The problem here is not the intensity of them wanting to take care of her, the problem is that their relationship is not like when they were teenagers, and they went everywhere together. Due to the distances, the relationship is no longer the same, and this is reflected even in the way of sitting, before Jianjian sat in the middle of his brothers, now she does it in the middle of his parents marking a clear line of separation. Actually She still loves them but she doesn't know how stay with them now. They have been separated and without communication with each other for a long time.
@KR555FAIZ Жыл бұрын
Yeah, the "brothers" tried to keep relationship but the girl was the only one who put the barrier between them. Remember that the "brothers" always send friendly messages to her, but she only answers them with cold replies. Many times she started to write a friendly reply and then erased and just sent a cold message. She is the responsible for that distance borned between them all.
@thanhvinhnguyento7069 Жыл бұрын
>5 years of not meeting does that to the best of friends. It's hard to bond again. People change, and that leads to you not knowing if it's the same person as you once knew
@tonimaroy4557 Жыл бұрын
@@KR555FAIZShe always felt a sense of resentment towards because they left her back home even though she never said that to their faces. Not justifying anything here though
@smallpotatoes68202 жыл бұрын
The dinner scene was intense. Although both 'brothers' cared about her so much, you see the differences by how serious the other one was. To demand to break up with her boyfriend in front of the dads, even the fathers were speechless.
@deepshikha82862 жыл бұрын
could you please tell me the name of this Cdrama?
@smallpotatoes68202 жыл бұрын
@@deepshikha8286 It's Go Ahead
@deepshikha82862 жыл бұрын
@@smallpotatoes6820 Thankyou for replying. :)
@mhboy35302 жыл бұрын
Actually, I find this scene annoying though. The reason the big brother wanted her to break up is because he like her and wanted to date her instead. Second, he don't feel the guy he date is up to his standard without even trying to know and understand the guy. They simplify just judged him and badmouth him without clarifying anything.
@heyheymey8405 Жыл бұрын
One of the brothers just feels protective like a real bro, the other is jealous and borderline possesive. He was already thinking about marrying her when hes still in singapore so he was shocked she got a boyfriend. Remember when they were apart, only Ling Xiao was telling her over phone calls to never get a boyfriend, always reminding her.
@DinTsai2 жыл бұрын
Yes, her words are harsh and she doesn’t 100% think that way but they overstepped her boundaries first and it’s a very normal response tbh
@gabrielairma96017 ай бұрын
His words are TRUE! Everything has a limit
@ElizabethRae2 жыл бұрын
They left her for 9 years. She was alone with little to no contact with them for 9 years.The bond they had as siblings growing up was broken. They love her the same as before. But they broke her heart when they left. It's hard for her to forget the pain.
@KR555FAIZ Жыл бұрын
Yeah, the "brothers" tried to keep relationship but the girl was the only one who put the barrier between them. Remember that the "brothers" always send friendly messages to her, but she only answers them with cold replies. Many times she started to write a friendly reply and then erased and just sent a cold message. She is the responsible for that distance borned between them all.
@min59632 жыл бұрын
I understand Jianjian the most. Her so called 'brothers' overstepped their boundaries in her life. Even if they were trying to be protective, they should know that she's already an adult who doesn't need people dictating her life when her own dad doesn't even do so. They walked out of her life basically and now they're barging in, disrupting the peace and flow of her life. I know they're trying to be like in the past but they should know that people change especially someone who lived her life trying to get used to a life without their presence. They were honestly too much, they should get hurt by her words but have absolutely no right to get mad at her. If anyone should be mad, it's Jianjian.
@noh162 жыл бұрын
Yes I'm totally agree with you
@Khenmz2 жыл бұрын
TRUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
@FARGAMETJ2 жыл бұрын
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@anthonygarcia39222 жыл бұрын
Nah you only say that cause youre a girl...the brothers are right in this one. & If you actually finish the drama you would see they were right all along
@min59632 жыл бұрын
@@anthonygarcia3922 I watched the entire drama 3 times to see different perspectives. No matter how protective a brother can get, they should not overstep boundaries of their sister's privacy. Also, she is perfectly aware of the guy she was dating, she knew his artist side and they don't. They're the ones who had nasty thoughts. Also, when a person who's been gone in your life for so many years starts telling, not even telling but commanding you on your life decisions, wouldn't you feel offended? I would and it's not just because I'm a girl. Any person would feel the same way she did, regardless of GENDER. And it's not like they told her all those things because it's for her own good but because they were jealous.
@morgankuhn53322 жыл бұрын
I feel like you have to have watched the whole series to quite understand this scene. For Ling Xiao, he may have spent 9 years away from her, but he spent that 9 years in mental anguish. In later episodes you see that the time he spent away was very hard for him mentally and the only thing that held him together was the idea of going back to her. To make himself feel more stable he would dream of the life he would have with her once they were together again. He had it all planned out: dating, marriage, children. Even his career choices were based on her. It may sound a little obsessive (which it is) but planning their life together was holding him together for all of those years. When he got back and found out that she had a boyfriend, you can clearly see that all of his plans and feelings were falling apart before his eyes. He shouldn't have demanded that she break up with her boyfriend: however, once you look back at this scene, you begin to understand that his anger was really just fear.
@areebah8297 Жыл бұрын
whats the series name?
@Fangirl_33 Жыл бұрын
@@areebah8297 Go ahead
@gege3723 Жыл бұрын
Yes... Poor him 🥲 However, it would be better if he keeps in contact with her those 9 years
@areebah8297 Жыл бұрын
@@Fangirl_33 thank you!!
@morgankuhn5332 Жыл бұрын
@@gege3723 Didn't they all try though? I know there was a scene where they all tried to call each other on the phone and catch up with how they were all doing, but they all got busy with school, work, and life so naturally they slowly stopped communicating.
@Teddy-bc7sc2 жыл бұрын
The years they spent seperate change everything...young and adult is not the same anymore...they care about her but 9 years without them and suddenly they got back and just behave like when they young can be really awkward and stress for the heroine...she just angry bcs 9 years they are not there and she felt she lose her brother not bcs she doesn't love them
@informalexample43392 жыл бұрын
I understand the two brothers is trying to protect her, but they've been away for 9 year and not only that, they don't share anything with each other (jianjian later mention that in the episode, during their initial long distance with her brothers were fine but as the time passed, they hardly exchanged any conversation except for wishing on holiday or occasion) and what hurt Jianjian the most is that their brothers chose their biological parents who abandoned them, ultimately leaving Jianjian alone, she waited for her brothers to visit her during New year and during graduation, leaving Jianjian more hurt, considering how close they were, when they were kids. And I guess, at some point during those time without her brother, made her think that maybe she shouldn't expect anything since she is not real family. And that's why Jianjian said that "you guys are not my real brother so stop acting like one" that's what she meant. Actually I feel bad for all the kids here, theirs parents aren't worthy enough to call parents except for Jianjian' dad and Dad Ling.
@U-Gozoo2 жыл бұрын
When she said they weren't her real brothers you could see the hurt in their eyes
@poojaverma75382 жыл бұрын
In this whole drama... I admired li jinjan's father the most and zi que the second most💜💜💜💜💜
@atlanta92863 ай бұрын
Name of series? ✨️
@poojaverma75383 ай бұрын
@@atlanta9286 Go ahead
@mohammadanwarhossain18842 жыл бұрын
Others : enjoying the vedio Me :Her elder brother is so handsome 😍
@mdqasim81332 жыл бұрын
Exactly 🤭🤭😗
@SpooderSab2 жыл бұрын
As an asian, it is common in Asian families to judge the significant other of a relative, a family member or even a close friend/family friend. I understand that there are a significant amount valid reasons for her to not date the guy (he had graduated for years already and was still living off of his family and was being supported by her) It may have been frowned upon since it is common in an Asian household and community for each partner to be financially capable on their own, for them to have an acceptable relationship together. Though their reasons may be valid, the method the so-called brothers used was slightly toxic.
@lolalo63442 жыл бұрын
Girl got abandoned by them, so she got her own life. Then they come back and think they can decide what she has to do? I understand how it happened, but they really had no right.
@msairs7 ай бұрын
she didnt understand that were held hostage. one had the threat of his bio father hurting his family, the other had the threat of his mother killing people lol
@lolalo63447 ай бұрын
@@msairs as i said in my post. I understand how it happened. none of that gives them the right to control her life like that.
@user-ux1sf8jw4i6 ай бұрын
@@lolalo6344true. Regardless of what they went through, no one can dictate or demand someones decision
@Gabbs_0.x Жыл бұрын
The main issue is that they left. They had limited contact with her (for their own personal reasons) but they didn't tell her why. Then one day they come back expecting everything to be the same and it's not. Now she has someone she likes who she is close with and they pull this of course she's not going to react well. She had a whole life away from them after being sort of abandoned. Not nice boys!
@karenrose284511 ай бұрын
What a great pleasure to see Song Wei long on the screen again! Missed him very much - he should be in many more dramas. Excellent screen presence, and extremely good looking/handsome. He epitomizes 'sultry' - what a sexy guy! Want to see him in many more dramas, please!
@RaykinaBreaker2 жыл бұрын
wow this drama surprised me with certain element that didn't been used by other drama. plus they convey the message perfectly.
@bomlee9438 Жыл бұрын
this drama is amazing. its about family. some part are so relatable. I cried with them.
@SunilMeena-do7xn2 жыл бұрын
Honestly I didn't hate their initial actions. They may be wrong but they worried about her. But then trying to intimidate her boyfriend or forcing her to breakup is too much extreme. I know what she said was also very bad but she wasn't in her right mind after they tried to literally control her.
@baharyldz41732 жыл бұрын
Hello Türkiye İstanbul drama name please
@SunilMeena-do7xn2 жыл бұрын
@@baharyldz4173 "go ahead"
@iskotayo12 жыл бұрын
Its because Ling Xiao have a sudden "panic attack" knowing that Jian Jian has a boyfriend which is not him. He's been dreaming to be together with her romantically for 9 years in the extent of being obssessed. And when he finaly somehow get a grip of her, she already find someone she likes. He absolutely can't help but being possessive of her, and desperately insist her to break up with him. It must be it or he will be the one that broke in the point of no return. He was jealous and desperate....
@mhboy35302 жыл бұрын
The reason to demand breakup is not because they are the brother that care about her. Actually, at that point of time, the big brother already like her and wanted to date her. but he using the brother stance to demand her to breakup which i find it quite annoying, the fact they disappeared on her( no matter what reason). then come back to abuse his family boundary. I like the drama as a whole, but this is one of the few scene I find annoying.
@lolitaganguly32388 ай бұрын
She was devastated when the brothers suddenly left her.she loved them protected them .they were her most precious people. She could not believe that they could abandon her. She couldn't accept their leaving. More so she believed that she was equally important to them.it had taken her a long time to come to terms with the sudden change in her life. Now that she finally was getting on with life it was difficult to just accept their return.
@taraz67862 жыл бұрын
Who do they think they are telling her to break up with someone?! They don’t have the right to run her life, that is just so nauseating. 🤢
@anthonygarcia39222 жыл бұрын
Her brothers lmao are you not paying attention?
@taraz67862 жыл бұрын
@@anthonygarcia3922 I know they’re her brothers, 🙄 and I repeat what gives them the right to tell her how to live her life?! She is a grown woman, NOT a child.
@namkandaforever88932 жыл бұрын
@@anthonygarcia3922 i see you commenting the same thing under every person that criticised those brothers. What you fail to understand is that those brothers arent really doing a good thing
@alvinamewish42982 жыл бұрын
may be you’re not asian 🤣 family have every right to ruin our life that’s the right they got at the moment we born 🤭🤭 they actually deeply care about us but sometimes it’s become toxic 😑
@taraz67862 жыл бұрын
@@alvinamewish4298 Nobody has the right to be toxic to you or make you miserable, even your family, in fact especially your family. They should only want your happiness and love you unconditionally, that’s it.
@loulouwillis5648 Жыл бұрын
He thought she was just going to wait for him though? That's not how life goes. But they are sweet but she has to grow up too.
@sheep96122 ай бұрын
honestly i loved li jian jian in this scene, her brothers were doing way too much by telling her to just break up with her boyfriend when they havent been in contact with her for such a long time, even i would have reacted like that if two of the people who meant so much to me left for 9yrs and came back suddenly and told me i should break up with my boyfriend. even though saying that they werent her real brothers was a bit harsh, having the feeling that they abandoned you and wasnt in contact with u for so long is enough for me to no longer see them as brothers
@u.g.w.m.d88232 жыл бұрын
I wish I have a brother like them ❤️
@baharyldz41732 жыл бұрын
Hello Türkiye İstanbul drama name please
@roshanikansari203 Жыл бұрын
@@baharyldz4173 go ahead
@roshanikansari203 Жыл бұрын
@Priya Debnath 👍😂😂😂
@roselinjr6810 Жыл бұрын
Which episode is that plz someone tell me cuz I really like it ❤
@stefanifebrina9758 Жыл бұрын
Ling Xiao ❤️❤️❤️
@NgurangJemima10 ай бұрын
Ahh he is mine don't take him
@nattytan Жыл бұрын
nah no matter how protective they are this isn’t right. they think they’re still her brothers and need to protect her but for jian jian had alr felt that she was left by them, they didn’t keep contact with her, and she’s become an independent woman who can handle things on her own. i can understand why they wanna protect her and all but they over stepped their boundaries
@oliverfox16962 жыл бұрын
Drama Name: Go Ahead Ep No: 16
@elizabethyunuenmedinapatin64642 жыл бұрын
Thks
@hercules38172 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@watanabeasahi Жыл бұрын
i have 3 upper brothers.. and 2 of em acted this way , not because they're being protective or care for me, more like they're scared of their karma would turn on me. they used to play feelings with someone's daughter and now they're thinking all men are the same and they dont trust the man who wants to be with me . that is why u shouldnt play with anyone, and now im 12years single. not because i dont want to be anyone.but im tired of having a brothers who dont trust me.
@tommy.X72 жыл бұрын
如果網友約會性侵, 倆哥擔心才能坐實。
@lisathomas4916 Жыл бұрын
Because both are in love with her. No one stands a chance.
@koven1318 Жыл бұрын
Only one brother is in love with her. The other just wanted to be on the family registration.
@syx32772 жыл бұрын
The fathers didn't see anything wrong with the brothers behaviour? Gosh..
@anthonygarcia39222 жыл бұрын
That's cause there isn't anything wrong with her brother.
@namkandaforever88932 жыл бұрын
@@anthonygarcia3922 you need to stop ass kissing
@snowbyul2 жыл бұрын
@@anthonygarcia3922 what?? they shoved a phone in her hand demanding/forcing her to break up with her boyfriend, at the dinner table in front of their parents. She tried to keep the peace by asking everyone to eat and they still refused to listen. Also she's a woman who can make her own decisions about who she wants to date.
@snowbyul2 жыл бұрын
@@nurhartiniputeri we all know this but thanks for explaining. illness does not excuse asshole behaviour at a family dinner . the 2 brothers not only backed jianjian into a corner, they also ruined the peaceful atmosphere for the entire family. jianjian tried to maintain the peace by saying "let's eat" but they ignored her. she's not in the wrong at all
@zanee5572 жыл бұрын
I like these brothers so sweet.
@MitaMalakar-sy5nz7 ай бұрын
Her second brother is so much cute and handsome ✨🤍.
@jagan-k7yАй бұрын
Brother's and sister I saw your channel it's very funny and beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤I love it very much
@AfuaBoateng-fe7nk15 күн бұрын
6:12 was so funny who agrees
@elenawong3406 Жыл бұрын
those 2 brothers are so goodlooking!!!
@kaiserchu2 жыл бұрын
She was right! Nobody have the right to dictate her life.
@jiaoyanx52792 жыл бұрын
谢谢KZbin 第一次知道原来这么多人都喜欢国产电视剧❤
@هيبوانا Жыл бұрын
We need 2000 dollars, please help me and save us My family and I are many We don't have food or anything necessities of life🥹💔 Our country, Yemen, is very poor, and those responsible for the war and the countries of aggression cut off the salaries of our people. They starved us. We have no work or income. Our life is very difficult😓 We suffer a lot. Please believe me. Read about the suffering of Yemenis and the war based on it
@raquelgraham Жыл бұрын
This is my favourite of all the dramas. Their acting is so on point. Love them all. Fantastic ❤️
@abdulhafizmansuri5157 Жыл бұрын
what is the name of this drama
@raquelgraham Жыл бұрын
@@abdulhafizmansuri5157 Go ahead.
@itsrosa_notrose Жыл бұрын
The female actress reminds me Xiumin, especially when she smiles! So cute!!
@alphabetasearch6242 жыл бұрын
18:00凌霄全剧一言不合就离饭桌我要给他数一数有几次🙈🙈🙈😂😂😂
@鼠鼠女孩 Жыл бұрын
好像就兩次吧 我好像也有點這樣 就是待不下去想冷靜冷靜的感覺。
@evelynhakyo2245 Жыл бұрын
The funniest trio 😂😂
@corazonneppe83002 жыл бұрын
Guys you make me smile and laugh .....🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lelele.roblox2 жыл бұрын
Дорама: во имя семьи drama: in the name of the family
@hobi-wan-kanobi20162 жыл бұрын
She had to say those things for them to understand.
@rinkubiswas63652 жыл бұрын
Brother's are always like this 😂😂😂😂
@liliessijeuni77742 жыл бұрын
Yes I can imagine, they are sometimes fiercer than parents.
@SunilMeena-do7xn2 жыл бұрын
Not this straightforward.
@jannatrimi5496 Жыл бұрын
This same story happened with me. It’s was our third day of dating and my brother forced us to have a break-up 🙂🙂 But why brothers do that i still not understand 😢😢
@fedore5555 ай бұрын
The fact the other brother stayed behind to eat even though he was breaking inside was so touching and yet sad TVT
@solangecappidearaujo24172 жыл бұрын
A história desse Dorama é muito bonita.
@iamJuly_972 жыл бұрын
Nombre y episodio?? Porfavor!
@solangecappidearaujo24172 жыл бұрын
@@iamJuly_97 Go ahead. Não sei dizer qual episódio.
@cintiasouza4013 Жыл бұрын
@@solangecappidearaujo2417 muito obrigada!
@priyankanaidu1192 Жыл бұрын
6:09 to 6:12 why these boys giving me a hobi and tae vibes😄
@puananihoku73022 жыл бұрын
Highly recommend this cdrama called "Go Ahead".
@reneest7644Ай бұрын
I love the brothers!!❤️❤️
@اسماءعزوز-ل2ح2 жыл бұрын
عمري ما اقدر اوصف احساسى لما باسمعة حزن وفرح وتشويق وحب وتقطيع القلب انا ممكن اتخلى عن الامتحان عشانة رائع سمعت تركي وهندى وكورى لكن ملقتش فى جمالة هيفضل فى قلبى لحيت ما أموت انا لو أملك اعظم جائزة فى العالم كله انا هقدمها لمسلسل انطلق
@marianadeleon33982 жыл бұрын
Es obvio ,Cuando uno se va por 9 años ,no sería lo mismo
@JasmineOkang9 ай бұрын
I wish I had brothers like this
@itzangellxy_.11 ай бұрын
怎么感觉凌霄子秋那么好磕😂😂
@BtsArmy4eves Жыл бұрын
Ling Xiao kindof looks like the ML from Sweet Sweet lol
@اسماءعزوز-ل2ح2 жыл бұрын
انا ادمان على مسلسل انطلق الرائع اللي عمري ما سمعت مسلسل احلى منة بحب الابطال كلهم حلوين جدا تمثيل رائع
@irenejimenez33944 ай бұрын
I love this drama. ❤
@jenniferberry11952 жыл бұрын
This guy, just leaving work all the time😂
@almot320510 ай бұрын
Love it 🎉
@Yashi-x7r9 ай бұрын
Her brothers is more handsome than her boyfriend such a beautiful drama 💘💘
@amandaapombo6417 Жыл бұрын
Ela sobreviveu e viveu sem eles... Realmente colocou cada um em seu devido lugar😢 doeu nela, eu sei. Magoou demais todo mundo, mas precisava ser dito.
@Afghan-pakistaniball2 жыл бұрын
Jianjian even had to have a relationship with her brother
@raquelgraham25752 жыл бұрын
Love love love this drama. My favourite
@DrInduchak2 жыл бұрын
Name please
@lubz1232 жыл бұрын
@@DrInduchak go ahead
@Skz_Loo2 жыл бұрын
Comment il s’appelle cette série télévisée ❤
@KSunshine2 жыл бұрын
It's hilarious!!😃😇😀🙂
@sanjidaakter16072 жыл бұрын
Episode number???
@c92x2 жыл бұрын
Watch the full drama. It's called "Go Ahead"
@الحياهحلوه-ب1ت7ح2 жыл бұрын
drama go ahead
@Rosalgo7722 ай бұрын
jajajaja como disfrute esta serie ... asi como esta parte hay muchas ocurrencias con valores!
Os três brigam,cuidam,ama mas os vidros também quebraram 🙆🏻😔
@xyntaqp3313 Жыл бұрын
Th8s good one love it
@eminemustafa78592 жыл бұрын
Ml piace molto l seriale Drama 💞💞💞😍🤩😍🤩🙏🙏🙏
@gogoquaresma4065 Жыл бұрын
😅cara isso aconteceu também comigo quando eu era adolescente meus irmãos me perseguindo pôr causa dos meninos que queria namorar 😅😅😅😅 era muito engraçado eu aprontei com eles dizia pra namorada deles eles tinha outras namoradas e o namoro deles terminou sempre até que um dia eles entenderam já era tarde porque eu fugir de casa nunca mais tive contato com eles meus pais expulsou eles de casa 🏡 voltei depois que eles foram embora eu terminei meu estudo me formei trabalho na promotoria de educação nunca mais soube notícias deles me casei tive meus filhos e netas
@gabrielairma96017 ай бұрын
They both abandoned her and now they want to be the good brothers overprotecting her and meddling in the life of a grown woman??...She has already repaired all the pain they caused her. She has already repaired all the pain they caused her, it really bothers me that they want to bring back the past! & the man tells her to watch her words, but why doesn't they tell them off for interfering in her life in a violent way? When I saw this scene in the past I thought, that things shouldn't be fixed anymore. But this is a family drama and everything should end in a happy ending, I feel the same with her, I think there are things that are in the past, the harm that people in our family do to us has a limit to be accepted and forgiven!
@helloctober15 Жыл бұрын
Any suju members please? Im craving my 2nd gen so much lol XD
@parulpal38392 жыл бұрын
She is 32yr old in real... 🥺😩😩😩😩 Wowwwwww
@Cheebie_10810 ай бұрын
Caring loving brothers ❤ but too over protective of their sister 😬
@lucianavieira618 Жыл бұрын
Amo a ost desse drama🥰🥰🥰
@valentinamaraboli5150 Жыл бұрын
Nombre del dorama
@AchamKonyak-ol9cv6 ай бұрын
Wow nice bro 🥰🥰♥️
@ГалинаУ-х8б Жыл бұрын
Во имя семьи. Название дорамы Китай
@eftekharemon74082 жыл бұрын
what is the name of this drama? I want to watch it!
@12345jli2 жыл бұрын
Go Ahead is the name!
@elsagladisencina9732 жыл бұрын
Cómo se llama el dorama?
@mitamondal4655 Жыл бұрын
Go ahead
@razidaabdyrova65014 ай бұрын
Такая забота душит
@juandariolopez81182 жыл бұрын
Hola buenas tardes una pregunta cómo se llama el drama
@shannons3352 жыл бұрын
Go Ahead
@juandariolopez81182 жыл бұрын
Muchas gracia amigo
@leemin_ho83552 жыл бұрын
@@juandariolopez8118 Thanks for your endless and support you have constantly show me.i,m forever grateful.i really appreciate your unconditional love and support towards me.where are you watching from?
@camilasas3192 жыл бұрын
Se llama sigue adelante te la super recomiendo muy buen drama
@ГалинаСенюхина2 жыл бұрын
Братья переживают.... Оба любят её... Она напуган. Ведь по крови они не братья... Россия.