Vanessa Feltz's ex-husband calls her 'fat' and 'disgusting' in bitter divorce dispute

[@ITSME-sx1oz]

Vanessa, men don't move on to better, they move on to easier. You are a beautiful lady regardless of weight etc. Shine brightly ❤❤

[@thegirlwhonevermettheking485]

He's no oil painting.

[@melanieraynham5731]

Omg, is this man real??? Vanessa, you are beautiful as you are, and never let anyone call you otherwise. He has got problems..and thank God you aren't with that despicable excuse for a man anymore❤😂.

[@elainewallace-e1o]

Go it alone Vanessa, because you haven't been very good at picking a decent partner so far.Both of these men are absolute jerks. The second one seems worse than the first.Yuk, your well rid of the pair of them.

[@periwinkleblue2]

Nope. The first one was the worse, they had children together, the nasty things he said about her. That's a whole other level of deceit, hurt and betrayal.

[@catherinewoolf504]

He’s no oil painting is he? She should’ve kicked him out first

[@Mary-po4ti]

Vanessa is a great woman. I find her very down to earth And non judgemental.

[@TigerLilylite78]

Vanessa is extremely intelligent, I think that is what the husband has a problem with, then he fat shames her for her to feel bad about herself. Vanessa is beautiful, big or small.❤

[@donnamariewatts3750]

I love love love Vanessa, I'm always pleased to see her on tv or hear her on radio, she deserves much more, she is witty, polite, educated and beautiful, amen x

[@andreamacgillivray3653]

You are beautiful Vanessa. One of my favourite journalists. I liked it when you were on BBR2. The right man is out there for you, I am sure. Best wishes. xx

[@valprince5455]

Wow poor Vanessa I never knew of her pain. My father did the same to my mother when I was 12 yrs old. He had been having an affair with a 22yr old for months. My mother was distraught, he was robotic, also a doctor. Life in the 1980,s! Also when I was 16yrs I was made to leave home and move into the world. Hard times!

[@MargaretMcLaughlin-c7d]

He'll have to face Karma, one day, if it hasn't caught up with him already.........

[@valprince5455]

But darling I am now 65yrs old and a man is the last thing we need?

[@PJ-po7fu]

I agree but it's the intimate companionship, the inside jokes, the holidays, making memories etc

[@valprince5455]

@ totally agree, I’ve been with my darling husband for thirty years, we are best friends first and that is a wonderful thing

[@susanhowl8418]

I think your lovely Vanessa.

[@michaelmorrissey5880]

She's a beautiful and talented woman she doesn't need a jerk like him in her or her daughter's lives

[@KingdomofGod-ro5ej]

AMEN ❤

[@suzannemccaffrey7120]

So sorry, how easily this can happen, bless you, there will be another day, with joy and you will never look back❤️

[@wendeone]

Vanessa has grown into her own from her early days on to. I loved to listen to her when she was on the really early bbc2 she was calming and interesting. She is such an intelligent women.

[@gailirvine343]

Poor woman and children.😢

[@susanharding4358]

Vanessa is a lovely lady,inside and outside, She better off without a cheating husband I wish her lots of happiness in the future. XxxX ❤️

[@Faizasmith-pj4dz]

❤

[@RobertSmith-rj9md]

That’s shocking to say something like that to anyone..who is he like, some Special Human Being, I think not, well shot of hi, for sure.. onwards and upwards, you deserve better for sure ..

[@suzannemiller8470]

WHAT ,,,, is he real ,,, you will never be good enough for him no matter what you do he is a real grub

[@gjf5789]

Her husband’s delivery was unnecessarily cold , vile, harsh and vicious… but we women need to ensure we remain fit and healthy throughout our lives… both for ourselves and our families. I myself have continually tried and failed so I know how difficult it is…but I’m going to keep trying till I make it. We women ( and I notice it’s practically universally women in these comments supporting Vanessa in her unhealthy lifestyle) don’t do each other any favours by telling our friends they are ok as they are in their unhealthy bodies/lifestyles. We need to be honest and supportive rather than reinforcing the delusion! Women….we have to be better friends to each other!

[@lss74]

300 calories a day! That's so dangerous

[@PamWilby-ip6pk]

He wasn't worth having there's someone better out there when the times right creep

[@marydoyle4911]

Yes he is a creep . He is no oil painting.

[@buzzybee2288]

She is a beautiful intelligent sassy lady what a horrible man she was better off without him she went in to be successful and imo even more beautiful

[@elizabethsavage9108]

Always loved Vanessa ❤

[@poonamshah6507]

He had an affair with a middle grade doctor then they split. I know because i worked at the same hospital.

[@vanessalouise8988]

I didn't know Vanessa ex husband had a affair .😱

[@PJ-po7fu]

Ny goodness we never heard the end of it at the time​@vanessalouise8988

[@janelowe4128]

Wasn't it chesterfield?

[@MsZelda2012]

@@janelowe4128Cheaterfield?

[@larhumba4233]

@@janelowe4128No, North Middlesex Hospital

[@karatekai6384]

He should shut up, calling her fat, he is an X for a reason, so he is not relevant , how humiliating 😢

[@valprince5455]

Unfortunately fantasy and reality hardly ever collide

[@anneredman5836]

What a horrible man.He used that as an excuse to leave.Your husband should love you for you,it shouldnt matter what your size.You are a great person Vanessa.x

[@paulinegallagher1675]

In truth, Vanessa had gained so much weight she was no longer the woman he married. Quite simply, he was no longer attracted to her. Vanessa is opinionated and may be 'difficult'. I don't know. But she was very overweight and stayed that way for years. He didn't desire her any more. Married people do fall out of love and if your spouse loves someone else they have the right to leave. We don't own our life partners.

[@Maureen-w8w]

❤Lovely woman, honest..Very beautiful looking but maybe husband may be damaged himself...Yes in church bigotry if over 24 and not married...Shocked shes gone through this..Why some men are so shallow .🙄

[@paulinegallagher1675]

Vanessa and her ex-husband are Jewish.

[@bredamoran7649]

Vanessa could it be that your husband was jealous and intiminated by your achievements and bright vibrant light?. I have noted that certain men can not bear to have a spouse who shines out brighter than them so instead of supporting them and being proud they seel to dim their light and demean them. Yes Vanessa you long for a loving partnership but the first and foremost person you need to have a relationship with is yourself. All that love you gave out to others now fully give to yourself .and heal the feminine woundings. Your ex sounds a cruel, toxic man who placed his toxicity onto you and yur girls. Really let him go and appreciate your beautiful family and involvement with them. This is recipical love. Speak, walk and live your truth that you are a beautiful woman inside and out and do not punish yourself by giving out your precious love energy to others who do not value it or match it. Your love is so powerful that you can heal your broken heart. Be alone for a while to calm and be still so you can receive your own love and come to know yourself.❤.

[@ileanamuntean7338]

She always struck me as materialistic, fake, pushy, money and status obsessed and yes, I met her a couple of times. However, I am convinced she was a devoted wife and mother. Glad she is making money out of her personal problems.

[@bunandcheese4445]

Venessa deserved better anyway! Stay single like me, I’m happier for it.

[@phillim2216]

Perhaps it’s time to get to know yourself , learn to love yourself and put yourself before others !

[@carolelangat-fortune4557]

Vanessa', you are a wonderfully created and beautiful woman. Remember that, always

[@LindenButters]

Independance is freedom. I got mine at long last and took up travelling, far more fun!

[@PeterStrachanMusic]

This is crap.. Her husband never said a word about their separation.. It was her who went on and on about it to the media.

[@charlottelee3727]

She's talking about Ben.

[@PeterStrachanMusic]

Hi Charlotte.. Why the photos of her first husband??

[@PJ-po7fu]

@PeterStrachanMusic no idea! She was literally talking about the ex fiancé, Ben (aka one hit wonder im her book!😆😶)

[@paulinegallagher1675]

Exactly.

[@mrandmrssmith5069]

Vanessa your are beautiful he your husband was asshole

[@Jenny-e4v]

Am happy u don't have these people in your Life. They are in the past

[@nadiaoreilly5928]

What a creep he is.

[@fran-kittyayers5329]

Well vanessa, its his loss your gorgeous 😊 big or small and your a success

[@KingdomofGod-ro5ej]

Definitely 💯

[@nicolemurphy2629]

Is that all ? add about 1000 things and you might know how I feel having DV ignored

[@janeyorke8684]

❤ Beautiful comes from within....bigger people are as good as the next..... those that judge people by appearance are often soulless.......

[@louisejohnson5184]

He was and is so shallow.

[@sugarsnap1578]

Vanessa we love you ❤

[@carolelangat-fortune4557]

Jesus! What a cow! So sorry Vanessa!

[@Jenny-e4v]

Vanessa, i like you very much. I rhink you are a very nice lady. Do not worry. Be happy

[@Evantaevanta]

I am glad for the talented and strong relationship callaps excuse my spelling … I had a feeling that she did the cultural stereotype thing… at least she still was young when her kids grew up and a vibrant career …❤ you are beautiful person and very talented and strong… enjoy ur life Vanessa and ur growing family… lots to look forward to for you….some men can’t stand strong intelligent and beautiful women like you Vanessa… I enjoy listening to you on media… I admire ur career

[@ThomasMcdonagh-fz2yf]

Welldoneman

[@LuzDoSol-yr5bv]

" Welldoneman." Of course, he can't divorce, separate but humiliate someone that you have children with? It's just obnoxious and cruel. Where was her fat at the beginning of the marriage as he had two children? He is an animal pure and simple.

[@paulinegallagher1675]

​​@@LuzDoSol-yr5bv She was slim when they married! She did the fatal thing - gained a ton of weight and stayed big for years. He put up with a wife he no longer found attractive for most of the marriage. Lots of people find a hefty partner unattractive. He can't help that. We like what we like. Poor Vanessa became prematurely 'matronly' and didn't make the effort to lose the extra weight. He got fed up and eventually fell in love with a work colleague. He was slim when they met, and he remains slim. Physical attraction is important in relationships and he fell out of love with Vanessa. There were surely plenty of additional stressors in that marriage, and whilst she was very happy, HE was not. So he left. And in fairness he hasn't said a word about the divorce, nor about Vanessa, since. She should behave with more dignity. He didn't divorce their daughters. He divorced HER. Would you demand that your son or daughter stay in a loveless marriage? No. You'd support their decision to cut their losses and start over.

[@LuzDoSol-yr5bv]

@paulinegallagher1675 Fair enough, but to call someone out of your name when she is the mother of your children is wild. We can go into any situation in our lives, but the way to handle things is really important. Communication, display your desires, etc.. I just found something distafull when people don't hold themselves in a private situation like that and humiliated one another.

[@catherinewoolf504]

⁠@@paulinegallagher1675 I’m surprised at your attitude considering you’re a woman! Is that what happened to you? Why should any woman be grateful for having a man marry her? Is that what a woman’s purpose in life is? Why should she have children, run a home a be expected to stay slim and attractive just because he says so? Just because he’s a bloody egotistical surgeon who thinks his wife should be at home in a negligee, with no excess fat or wrinkles, waiting for him with his dinner ready! I think he needed to look in the mirror at himself! He’s not exactly attractive, his personality certainly isn’t attractive. He’s a typical Jewish mummy’s boy. Vanessa should’ve done the same to him before he got the chance.

[@paulinejones8438]

Why write about such unimportant nonsense There are many more important matters and people.

[@Mamadukee1]

I have aways thought she waas to good for him !!!!!🙄🙄🇬🇧

[@eileenbrazil8039]

Is she ever going to shut up about her divorce.

[@JacquelineIthell-t7s]

THSTS DIVORCE FOR , BUT THAT GIRL SURE LIKES HER MANNNNNNNNN

[@LovedayM-F]

Vanessa, never judge a book by its cover, look beyond the cover, there are lots of lovely men out there and quite a few rats, use the best dating sites the times, the guardian observer all the good broadsheets, yes you are recognisable which makes it difficult. Then you are bright too, dont be with anybody less intelligent than you mens egos cannot cope with that, look for somebody nearer in age and dont rush into anything be careful somebody who wants the same as you, remember never be too available and be forthright. You are not a doormat and you do not want to be with a doormat. Take you time you have plenty of it, and remember there are far more men out there than women…..good luck.

[@purplesunflower8242]

Slim now.

[@janepowell1303]

Vanessa you are louely and no one haue a saying be you 👍🤗

[@malimbep4298]

I dont blame the man at all it must have been anightmare living with a vile person like Vanessa.

[@paulinegallagher1675]

Not vile but egotistical and maybe selfish. An unhappy husband or wife has the right to leave. He didn't love or desire her any more, and hadn't for years. Alas she ended-up looking more like his mother than his wife. Her self-esteem took a hard knock when he left her, and that will have hurt badly, but he had every right to leave because he was obviously very unhappy for a long time. Sad but inevitable.

[@David-e6w9c]

He was too good for her.

[@englishlady8863]

What!

[@catherinewoolf504]

How do you know? He’s wasn’t good enough for her

[@David-e6w9c]

@catherinewoolf504 no "s" on he?