Being gay isn't a choice isn't a sickness and isn't a illness
@vuyox3 жыл бұрын
It is a choice. The fact that you choose to identify yourself with its labels.
@eshietinemesit Жыл бұрын
@@vuyox that's because of the discrimination. What about male and female because they are two that doesn't mean it's a choice.
@michaelregis1015 Жыл бұрын
@@vuyoxI can choose to identify as human, that doesn't mean me identifying myself as such a choice of me being human. One chooses to label themselves a homosexual because labels are social constructs by their nature, but it is describing a tangible population of people with this attraction that exists within the real world, and that person labels oneself a homosexual does not choose to be one, it just is. So while it is a socially constructed descriptor of a type of attraction one person expresses, the attraction itself is not socially constructed as it cannot be changed.
@christiankikepnguemou90842 жыл бұрын
Interesting conversation. Thanks for sharing
@arnoldhooke27315 жыл бұрын
It's a total absurdity when people think one decides to be gay!
@rivvy21384 жыл бұрын
@@ts8404 How so?
@67lomeli4 жыл бұрын
It shows you how stupid they are that they still believe the world ended twice and the story of Adam and Eve was real. Thank you for your comment. Doctor Lomeli (UCLA)
@jackwilliams85093 жыл бұрын
And you cant choose to be straight
@vuyox3 жыл бұрын
You think? I think it's standard for people to question choices. "Being gay" is utterly a choice, firstly, the title of being gay is a sociopolitical label constructed within the powers of heteronormity for the identification of queer folk. If you say you are gay that is a choice, you went out of your natural origin of existence and endorsed an external term that identifies you with not just your sexual orientation but also which suggests your "lifestyle" accordingly to what the identifier (non-queer bodies) chooses to perceive you. You choose to be seen as 'gay' by conforming to the patriarchal standards served to you. You could also choose to be simply you, the being within whose power is beyond sociopolitical identities. "Straight" people do not concern themselves or even shape their identity based upon sexual orientation, but simply indulge consciously or unconsciously in sexuality. That is freedom. Then why am I to bother with all this nonsense when I could simply CHOOSE be me without descriptions, I need not to explain myself nor whom I choose to become to no one.
@djqueen15062 жыл бұрын
It is a choice combined with environment.
@somkeneokeke72195 жыл бұрын
How have I been missing this. Let me go look for season 1
@hilsonwilson71334 жыл бұрын
I must admit. As a child I was abused sexually by women. And for a while, I thought and believed I was a lesbian, thankful for self awareness. Becoming an adult has made me realise that I am actually not a lesbian. That being said, I believe some people’s sexual orientation might be affected by childhood sexual trauma. Not saying everyone who is homosexual is due to childhood trauma, but I believe a percentage of it might be attributed to that.
@PeteS_19944 жыл бұрын
Also straight people who go into abusive relationships may have been abused growing up.
@michaelregis1015 Жыл бұрын
If it makes you feel any better, there isn't sufficient evidence in the scientific literature that suggests the childhood sexual abuse, prepetrated by same-sex abusers, can cause children to become homosexual. It's a common myth.
@Chan-L-b7l Жыл бұрын
Thanks. People can’t expect 8 billion different people to all have the same feeling and feelings. Like imagine being blue. But red is your favorite color. You wanna be red, but everyone shakes you for having that simple thought. People do be oppressive and stupid, and will believe anything negative about anything
@basilallen18813 жыл бұрын
This was so beautiful and informative!
@barrygreen38295 жыл бұрын
This is a good topic thank you guys for doing it i appreciate you both 👍🏾👍🏾
@adwoaasisi89085 жыл бұрын
Wow.. such an intelligent conversation.. I love the host ..very poised, informed and deep..
@67lomeli5 жыл бұрын
Homosexuality is God telling us that life is not just about birthing but it is also about the arts and marvelous brain creations. Alan Turing (great mind; launched digital age; saved thousands of lives if not millions by decoding Hitler's Enigma Machine), Alexander the Great, Leonardo Da Vinci...Tchaikovsky are just a few examples of great homosexuals that have made great contributions to the arts to the digital age and to our lives. God also launched at us germ warfare (viruses, bacteria, parasites) to keep the human population in check. Alan Turing alone is worth over a million "Christians" in terms of human value and morality. Religion, its politics and big oil have contributed to global warming and the planet's eventual destruction by the adage of, "have all the kids God will provide" even when the religious victim or ignorant has no food or clothing. In other sects, men have multiple wives like the Mormons. If the concern is gay sex (man to man), over 90% of married man have either penetrated their wives anally or have fantasized about it, according to our medical study of the subject. The time has come to discard the Bible's genesis that amounts to no more than just bad literature. Scientists have shown us our true genesis based on facts; in the process, these great scientists have won many Nobel Prizes. Has the Bible won a Nobel Prize? Is the Bible accepted at public schools? The answer is a resounding “NO” to both. I must question the individual who chooses to believe something that is utterly false like the stories of Adam and Eve (incest between brothers and sisters), Noah's Ark (incest again), Lot being made drunk and raped by his daughters to have child with "father" and that women come from a man's rib. This is just rubbish. According to the Encyclopedia Britannica, nothing is known about Jesus's first thirty years of life (we can discard the nativity scene); Jesus was illiterate; he never wrote a single word.' If so many groups have "Jesus" like the KKK, Hitler, the National Rifle Association, the White Supremacists and other questionable groups that like to make war, why don't we discard a Jesus that is so different to so many and just pray to God who gave us Creation and Evolution that is all-inclusive. Religion is a fictional beast that is profitable but must die for humanity to reach a higher level of reasoning and conscience. "Christian" George Bush had read in his Bible, "you shall not kill; you shall not life," but at the sound of the trumpet he invaded Iraq for its oil killing a Million Muslims (though Bush has always claimed to be "pro-life). For two thousand years, we have heard the same lies from religion that half of the population has come to believe something that has no facts to stand on. Be free...just go to God and feel internally spiritual. Yes, the all-inclusive God we are yet to discover, but science may one day. Carl Sagan: “Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known.“ God? Religion is a business. God is not and He (She or They) is FREE! But you must learn to live within the confines of your conscience. (Jesus did not die for our sins, as sinners like to say; he simply died.)(Homosexuality has not been done away by evolution (as it should) because He is important in God’s divine plan for this often-malevolent society. (‘The bird sings, not because it has a song. It sings because’ it has a message to give to all of humanity that has all to do with God.)
@TheMZsadeBABY4 жыл бұрын
Luis Lomeli even though I did not follow all of that, it was well written!
@67lomeli4 жыл бұрын
@@TheMZsadeBABY Ms. Phillips; come to the House of God, Alpha Omega 65; so that we teach you to learn a TRUTH because learning it will make you free as you deserve. Our heart is with you. Be good to yourself and stay away from the Coronavirus. Big hugs. God!
@TheMZsadeBABY4 жыл бұрын
Luis Lomeli you stay safe as well. Is there a website for this organization?
@67lomeli4 жыл бұрын
@@TheMZsadeBABY Our Dear Ms. Phillips, please go to Facebook Luis Lomeli Ontario California with the same face logo. You can read all about God there; Christ is back with us through US. If you seek God, He is with us. Stay in touch our dear lady. We never ask for money. Hugs.
@downburst13 жыл бұрын
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@montage19264 жыл бұрын
How am I just hearing about this channel. I love you guys
@oneluv42713 жыл бұрын
how do you want people to be what they are not I don't believe in conversion therapy
@Thrilledcontrol5 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful!!!!
@oyanachidinma55815 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.. I have shared it.. Let people be educated 😊💕✨
@shlovemovie56592 жыл бұрын
I need your help pls am going crazy, my family disown me throw me out of the house l don't know what to do,but this is me
@solomonaryeetey69342 жыл бұрын
FIND AN ORGANIZATION OR GET OUT OF THAT COUNTRY
@manman25884 жыл бұрын
I've yet to hear them debunk the myth about how regardless of where you live cuz I live in America and I noticed that gay men will opening it on a man that they know and they heart of hearts is straight heterosexual not gay and the man will tell them such I am not gay and instead of respecting his boundaries they create a narrative of saying he's homophobic despite not saying anything hateful anything derogatory or disrespectful if there is a community that you involve yourself in why go after people that you know have no interested and you know they have no in you and your lifestyle and then choose to want to destroy them because you can't get your way but down sexually because that's all it really boils down to how can I be supportive of a person that doesn't respect me I'm trying to be more civil and that's hateful but I notice in the lgbtq community that if I just say I'm not gay or I'm not into men that's misconstrued as gay bashing
@naynay80884 жыл бұрын
Straight men make unwanted moves on women all the time, much more than gay people.
@manman25884 жыл бұрын
@@naynay8088 I'm talking about gay people so I don't give a fuck what you're talkin about stay on topic
@saratujibrin37554 жыл бұрын
@@manman2588 that's because you are not rebuking the act but the person. If hitting on and harassing people is the crime, then you should rebuke the crime irrespective of whether it's parpraitated by homosexuals or heterosexuals. The fact that you only care about this being wrong when it's parpraitated by homosexuals but want to ignore it when it's parpraitated by heterosexuals, then it clearly shows that you are HOMOPHOBIC.
@naynay80884 жыл бұрын
@@manman2588 I'm saying you know what a girl feels like now when you make advances on them. I know you've done it to them before
@manman25884 жыл бұрын
@@naynay8088 we're not going to do a false equivalence and you're not going to assume that just because I'm a man that I was raised with an attitude that all women are my concubines or personal sex receptacles I've always have respect for women so much to the point where women would Overlook me because I was considered too nice or too sweet most of the time I would hear this "you're a good guy but you're the type of guy that I would settle for down the road im not looking for that type of guy right now" most of the time they were looking for that aggressive quote" alpha male that can give them drunk dick and a good time and more than likely Act like the toxic man that permeate our culture I'm not saying that I've been perfect to women but seeing as how I've raised a daughter and I'm a mama's boy who is very much still close to his mother to this day I didn't grow up with this attitude of disrespecting women at least not actively an intrinsically if a woman was rude or Unbecoming then I'm going to match their energy but seeing how I love my mom and my child and I believe in karma I didn't want to put myself in that position so don't assess my character by your assumptions