Txhob Xav Tias Kuv Tsis Muaj Siab Ntsws. 1/11/2020

[@senglee8941]

Doesnt matter if it's blood, You stood up for what you believed in from the beginning and you made all the right choices. You deserve to be happy because even if it's blood, it's toxic. It is okay to leave toxic people behind and live your life. Im proud of you. Also I believe that many hmong women wish they took your route of life instead of suffering for others. People change and you cant change that. They might love you now, but they are not the same person they were 10 years ago and might not love you anymore. You cant control that. You were right from Day 1. Continue to fight for yourself and your life. ❤❤❤

[@maivmaiv1916]

Tus viv ncaus aw, peb cov ntxhais hmoob ces sawv daws raug tib txoj kev li koj ko os. Tiam twg peb tseem yog hmoob ces peb cov niam txiv hmoob yeej tsi hloov li os. Koj niam koj txiv, koj nus, koj cov txiv ntxawm lawv ua tsi yog lawm os. Peb tuaj txog lub teb chaw no thiab tiam no peb yuav tau hloov os mog. Yog li koj thiab kuv cov menyuam peb yuav tau hloov txhob ua li koj cov neej tsa ua rau koj lawm os mog. Kuv yeej nrog koj tu siab kawg nkaus li os. Qhov koj nrhiav dua tus tshiab yog ib qho zoo tshaj li lawm os mog.

[@chaiyang2792]

Niam laus aw cov neej tsa no g txob tos lawm txoj kev hlub os kv xav tia muaj kv thiaj tu siab xwb no

[@staceylee9773]

So proud the woman you are. You stood for what was best for you but your dad did apologize and you’re just going to have to be the bigger person and find it in your heart to forgive your father & your family and move pass your past. You’re in a good place and you deserve it. ♥️

[@maivlishwjchannel7439]

Tus viv ncaus aw koj hais tau zoo heev li os

[@maivlishwjchannel7439]

Kuv tuaj pab nia thiab caum koj lawm os koj pab kuv thiab os

[@chang3568]

Your dad is wrong in so many level. I don't think I can love him. I'm glad you're a strong women. God blessed you.

[@dejnaghlub7475]

Kuv cov neej tsa coj li koj cov thiab os, yug los ua ib tug Ntxhais hmoob ces tu tu siab li koj kawg Tab si kuv thov qhuas koj nawb!!!

[@nkaujneebvwj6516]

Ua ca mloog kj txoj no yuav siab ua luaj li o ca kj txiv yuav ua tau li ko rau koj o tu niam laus aw

[@darleneyang582]

Cov niag txiv neej hmoob coj li koj txiv twb tuag yuav tag rau tiam 21 no.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

Old traditions are messed up! Makes no sense to me! I'm glad you found someone who loves you, sister!

[@suelor9212]

😭😭😭😭😭 tu siab heev

[@cimvimkjthoj3578]

Niam lau aw cas koj nim zoo li kv thiab os cas luag thiaj muaj cai xwb muab xav ces tus siab kawg li txawm li cas los peb ib tsoov viv ncau nco ntsoov tia yus hlub yus tus kheej nawj mog

[@kangvang8651]

Koj txiv tseem nyob rau 75 os kuv xav mas koj ua yog lawm os nrhiav dua zoo tshaj lawm os 👍👍👍

[@LajNyob]

Txhua yam koj ua yeej yog tas nrho tsis muaj qhov yuam kev lawm os me muam. Koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd mas nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb.

[@cmxiong8989]

The OG parents never changed until someone tortured them. Glad you found your way out and have a good happy life.

[@martineyang2298]

Zzzßßs in

[@kaxiong3318]

Seriously! Your dad is viciously cold blooded to eventually alienated you as his own fleshing blood daughter. Sis, you did the right thing by moving forward strong and bold without turning back. Everyone deserves a happy life and marriage. This older generation of dads are always in the patriarchal world; degrading women in all perspectives. As Hmong women, we have to learn to fight for what’s right and wrong. We have to live our lives prosperously and righteously to our hearts. Uv tsis tau xyoo dhau xyoo.

[@Nkaujhmoolis]

Cov txiv neej hmoob og li koj txiv Ko xav tias poob tag rau nplog teb lawm no tseem tsuav thiab los. Koj ua yog kawg li lawm os me niam hluas. Good job!!

[@maimoua4647]

Wow what's a crazy father ever tus me niam tsev aw koj lub neej mas thiaj txawj txom nyem siab tshaj li os nrog koj zoo siab tau 1 lub neej zoo lawm hos koj txiv koj cov nus lub hlwb tseem nyob lub year 75th g tau hloov li

[@pangyang648]

Koj ua yog lawm os me viv ncaus kuv twb muaj ib zaj neej neeg li koj thiab os

[@nusa1901]

Yog li koj hai kawg

[@nengyyang8161]

Koj txiv nws twb pom nws txoj kes txhaum lawm koj yuav tau ua siab ntev rov mus hlub nws yog muaj nws thia muaj koj , peb cov Hmoob lub siab tseem coj qub qub lis koj niam thiab koj txiv ntawm.

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Kj txiv lub tswv yim Ruam tshaj li, kj txiv mam Los them kj 2,000 nyiaj rau lwm tiam, kj txiv yeej ua tsis yog rau kj kiag li lawm os, kv yeej pab kj ntshav siab kawg li thiab, kj tus txiv Tau niam yau thiab tseem Tau kj 2,000 nyiaj thiab nws mas ntshe zoo siab heev li os

[@sheepie8288]

I blame you for one reason too.... for not telling ur people y ur ex husband cheat on u... because he want a revenge on ur parents... if they knew that they might not b so hard on u

[@pliayang783]

Nrog koj tus siab uas koj yug los tau rau ib leej phem niam txiv thiab tau ib leej selfishness idiot ex-husband that you have to experience from, but at the same time I am happy for you. You did the right thing I applaud you 👏👏👏for the courage you have and moved on. Good people will mostly meet another good person in their life. May god bless you and your family.

[@changlee3601]

Muaj ib txhia cov laus yeej coj cwj pwm thiab lub siab qub qub tsis txo fwj chim thiab hloov raws ntiaj teb tiam no thiaj poob qab. Zoo siab tias koj txoj kev txiav txim siab yog thiab zoo rau koj lub neej lawm mog

[@chongmoua9382]

Ua neeg nyob tsis hais cov laus cov hluas... yog tsis muaj kev ntseeg ruaj khov los kav koj lub siab lub cev... nrog rau kev kawm thiab yuav tsum muaj txoj kev dawb huv siab zoo mas thiaj li tsis ntsib txoj kev puas tsuaj nawb mog....Ua Tsaug

[@lizyang3327]

Like the saying goes, "blood is thicker than water" your dad probably thought he was going to side with your low life ex-husband to prove his loyalty but reality is it backfired. So proud of you to stand your ground. What's right is right what's wrong is wrong! Clear & simple!

[@nkaujhmoobleelee6590]

Cas zaj neej neeg no hai raug peb cov nyob teb chaw nplog tiag tiag li os

[@Beautifulliesnamee]

You’re a strong woman !!!

[@มาวื่-ย7ช]

Koj ua yog lawm nawb

[@penny8193]

Tu siab yug los ua hmoob ib tug ntxhais. Thaum twg mam lis tsis zoo lis no lawm?

[@luvinniceboxers]

This one should be titled, "Vim kuv txiv ruam!" Hahaha... all jokes aside, just live your life. Who cares what the hmong community thinks. IGNORE that hmong ego and you'll be much happier.

[@huabcylauj795]

Koj ua yog lawm o

[@paajRose]

Wow! Not all Hmong dad's are like this but I'm glad you stood up for yourself. You don't need anyone to justify your actions because you are the one who's receiving the repercussions. Your happy ending is all everyone needs to see or hear. Be strong sister!

[@Tpyang81]

Forgiving our parents is a core task of adulthood, and one of the most crucial kinds of forgiveness. We see our parents in our mates, in our friends, in our bosses, even in our children. When we've felt rejected by a parent and have remained in that state, we will inevitably feel rejected by these important others as well. But letting our parents off the hook, is the first step toward happiness, self-acceptance and maturity. ❤️

[@whatheck6797]

Mommy Pua Well said!

[@kasniblis3746]

I agree with all the comments already made. But I really want to praise the sister in this story for advocating for what is fair, right, and in what she believes. Hmong community is such a patriarchal society that is enabled by us women as well. We need to shift that mindset and not look at it by gender, but by what is the humane way to treat people. Until our Hmong elders and leaders can shift their mindset, we will always have this challenge. But many of us are making that change already, and it's no longer a matter of how, but when. Thank you.

[@yl7495]

Kasnib Lis Totally agree with you. As a whole, hmong people will never progress enough to actually acknowledge and respect individual human dignity. It’s up to us, as individuals, to change that for our own selves.

[@gaonenglee3073]

I agree with you

[@彭心付]

😭😭yog kawg o yus cov neej tsa tsi hlub ma tu siab tshaj li tiag

[@touayang1051]

Tim cov neej tsav saib tsis taus cov ntxhais saib tsis khuab qhov muag es cov txiv thiaj yuav 2 niam yau . Tsev mhoob twg ua poj niam thiab txiv neej tsis muaj Vaj huam sib luag ces tsis vam meej.

[@Fraintiscrip]

1000 leej muaj 1 tug lub neej zoo li no , vim ib leeg niam leej txiv twg koj yog lawv yug lawv yeej hlub yus tshaj ,thaum xub thawj lawv yeej pom tias tus txiv no yuav tsis hlub koj txog hnub kawg lawv thiaj kom nrauj ,es koj twb tsis nrauj ,yog li koj yuav tau xav zoo zoo txhob tu siab rau yus niam yus txiv nawb mog. Muaj coob leej niam thiab txiv tsis pub sib nrauj thaum kawg lub neej rov zoo lawm es ua zoo xav mog

[@thomassimneej7921]

Zoo siab koj mus tau lub neej zoo lawm. Dev npua tsis noj siab ntsws, ntuj tseem rub tes thiab - wishing you good luck and a lot of happiness! Life is short keep doing good things - You should only love those who love you! Don't waste your time caring for someone who have thrown you away...

[@mabyugyajteb7133]

1 tim koj txiv thaib koj niam cov lus hais 2 tim koj tus txiv yeej tsis hlub koj tiag 3 koj ua yog lawm .... rau saib ua koj lub neej kom zoo hlub koj tus txiv niam hnub no .. leeg twg ua zoo yeej tauv zoo xwb os

[@puayang2506]

I am so proud of you. You stand on your own two feet and fight for your own happiness and respect. When we as women can do this, men will not trample on us. We do not have to be patient after patient after patient. Men are not above us and does not have the right to do whatever they want because of their men head. God bless your marriage and continue to thrive despite of your family.

[@ibobpebplaub9354]

Of course, anyone can do whatever they want including the parents... but when you life goes south, don't blame on the parent like this woman does.... any parent wants the best for their kids and this woman defied that and go married someone they disapprove of, now her life is in a mess and she blamed the parent and become bitter.

[@puayang2506]

For our generation, girls arent considered as family but outsiders. Parents specially the men care note about their reputation and face then the girls best interest. Fidelity is considered a norm and a mans right. I am glad that the few decades we spent here, the women's worth and happiness has improved quite well.

[@ibobpebplaub9354]

@@puayang2506 You are wrong, you need to go back and learned our culture carefully and more if that's what you think.... You know why the parents always give more attention to the boy and are happy when they have a boy? That's because back in the day, when the girl grow up and get married that means she must go and take care of the parent of her husband... But when the boy was born, his entire life was to dedicate and take care of the parents, when the parents get old... he has to give them foods, showered them, cleaned them and when the parents died.... He is the one who used his money to do the funeral, if in Laos it means cows and pigs but over here in U.S it's money and sometimes it's $100k or more.... No one never asked the daughter to chip in any money or responsibility but the boy.........people today always said whenever there's a party, it's always the girls who work hard by preparing foods but you ever notice how the pre-cook foods ever get there? it's the boys who go killed the cows, bring in the tents, set up all the heavy stuffs prior to the party.......I'm not saying there's no such bad parents in the Hmong community because there is but not this case...She always blamed her parent for being too strict, blaming her parents for not like her husband, blaming them for not let her divorcing her husband but she never blamed herself........She has the guts to rebelled against her parents when she was young and why can't she do it when she was adult? She said her parents cuts her off because she find happy life but what happy life? she went off and have an affair, that's not happy life...that's infidelity!!!! In our culture, infidelity is considered as the worst kind of crime second only to killing.....

[@kanoogyang9999]

Pua Yang you are fucking annoying.😂 ALL of your comments annoy me. You need to stop putting men on a pedestal. Men need women as much as women need men, if not then more.

[@puayang2506]

@@ibobpebplaub9354in the old days that is what it was. They sold their daughters like lifestocks and expect nothing in return. In the us, the girls donas much for the parents as the boys. That traditional thinking is dying as women gain more rights and can think for themselves. If u like the culture so much move to laos where male is entitled and king. Oh wait, revolution there too. Newer generation of girls working and leaving this male dominated culture behind too....

[@likes5209]

Tej niag laus siab phem tej niag leej txiv yeej coj tsis zoo yeej phem thiaj tsis hlub tej ntxhais xwb luag cov coj zoo luag yeej saib raws txoj cai nawb mog cov viv ncaus aw

[@panpanxiong7109]

Yog kawg os tus niam laus aw peb hmoob ces cov txiv neej ua dab tsi lo yeej tsi txhaum os ho cov ntxhais ces ua dab tsi lo txhaum tag li xwb peb hmoob txoj cai yeej tsi ncaj ncees

[@NploojHmong911]

Ruam Shit zaj dab neeg no mas cas yuav meem txom ua luaj li

[@niammeejvaj5172]

it true what she say at the end of the day the one can kill you is your blood. What doesn’t kills us only make us stronger. I’m happy you let go and move on with your life with or without your parents and brothers 👏🏼👍🏼🙏🏼❤️

[@douayang2163]

Lub ntsej muag yog ntsej laib ces lub yeej yog laib 100%

[@zongvue2297]

Kj txiv hais yog vim kj tsis mloog lus thaum first time nes kj mloog thaum ntxov ne nim no kj yuam kev loj kawg li txhob Tu siab vim hmoob tus ntxhais yeej tsis muaj cai li tus sister . Txhob Tu siab os mog

[@monkeybanana9269]

Some Hmong families are mess up like this. But I don't understand though, if you are not financially dependent on your family's support, why do you want a to get permission for divorce from your father and relatives? It should be decided just between your partner and you. I think this story is old because time have changed a lot. Divorces are more acceptable now days.

[@normoua6165]

Poj niam/txiv neej muaj vaj huam sib luag. Tus niam tsev, kuv txhawb koj.

[@txhobtxhawjheev8588]

Abuse of parental rights. Observe your situation-if all go well, stay with the people in your life..if not go well, let them go and find happiness for you and your children. Most Hmong parents do things in their best interest and not consider the affects of their doings to their children. Good luck!

[@82Brightstar]

Her story sounds like much of it She lies & exaggerates I don’t believe most of her story 😏

[@kayingmoua1212]

Sister, you were in the middle of your parents & ex-hubby. You haven't done any wrong except wanting everyone to get along & love each other. But obviously your parent's & ex-hubby had their own plans at their own times. I'm glad you stood your ground and moved on. It's best for you & your kids.

[@kayherrs9876]

I'm glad you stop shedding tears for those who are your own but treat you like a stranger! I would be tub siab too. I'm sorry this happened to you. Stay strong 💪!

[@suasung3774]

Txhua 2 yam no yeej yog tim koj txiv nkaus xwb yog yog koj txiv txhob ntxub2 koj tus txiv ua ntej no tem zaum koj tus txiv yuav tsis tig ntsim koj thiab tab sis zoo siab koj twb mus tau lub neej zoo lawm os mog

[@tonythao4937]

Yog kawg kuv ma dhuav kawg li thiab Muaj tej tus neeg ma Siab ntsw yeej muaj Tab si niag tsi paub pauv mus rau qhov zoo li Tsi kam ua raw feem coob li yuav zoo tsi zoo lo tsi paub pauv li dhuav kawg.

[@yinglee1160]

Hmoob yeej muaj qhov niag zoo li ko. I’m in my 40’s. I have not seen that. Only your dad n uncle r wayyy over the limit. Glad u got out n have a happy life now.

[@sichanhsichanb3387]

kj yeej liam g mloog nyiam txiv hai ce nyuam qhuav txim xb o kj na

[@xeekha]

tus me vivcaus koj ua tau thiab ua yog lawm paub tus siab li koj thiaj ua tau ib siab nawb.

[@wamoua788]

Koj ua yog lawm , kuv tuaj koj tog nawb tus muam.

[@รัชนีแซ่ย่าง-ฃ2ส]

Koj xaiv txoj hauv kev uas kaj siab xwb tsis muab leej twg yuav thev taus leej twg li os

[@maithao6445]

yup you do the right thing.. I do the same as you too. but I marry to Mexican guy now my life with my Mexican husband is way better then my ex hmong husband.. my husband right now he love me and he take care of me.. we been together like 8 years..im so happy with you

[@lueyang5206]

Koj niam koj txiv lub siab yog siab tsiaj xwb. yog muaj tseeb li koj zaj dabneeg tiag tes koj ua yog lawm kuv nrog koj zoo siab uas koj dim txoj kev txomnyem lawm.

[@palor7581]

You did the right thing!!!

[@rhiathao]

Txhob tu siab os. Yog koj txiv tsis hais kom koj muab $2,000.00 yuav tus poj niam tshiab rau koj tus qub txiv ces koj twb tsis muaj hnub no. Ua tsaug rau ntau yam lawv ua rau koj es koj thiaj li muaj hnub no. Yog yuav muab hais los, peb cov Hmoob feem coob yeej saib ntxhais tsis rau nqi tiam sis ntawv Yog lawv txoj kev xav vim lawv tsis muaj kev kawm thiab lawv ua txhua yam kom tau ntsej muag xwb. Zoo siab rau yam uas koj muaj hnub no.

[@twmzeejherr9101]

Tus me muam koj txiv , koj cov mus thiab koj cov txiv ntxawm ntawv noj quav hlob xwb koj tsi txhob tu siab mog

[@TracyLovee]

New gen is changing we ain’t living like in 1975 anymore, the old is dying we just have to change for the better teach our kids better than our parents taught us.

[@bchang227]

My kids are grown now but they know absolutely NOTHING about the shtty Hmong systems. I only teach them what I think and feel is morally right and to live a righteous life. The old, ancient draconian Hmong laws don't work here in the USA. They understand some Hmong words but they don't know how to speak it and that's fine with me. I'd be ok if they throw the bad stuff about Hmong laws away and keep the good ones but we all know ppl are evil. There's going to be corruption, ppl will bend the rules to suit their needs. I'd rather not be a part of a culture that can only do evil against their own people.

[@ibobpebplaub9354]

@@bchang227 The saddest person on earth is not the poor, the disability, or the even the rich but those who look down on themselves and their own kind....That's you!!! SAD:(

[@bchang227]

@@ibobpebplaub9354 I'm quite happy thank you very much. If I could, I would find a deserted island somewhere far away and live there. At least then I'll be far away from you. LMAO. Like I said above, take your bullsht and shove it up your arse. 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕

[@bchang227]

@@ibobpebplaub9354 It's ppl like you that I look down upon. It's ppl like you who thinks and forces a woman to go back to a cheating, abusive idiot that I look down upon. I don't give 2 shts about the ancient draconian Hmong laws that treats women like they're nothing but a man's property. This is why I hate y'all. Do you not know how to read properly? I am one rebellious bitch. No one can control me. I'm the black sheep in my family and I don't give a sht about it either. I'm quite happy with myself. Maybe you're sad bc no one likes you. LMAO. As for me, it makes me happy to see idiots like you in pain. It makes me happy to know that idiots like you hate me. I enjoy it. ROTFLMAO!!!

[@ibobpebplaub9354]

@@bchang227 No wonder your kids disrespect your own people because of parent like you.... I don't even know you and yet you want to live far away from me LOL.... you hate Hmong but yet listening to Hmong story and eat Hmong foods and the Hmong communities...... You are just one bitter person, the way you talk and act... I bet you won't fit in with any other races as well...

[@tusiabmoua9169]

Niam thiab txiv ua rau yus tu 2 siab es kom hnub uas lawv ncaim yus mus lawm yus thiaj tsis quaj 2 lawv heev vim lawv twb ua rau yus tu 2 siab kom hnub uas lawv mus yus thiaj tseem xav ua neej nyob rau lub ntiajteb no ntxiv

[@vuelor9050]

tus leejtxiv no mas nws ho muab coj dhau cai hwv lawm. kuv muaj peb tug ntxhais kuv yeej cob thiab txwv kuv cov ntxhais kom lawv tau lub neej zoo. qhov ua ntej tshaj plaws kuv xav kom kuv cov ntxhais kawm ntawv kom tag tso mam yuav txiv , lawv mam yuav tus lawv hlub los kuv yeej kam. vim txoj kev kawm yog ib qho tseemceeb ntawm txoj kev khwv noj khwv haus.. kuv peb tug ntxhais puavleej kawm tag college huv tib si lawv mam mus yuav txiv. kuv yeej agree hais tias peb cov laus tau hloov ntau yam ntawmpeb txoj kev coj uas qub qub yav tas lo lawm , tam sis no yog tiam 21 lawm.

[@ashlyysng9849]

Ntuj aw cas koj nim raug kiag li kuv thiab os mog ua ib siab os mog kuv nrog koj tu siab heev li os me niam hluas aw kuv ces taug txoj kev li koj kiag li os mog tsis txhob tu siab os mog

[@kouachang2031]

Koj yeej xaiv yog txoj kev lawm vim peb nyob teb chaw mekas no yog yus xav tias yus lub neej yeej mus tsis tau los yog tsis sib hlub lawm ces nyias mus nyias zoo2 xwb es thiaj tsis ua mob ntsav siab2 rau yus es thiaj tsis ua mob stroke nawb

[@koslis6833]

This must be back 1990 OG life style. They rather have divorced daughter to loose their face. Hmong OG alway live in the life of dream and hope.

[@maivang8072]

Koj ua yog lawm nawb tsis txhob xav ntau2 tsis txhaum kiag li nawb

[@siavang7870]

Mi ntxhais neej tsa ua tsis yog lawm ho koj tus qub txiv ntawv nws lam yuav koj los tsim pauj qhov koj txiv tsis nyiam nws nws yeej tsis hlub koj tiag txhob tu siab koj twb tau tus hlub lawm neej tsa yog tus twg hlub yus ces khiav tus ntawv xwb cov tsis hlub yus ces tsis mus yeej tsis ua cas li

[@xeexiong3093]

tus niam hluas koj ua yog lawm

[@likes5209]

Koj txiv yog 1 leej txiv tsis muaj siab ntsws ruam kawg nkaus tab tom rau luag zoo siab xwb os mog

[@maithao-pl2bf]

I would not care about my parents anymore. They made you pay for another daughter and swap you out so either way, you are divorcing your parents in this way. I would not go visit them nor see his funeral. I would make my parents mentally suffer for not having my back so they can bring it to God and learn from it.

[@GoTEveLyn]

I completely agree with you!

[@ibobpebplaub9354]

You said God but yet you are a bitter person, SAD!!!

[@maithao-pl2bf]

@@ibobpebplaub9354 if ur parents did that to you and you dont even feel a little bitter towards them, than you are a better person than all who thinks like me. Good for you and stay blessed

[@qhoualee1]

Koj niam koj txiv tseem coj lub hlwb qub2 li thaum ub xwb Txhob tusiab rau cov laus vim hmoob cov laus thaum ub Yeej zoo li koj txiv os. Zam txim Es thiaj tau lub neej kaj siab xwb mog

[@thomassimneej7921]

KOJ NIAM KOJ TXIV UA TSIM YOG kiag LAWM (yog kuv mas tsis mus xyuas, tsis hu nkawd ua niam ua txiv li lawm os). Nej cov Hmoob mus nyob Meskas teb tseem RUAM tag npaum no (peb nyob ntuj qub qab peb twb NTSE tshaj nej lawm naj Hm)...Cov Hmoob laus coj li koj txiv no ces tsis pes tsaug xyoo tom ntej no ces TU NOOB TAG lawm os me muam Hmoob aw.

[@sixyooj1399]

Tus muam koj pab neej no yuav coj txawv ua luaj thaum cem yuav cem thaum yuav hlub cas lawv ho li ntawm tej zaum npam lawm os

[@nouthao4669]

Koj niam koj txiv tuag. Lawv tsi quaj. Li koj quaj. Txhob tu siab. Muaj ib nub nkawv yuav paub meej.

[@ricolee364]

Koj mas thiaj yog ib tug poj niam lawv tias siab dev.. koj yog ib tug ntag. Ib tug leej txiv zoo li koj txiv ces cia nws ces koj Tsis tas mus Saib nws thiab hu nws ua txiv lawm los mas...neeg ruam Ces zoo li koj txiv tiag. Tus yus ua ua fws Nrog zig mam tawm ho Tsis hlub. Ruam tiag tiag koj txiv nas. Ua li koj ua Yog lawm.

[@Thojkajsiab-mt]

Hope his new daughter love him.

[@maivang594]

koj ua yog lawm os sister aw

[@shengthao558]

You did the right thing! Koj cov neej tsa tsis yog ib tsev neej nruam xwb, lwv yog ib tsev neej nruam heev heev!!!! They don't deserve your love and support.

[@ntxhaistojsab9882]

Txhob tu siab nawb mog sister aw thaum twg yog koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv tuag ces txhob mus tshwm nawb mog

[@night4294]

Time to change for new norm to the Hmong for the new generation

[@รัตนาภรณ์แซ่ม้า]

ถูกต้องเลยจร้า พ่อแม่เราไม่ปกป้องเรา ผัวเรายิ่งไม่แคร์เรา

[@sshlubtsisplojus4045]

Peb cov hmoob ces yeej saib cov ntxhais yaj tsis rau nqi heev, vim tias lawv yeej xav ntsoov hais tias zoo thiab phem los cov tub thiaj yuav yog lawv leej tub qad lawv taub haus xwb nod. Tab sis cov ntxhais txawm yog cov uas tu lawv thaum lau xwb. Peb cov ntxhais yeej tu siab Kawg, kom peb tsis txhob muab tej niag hmoob kev caid no taug zoo li tej niag lau lawm ,sij neej noj tsis yog Tus koj yug mus nrog tus hmoob uas koj tsis tau paub nyob ces koj yeej tsis npau Suav lawv yuav hlub koj li nawb peb cov niam thiab cov Txiv hmoob. Txawv yug tau los yog Tub yog ntxhais los twb yog leej Txiv tso rau es thiaj li khov tau los tsheej ua neeg es thov kom peb cov leej txiv hmoob no txhob muab ntau nqid qis 2 heev mog.Tag nrho peb cov leej txiv hmoob yog nej tsis xav hlub cov ntxhais no ces thaum yug kiag tau es Pom tias yog leej ntxhais no ces muab tua kiag pov tseg xwb es yuav zoo dua mog. Tus me viv ncau pab koj tu siab Kawg thiab nawb. Thov kom cov Txiv sab maim hluas no txhob coj li coj niag lau uas tsis tau txhais kev Txawj ntsed li luag lwm haiv neeg. Koj ua yeej yog Kawg lawm, kuv pab koj zoo siab mog.

[@jxl0318]

You can't blame your ex husband for what he did. It all started with your parents not accepting him in the first place. Your relationship got rocky when your ex heard your parents telling you to divorce him just because they didn't like him. Maybe if you told him from the beginning instead of him finding out for himself, maybe things would have turned out differently. Put yourself in your ex shoes and see how you would feel if you heard his parent's tell him to divorce you just because they didn't like you. Well, at least both of you found happiness in the end but your parent's were at fault from the getgo and maybe your dad was trying to make it up but it was too late

[@likes5209]

Cov niam txiv coj li ko yog neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws ruam tsab ntse kom luag tus sab nrauv qhuas nws xwb tsis yog neeg ntse nruab siab tsuas ua kom tau ntsej muag xwb tab sis ib hnub twg luag yuav ua dej kub nws lub siab mob yam tsis zoo qhia rau yus xwb ces tag kev cia siab

[@likes5209]

Cov niam txiv zoo li ko tsis hlub tej ntxhais saib tej ntxhais tsis muaj nqis xwb

[@meemeezong1827]

My dad was like this so I understand and feel your pain and the hurt. I was married at 15 and divorced at 18 after I became of legal age. I left my parents and my “relatives” since I turned 18. Moved to another state and lived my life. I married a Meka husband and build a new life. We have 4 kids and grandkids, a big house on 10 acres , own two business with 120 employees and money in the bank. Never looked back and never asked them for anything. Last time I saw my parents was at their funeral. I don’t miss them or think about them. And I don’t need their approval of me or anything else in my life. Sometimes it’s better to cut negative people out of your life even if they are family members.

[@leejmuam1]

Txhob tu siab. Koj ua yog lawm. Bravo to you for being brave and able to move forward with your life and not listening or cave to your parents/relative restrictions. Your dad is very old mind.

[@nkaujhnoobher5725]

Me yawm txiv koj tus qub vauv mas yuav zoo siab Ntau hauv siab zoo siab kawg koj ua rau koj tus ntxhais quaj ntsuag tus siab

[@pajtawgtshiab1804]

Tus viv ncaus aws txhob tu siab os mog....ntawm koj txoj kev hlub ces yog kev hlub tsuag lawm xwb os mog...ua siab ntev2 xwb os mog....tsis vim dab tsi li os...

[@yuxianlee1185]

Sister lub neej ko raug khoom li ko meem txom heev li

[@maileevang5555]

Its not your fault sister. Its your parents fault at the beginning😡😡. Happy you are better life now🤗

[@elizabethvang2547]

Pab koj tu siab ua koj tau 1 tug niam thiab txiv phem tsis hlub koj hos viv ncaus. Koj txiv thiab koj pab neej tsa npwb dhau lawm xwb hos