Kidnapper Tells 8 YO “Say Your Prayers” | The Disturbing Case of the Rivazfar Sisters

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@bobbirfosho236
@bobbirfosho236 2 жыл бұрын
Glad there are still people out there that are fighting the good fight. Thank you for service, and holding these people accountable for their horrendous actions. You are truly an inspiration.
@crm208
@crm208 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if the father also has her brother, I hope
@muggleintheupsidedown
@muggleintheupsidedown 2 жыл бұрын
@@crm208 says he got both her and her brother, but no celebration because they were grieving.
@micheletravis9057
@micheletravis9057 2 жыл бұрын
@Tomasino Romano I am so sorry this happened to you
@arianagonzalez9479
@arianagonzalez9479 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! There needs to be more people on the force who are working to help make this world a better place. Now a days most of the officers are just people who are on a power trip and have a superiority complex.
@AncientHebrewNeverDied
@AncientHebrewNeverDied 2 жыл бұрын
@Tomasino Romano 🫂
@persephoneblack888
@persephoneblack888 2 жыл бұрын
I think it's horrible that they gave full custody to an alcoholic mother over a stable loving father. So many things went wrong here and led to this horrible crime. :(
@jenni_noura9170
@jenni_noura9170 2 жыл бұрын
This is how society is. Often women are favoritized
@pizzapizza6722
@pizzapizza6722 2 жыл бұрын
@@jenni_noura9170 yeah.. the justice system is shit
@jenni_noura9170
@jenni_noura9170 2 жыл бұрын
@@pizzapizza6722 yeah also the fees men has to pay for not staying with their wife and divorcing her. One dude I saw went bankrupt when the court wanted 40% of his living expenses and went homeless. I know it hurts when the one you love leaves you. But in time these emotions fade. People should think first what is best for the kids not their egos.
@darladawn1111
@darladawn1111 2 жыл бұрын
It was the late 80's, fortunately it's more common now for fathers to get custody, but not as common as it should be.
@cg79cam51
@cg79cam51 2 жыл бұрын
@@jenni_noura9170 no they’re not. This is inherently wrong, those kids obviously should have been placed with their father but don’t you dare say women are treated better in society than men because it’s simply false.
@marlin3283
@marlin3283 2 жыл бұрын
While experiencing her worst pain, she calmed her little sister. She was a brave big sister, respect.
@metchac
@metchac 2 жыл бұрын
Right?! This poor child 💔
@socorrojimenez2955
@socorrojimenez2955 2 жыл бұрын
May god allways be by you’re side god bless!
@MissBliss818
@MissBliss818 2 жыл бұрын
Yes that's true... except the moment she played dead but without doing so, they both would not be here and ray may not have gotten caught right away. Brave inspiration she is. This case breaks my heart.
@mseiter6316
@mseiter6316 2 жыл бұрын
Wow GOD BLESS YOU SWEET BRAVE STRONG GIRL❣️🤯💔🙏❤️✌️💞🌞
@nadinecrow
@nadinecrow 2 жыл бұрын
What an amazing person
@esshor.
@esshor. 2 жыл бұрын
How on earth did she have this level of strength? She certainly didn’t inherit it from her mother. It’s amazing.
@gelmanbegum9934
@gelmanbegum9934 2 жыл бұрын
Her father , than
@JubilantMints
@JubilantMints 2 жыл бұрын
Strength isn't always passed down. It's a choice.
@parisdawson5024
@parisdawson5024 2 жыл бұрын
@@JubilantMints it’s god
@klo4880
@klo4880 2 жыл бұрын
@@parisdawson5024 no it isn’t. You’re doing a disservice to her strength as well insulting all the children who didn’t have her strength, like they just weren’t chosen by god
@simpleme4581
@simpleme4581 2 жыл бұрын
Life taught her,, not the mother,, 😑😭😭😭
@weave_of_k
@weave_of_k 2 жыл бұрын
So … CPS failed at their job to protect these children. It’s sickening to me to think this whole thing could have been avoided.
@carl1367
@carl1367 2 жыл бұрын
the mom failed. CPS can only do so much and really are put in bureaucratic red tape. you have no idea how hard it is to take a kid from the mother without the most solid, iron clad, video proof of abuse.
@Belle_
@Belle_ 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@weave_of_k
@weave_of_k 2 жыл бұрын
@@carl1367 Of course the mom failed. Yes, she had zero instinct as a mother which is why the cigarette burn on a child’s hand is the job of CPS to take immediate action.Huge huge red flags when they are called to “investigate” MULTIPLE cases.
@carl1367
@carl1367 2 жыл бұрын
@@weave_of_k I agree I'm just saying CPS even with a lot of proof can't just remove a child easily. I mean look even after this the dad still had to fight for custody, after the mother's boyfriend slit her kids throat the mother still had custody rights. So I guarantee CPS was trying to get the kids out but the way the laws work is they have to basically have video of the mother abusing her kids for CPS to take kids away. Really if you want to say who failed these kids it's the judge because I guarantee CPS filed a order to remove and a judge said naw we wanna keep kids with the mom
@alienteknology5390
@alienteknology5390 2 жыл бұрын
There are so many stories of CPS taking children away from loving families for the most stupid reasons, yet they allow abuse like this to go unchecked. What is just as alarming is the failure of the Citizen Review Panels to effectively hold CPS accountable for their poor decision making. There needs to be a more powerful & independent review board focused on CPS.
@Uniqueen1114
@Uniqueen1114 Жыл бұрын
The fact that she became a state trooper made me tear up. No innocent child has to go through this.
@sneakysasquatch6014
@sneakysasquatch6014 Жыл бұрын
I’d like to talk to her one day
@critterwhisperer5821
@critterwhisperer5821 Жыл бұрын
No child ever SHOULD go through this
@critterwhisperer5821
@critterwhisperer5821 Жыл бұрын
Your wording is complete ick
@johannaparry5498
@johannaparry5498 4 күн бұрын
@@sneakysasquatch6014perhaps search up her name or contact the police department she started working for (mentioning you saw this video and would like to speak with her) and maybe you’ll be pointed in the right direction as to getting in contact with her?? That’s if you’ve not already tried to do these things and have already made contact?? Just a thought?
@kimberlywarren7422
@kimberlywarren7422 2 жыл бұрын
I hope the mother was punished as well, she choose her addiction over her children, and one list her life because of it. Never bring just anyone around your children, and never ever leave you’re children with anyone! What a brave little girl, and very strong woman the oldest was and is. Your sister is always with you, and proud of the work you continue to do.
@dontworryaboutit4255
@dontworryaboutit4255 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, the neglect it real. I wonder why they didn't follow up about the mom?
@ravenbeaudoin109
@ravenbeaudoin109 2 жыл бұрын
I bet that mom doesn’t care. My mother chose drugs over us and abused us heavily and now plays the victim card. She will find excuses for her behavior I bet.
@wadewilson8011
@wadewilson8011 Жыл бұрын
Why doesn't this comment have more likes?? You got people who give thousands of likes to redundant comments but this one here speaks the absolute truth.
@dbds5626
@dbds5626 Жыл бұрын
The mom should rot in jail as well for bringing such terrible things on her daughter.
@AZADOUIE1
@AZADOUIE1 Жыл бұрын
@@ravenbeaudoin109 mine too! She is the victim and narcissist
@aliciag1353
@aliciag1353 2 жыл бұрын
As a single mother of two girls, the only thing I can say is: NEVER TRUST PEOPLE AROUND YOUR CHILDREN. Sometimes you might think you're sacrificing your youth and missing a lot outside, but there's nothing worth more than being with your children and seeing them grow.
@cherylmarriott2648
@cherylmarriott2648 2 жыл бұрын
I don't like my 17 year old going out I don't onow what I would do I'm glad she got away and got him
@sharndawg007
@sharndawg007 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely and unfortunately single mothers are targets for children to be abused! You cannot be sure that a man wants to be with you to gain access to your children. 😢 I made the decision after separating from my child’s father that I would remain a single mother until my child is an adult. Working in law, unfortunately we see the same formulaic predatory behaviour of children being abused by step fathers… it is enough for me to stay single and keep my child safe. Single mothers please please PLEASE reconsider inviting another man into your home. You may think being without a partner is lonely and unbearable, but the damage from your child being abused cannot be undone and you WILL blame yourself. It is not just drug addicted mothers who get caught up in this, believe you me, I see it weekly in my job and it is rife!
@scottwhite5937
@scottwhite5937 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of parents that go out partying every weekend need to hear this. Be a parent and take care of your kids
@cherylmarriott2648
@cherylmarriott2648 2 жыл бұрын
@@scottwhite5937 they do we all make mistakes we are human but to bring in strange men I have been single a while now and would never bring different men home she must have been broken it's just sad 😢
@tannerachhammer5711
@tannerachhammer5711 2 жыл бұрын
true shit. Love seeing other women express ACTUAL opinions that can help other women feel like they aren't alone while giving good advice. I hope to one day see the majority think like this. It seems every mother is at some point afraid to be a mother but our culture certainly does seem to groom young women into this state of mind PERPETUALLY, which is a big fkn problem.
@sashchandra
@sashchandra 2 жыл бұрын
What about the mother? She deserves to rot in jail too!! She did absolutely nothing knowing that her so called "boyfriend" was assaulting her child!! Taking her into the room alone. What do these selfish, heartless mother's end up with full custody? When they don't even wanna take care of there own children!! Especially when the Father is fighting for custody.!!
@theyellowhoneybee
@theyellowhoneybee Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@Catapultdragondude
@Catapultdragondude Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@AZADOUIE1
@AZADOUIE1 Жыл бұрын
Paycheck! Child support and more money from the government.
@meddlerx9930
@meddlerx9930 Жыл бұрын
Because women pushed for it in the courts, women's rights, uncivilized women thinking they're standing for something.
@MD_RoulEtte
@MD_RoulEtte Жыл бұрын
@@Catapultdragondude amen
@sochitlreyes3259
@sochitlreyes3259 Жыл бұрын
Her mother betrayed her, a family court judge failed her, a CPS officer failed her. But, her strength, courage and loving father let her be a child again and live a full happy life.
@shaksheedigitalmarketing
@shaksheedigitalmarketing 9 ай бұрын
What happy?
@somebodystrange22
@somebodystrange22 6 ай бұрын
​@@shaksheedigitalmarketing As you can see, she's living now a happy life. Helping and inspiring other people. Use your brain.
@BlackStump172
@BlackStump172 5 ай бұрын
Her mother is the worst .
@begonestink2956
@begonestink2956 2 жыл бұрын
What an absolute failure of a mother. This is such a horrible and heart-wrenching case, and I genuinely hope this guy rots in hell for what he did.
@ukxxsal
@ukxxsal 2 жыл бұрын
aparently he died of natural causes in 2004 aged 48 while on death row.
@kimmygibler760
@kimmygibler760 2 жыл бұрын
Since we have zero proof of an afterlife I think we need infinitely harsher punishments in this life. The dad should be able to tie this guy up and do whatever he wants with him.
@Freemelon07
@Freemelon07 2 жыл бұрын
No, he needs to rot in prison for the rest of his life. No death penalty; I don't think revenge belongs in the justice system. A rotting carcass vs a rotting old man in prison, no friends, no love. I just hope he drops the soap. The only love he deserves.
@aliciag1353
@aliciag1353 2 жыл бұрын
@@kimmygibler760 I agree 👍
@felixdom9693
@felixdom9693 2 жыл бұрын
Including the mother what a worst woman ever. This happen because of her shit
@PiperSpirit
@PiperSpirit 2 жыл бұрын
Not mentioned in this video is that just last year, Sayeh was named lead investigator on a case where a school principal was accused of sexually abusing students. She's really gone on to save lives. Edited to add: The trial for that principal started this week, I think. It's local news for me, so I'll try to edit this comment when the verdict is in. Final Edit: The jury found him guilty of 46 out of 50 charges including sexual assault and endangering of a minor. The maximum sentence is 20 years in prison (I have no idea if that’s per conviction or for all charges at once).
@registame2878
@registame2878 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that.. this story is crazy
@MsNiesh1984
@MsNiesh1984 2 жыл бұрын
WOW! God kept her here to continue to save lives. She’s so loving, motherly, smart, brave & strong. She had a calling on her life 🙌🏾🥹🙏🏾♥️🔥
@rosecah
@rosecah 2 жыл бұрын
Leaving a comment so I can get an update
@lumasahina5012
@lumasahina5012 2 жыл бұрын
leaving a reply here so i can get an update as well
@izzy9106
@izzy9106 2 жыл бұрын
Leaving the comment here to get an update as well. 🙏
@JustARedFlower
@JustARedFlower 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who also did everything to shield their little sister from abuse as children, this one really choked me up. What a strong little girl.
@harleyloves3572
@harleyloves3572 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you had to go throughout that, blessing to you and your sibling!
@rosaliealaina
@rosaliealaina Жыл бұрын
Same 🫶🏼
@rickynieves3144
@rickynieves3144 3 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry ❤ I hope that you and your sister have all the healing and happiness you deserve in life
@michelleorlando3702
@michelleorlando3702 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of the woman she became. Rip to the young child who never got the chance to grow up.
@littlewillowlinda
@littlewillowlinda 2 жыл бұрын
And rip to the girl who was forced to grow up far too early in life. 😢 She’s so strong
@doracampos2088
@doracampos2088 2 жыл бұрын
All because the f up mother picked alcohol and random dick over her children. I hate women like her!
@Dearra16-
@Dearra16- Жыл бұрын
​@@littlewillowlinda She's still alive, she's the woman who you saw in the video
@alliesinger297
@alliesinger297 2 жыл бұрын
Most people who survive things like this don’t think they had any reason to survive, but this girl says, “I lived so it would never happen again.” That’s good to hear
@ravenmeyer3740
@ravenmeyer3740 2 жыл бұрын
Usually, we continue on into abusive relationships, or we become very promiscuous. Some of us will learn to value ourselves and move forward in life. We also develop deep compassion for others.
@kathypichey4306
@kathypichey4306 2 жыл бұрын
Yes its good to hear that their is hope after a horrible misjustice
@adelinenicholas276
@adelinenicholas276 Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for Sarah . She deserved to live. She was just a kid who had her whole life ahead of her.
@blueberrybubble5391
@blueberrybubble5391 Жыл бұрын
And her last thought was that her sister was dead
@ominous27
@ominous27 8 ай бұрын
​@@blueberrybubble5391oh god no 😭😭😭😭
@Savannah_ishere
@Savannah_ishere 6 ай бұрын
Crying rn.
@mollysministuff
@mollysministuff 2 жыл бұрын
That monster may have been physically stronger than her, but her psychological and emotional strength at just 8 shows how much of a coward he is compared to her. It's so amazing to see what she has become and how many lives she will continue to save despite her terrible hardship. Such an inspiration!
@thatiswhotheyare
@thatiswhotheyare 2 жыл бұрын
Very well said
@monolinny1817
@monolinny1817 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed, but I’d rather say an example of bravery instead of inspiration.
@sheriklein7971
@sheriklein7971 2 жыл бұрын
How I wish the father would of had custody of his kids 😢 the mother is a monster to expose them to such danger. She is so brave to have made it through that nightmare!
@Dj-ps9ex
@Dj-ps9ex 2 жыл бұрын
I wished the father would of fought tooth and nail to get his kids from that trifling mother 😤🤬🤬🤬
@Msboochie2
@Msboochie2 2 жыл бұрын
He failed them too. Just because you don’t get full custody, you don’t just abandon them, and move to another state.
@helentaylor2475
@helentaylor2475 2 жыл бұрын
He called CPS in the mom a few times
@2000firegirl
@2000firegirl 2 жыл бұрын
@@Msboochie2 um he fought for years to get them
@SuperFanatic22731
@SuperFanatic22731 2 жыл бұрын
Sad.. I hate these double standards.. Woman always get custody of the kids... Sick. This woman is horrible
@PascaleLaurent81
@PascaleLaurent81 2 жыл бұрын
As she described what Ray did to her and the last moments of her little sister’s life, tears rolled down my cheeks. How can one be so evil ?! Glad she avenged her little sister and lives the way she does now. I’m sure there isn’t a day that goes by where she’s not thinking of her sister. She’s living for herself and her sister.
@niviagomez4712
@niviagomez4712 2 жыл бұрын
Children services failed them, the courts sometimes give the mom preference. The dad should’ve been awarded custody, such a sad case. She was brave for her sister, RIP Sara.
@wadewilson8011
@wadewilson8011 Жыл бұрын
Child services the courts most likely every adult in her life other than her father failed that child and her sister. This is what happens when the courts feel that a child should be with their mother simply because the mother is the female in our society is female biased when it comes to child custody. Anybody who argues that fact is a fool because this is the primary example this one specific case that we're watching.
@AZADOUIE1
@AZADOUIE1 Жыл бұрын
My mother was awarded me and it should have been my dad. I was just a paycheck. I was raised by grandparents. But my bio mom got the check
@LuvFearlessly
@LuvFearlessly Жыл бұрын
You can thank the patriarchy for that. It’s because mothers are usually default parents and a lot of dads have minimal interest in their kids once they break up with the mom.
@Ariadne4
@Ariadne4 Жыл бұрын
This is why we say both mom and dad should take part in looking after the kids, instead of putting all the load on the mother. The mother can also support the family by going to work. But male chauvinists don't want to hear about that
@Lori.jane08
@Lori.jane08 Жыл бұрын
Rest in peace so sorry
@ingridlolies4318
@ingridlolies4318 2 жыл бұрын
What an incredibly brave story. Her mother deserved a similar punishment for child endangerment. RIP Sara.
@angeloj3963
@angeloj3963 2 жыл бұрын
That b**ch (the mother) had the nerve to petition for custody after all this- and a Florida judge enforced it-even ordering them to move back to Florida at one point. I am LIVID on top of feeling so sad for them. She failed them in every way possible and deserved no more chances to hurt and neglect them. There is an old article on New York Times about it.
@PB-vm4bq
@PB-vm4bq 2 жыл бұрын
Very true her mother deserved the same punishment.
@l.janecliftonrozell4707
@l.janecliftonrozell4707 Жыл бұрын
RIP Sarah, if you watch over your sister she’s a strong, strong woman and I’m so proud of her for all she did ❤
@mina0362
@mina0362 2 жыл бұрын
I respect how she makes sure to include her sister saying "WE made this happen", putting an end to it.
@MasonThomas_yt
@MasonThomas_yt Жыл бұрын
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse by a parent and it was my responsibility to keep my younger two siblings safe. The part during the raped when she was telling her sister it was going to be ok and that it's almost over. Was incredibly triggering memories I didn't know I had. I welcome these chances to grow.
@rickynieves3144
@rickynieves3144 3 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry ❤ I hope you and your siblings have all of the healing and happiness you deserve in life
@ryoujika
@ryoujika 2 жыл бұрын
She had to take the role of a mother at such a young age. It's amazing how she never lost hope. She's such a strong woman.
@MarcoPolo-ej1bp
@MarcoPolo-ej1bp 2 жыл бұрын
As an older brother of two, I feel her pain. This is got to be one of my worst fears, so thank you Seyah Rivazfar for your service and your incredible bravery.
@1910anahi1979
@1910anahi1979 2 жыл бұрын
You have a good heart.
@xKouture
@xKouture 2 жыл бұрын
Her pain? You lost a sibling as well?
@geoffnungari8466
@geoffnungari8466 2 жыл бұрын
@@xKouture Nah i think it means he also feels her pain when she lost a sibling
@FELIXORTEO
@FELIXORTEO Жыл бұрын
@@xKouturehe understands her pain
@mattgarbeil5922
@mattgarbeil5922 7 ай бұрын
Xkouture. E M P A T H Y
@desertweasel6965
@desertweasel6965 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love that Ray had to sit there and watch a 9 year old child that he thought he had for sure killed seal his fate in that courtroom.
@benmcreynolds8581
@benmcreynolds8581 2 жыл бұрын
Holy cow. I'm crying. This is beyond moving. Her sister has to be so proud of her. That couple who helped her are amazing, RIP to her poor sister, and it's such a shame the dad didn't get custody of the kids especially with the mom at the time being in such an unstable unhealthy household situation. Man these cases break my heart and move me so much through a rollercoaster of emotions. That girl went thru so much crap and she has pushed thru, survived, and thrived to now help her community. Wow. She's so impressive. Sending my love and utmost respect.
@littlewillowlinda
@littlewillowlinda 2 жыл бұрын
If he didn’t get custody he was probably just as bad as the mom. Might be wrong though
@Kesalley0805
@Kesalley0805 2 жыл бұрын
@@littlewillowlinda did you watch the entire video? You can see pictures of sayeh with her dad, happy and healthy and loved. Obviously he raised her and her brother well once he got custody. The unfortunate reality is that women get custody almost always, and women are believed by the courts almost always. Even when the mother is the danger and the wrong parent for the child or children. Your supposition is insensitive and most likely wrong, considering the video as a whole.
@littlewillowlinda
@littlewillowlinda 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kesalley0805 i did not mean to upset you, and yes I do know that usually they side with the mom. I was just saying that in the video they didn’t share anything about the dad at all.
@zaander2228
@zaander2228 2 жыл бұрын
This is partly the moms fault.. if she hadn’t gotten authority of her children, and admitted to not being healthy enough to take care of her children responsibly, none of this wouldve happened.
@samanthanickson6478
@samanthanickson6478 2 жыл бұрын
@@zaander2228 correction, this is ALL the mom’s fault for exposing her children to the drunken dreg predators of society just to go have drinks and bring more pedos home. if she hadn’t been a drunk and befriended ray, he wouldn’t have come to their home, raped sayah and kidnapped the girls. sick bastard.
@AdrienneMint
@AdrienneMint 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t stop crying, this girl is the definition of the word BRAVERY. I will never forget this as long as I live.
@hengtattmah7962
@hengtattmah7962 2 жыл бұрын
My utmost respect to this most wonderful elder sister who in the most fearful moment could still try to calm and comfort her little sister who must have thought she had dropped dead . Her great presence of mind saved her life but unfortunately her little sister couldn't repeat the pretence because the killer was around and she had to die in great fear😟😔. She's meant to bring the murderer to justice and to avenge her little sister and protect small kids in the future which she is doing just that🙏👍😌
@lizhjelmeseth5485
@lizhjelmeseth5485 2 жыл бұрын
I hope the police awarded her a citizen award for getting a hardened criminal off the streets.
@vickiefinney6073
@vickiefinney6073 2 жыл бұрын
I was only 20 with a new born when I became a single mom, and I never left my daughter alone with anyone or let anyone change her diapers. Women please love your babies enough to keep them safe
@MrRMD32
@MrRMD32 2 жыл бұрын
The court unfortunately tends to side with the mother in custody cases. There are so many horrible mothers that obtain custody.
@MrRMD32
@MrRMD32 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that it still took years for the father to gain custody is beyond baffling.
@DaEdsta
@DaEdsta 2 жыл бұрын
Sexist courts. Disgusting.
@felixdom9693
@felixdom9693 2 жыл бұрын
Because is she is woman's that's why and it disgusting to me
@NotEmilio
@NotEmilio 2 жыл бұрын
Same happened to me when my parents divorced they decided to give the custody to my unemployed alcoholic mother instead of my father with a high income job and no addiction
@Corapaslemagasin
@Corapaslemagasin 2 жыл бұрын
And so many horrible dads too. They are always mistakes. And it’s horrible and not fair but unfortunately it happens. My friend never wanted to go to see his dad. Now I know why and it has nothing pretty.
@erinkay218
@erinkay218 2 жыл бұрын
She was so brave. She avenged her sister’s death and she has saved so many more. She was so brave to be able to testify right in front of him and it’s even more amazing that she doesn’t have deep, deep self destructive issues from everything she went through. I was molested by my father and struggle a ton and she had to deal with even worse. And her poor, poor dad. Those kids should have been with him and he had to be devastated at being prevented from being able to protect those kids.
@mentallydisturbedllama473
@mentallydisturbedllama473 2 жыл бұрын
@@fouziasadiq4223 Very well said..and gosh..I'm so so sorry..I hope you're okay. Much love your way.
@onlytheflowerknow
@onlytheflowerknow Жыл бұрын
The end! I literally burst crying when she said she is now a trooper. This is such a heartbreaking story but the end is so so damn beautiful it truly is fascinating. She didn't let this take her down. She made something out of it. For her sister. I watched so many crime docus in over a decade but this one truly touched me. I wish her and her dad AND the couple who saved her nothing but the best in this world.
@cheyenne70
@cheyenne70 2 жыл бұрын
Hearing her sister was killed just made me cry. Those poor girls.
@joaquimrodriguez8961
@joaquimrodriguez8961 2 жыл бұрын
Mature behond her years.
@cheyenne70
@cheyenne70 2 жыл бұрын
@@joaquimrodriguez8961 she really was
@cielo466
@cielo466 2 жыл бұрын
The mom(if you can call her that) should've been charged too. It was her fault Sayah and Sara went through such a horrible thing. RIP Sara
@ria8977
@ria8977 Жыл бұрын
I'm crying so hard. What a strong brave smart lil girl she was. She's destined to be an officer. What a hero. And rest in peace precious Sarah.
@kirikakirikakirika
@kirikakirikakirika 2 жыл бұрын
As the oldest sister of two, this story breaks my heart. If my little sister or brother were taken like this, I honestly don't know what I'd do. I'm glad he got the death penalty. He never hurt another child again.
@biancaravizza1328
@biancaravizza1328 2 жыл бұрын
She was incredibly brave at such a young age and keeps being so. She was able to transform unimaginable trauma into strenght. She deserves a lot of happyness!
@gheata_playz874
@gheata_playz874 2 жыл бұрын
Happiness*
@totsiwatsu4766
@totsiwatsu4766 2 жыл бұрын
The death sentence is too mercifull. This is my suggestion. Take the devil to a good hospital w / the best surgeons . Prick his two eyes w/ a needle to make blind. Cut off both his arms and legs to make him disabled but be sure to let him live & then set him free.
@mustangsandmadras
@mustangsandmadras 2 жыл бұрын
@@gheata_playz874 you dont have to correct them hun💀
@gheata_playz874
@gheata_playz874 2 жыл бұрын
@@mustangsandmadras sorry
@spurtikus1
@spurtikus1 2 жыл бұрын
Much love to the couple that found her, and did everything right to make sure she had the best chance to survive.
@aleciacooke9236
@aleciacooke9236 2 жыл бұрын
My respect for this woman. As an older sister myself, I understand her need to protect her little siblings. I can't imagine her pain and trauma from that horrible crime
@jbaby007
@jbaby007 2 жыл бұрын
What a badass human being. The bravery and strength is incredible.
@CrashBoomBang78
@CrashBoomBang78 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely blown away by her strength, courage, and resolve, but absolutely heartbroken that she should ever have to display those things in the first place. 💔 Rest in peace, Sarah. 🕊
@ginaverdi6101
@ginaverdi6101 2 жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking! Shame on that mom! Poor little girls! What a strong girl for all she went through!! God bless her!!
@rianavermeulen8689
@rianavermeulen8689 2 жыл бұрын
What happened to the mother? She is responsible for what happened to the children. I really hope that she is behind bars for neglecting her children in such a bad way.
@violetsrayreikishop2
@violetsrayreikishop2 2 жыл бұрын
A couple years ago, we visited her," Sayeh said. "The first two days would be fun and then it would go back to the same way it was. She'd drop us off at a relative's house for a few days. She'd yell at us, she'd hit my brother, she'd try hitting me." Pafford denies the claims, contending that her ex-husband has poisoned her ties to their children. Rivazfar stopped sending the children for unsupervised visits after Christmas 1994. If he does not bring them to Florida for eight weeks beginning Saturday, he could be arrested That bitch was able to get a judge to order unsupervised visitation even after this happened and she played the victim saying her daughter lied about her being abusive to her and her brother she threw blame on the innocent dad saying he brainwashed the kids, the nerve of that wench she doesn't take any responsibility for what happened to her children smh.
@hsuehejjw1731
@hsuehejjw1731 2 жыл бұрын
@@violetsrayreikishop2 she’s a piece of shit and I hope she lives everyday know that she let a monster into her home and kill her children. I hope she knows she is just as responsible
@MsLemon42
@MsLemon42 Жыл бұрын
I love how this channel highlights the survivors and shows how they’re living today, especially those giving back to the community to protect it in ways they weren’t protected. The system failed me so I work as a teacher to help the kids that need it.
@Eldrigeist
@Eldrigeist 2 жыл бұрын
As the oldest of 5 this absolutely destroys me. I couldn’t imagine losing any of them. That’s such a different pain. She’s so brave and strong.
@QoS2
@QoS2 2 жыл бұрын
Sayeh is an inspiration to me and probably everyone else who watches this, but especially for children who have had to grow up too fast, children failed by parents who became protectors themselves, and children victimized by predators and sworn to secrecy. I would like to shake her hand someday. What a terrible introduction she was given to this world. She learned about the worst experiences life has to offer right out of the gate, and she powered on through them with righteous spiritual love. I am however saddened to think of how much stress she has to manage in the aftermath. To see her as an adult today, she comes across and healthy, beautiful and strong, with a career and insight, and is a glowing example of healing to me. I know there must've been a process to this place in her life, I'm curious to hear more of her insight into the other side of trauma. Thank you Sayeh for this look into your life, and the resulting hope and love to be found inside of it.
@fastgurrrl
@fastgurrrl 2 жыл бұрын
Right on.
@dedekent1205
@dedekent1205 2 жыл бұрын
This touches me so deep cause I’ve always been the only protecting my brothers from the abuse we went through as a kid and to this day they don’t think we lived in a bad place cause I took everything for them. This would tear me up inside cause as the oldest we try out best to protect our siblings no matter what. And when anything happens to them we feel solely responsible for it. Stay strong everyone who takes care of your family. You got this and we’re all here to help
@jamiepete2323
@jamiepete2323 Жыл бұрын
I’m speechless and crying like a baby. Thank You so much for being so brave to share this story. May your precious sister RIP. That man was a monster and you slayed the giant with your strength.
@lindseyfarr8539
@lindseyfarr8539 2 жыл бұрын
What about the "mother" who brought all of this into her innocent children's lives? Bringing random men home at all hours of the night and giving them free reign over her kids. Leaving her children ALONE with these strangers and turning her head when this man would take her daughter to be alone with him. She is just as guilty and yet we hear nothing about any legal action being taken against her. Exactly why was she awarded custody in the first place? I will never understand.
@corineusa1454
@corineusa1454 2 жыл бұрын
That's what I want to know.
@fastgurrrl
@fastgurrrl 2 жыл бұрын
She is no mother.
@corineusa1454
@corineusa1454 2 жыл бұрын
@@fastgurrrl agreed. But we can't forget that she was the enabler. I'd like to know if she was charged with anything.
@earnold1896
@earnold1896 2 жыл бұрын
@@corineusa1454... if she wasn't charged it is a travesty. Sadly, so many women are bar hoppers and hook up with evildoers.
@lavender_stars
@lavender_stars 2 жыл бұрын
same thoughts
@lilvegan
@lilvegan 2 жыл бұрын
She is the definition of strength. Wow. What a badass she's become.
@unseentruecrime
@unseentruecrime 2 жыл бұрын
She's amazing!
@luanagardner1815
@luanagardner1815 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!
@thefrog4990
@thefrog4990 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@Freemelon07
@Freemelon07 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect word to describe her!
@patriciamoffat1542
@patriciamoffat1542 Жыл бұрын
What a marvellous woman she has become. She suffered so much terror, pain and heartache in her young life. She's become a symbol of hope, kindness and understanding. Her little sister would be so proud of her.
@kristiefuston2139
@kristiefuston2139 2 жыл бұрын
This is such a bittersweet story. She is so extremely strong to fight not only for herself to fight to stay alive BUT to make sure her sister got the justice that she deserved!!!! May Sarah’s sweet soul be at peace!! It’s so awesome she grew up to continue the fight as she became a highway patrol!! Good for you girl!! Good for you!! ❤
@hechair8209
@hechair8209 2 жыл бұрын
chills. This case is truly horrific. My heart goes out to the victims
@abbexx4283
@abbexx4283 Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe that some people do this horrible shit. CPS failed to protect them, which is horrible. No kid or minor in general should live through this.
@cactiideluxe186
@cactiideluxe186 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve become pretty desensitized to true crime but this one has tears flowing from my eyes. How dare such a brutal horrible monster put his disgusting hands on such beautiful innocent girls. Truly wishing he suffers for this life and the next one. Bless little Sayeh’s heart. She’s truly remarkable.
@gorelash9056
@gorelash9056 2 жыл бұрын
Same here, I've watched thousands of shows but a few types of cases really get to me. This was one. I wasn't really ready for it. My 2 daughters are roughly the same ages. I can't bring myself to watch everything about the Chris Watts case, for a similar reason probably :( ...May this little angel rest in peace. I'm so glad her sister survived, but sorry for all the pain it would have caused her.
@Freemelon07
@Freemelon07 2 жыл бұрын
With all sexual assault cases, my thoughts are all the same: I hope these guys drop the soap enough times that their assholes look like rotten tomatoes.
@PhDincriminilogy
@PhDincriminilogy 2 жыл бұрын
True. This one was so painful to watch. What a horrible disgusting mother! Why have kids when you’re not ready to step up for their well being? 😢
@ladyriofficial3060
@ladyriofficial3060 2 жыл бұрын
SAME HERE. It's why I love this channel - it's not often the victims'/survivors' stories are truly honored. They do an excellent job of making sure their voices are amplified.
@Angel_1394
@Angel_1394 2 жыл бұрын
She's so amazing and strong. She saved countless girls and herself. I'm so sorry for her lost, no kid should experience that.
@DisturbedSquish
@DisturbedSquish 2 жыл бұрын
After everything, she's still fighting and putting monsters away as a police officer, g'on girl, we are with you ❤️
@cristinagabot
@cristinagabot 2 жыл бұрын
Child protective services failed these kids. So heartbreaking, she is one brave girl! Bless her.
@alwayshappy1971
@alwayshappy1971 2 жыл бұрын
She outlived the ordeal to seal the fate of her abuser and her sister's killer, and then, when she grove up, she continued to protect the vulnerable. Just WOW!!!
@jjellybelmo4
@jjellybelmo4 Жыл бұрын
Sayeh became a state trooper. She protected Sara as long as and the best she could. Then she continues to protect everyone else she can. Sayeh is an angel on earth and her little sister an angel above..
@divinecommerce3912
@divinecommerce3912 2 жыл бұрын
It's shocking she was so conditioned to accept his abuse that she didn't cry out to the truck that passed by "HELP! HE'S NOT MY DAD! HELP!" This is a warning to all the desperate #singlemothers- put your kids before your dating life.
@justonemoreticket4873
@justonemoreticket4873 2 жыл бұрын
It was a moment that passed by so fast. Anything could have happened. She was trying to protect her sister. If she said that wasn't her dad, Ray was capable of killing the bystander and killing both of them on the spot, so she probably wouldn't be here to put him behind bars
@SunshineJoleen
@SunshineJoleen 2 жыл бұрын
Why are single mothers portrayed as desperate? Also, why highlight mothers when there are single fathers out there too? You can have a perfectly normal dating life as a single parent. In this case, the mother was an abusive alcoholic.... a bad parent regardless of who she dated. It is unsurprising that she made poor choices.
@thebeamli
@thebeamli 2 жыл бұрын
This happens in 2 parent homes too. Most single moms are not desperate, alcoholic, or bringing home the first penis they meet. Most are hard working and protect their children often neglecting their own needs.
@never_give_up90
@never_give_up90 2 жыл бұрын
She left the abuser after OTHER ppl noticed the abuse but she failed to tell her kids what was going on and that he should no longer be in their life. They were kidnapped by someone they knew and he was able to use that against them. P.s. NOT single mother's but single parents. Dad's neglect kids for their gfs a lot. It happened to my first child. He left us to starve for his secret gf and lied about being depressed and suicidal. Then bagged me to take him back and I almost did until I found out he dated someone else and we were intimate during that time. He got pissed at me and went crazy messing with me, disappeared for a while with her. I filed for child support and he began messing with me through courts and married the girl to look more stable so he had an upper hand. He knew I would put our child before other relationships. Anyway, thanks to his crazy ways and messing with me, I found the love of my life and had more kids and very happy today. Yes, we should always out kids first, they are not an item or a thing to be divided and their well being is more important that trying to get back at your ex or any selfish way.
@channelshalom8914
@channelshalom8914 2 жыл бұрын
Yes selfish women dont care abt their kids very sad
@Yankeesgirl208
@Yankeesgirl208 2 жыл бұрын
So happy to see she gets married in two days. To have such strength as a child and to not go in the direction of self destruction is something most people don’t have. This story will stick with me forever.
@TheFnafclub123
@TheFnafclub123 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this had me in tears. I cannot imagine the horror those poor babies were subjected to. Incredible what she’s done with her life against those odds 😭😭😭
@karmaMatters123
@karmaMatters123 2 жыл бұрын
Sayeh, you were such a wonderful child and continue to be a strong woman helping others. Your sister and thousands, if not millions of people are in awe of you and so proud of you! Sara is #1 on that list! I also hope your stories give a STRONG reminder to mothers that their priority should always be their children…especially when you fight to get full custody….only to be disgustingly selfish, leaving them to care for themselves and put them in terrible danger over and over and over again! Be like Sayah…..not her “mom”. Thank you for sharing your story and spending your life protecting others. ❤️🙏🏼
@loveforeignaccents
@loveforeignaccents 2 жыл бұрын
Just absolutely awful what these two endured at the hands of this monster. DP rightly deserved!! Sara is definitely living on through her sister's determination and spirit. Hope the mom has lived with constant regret and anguish ever since that happened. Anyhow, thanks again for another survivor story -- love these! -- and hope your weekend is off to a great start!!
@uglyhobo4602
@uglyhobo4602 2 жыл бұрын
DP? Double penetration? Lol
@sparrowflying864
@sparrowflying864 2 жыл бұрын
@@uglyhobo4602 It's death penalty azzhat.
@roxxi3089
@roxxi3089 2 жыл бұрын
@@uglyhobo4602 time to touch grass lmao
@cookiemonster8184
@cookiemonster8184 2 жыл бұрын
@@uglyhobo4602 tf is wrong with you
@marie.1111
@marie.1111 2 жыл бұрын
@@uglyhobo4602 death penalty dumb ass
@YagwitOG
@YagwitOG 2 жыл бұрын
My blood ran cold. I had a similar upbringing in the 80s. One of my friends lost her life. The moms left for bars, and would let ANYONE watch their kids, as long as they could party. I'm not as strong as Sayeh. I retreated from the world. I commend all she has done for society. Standing Ovation*
@curiousresearcher9851
@curiousresearcher9851 2 жыл бұрын
What happened to their mother? I certainly hope she was charged with the many crimes she committed against her children.
@the.nerdy.mermaid
@the.nerdy.mermaid 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds to me like she needs some good old community justice… hope she’s suffering incredibly if she’s still alive.
@vanessapaviag
@vanessapaviag 2 жыл бұрын
I was about to comment the same thing! She was so irresponsible as a mother she deserves some sort of punishment too
@rudeaf9222
@rudeaf9222 2 жыл бұрын
@@vanessapaviag ikr
@Promses2Keep
@Promses2Keep 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, no...the mother did not change. She laid low for a few years after the trial, then sued the father for full custody after the children finally refused to come to Florida to visit her. Florida granted her full custody because "the father denied the mother her custody rights by not sending the children to Florida," but New York courts refused to recognize the order. The mother kept trying to bring the father to court for years after that until Sayeh turned 18. She still tried to get full custody of the younger brother but finally gave up after a few months. Even when they did visit her, Sayeh reported "everything would be fine for two or three days, then she'd start yelling at us, hit my brother and tried hitting me, then drop us off at relatives." The mother is a complete POS, who STILL doesn't give two sh*ts about her children, and as far as I've been able to find out has never been punished by the State of Florida.
@nancyoyula
@nancyoyula 2 жыл бұрын
@@Promses2Keep she really is a nutcase. I wonder how she feels about this particular night ?
@palatina6626
@palatina6626 2 жыл бұрын
You are one hero of a big sister. Get the monsters off the streets. What a dedication. Your little sister would be proud of you.
@evonnnie
@evonnnie 2 жыл бұрын
Her level of bravery at the age of 8 is out of this world! Sarah is your guardian angel, and you are the guardian angel to those people whom you have helped and will help in the future 💖🫶 God bless your strong heart!
@jamesl9371
@jamesl9371 2 жыл бұрын
Some addicts and alcoholics should be sentenced to mandatory treatment. The mother was abusing the kids. This is criminal
@Erinski
@Erinski 2 жыл бұрын
I love this channel. You do True Crime right, by focusing on the victims/survivors.
@unseentruecrime
@unseentruecrime 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! ❤
@Leyla7292
@Leyla7292 2 жыл бұрын
@@unseentruecrime U do a great job, thanx 4 that 😊
@lifewithceecee9035
@lifewithceecee9035 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. They do a good job
@Silverboa
@Silverboa 2 жыл бұрын
They don't only talk about the killer or abductor, and talk about the victims journey. I appreciate that.
@TT-td3rj
@TT-td3rj 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, fantastic channel!
@XscenegurlX
@XscenegurlX Жыл бұрын
She was so brave and selfless, through all her trauma she had to be what her mother never was. A living inspiration.
@shea6496
@shea6496 2 жыл бұрын
Cases don’t usually make me this emotional but this actually made me cry. How can someone do this to literal babies?
@peachbunnys01
@peachbunnys01 2 жыл бұрын
This is definitely a case that shows why mothers don’t deserve to always have the children. It’s awful how mother so easily just get custody even if their awful people and this has ended in so many abuse Cases and murders
@monolinny1817
@monolinny1817 2 жыл бұрын
There are also cases where the fathers got the children and abused them, so wouldn’t judge who to have the children by parent’s gender in the first place. Some moms or dads can be hell of livings that don’t deserve these angels.
@dontworryaboutit4255
@dontworryaboutit4255 2 жыл бұрын
@@monolinny1817 This person was pointing how the court system favors mothers just because they are the ones who gave birth.
@samanthamcbay7859
@samanthamcbay7859 Жыл бұрын
I’m a Mum an agree with 100%. My Mum was abusive. she left when I was 6 and thankfully my Dad got custody of me and my siblings because then she didn’t want us. She had a new boy friend and that’s all she cared about. It would have been ok if that was how she left it but she came back when I was ten, and instead of finally becoming the Mum we should have had she subjected us more of her abuse. She hated me, but I was a kid and I didn’t deserve it. She abuse me as baby till I was six and then comes back to do it again. There is no excuse she could ever give that makes what she did ok. Women aren’t always the mothers society wants to believe they are, and that they should be.
@devinehagia123
@devinehagia123 Жыл бұрын
She has the strongest soul ever. Thank you for sharing your story Sayeh. You’re strength is out of this world. ❤️
@Corrie-Lee
@Corrie-Lee 2 жыл бұрын
I know what it's like to be a scared little girl on a stand putting someone away. I was molested by my grandfather on my mom's side. This girl went through way worse than I did though and I'm so proud of her for all she was able to do. That's one tough kid ❤️
@nisse5946
@nisse5946 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry about what you went through. 😔
@Corrie-Lee
@Corrie-Lee 2 жыл бұрын
@@nisse5946 awe, thank you for your kindness ❤️
@anmolnema3679
@anmolnema3679 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, you are also very strong. Hope you are doing well now
@serenas5411
@serenas5411 2 жыл бұрын
😢❤sending u love
@kellysouza9031
@kellysouza9031 2 жыл бұрын
Hey!dont compare what u suffered to what the girl passed tru!you too suffered dont think that it were worse than the orther girl you both had suffered but in different ways
@kadenhiggins9338
@kadenhiggins9338 2 жыл бұрын
What an incredibly strong woman!!
@sleepsound614
@sleepsound614 Жыл бұрын
Sayeh is truly a hero. She was forced to grow up so young and endure the worst things a child could go through and yet she stood up to her monster. She still continues to help others to this day, so much strength.
@CoCo-yv3hl
@CoCo-yv3hl 2 жыл бұрын
This is sad & inspiring. This is why ppl that have childhood trauma don’t get to use that as an excuse to be danger to society. This women experienced her own on top of that of her sister & look at what she has done for herself & probably several families. Keep going you sister will carry you ❤😭
@rayna5623
@rayna5623 2 жыл бұрын
As an older sister, I cannot imagine the pain that Sayeh must've felt listening to her little sister being murdered and being helpless and not being able to protect her. It makes me sick that people are capable of this. I was sobbing the entire time. God bless her and I hope she lives a wonderful happy life, and that the pain eases.
@equazsydnor2876
@equazsydnor2876 2 жыл бұрын
The fact this girl even made it that far is a miracle and i feel so bad for her i hope she is doing way better and is under REAL care
@farahostheimer5749
@farahostheimer5749 2 жыл бұрын
I cried so hard. I love how she turned out so strong, grew out from that terrible trauma.
@redkimonodesigns
@redkimonodesigns 2 жыл бұрын
This is incredibly inspirational. She easily could have spiraled down a different path of darkness, but instead she triumphed and is now a fighter and advocate, good for her!! 👌🏼👌🏼🖤
@Kumihox94
@Kumihox94 Жыл бұрын
How such a "mother" can get full custody?? Unbelievable
@stephaniemorrissey123
@stephaniemorrissey123 Жыл бұрын
Courts are incredibly biased towards mothers.
@dewilew2137
@dewilew2137 2 жыл бұрын
I am so damn proud of you and Sara. You two are my heroes, and true heroes to girls and women everywhere. I cannot imagine what that animal put you and your beloved sister through.
@JessicaC.
@JessicaC. 2 жыл бұрын
She's a real life superhero! Even though her sister's life was short her memory will always live on through her big sister. Strong girls and such a strong woman. God bless her and her family.
@paulcolbourne9112
@paulcolbourne9112 Жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking but this woman is also inspiring. Her intentions are sensible, pure and righteous.
@zoed9427
@zoed9427 2 жыл бұрын
This was so moving, what an incredibly strong girl Sayeh was, and she is an inspiration to so many people now. I recently found your channel and I’m glad you did. Thank you for showing us that victims become stronger from truly tragic events.
@masterpys2693
@masterpys2693 2 жыл бұрын
Poor Sarah. She had to witness the horror Sayeh had to endure and then get killed brutally. My heart breaks. Just horrifying.
@ogbuoduduifunanya1026
@ogbuoduduifunanya1026 Жыл бұрын
This is so heartwrenching, I can't hold back my tears, Sarah deserved to live.
@unexpectedvixen5685
@unexpectedvixen5685 2 жыл бұрын
This is right next to my home town and I've never heard this story,thank you for sharing it. Jay is known as a bad place to live so I'm not surprised.
@annalisagentile6028
@annalisagentile6028 2 жыл бұрын
This woman is so courageous. Her sister must be proud.
@deslov333
@deslov333 2 жыл бұрын
SHES SO STRONG!!!! I WISH HER BABY SIS WAS STILL ALIVE 🥺🥺🥺🥺she’s been through so much! I wish her nun but the best, she deserves nothing but happiness and hope. May God continue to bless her and protect her ❤️
@seductiivechula4787
@seductiivechula4787 2 жыл бұрын
This woman is literally the meaning of strength. That prayer she said saved her life and allow her to get justice for her and her sister.
@mrmarc1066
@mrmarc1066 2 жыл бұрын
The biggest sister. The sister everyone needs. She is amazing. Super human. Rip to sara. So much love for you and your sister
@appetizingpiggy2212
@appetizingpiggy2212 2 жыл бұрын
I have a lil sis. I'm extremely protective of her. I can't imagine how much pain Sayeh went through. Knowing her sister needs help but was not being able to help her must have been so horrible. Sayeh is a strong warrior, a true survivor and an inspiration
@RianLyons
@RianLyons 2 жыл бұрын
I am infuriated by mothers like the one in this case who put alcohol and their drunken libidos before their own children. My own mother dealt with this with her drunk of a foster mother and my mom ended up raped and nearly killed by it at 18 months old. From then on she ended up being regularly sexually assaulted by her foster mother’s many one-night stands. I’m not saying that single mothers shouldn’t be allowed to date but they shouldn’t let these people around their children. Pedophiles regularly target single mothers because they want access to the child(ren) and single mothers often let their guards down because they’re lonely and just grateful to find someone who they believe wants them even though they have children. This happened with my mother in the sense that she married my father and willfully conceived me with him in hopes of having a daughter despite the fact that she knew my father was a convicted pedophile. As a result my life was just like hers in the sense that my father sexually abused me from infancy until I was about 13-14 years old. I believe that he sexually assaulted some of my friends but I don’t have any proof. I think my mother was willfully ignorant and was able to remain as such because I didn’t tell her what my dad was doing to me and no other children came forward with accusations so in her mind he was honoring her promise to never reoffend. If you are a single mother and trying to date I plead with you to know your partners inside and out before you even entertain the thought of having them around your children. If you want to just have some fun one-night stands, fine, but don’t bring these people into your house and fall asleep where they can have access to your children. Have the encounters at your partners’ homes, hotel rooms, anywhere but at home if your kids are there. And if you find out your partner is a pedophile, even if they were only ever arrested and charged for it once, don’t believe them when they try to sell you some story about how it was a misunderstanding or how they’ve changed. My father was only ever convicted once but that just meant he was only ever caught once. Once a pedophile, always a pedophile. Some dick is not worth your child’s sanity or possibly even their life. And just because they’re sleeping with you doesn’t mean that they don’t want to hurt your children. To them, sleeping with you is a means to an end. If you value your partner over your children you are scum. You’re as vile as the perpetrator you exposed your kids to.
@VasilikiTzalachanihappy
@VasilikiTzalachanihappy 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that you went through this! Even if your mother was also a victim in the beginning she stopped being that when she knowingly got with a pedophile and trusted his untrue words. Hope you're in a safe environment right now and working on healing! Sending many virtual hugs! You're right about single mothers vetting their boyfriends better before introducing them to their children by the way!
@jonniehickson5599
@jonniehickson5599 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you.
@shawty7318
@shawty7318 2 жыл бұрын
This story is crazy. I can't believe that despite going though that hell herself she birthed a child into this world for her pedophile husband to abuse. I'm so sorry
@happydolly12
@happydolly12 2 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking to read your story💔 you have relayed a profound response and solid advice to single mothers..
@RianLyons
@RianLyons 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I just don’t want any children to end up like me. I’m a disaster, mental health-wise and at 40 I’m only now beginning to dig into my past with a trusted therapist and trying to climb out of this hole I’m in. If I can educate one mother to keep her partner away from her kids until she feels with the most certainty that she can that it’s safe then I’ve achieved some meaning out of my experience. That’s what I hope for.
@hs4256
@hs4256 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine the nightmare these little girls had to go through and the fact that she still fought for herself and her sister is really inspiring. She’s so strong and that criminal is a coward
@CheGa2016
@CheGa2016 Жыл бұрын
What a monsters: the mother and the killer. So glad she has her dad.
@kindaiconic
@kindaiconic 2 жыл бұрын
I cried so, so hard…I have a sister myself and I’m always so scared something terrible could happen to her. We’re twins, and I can’t imagine being without her. I can’t imagine someone hurting her. I’d die if I lost her.
@alexacornell5287
@alexacornell5287 2 жыл бұрын
I cried so hard as well , I just couldn’t hold back my tears
@bfamily6319
@bfamily6319 Жыл бұрын
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