Unlocking Love: Turning Extras into Leading Roles in Marriage | Couples Overcome Obstacles

[@reneecrenshaw8325]

To the host: LW. You are a powerful minister of the word. When favor comes you will blossom even more. When you are on Dear Future Wifey you are full of Love Spirit peace and joy. Your laughter is healing. I speak to you as a Mother. 62. Praying for you and Future Wifey. God bless.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Once you have real standards and have tough conversations before the first date. It makes it way easier to find the one. Trust me. Imposters don't like talking about faith, finances, fitness, or family (kids and boundaries with inlaws,etc.)

[@olanikeshamonda73]

facts, this has been an elimination strategy for some time now. they hate questions

[@jamieedwards9352]

Teach the boys what discipline looks like!!! Girls are taught it and shamed for not saving ourselves and for sleeping around, but when girls/women only have undisciplined boys/men to choose from…what do we think will be the outcome 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@classylady4606]

"You'll never be faithful to your wife until you're first faithful to Me..." Truly powerful!! If a man isn't faithful to God *and yes this goes for the ladies as well*, he will not be faithful to you.

[@mariemuhammad7983]

I was so surprised he brought his daughter in the situation as quickly as he did and he needed her to take care of her while he handled his business. It was great things worked out but that was a huge risk emotionally for his daughter. I love them as a couple. They navigated well. It definitely takes a settled heart like the settling of concrete in the heart for that foundation as you move forward to build. The winds will come.

[@kimberlycapers1983]

You never know how God will use you, Amen to that sista!

[@mutangeyeurinavi5833]

Go pvc qmmm

[@summergalvez8104]

Thanks for inviting me to participate, Laterras!! I feel like we barely scratched the surface of some of these topics… Part 2?? 🤔🤔

[@DS-wv7lf]

That Pastor Lady stole the show. She had me crying and laughing so hard. I love her candid and honest perspective. Thank you!

[@striving1]

She said get out and minister to these men souls on the street, travel and life your life.

[@jojocluddy2534]

Yes!!!! I looooved her and absolutely had to look her up on KZbin. Cannot wait to watch her preachings 😂

[@georgenep1082]

Amen to all of it and thank you for sharing. I have not heard anyone say that simply appreciate your partner for whatever space you are in life. Have grace and faith in the Lord. Faith in one another!❤

[@bobbywilsonfunfaithfamilymusic]

Thanks for sharing this conversation with this panel and Pastor Carter and Mrs. Carter. The book of Proverbs gives the exact way live our life, single or married.

[@mrsbosschicjanelleshelley5699]

I’m so in love with the panels that you have done on this podcast keep growing ❤you’re doing amazing L.

[@The_MBI]

Loved it❤❤❤exceptional guests as always. May this podcast grow from strength to strength, so grateful for the wisdom and testimonies being shared. Sending love & light from South Africa❤❤❤

[@carolynlong8701]

Amen yes enjoy being single because marriage be hard sometimes but you can make it work 🙏🏾🙏🏾37 years 😊

[@chimakalu41]

Congratulations 😊

[@tropicallymixed.]

At the 16:00 minute you spoke on something that I think will be missed by a lot of people. People are saying their vows at the wedding but as soon as the marriage gets rough, they divorce. Unfortunately KZbin and the movies have created this fairytale for marriage and people are quitting as soon as it doesn't feel or look like the fairytale. Nobody is really willing to sacrifice for their marriage.

[@Lifesjustthatsimple]

Vows are no longer taken serious . Literally , people get married and play games right in front of God , from cheating , to ready to leave bc they aren’t happy , or bc finances aren’t there . They’ll say obey and submit but thinking in they mind I won’t be obeying and my dress looks good and I feel like a princess .

[@ladiesofiron]

Amen. I Am yet once again encouraged. Keep doing your thing little brother 🙏🏽💜💪🏽🎁🙌🏽💎

[@lesleyaddison1999]

This was an absolutely awesome panel. I remember "The Carters" on your podcast sometime ago. Lit 🎉Lit 🎉Lit!!!

[@amaragrace94]

If he was satisfied being an extra, then he didn't like nor love you sis. One of your first questions should be what is your purpose in dating at this time of your life. If he does not state that he is ready to be someone's husband, ask directly. If he's scared, he's not ready. If he isn't dating intentionally to be married within 1-2 years with who God calls for him to marry, then he's not ready and it's not your job to convince him. Next. Don't make it an interview, but the questions need to be ask and you'll know where his head is at based on how he treats you and the types of questions he asks you. Stop giving people that don't even like you your time.🙏

[@herfamiller139]

So looking forward to these " tour episodes" i know already that these are going to be LIT, LIT, LIT.....pray the favour of the Lord will overtake you and your team during/throughout the tour. Blessings & more blessings be unto you LRW.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤

[@joannasantos9890]

You Need To Pray over your baby boy as trauma can happen in the womb! Pray over you child that he doesn’t have the same issue as you did while having him! Bless you both 🙏🏽💯

[@beechannel27]

This was such a powerful episode on so many levels! 😊❤

[@chamellnash869]

I used to feel like no children or married before. But joy comes in the relationship of acceptance, love, understanding and patience. Oh! BTW… I’m still single😂😂😂

[@hannahpraise3963]

😂😂your kingdom spouse is on the way

[@jadajadorsett5694]

Another exceptional episode

[@JacklonSpencer]

Psalms 139:13-16....❤

[@fatherdaughterministry242]

Amen truly love this powerful testimony a elderly lady today I've meet shared a powerful lesson learnt any relationship it takes 2 too individuals who help grow one another , no condemnation of the flaws but a mindset and will for growth in making a better change Love the title unlocking love ❤

[@chimakalu41]

33:16 well said

[@LRamey]

Good morning Dear Future Wifey family 💜 Thank you for the upload💜💜💜

[@chimakalu41]

10:00 That's deep

[@stephaniemcneill5732]

This was amazing and Powerful! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@feliciarobinson2596]

I think saying to a school teacher that their broke could’ve been said different cause the example was that she WAS A TEACHER. No Harm, just could’ve been carefully Said. School teachers joined to their ministry may now think that First Lady look at them as broke.

[@monicabrownhayes]

Must have been nice to have support for stepping down from leadership while going through divorce.

[@joannasantos9890]

I think this was a great convo but I thought some of this was also a bit secular. But, I love that they have a CSI program and that 🎉hey are helping to garner healthy relationships

[@lindamurphy9883]

She is so right, it does take two to make the marriage work. I mean it is so hard, when the man doesn't feel he needs help or has issues. My first ex husband is now a RS Offender, he was never healed from his childhood trauma from eight years old, and now he is a criminal. He used to abuse me, instead of getting the help he so desperately needed. My second ex husband divorced me to neglect and abandon our SN son.

[@mochaamortravel717]

On the way...🙏🏾👉🏾Let's GOOO 500K🎉 🎈🎈

[@BluEyedDiva1]

What's the ticket page link? I searched the KZbin channel and his main website but couldn't find it. Thanks in advance for answering!

[@JacklonSpencer]

Congratulations to. The. Successful. Panel.... Im. Currently in. Vegas... attending. UEI.... as. a...MA..student .❤

[@yvonneogolla6633]

Every time I listen to this episodes am so blessed, Thanks Laterras

[@Leochick-kj2cz]

Unlocking🔓 Love ❤...

[@chimakalu41]

16:13 That's true

[@lindamurphy9883]

Well mine are adults so with that being said, hopefully when and if I start dating again the guy won't have a problem with my SN son.

[@Beautebydai]

At minute 36, I believe the vow of abstinence for single people would be a lot easier if there was commitment and participation from both parties: both the men and the women. Singleness May actually be a lot more enjoyable and endurable. That way marriage can be for those who are called to it VS. Those forcing their way into it🌱

[@JacklonSpencer]

Proverbs 17:17....❤

[@lindamurphy9883]

Well I have been single for eight years, I am looking for companionship, and nothing more or less, because being married twice, is not the business, if you can't do it one time and get it right, then I feel it shouldn't take all of that. I am older now and don't have time for the drama, cheating and all the foolishness it causes.

[@chanellsmith3204]

What cities are next 🙋...hope I can attend 🤗 not shacking

[@chimakalu41]

22:44 lol

[@JacklonSpencer]

Love the scripture reading ..

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Concord got some fine women. The brothers there are blessed.

[@patricebrown777]

Sororities and fraternities in the church? ...Two masters can not be served at the same time....

[@JacklonSpencer]

Mathew 19:6.. Ecclesiastes 4:9-11❤

[@JacklonSpencer]

Shout. Out. To. Mt. Triumph.....in. OKC ....❤

[@cocoa6455]

I turned 60 this past June, I have been single for many years after being married briefly, I don't have any biological children. I recently met a man who is 58 with grown children who has adopted his 11 year old nephew when he was 10 months old. I am struggling with the thought of being a potential mother to a 11 year old when my thought of dating at this point in my life looked like a man who could travel with me and share other interests without certain obstacles. I am not sure if I am blocking my blessing by not embracing this opportunity, it is a really new connection and I don't want to have this young man to get attached to me and then once again be disappointed. The gentleman has told me that his son wants a mother and he is desiring a wife. I am praying about the situation because my flesh says RUN....God help me 🙏

[@Lifesjustthatsimple]

The question would be in 3 years will you resent being with the man knowing your gone have to take on all this on your plate and continue ? If you know your gone resent him and the relationship , free that man for the right woman, who won’t feel the resentment and what not .

[@JacklonSpencer]

Amos 5:14....❤

[@Rashaadthegr8]

I understand the kids thing. My kid rule is either no kids or a max of 2 kids and the father(s) must be deceased. If the relationship or marriage didn't work with y'all it's going to be even harder to have a relationship with another adult in the mix. Co-parenting is way harder than just two happy and healthy households. Also, the divorce rate is 50% with the first marriage and 75% with the second. So I can understand the no divorce thing.

[@JacklonSpencer]

Shout. Out. To. Oklahoma .... My. Children ...are. born. In. OKC ... ....always .... brining. It....❤

[@ginab.4605]

I agree! Divorce comes with tons of baggage!

[@LatonyaSmith-p2k]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽THERAPY

[@chimakalu41]

24:28 high values not high value. agreed. Not relegated to finances

[@DearFutureWifey]

I'm glad you resonate with the message in the video!

[@lindamurphy9883]

Lauryn Lewis is a beautiful sista and her husband is handsome.

[@ItsJadaD]

Maybe you can come to DMV and partner with Pastor Keith Battle at Zion Church

[@LatonyaSmith-p2k]

A lot of games!

[@my.0224]

Spectacular podcast and thoroughly enjoyed. Divorce is permitted but not remarriage.

[@my.0224]

@@lovebug6388 Marriage is a covenant that is only broken by death. Repeat the marriage vows to yourself. Till dear do us part. People repeat marriage vows not understanding God honors that covenant. Refer to the covenants made throughout biblical times. None of them have been broken. Since God hasn’t broken any covenants he made, he expects us to do the same. Divorce wasn’t an option in the beginning (Adam and Eve) . Jesus stated from the beginning it was not so. Divorce was only permitted due to the hardness of the people’s hearts. “It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: but I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭31‬-‭32‬ ‭KJV‬‬ How does one commit adultery if they’re remarried? Take the dialogue when Jesus met the woman at the well and he asked her to call her husband to which she replied I have none and he replied in that you are right for you have had five and the one you’re with isn’t yours. This subject isn’t being taught in churches because so many pastors have remarried. How does one teach a subject matter is wrong and they’re on their second and third marriage? After David had Uriah killed to be with Bathsheba, God always referred to her as the wife of Urias. “and Jesse begat David the king; and David the king begat Solomon of her that had been the wife of Urias;” Matthew‬ ‭1‬:‭6‬ ‭KJV‬‬ To gain a more thorough understanding of divorce and remarriage, look at KZbins of Pastor Gino Jennings or Tony Evans.

[@my.0224]

@@lovebug6388 Gino is a knowledgeable quack and he speaks nothing but the unadulterated truth. He speaks truth most pastors are afraid to.

[@my.0224]

@@lovebug6388 I never posted or removed a comment stating it’s ok to remain in an abusive marriage. AGAIN, one can divorce and leave the abusive marriage BUT, one is bound by the marital covenant until their spouse is deceased. Two things that frees one from sin and a marriage is DEATH. Divorce was NEVER God’s plan. Pastor Tony Evans was married for over 50 years. His wife PASSED 4 years ago. He is currently engaged. Death of his spouse freed him from his marital covenant.

[@RevyRev70]

Somebody's body language during a portion of this segment is speaking volumes silently 😳🤔

[@LatonyaSmith-p2k]

#replay

[@octaviakf]

Kevin Samuel is the one who gave the definition for high value, man and woman and people ran with that belief and definition women never gave that. Thankful he’s resting in peace now.

[@LatonyaSmith-p2k]

🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@JacklonSpencer]

Psalm 90:17....

[@Rashaadthegr8]

A relationship is still a relationship regardless if it is dating for marriage or not.

[@Blue77Blue]

🙌

[@JacklonSpencer]

Proverbs 16:9....

[@JacklonSpencer]

Genesis 1:26-31...

[@timbawangu3038]

Am early 🎉eagar to hear and learn

[@Jovialjay86]

Re release?

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Nah. I never chased sex. That's a f boy move. lol.

[@lisabowman877]

No new episode this week? I’ve seen this one. 😟

[@DearFutureWifey]

This is a new one

[@lisabowman877]

@@DearFutureWifey ok. Maybe because these guests were on one before? The things they said were so familiar. Especially the things said by the pastor’s wife and the married couple behind them. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Idk I’ve seen almost all of your shows.

[@nowKissthaQueen]

Yaaaaas😅

[@AJWilson-l7y]

It's true, you need 2 incomes. But you want the black Man to pay the light bill? While the black woman is paying the mortgage in all the other bills. That's what's being encouraged in these KZbin streets.

[@lindamurphy9883]

Yeah I only want bruthas with adult kids that way they will know I am not there to replace their mother, I am with him, not having anything to do with his adult kids, as far as being a "step" mother, no I am no one to you, I am just someone with your father boo, not your mother. Especially seeing that I am never marrying again.

[@lawill3559]

Present

[@chimakalu41]

12:51 trauma bonding. Wow.

[@lindamurphy9883]

You have always needed two incomes coming in, in the nineties and up. I am good without the marriage thing.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

This new word is soft life. Well, guess what this is 2023, not 1973. Grandma could afford to stay home it was not like that anymore. Unless you're rich you can't afford to have your husband be the only one working. 67% of people bring debt to their marriage. Being broke in your 20s is cool and undertable but to be broke in your 40s is not cool and most people especially women not going put up with that.

[@seemoni0900]

I’m done. Please stop ackin like there are enough Black men that are on a level to marry all these big age grown Black women🤔

[@emebetabduk9508]

dude too much talk.let the guests talk much.

[@3tents93]

This was cool but they lost me at Kappa parties...

[@mariemuhammad7983]

Present