Venus conjunct Mars in Synastry - Divine Union

[@winter_s_44]

So, I am 39 and never had a real relationship. I always took it in stride because inside, I felt I was meant for something deeper and more profound - what I would eventually come to realize was a soul connection. When I was 31, I met someone and felt all of the things I always wanted to feel but couldn’t quite verbalize. When I began looking at our synastry (and composite for good measure), I realized we had a lot of powerful and sweet connections, for example (but not limited to): SYNASTRY: Venus conjunct Mars Mars conjunct Descendant (both ways) Venus conjunct Uranus Venus trine Jupiter Moon trine Uranus (both ways) Sun trine Sun Sun trine Moon Sun conjunct Jupiter Sun conjunct Neptune Sun trine Neptune North Node conjunct Ascendant My Sub, Moon and Venus in his 5th H COMPOSITE: Sun conjunct Pluto (in Scorpio) Venus conjunct Pluto (in Scorpio) I honestly thought this would develop into the relationship I always felt I was destined for. When nothing ever developed, it began my awakening process because I went into such a dark and lengthy process where I stopped believing in anything, including myself, spirituality and astrology. From that experience, I realized that aspects don’t guarantee a relationship. According to our aspects, we should not have been able to keep our hands off of each other, but we both held back and went our separate ways without ever having come together. We also met when he was unavailable - which further prevented anything from developing. Haven’t had any contact in 6 years and while I never say “never,” I had to come to accept his role in my life was likely not for any purpose other than to start my awakening journey. So, I am sure this aspect is great for people already together (and the dynamic of being touchy feely and sweet is there regardless), it doesn’t guarantee it will bring people together. Not even with a bunch of other Sun and Moon trines, goodwill (Jupiter), sense of spiritual connection (Neptune) and exciting fascination with each other (Uranus). I know that is not what you’re saying in this video. I just wanted to say this for anyone out there who is where I was 8 years ago trying to ascribe meaning to things in a prophetic way. I learned from this not to use astrology in a predictive way (some people do, but I don’t), and learned to exist and go through my life and to use synastry and charts to validate and give deeper insight to what already exists rather than assuming things will unfold in a certain way. Again, I know you weren’t saying that in this video, I just wish I stumbled across a message like this in the beginning as it would have saved me years of wishful thinking and hurt from unmet expectations.

[@rubydaniela]

Thank you so much for sharing this❤️! I completely agree. Astrology aspects are not a prescription, life sentence, grim or good fate. They are an opportunity, an energy to be utilised depending on your own consciousness level, awareness and inner work. This was really beautiful. I appreciate that you took the time to share your experience and growth 😘

[@En-nh5yc]

So well said

[@winter_s_44]

@@En-nh5yc Thank you. 😊

[@JRT-zh5sb]

Good advice❤. Did you guys have any saturn aspects?

[@bhavikasoni7869]

True, my venus is conjunct his mars, I naturally submit to him, we are in an unbreakable spiritual union, it just never goes away even after so much separations, chemistry and passion is incredible it just increases with time ❤❤❤

[@rubydaniela]

Thanks for sharing xx

[@piscesempress1978]

the love of my life and myself have this, its an exact aspect at 0 degrees,00 My Mars is 23, 43, his Venus is 23 ,43. I never had that before with anyone I dated.

[@rubydaniela]

So beautiful! I love this for you ❤️

[@wonka2643]

How does he act? Is it good if man is the venus?

[@rubydaniela]

@@wonka2643 energies always flow both ways. However…The masculine will pursue the feminine ..whoever plays that part in the relationship will be the pursuer. This aspect really shows which energy you are dominant in and often helps realign ‘confused’ energetics (let’s say you are a woman that identifies as feminine but you have been raised to be the doer and pursuer, this will show up intensely in this relationship…and you can readjust and calibrate back to your feminine essence. I love this aspect. Even more since I’ve got to experience it myself) 😊❤️

[@lulasphinx]

I met someone through someone I was dating and I’ve never felt an out of nowhere sexual energy like every time we were in the room together. He’s not my physical type either but the energy was so powerful. always a tension or pull. Kinda like we’re just faking being just friends if that makes sense. I would kinda avoid him because of this. I was curious what was causing this and saw we have this synastry aspect. Now it all makes sense.

[@rubydaniela]

This sounds like you had some Pluto connection as well?

[@lulasphinx]

@@rubydaniela My Venus is scorpio and his mars is scorpio. so pretty Pluto haha, but I think we have a Pluto mars conjunction too. I haven't said anything to him because part of me wonders if it's just in my head

[@rubydaniela]

@@lulasphinx that one is so intense!! And yes the conjunction in Scorpio is 🔥 ☺️❤️

[@jonathanbrown1703]

I have a crush on a gal at work. Both of our Venus are🎉🎉 conjunct each other’s mars

[@rubydaniela]

That’s a hot combo 😊

[@spvcecxwbxy]

my mars is Leo, my girlfriends venus is Leo. and my Venus is Scorpio her mars is Scorpio. both overlays each others 4th house in synastry :’))))

[@rubydaniela]

Oh that's so beautiful 🥰

[@alllscination]

I have this aspect in a Davidson chart with someone I love in Leo 8th house. There is love and passion but no commitment in a material sense but spiritually I think we are very committed to help each other grow must be our Davidson moon and asc in sagittarius and we try to be nurturing with our Davidson Sun and Mercury in cancer... But the Union doesn't seem to manifest physically always there is something in the way. What do you think about this aspect in a Davidson chart?

[@rubydaniela]

I think I would need to see the whole chart to see where the blockage is. Also I always look at composite/davidson chart in conjunction with the synastry chart. This seems like a Saturn or Neptune issue. Especially Saturn energy is important to manifest and ground in anything, incl relationships. With a Sag Rising this conjunction falls into the 9th house (Whole Sign House System) and the way this can unfold in the 9th house is by supporting each other's beliefs and philosophy. Also the passion for travel and adventure. a long-lasting and fascinating relationship or compagnionship. Communication, understanding, etc ....but the nature of the 9th house is growth and change not stabilising and grounding in. It's the domaine of Jupiter.

[@kendragillespie4843]

So his venus conjunct my mars and Jupiter in Virgo. His Mars in my first house. Also my venus is on his south node and his North node conjunct my Juno. I am definitely feeling the attraction to him and I see it in my chart but does he feel it too? I cant tell... Its his neptune conjunct my mercury. Also my Sun square his moon .. And his sun is opposite my Moon, also venus trine moon

[@rubydaniela]

Feeling something and acknowledging the feelings are two different things. Timing is everything on this earthy plane. I always say energies flow both ways, but we experience that energy based on where we are at. Also, his venus (the feminine energy in him) and your mars (the masculine energy within you).... might translate into you being more of the pursuer when it comes to this aspect. You have to be sure that you actually want to play that part. ♥️♥️♥️

[@inesdonaire2023]

I have this aspect with my love interest, though I’m mars (I’m the woman) and he is Venus. I suppose that it works this way too, doesn’t it? His mars biseptile my venus. His venus conjunct my ascendant, his Scorpio sun trines my Pisces sun… We also have same moon sign (libra), venus trine venus, Eros conjunct Psyche, venus sextile Saturn, moon conjunct Pluto… sun parallel moon double whammy… and many more. It’s crazy 😅

[@rubydaniela]

Yes, it works the same way. These are some beautiful aspects of love and mutual respect☺

[@inesdonaire2023]

​@@rubydaniela Thank you very much, I think so too. By the way, I didn't tell you before, I love your videos and your beautiful energy. My best wishes for you ☺

[@rubydaniela]

@@inesdonaire2023 This made my Sunday!!!! Thank you so much ❤

[@mariameab2134]

If is the woman Mars conjunct to the man Venus ? It's the same description like in the video?

[@rubydaniela]

It can be as energies flow both ways, but sometimes, if the woman is the Mars in this pairing, she will take the lead. It will still be a "juicy" feeling with deep polarity and attraction. It all depends on the masculine and feminine energies that the two of you bring into the relationship. Who is the driving force in the relationship? Are you playing the feminine role (receiving) most of the time or is it more him. Are you playing the approaching part or is it him...most of the time?xx

[@mariameab2134]

@@rubydaniela I am a woman with Venus in Taurus and Mars in Aries, he is Taurus with Venus in Aries and Mars in Pisces. My Mars is conjunct his Venus I saw it in our 2 charts, his Venus conjunct my Mars and my Mars conjunct his Venus for me. I also have my Venus conjunct her Sun. I felt a strong attraction to him that I had never felt before in my life. Exactly as described in your video. And it was me who took the first step towards him. If we have Mars Venus conjunct is it sure that it is reciprocal?

[@rubydaniela]

@@mariameab2134 generally I would say yes, he will definitely feel it too, but you may play the masculine role strongly…and he may stay in his receiving feminine energy a lot. So be aware of that. This doesn’t mean he will never be in his masculine and do things for you, but you set the stage by approaching him. Of course you can play with this aka stay in your feminine and see if things still happen if you are not the pursuer, if you lean back. That’s what I would do, because personally, I like to be pursued. I don’t like to be the pursuer. But if playing the pursuer role works for you than even better. ❤️🙏🏻

[@mariameab2134]

@@rubydaniela Thank you 🙏🏻

[@lindafuentes5152]

My Mars is his Venus, My Venus is in his moon, his mars is my moon, his north node is in my sun and my north node is in his sun! Can anyone help me understand what that means please?

[@rubydaniela]

You found yourself major growth potential and major life lessons. These aspects are sticky like glue and like glue when it gets on your fingers and doesn't stick to the spot you want it to stick to, it can drive you a little (or a lot) crazy. Specifically the NN aspects require tones of inner work. Generally, I would say these are beautiful aspects and depending on your Uranus, Saturn and Pluto positions these aspects are fertile ground for emotional and physical healing...for both of you

[@bennyc8941]

Is 10°35 conjunction too wide of an orb for this overlay?

[@rubydaniela]

I think it is still relevant, however, the effects may not be felt as strongly. ❤️

[@phillascar3280]

Venus in Sag 3° 🌠 Where are you? Hihi... Am "manglik" boy

[@rubydaniela]

;)

[@jeremie73]

I’ve got this aspect with my S/O my mars is in scorpio and his Venus is in scorpio , my Venus is in scorpio too and his mars in Virgo , we both Taurus moon lol so we are very addicted to each other but want to build something together , we work in the same field and I was very surprised cause when we met I said in my head “ I want to make money with him”

[@rubydaniela]

Wow, I love that you two share the same moon sign. Your money axis (Taurus-Scorpio) is highly activated 😉