Understanding Triggers by Personality Type | Dave Powers of Objective Personality

[@lomotil3370]

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🧠 *Triggers, uncontrollable aspects of psychology, are explored, particularly focusing on the last animal in the personality stack.* 02:22 🔄 *Last animal in the personality stack is often the biggest trigger, but its impact can vary based on a person's life stage and experiences.* 04:28 ⚙️ *Recognizing and addressing the last animal (weakest function) is crucial for personal growth and overcoming psychological triggers.* 06:05 🔄 *Getting "sick" of the addiction to the dominant function is necessary for personal evolution and growth.* 11:54 🌐 *Evolutionary perspective: Psychology and triggers are designed to trick individuals until a certain age; conscious effort is required for personal responsibility after that age.* 19:26 🎨 *Engaging in mindless activities, like doodling on an iPad, can lead to a more enjoyable creative process.* 20:35 ⚖️ *Slowing down, experiencing boredom, and recalibrating dopamine receptors can enhance productivity and focus.* 21:44 📚 *Consume-last individuals may struggle with recalling the last book they read cover to cover, preferring to jump around chapters.* 23:10 🎬 *Blast-last individuals may feel anxious about committing to watching a movie and might prefer multitasking during the viewing.* 28:53 🚗 *Triggering someone with blast-last involves pushing them to act immediately, potentially causing discomfort and resistance.* 37:58 🚀 *Sleep Last individuals may struggle with a constant loop of repetitive questions, hindering personal growth and learning beyond a limited scope.* 40:16 🪞 *Play Last individuals find it challenging to transition quickly from their inner world to engaging with the tribe, experiencing a drain when interrupted during focused tasks.* 47:04 ⚡️ *Play Last individuals may struggle with sustaining social interactions or events for extended periods, and establishing time limits can help manage energy and expectations.* 49:37 🛌 *Sleep Last individuals may exhibit a lack of ability to comfortably delve into their inner world for extended periods, leading to challenges in personal reflection and processing.* 55:32 🔄 *Excessive reliance on short-term dopamine from quick answers in social interactions can hinder long-term personal development, especially for Play Last individuals.* 56:45 🧠 *When interacting with sleep-last individuals, setting standards and limitations on the frequency of questions can be beneficial to avoid overwhelming them.* 58:51 🔄 *Establishing social standards is crucial for self-growth, especially for those with sleep-last tendencies. Acknowledging where you fall short in meeting these standards allows for conscious improvement.* 01:00:30 🔄 *Embracing the path of self-growth involves recognizing societal standards and gradually working towards meeting them. Patience is key, as improvement is a gradual process.* 01:02:06 🔄 *Accountability is essential in the journey of self-improvement. Acknowledging mistakes and taking responsibility can lead to positive transformations.* 01:11:37 🧘‍♂️ *Training oneself to detach emotionally from passions to achieve a flow state is a useful technique for enhancing productivity and avoiding single-minded fixation.* 01:15:01 🧘 *Conscious choices and decisions play a crucial role in personal growth and navigating challenges.* 01:15:42 🧠 *Increased awareness diminishes the ability to choose ignorance, pushing individuals to confront uncomfortable truths.* 01:16:25 🔄 *Perishable skills in personal growth, like facing demons, require consistent practice to maintain effectiveness.* 01:17:50 📚 *Setting up routines, like the poker game, forces individuals to confront challenges regularly, preventing skill deterioration.* 01:19:28 💪 *Establishing "rackets" or consistent practices helps individuals navigate challenges and contribute positively to others.* Made with HARPA AI

[@findingninno2]

You trigger someone with demon blast by expecting me to take an important action when I don’t even know anything about it yet

[@InternetLiJo]

Lmao I’m going to have to digest that one 😅😅 feel free to elaborate more too.

[@appletree6898]

Ack, I feel a little triggered just reading that 😱

[@Lmaoeatrr]

Blast’s last never know what the tribe are actually doing. I’m at work and I have no idea what we are doing at the on the “special day”. Everything is a nice surprise but at the same time I’m like,”why tf didn’t they tell me.”

[@ryanquick1824]

having studied personality a little in college as part of my psychology major, we learned that the vast majority of people start out in some sort of sidedness or another and, it is ONLY by either doubling down on our top functions or working on your weaker functions to balance things out that we grow and/or evolve in life. worldly success typically lies in doubling down on your top functions. meanwhile, personal fulfillment typically lies in the active attempt to balance oneself out by bringing up your weaker functions to catch up with your saviors. regardless of the route they chose and one way or another, the VAST MAJORITY of people end up with a more balanced status among their functions when they reach maturity. :) :) :) :) :) :) :) - INTJ

[@NJ-wb1cz]

Yeah, we start with one type and then go through multiple types as part of growing and changing. But it's not a guarantee and is very challenging - so some will remain one type, for others this process never stops and they can change even at 60

[@Audreyharding]

I think we need a whole explanatory interview just on the squirrel. Like, how exactly did Dave get the squirrel, where does it sleep, and is it jumping all over the house all the time? LOL

[@ChristopherWaddelow]

Ah the Se/Fi consume last. Seems like there is a strong aversion towards a negative "new experience" like ordering a new burger at a restaurant that tastes bad or getting a new shirt that fits weird. Not only is it being scared of that negative experience, but also taking time away from the blast production line that I need to get back to. For instance, the dishes need to be washed, and I "need" to go play my same video game, because then I won't have time later, or I need to make sure to check my bills and organize my receipts. It seems like a double wammy, where the potential for negative new experience + the time away from my "production" is the equation my head uses to justify skipping meals, not buying new clothes, not watching a new movie I might like, not getting new foods, the list goes on. Also great video!

[@InternetLiJo]

I think it’s why we tend to double down on liquid nourishment at times 😂 but also I found a horchata plant based protein powder recently that I literally prefer over most foods at the moment. 😅😅

[@ChristopherWaddelow]

@@InternetLiJo I may need to look into that, because I definitely need to keep updating my diet 😖

[@jankom.7783]

It seems like aversion to Si. Si take tasting, touching, physical enjoyment seriously. Se don't like it. Se wants to collect Si experiences. It is the opposite for understanding how things work. Ni wants to dismantle things and rebuild them. To know how it works. Ne just wants an answer. Same with Fi and understanding emotions. Fi wants to go through the experience of a betrayal, break up, defeat,... To understand and learn from it. Fe just wants a quick solution of not feeling negative emotions. Ti seems to be about tricking people into believing their worldview. Because they do not understand emotional reality, so they make their own

[@gracie_5]

​@@jankom.7783can you explain me more the si vs. se experience? Lets say, i easily overconsume like most women, but learned to feel the material and how i feel, i selled 2/3 of my wardrobe and buy cashmere sweatshirts on sale. I love sport, i love hugs and a good feeling, but im not overcomfy. Im not very anxious, but also not very offensive. I am aware of my environment, but could also run against something. My memory is bad, but my brain saves memories. Im sensual, but impulsive. Shy, but physical too. I like new things, but not all the time. I hate repetition, but will repeat myself at times. So what do i have? Se or si cognition?

[@jmiller1977]

I just spent all morning asking AI ChatGPT about Dave Powers objective personality and it broke it down and I thought very well and I asked if it was likely a better system than the original Myers Briggs and it said definitely better more nuance system and more flexible and likely to be more accurate

[@nicholasfalkreilly]

Scrolled through the entire video looking for the squirrel

[@InternetLiJo]

100% would do the same

[@peterpaul3166]

Blast Last trigger: Me - “Why cant everyone else do it (the thing) first?”

[@thescowlingschnauzer]

What got you to this place is not necessarily what gets you to the next place. What gets measured gets managed. When what you're doing isn't working, try the opposite.

[@InternetLiJo]

Love “what gets measured gets managed”

[@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes]

Really enjoyable to see 2 of my favorites INTJ talking/explaining together ^^ the last animals with their animals 😆🥰 I like your realism (to you both). I have Play last (Te Se), and funny enough I enjoy it, and even like these functions as much as my Ni. I even think sometimes, I waste time in my Savior Sleep Ni-Fi. And finally accepted that it's how the flow of my energy is. During the "boredom" phase, I recharge my Te.

[@InternetLiJo]

Thank you!!! 😊 🙏🏼

[@marshallrobinson1019]

Glad you're diving into subconscious 5th (seduce) functions. I mentioned them in your live stream. I see them as a diagnostic tool to refine one's analysis (post blindspot)

[@InternetLiJo]

❤️🙏🏼😎

[@Lily_BSFP]

Thank you. This was very useful :)

[@InternetLiJo]

Thank you Lily!!

[@practicalpersonality]

Being Sleep Savior makes my Blast lastness extra bad? 😱 I am forever doom! 😭 Just kidding, I’ll just keep going with my channel and slowly crank up the volume 🔊 Great interview! This deep dive was really helpful.

[@InternetLiJo]

Hey guys!! Fan and subscriber here you’re both amazing!

[@modifyingthemedium]

Wait- what the heck, I thought the squirrel was a metaphor!!! 12:03

[@InternetLiJo]

Haha not this time intuitives!!

[@arwuh]

I like it already 😀

[@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes]

Same, my intuition tell me I will like it ^^

[@UnicornsCanBeCool...]

Y'all are funny ❤

[@InternetLiJo]

Heck yea!

[@xtop-love7292]

I like this, a good discussion and discernment to clarify stuff. Something like this is needed about the social types as it relate to the OP system

[@InternetLiJo]

Socials are so new. I wanted to hate them At first but now I’m seeing what they’re tracking. I kind of don’t think their names represent what they are or what they’re tracking but it’s clear to me what that actually is now. Probably will have a video in the future on it.

[@xtop-love7292]

That would be great, in my mind I see the socials as a abstract experience of some sort of emotional belonging, imported for our fulfilment and well-being. I dont understand have the unconscious are orientated at the socials, therefore I have no real understanding of what the social types means. So I would love a explanation when it's is ready in the future.

[@user-ji5bd6pc6k]

Hey lijo thank you very much for such concise video with Dave. You very well know what's important as others keep doing Fe with dave and shan and has no actual format which helps people. As it is scattered and pretty random. Your video with shan where you had format of dark reality of each demon was my gateway to the objective personality. And that video was recommended to me by KZbin. Thank you for giving actual value. Here are some ideas that you can ask when you have them next time. 1. Double activation of the second function and its human need for every type. For ex: IxxP CP. So they are stuck on the both axis. Actually sees the Di., fears and gets triggered by De, overdoes Oe and runs away from Oi. How can double activated 2nd function should be balanced? Same for ExxJ PC, ExxP CS, IxxJ SC. It activates the last function but at the same time individual forgets and completely neglects the 3rd function and also fears the last function. And ends up getting nowhere. 2. Type and socials incongruency

[@InternetLiJo]

Appreciate the good vibes and suggestions for next time 🙏🏼😎

[@UnicornsCanBeCool...]

Wheres my infjs at? 🎉

[@getreadywithmemamma]

Oh my gosh😂😂😂 Oh Dave, I’m really sorry I shit out a bunch of emails on Si research… you should probably listen to them I went to college for 10 years in mostly science and I read through Lactation and nursing research now haha, but I processed how hard it is to just blast and play this. You are digging out the frontier of objective personality research and there’s no way you would get that perfect right away… I’m an idiot.. but actually, you do know that I believe hardcore in you, that’s why I sent them… you and Shan are so freaking NT smart. I want to help you fix your helmet before the jerks in the roller ball rink slam you against the wall. You are so ahead dude… let us fix the spaceship before it explodes over some stupid valve. I love this!!! 😅Lijo!!! Go go go go! Dave, enjoying being roasted haha. What the?!!! I truly thought that that squirrel was a metaphor since this is Ni land here… actual squirrel jumps on Dave…if you needed an ExFP in your life you didn’t have to turn to wildlife… actually maybe we are the squirrels of the humans? INTJ heaven 😂. On a more serious note… truly traumatized triggering can cause disassociation and just truly creates issues in brain wiring… just it’s not a fun thing to watch, or to experience humans breaking. But, if we can understand it more… than it can be a really caring thing for humanity, or the opposite…. Careful INTJs :). Don’t break them. Also, if my last animal play would engage then hey, me and Virsaviya do enough consuming for you all.

[@InternetLiJo]

❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼

[@getreadywithmemamma]

@@InternetLiJo love you Lijo, great new wall design too.. killing the Se girl.

[@kindedge]

Dave & Noodles 😍🙏🏻😍

[@user-ji5bd6pc6k]

44:46 Dave taking care of flex without getting noticed 😂😅??

[@InternetLiJo]

Lolol

[@robertmorse3201]

I can hike in the woods for eight hours a day for weeks. I cannot go fishing for one hour.😝

[@InternetLiJo]

lol I feel you there

[@BF-non]

What does double-activated mean?

[@arwuh]

The OPS 'Animals' are two functions working together. If that animal is last, its functions are said to be 'single activated'. Example - Dave and Lindsay both have Se-Fi 'Consume' last, so Se and Fi are single activated for them (Se is activated by Play, Fi by Sleep).

[@InternetLiJo]

I can always count on the ops fam in the comments. Thank you!

[@thescowlingschnauzer]

Dave says he needs to Blast so hard that he gets bored with it and his team tells him that they got this. So... proceed from Blast to Play... to get to Consume... SBPC... cycle thru his animals. I'll take "Things that have been obvious to people with NT consume savior for like 5 years" for 500, Alex.

[@InternetLiJo]

Hahahaja 😂🙏🏼

[@alex.does.comedy]

hahaha. to hell with small talk, let's get on with the subject matter :))

[@InternetLiJo]

Lmao always

[@elizabethkenobi1365]

Unfortunately I couldn't watch this because I don't understand what words like "animal" and "consume" refers to or where these terms come from. Sounds like you were both talking some insider language and there was no effort to explain.

[@InternetLiJo]

You know what you’re so right. I’m Going to link this video on the animals (the basics) in the video. kzbin.info/www/bejne/nHukhISNacilZposi=GFBgcZ1fFtdzMHJ0

[@elizabethkenobi1365]

@@InternetLiJo Oh okay, tysm!

[@Samira-d2m]

Is that a real squirrel?

[@Jenfinity]

LOL

[@mark_tolver]

I’m getting triggered by the dodgy, staccato sound tbh. Sorry!😬

[@InternetLiJo]

I’m Sorry 😩

[@mark_tolver]

@@InternetLiJo No worries!🙂