UPDATE Found Wife Cheating Wife w Friend, She Went Nuts I Divorced Her Thinking I'd Get Over It

[@rekslegiune6004]

So when you hit a women you go to jail, when she lies you go to jail and when they find out she lied nothing happen? 👏👏

[@laforge001]

Yeah but things ARE changing. More and more men are learning how to protect themselves and start video recording everything. This dude mentioned a channel Strong Successful Male. It's a good channel. A few months ago he posted a video of police officer giving advice for men how to protect themselves. In the last few days he posted a couple of updates. While most of the time, the woman still gets off light with the DA and Courts, the police are actually beginning to make more and more arrests of women making false reports. This of course helps the men in their divorce cases. In one of the updates he goes over an incident where a man had done just that. He had a junior female officer with him that immediately started pressuring and threating the husband. The husband stayed calm and was laughing. The husband showed them video of him in his office. At the same time, the woman was in the bathroom. She had literally thrown herself into the cabinet and sink. He called his supervising Sargeant to the scene. Gave him the quick rundown and showed the video. Much to the female officer's chagrin and embarrassment, they walked over to the woman, arrested her and took her to jail. The officers then informed the husband that with the video they have enough evidence to charge her. His cooperation to press those charges wasn't necessary but would help. The husband signed the filing charges. It still got reduced from felony to misdemeanor by the judge and DA. Much work to be done to get the laws changed to get balance instead of female favoritism, but it's a start. Ha! Believe all women is a lie.

[@np5976]

Under absolutely no circumstances would I ever hit a woman. That's not a real man.

[@laforge001]

@@np5976 I used to believe that. Until my ex had her hands wrapped around my throat choking me. Nearly passed out before I scrambled and wrestled out. Had to head butt three times to get her to stop fighting. I am not a big dude. That is the day I decided if they are going to attack me, I will defend myself.

[@np5976]

@@laforge001 Yeah, I know what you mean. Self-defense is different. There's too much violence in a lot of marriages.

[@deborahyoung1873]

​@np5976 so let's just say for arguments sake that a grown woman punched your toddler, you would do nothing because she has a slit between her legs?

[@nilianstroy]

So, op posts everything on reddit, then says "keep it off the internet as much as you can..." lol

[@ravenbohannon3435]

He meant like FB Twitter and other net places. Reddit you can be anonymous

[@nilianstroy]

@@ravenbohannon3435 to a point, too many stories where the op ends up stating that their post was found by family members or friends.

[@MCBRUCE76]

I think he meant social media.

[@enricohagn]

Nothing is "anonymous" once it's on the internet 😂

[@chunellemariavictoriaespan8752]

I think he meant those who might know him enough to affect him.

[@mackholcomb3416]

This is such a rollercoaster! I can't believe the moment he found the second phone led to all this chaos. It’s crazy how quickly trust can shatter, especially with someone you thought you knew so well!

[@Mrwillie95]

Madison is just mad that her gaslighting doesn’t have no effect on op

[@Henry.25]

2:39 me: Spectrum? wtf is Spectrum? Is he talking about autism? Ohh, the Spectrum internet/phone carrier 😂😂😂😂😂

[@seandoherty4236]

No divorce attorney would let you confront your wife before officially filing for divorce.

[@JonathanJoestarJuicefest]

Nah, it's an at-fault state and he has tons of evidence. It's not the smartest thing to do but it fucks him over a lot less.

[@Henry.25]

A verbal confrontation, in an at-fault state, is fine. However, it cannot go beyond that. No trying to get revenge, no humiliating her in front of her family and friends, if the cheating partner is from her work, no trying to get them fired, no saying anything. Because any of these actions can damage her ability to make money, putting you on the hook for alimony. (this is what I advise my clients to do)

[@timperry6948]

"You're letting your insecurities get to you!" That is gaslighting and emotional abuse at its finest. Never go back to a person who plays on your emotions like that.

[@AGOTHWEDNESDAYTV]

💯🎯

[@RoseWine-666]

"Life is not always fair, but how we face challenges determines who comes out on top. Wishing you strength and happiness in the journey ahead!"

[@CharlesJohnson-y3r]

Good man, I would never want to be near a woman who cheated on me. I'm not into sloppy seconds.

[@sherlocksteve9109]

love that quip.."she slept in the guest room you heathens!!"

[@ROLStories]

FIRST UPDATE 8:37 SECOND UPDATE 13:01 THIRD UPDATE 17:45 FOURTH UPDATE 22:04 FIFTH UPDATE 25:38 SIXTH UPDATE 28:24 SEVENTH UPDATE 33:13

[@reedergrant6108]

Wendy wants the sausage dog.

[@GhostStoryAlley-e2g]

i love this story!!

[@nehpets216]

Spa day? I think the 2 would like that and they get along well enough that they would enjoy going together.

[@wplains]

Amazing how Madison calls OP “ heartless” when she’d been having an affair probably since before her marriage. She’s a thoroughly modern woman, smh! BTW, the Strong Successful Male channel is real on KZbin. I follow it myself and I’m a woman btw. I’m always amazed at the entitlement and slutiness of these women.

[@Shadow66090]

So you are one of the 5 women who follow him that he jokes about 😂

[@TusaBear]

Dont be silly men and women have been unfaithful in marriage since its conception to say its a modern woman who cheats like that is ridiculous.

[@guywhowatchesvideos-z2e]

isn't this the guy who ended up with his former sister in law?

[@rmhartman]

"the" guy? there's a half dozen in those stories floating around

[@josephj7991]

WOW! That was Great Advice!

[@WayneWright-c2j]

WOW she LASTED a HOLE YEAR And THEN CHEATED well Done

[@coreymartin6486]

25:20 "she didnt have that kind of money to pay" And i think we likely found the reason why madison found a victim to marry.

[@jimnoyb1209]

0 run from her like she's got the clap

[@amandahanson8188]

Hol up. Deer hunting in February? Where on earth do they allow you to hunt deer in February?

[@LostCause-69]

Alot of Southern states run deer season through February.

[@amandahanson8188]

@LostCause-69 That makes sense then. Up here in Wisconsin you get caught deer hunting in February it's 30 days to the electric chair.

[@MCBRUCE76]

Actually he can in southern state of America

[@danmc7815]

I have no idea about elsewhere, but you could hunt in February in Western Connecticut into February, last I knew (a few years ago). That area is mostly developed, and the deer population was estimated as 33 per square mile a decade ago. Way overpopulated, and the deer had been getting smaller over time. For does there was essentially no limit. A lot of the hunting was by bow only, as it occurred near houses. Guys would set up on a back porch near a wooded area.

[@jimnoyb1209]

You need to write a note to everyone in her contact list advising them to get an STD test

[@MauricioChavez664]

If she can forgive her husband, or finance she's not a better person she's the dumbest person out of you all

[@ScottAT]

She made it ONE YEAR….

[@patrickandrews8714]

Marry Wendy or Kate! That's a thank you!

[@personwithaquestion1800]

Advocating trauma bonding, are you? I see what you did there 😂

[@josephj7991]

Tell EVERYONE! She woll Lie and turn everyone agsinst you!

[@amandakay789]

Wendy needs to know her place & her sister’s husband is NOT IT!! Idc what anyone says why open such a can of worms by spending the night/weekends together away at a cabin. “Just friends” is one thing & yes I understand the argument that a guy & girl can be close without being intimate especially if there is a bond there but there’s certain things you just don’t do & boundaries you don’t cross & a lil sister/sisters husband is a no go. I’d place a bet where this is going smh

[@spencertuia1232]

LMFAO just stop😂

[@jessicakithuku7989]

Wendy though.

[@Some_Idiot_on_the_Internet]

Fake.

[@jonmoore7831]

The narration voice is completely annoying! Old story recycled

[@gehtdichnixan8561]

Uhm. Just to clear one thing up: "At fault-state" specifies the legality of a divorce. In those places, a divorce is ONLY even legally possible if one party is "at fault"; nothing more to that term than that (and, by the way, none of the US-states are "at fault"-states...). Obviously, one can file for an "at fault"-divorce everywhere; that comes with the benefit of "not" being tied to the "normal" separation phase (up to 18 months after all). HOWEVER, there's no "separation phase" for short term marriages" (less than 5 years usually) at all anyway, which renders the additional effort to prove the "at fault"-situation pointless. Distribution of shared assets etc. are NOT affected by the type of divorce. Alimony "may" be affected, that's a state-by-state matter; however, alimony "normally" wouldn't be a thing at all in "short term marriages" (in some places, a temporary support could still be granted depending on the individual case; like, mutual "STAHW"-agreement for the marriage - the 'soon to be ex'-spouse couldn't support her/himself due to that mutual agreement, thus her/his temporary support would be the other partner's obligation, regardless of the reason for the break-up - "at fault" or not simply doesn't matter in that case). p.s.: And no, a prenup is no "last straw" for people in the US either. The US handles prenup-legality stricter than pretty much any other country on the planet. Feel free to educate yourself, not willing to write an essay here...

[@Tonyelec10]

You already wrote an essay and alot of it was wrong

[@gehtdichnixan8561]

@@Tonyelec10 A bit lengthy, sure. Not exactly an essay though, more like an average paragraph in my line of work😶. In regards of the content, however, once more: feel free to educate yourself.

[@Tonyelec10]

@@gehtdichnixan8561 oh i very much have, I had to do so as part of my minor. Ergo why its easy to pick apart how wrong you are on most things and your very poor lamen's understanding of how things work. From the very start it's rather hilarious to see your inability to understand basic concepts like fault states meaning states that offer at fault divorces in addition to no fault divorces and not just no fault divorces. And the fact that fault very much effects asset distribution in states with equitable distribution laws (ie the vast vast majority of states that offer at fault divorces). Its pretty obvious you either come from a state that doesn't offer at fault divorces or does but is a community property state and think that the entire U.S. works like your crappy state does.

[@luvmydeck]

When the sex stops, u are just roomates. Treat her as such.

[@fallenkiwi6499]

Soooo what's the game playing in the video?

[@zstrineofjustice]

What is this game in the background

[@AtotehZ]

I'm 37 and my current GF is 24. 27 and 20 is not that bad. I must admit that I was struggling with the age gap in the start, but she was very into me and I decided to try it out. Turned out she thought I was in my late 20's, but at that point we had already started dating. I told her "I've lost so much weight recently that my face skin started hanging a bit, but I guess slow skin recovery comes with age." She asked how old I was to that, since she didn't think late 20's was old.. I don't know if our relationship will last. When I'm 50 she'll be my current age, 37, but so far it's been good. Again though. 27 and 20 is not a bad age gap. My buddy has been married to his wife for 7 years. She is 30 now and he is 39. She's pregnant with their 3rd.

[@T-fo4wt]

Rehashed story.

[@np5976]

They are all rewritten/copied.

[@abigailpatriciadole3167]

Op has NO business sleeping at his house! He is a fool for allowing this. It doesn´t look good for him in the divorce. IF this is real and I highly suspect that it isn´t a lawyer would advise him not to.

[@Tonyelec10]

Op has unfortunately alot of business sleeping at his house. In the u.s. If the man is sleeping outside of the home for a prolonged period during a divorce most courts will consider him to be abandoning the home and awards by default to the woman. They usually won't even take into consideration extenuating circumstances like the wife being extremely hostile to point of putting him in danger. About the only time they are forced to not consider this as abandonment is if he gets a restraining or protective order against the wife, which is also extremely extremely difficult because he is a man and she is a woman.

[@HeliosX28]

It's a good thing you're not a lawyer because everything you said was completely wrong

[@jimnoyb1209]

Women are like streetcars there's always another one coming