing things are wrong to you. Get rid of the disease before it kills you.
@xgolfman3 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you for being strong for all the weak Hmonb women out there. Hopefully my Hmonb brothers will stop fooling around and respect their wives.
@user-uv8ep7gm2i3 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg mas kuv twb ntsib li koj hais ko lawm os tus mi niam laus siab zoo aw
@emp1slf3 жыл бұрын
Amen!🙌👏👏
@kiannalyyong95073 жыл бұрын
KUV AGREE NROG KOJ OS TUS MI NIAM TSEV..🙏
@pachoualor32693 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg! Love this 👌🏻
@ThePrincessWorrior3 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼for the lady’s courage to let go after only one year of tolerating. But much as she tried to preach, she may have let go of her cheating husband, she still took along her old mindset of being a looser, valueless hmoob women mindset. Twb tiam 21 no lawm es pojniam hmoob tseem tsis tau kam tso tseg txoj niag kev ua txiv neej qhev kom tau plhu, txoj niag kev tias tsam tsis muaj chaw tuag, txoj kev ntseeg tias tsis muaj txiv ces tsis muaj lub neej no thiab los?
@jalynnkat3 жыл бұрын
I’m here for a story not a lecture.
@leejmuam13 жыл бұрын
Yeap. Lately May stories is half lectures. I don't listen to asuch anymore. I like other youtubers now, their stories is more of stories and no lecture.
@tusiabmoua91693 жыл бұрын
NROG KOJ ZOO SIAB UAS KOJ KUJ MADE TAU THE RIGHT DECISION, COV LAUS CES LAWV YEEJ PAB 2 LAWV COV TUB
@muajtsimvangchanel58693 жыл бұрын
yog lawm o niam lau aw cas hai yog ua luaj
@denamoua72623 жыл бұрын
Tsis muaj ib tug txiv tshiab yuav hlub taus ib pab menyuam.poj nrauj ruam cia poj nrauj los tsim nws.kom nws sign ntawv nrauj sai y rau koj xwb
@Loves_DuckSR3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all the great tips, sister!
@neejkhuamsiabyang29443 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg tiam 21 nov mus tsis txhob hais tias uv tsis tuag no dag xwb. yog uv tiag ces tuag tiag nawb tsis txhob cia txiv neej hmoob tau 2 zoo tsuj peb poj niam hmoob lawm nawb .nws ua saib tsis tau peb poj niam hmoob los peb yuav tsum ua kom saib cov niag txiv dev hmoob siab phem li no thiaj poob teb chaw.