Guilt, Gossip, and Crazy Ex-Friends - I'm Telling Tyler

[@Mimiki203]

"You buy bread for your stomach but you buy roses because they are bread for your heart" Buy the thing that makes you happy, it's your heart-bread.

[@heidimichel]

this was the cutest thing I read today

[@peterevans6480]

Heart bread

[@mewiarts4749]

AWWW

[@kaitlynperpignon2956]

I've never heard this quote before! I love it. Imma go stitch that into a pillow or something.

[@rowanhoyt2509]

that's lovely!

[@previously4821]

S’mores: I find it helpful having a seperate savings account for “frivolous” spendings. So that money was already labeled as money to be used how I want. Also it helps (me specifically) to keep track of your income and spending so I can tell me self I’m only spending 10% of my yearly income on a dress.

[@four1629]

I do this too! I've gotten a lot of disapproval over it bcs ppl think my budget for casual spending should be lower, but it's my own money and own decision. I really like this method because you don't have to constantly evaluate the worth of everything you buy

[@previously4821]

@@four1629 The way I budget my "Frivolous" spendings is a bit like Dave Ramsey's Sinking funds method (I don't like the guy but the system works). I add to it over time and it adds up, just so I don't feel bad for spending the larger amounts of money.

[@puccarts]

This is good advice. It'd definitely helps with those guilty feelings. Also writing a list of what you want, even if it's a long term goal, also helps! That way you can split that "frivolous" spendings up for future things that can suddenly come up and don't feel bad about dipping into savings.

[@JuliaSkottMakes]

"Keep calm and carry on" was a war slogan so it felt pretty apt...

[@englishclasschaug]

I love Tyler and her smashing of the capitalist sponsored guilt that we have shoved down our throats!!!! I'm very interested in the culture that gatekeeps joy (and by interested I mean I hate people who do this). But culture of gatekeeeping joy is the weirdest of all gatekeeping because where would anyone get the idea that they can dictate who feels joy and what form that takes. Crazy.

[@mariefurukawa2627]

Tyler's one ofthe very few Americans I watch, and I'm always kinda surprised at the sweeping statements that... just aren't true outside of the US, lol. Maybe it's just because the internet is so US-centric, but it's an extremely American mindset. While the people here who buy iphones or insane amount of alcohol and then ~mysteriously~ don't have enough rent money sure don't go judgement free, I've never seen that degree of shaming before (outside of americans on twitter).

[@N33k5]

The lack of empathy people have when you remind them that you don't have huge sums of disposable income and also are a parent in some comms is also stressful. I just had to give it up in my area as local comm is all backbiting, backstabbing, oh and racist. It's been awhile since I last tried to look but, I doubt it can be cleansed.

[@FennecFool]

So, I totally understand why people don't want lolita and fetish conflated because that has been done so often against the community's will, but part of the rumors seemed to be that she was just a cam girl and holy cow, that is not how people should react to sex workers. Sex work is real work and there's no reason someone who does it can't be a wonderful lolita in their free time just like if they were an accountant or something.

[@suzannesmith266]

Agreed! Even if she was just doing fetish stuff at home on her own time, I see no problem with that as long as no unconsenting parties are subjected to it.

[@LacedWithOreos]

Most definitely! Sex work is a respectable job and that's 1000% okay, 1000% valid. It's okay to be a sex worker that also wears lolita fashion. The issue is that people, most likely minors, too, didn't consent to seeing that content.

[@FennecFool]

@@LacedWithOreos Right, kink being in non 18+ spaces is the issue when it's the issue.

[@Delaney-and-the-Starlight]

Exactly! What a horrible and bigoted way of reacting!

[@FennecFool]

@@rantersparadise Wait, are you mad we don't hate sex workers? Yeesh.

[@RUlNA]

I was a camboy for at the same time I got into lolita. I kept those parts of my life separate because one was a job and the other was personal. Nothing felt worse than the guilt that I was sexualizing my own fashion; even when I knew I wasn't doing it, it still pushed me out of lolita for many years because I was TERRIFIED people would do what they did to Bee to me. It breaks my heart but it makes me happy to hear Bee finding their own community again.

[@stwabebbi]

I didn't realise it until I heard S'mores' story but that's the exact same situation I'm currently in. I've admired lolita from afar for awhile back, but only this year got myself my first decent stable job that I can afford things, but having never been used to having actual money before now, I feel like there's other things I should be saving my money for. You're completely right Tyler though, life is there to be enjoyed. And if wearing a dress with a bunny playing the double bass on it is going to the thing that makes my day, then who am I to deny myself when it's within my reach. Thank you.

[@cottondream9245]

To add on the advice for Smores: As someone who came from medium-low class , the thing that keeps me sane about buying Lolita is the ability to resale them for equal if not close to what I purchased them for. (So long as you always take care of them ofc) I hope this alleviates some anxiety and guilt around buying !

[@ichigobalicki8929]

I remember my mom promised that after we left the dentist, she would get me Mcdonalds. We went to a shelter for help with... Idfr. Either way, it wasn't McDonalds and when I asked if we would still be going my mom tried to quickly hush me because she didn't want them to know she planned to spend her money on fast food. Later, she told me she was worried that they wouldn't help us if they knew we were going to get fast food. Like that was her fear! It was crazy to me even back then. Edit: This happened when I was like seven.

[@tstymctst]

I'm glad Bee found a better community that brought back the good, happy feelings that had been lost, but I hope whoever started that rumor chokes on a macaron. What an awful thing to do to someone. (NB: there is nothing wrong with sex work, and my statement is not disparaging cam girls or other sex workers, it is disparaging jerks who spread unfounded rumors about people instead of acting like a decent human being.)

[@mariannenelson855]

I agree I am a Lolita that just evacuated from the fires in Sonoma County and one of the main things I brought was my Angelic pretty and I don't feel guilty at all because that is my happy thought expecially during an evacuation

[@YokosukaVictoria]

Marianne Nelson I feel ya. I’m by Santa Cruz, and I haven’t had to evacuate, but I have my Holy Lantern jsk in my go bag, cuz there’s no way I’m letting my dream dress burn.

[@xAlecto]

Wishing the best of wishes and safety to you both!! 💛💛

[@deadphoenixrising]

As long as you didn't put yourself or others at risk to take it with you, there's nothing wrong with that.

[@millartiste]

Can't wait to start interacting with the community enough to have some good stories to tell

[@abigailmaturana741]

lol 💖

[@anastasiafish427]

This actually helped me. I had a big blow up with a member of my comm who evidently had something against me to begin with. She was upset with me when I started selling masks at the beginning of covid and said I was deceiving people. She said “you know they don’t stop the virus” and I honestly thought she was joking and said “haha I know that but it’s not my fault if they don’t do their research” She then sent her friends to attack me and shit talk my business claiming I was transphobic cause I accidentally misgendered a fem presenting/named non-binary person(who I had never spoken to before so I had no way to know) It was terrible and gave me several full blown panic attacks and mental breakdowns. I’m pretty sure the same person now sells masks too so🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m still worried about what will happen if she comes to a meet after covid subsides

[@sixwingedbee81]

I wonder if Bee was better looking than so-and-so or is a bustier woman. I've noticed a lot of rumors of that like are created out of envy or because of internal misogyny. I don't want to rag down on the community, but I noticed in all niche groups we still get that high school mentality. Usually it's kept in checked. But it takes one idiot to turn it into a 15 minute segment of Mean Girls.

[@AsterisSleeping]

I’m close friends with Bee irl and very glad I got into Lolita before she moved back. This is exactly what happened. A jealous girl started rumors about Bee and ruined her time in the comm our there. I’m glad our comm has made her feel welcomed

[@bigdadbeefsticks]

@@AsterisSleeping where was that shitty com because I don't want to move there by accident and end up in a com with shitty girls, or at least so ik if I end up in the area to keep my guard up. I am in fact a busty girl, and I'm not all perfectly innocent and celibate. So they'd rip my unapologetic behind to shreds.

[@SpookyWhispering]

TBH I'm more jealous of my comm members that have smaller busts, not lager ones, cause they can fit more dresses. Lucky Bishes

[@porcupine_cake]

thank you for being political and mentioning how late state capitalism ruins stuff for everyone

I've been on Social Security Disability as my primary income for most of my adult life, and your response to S'mores is 100% important! I'm an aging nancy boy past his prime, a junkshop bohemian, an unrepentant Goth, and a shameless cat servant. My dad was almost forty when I was born, and after his first wife died in a freak accident (she was seventeen, he was eighteen, and even though it was 1960, they didn't "have to"), he spent most of the 1960s hopping freights and hobo'ing across the contiguous 48 States. Needless to say, he didn't have the greatest resume, and we got through the '80s with my mother as an RN, and my dad taking a lot of odd jobs and seasonal work. In spite of the prevalent shaming of poverty during the Reagan-Thatcher era, even before his head injury in 1989 that put himself on Disability as a primary income, as we had pretty much gotten through that decade on Government Cheese, Government Peanut Butter, Government Dry Milk, and these ominous cans of Government Pork (simply marked "Pork"), he always said, "never be too proud to ask for help, when you need it. Anyone who says they made it all on their own is either a liar or just stupid, and they're almost always trying to sell you some bullshit they're calling chocolate." I don't understand this culture of shame that we live in. I literally never have, and I'm fucking forty. It helps no-one, except maybe those at the very top, who don't have to worry about money, and especially don't have to worry about whether or not they should treat themselves to something nice after their bills are all paid.

[@jaelavelazquez6627]

"I know there are teenagers in lolita god help you" lmao true that we need that help

[@mermaliade6631]

I had to watch this again because the conversation with s'mores is so wholesome. I think a lot of us have extreme guilt about spending money when we don't come from it.

[@SusanIvanova2257]

At this point Tyler's videos feel a lot like a gothic blog I read back in the day by the Lady of the Manners. Just with more creative insults and less speaking of herself in third person.

[@tstymctst]

That's Gothic Charm School! She does still occasionally post to that blog, and she has a personal blog on tumblr. She's a delight, and I agree there's a similar energy to her polite but deadly responses and Tyler's more invective-laden replies to people being awful.

[@TippyTeapots]

I have Jillian’s book!! It’s called Gothic Charm School and she’s amazing and I love that blog! Her book is really nice too though.

[@firestorm1088]

The part about "Lolita adjacent" has me thinking about how a lot of the questions Tyler gets here are tangentially about Lolita, but they're really about something else and Tyler will go all in on it. Then I realized that this series is the Lolita version of Car Talk.

[@nanashineko3501]

One thing that helps me a lot with the guilt of spending so much money is the fact that lolita items have a crazy good resale value! I only buy second hand cause i can't afford any brand new stuff, and knowing that i can get most of the money i spend back by selling the items again helps me immensely!

[@coffinmold]

Tyler, I really appreciate your response to the first question. I often feel guilt about spending money on my hobbies or that I'm too old for my hobbies(I'm 24). My bills are always paid, and food is always on the table. My husband is very supportive of my hobbies. I just feel this constant mind war. I'm either feeling horrendously guilty or I have such a don't give a fuck attitude, there's no grey area. Your response makes me feel better about enjoying my hobbies. Thank you

[@ahhh4117]

1:35 S'mores so honestly in my personal opinion like when ur spending that amount of money on an item you are making an investment, in quality and in your happiness. Personally for me it does help to think of clothes that way. You are building a wardrobe and these pieces will form the skeleton and then the meat of it. That wardrobe is an investment, it will last a long time, those clothes won't fall apart when u put them one.

[@Bokatisha1234]

I had the same issue as Cinnamon in college, dude stalked me, called me slurs, ect. Next semester we end up in the same classes AND he's randomly placed in my partner's dorm. I cut and dyed my hair before then and he didn't recognize me.

[@hwrencleaveland459]

Wow. Cinnamon just described the exact situation I'm going through but with a different alternative community. Advice from Tyler I didn't know I needed.

[@lilyoftheveil666]

Tyler really said Eat The Rich. We have no choice but to stan.

[@emmadowney3172]

Keeping dms polite and spotless, and keeping your nose clean are undoubtedly some of the best advice that you can give.

[@alexwillis-paulsen4597]

I need a gif of Tyler saying "you woke up in an absurd universe and this is how things are" to watch every day when I wake up.

[@itsdoombunny469]

Tyler, thank you so much. The answer to S'mores helped me too. I don't have much, and getting by is tough, but treating myself to something pretty helps to keep me sane. I am new to lolita, but it already means so much to me, and my self esteem.

[@chophouse404]

I have selected the pieces I want. They aren't even super expensive. However, I grew up very poor - living paycheck to paycheck and barely making it some months. Now, as an adult, I'm afraid to spend money on expensive things because I may need the money later. I think many of us are trying to work through the same struggle.

[@soulcstudios]

My dad always told me that the people I don't like / hate shouldn't know I feel that way about them, and neither should anyone who isn't my close friends. (Or like, teachers, teachers can know so we aren't put in group projects together ect.) This is a sign of maturity. I really value that advice and it has served me well.

[@wifflewafflepaws]

As a person like s'mores, the way I deal with the guilt is by creating a budget for lolita/cosplay. So I split my money generally kinda 3 ways: bills and food, emergency (or important things money), and lolita/cosplay fund. This may change due to how the person splits it up as this is only a general outline but it may help.

[@ReijiAoeGirl666]

That is so important. Like, don’t spend all your extra money on Lolita, it’s not smart. Try and save some money, but also put some money in a fund for things fun. I don’t want to guilt people who buy sth nice for themselves (because everyone needs nice things in their lives), but spending all your extra money on hobbies will eventually cause other problems.

[@AsterisSleeping]

Close friends with Bee irl. I’ve known her ten years and I was devastated that she had such an awful time when she moved out there. The rumors were started by a very jealous girl who didn’t like that Bee could buy her own dresses. It’s very upsetting but So glad that I got into Lolita when I did so we can go out and about dressed all frilly and cute.

[@anniesolomon4876]

I'm watching this in 2024 and I know this comment is old but did that jealous girl ever get karma?

[@h1ddengem]

She may be salty on the surface but so sweet on the inside. I love wholesome Tyler.

[@verybarebones]

I had the DMs thing happen when i was 16. Someone i thought was a friend asked me "dont you think X's new bf is a weirdo?" And i replied "haha i dont know him but i guess?" And X immediately received screencaps from that person, got mad at me and after yelling at me some they blocked me, even though all i said was "i guess you're right" to very pressuring questions.

[@Sydsquido]

I have to admit, there's a part of me that hopes people from Bees mean community see this video and are able to put the pieces together to realize how their collective actions hurt someone so deeply. I'm glad it had a happy ending but I gotta hope that the comm can do some work to learn and grow to not let that happen again to the next newcomer that someone doesn't like.

[@AmyBrueckman]

S'mores, what makes ME feel better is that I can always sell pieces back if I need the money or if I'm ever done with lolita. You can't say the same for shitty Forever21 clothes. The resale value for lolita is MUCH better. It might be a big investment upfront, but it always has that security blanket.

[@ton3016]

I love that you have an interest in lolita, and you give very mature talk and advice. Watching this is literally free therapy.

[@AmySay]

God that “alive” fucking HITS different.

[@Lunareon]

Thank you for giving all this great advice, especially about how to keep personal conflicts out of the community. I've been in communities that had some crazy drama and grudges going on, but the average member had no clue about it, because the people involved were publicly very civil and polite. And that's how it should be! Also, I want to echo what you said about nothing being private anymore. DM's will be forwarded, anonymous confessions will be traced back to you, and your private rant in a closed group of friends will be screen capped and shared before you can edit/delete it. It always happens, act accordingly.

[@bearrry467]

I love this series so much I always end up watching this when in the middle of the night

[@goobrmakes]

Similar exp to S'mores! Besides coming from a low income bg, I and many of my friends study/do work related to economics so the pressure to budget and invest appropriately is especially intensified lmao. That aside, I think the key is to buy things that spark joy while sticking to a pre-determined & realistic budget that works for you. :=)

[@holicxhunter]

These were pretty deep topics being discussed here. You took it really well and I agree and appreciate your advice!

[@ulaladiva]

An I'm Telling Tyler released on my birthday (21st)!!! Today is a most wonderful day!!!!

[@barriehull7076]

For an openly identifying crazy person, your outlook on life and all it's manmade insanity is spot on and I wish other so called sane a holes like Fox News and their ilk could stop with their nastiness, I wont hold my breath.

[@KatMum]

"lethally polite" Love this!

[@finnilyenough]

I needed this episode! I've been desperate to get in to lolita for 8 years but guilt over spending money on myself has been holding me back. I think I'll finally take the plunge :D

[@originalkingdomhearts]

For the second story. I personally had this issue, mainly in the cosplay community and it does work wonders. There was this one person who would actively try to shit talk me behind my back to other people all because she didn't like the fact I knew how to sew and she didn't. Really dumb reason to hate someone . A few people she was friends with tried to instigate something with me but I was just polite to then since I'm not about that shit and guess what, they were so shocked and not expecting it they actually apologized to me and told her to chill. This doesn't always work mind you but the key thing is don't give them ammo, make it so it's super hard for them to say anything bad about you and it will slowly stop and if it doesn't well you don't need these assholes! I only ever had this issue happen once in the lolita community but she was well known for being a drama seeker and no one liked her. I personally saw first hand how insane she was before even knowing her reputation . We went to a tea party together and I ignored her and just said hi ones , handed out some sweets for everyone (including her) and we had a good time, even took a picture in a group. I'm not in the community anymore since I just prefer to wear it alone and with one friend but to give you an idea of how she was. She said how brave I was for wearing bodyline because she wouldn't be caught dead being seen in it , while she and her none lolita friends yelled at people to fuck off when they walked by if they so much as even looked at us. I left that meet so fast. It was a picnic meet and no one brought any food but me and we just sat in a DD for an hour before walking in a park. Ya, I rather take a catty bitch over this woman any day. Mind you I was 20 and she was 30 at the time so she shouldn't be acting like that.

[@sillyanni]

I've seen a tweet sine time ago and it reminds me of first story "Serotonin? In this economy?!" 😂

[@rainingdreams]

Omg poor Bee! I’m glad the story has a happy ending!!! It’d be a shame if that experience had ruined her interest in lolita forever

[@lilbatashlyn]

Finding joy or things that truly bring you happiness is so hard to find these days. If you can find it, hold on to it TIGHTLY!

[@flamebloom4659]

Tyler is the big sister we all wish we had!

[@darlingnymphet]

You had me at late stage capitalism ♥️

[@elizabetha3936]

We love Tyler

[@santanachalais8884]

Clicked so fast!

[@user-do3vi8lb9n]

Gonna quote Rupaul “unless they’re paying your bills pay those bitches no mind” you deserve nice things and not feel guilty about it.

[@wildcutecosplay]

What do we do when we are sad ADD TO CART I don't have a lot due to being disabled and unemployed, but I try and grab a dress for my birthday and christmas. and what i'm grabbing is cheaper taobao brands. because it makes me happy having these dresses,

[@wildcutecosplay]

though this year has been bad and I went a little ham and bought 2 jsks and 3 salopettes And have 2 more JSKs that I've got my eye on.

[@devincristopher3]

I like your angelic pretty rings! I feel like they could also stand for advanced placement:p love your style & videos 🍒🎀🍒

[@Sleepysealss]

Whoa her and Lor a uploading a whole lot atm, definitely not complaining tho

[@lolymop333]

This wasn't supposed to make me cry. It's rough, especially with my current financial situation. I know I have so much I should be saving up for that I feel so guilty even buying slightly more expensive food that I know I'll like and won't upset my stomach.

[@Harajukubarbie333]

I needed to hear that.. I have trouble keeping a job because of my physical and mental health (I live at home) and I've asked my mom about going on disability and she was like 'you dont wanna be a loser sitting around doing nothing all day' like i wanna work and/or go to school but GODDAMN it is harrrddd :( I'm also only 18 so idk how lifechanging it is to go on disability but they act like itll ruin my life and ill never be able to get a job

[@MandyBuglet]

I'm so glad I'm not a DM for anything. I have enough anxiety problems in my life. I don't need extra stress from folks who take something I might say wrong and blast me all over the place, ruining my life in the process.

[@geenyx9314]

for s'mores: I'm not personally lolita and ik the community may be elitist, but if this alleviates your guilt, there are ways to buy lolita staples for cheaper on ebay/thrift stores, like frilly shirts and cuffs and socks, shoes etc

[@DustyMusician]

god bless Tyler for being woke

[@fahrlight]

The last story is so relatable.

[@Ciaoies]

Wow, that first answer had be subscribing! You are so right.

[@lisaisapanda4668]

I’m not a Lolita and I still watch all your posts. Love them. Love the cameraman cause I know and like your partner. But seriously you have amazing advice Lolita or not. I think you’re great Tyler!

[@dowsingelf77]

Our Queen Tyler giving sound advice here. Good luck Cinnamon!

[@HarryToeface]

We out here!!

[@jamiefirenze9394]

I love your background today! If you have any super cute ribbon or lace trim around, it would complement the lolita bags around the sides. ❤❤❤

[@ineedmoresleep3728]

Tyler, I understand what you mean by people needing a smidget of hope but on the other hand, especially in rough times it can easily become an addiction. Especially with the candy bar as you said it, if this small thing is the only thing giving you joy in an honestly crap world, you can easily turn to it as a coping mechanism. When I was horribly depressed, I used to eat nothing but junk food because it was one of the only things that still brought me joy. But I suffered for it, I constantly felt tired, my stomach hurt and what it did to my skin absolutely crushed the remains of my self esteem. It was a horrible spiraling cycle of feeling worse until I moved back with my parents and they fed me real food

[@ViolentAurora]

Ask for help. If you need it, ask for it. If everyone just helped everyone, no one would need help. Think about it.

[@finley7906]

tyler i just want to say that your outfit is PERFECTION this episode

[@lovealwaysheidy]

I love the way you are so real. You are beautiful and have an amazing way of lifting others up🌼🧡

[@Talonistrying]

Never clicked faster, I'm in dire need of some good tea today!

[@poofpoof9326]

I've been having a horrible week and this video has been really helpful and making me very happy. I'm not even 5 minutes into it, but thank you. 💕

[@jachowl4467]

My personal advice is don't beelive what other people tell you about someone. Of cause be careful but you will be better off forming your own opinion of someone from getting to know then yourself. Now and again you will be suprised to find an awesome person.

[@mxhyungwonie8098]

I wish I knew you in real life. You seem like such a great person. Sending you lots of hugs!!

[@frillz8621]

I get what you're saying about DMs but people can just as easily create fake DM screenshots sooo we're all screwed no matter what. lol

[@Kiriuu]

I definitely suffer from what the first person said I feel the guilt if I buy something that gives me joy

[@annablue2799]

If it makes you happy buy it.

[@kaleyovo7057]

I do have that guilt and thats on childhood debt trauma

[@sennaka]

I'm Telling Tyler? I'm so here for it. And S'mores, I *understand* that guilt!

[@noctisgamma556]

Ah, Cinnamon sounds like me, very worried about the toxic person being at events I'd go to. All I can say is they're everywhere and unfortunately they aren't going away. You just have to give them the space they need to show people who they really are.

[@mamachicken1548]

Hi Tyler!!! Love your videos and your advice you give others is supportive, confident, and inspiring!! Thanks for being you and helping all the Lolitas out there seeking guidance:)

[@alexwegner4221]

Another great episode. I love how supportive you are 😊😭

[@lineaalba4035]

The 'friend' living in your bonnet. Gives me a Sherry Lewis and lamb chop vibe. Especially as you move your head.

[@blushface]

Cinnamon ~ Just smile at them all cute & carry on doing you.

[@komaedaswaggito]

Off topic, but this headpiece is my ultimate favourite! 🐻❤🐻😭

[@ashleybowles7732]

No Target in Canada

[@asche9115]

man I feel s'mores so much I also struggle with this A LOT

[@spacefacey]

I totally get where smores is coming from- I think, for alot of my life, I really judged my family and others for buying unnecessary things with their money, when there was more important things to be saving for. I think I also had this weird obsession with frugality, that not having/spending money in the present somehow made my own past experiences more valid. I think now I realize that having that sort of shamey mindset was very annoying, and even downright harmful. I think I can almost relate it to (tw for body issues) when I was recovering from an eating disorder, and I used to judge myself and others for eating sugar and whatnot. It didn't make anyone else feel good, and It didn't make me feel good. I do think there is a middle ground in all this- learning to spend money responsibly while also remembering to invest in causes that you care about, like college or donations and whatnot. But in moderation, I don't think I need to feel overwhelming guilt over one fast fashion skirt, or a necklace or whatnot

[@pandorarose3]

I actually have people in my life that try to guilt me also. I pay all my bills and the house hold bills to the point there are credits that can let us go two months with out paying bills maybe more. I am happy but I am guilted into feeling bad.

[@becasaurusbex8204]

I love how if someone found this video and knew nothing about lolita, they woukd think this was a cute video about fracking. 🤣🤣🤣

[@flanncakes]

Bee needs to be ordained as a damn saint for not immediately throwing mud as Blank at the following meet up and throwing down as well

[@blushface]

Damn, there are some toxic teacups out there. 😳

[@gaby132]

The three people who dislike this video ... why?

[@doccrowley3367]

comrade tyler woo!

[@moemoeanisong]

Comrade Tylerrrrrrrrrrrrr

[@flynndatta6311]

i legit didn't know "keep calm and carry on" was a UK thing