I relate 💯%. Divorce is painful. Really painful. However Stella, don't give up on love coz of the experience u had. I went through the same pain. Infact mine was even more painful coz I lost so much. I had taken loans for him, I had invested at my in-laws all my life- and he left with everything. I took time to heal after divorce and later gave love another chance n I tell you, there are good men out here. I'm loved and loved right. Life is beautiful and love is a beautiful thing. May God restore your love life and give u a good man who'll love you and your boys. Shalom.
@elsiekendi9621Ай бұрын
Tafuta Monica utupee hio Ka story kwa loved again
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
@@elsiekendi9621yes I agree tu atu encourage us who have given up
I have gone through alot for seven years,I have no job no income nothing,but am planning for an exit!but I have to quit
@irenekinyanjui4319Ай бұрын
Our very own Stella....you were my role model kwa church nikigrow...'part of your bridal team 'she's a vibe❤❤
@lucymwangi2663Ай бұрын
What kind of a preacher is he when he can't take care of his children? Some people have turned church into something else. Anahubiri nini?
@marywanjiru4106Ай бұрын
This is so great bless you,,nitakutafuta mamaa 🙏
@ForeverDee9939Ай бұрын
She’s very calm and intelligent. She’s a good marriage counselor and the best part of all she’s a believer. Come sunshine come rain, Yes! Life has to continue
@vgeegodseed1720Ай бұрын
A lady full of wisdom knowledge and courage.....in every situation love yourself first seek good relationship with God 🙏
@lucynjagi5988Ай бұрын
Thank you Monicah for bringing such inspiring stories. I love this show so much and one time I will see myself there telling people it is very possible with God. I have been single for 30 years now and have seen the Lord doing wonders to me and my children/family.
@kweliyake5212Ай бұрын
I pray that you find a good man who will love you and the boys UNCONDITIONALLY.
@eddahmwangi6689Ай бұрын
Very wise lady and her words are really encouraging and heart healing,may God continue to give her peace to be able to provide for her kids.
@margaretkairu6494Ай бұрын
Healing comes frm within. Monica your face is glowing.
@SusaMukethiАй бұрын
She is so beautiful 😍 💖
@Violet3734Ай бұрын
Mine left me with a 6 year old and the other in the tummy 17 years ago. It broke me, but i healed. I've been to hell and back now my kids have grown and the guy comes to us crying, full of regrets. Kids can't stand him and ive no feelings for him. Mtu abebe mzigo wake. Maisha imemramba, tena vibaya😢
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
They come back after huko kwingine kume haribika wewe ndio unarudiwa umuoshe tena umushughulikie I saw my father come back with a paper bag
@KikiKikih-g9l24 күн бұрын
Analilia nini😂😂huyo arudi tu kwenye alitoka
@dorcaskarago287624 күн бұрын
Karma aiwezi acha mtu
@Violet373424 күн бұрын
@dorcaskarago2876 I wish I could talk to women who've wrongly been put through hell to relax and know karma is real
@annieannie9444Ай бұрын
It has been seven yrs of pain for me , but i choose to stay becox that's what i felt best. Early this yr i choose to forgive and begin my healing journey, it was the best thing to do. I feel so fresh in body and soul....God is faithful
@MariahNjoroge-v4iАй бұрын
Monic si uanze kipindi cha married but single. Ill be the first aki tondu ma reke ngwire😢😢
@alicemukami1169Ай бұрын
Married but lonely 😭😭
@irenenjuguna352226 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂gutiri citathekagwo ma
@liliankemy673918 күн бұрын
Married but single is too much out here....
@CharitymwangiMwangi-u8qАй бұрын
Wow i hv learned something about forgiveness God bless u so much monicah🙏🙏
@marymumbibaiya8787Ай бұрын
Pole Stella, I fully agree with you after undergoing the same many years ago. It is a terrible experience. But forgiveness and letting go is the key. Surely once you forgive, God becomes the best friend. You will go far.
@lucymaina1555Ай бұрын
Thanks Monica. You Educate many.
@GracethuopharisАй бұрын
Ooh I know stella she is a wonderful person.stella I understand mwana wiitu nikurituhaga no God is alwaiys close the broken hearted😘
@maishafrance96Ай бұрын
Peace is everything and Stella found peace through forgiveness. Thank you Monica for being real
@rachaelkim843Ай бұрын
I have listened to this story and its painful to get divorced...........Madam Stella may the Lord comfort yu and restore your life fully...........Monica where can I get the Hagar book .......I need to read this healing book
Maketheke😂😂😂 Nima niguo moigaga ATI ciana ti ciao Stella ndkamake I was married for 28yrs he did the same but there is a God of a good chance alinipati a sweetheart a man who values a woman with all due respect ❤
@Shii1990Ай бұрын
I totally relate. Marriage is a total scam!
@RoseWangoi-k5sАй бұрын
Much love for u Monica ❤❤ learn alot from this channel
@BenjaminWaithaka-pm5uxАй бұрын
Let Go and let God,Its a lesson and an inspiration too
@teresianjeri-k7lАй бұрын
Looking-good Monica... ....this story weeee.....feel the pain. Yaani mtu anakuacha with the kids,anaeda kulea za wenyewe,i fear marriage sometimes 😢😢😢
@lucymwangi2663Ай бұрын
Na agathii gutuika muhunjia
@wambuinderitu2461Ай бұрын
Monicah loving your consistency 🎉 , am learning a lot 😊
@Maryjohnson-zq6ybАй бұрын
I know this lady Stella from magumu.may Jehova come through for you and your kids
@elizabethmulli3717Ай бұрын
Stella is a gem. She is beautiful in and out and she has a golden heart. That guy wast the looser. Her kikuyu vocabulary is exemplary. She did the right thing for herself and her Children. Sometimes staying in such marriages have a tendency of scaring the children for life. I wish she was my sister or friend.
@beatricewairimu8882Ай бұрын
Maturity of another level
@Nancy.NyamburaАй бұрын
Monica our guest today is very insightful. More grace anapopambana.
@CAROLINEWANGUI-q2qАй бұрын
Monica you look alike with your guest ❤
@RuthKamau-u3xАй бұрын
the power of healing comes from within especially if u tired of kuvumilia
@losimetoni2537Ай бұрын
Very wise woman with wise words thank you so much 🙏
@maggienjenga8617Ай бұрын
True God heals and restores. I am a living testimony.
@RufinaAbisaiАй бұрын
Learnt lot especially about forgiveness. Going to put it in practice from today❤
@beatricemuthoni2678Ай бұрын
Kagoni onanii ndirenda guka kuu niguo hone ndiri mundu wa kwaria nake na rugano rwakwa ni ruritu muno am very stressed
@trizaWairi-xt1yjАй бұрын
@kagoni tuletee beatrice muthoni ahone maa
@alekonya1116Ай бұрын
@beatricemuthoni2678 seek the kingdom of God first... God wipes our tears.. God give us unconditionally love .
@abdullahabunayyan-jv7sjАй бұрын
Beatrice..follow the protocol if you wanna share your story, here kwa comment section hutasaidika my dear.
@catherinewanja4655Ай бұрын
Direct her😢@@abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
Contact Kagoni yeye hupeana number ya simu hapo mwisho ya video
@angelawangui5184Ай бұрын
You looking good Monica. Aging like fine wine.
@janemuthoni584Ай бұрын
Divorce is more painful, death you learn to accept and let go but in divorce you are in constant denial and in most cases there’s the back and forth games of both of you fighting/ interacting/ distracting… which actually turns out to very destructive and delays healing and progress….
@ngonyoestherАй бұрын
@@janemuthoni584 divorce is painful than death...may God sustain marriages
@JaneWanjiru-ey1kcАй бұрын
I could not believe after 20yrs we divorced. It was very painful but through prayers and accepting yourself am getting healed.
@DhemaxxfamilyАй бұрын
You will be loved again
@loco871Ай бұрын
20years too but God is Great getting back to my feet again
@johngichangoАй бұрын
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@janegithumu8906Ай бұрын
Sending hugs🫂, mine ended after 15yrs...healing is a process,still working on it
@swaglive4856Ай бұрын
Me too. I don't regret though
@ngonyoestherАй бұрын
Cool woman and full of humour....❤
@terrymichael2541Ай бұрын
Huwa sio normal this woman ndio achukuwe ur hubby n ur hubby ajisahau ,akusahau na asahau watoi juju huwa jime work n then zinaisha nguvu Wana twagana😂😂God have mercy on Goat wife
@janewaithera8835Ай бұрын
There is no juju its a choice.. Life is all about choices
@KikiKikih-g9l24 күн бұрын
There’s always a saying chini ya maji ukiona mother in law ni mzuri zaidi jua tu anamjua kijana wake ….😅
@anointedhandmaiden5261Ай бұрын
A friend of mine divorced after 3oyrs .she was in great pain
@veronicadeker4589Ай бұрын
My friend Stella be strong mamaa, I can witness that
@BlessedSophia-h7dАй бұрын
Story of my life. One day God will speak loud.
@lucy-vz5urАй бұрын
I understand this lady very well, trust the process
@sarahnemi4593Ай бұрын
Divorce is painful 😢
@winniekamau2752Ай бұрын
May God give you a good husband...what do people want
@warigiapurity8252Ай бұрын
Gikuyu men hardly ever look after the children when the marriage comes to an end. When the mother brings up the children the men want to be recognized by the same children.
@shironjuguna5853Ай бұрын
I agree ! I have never understood why the majority behave this way! Very sad...na mtoto akiwa mkubwa they want to be part of the story 😂😂😂😂wacha nisiseme kitu!
@LucyWangui-h2oАй бұрын
Sure
@reginamumbi4418Ай бұрын
Nikuri maundu maingi mageragirwo na NGAI niakoragwo na gitumi nigetha aturute stella hingura aingi nigetha andu matige kwitha kana gwitwa.
@petermuhoro1510Ай бұрын
@@warigiapurity8252 this statement is not accurate. I know of many kikuyu men who are exceptional single dads!
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
Ndio wapewe dowry na watoto wakipata kazi wakue wana itisha black tax
@elizabethk8500Ай бұрын
Good Question Kangoni,Mbara ya meciria ni kari, like a few weeks ago a lady aroire mukanda areita niundu wa mbara ya meciria, it’s the worst thing someone can go through
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
Depression
@elizabethwangui2008Ай бұрын
Monica, you look good. The castro oil is working good on you. The guest today is hirallius
@carolineberger8889Ай бұрын
Njeri kirema from Germany ❤
@mercynjeri7086Ай бұрын
Wisdom 🎉🎉
@b.3940Ай бұрын
After 21 years of riding the marriage pain train, I stopped it and walked out. The best decision I have ever made.
@alicekagochi7869Ай бұрын
Don't make me fear life tondu maah 😭😭 God have mercy on us
@tabithangugi-g6mАй бұрын
@@alicekagochi7869May God grant you according to the desires of your heart.May you receive the only n only God made for you.... SUITABLE For YOU
@shirowkihara6577Ай бұрын
Have given up on love,the psychological torture I went through with that narcissist is unexplainable, unforgettable experience 😢
@kavetim1895Ай бұрын
Separation or divorce has a very bad impact on the kids! I hv walked that path n there is no bitter pill like that effect! I moved on n life became better. I don’t regret!
@nectarblueАй бұрын
If he didn't want to be married why not just go. Why abuse her financially and then dump her. Anyway if truth be said Kikuyu Men hate kids. How do they lose themselves off completely and leave their kids behind without turning back? No other tribe or race does that in the world.
@lucymwangi2663Ай бұрын
I agree. Many of them don't love their kids
@carolinekokengo5331Ай бұрын
Hata wakisii hawapendi watoto Mimi nikona mtoto bt Huwa hashuguliki ni wanawake tu ndio ameweka first priority
@christinewachira9010Ай бұрын
@@carolinekokengo5331 from experience it's like they are bewitched.
@sussymuthonimauthia7230Ай бұрын
Hi Monica,, kindly share the contacts for the castor oil lady Thanks
@EMMANUEL-GODWITHUS5976Ай бұрын
IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DRAW CONCLUSIONS FROM ONE SIDE OF THE STORY. UNTIL YOU HEAR FROM THE OTHER PARTNER.
@Eunice-gl9fhАй бұрын
Whatever the other side of a story may be,if there is infidelity,the case is done.
@pearlynina7597Ай бұрын
Kuja useme your side.
@janewamaitha3407Ай бұрын
Are you the accused ama?
@IshalliveNАй бұрын
😂😂 thinking of the same @@janewamaitha3407
@marywangari2555Ай бұрын
Enda umtafute atwambia, the truth bearer is bold but the guilty is always afraid
@FAITHWANGARI-vp5tnАй бұрын
This lady she so mature
@lizzymjombas8538Ай бұрын
Marriage is made of 2,a husband and a wife...the role of a husband in a marriage is crucial as well as of a wife...
@sarahngugi2779Ай бұрын
A good story teller at the same time feeling for her 😊 Uhiki we Murio 😅
@MagywanaksАй бұрын
congratulations kangoni
@arinyunjuguna7542Ай бұрын
😢 no matter what ww have to gride to reach our final destination ,,,God heal our inner soul , strength us in all time of difficult
@marykamau4214Ай бұрын
I know this lady Stella waa the story I know nikienda your wedding aki❤
@teslamumo1396Ай бұрын
Jipe nguvu, God is on your sides, he will also be pay one day
@hannahwakonyo414Ай бұрын
Very true ruo mundu aiguwaga
@MarthaMukuhaАй бұрын
But husbands wenye wako kwa leadership kwa church wako na kashida.
@madamboss8758Ай бұрын
Kagoni witu uhana tatukugagatia curu natucahi very soon❤🎉
@beatricemugo5887Ай бұрын
😂me too nimeona hivyo
@beatricemugo5887Ай бұрын
😂 even me nimeona hivyo
@mercymathenge5742Ай бұрын
Me too nimeona hivo
@annemuthoni4027Ай бұрын
I HAVE SEEN THE SAME. UJI LOADING
@paulinewaruguru442Ай бұрын
Strong of a woman forgiveness is the first stage of healing
@rose_wangariАй бұрын
Soree… hira whuot😮
@missk8647Ай бұрын
Actually it is the last stage because before you forgive, you will face denial and other stages until you decide to let go. That's when you forgive and move on fully.
@janetwakio6074Ай бұрын
Waiting 😊
@njoguwanjeriАй бұрын
Uyu mutumia niakona Ngai 🎉🎉🎉
@JaneWagaki-p1oАй бұрын
Very true life ya single mother ni ngumu haki sana am a single mother for 14 years now niguo stellah onanii niguo atumia manjiraga weehh ukaigwa stress maiita mana
@veronicadeker4589Ай бұрын
I quit after 7yrs😢😢😢, was very sad morning when he wrote a message akasema nisikupate huko😢😢😢😢
@elizabethk8500Ай бұрын
Life is spiritual……
@janekariuki5241Ай бұрын
Wow wow good woman
@MaggyNganga-hb7olАй бұрын
My marriage lasted for only 3 years, and was a church wedding.
@marygathoni8014Ай бұрын
Single life is not a joke aki ask me 🙆🙆
@swaglive4856Ай бұрын
Njaa ni kuuru okorwo wekite uhiki. 😂😂😂 niangenia
@ElizabethNjau-k7vАй бұрын
I understand😢. Ndekite uhiki ngiikara 15 years,,I am single for ten years😢😢😢natihahuthu
@dorismakena5467Ай бұрын
Point of correction...uhiki waku wathukirio ni muthuriguo....
@Sallyk-ix7mq15 күн бұрын
Aty single life ain't good?mmh i prefer to be single than kua na kondoo hainisaidii
@marygitau3869Ай бұрын
Kagoni let's the lady talk ,, niuramuhingica muno,
@reginanjuguna3229Ай бұрын
Yes ni kama ako slow akili...maswali unnecessary !!
@rechomunini2730Ай бұрын
My father did the same n I hate men to date💔😢
@annmwariri3059Ай бұрын
Mm cjai olewa lkn ile heartbreak nlipata after kupata ball cjai heal adi waleo 11yrs ago. Matua mangi mundu datuaga ni kweda, peace is paramount!
@myonlinetherapysessions9668Ай бұрын
Yes pain hufanya mtu aamue kukaa ivo
@rose-ou1diАй бұрын
Where is mizzipah I need to visit?
@paulinemwangi7560Ай бұрын
There is one at Lakeview Estate, Naivasha. Near, Mungai heights
@rose-ou1diАй бұрын
@paulinemwangi7560 from Nairobi nashuka?
@juliusmuhia1353Ай бұрын
That's true ciana icokaga na thutha huwezi amini but sometimes women makes it happens
@Tabby-hq7jlАй бұрын
Nawe kagoni niracokera muno ati nduranyita aai
@janewamaitha3407Ай бұрын
Analeta confusion na flow ya story juu ya kukatakata....
@doctordeeMАй бұрын
The story is nice but Kagoni keep interfering please let the guest talk 😮