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@LateshaRenee Жыл бұрын
I think your memory of grandma lifting up dad is probably accurate 😂 moms get SUPER strength when their child is in danger!
@BloodNote3 ай бұрын
Right I was about to say the same thing. 🤣🤣 Mama Bear mode is real with the strength that comes from it to protect your child.
@rebeccareplies11 ай бұрын
I'm glad that you told your grandmother, your powerful grandmother saved your life.
@homebody6353 Жыл бұрын
Your grandmother is the MVP!! ❤❤ I love that you had her in your life. My grandma use to lay down the law too. Sending you support 🥲 Thank you for sharing!
@BGT_LLC Жыл бұрын
We need more women like that. Because, so many women side with these men
@yolandajones1794 Жыл бұрын
Amen. We all need a grandmother like that. So glad to see her heal from all that abuse 🙏🏿
@MsNique Жыл бұрын
@@yolandajones1794thank you and I agree. My grandmother was my Shero ❤
@angelaholmes8888 Жыл бұрын
Monique I'm so sorry that you witness violence in your childhood and for what that monster did to you you deserve nothing but happiness in your life
@PettyIsMyMiddleName Жыл бұрын
A single woman is a woman without a community of other women. Men are not your friends the vast majority (notice I said vast and not all as I’m SURE someone will say 🙄 Ladies never allow a man to isolate and seclude you. They know someone will call them out at some point. It’s a manipulation tactic. This lady is a beautiful soul ! ❤
@joannajourneys Жыл бұрын
After watching a truck load of these unfiltered stories, I've come to realise that some men ''not all men'' are barely even fathers who can't even NOT sleep with their own off spring... They can't even NOT SLEEP WITH THEIR OWN OFFSPRING.... I then stop to think that most of these tales come from America... Interesting to note...
@kiddomadeit8634 Жыл бұрын
I agree with u. At the same time not all friends are good. Some unhappy women find joy in breaking up relationships. Some men get labeled controlling just for not approving of that single friend that wants your wife to move the same pace as her. Im just saying.
@MSSHARIII10 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@untitledtruths10 ай бұрын
I forgive my abductors who kiddnapped me when I was 15. I also wrote a book about my experience. I only was able to forgive and move forward because I totally surrendered to Jesus Christ! I might share my testimony on here on day! You are a beautiful soul Monique! Thanks for sharing!
@Eronda100 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad your grandmother saved you. I hate that you weren’t able to live with her and grow up in her home. Thank you for being an inspiration to others.
@SophiaWafa-kv8kr Жыл бұрын
ANYONE READING THIS: FORGIVENESS IS NOT EVERYTHING AND YOU DO NOT NEED TO FORGIVE YOUR ABUSER/PERPETRATOR! You need to heal your inner child. F** those people. Forget about them and if you want to eventually forgive them then wait until you work on YOU before you forgive anyone who hurt you. God bless this woman for her boldness braveness to share her dark story! We are proud of you!
@khadijaabdunnur67279 ай бұрын
if i may, i would have to respectfully disagree. if you're a Christian or any other religious background, God calls us to forgive the people who've wronged us. it's not for the other person, it's for you. because it'll cause you to keep holding grudges, repressed bitterness and anger and God doesn't want that for you. "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." -Matthew 6:14-15
@SophiaWafa-kv8kr9 ай бұрын
@@khadijaabdunnur6727 you don’t have to do anything your heart doesn’t want to. Listen to your heart. If you lived by everything in the Bible you’d be living a very different life than you are, now. Let’s keep it real.
@khadijaabdunnur67279 ай бұрын
@@SophiaWafa-kv8kr Jeremiah 17:9 “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick. Who can understand it?” ESV
@conservativepeanutbutterpuff8 ай бұрын
Forgiveness is for you, not them.
@santanapage5044 Жыл бұрын
She gives me good vibes, and this motivates me to be a better mom no matter how hard it gets, ive had a similar childhood which is why im single since my divorce 3 years ago, im 43 years old and i have serious trust issues, so much so its preventing me from making friends or dating
@PositiveGlows Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear, I pray God continues to send you strength & trust daily 💫
@santanapage5044 Жыл бұрын
@@PositiveGlows thank u
@Kimbine1 Жыл бұрын
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@Peekaboo5819Ай бұрын
What a truly incredible woman A chip of the grandmas block. God bless her eternally
@angelaholmes8888 Жыл бұрын
Monique is truly a good person to find a way to forgive her parents and let them back in her life
@kelleennordquist5697 Жыл бұрын
Love you, Ms Monique...you are truly a light in this dark dark world.
@MsNique Жыл бұрын
Thank you❤
@delilaha Жыл бұрын
Two little girls🚩 Moves in quickly🚩 Pregnant (distracted)🚩 ISOLATED BEDROOM🚨 🥺😡
@celineypie Жыл бұрын
so true. the isolated bedroom was a huuuuge red flag. I’m so disappointed in her Mom for not believing her or protecting her.
@lucidlover9840 Жыл бұрын
I literally felt your pure soul through the screen, your strength is truly an inspiration 🥺
@mmcdonald1000 Жыл бұрын
Monique, your grandma is your biggest cheerleader. She's the one that believed in you when your mom, mother's boyfriend and father let u down. You're beautiful stay strong.👍
@ucanthandlethetruth6600 Жыл бұрын
Forgiveness comes from God! 💯 Give God the glory for the things He has done! 🔥🔥🔥 #ToGodBeTheGlory
@kearra3753 Жыл бұрын
I felt your pain and teared up when u started crying at the end. I was never physically hurt as a child like you but mentally yes. I'm the only girl with 3 brothers so I had to step up for mom. Dad and mom divorced when I was young. He moved on to a new women and treated her kids better than his own. Now I noticed it's the same with the grandkids when this was his chance to get it right. I feel like I resent my dad even more now. I'm trying to learn to forgive and I probably need to tell him how I feel!
@GrandmaMack Жыл бұрын
As a 72-year-old woman who suffered neglect from her parents in my childhood, I finally realized that I was given the most self-indulgent ignorant parents a child could receive. I had lot of anger as a young adult when I started to figure out that most parents were amazing, loving and caring. The best I can say about my parents is that they didn't SA'd me or kill me but then again, they were never home long enough to even notice me or my siblings. When the grandkids came, they so of tried to be present but that didn't last either. I finally gave myself peace by just letting it go and considering the source. I am grateful they didn't physically hurt me in any way. I loved them both and helped them in their old age till they passed; but it wasn't for them really, it was all for me. Forgiveness is just another word for "be strong, forget about it and move on. That's all. Just move on and consider the source. Then look at yourself and all you have accomplish and feel very good about yourself. You did it without their help and you will do it for your kids by showing them how real parents behave toward their kids. Love, hugs and happiness!
@TheMichalyy10 ай бұрын
You made me laugh, you made me cry.. you are amazing!! And your grandmother, oh my lord. What a hero.
@hopesanchez3501 Жыл бұрын
You are a survivor and, a beautiful soul, inside and out. Stay strong for your inner child. ❤❤❤❤❤
@13donstalos Жыл бұрын
It just blows my mind how disgusting, perverted, ignorant, and evil one family can be. Dear Lord have mercy.
@PositiveGlows Жыл бұрын
I love what you said “with boundaries”.. That is so important 💫
@TheeHuntress Жыл бұрын
❤💯💯❤️
@shanicesingletary6656 Жыл бұрын
My heart wants to just love and protect that younger you, your mother failed you in so many ways. I’m so sorry that happened to you.
@kaylanewton4741 Жыл бұрын
You are beautiful inside and out. Thanking you for sharing
@ThisIsJ.Nicole Жыл бұрын
I just love this woman's spirit.
@TheeMan101 Жыл бұрын
she’s a phenomenal story teller. such a sad story.
@stephdot884 ай бұрын
That's a blessing you had your grandmother to believe you and help you the best she could. You are a strong person for forgiving you're parents especially your mother because I wouldn't be able to at all.
@ShannonsBibleStudy Жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you for speaking up. I'm proud of your grand mother for standing up for you.
@GrandmaMack Жыл бұрын
Horrible childhood due to ignorance and lack of child rearing experience by your parents but thank you Jesus that you survived. You're a wonderful daughter who was able to forgive her neglectful parents and chose a life of love and good example for your own children. God bless you now and always. Live your best life sweetie and stay strong.
@kiarawithers89 Жыл бұрын
I STILL WATING TO SEE THIS
@atyiab1 Жыл бұрын
That is so true, after years of my own SA I hated my attackers, but to say forgive and actually do it ate two different things, once you put the action and truly forgive it such a weight lifted 😊 once I did this the floodgates of blessings poured in😊
@jfdani13 Жыл бұрын
Your grandmother was AMAZING!!!!!!!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷
@Cociobladereviews Жыл бұрын
This is one of the darkest stories I’ve heard and at the same time out of all the stories of trauma, one of the most beautiful ones. I appreciate you writing this book and sharing your story to help educate all of us weather we suffered trauma or know people who have. Thank you thank you thank you!!!
@crypton_8l87 Жыл бұрын
You're a beautiful person, Monique, and a really good raconteur.. Thank you for sharing your story and for being so strong, positive, and spiritually aware!
@MsNique Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Charmayne-u9e Жыл бұрын
Yes Lord forgiveness is the best policy... I love you ❤️❤️❤️...
@angelapla1 Жыл бұрын
100% with boundaries! So proud of all the work you have done to heal and break the cycle!!
@shadyshores-y5n Жыл бұрын
You are amazing Monique. You should be very proud of yourself. God bless you.
@jesusisking1095 Жыл бұрын
I love how she really literally councils herself she is so strong and I loved how she tells her story what is her book name? So beautiful she makes me want to write my story of my life down she gets ❤❤❤
@MsNique Жыл бұрын
Thank you love. My book is “If my past wasn’t so dark my future wouldn’t shine so bright” by MsNique
@mariaroquavega5664 Жыл бұрын
Im so happy god saved you out of it all. ❤
@jessicaumana3286 Жыл бұрын
You are so brave for telling this story... this can really help somebody understand they're not alone...and get help...so much evil and degradation... I'm so sorry you had to experience that...
@melvonniebell Жыл бұрын
Your Grandmother was your angel ❤❤❤❤
@positivelypinky10 ай бұрын
I’m so thankful you had your granny
@kimiaommani Жыл бұрын
23:18 I was really enjoying listening to you until this point, I absolutely disagree with the fact that you forgave your parents and are letting them have a relationship with your kids! You need to protect your children! You can't put them through that!
@Gigikittypaws Жыл бұрын
I can only speak from personal experience, but I have learned that forgiveness is more so for the Self rather than for the trespasser. 💚
@CeiraKye Жыл бұрын
I understand your frustration and your right to a degree however her mother is probably old as shit by now and I’m sure the father is too and the way god is set up everything this woman touch is blessed and covered in the blood of Jesus and at the end of the day them her parents and she choose to give her life a normal chance and it sounds like things are working out and her parents know better now I’m sure they understand the consequences that will come if anything happens
@DianeLSullivan5 күн бұрын
She said she allows them in her life with boundariee✨
@2listening111 ай бұрын
All the best to you always. God love and bless you. 🙏🕯
@marlynsurita8255 Жыл бұрын
Queen you are a survivor. You learn how to forgive and that’s not easy but you did it.. Stay strong 💪🏼 and keep going forward sending you ❤🤗
@bonnyhahn5093 Жыл бұрын
So proud of you, Monique. You are a beautiful soul.❤
@BeeSunshine-vf2im4 ай бұрын
I am so in love with that Grandmother right now ^_^ I love the fact that she told her Grandmother and it stopped before it got worse. Happy for you Monique and I hope you continue to blossom! I disagree that your father being "young and making mistakes" is a reason for him being abusive. He was an abuser,. Abusing someone isn't a "mistake", it is a choice.
@teehen6694 Жыл бұрын
God bless you!❤ May I ask why you didn’t stay with your granny?
@nicolemurray2212 Жыл бұрын
I just love you so very much 🥲😭😭what a beautiful soul ❤️
@Yaadenike Жыл бұрын
We have to do something about these families. When a child is being molested, why does the family turn their back. This makes me think of all the children in foster care by default. At some point the pain turns into anger and then they become "hard to place" in a home. As an educator and teacher, I will make it my business to observe and listen to my students
@butterflypolacca994 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry this happened to you I was crying for you your brave
@Ya_mamaaaa14 күн бұрын
Such a beautiful soul 🥰
@tlhogid6637 ай бұрын
This is a sad story, but you are an amazing storyteller! I hope you experience nothing but love and light going forward.
@teeredd3313 Жыл бұрын
This video helped me gain strength
@kiarawithers89 Жыл бұрын
im sorry that you go through that
@stephaniemisasi8322 Жыл бұрын
Monique, I am so amazed by your story!!! I thank you 🙏 ❤much love and blessings, Stephanie ❤
@daisything1006 Жыл бұрын
I love you babe. I’m so sorry that happened to you ❤️ you’re strong, you’re kind, you’re IMPORTANT! ❤️❤️
@Kirstenmarshall Жыл бұрын
Monique is a better woman than I am. Because baby they would've never seen me again.
@cinnamonaries2024 Жыл бұрын
That part. I wouldn’t have the maturity level to forgive this shit. These stories are horrific. I’m so thankful for my mother. Because this is scary.
@gregsmith6756 Жыл бұрын
Thanks. You're a wonderful, beautiful soul.
@CJ-xg6ii Жыл бұрын
So powerful how you came through so much and were able to heal and forgive. You are beautiful. Thanks for sharing your story.❤
@tonyaboggs53679 ай бұрын
Thank goodness for your grandma but you've been through so much you are so strong
@tzeimi_ Жыл бұрын
Monique you are beautiful! Your so strong & brave ❤
@booksalmighty Жыл бұрын
Glad you was able to come out of this God bless
@AshTheDash969 Жыл бұрын
Ms.monique I feel sorry for you you and your grandmother are MVP'S you are a very good that you forgive your parents I hope you have good life and good day may Jesus look for you your husband and your children
@reneesuarez583Ай бұрын
🥹🥹🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽thank you for sharing your story
@TankaVizion2 Жыл бұрын
You are a wonderful example of what I could become despite my challenges, trials, & tribulations! Thank you so much for sharing your TRUTH!!
@tanajackson9700 Жыл бұрын
Blessings!! I pray you continue to heal Thanks for sharing your heartbreaking experience!!
@angelicbean7635 Жыл бұрын
God bless the beast and the children I always say . 😢
@essieK97 Жыл бұрын
Her spirit is beautiful
@nicolemonroe220 Жыл бұрын
Your damn right my love forgive for yourself !!! Peace upon yourself is the best Gift you can feel ❤.
@georgiadenton8109 Жыл бұрын
Thank You for sharing your story and being My Voice
@melissanoelien7696 Жыл бұрын
So sorry you had to go through that at such a tender age,you such a strong woman,an a inspiration to others.gods blessings overflow🥺😥💪🫂❤🙏🙏
@tinastaley5470 Жыл бұрын
God Bless you sister, you are a strong woman,,thank you for sharing your story,❤❤❤❤
@StarJohnnyProductions Жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry for what happened to you, Monique
@o.g.geezer70589 ай бұрын
POWERFUL,Baby Girl!
@A__Mina Жыл бұрын
Monique, I’m so inspired ❤
@marti9346 Жыл бұрын
😢 aww sweaty sorry you had to go through that
@natashamason-walker2913 Жыл бұрын
💜 Bless you Monique! 🙏🏽
@elaibesummers906 Жыл бұрын
Monique your story touched me and brought me to tears. Sorry you had a horrible childhood. You are a beautiful person inside and out. To have the power to forgive, is a powerful emotion. I forgive myself but cannot at the moment forgive those monsters in my childhood. I pray and speak continuous healing, love, light and peace over your life❤🙏🏾
@trives99 Жыл бұрын
You’re so strong sister
@illmindofApril Жыл бұрын
Your story really showed me the importance of forgiveness and the strength we can have from forgiveness! I’m very happy for you and your family, to be able to grow past dark times, that’s truly a blessing! Thank you for sharing your story with us! Love and prayers toward you and yours!
@keplersdream901 Жыл бұрын
Forgiveness is 100% wrong. It is morally wrong without repentance.
@kearra3753 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing you story. I admire ur strength
@Snax505 Жыл бұрын
Your energy is amazing, you are so inspiring my Dear. You're so strong.❤
@teetawn9454 Жыл бұрын
Im sorry for your pain and suffering. Thank u for sharing here and in your book . Also, I am sooo glad your grandmother believed you. Also glad u are able to forgive when that can be so difficult. blessings.
@justtracy7175 Жыл бұрын
God bless your journey sister🙏🏾🙏🏾
@zoevines449 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful title to your memoir!
@lauralucero7846 Жыл бұрын
Much love from ca
@shacoraparamole4309 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@wendypartick7574 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢"There is life later "😢😢😢😢
@tnadinet159 Жыл бұрын
You are resilient, you are strong and beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing your heart, the love for your children and what a brilliant mind your have!! Gros bisous ❤
@Mrs_SheSaid Жыл бұрын
Thank You for Sharing Your Stories 😢😢
@georgia8592 Жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful soul ❤
@michellesurowicz8918 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing ❤
@jhevynwright6174 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your testimony I know this wasn’t easy ❤
@reneejohnson3423 Жыл бұрын
You are truly amazing. And beautiful ❤️
@rebeccareplies11 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry, that this happened to you, my love.
@ProudIsraeliAmerican Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. Not an easy thing to do.