UPDATE: How I Blow Dry & Flat Iron My Relaxed Hair | Slick Edges & More!

[@rozzzr2]

All of Destiny, I am a 66 year old grandmother and I must admit, I love your videos! You must have been a happy baby because as a young woman you are simply delightful. From your videos I can tell you come from a good family and have a lot of love surrounding you from family and friends, which helps you stay grounded. Keep up the good work. God bless you.

[@allofdestiny]

Thanks a lot Ma'am. 😊 yes my family keeps me grounded and well balanced. im grateful for the life i have. peaceful and blessed. thanks soo much for watching im glad you enjoy my videos

[@NikkiThoughts]

such a southern bell!!!

[@BimmerBabe]

thanks hunny, im one week relaxed today after 6 yrs being natural and im loving it!!! im like my god why was i fighting with my natural hair so much only to have it hidden under wigs and braids. im so happy and versatile now.wash hair for me tonight and imma use your wrap with the roller technique

[@kellinicole4435]

am I the only one who thinks she kind of act like penny proud?. idk maybe I'm crazy

[@kennedywansley6235]

Omg I said the same thing your not alone

[@thedejahdenise]

when you have to re-watch this while you're doing your hair so it comes out the exact same way lol

[@allofdestiny]

yessss follow along girl get it right!! 😊

[@cknight2580]

Lol

[@hsohliyt]

The best time for you to get a re touch relaxer is about 6-8 weeks after your last relaxer or when you get about an inch or inch and a half of new growth. The reason why most people with relaxed hair have damage or breakage is because they wait too long to get a re touch. The reason why is because after you get a relaxer you have made a permanent chemical change to your hair. The relaxer has permanently changes the chemical bonds in your hair. Specifically the disulfide bond. Relaxer simply changes the shape of the disulfide bond. after some time your hair will grow and you will see virgin or "natural" hair. Now you have two different textures of hair "living" on your head. The natural hair has a completely different bond than relaxed hair so in simple terms where your last re touch and your newly grown hair meet is weak. Its like two people living in a house that don't like each other. Your natural hair will overtime kick the relaxed hair out of the house. This is the cause of a lot of shedding and breakage. Soooo I said all that to say it's important to keep up with your relaxing schedule. Don't ever not get your retouch because you don't feel like it or for any other reason. Because the more you don't feel like retouching your hair the more your hair will feel like breaking off. I hope I'm not coming off negatively. I just think it's important that lady's with relaxed hair know the importance of keeping up with the schedule of their hair.

[@guacgirl]

Btrice Higgin you are absolutely corrrect. I must add that some people can get away with going longer between touch ups. having a bit more new growth to relax if you're hair is on the softer/fine side. I used to go 8 weeks usually, then in the winter about 10-12 maximum. I took great care to My hair all the time. I washed it every week or every two weeks and sat under the dryer with conditioner, including a reconstructor. I wrapped my hair wet and sat under the dryer, I would flat iron it once a week only. twice a week only for a special occasion. That was key for me. and I always got a trim ay relaxer time, by a professional ALWAYS. and NO chair hopping, find someone that cares about healthy hair and knows what they are doing. I had healthy relaxed hair. the relaxer is not bad! it is human error and misuse and not maintaining hair at home that causes most issues. I feel ticked when people blame the relaxer for all their issues

[@faithblessed5798]

Btrice Higgin you are so right because i go to salon n sometimes i go pass my relax schedule n my hair would get alot of new growth n very thick n grows also but i do see little piece of straight hair fallin while combing. Thats so so true. 🤗u didnt sound negative.

[@faithblessed5798]

Btrice Higgin but my hair grows alot even thought that happens at times wen i miss my time

[@tiffmonique03]

Btrice Higgin thank you for sharing this info. I read the entire thing lol.

[@candycefox5018]

Btrice Higgin i relax my hair only once every 6 to 9 months and its wonderful for me and my hair grows personally 6 to 8 weeks i would be bald my scalp is too sensitive for that and many ppl i know that do this is bald with no edges or their hair barely grows

[@only1kristen]

she is adorable omg lol

[@nunuhuda5093]

You need your own talk show or do modeling. You're so awesome. Post more.

[@kayleyfaiith4239]

i love the way she talks and she's funny u earned a new subscriber

[@jahlaurynnicole3355]

" on fleek 💯for Easter " .. 😂 love you destiny !

[@allofdestiny]

+Jah'lauryn Norment lol my fav part . thanksss

[@Insurgentfabulosity]

ur personality is bomb!

[@allofdestiny]

Insurgent Fabulosity awwwwwwww thanks a bunch!!!

[@Prettylovekay]

Kyla Pratt! I was like whoooo does she look like 😆

[@letoriabennett883]

Kay F she does☺️

[@itstammylynn]

Your hair came out so cute! I love that flip! I might start wrapping my hair this way from now on :)

[@ShannB]

Why am I so excited to see a hair video from you ?! Thank you .

[@aakashrajput6768]

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[@allofdestiny]

ThatGirl Shann gonna post more for you! =) check out my newest one!! you'll love it

[@saraht6558]

I loved your video and your personality! I usually wrap my hair right after straightening for the simple fact that it sets everything into place so when you take it down it looks fresh.

[@kattyprophete167]

You have grown so much...🤗 5 years later and your still my fav

[@ebonybutterly]

I love all your videos! Whether if its long or short! I can't wait to see part 2 of panama!

[@allofdestiny]

***** =) awwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!! geez!!! =) part two is up.check it out!

[@MizzLaydee21]

Your hair turned out BOMB!!!!! That wrap came out really nice for you to have only had it in for an hour. Definitely keep the hair vids coming please!!!

[@allofdestiny]

MizzLaydee21 i def will!!!!! =)

[@caycay4722]

But when he running up the stairs it's like "baloom baloom baloom baloom" dead asf 💀💀💀

[@KP-ir3gj]

I'm so happy to have found a tutorial for relaxed ladies like myself. thank you

[@iceymalik]

she just pretty I swear😍😍and so playful and full of life👏💕

[@m_eazy007]

Ooh~ I like the way you wrapped it. I never thought to put a roller right there but that little flip is life lol. Watching you is so funny and is like when I do my own hair. Loved it!

[@ToyToy008]

You are so enjoyable to watch..with your fleeking hair.

[@kare8871]

LOVE how you got straight into the video!!!

[@gabbync6788]

I love your videos! So glad to see someone with relaxed hair giving great advice :)

[@diva216]

Video had me LOL!!! I was looking on here for ways to stretch my relaxer and I came across your video. I wasn't gon wash my hurr tonight but this video just gave me the energy to do it

[@ieishasmith1974]

Her accent is LIFEEE. Great video I Love it ❤️❤️

[@parisz]

I love your southern accent! The hair came out beautiful, too. Love from Barcelona

[@TumiYukii]

When you said "good god" over and over I was dying. Subscribed.

[@TyniaWilliams]

omg you straighten your hair with ease! it takes me forever but you have some beautiful hair!

[@shamiyah8]

"where the toenail clippers?" so real😂 i love it

[@tinastephens6136]

Your hair is so healthy love it!!!

[@meseknowsbest3144]

This makes me miss my relaxed hair and how simple it was to flat iron it . I flat ironed once every two weeks and relaxed every 6 weeks . All I had to do was wrap it at night and unwrap it in the morning and go . It was long about bra strap lenght and so healthy, boy i miss it so much I could cry :'(. But over the years it just got shorter and shorter , the ends were just so thin from the breakage I had to cut almost a half inch a month . I was forced to go natural but I can't complain I still love my thick hair

[@angelwright7290]

what made your hair come out if you dont mind me asking

[@meseknowsbest3144]

+Angel Wright It didn't come out, the chemicals from relaxers over the years made my ends weak and it keep breaking off. I'm sure my thyroid condition didn't help with my hair being so weak.

[@angelwright7290]

MeSe Knows Best oh okay my hair fell out 3 years ago when I was diagnosed with lupus. My hair fell out bcuz I was calling in yhe hospital for 3 months and I had a sew-in my hair. The weave matted up so bad and my real hair was so dry and brittle it fell out.

[@meseknowsbest3144]

+Angel Wright I'm sorry to hear that, god bless you. how is your hair now?

[@angelwright7290]

Its to my back 😁 actually longer than before but its not as full 😳

[@natashializsette6712]

You can also get the wings on the side with the flat iron if you don't have a roller, what you do is flat iron that piece in the front roll the flat iron as if you were about to roll it, do it straight back then when your done just style it to the side :)

[@beautytheemccoveryway9909]

Your hair came out really nice, good job!

[@missblessed100]

Your hair looks pretty and Thanks for showing a old gal some hair tricks.

[@cheyenneh1488]

I love your personality, it makes people want to watch your videos 😊

[@allofdestiny]

Oh how cool. Thank you

[@VibrantVicky13]

Your hair looks so smooth and healthy and bouncy and ugh gonna try to get mine like this! haha Great video!

[@sofiatbalogun4224]

just started watching her and I just love her right away..and subscribed

[@dfrnt21]

I love all your videos!! I'm still waiting for part two of the spring break vlog

[@allofdestiny]

dfrnt21 part two is posted check it out!

[@KaysWays]

Loving your accent! Your hair came out pretty, this video was fun to watch, new sub here

[@kaelynnprice7121]

youre so pretty and your hair looks really healthy!!

[@trinitymiles8452]

luv the way she talks

[@latoniabelser2530]

thank you I have watching other videos to learn the technique and your video was awesome and easy to understand how to get that bump on your ends great job done

[@adriannaford2495]

Latonia Belser

[@MzLady804]

Omg u remind me so much of Kyla Pratt. I love ur personality lol good job on your hair and I'm going to try this in a few days!!! & we gone see (drake voice) how it come out lol

[@gabbiepinnock587]

Lol I like how you said "It's the only lip gloss you wear on your lips" XD

[@maynellshaw1729]

I enjoy all your vlogs! I love your hair it's beautiful and looks healthy!!

[@talyricsmarshall1009]

i loooovve the lil rymes you be doing just makes the video wayyy more fun to watch 😂😂❤

[@journeybacktonatural8465]

I love it! Your hair is awesome. Hope you'll do more videos. You're one of my hair crushes 😊

[@cynthiaharris6977]

Loved your video, and you made it so much fun...It wasn't boring at all😃

[@itsterricaa1703]

Hey girl , where is the rest of your vlogs in Panama. I've been waiting lol . Love you hair !! Wish I had hair like yours lol .

[@allofdestiny]

itsterricaa hey heey girl! i'm actually editing our panama clips right now! it takes sooo long i think i recorded too much..lol stay tuned...thanks so much for watching! and thanks for the compliment

[@sorenaj264]

I wish you were my big sister😭 you're videos are sooooo amazing and I'm so glad I found ya, you're so helpful ❤️❤️❤️

[@jaylasmith7911]

I love this 😍! I think im going to try this style today on my hair 😄

[@tressbytre7142]

love yo accent yesss!!!!

[@glojahmaia]

I love the way you did the front of your hair

[@Lisa-pn1eu]

I love all of your videos but most of all the hair videos but it always nice when you tubers throw a little about there life i really enjoyed the Panama trip and your is not short and its full Love it I am reaching BS length.

[@allofdestiny]

Chalindia Whaley thanks for the honest comment!! i appreciate the opinion!!! hhj and aim for that goal. great job! =)

[@princessosifo2914]

I love her accent and thanks for this video. helped so much!

[@abeautyandherbudget]

Do you boo boo😄. Personally i only watch your hair vids but this is your channel showing the various sides of Destiny. Hair on FLEEK!

[@allofdestiny]

NiyasHair Journey yes, you got it!! (allofdestiny) thanks a lot =)

[@aakeeiaariana]

Lol I just came across your video and subscribed!!! You're personality is everything you remind me of me 😂😍💯

[@qqklara]

loved your video- beautiful hair and beautiful face + so much of positive energy :) keep up the good work!

[@starwolf757]

Great job. Happy Growing!

[@andreastovall1073]

Thank you for the video. Your hair looks very pretty

[@aaliyahrhodes5798]

, your hair looks so healthy and cute yessss

[@allofdestiny]

Aaliyah Rhodes thankk yoou!!!

[@janelle1581]

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR HAIR && YOUR VIDEO'S!!!! My hair is your length but I hate it because it's so thin. What do you recommend for thickening hair???

[@kendraspencer3925]

girl! girl! girl!!! im going to need you to do my hair because your hair is cute:)

[@marlak4203]

Well thank you ma'am for showing this now i see how i can do mine and have that feather on the side. Thank ya ma'am. Very nice

[@CH-ku9ne]

We use the Same products and I need to get that hair dryer or at least the comb for it ! But yea your hair turned out cute , and I like when you vlog and do Hair videos !

[@quneshiahunter8992]

I'm excited to see you with braids, please make a video about them!!!!!!

[@allofdestiny]

Qu'Neshia Hunter stay tuned !! video will be coming soon =)

[@BimmerBabe]

Qu'Neshia Hunter im scared for her. lawd i had 2 sets and lost my edges after the first set. when the braid grew out it was to heavy on my edge piece :( they back now tho :)

[@quneshiahunter8992]

Ive had them twice and to help edge breakage I used this grease called pine tar, and it really helped.....maybe you can try it next time :-)

[@quneshiahunter8992]

MsKbradley that comment was for you I for got to tag your name :-)

[@BimmerBabe]

Qu'Neshia Hunter thanks for the tip :) i dont think i will again tho. i learned to do my own Senegalese twist from YT and my hair seems to like those

[@shanshan12ful]

i love all your hair videos, they're so inspiring,keep them coming!!. ^_^

[@JazminaRobinson]

I really like the vlogs. Just don't stop completely with the hair vids

[@allofdestiny]

Jazmina Robinson thanks for the comment!! i def wont stop givin you all hair videos! new one is posted check it out

[@kadedrasmith6056]

I love this video! But how did you put the roller in when you wrapped it

[@ReneeQueenLove]

Sending you some love from Jamaica! Lived your video mami

[@tiadabest23]

lovedddd this video & that hair 👏👏

[@heritage.home.crochet]

Where the toenail clipper? lol, yo family be having me rolling! Gotta love family.

[@hollyetyler6838]

Hello :) What's the temperature of your flat iror when you staighten iron your hair ?

[@sweetfm2008]

Beautiful hair!!! You styled it Great!!! Love It!!!

[@allofdestiny]

sweetfm2008 =) hey heyyy!! thanks!

[@ebonielqueen]

Where the toenail clipper?

[@Jocs1115]

She said "on fleek" A LOT! I find it funny Love the video😋👍🏾

[@nakiyasimmons3298]

can you show how you wrap and roll you hair with the roller and how you get the hair to wrap around it

[@Alyciarb]

Your hair is much fuller now :) very pretty

[@allofdestiny]

Everything Weety you think so? =) thanks

[@poppinhottie]

GALLL! Your glow came a long way

[@janisedanae8221]

yes that shine is life i love it.

[@agirl4lyfe]

you are so pretty! and your accent is adorable!

[@faithknox5482]

first time watching video... subscribed✔ got braids rn but watching this video is making me want my hair backk😫😆

[@Mrsjb512]

"Pause dat and look at it" adore this girl!

[@kirahimee]

You remind me of Kyla Pratt~ love the hair

[@JazzyFresh23]

otto I agree! I was thinking the same thing. Something about her reminds me of Kyla as well!

[@kennediialexus2071]

So glad I found this . 😍😍😍

[@Brinicu]

Lovely hair! But your personality sold me... Subscribed! :)

[@SabrinaBree1]

I just stumbled across this vid, you are too funny, had me crackin' up.....thanks so much for posting. :)

[@lisakaymoya9272]

Great results...love your videos

[@allofdestiny]

Lisakay Clarke thanks!! glad you love the vids. i'll continue to post them

[@stacybabi1]

Your personality is bomb as hell lol you cool.. And your method is fire.

[@TrueMLC]

I want more vids. i just love watching your vids they are so much fun .whip that hair.

[@mshelloindygirl4427]

love your hair

[@Elle-yt1gv]

This girl is so cuuuttee😍😍

[@Panicatthejazz]

The vlogs are cool with me 😌 I mean sometime it's good to have a mixture of videos on your channel

[@allofdestiny]

imaginejazz thanks Jazz!!!

[@Panicatthejazz]

You are very welcome ;)

[@Ilovetosing72799]

She's So Adorable! Love Her ❤️

[@destiny7057]

I want to learn how to do that bang it's beautiful also when I straighten my hair it's never that straight..... what flat iron is that???😭😭

[@QuinteciaCha]

I haven't even read your info box yet and I knew you were from Memphis ! Yass huni I hear it all in your accent.

[@testimonygarrison6817]

Your hair grew sooooo much from the braids!!!!

[@ReneeOfSunshine]

I love your personality, your so real and you crack me up haha

[@allofdestiny]

***** *smiles* thankssss