Vent tiktoks because you are in a abusive household...|Requested||Tw:Yelling|

[@_.Minsung._]

When you want to vent so bad but don’t have enough energy to tell anyone…

[@vent_here_lovely]

@@_.Minsung._ I understand how you feel ❤️☹️ Just know that God sees and knows everything ❤️ Jesus loves you ❤ And God is the best father ever, He can heal your broken heart and fill that hole❤ The God of the universe loves you and want's a relationship with you, he wants to be your father. How amazing is that. God, the creator of all, loves you❤

[@_.Minsung._]

@@vent_here_lovely thank you ❤️ you don’t know how much simple words like that means to me, you are my favourite KZbinr thank you for helping me at my lowest ❤️

[@vent_here_lovely]

@@_.Minsung._ I'm so incredibly happy that I can help you ❤️

[@LunaWinter-oo4zq]

As someone who has family issues that's break me so hard 😭💔

[@Venting_Beacuse.im.deppresed]

0:45 and then they come back and say sorry or pretend like nothing happend

[@RobinDebrassio-vx6fl]

True both are so shitty

[@I_really_love_pickles]

1:08 this hits rlly close to home.. My mom and me fight A LOT. Just a few days ago I finally got pushed to my breaking point. We were yelling back and forth as I just kept repeating “IM SO FRUSTRATED WITH YOU.” She just kept pushing me into saying WHY but it’s not just one thing. I’m always taking all these insults, unnecessary fights, scream matches, it’s so suffocating. THEN SHE HAS THE FVCKING NERVE TO SAY I BULLY HER. She said I bully her because I don’t hang out with her and that she has to walk around eggshells with me. I lost it. I started laughing, crying, u name it. She threw me outside for a good 1 hour. I sat by my house sobbing until I had to go in and apologize. I HATE this family.

[@zenkowushi]

My bff is the mirror and the pillow Mirror - Doesn't shout at me when I'm crying and doesn't judge me :) Pillow - I can hug it and sleep peacefully it

[@idk_whyi]

6:34 my parents always fight and i hate it

[@Rip_ZOx]

🫂

[@TheUnknown-BandNerd]

This video shows how it was for me 7-12 years old. This is my first decent summer that I can remember

[@vent_here_lovely]

I'm glad that this summer is decent for you! I hope summer is amazing for you!!💟🎊❤️🎉

[@idk_whyi]

7:27 i barely remember any funtimes and if i do they're all either playing with my brother or they all follow my parents yelling after! :D

[@luvsklee1]

I’ve never been like this before though but my family sees me as a people pleaser and like a kind girl and stuff but they treat my like shit. I’m the youngest in my family and my older sisters are having the time of their lives outside with their friends and stuff but for no fucking reason I’m forced to be stuck instead and if I want to go somewhere I can only go with my parents I can never go to my friends or cousins house but my sisters, they can. I’m fucking always stuck at home being my family’s servant, it honestly hurts me so much and whenever I feel sick and don’t want to go to school and stuff like that they always think im lying and fucking force me and sometimes even hit me to go. When im crying right infront of my parents, they don’t give a shit and just think about themselves. My Biological mother died in 2014 which hurt me so much and changed my life a lot so I currently have a step mom..my sisters also don’t give a shit about me. Edit: I’m fine now, im currently living with my best friend. :)

[@idk_whyi]

0:08 even that doesnt make me cry i'll be talking abt it and smiling acting like its completely normal bc idk what normal even is! but anyways i'll be talking and talking abt it smiling and smiling while the other persons js there and sitting and sitting listening and listening with a look of either absolute disgust which i think is the appropriate response or a face of pure empathy which i dont deserve bc im probably most likely js being dramatic and my childhood was great compared to others! and my trauma probably isnt even bad enough to be considered trauma! :DDDDD

[@thatpersonyouforgot]

3:17 as someone who was forced into that role, as a youngest daughter, with three older biological brothers who didn’t do shit, I feel it.

[@PenelopeCampbell-p5y]

0:55 this video is exactly like my life LITERALLY EXACTLY LIKE IT

[@Beautiful_Bubblez]

9:32 This was spot on

[@Cinking_city]

I wish my parents loved eachother

[@idk_whyi]

2:30 infact i've never tried but thanks for the adivce! ima try that when im older that way if things go south and the threats become reality i can js go to my own house apartment or whatvr i have!

[@jayskitchen8904]

They never scold my sister.. she's perfect.. i try soo hard to be her.. i had an argument with my family.. never felt so alone.. I'm getting suic!dal thoughts..

[@theyfwleyy]

so basically i don’t have much to say rn bc my mind is filled with so much stuff rn but i’m the problem in my family. and i’m the reason for everything bad.

[@Maruu.IsTired]

I just came from a place to study, but when i came back to my house and the silence is so loud,i can already guess they fighting again :D

[@idk_whyi]

0:40 i wish i had the confidence to stand up to my dad! and not cru!

[@idk_whyi]

2:46 but i need it i need everyone to be no yell or hit i dont like ppl being mad at me it scary bc my childhood 3:02 but idk what to say and i dont wanna get yelled for being an embarrassment :D

[@I.L0ve.kittens_773]

6:56 as an only child I can relate..

[@Hunger_Games_Fanఌ]

I have a mother who was verbally abused as a child from my grandparents i didnt know this until i was 10. I am weird im overwheight cause when i was 6-11 i had an eating disorder. My grandparents would make me eat all of this food and i didnt know it was wrong. sometimes my mother can lose it at me and call me names that is already breaking my low self esteem. I have to protecr my brother as sometimes dispiline is phsyical and she can to far. She always goes onto me about my grandparents and i have to be her therapist. And im stuck cause my Grandparents love me as im there only grandaughter and i dont want to disapoint my parents and my grandparents.

[@remoteski1185]

At 0:27 I am the younger sibling and my sister is 6 years older than me but she didn’t go to college and moved out in instead. After my sister officially moved out my mom tells me I have to go to college because my sister didn’t and I’m not saying that it’s my sisters fault cus my mom has always been toxic to me and my sister.

[@vent_here_lovely]

🐝Hey everyone your bestie here

[@HarlequinS1mp]

How are you too ?? 1- I don't even know anymore 2- I was forced and I force myself to eat until my stomach hurt to not eat tonight and it work :) 3- I did drink ^^ Same for you hun

[@vent_here_lovely]

​@@HarlequinS1mpI'm okay.. I'm sorry that you have to force yourself to eat too much...

[@HarlequinS1mp]

@@vent_here_lovely Are you sure hun ??? I rather force myself to eat then being threated to eat so it's fine :)

[@vent_here_lovely]

​@@HarlequinS1mpOkay... I'm not sure if I'm okay, my bsf is ignoring all of my messages telling her that I need help or someone to listen. Anyway, are you sure you're okay?💟❤️

[@HarlequinS1mp]

@@vent_here_lovely I'm so sorry hun do you need to talk about it hun ? Don't worry about it

[@Kuracu]

This was a paper I wrote for my mom explaining why I wanted to live with my dad but I was to scared to say it to her face so I sent her this Dear Mom, I need to express my desire to live with Dad. I genuinely believe that I would thrive more in his environment. This may come across as selfish, but over the years, I have often felt overwhelmed by certain comments you've made. While you might intend them as jokes, I take them to heart. Additionally, whenever I attempt to share my feelings, our conversations often turn into lectures, preventing me from expressing my true self. I’ve also noticed that personal matters I confide in you often reach others, which makes me hesitant to share. I have always aimed to make you proud, but I need to prioritize what I want for myself too. To be completely honest, I never wanted to change my initial choice regarding the custody arrangement during the divorce proceedings; I truly wanted to choose Dad. The only reason I changed my answer was because I felt overwhelmed when I saw you crying. In that moment, I was reminded me of the events back to the time I felt responsible for your separation from Dad, and the ongoing disagreements between you both. I am exhausted from carrying the weight of your expectations alongside my own. You often suggest that I am too young to experience stress or mental health issues, yet I feel your actions contribute significantly to my feelings. At school, I struggle to focus on being a kid because I am constantly anxious about your opinions. I worry about my grades, fearing your reaction if they slip even slightly. For instance, when I received an 89 in math, you focused on that while overlooking my many 100s and straight A's. This anustifices me to feel no matter how hard I more only the mistakes will show. It feels as though I am a showcase meant to hide your mistakes. Why must I be the example just because I am the oldest? Who is there to guide me? I acknowledge the challenges you've faced, including not completing college and navigating difficult relationships. However, those experiences should not be projected onto me. I appreciate the support you've provided, and I recognize that you have always been there in a physical sense, but I often feel you are not present emotionally. You may argue that I will eventually understand who Dad is, but I already know that he is a good man who accepts me for who I am. He does not judge me based on your expectations of a "perfect" child. Instead, he offers comfort and understanding. He does not make comments about my appearance or criticize my interests, which allows me to embrace my love for music and learning without the pressure to conform to gender stereotypes. It is not my fault that you became a mother at 23 and had to leave college, nor is it my fault that financial struggles have impacted our lives. I should not have to mature prematurely or feel obligated to be the "perfect" child, sacrificing my own childhood in the process. A child should never feel fearful of their parent. A mother’s role should be to support and nurture, not to instill self-loathing or create an environment of anxiety. I should not feel the need to hide my achievements out of fear of your judgment. There are countless accomplishments I have never shared with you because I was afraid of your reaction. I have been forced to create a persona that pleases you, rather than being allowed to express my true self. I often feel I must prepare my friends for how you might judge them based on their appearance, clothing, or background, and it is unfair that I face scrutiny for my friendships. Your criticism of my friends affects me deeply, and I wish you could recognize the impact of your words. In conclusion, I am sorry if this message hurts you, but I need to assert my independence. I want to live with Dad, and this is my final decision. I do not know how you feel about this, but I have tried to meet your expectations all my life. I refuse to continue living in an environment that feels like a prison, especially as I approach my teenage years. I am my own person, and for the first time, I am standing up for what I believe is right. I no longer wish to remain silent while others-including you-speak negatively about me behind my back. I am done feeling trapped. I want to live with Dad. This is my final answer. Sincerely, --------------

[@idk_whyi]

7:30 FR!

[@Caden-o4r]

0:56, 6:26, 6:45, & 9:08 basically just explained my home life minus no crying, no respected boundaries, and hiding an ed+sh and I hate being touched but can still be “to clingy”. The best part is if my parents see this im dead but at this point how can I give a fuck.

[@EMI_SCREAMS]

0:55 Never felt this seen 😭

[@Rip_ZOx]

my teachers would hurt me when i was Little. X3 hehe!

[@hidingfrom_dawn..]

Oh.

[@Rip_ZOx]

@@hidingfrom_dawn.. X3 haha it was fun..

[@Rip_ZOx]

@@hidingfrom_dawn.. I'm honestly dy!ng slowly in the hospital X3

[@vent_here_lovely]

​@@Rip_ZOxMl what's happening!?

[@Rip_ZOx]

@@vent_here_lovely X3 dw.

[@rockstera]

Can you do a S/H one ? I’ve been struggling more and more lately haha 😕❤️

[@vent_here_lovely]

Yes ml, I will do it, I have a couple on my channel if you want to check those out

[@Gods_Daughter_fr]

Does anyone else have divorced parents that fight through them because my mom keeps telling me how my dad is a clean freak and worry’s a lot and my my dad tells my that my mom has a spending problem and that she can’t communicate well and then my mom says I’m like my dad and my dad says I’m like my mom and it pisses me off

[@Floomy_Loo]

2:17 IM SORRY BUT DAVID BFDI??

[@_g0ldengirls]

i relate to this title lmfao 🤣

[@HarlequinS1mp]

I'm so sorry hun...

[@HarlequinS1mp]

@@_g0ldengirls Because you don't deserve this...

[@HarlequinS1mp]

@@_g0ldengirls You don't hun I promise...

[@_g0ldengirls]

lmao imma get beaten when i get home 🤣

[@HarlequinS1mp]

@@_g0ldengirls I'm so sorry hun !

[@I.L0ve.kittens_773]

0:56 I can relate.... :)

[@vent_here_lovely]

I'm sorry ml

[@I.L0ve.kittens_773]

​@@vent_here_lovelyawww ty for caring ❤❤ hope your okay

[@vent_here_lovely]

​@@I.L0ve.kittens_773I always am

[@karencasley8297]

I nearly got shit beaten out of me

[@4liAisha]

My family is abusive I would say hi to my oldest sister and she’d not wanna be in the mood but my middle sister fights me for no reason and no not play fights real fights she’d think it’s funny and it wouldn’t hurt me and today she was aiming at my nose but hit my eye and said I didn’t even hit you

[@pwuppyboi]

Does anyone want to run away with me? I live in Abingdon/oxfordshire Pin this please ❤

[@SophiaxShinobu]

I would LOVE TOO but im 11.

[@vynnieeeez]

My mom had good intentions and I know me being there ruined it im so sorry Mamí I messed up im so sorry I couldn't keep my mouth shut and social services found out... Lo siento Mami tu mereces algo mejor.

[@HarlequinS1mp]

How is everyone ??? (Don't worry about me) 0:11 Real :/ (I don't have an abusive household I promise) Help 0:56 is kinda true too :/ 6:26 Who record my father and my mother and me ???? 7:39 I don't have mommy issues but some of them are true :/ But don't worry I'm fine !! 9:09 Not a lot but still more the end

[@vent_here_lovely]

I'm sorry ml

[@HarlequinS1mp]

@@vent_here_lovely I'm fine it's normal

[@vent_here_lovely]

​@@HarlequinS1mpIt shouldn't be. . .

[@HarlequinS1mp]

@@vent_here_lovely It shouldn't ?

[@vent_here_lovely]

​@@HarlequinS1mpYes. . .

[@realangelbby]

I just hate them so much

[@4liAisha]

My family is abusive I would say hi to my oldest sister and she’d not wanna be in the mood but my middle sister fights me for no reason and no not play fights real fights she’d think it’s funny and it wouldn’t hurt me and today she was aiming at my nose but hit my eye and said I didn’t even hit you