no wonder in 2010 庚 寅 year, I went thru the worse and most stressful year of my life, I was constantly arguing with my in-laws, my poor husband was sandwich in the middle, my boss hated me and almost fired me, I lost a baby to miscarriage from the stress, and I saw a ghost one night (old white lady in a moo-moo standing before a construction site waving at me) when it got too stressful at home and I went out to get air...I still don't know if she was human or ghost till this day. This time around its a water tiger, and the water is my favorite element, so it's much better...thank god. And appreciate your explanation so well...