Txhoob Cia Luag Tsim Koj Nplooj Siab. 7/30/2021

[@puayang2506]

I've heard so many women trying to keep their marriage despite the abuse on their children. our generation needs to stop putting men on the pedestal and help the women and children.

[@foreveryouandme8733]

Lady if he can't even love his own kids, how do you expect him to love your kids. Let that sink in to all hmong women that are looking to remarry.

[@MissPeachie]

Remarrying is ok but better to wait for the kids to grow up and go off on their own first. Kids are not going to live with parents forever so once they leave, you can go find a companion that also has no dependent.

[@MaiProject2024]

I agreed with you but it's not this mom's fault that her new husband act like this. But yes, all moms and dads should be more careful with step dads and step moms.

[@maikoulee1040]

😊

[@aangmobile4663]

Peb.nyob.nplog.teb.lo.peb.yeej.zoo.siab.kawg.li.thiab.os

[@baoyang6565]

1st of all..I'm so proud of your older son for standing up to his little sister 💙. 2nd..sister I'm so proud of you for doing the right thing for your children and put your husband where he belong. God bless

[@pangthao9046]

P

[@mayseeyang5953]

Agree!

[@MaiProject2024]

Agreed! It all happened so fast and she is seeking justice for her although her daughter have left this world.

[@LymeeCha]

I don't know why some women are so desperate for a husband, your children should be your #1 priority, men can wait! 🙄 How can you be so blind for so long? You're supposed to protect your children and you failed as a mother!

[@QSL.]

Bc some Hmong are ruam noj quav tshis loj xwb!

[@yajcaivplawv88]

I’m a dad. A parent’s job is to defend your children and spouse. If my spouse is ABUSING my child/children, the spouse needs to be CORRECTED. It should NOT be a choice between spouse and children. If a parent thinks there us a choice than you FAILED as a parent.

[@beeyushon9788]

Poj hmoob cas ntsaw txiv laib dag ua luaj

[@ntsuabher9526]

Right! I don’t understand why our Hmong ppls desperate for a husband for when first marriage failed. If you already have kids just stick with ur kids.

[@Zeb1245]

@@yajcaivplawv88 I’m with you on that.

[@elisauanojhaus840]

I have trust issues. I don't trust NOBODY with my kids. Always listen to your kids, people!

[@toulee2413]

Let this story be a lesson learned to all the stepfather(s) out there abusing their stepchildren.

[@yajcaivplawv88]

Just to be fair, I’ve seen step mother(s) too. We all should be responsible parents to defend our kids from harm, that’s why the law says we are in a position of trust. If, we do not do what we are entrusted, then we have FAILED our purpose as a parent.

[@MissPeachie]

Easy, just don’t remarry until all your kids are over 18 and move out.

[@paovang2549]

She doesn't deserve her child. She couldn't even protect her child. When her son asked if she chooses her husband or her kids, she couldn't decide. That right there shows that she does not deserve her. If you love your kids, they come first! If you want to protect your child, you will choose your child with NO hesitation. Locking up her husband after her child died won't bring her child back. What good will it do now? Should've done that way before she passed. Please let this child get reborn into a loving family, with loving parents who can protect her.

[@katewan9956]

Peb ntshai2 tsam txiv tshiab tsim peb cov menyuam thiaj ua 1 siab uv lub neej. Cia mob yus txhob mob tej menyuam.

[@meemeezong1827]

Proud of Sunisa Lee. She definitely earned her place in history (Hmong & Meka). She also earn a history for Hmong girls, that girls are important too, we can accomplish greatness too.

[@hlubtushlubkuv9881]

May koj hais yog kawg vam thiab ciab siab tias peb cov me tub me ntxhais hmoob yuav sawv los tshwm zuj zum nrog mekas ua phooj ywg coj peb lub npe hmoob lawm yav tom ntej no.

[@_milly]

The step father abused the child and then when he got arrested he still cursed the mom like he was innocent? Wow, the audacity of some people!

[@dejntshiabhawj8224]

This story is similar to mine but luckily my daughter grew out of heart problem after she turned 1 years old. I divorced her dad when she was 6 years old and now she is the smartest of my 4 kids. Now, she received her BSN and working as a nurse. Thanks god for everything. I felt this lady’s pain and very sorry for her lost.

[@maimyceo]

Yesss!!! So proud of Sunisa Lee! Tears of joy for her and so so so proud!!! Very proud of PaNgia too! Happy Sunisa Lee Day!!!

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

As women who is divorced with kids, always remember, hmong men cannot love our children as theirs. Hmong men's heart is not big enough to open and love other people's kid. Even if you cannot have a husband, remember you won't die. Only about 20% or less hmong men can love kids that is not theirs.

[@misstaytay9694]

After listening to many of these stories, I would have to say not all Hmong men are like that. Even Hmong women cannot love others’ kids.

[@DY-ke1di]

All races have bad individuals… not just hmong. Why do you see abuse and crime on the news with other race all the time. Stipe generalizing

[@MissPeachie]

@@DY-ke1di I agree with you. Only very few people can love others unconditionally.

[@kevkawmkevpaub6189]

Anyone who thinks all Hmoob men are bad is simply a toxic person, period. There are many bad Hmoob men as well as bad Hmoob women. But there are lots of good Hmoob fathers, and John Lee, Sunisa's father, is a good example of the good Hmoob men. So stop your little stereotyping.

[@beevang7967]

That's so true. They only want the mama but children are just a drag. This is why I vowed to never divorce.

[@gracyyangchannel4337]

Your son did the right thing As soon as you find out that hes abusive you need to get her away from him as far as possible

[@lnchannel1186]

I know some people are blaming this woman but when you’re living your daily life some things are not noticeable. It’s in hindsight when the story is being told that you can hear the story unfold. I’m sure she loves her children as every mother loves her children. We can’t blame her. Her hubby is to blame

[@vsyang]

Agreed! Yeah it's true. We do it everyday and we don't realize some of the stuff until it's pointed out to us. Can't blame the mother as she is doing what she thought is best

[@วาณีปรียาสกุล]

466,

[@MaiProject2024]

Thank you! Some comments are unbelievable like she allowed that to happen.

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Yes, congrats to Sunisa Lee. We are so proud of you. God bless you and USA. You represent Hmong and America.

[@thao0218]

This story is so sad. It takes a life for the mother to see how much her kids are worth to her. If it was not for her son, she would probably still be with the dead beat 2nd husband of hers.

[@tongkafamilyuasi2223]

Agree with you, For real thanks to her son for step up for his sisters .

[@saengdaooudomxai2224]

Peb yog hmoob nplog xwb lo peb twb zoo siab ib yam o

[@xeevnploojxyooj2376]

Tus me zoo niam tsev, qhov koj muab tus txiv tshiab coj mus kaw vim nws tsis txom koj tus me ntxhais koj ua yog lawm, pab koj tu siab qhov koj soj tau lig lawm es koj tus me nyuam twb raug tsim txom txog qhov tuag lawm xwb. Thov sawv daws kawm txhob cia lig2 li no lawm mog , pab me nyuam kom yog caij xyoog es thiab pab tau.

[@กันยาแซ่ท่อ]

Cas koj cov me nyuam raug tsim li kuv cov thiab o tus niam hluas aw lub neej yuav txiv tshiab mas yus tau Txiv me nyuam g tau Txiv li o tu siab tshaj plaws li o aw lawv

[@mariesiong8354]

Tu siab dhau, nrog hlub koj tus ntxhais heev os

[@jackieyunan4899]

Yuav yawg nrauj los tu yus cov mi nyuam ces kawg zoo li no ntag nawb lawv aw...

[@Mc_Lee]

Yesssss so proud of Suni! 🥰 Can't get enough of her.

[@nkaujhouathao8285]

Hmong women who live in America. We don't not need a man to survive and live. Its not like in Laos...where we needed the strength and heavy labor of men to survive. We need to protect our children and they should always come first....SMFH.

[@payang6882]

Peb cov poi nrauj na yog nej nrauj txiv tag es tseem ntshaw2 ib tug txiv no ces txhob nrauj kav tsij ua siab ntev zov tej me nyuam koj loj tso tsis tau txiv los yeej tsis tuag es vim li cas tseem ntshaw txiv ua luaj ho tsis ua siab ntev Nyob yog ob leeg yug zoo phem los yog txiv yug txiv yuav tua tsis taus,

[@PageChoe]

Congrats to Sunisa and Pagnia for representing our Hmong community! We are very happy for them and thank you for talking about this on your channel ❤️

[@justforlove9784]

Sunisa Lee ua rau peb hmoob zoo siab tabsis mas nej cov hmoob uas mus cog xas ua rau peb lub npe hmoob puas tsis zoo. Qhov phem yeej overshadow qhov zoo.

[@hmong7894]

Peb lub npe hmoob zoo lawm hab kuv zoo saab heev li os ua rau kuv lub kua mua poob

[@pasaixiong7707]

Congratulations Suni Lee!!! We are happy for you representing USA and our Hmong people.

[@naibmua8014]

Niam los zoo li twb g xav yuav,txiv g xav yuav thiab ce yog kuv los kuv tuag los kuv tseem zoo siab dua nrog neb nyob os

[@mayang126]

Thov qhua tus Girl Sunisa Lee vim muaj zoo niam txiv cob qhia thiab muaj txoj kev hlub thiab pab txhawb nqa tej me nyuam thiaj muab npe zoo tsim txiaj yog li nej cov mus ua2 xas thiab muag2 yeeb tshuaj nas nej puas muaj tej me nyuam tsim txiaj li Sunisa? Thov qhuas the parents of Sunisa you both are the biggest sporter

[@flryprn745]

Ppl R so proud of SUNI LEE couple months ago n now a disappointed crowd!! We always knew she would go k-doo bcuz in her profession, she’s always around k-doo lol….n her attitude, the way she talks is all k-doo slain!! 🤣😂🤣😂I’m not surprised at all she choose k-doo but she’ll learn her lesson. k-doo relationship never last. Once she’s prego, he’ll be gone as we’ve seen w many k-doo relationships. But hmoob gurls nv learn.

[@Juliettemoua]

Nim mob mob siab nim nrog nej quaj quaj thiab os lawv e. e.

[@langleeyang3498]

Yog kawg os peb zoo siab heev li os peb ncov hmoob zoo o

[@sandyxiong9796]

yuav tsum ua kom tau li ko thiab es cov txiv neej siab phem li ntawd thiaj li tsis tsim txom me nyuam ntxiv lawm, nws cov nws tsis pub luag tsim yog li cas nws ho tsim lwm tus cov me nyuam. cov neej ua yuav luag niam hlub tsis taus luag cov me nyuam thov txhob yuav lawv niam nawb. Ua cas lub neej tiam tshiab no yuav muaj ib co txiv neej lsiab phem lim hiam ua luaj ;i os hmoob.

[@moogsuabnkauj1443]

Koj niam Ntshaw txiv dhau lawm ces cia me nyuam nyuaj 2 siab tuag kus os me ntxhais 😭😭😭

[@diavang3944]

Tu me Niam tsev peb txhob ntshaw txiv lawm mog vim U tu txiv niam hluas Nkauj hluas nraug twb tsi hlub U thiaj tej me nyuam es tu Tom ntej ces yeej tsi hlub li os mog

[@pajthao4813]

Kuv thov kom peb cov uas yog nkauj nrab txhob tso2 siab rau koj tus txiv tshiab es tiv thaiv koj cov me nyuam mog kom tej zaj neej neeg li no txhob muaj ntxiv lawm vim peb pheej ntshaw2 txiv es nrhiav nrhuav txiv xwb tsis nco qab hlub yus cov me nyuam thiaj raug tej zaj teebmeem li no

[@ntxawmxyooj6595]

Tus niam hluas koj ua yog lawm os ua li koj ua thiaj thiaj yog ib leej niam zoo os

[@alxmyang1694]

So proud of Sunisa Lee, and representing the Hmong and Asian community!!! She's amazing and has amazing parents for allowing and pushing their daughter to achieve her greatest potential regardless of gender roles. ❤

[@hmongremark2686]

Tej mi nyuam yug los yog koj roj koj ntshav mas koj thiaj xav hlub lawv kom mus ti koj txhav thiab yog koj ntshav koj roj ces koj thiaj xav hlub lawv mus rau txoj kev yog.

[@Lolelanie]

Omg so sad!! ladies protect ur kids they're our hearts

[@nengthao8318]

Cas zaj neej neeg no yuav meem txom neeg ua luaj li os ntuj e... Cas yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj os peb cov poj niam hmoob no na. Yuav tsum ua neej saib luag lwm haiv neeg tej poj niam twb tsis muaj txiv coob li coob luag tsis muaj txiv luag twb tsis tuag luag twb ua neej nyob zej zog cee ai cas yuav tsis muaj qhov muag ntsia lub ntiaj teb no li os.

[@Amilues20]

Nyuam qhuav ntxim rau nyiag txiv tshiab xwb os. Lady, do what you know what’s right, logically, and morally best for you and your kids. Shame on him and his family to hate on you when their brother/son was the purpose to your daughter’s death. Rarely some families will accept that their brother/son is guilty, but majority of the Hmong people, they don’t. I’m so proud of you and your oldest son. May your baby daughter Rest In Peace. ♥️

[@yengyang9564]

Ntuj os teb aw peb cov sib nrauj no es Mloog ces los los kua muag os

[@minecraftboy2676]

It is so sad for what happened to your daughter, sister. When you have children you do not go to a relationship blindly, but with your eyes open or do not start a relationship until they are older. You can not trust anyone at all even with or without any children. Trust no one.

[@beethao4145]

This is a perfect example of original marriage nothing but like dog and cat. But once divorce and remarried, each went obey the new spouse like a dog begging for a bone and whose hurting, the kids. Yog tias yoog thb nyoo npaum li sib nrauj tag es mus nyoo tus nyiam tshiab txiv ntshiab uas tsim2 ua yus tus mi nyuam tuag kiag ces tej mi nyuam twb tsis muaj dev nyuab siab. So sad for all of us 21th century life right now that we play in the hands of societies divorce hand and corrupted our kids. I understand sometime we do what we have to do but it just sad. We all Should have second thought about remarry if kids involve. My heart ache listen to this story

[@siaxiong4503]

Yog siab tsis ntev, tsis txhob xav mus ua luag txiv tshiab.

[@ItsYou2]

For that snl who says the one die cant bring her back and dont lock her brother. I would like for her to give one of her kids to someone to torture. Let see if she can bare it and not call the cops smh...

[@Kisswithlove]

She’s being selfish because it’s her brother but if the table was turn and her kids was the victim I’m pretty sure she’s would do the exact same thing too.

[@jennifermoua3775]

People can be hypocrites.. it happens to others “oh it’s okay” but once it happens to them, “WTF IMMA CALL THE COPS” smh lol

[@MaiProject2024]

I am so proud of the oldest son!

[@iayang1107]

Tus mes viv ncaus aw!!!txawm yog li kos es kuv ua poj nrauj tau 11 lub xyoo no es kuv thiaj tsi tau txiv los mas viv ncaus

[@KB-hp5se]

Some people care too much about their face value/politics and they forget what’s really important… my heart goes out to these kids! May these kids find peace and love for themselves.

[@diavang3944]

Hlub U tej me nyuam xwb zoo dua mog

[@saykaomee]

I'm speechless and disgust when I hear about an independent woman taking in a loser just so she has a husband.

[@vdrtkrato1115]

So sad the sister in this story tells the truth I admit myself I will not love a kid that’s not mine to the fullest but I will not abuse or torture a kid like that way dame Imagine if it’s your child getting abuse and torture by someone else this is why everyone out there should learn to forgive and forget love your first to the max someone new is just for a moment of fun they’ll never love you and children’s

[@PhoHmooAmerica]

Hmong pride

[@somman9639]

Vuag cas yuav txaus hlub tus me nyuam no ua luaj li os !

[@mandarinwoo5694]

Qhov peb ntau tu niam tsev e tu txiv twb tham1 hlua nkauj lo pheej tseem nyob tsi nrauj ce yu saib yu tej me nyuam tseem ceeb tshaj yog lawv txiv yug txawm li ca lo lawv txiv yeej hlub tshaj os cov niam tsev aw

[@mouavang5380]

Vim koj txoj Kev ntshaw txiv ne

[@naibmua8014]

Kuv hai li thiab os. los Vim tu txiv no qab loj heev kaj e thiab nyob tos tu me ntxhais no tuag

[@niamvamvue9806]

Koj yog ib tug poj niam tais caus, koj lam hais ntawm ncauj tias koj hlub koj tus me nyuam xwb. Yog koj hlub tiag ces koj yeej yuav tsum paub thiab ntseeg koj tus me nyuam thiab tsis txog qhov nws twb raug tsim tau ntau xyoo.

[@thaevang5369]

Ua cas yuav nrog koj mob siab ua luaj li.

[@LinaLina-gv3hs]

Am I the only one who think her ex husband is at fault too? He could’ve taken the daughter back when she wanted to stay with him and yet he don’t want her! How freaking sad is this? And when she died the father cried as if he did all he could? So stupid! Of course her husband deserves some jail time for abusing the daughter! I feel so sorry for this little girl! I’m also a mom too, whenever my baby daddy yell at our kids I already get angry at him! No way will I ever let anyone touch my children this way!

[@layathoj3316]

Nws tu siab loj dhau lawm es ntshe nw ua ib siab ncaim koj mu lawm mog

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Sister, it's your fault too. You allowed that looser to mistreat your daughter. I don't understand why you feel you need to have a husband. No one outside will love your daughter the way you do. Even her own father does not love her. She's in a better place. You will live with your choice for the rest of your life.

[@chaly353]

Yeej tsis muaj dab tsi nyuaj yog koj tsis ntshaw txiv tshiab yeej yog tim koj ntshaw noj txiv tshiab heev. Tej zaum yog koj tsis zeem noj txiv tshiab mas koj tseem yuav raug teeb meem ntxiv. Qhov zoo ces yog koj txiav txim muab koj lub txiv tshiab tshiab kaw lawm.

[@lisvaj7375]

Thank you for recognizing and bringing attention to how far we have come. Please continue to support you children to fulfill their wildest dreams. Kudos to how far us Hmong people have come.

[@youwatchme3631]

Sorry for your loss sister.

[@chuckyang3821]

This story So sad I’m tearing while listening 😢😢

[@daovang7148]

Txiv tshiab muaj cov phem muaj cov zoo tsis yog luag yug luag yeej tsis hlub lawv txiv kiag twb tsis hlub

[@2009SUJU]

Sunisa got a personal congrats from May. It is a big achievement 😂

[@nengvanghmongculture3052]

Pab hlub thiab tus siab....kuv muaj ib tug me tub ruam2 thiab kuv hlub tshaj plaws li lawm...txhua2 yam kuv ua rau nws xwb.....

[@hnubib12]

Lady, you are so lucky that they did not lock you up too. You did not protect her from the beginning. I blame you too!!

[@xsm83]

To all the people who protect their family member even when they're wrong, karma pays attention to everything. Ntuj nyob qes qes os mog.

[@Focky446]

......She's in Heaven smiling down.

[@rickythao2834]

Cas Tus phem lub ntuj tsis muab rau Tus phem cas Tus zoo lub ntuj ho tsis muab rau Tus zoo, lub ntuj pheej muab tus phem rau tus zoo xwb thiaj zoo li no ntag

[@somman9639]

Hlubkoj hwv os tus mi niam tsev aw !

[@kaxiong3318]

I applaud this strong and courageous woman for fighting this justice for her deceived daughter. Really sad that a man would be this cruel and vicious to a weaker victim. May you find peace and harmony!

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

This lady should listening her children

[@leefamily6061]

Thank you for getting justice for your daughter. May she rest in peace

[@undercoveralias4012]

Some people have no morals. I don’t care if you my brother or sister or uncle or aunt. If I see you abuse someone, I can’t take your side. Shit. If I see you cheat, I look at you differently. lol. I don’t have a word for people who take sides of people who do awful things just cause you share the same blood.

[@rhiathao]

Menyuam Yog niam nplooj siab. Nrog koj hlub koj tus me ntxhais kawg li os. Koj yeej foob tau cov neeg uas muab koj coj mus hais hauv xov tooj cua ntawv. Txog txij koj piav me ces ntshe tseem muaj ntau dua lawm. Kuv xav hais tias tseem muaj ntau tshaj qhov uas koj tau hais qhia nov.

[@foreveryouandme8733]

To all the hmong women, your kids should be the number one. Do not be in a rush to get the next D. There is just a few hmong men that can love your kids, so you have to choose your kids. No man is worth your kids. Do not choose a man over them. We are capable on our own.

[@sauvue7716]

Why does its have to be something like this to make you realize that life is so precious and short? Love, love one another, appreciate each other’s accompany! 🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@aguimobile7742]

Nyob teb chaws vam veej npaum nej es ua cas tsis nrhiav kv vam meej lo pab hmoob ho tab mu xyaum liam xwb os

[@kazouaher2496]

Tus viv ncaus vim yog tim koj thiab koj cov me nyuam tub qhias koj tias koj tus txiv tsim ua phem rau koj cov me nyuam nyuam vim li cas koj tseem tsi muab nws ntiab mus koj tseem hlub thiab yuav nws thiab? Yeej yog tim koj yeej tsi ntseeg koj cov me nyuam li koj ntseeg koj tus txiv. Nub no koj tus me ntxhais tub tuag lawm koj txawm muab nws kaw los pab tsi tau vim koj tus ntxhais tub tuag lawm koj yuav muab nws kaw 2 thaum koj tus me ntxhais teem muaj txuj sia mas thiaj li yog.

[@cneyxiong55]

So sad for you daughter. May she Rest In Peace and get a better life next life.

[@hmooblubneejpok]

Kj ua yg kawg li o me ntxhais txoj cai ko ntiaj li yg 1 txoj cai ncaj ncees 6 lub ntuj 3 nyb ntawm nov mog kj tus muam lawv yg neeg tua tib neeg nws g ncaj ncees lawm mog

[@a2dazgod539]

Call child protective services. None of your guys a capable and intelligent enough to take care of your kids.

[@chaivang8606]

15 years is too short. Should’ve gotten life

[@shirleyyang4158]

In the end I'm glad that you got justice for your daughter. It would be better if she was still here. Life is full of regrets with things we should have done or could have done if we had known but nobody knows the future and people don't always see what is right in front of them.

[@Nobodyxxx651]

You obviously didn’t love her enough to leave your boyfriend

[@TheEvilTwinCG2]

Why was Jerry Yang not talked about as much as sunisa when he won $8 million lol

[@maihmoob3646]

😢😭😿 My children always comes first no matter what and who. Omfg I'm so angry at this man who abused this poor innocent child.

[@MaiProject2024]

This story is very sad but I'm not going to blame this women or shame her because none of this is her fault. She has nothing to do with the action of another grown man or a dead beat ex husband. She found out and try to do something and from the story, sounds like everything happened so fast right after the kid speak up. She been through enough and we all don't need to point finger at her like she allowed all that to happen.

[@pajntaublaug9326]

Mob kuv lub plawv dhau lawm os me ntxhais aws 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@xyoojmeelauj7355]

Koj tus me nyuam es . Ua cas koj thiaj tsis tu. es koj thiaj cias rau ib niag hmoob tu n'a.

[@BiB-g4f]

😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤

[@yuxianlee1185]

So sad lub neej sib nrauj ntawm ob Niam txiv muab me tib me nyuam sib faib ua rau me nyuam tu tu siab muaj mob tas li. Vim ob Niam txiv tsis paub sib hlub so sad.