I relate 💯%. Divorce is painful. Really painful. However Stella, don't give up on love coz of the experience u had. I went through the same pain. Infact mine was even more painful coz I lost so much. I had taken loans for him, I had invested at my in-laws all my life- and he left with everything. I took time to heal after divorce and later gave love another chance n I tell you, there are good men out here. I'm loved and loved right. Life is beautiful and love is a beautiful thing. May God restore your love life and give u a good man who'll love you and your boys. Shalom.
@elsiekendi962124 күн бұрын
Tafuta Monica utupee hio Ka story kwa loved again
@myonlinetherapysessions966824 күн бұрын
@@elsiekendi9621yes I agree tu atu encourage us who have given up
I have gone through alot for seven years,I have no job no income nothing,but am planning for an exit!but I have to quit
@marywanjiru41063 күн бұрын
This is so great bless you,,nitakutafuta mamaa 🙏
@lucynjagi59884 күн бұрын
Thank you Monicah for bringing such inspiring stories. I love this show so much and one time I will see myself there telling people it is very possible with God. I have been single for 30 years now and have seen the Lord doing wonders to me and my children/family.
@maishafrance967 сағат бұрын
Peace is everything and Stella found peace through forgiveness. Thank you Monica for being real
@Violet373424 күн бұрын
Mine left me with a 6 year old and the other in the tummy 17 years ago. It broke me, but i healed. I've been to hell and back now my kids have grown and the guy comes to us crying, full of regrets. Kids can't stand him and ive no feelings for him. Mtu abebe mzigo wake. Maisha imemramba, tena vibaya😢
@myonlinetherapysessions966824 күн бұрын
They come back after huko kwingine kume haribika wewe ndio unarudiwa umuoshe tena umushughulikie I saw my father come back with a paper bag
@irenekinyanjui431924 күн бұрын
Our very own Stella....you were my role model kwa church nikigrow...'part of your bridal team 'she's a vibe❤❤
@lucymwangi266319 күн бұрын
What kind of a preacher is he when he can't take care of his children? Some people have turned church into something else. Anahubiri nini?
@vgeegodseed172024 күн бұрын
A lady full of wisdom knowledge and courage.....in every situation love yourself first seek good relationship with God 🙏
@lucymaina1555Күн бұрын
Thanks Monica. You Educate many.
@ForeverDee993924 күн бұрын
She’s very calm and intelligent. She’s a good marriage counselor and the best part of all she’s a believer. Come sunshine come rain, Yes! Life has to continue
@kweliyake521224 күн бұрын
I pray that you find a good man who will love you and the boys UNCONDITIONALLY.
@Gracethuopharis22 күн бұрын
Ooh I know stella she is a wonderful person.stella I understand mwana wiitu nikurituhaga no God is alwaiys close the broken hearted😘
@MariahNjoroge-v4i15 күн бұрын
Monic si uanze kipindi cha married but single. Ill be the first aki tondu ma reke ngwire😢😢
@alicemukami11694 күн бұрын
Married but lonely 😭😭
@annieannie94447 күн бұрын
It has been seven yrs of pain for me , but i choose to stay becox that's what i felt best. Early this yr i choose to forgive and begin my healing journey, it was the best thing to do. I feel so fresh in body and soul....God is faithful
@Elijah-vz4sp21 күн бұрын
Maketheke😂😂😂 Nima niguo moigaga ATI ciana ti ciao Stella ndkamake I was married for 28yrs he did the same but there is a God of a good chance alinipati a sweetheart a man who values a woman with all due respect ❤
@eddahmwangi668923 күн бұрын
Very wise lady and her words are really encouraging and heart healing,may God continue to give her peace to be able to provide for her kids.
@CharitymwangiMwangi-u8q24 күн бұрын
Wow i hv learned something about forgiveness God bless u so much monicah🙏🙏
@marymumbibaiya878723 күн бұрын
Pole Stella, I fully agree with you after undergoing the same many years ago. It is a terrible experience. But forgiveness and letting go is the key. Surely once you forgive, God becomes the best friend. You will go far.
@Maryjohnson-zq6yb7 күн бұрын
I know this lady Stella from magumu.may Jehova come through for you and your kids
@margaretkairu649423 күн бұрын
Healing comes frm within. Monica your face is glowing.
@rachaelkim84323 күн бұрын
I have listened to this story and its painful to get divorced...........Madam Stella may the Lord comfort yu and restore your life fully...........Monica where can I get the Hagar book .......I need to read this healing book
Stella is a gem. She is beautiful in and out and she has a golden heart. That guy wast the looser. Her kikuyu vocabulary is exemplary. She did the right thing for herself and her Children. Sometimes staying in such marriages have a tendency of scaring the children for life. I wish she was my sister or friend.
@Shii199024 күн бұрын
I totally relate. Marriage is a total scam!
@RuthKamau-u3x24 күн бұрын
the power of healing comes from within especially if u tired of kuvumilia
@maggienjenga861724 күн бұрын
True God heals and restores. I am a living testimony.
@BenjaminWaithaka-pm5ux24 күн бұрын
Let Go and let God,Its a lesson and an inspiration too
@teresianjeri-k7l24 күн бұрын
Looking-good Monica... ....this story weeee.....feel the pain. Yaani mtu anakuacha with the kids,anaeda kulea za wenyewe,i fear marriage sometimes 😢😢😢
@lucymwangi266319 күн бұрын
Na agathii gutuika muhunjia
@SusaMukethi18 күн бұрын
She is so beautiful 😍 💖
@losimetoni253724 күн бұрын
Very wise woman with wise words thank you so much 🙏
@RufinaAbisai24 күн бұрын
Learnt lot especially about forgiveness. Going to put it in practice from today❤
@beatricewairimu888224 күн бұрын
Maturity of another level
@NancyNyambura-ge8bi23 күн бұрын
Monica our guest today is very insightful. More grace anapopambana.
@winniekamau275225 күн бұрын
May God give you a good husband...what do people want
@elizabethwangui200824 күн бұрын
Monica, you look good. The castro oil is working good on you. The guest today is hirallius
@CAROLINEWANGUI-q2q23 күн бұрын
Monica you look alike with your guest ❤
@lucy-vz5ur24 күн бұрын
I understand this lady very well, trust the process
@BlessedSophia-h7d24 күн бұрын
Story of my life. One day God will speak loud.
@angelawangui518424 күн бұрын
You looking good Monica. Aging like fine wine.
@janemuthoni58424 күн бұрын
Divorce is more painful, death you learn to accept and let go but in divorce you are in constant denial and in most cases there’s the back and forth games of both of you fighting/ interacting/ distracting… which actually turns out to very destructive and delays healing and progress….
@ngonyoesther19 күн бұрын
@@janemuthoni584 divorce is painful than death...may God sustain marriages
@veronicadeker458924 күн бұрын
My friend Stella be strong mamaa, I can witness that
@JaneWagaki-p1o24 күн бұрын
Very true life ya single mother ni ngumu haki sana am a single mother for 14 years now niguo stellah onanii niguo atumia manjiraga weehh ukaigwa stress maiita mana
@kavetim189521 күн бұрын
Separation or divorce has a very bad impact on the kids! I hv walked that path n there is no bitter pill like that effect! I moved on n life became better. I don’t regret!
@terrymichael254124 күн бұрын
Huwa sio normal this woman ndio achukuwe ur hubby n ur hubby ajisahau ,akusahau na asahau watoi juju huwa jime work n then zinaisha nguvu Wana twagana😂😂God have mercy on Goat wife
@janewaithera883524 күн бұрын
There is no juju its a choice.. Life is all about choices
@RoseWangoi-k5s25 күн бұрын
Much love for u Monica ❤❤ learn alot from this channel
@salomenewsome41888 күн бұрын
Is kagoni expecting. Congratulations
@rechomunini27306 күн бұрын
😂
@anointedhandmaiden52612 күн бұрын
A friend of mine divorced after 3oyrs .she was in great pain
@elizabethk850019 күн бұрын
Good Question Kangoni,Mbara ya meciria ni kari, like a few weeks ago a lady aroire mukanda areita niundu wa mbara ya meciria, it’s the worst thing someone can go through
@myonlinetherapysessions966818 күн бұрын
Depression
@sarahnemi459325 күн бұрын
Divorce is painful 😢
@nectarblue23 күн бұрын
If he didn't want to be married why not just go. Why abuse her financially and then dump her. Anyway if truth be said Kikuyu Men hate kids. How do they lose themselves off completely and leave their kids behind without turning back? No other tribe or race does that in the world.
@lucymwangi266319 күн бұрын
I agree. Many of them don't love their kids
@carolinekokengo533117 күн бұрын
Hata wakisii hawapendi watoto Mimi nikona mtoto bt Huwa hashuguliki ni wanawake tu ndio ameweka first priority
@christinewachira90109 күн бұрын
@@carolinekokengo5331 from experience it's like they are bewitched.
@ngonyoesther19 күн бұрын
Cool woman and full of humour....❤
@shirowkihara657724 күн бұрын
Have given up on love,the psychological torture I went through with that narcissist is unexplainable, unforgettable experience 😢
@stellakaranja765918 күн бұрын
Monicah the deborah of our generation keep shinning for the love,telling my story without tears?what shall i render to Jevoha who heal the broken hearts,to the broken heart there is God in heaven take you heart there am a witness i have tasted him for sure he is good.
@MarthaMukuha24 күн бұрын
But husbands wenye wako kwa leadership kwa church wako na kashida.
@lizzymjombas853824 күн бұрын
Marriage is made of 2,a husband and a wife...the role of a husband in a marriage is crucial as well as of a wife...
@beatricemuthoni267824 күн бұрын
Kagoni onanii ndirenda guka kuu niguo hone ndiri mundu wa kwaria nake na rugano rwakwa ni ruritu muno am very stressed
@trizaWairi-xt1yj24 күн бұрын
@kagoni tuletee beatrice muthoni ahone maa
@alekonya111624 күн бұрын
@beatricemuthoni2678 seek the kingdom of God first... God wipes our tears.. God give us unconditionally love .
@abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj24 күн бұрын
Beatrice..follow the protocol if you wanna share your story, here kwa comment section hutasaidika my dear.
@catherinewanja465524 күн бұрын
Direct her😢@@abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj
@myonlinetherapysessions966824 күн бұрын
Contact Kagoni yeye hupeana number ya simu hapo mwisho ya video
@warigiapurity825224 күн бұрын
Gikuyu men hardly ever look after the children when the marriage comes to an end. When the mother brings up the children the men want to be recognized by the same children.
@shironjuguna585324 күн бұрын
I agree ! I have never understood why the majority behave this way! Very sad...na mtoto akiwa mkubwa they want to be part of the story 😂😂😂😂wacha nisiseme kitu!
@LucyWangui-h2o24 күн бұрын
Sure
@reginamumbi441824 күн бұрын
Nikuri maundu maingi mageragirwo na NGAI niakoragwo na gitumi nigetha aturute stella hingura aingi nigetha andu matige kwitha kana gwitwa.
@petermuhoro151024 күн бұрын
@@warigiapurity8252 this statement is not accurate. I know of many kikuyu men who are exceptional single dads!
@myonlinetherapysessions966824 күн бұрын
Ndio wapewe dowry na watoto wakipata kazi wakue wana itisha black tax
@teslamumo139624 күн бұрын
Jipe nguvu, God is on your sides, he will also be pay one day
@carolineberger888921 күн бұрын
Njeri kirema from Germany ❤
@annmwariri305921 күн бұрын
Mm cjai olewa lkn ile heartbreak nlipata after kupata ball cjai heal adi waleo 11yrs ago. Matua mangi mundu datuaga ni kweda, peace is paramount!
@myonlinetherapysessions966818 күн бұрын
Yes pain hufanya mtu aamue kukaa ivo
@paulinewaruguru44225 күн бұрын
Strong of a woman forgiveness is the first stage of healing
@rose_wangari24 күн бұрын
Soree… hira whuot😮
@missk864723 күн бұрын
Actually it is the last stage because before you forgive, you will face denial and other stages until you decide to let go. That's when you forgive and move on fully.
@arinyunjuguna754225 күн бұрын
😢 no matter what ww have to gride to reach our final destination ,,,God heal our inner soul , strength us in all time of difficult
@wambuinderitu246125 күн бұрын
Monicah loving your consistency 🎉 , am learning a lot 😊
@FAITHWANGARI-vp5tn24 күн бұрын
This lady she so mature
@JudyMuluki23 күн бұрын
I know her from naivasha alikua anatupea job ya kuosha manguo kwake
@paulinemwangi756015 күн бұрын
I believe she is familiar too from Naivasha
@juliusmuhia135324 күн бұрын
That's true ciana icokaga na thutha huwezi amini but sometimes women makes it happens
@EMMANUEL-GODWITHUS597625 күн бұрын
IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DRAW CONCLUSIONS FROM ONE SIDE OF THE STORY. UNTIL YOU HEAR FROM THE OTHER PARTNER.
@Eunice-gl9fh24 күн бұрын
Whatever the other side of a story may be,if there is infidelity,the case is done.
@pearlynina759724 күн бұрын
Kuja useme your side.
@janewamaitha340723 күн бұрын
Are you the accused ama?
@IshalliveN22 күн бұрын
😂😂 thinking of the same @@janewamaitha3407
@marywangari255519 күн бұрын
Enda umtafute atwambia, the truth bearer is bold but the guilty is always afraid
@b.394024 күн бұрын
After 21 years of riding the marriage pain train, I stopped it and walked out. The best decision I have ever made.
@alicekagochi786924 күн бұрын
Don't make me fear life tondu maah 😭😭 God have mercy on us
@tabithangugi-g6m21 күн бұрын
@@alicekagochi7869May God grant you according to the desires of your heart.May you receive the only n only God made for you.... SUITABLE For YOU
@mercynjeri708612 күн бұрын
Wisdom 🎉🎉
@marykamau421424 күн бұрын
I know this lady Stella waa the story I know nikienda your wedding aki❤
@sussymuthonimauthia723024 күн бұрын
Hi Monica,, kindly share the contacts for the castor oil lady Thanks
@dorismakena54673 күн бұрын
Point of correction...uhiki waku wathukirio ni muthuriguo....
@sarahngugi277925 күн бұрын
A good story teller at the same time feeling for her 😊 Uhiki we Murio 😅
@marygitau386921 күн бұрын
Kagoni let's the lady talk ,, niuramuhingica muno,
@reginanjuguna322921 күн бұрын
Yes ni kama ako slow akili...maswali unnecessary !!
@JaneWanjiru-ey1kc25 күн бұрын
I could not believe after 20yrs we divorced. It was very painful but through prayers and accepting yourself am getting healed.
@Dhemaxxfamily25 күн бұрын
You will be loved again
@loco87124 күн бұрын
20years too but God is Great getting back to my feet again
@johngichango24 күн бұрын
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@janegithumu890624 күн бұрын
Sending hugs🫂, mine ended after 15yrs...healing is a process,still working on it
@swaglive485623 күн бұрын
Me too. I don't regret though
@ElizabethNjau-k7v24 күн бұрын
I understand😢. Ndekite uhiki ngiikara 15 years,,I am single for ten years😢😢😢natihahuthu
@hannahwakonyo41424 күн бұрын
Very true ruo mundu aiguwaga
@rechomunini27306 күн бұрын
My father did the same n I hate men to date💔😢
@danielmurage492624 күн бұрын
three is a crowd.. divorce is murder..... there is no fury like a woman scorned.....
@veronicadeker458924 күн бұрын
I quit after 7yrs😢😢😢, was very sad morning when he wrote a message akasema nisikupate huko😢😢😢😢
@janekariuki524123 күн бұрын
Wow wow good woman
@BlessingKanario20 күн бұрын
Tuletee connie muuru pls
@MaggyNganga-hb7ol24 күн бұрын
My marriage lasted for only 3 years, and was a church wedding.
@njoguwanjeri23 күн бұрын
Uyu mutumia niakona Ngai 🎉🎉🎉
@swaglive485623 күн бұрын
Njaa ni kuuru okorwo wekite uhiki. 😂😂😂 niangenia
@alekonya111624 күн бұрын
Most of us are married to the marine kingdom... Which brings spiritual husband or wive...(Incubus and succubus) Most people do nothing knowledge this... These spirits are very jealous they have destroyed a lot of marraiges in the whole world.
@wambuikingatua382023 күн бұрын
@AfrimaxKikuyu16 күн бұрын
Kagoni maundu nii uthodekete biu riu,maitu niaguciarwo
@elizabethk850019 күн бұрын
Life is spiritual……
@janetwakio607425 күн бұрын
Waiting 😊
@salomenewsome41888 күн бұрын
Mwanamke huwa kwa marriage alone
@marygathoni801424 күн бұрын
Single life is not a joke aki ask me 🙆🙆
@doctordeeM9 күн бұрын
The story is nice but Kagoni keep interfering please let the guest talk 😮
@madamboss875824 күн бұрын
Kagoni witu uhana tatukugagatia curu natucahi very soon❤🎉