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Unique Láshea

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5 ай бұрын

Hey babes ♥️ what time y’all watching 👀

@Iammleahh11113 5 ай бұрын

6:05 you just posted this 1 minute ago lol😂

@Keepinupwithmel 5 ай бұрын

Right now

@donavanjohnson713 5 ай бұрын

5:08pm

@lifewithdaj 5 ай бұрын

6:13pm

@chiedzavito47 5 ай бұрын

00:24😢

@Kamkammmmm 5 ай бұрын

Girl, trust me when I say many BOYS don’t outgrow their immature ways once children are involved. I know because I go through it as well and I’m in my 30s. I’ve learned to keep my words and interaction with the other party as minimum as possible because I won’t allow anyone to rob me of my sanity. Don’t try to coerce him into being an involved parent. Just allow her to have whatever relationship it is that she has with him, even if it’s inconsistent. Yes I know it’s hard, especially if you’ve struggled with daddy issues as well. Your daughter is a very intelligent young lady and sooner than later she will know the truth! You’re doing great, mama! Don’t stress it! Just love on them babies even harder.

@Nita_Smiley 4 ай бұрын

they neverrrrrrrr. I stop fighting with mine and our daughter is 15months old

@Keepinupwithmel 5 ай бұрын

Heyyy Y'all. Congratulations on 825k Subscribers Unique ! I hope everything is going well with you . Sending you so much love . 💗

@VanessaPascal-d5z 5 ай бұрын

Your babies are just the cutest

5 ай бұрын

♥️♥️

@RebelliousMom 3 ай бұрын

I’m glad you opened up about this. I’ve been wanting to vent on my channel about certain topics I feel other moms might relate to because I always feel like I’m the only one going through it. Thanks for this .

@ItsRissaBaabbyy 5 ай бұрын

Girl speak your truth. Its your truth, so you have all right to speak on it!! & This is your platform, your source of income, if you want to speak on it do so because I know there are many females going through with what you're going through. Being a daughter of an inconsistent dad, I just made my own decision to not to want to deal with him anymore because its not my responsibility, its his as a parent. But she's still young so try not to be petty and remove her from her dad. She loves him & you don't want to do more harm than good. Just know that kids see and hear things too, they're not dumb. They're very observant so one day she will know for herself & act accordingly. Just provide all you can for her, the way way you can for her & when he disappoints her just reassure that he loves her its just sometimes people don't act as we'd want them to & its no her fault.

@Minabaybee 4 ай бұрын

My daughter is 16 and has dealt with an inconsistent dad. Do what you feel is best! My daughter had a BAD emotional breakdown and it gave me a wake up call. You can’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to do. It’s better to protect her now then let it blow up when she’s older

@BeautiByBree 4 ай бұрын

I feel like this is gonna happen to my child. Right now she’s just made 4 October 1st and her dad has started to be inconsistent these past couple of months and it’s effecting her behavior really bad.. she cut up in school, she’s peeing on herself again, she’s catching tantrums I’ve never seen her do before IN PUBLIC. It’s crazy bc he know he’s the reason why she act like that bc all she do is bring up her dad when she’s emotional or purposely putting getting herself in trouble. Ive been dealing with him being a “dead beat” since she was born but that part never bothered me, what bothers me is how when before my husband became my husband, my bd used to always wanna be around my daughter mostly for the simple fact bc he didn’t want her around another man, then he got too comfortable with my (now) husband taking better care of her then my bd take care of himself and now it’s hard to help her transition and manage her emotions bc he’s never around anymore. I didn’t think this would have an effect on a child so young but it’s really bad right now but I just talk to her and let her know there’s nothing I can do and try to support her through her emotions. At this point she begs to stay with her dad but he never let her bc he’s “busy with work” (he cut grass, play music for churches and R&B groups. Like underground hobbies) but never have anything to show for it. Child support not enough when it comes to the child’s emotions she actually need him. I just let the relationship be what it is. I just apologize to my daughter for him acting that way bc part of it feel like my fault bc I did lay with him at the end of the day but she don’t deserve tht 😢

@BeautiByBree 4 ай бұрын

But if I have to bring court into it I would bc this is unfair to my child. You can’t make a man do what he don’t wanna do but the judge can 😂😂😂

@Yasmin-r8n 5 ай бұрын

I'm going through the same thing girl. I would say, don't try to force him to be involved, even if it's inconsistent, just let her have whatever relationship she can with him.

@LaCienegaSingDuh 4 ай бұрын

I love what yall did for her before she left and I love how yall standing behind her even after she’s gone

@taylorprejean04 4 ай бұрын

I love you guys so much ❤❤🫶🏾 such a beautiful little family 🥹🩷💙

@mnmfamily8585 4 ай бұрын

You Are Such A Great Mom always Taking Care Of your Babies.. You make it looks so easy.. I’m 22 With 3 beautiful girls and I’m trying to take it easy it’s hard and stressful at times.. You doing so good

@ashdabaddest4350 5 ай бұрын

My therapist told me your never going to be the old u so stop looking for that and fall in love with your new self

@JaylaMyra 4 ай бұрын

Girl I wish you can vlog longer😩. Your video are entertaining to me as a new mom and it be seeming like your videos are 5 minutes 😩..

4 ай бұрын

I’ll make a longer one ♥️

@jaquazarnaweary666 5 ай бұрын

I’m going to to be honest you have the best patience because at the end of the day you shouldn’t have to beg no grown ass man to be a father to their kids like this generation is crazy I have two sons and I’m 21 me and my baby daddy are together and he is an amazing father soo it’s just sad that there are woman out here that have to do it on their own I pray everything get better for your situation and you are a great mother for keeping you patience with him for your daughter that’s amazing 👏🏾👏🏾💯🥳

@princessjasmine249 5 ай бұрын

You just have to stop reaching out to you BD Dont tell him anything just go mute , fuck it

@NettaMariee 4 ай бұрын

Literally!

@hildakay 4 ай бұрын

0:31 the side eye Momo gave😂😂😂😂

@rasheenaa2142 5 ай бұрын

I’m in my 30’s and going through it as well with my child’s father. One thing I do is tell my sons the truth and correct what they perceive as “normal behavior” from a father. I don’t want my children repeating the same negligent behaviors with their children so I let them know what a father should do and that it’s not right for a parent to be inconsistent etc. My children will be generational curse breakers not curse carriers 🙏🏾❤️

@donavanjohnson713 5 ай бұрын

Congratulations on 825k subscribers friend . sending lots of love from Beaumont TX ❤️🫶🏿

5 ай бұрын

Hey friend ♥️

@Getlikekayyy 5 ай бұрын

Hey babesss congratulations I definitely agree with you on the co parenting part ❤❤

@lifewithrica 5 ай бұрын

Hey girl I love your videos your so inspiring you have beautiful kids

@kaesharashaun 3 ай бұрын

I swear your videos be like very much on a connection level frfr! it’s seem like every video you post something so relatable to what a lot of us can relate to I am going through the same exact thing with one of my children father the inconsistency is not a good thing at all my son is now 8 years old and his father has had so many excuses nearly since he was a toddler and I completely get where you are coming from with your daughter asking for her dad a lot it’s just the opposite my son does it and i have 4 children raising in a single parent home all my boys dad’s aren’t consistent or very active my baby boy can’t see his biological father at all legal reason my daughter dad is more involved and we haven’t always had the best co parenting relationship either I feel where your coming from on same note i just don’t want to rob him of having his dad around because i didn’t have a dad around growing up my father actually passed when i was 12 years old and all you want what’s best for your child is to have that two parent household or relationship it’s not easy at all so i’m also dealing with how you feel because you don’t want your child to be hurt in the long run but don’t also want your child to feel a way towards you because of it so many people can add opinions but it’s like idk i’m 🙏🏾 for you and your babies as a mother to another mother we got this 🫂❤️

@Lilhb5 4 ай бұрын

Yes I miss you

@MtuckRTR 4 ай бұрын

youre not alone! my son father does NOTHING absolutely NOTHING but if he keeps on being inconsistent you'll just have to hurt babygirl feelings unfortunately but it'll save her as she gets older bc him being inconsistent can cause so much trauma for her.

@kylewallace3901 5 ай бұрын

Hey family. Congratulations on 825K 🎉🙌🎊 sending love from St. Louis!

@VlogsWithMariahx 4 ай бұрын

Beautiful tribute to Mia and my condolences to you all 🤍. My dad was VERY inconsistent in my life but my mother never robbed me of the opportunity to communicate( not see because he chose not to after 4/5. I was 18 when I cut him off) when he would call once in a blue moon. I made the decision when I understood the situation that I don’t want any communication with him ever again. She let him know and he blamed her of course, assuming it was her fault. She never asked for any CP from him or anything. He just sucked and was bitter she didn’t want him anymore. I truly hope the situtation gets better for yourself & Amoura.

@Arshell920 5 ай бұрын

She said so damn good 🤣🤣

@jspencer2269 4 ай бұрын

As an older big sister to you luv, 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽 your doing a fantastic job on making sure you baby is treated with respect cared for loved ALL ThE TiME not just when he wants to show baby girl off what I mean “by showing off” when * she does something good in school *when hair is done nice for something special *when she is dress great *ect ect ect!!!!!! I say this b/c my daughter dad use too /still does tat mess. Don’t come around just b/c or if he do it’s right before he good out or some shit. Protect your kids by all cause their feeling matter more then the so adult dad & if the “dad”it’s ready for that role after 7 years take you baby girl out the equation. Her emotional stability matters most! Your doing a Hellofa Job girly keep grinding and showing out and put God First the Guide your footsteps an everything will work it self out! 💖✨🙏🏽🥰✨💖

@selahv1351 5 ай бұрын

Heyyy unique 🫶🏽🩷🩷🩷🩷

@KaylaBozeman22 3 ай бұрын

where is the pink playboy set from?😍

@jslaton5728 5 ай бұрын

Who loves Ms lashea ❤❤❤ 👇🏾

@its.indiaaaa 5 ай бұрын

heyy girllll that food look so good 🥲

@Therapywithcece 5 ай бұрын

I have a inconsistent bd and honestly I just let my kid see his dad for what he is I stop forcing and making ultimatums

@nakedalewis01 4 ай бұрын

Love ❤️ your vlog I could relate so much on bd story smh 😢

@business-uj6nb 4 ай бұрын

That food you cooked looks delicious

@RaniyaMalay 5 ай бұрын

I don’t have any children but just hearing what your going through just sounds like you have to release. Amoura sounds like a smart intelligent girl who can actually articulate her words together and pick up what it is that you putting down. So I’d say have a mother daughter talk with her and let her know how you feel about her dad being inconsistent, and tell her your understanding of knowing how much she loves and wants to be around him , but your also trying to protect her and her feelings. Cause inconsistency from a parent to a child can cause more damage than a complete absent parent. Too many on and offs , and being ok with giving your child’s hopes up , or playing with their feelings , or making them feel like their the problem when all they want is to spend time and be loved. You can’t make people see what you see or be on the same page as you if they already showing they aren’t willing to do that especially since there’s a child involved. Nique it’s time to just let it go and hope amoura can understand and when she gets older she can make the choice on her own to either still keep in contact with him, but she’ll know when she start seeing and knowing the inconsistencies from him that, that’s what you tried to tell her and protect her from. Hope that situation gets better and help you feel more at ease in the end ✨🫶🏽

@SavageDior 4 ай бұрын

I start therapy she be Myself ♥️ learn to be me ❤❤❤

@KaliJackson-nv9yh 4 ай бұрын

Oh ok that's how our one is out in a area called Colonial Commons, u can't sit in there just go thru drive thru & it's like 3 or 4 lanes..I only been once & the other oe we had close on our side just closed for a month to remodel but idk been on a Popeyes kick!😋👍🏽

@anazyiaalexander6528 4 ай бұрын

I’m watching at 5:28am ❤😊

@hildakay 4 ай бұрын

Here💃💃

@Leaasolo 4 ай бұрын

She just wanted to cuss 😂 13:20

@SaniahRache 5 ай бұрын

6:25 bookie ❤❤❤

@Armaniwillis_ava 4 ай бұрын

Almost at 1 million

@lifeoflondon0912 4 ай бұрын

12:34 Amoura!!!!! 😂😂😂

@queenofheart99999 5 ай бұрын

I love your vid unique

@arionnarhome 4 ай бұрын

💛💛💛

@prettynatalie4876 5 ай бұрын

Heyyy 😍😍😍

@stacywangui5329 5 ай бұрын

2:10 AM Kenya

@kierratreasure6773 4 ай бұрын

The little bit of stuff you say about him is nothing compared to his disrespect. I been watching you since your first video. A'moura knows right from wrong eventually the truth will come out. Its nice of you to reach out to him. Once my parents divorced my dad was very inconsistent and this was me in high school. Either way in the long run she can get hurt because of this I really hope he grows up instead of trying to bash you and your parenting. She is at the age where she should have a consistent dad, not one just posting for attention playing victim. She goes to school kids also learn good and bad stuff from school. Maybe as she gets older she will understand the real truth about him and he can be avoided all together.

@jaquazarnaweary666 5 ай бұрын

And what was that you cooked it looks good?