Unlock Your Potential by Breaking These INFJ Myths

[@fredotto518]

Ok, but I going to have to think about that and get back to you !!

[@kaycevanveer212]

Again, so eloquently you put things that I have been trying to put into words for years!!! I LOVE YOU TRINA!!!

[@trinabrettnell]

Thank you so much 🥰🥰, I hope my videos are helpful

[@kaycevanveer212]

Answer to your question about the holiday season: I will most likely be alone. I will have my 6 year old daughter, thank God. But my family is really bad and getting worse all the time. All the grandparents are passed and my mom is a covert narcissist... the holidays will be a little sadder this year. That's the pattern that keeps happening...I would love to have family to hang out with. ❤

[@trinabrettnell]

I love a small quiet christmas. When I was a single mom it was just me, my son and my dogs most Christmases. At first I felt lonely until I realized I was only feeling lonely because I thought I was supposed to, that it would make me a bad person to love not being around family. Once I totally embraced the fact that I loved not being around family and dropping the worry of the judgments that were happening, my quiet small Christmases became amazing. To this day I keep a low profile at christmas. Just me, my kids, my partner and my dogs and I am so happy with that. Thank you so much for sharing, I appreciate it.

[@ResoluteRonin]

I have been struggling with the belief that I'm stupid, something my Father engrained in me. I know I'm not but not really. If that makes any sense.

[@trinabrettnell]

It makes perfect sense to me. I too was told all the time to stop being so stupid. I heard it almost daily. So it became a deep ingrained belief I had about myself. Even though part of me knew I wasn't stupid, that belief became almost paralyzing because no matter what vision or goal I had all I could hear in my head was how stupid I was or I was too stupid to do it.....and I wouldn't even try. So I found myself taking low paying jobs, seldom ever applying for promotions, and never ever doing anything I really wanted to do because I truly felt worthless. I actually recorded a video about this topic that I will be posting in the near future. Thank you for sharing

[@ResoluteRonin]

@@trinabrettnell It's like you are the first person to ever understand me.

[@trinabrettnell]

@ResoluteRonin Really, that makes me happy because I know how it feels to never be understood. 🥰 The INFJ personality type is very complex, most people do not understand us. Humans are just naturally wired to dislike or be uncomfortable with things they don't understand. This is what makes people lash out at us by belittling us, or making us feel bad about who we are. But it's not our fault. It's their's. When people lash out like that it's because they have work they need to go do on themselves, and it's easier to poop all over someone else then it is to look in the mirror. Does that make sense?

[@ResoluteRonin]

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