VENUS IN SCORPIO TAKING YOU BACK RELATIONSHIPS

[@carmenlopes9758]

True..no second chances..never .When you given all ,invested all you had and it was not appreciated you will never be back..and true it doesnt matter how much I was in love.

[@heatherlawson3409]

Haha, my ex was a venue in Scorpio. 3years wasted! Liar, deceitful, vengeful, countless betrayals. Slept with my sisters and expected me to take him back. He enjoys seeing me in pain because I never give him the power over me. Left all the bills an rent in my name a laugh behind me telling others how my life is worst without him after he wrecked me. Had a wife whole time hiding plus a baby mother on the other side hidden well!! After 3years he tells me he doesn't know what to call what we had even though he put me through SO much. He never takes full responsibility for anything and just as you said, he wants action an not all talk, but he's that. Promise the world with no action and even if he does do something, he takes it back or destroys it. He ALWAYS tries to come back No matter how good his current flagship is. Always coming back. I am 'Gemini venus. He moved on with the other one that was pregnant a now lives with her. From the beginning of the rltnship, he was always minded games. They NEVER forgive anyone! But they ALWAYS want you to do that. I wish their victims all the best. He did me all the betrayals but my reactions were brutal words to cut him deep. he doesn't see anything wrong with cheating, exposing and using me for sex. The day i cut him off an exposed him for his dirty deeds is the day he became revengeful towards me. Yes, he will try to come back to play me an i still beat him at his gsme. I sent a whole video of him disregarding the relationship with his pregnant girlfriend to her just so she understands that regardless of what he tells her about me, she should check first her man he l,ied about her his wife, my sisters and blamed me for breaking up the relationship he denied repeatedly. I pray for his victims because if they nt as strong enough, he will wreck then!

[@_JESUS_is_GOD_]

Wow I am a gemini venus as well and this scorp venus man is also trying to take revenge on me (I also never gave him power over me) Just because I ignored and despised him at the beginning of our communication, he lured me in tried to make me like him just to ghost me before our date. At least we did not do anything physical! I think he would not be able to handle me in bed and would become more obsessive and angry that's why he ghosted before. I can respect that.

[@_JESUS_is_GOD_]

He also did heavy black magic on me, but it backfired. God does not play about me. He is scared.

[@theluckshow9617]

As a Venus in Scorpio in the 8th house. I approve this message.

[@Ya_Love]

That is very true. Trying it a second time around feels 'cooled off' and it's very different. Giving someone a second chance serves to heal these trust issues, meaning the other one truly has to put in the work. The other one also is who he/she is and I've realized that people do not change in their major aspect of being. They also have right to be themselves, and if it did not work out the first time, it does not work out the second time around either. If it's a minor thing and it's possible for the other one to make adjustments it might work out, but usually it does not. I've been there and tried that, and it failed. I noticed that I wasn't able to feel that deep anymore and in the end 'trying it a second time' helped me to heal from that being. Just how I would get into a relationship slowly, I also need my time to being able to emotionally detach completely. There can be relationships with loose-ends, so to speak, things that are possibly based in misunderstanding, so that probably has a chance to 'make it right' .... but that's always left to be seen. In that way such a relationship can be at a starting point of 'taking it deeper', or not. If not, then it wasn't meant to be. At least then there will be clarity.

[@venusianscorp]

True sometimes revisited relationships do work but for the most part the past patterns will surface because people do not change. So it remains a difficult task to make it work. It's better to move on.

[@Ya_Love]

yep. - It's also a learning process to figure this out. Funny it is that it can help to truly being able to move on then, since all effort was put into it, where the 'bottom falls through' naturally. No residue left and emotions are then healed, no more longing, no more desire 'to go back there', no more 'What if?" It's kinda like 'getting in to find/come out'! ;-)

[@thedrumlife]

Yes! I have Saturn conjunct Venus in Scorpio in the 4th- you are spot on with your description. Thank you.

[@venusianscorp]

thedrumlife Thank you! Am glad you related to the description.

[@Itsmoremi]

You can never be certain you wont get hurt.

[@oystersandpelicans]

Any clues about venus in scorpio + retrograde? It is a mysterious world for me.

[@venusianscorp]

resham macfarlane it's a difficult time right now with Mars and 4 other planets in retrograde. And by the end of July we'll have as many as 6 planets in retrograde -- Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Neptune, Pluto and Mercury. Mars is currently retrograde which is making things feel like they're in limbo. Kind of like feeling stuck, like things are not progressing. Not the best time to take action or start something new during this time. Given that Scorpio is co-ruled by Mars, it may mean difficulty in relationships, especially as the Martian energy is amped up yet backward and so confused. Those with Venus in Scorpio as their natal placement may feel extra intense in their emotions especially the darker side of their emotions, during this time. Mood swings may manifest, there may be more pent up aggression in relationships as Mars struggles to find an outlet. Pluto retrograde is trying to bring up past issues people from the past that need resolving. Trying times for sure. But it's also great because it will bring up people and situations that no longer deserve our attention. So it could be a time for us to close old chapters and close those old doors permanently. Even if we don't want it, Pluto will make sure it happens. Inner work shadow work is key during this time to examine the rationale behind certain actions and understand the why, to realize what needs to be rectified inside.

[@markcooperartcomofficial]

Saturn squares my Venus in Scorpio. I might enjoy cutting them off more than getting with them in the first place. I sure as hell will never take anyone back.

[@venusianscorp]

True, I think we Venus in Scorpios have a zero tolerance for people betraying us. It's a no go from there on. Saturn definitely would add to the austerity/ restriction element in totally cutting them off in the first place. Plus the square would make it difficult to reconcile. Thanks for watching!

[@venusianscorp]

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[@WatchMyFannie]

This is so true😩. Is there any way that a VIS can work on the sadistic aspect?

[@venusianscorp]

I don't feel ViS is sadistic. We just are very picky about partners

[@stratbid18]

Wow spot on...touche miss....touche...