Venus Opposite Pluto: Navigating Eruptions in Our Relationships

Today we're looking at Venus in Leo, which just made the opposition to Pluto yesterday. This transit will still be in effect for most of this week, so I wanted to make sure we covered it.
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[@nicolewilson1411]

I am a gardener and to me there is nothing more beautiful than dark, rich soil teeming with earthworms! We wouldn’t have the beautiful Venusian things like flowers and berries and gemstones without dirt. These riches beneath the surface seem very Venus/Pluto to me.

[@margolyn8291]

❤four Scorpio stellium and love dirt,gardens,crystals..my savings grace right now🍒🌠✌️🎯🦋

[@vickiebonner4181]

I loved ❤ that perspective Thank you very much (that Pluto and Venus ❤)

[@ringstruewithcherylsprinta6261]

#grabbed. Venus opposite pluto. My friend went swimming in the sea in Cyprus with her mask to explore around the sea caves. She spotted a beautiful fish and swam towards it, the fish allowed her to approach and she became mesmerised by the colours and beauty of the fish. She resched out and touch it to complete her experience not realising the fish was poisonous. A lion fish. Inevitablely the fish stung her and she ended up with a paralysed arm that became very swollen and she was hospitalised for 3 days becsuse there was also a risk of the poison and pain bringing on a heart attack!. Thankgully She can feel her arm now and she's home safe and well. Beauty stings!

[@jenniferlevi]

I experienced this late last week, I feel like I always experience transits a week early!

[@arielharbour8096]

"The wisdom in the opposition is in holding tension between opposites" so well conveyed!! i really love that. i think about this principle alot. the sweet harmony of music wouldnt exist without the tension of strings between two ends, a song would never be actualized if it weren't contained in the limitations of notation. tension and restraint may give us greater freedom as it forces us to find our flow within it

[@meredithmcclanen2160]

“The sweet harmony of music wouldn’t exist without the tension of strings between two ends….” I really love that too.

[@annamarienyc3744]

RIP Tina. Thanks for the shoutout to her passing, Adam. Lovely and instructive video. Definitely feeling that dark Venus vibe quite powerfully today, it began yesterday afternoon for me. 🖤

[@JG-yp3vz]

Sometimes I don't mind getting the things to watch for a little bit late, allows an opportunity to reflect instead of expect, which I found beneficial the last couple of days.

[@ladibyrd]

4. Eruptions from the unconscious - yes! I experienced a purge, cleaning out of something toxic last night/ today for sure! (your wed night in america) a 16 year old trauma could not be ignored. The frustration of having insomnia for the past week rattled it awake. oh, it was not nice to feel! It's interesting. I used to be bullied in my early 20s, i never dealt with those feelings (aqua moon here, hello) I did today.

[@RayrayFeelus]

#Grabbed This past week, starting on Monday, I had jealousy activated very strongly in me. For the first time, im not shaming this and I’ve had a Deep week of looking at this with New Clarity. I’m looking at my ‘fear of being left behind’ with a prominent childhood memory that jumped forward while meditating of being in the store and always thinking I was going to be deserted and having the closest experience to a panic attack. (I was never left but I have a large family so haha) I’ve also realized I have poor self esteem! Ha, this has been so tender to smile at myself in the mirror and acknowledge this which I’ve also buried in shame, especially in the last few years since I’ve been sober. I’m looking at what Worth and Value look like for me and the ways I seek relationships to validate my worth. It’s been a delightfully painful week and I feel like I’m tapping into self-healing in ways I’ve hid from for decades in shame. Thank you!!

[@oldeshoppebluzboy2298]

Venus opposite Pluto as you predicted the possible passing of another famous female artist, actor, or singer of high status like Tina Turner..Astrud Gilbrrto passed away, the iconic award winning jazz diva who sang " The Girl From Ipanema" on Monday ..

[@allasonlewis]

#grabbed this weekend I fell down a rabbithole of watching KZbinr drama exposes and true crime mukbang videos where a pretty girl talked about human trafficking, domestic violence and sexual assault with much of the commentary being about how the social structures failed citizens. When my partner asked me to watch something that was lighter, the first video I clicked on was a doll makeover video in the likeness of Pennywise. I had to have a chuckle at how well the astrology described this sudden obession 😂

[@mercedesgiorgi4048]

what a precious transit

[@daniellebrook3333]

Thanks Adam, great video!! 👍 😎🙏

[@MYSTIC_MELLIE]

The analogies you use are so hilarious and perfect 😹

[@janineroux2398]

Sometimes these things happen purely on an internal level, arguing with the self and weighing up the facts of relationships...I am listening to a lot of videos on narcissism and borderline personality disorder, while at last spending some time finally resolving and making progress with a commissioned oil portrait of someone's dogs....am feeling focused and a little bit pleased with myself, and at the same time praying that no one has the gall to mess with or interrupt me...🤔 Like the day job, for instance.....

[@LauraRamirez-zd3il]

Agreed - in many of these transits that reflect on 'in relationships' i will be having zero conflict or otherwise with my partner and friends but will have been spending time in my head in a certain space - internal level to various degrees

[@jeanette9205]

Thank you, Adam😊

[@sophiashekinah9872]

Wow! Even the cosmos is making the disgusting stuff that's been hidden for so long, finally transform. Thank GodDess!!!

[@martianmoongdds]

Thank you so much 🤍

[@barbaraalexander4730]

Venus in Leo 10H opposing Pluto in Aquarius 4H. New power dynamics in my home as a single mom to my grown children who came to live with me last December #grabbed

[@christinapitcher5069]

Love understanding my Venus opposition to Pluto. I can welcome my kinky heart ❤ in its proper home in my 5th house natal Pluto in Virgo so close to opposition to Pluto in Aquarius ♒ 3°from my Leo Moon.😊

[@doricetimko5403]

Thank you

[@annakobuk3618]

1st vs 7th house. No romance on the horizon but new dynamics and discoveries in relation to others. The group vs individual part is very true. I (Aquarius rising) have an ongoing online discussion/argument with a more conservative group of people I disagree and it's... tough (Pluto in Aquarius retrograding into Capricorn quite literally). This is basically their deep and very important values vs my deep and very important values (Pluto opposite Venus). This is a mixture of intellectual (Aquarius) and emotional (Venus) fight (Leo) with different arguments (again Aquarius). Can't say more... except it's becoming a tough stallmate #grabbed

[@Liolia22]

Oh, I love seeing the gross water after a Hydrafacial! It’s so satisfying to know that gunk is out of our skin!! 😌 Before I moved to the west coast, I was going to a Russian-speaking aesthetician trained in dermatology. She did NOT play. 😅 She would actually manually squeeze my pores too, for a full extraction facial! So painful but my pores (after recovering) looked so much smaller! Gotta find a good pro in southern CA! hilarious analogies this time, thank you!

[@WakingDreamCurrents]

I think of the movie, The Cell when thinking of Venus opposite Pluto.

[@anne-mareecook4937]

I saw the stage musical of Moulin Rouge on the weekend,which fits in with the theme. 💃

[@MsJenClark]

A clogged pore is one way to look at it 😅 helpful insights for a sticky transit, ty!

[@elianenicole1008]

Darn I meant to start the horary with you guys!!

[@brendapappas8433]

Wow I have Leo Sun 7th ! Now Venus staying for 4 months💕 Opposites my 1st house with Pluto tethering in Aquarius to Capricorn. I know a relationship has been festering for many years. No surprise to me🙈

[@paiepaie5170]

I can’t believe it ! I couldn’t sleep last night, & turned on the TV, & a doco which suddenly popped up - which I got drawn into ( as I wouldn’t normally watch that stuff) & it was on the women telling their dark secrets / stories of being ‘Playboy Bunnies’ in the underbelly / cult world of the Playboy Mansion -! Oh my ! Only on a Venus /Pluto transit ! It was so addictive & yet so abusive, & the total control & submission of power / $/ sex / drugs& all things Venus /Pluto 💥💥 talk about the ‘dark side of Venus’ Thanks Adam - luv what you share 🙏🌟🌸

[@ChamillahDesigns]

Yeah I resonate with this idea of eruptions. For me it started Monday at 4:30 am which I think was almost the exact time of the full moon on the east coast where I live. I could not sleep, so I got up and felt the urge to go watch the sun rise which culminated in an explosion of creativity and inspiration which I am still feeling intensely now. I kinda had an inspirational verbal diarrhea of love, oneness and unity with a friend of mine via text message. LOL 😂🤣 I will share that here for you in quotes. "I am awe struck by the marvelous eternal structure, spirit and beauty of this divine universe we exist in, seeing how it works through me, through you and through all living creatures appearing before me. It’s like a never ending ocean of giving and receiving that sends love out like ripples across the cosmos that just keeps expanding beyond infinity. It feels deep and profound as it unravels within me which feels like, heaven on earth, like a unity and oneness beyond words. So thank you for allowing the universe to flow through you, to me, and everyone to everyone else on this planet. I love the universe and want to thank you for appearing in it as your amazing self." This might qualify for a #grabbed maybe? I am not usually grabbed a whole lot but since April of this year I have been feeling it a lot LOL 🤣😂 This quote above that I wrote is applicable to all who read it since we are all ONE with all things. 💖 Thank you for your GREAT videos!!! 💜

[@vickiebonner4181]

"We Are One " by Frankie Beverly and Maze check it ou🎵🎼🎶🎙

[@katewhite1309]

A Venus Pluto movie (play): The House of Yes I watched it last night before hearing this episode. How perfect! #grabbed

[@rebeccaelwell2238]

#grabbed my boyfriend and I are in this stand off phase of this break up. I kicked him out of my house last month mostly due to finally honoring my boundaries surrounding his substance overuse and abuse. He didn’t take me seriously as in the past, we’ve always managed to get back together and the pain cycle starts for me again. But now because I’m holding my ground and have reached my proverbial wall and haven’t been open to taking him back in my home, he’s been spinning 😵‍💫 and we’ve continued our communications but it has only brought on more anger, insults, and distrust. I’m pretty over it, he’s wanting to get back together and says he’ll do anything to make it work. But he’s an addict and those demons talk pretty loudly in him and I can’t tolerate that behavior from him any more. We love each other. In some ways we are so close and we are each other’s person. But both of us need to change from deep within to make it work this time or we really break up. I need to trust him. He needs to get a handle on his addictions. All amongst other things. We both made the decision to try couples therapy this week, which will be a first for us and will be enlightening at the very least. Feels very venus/Pluto opposition to me. Especially death, rebirth, and transformation. Wish us heavenly luck 🍀😅

[@AVFlox]

Good for you choosing to honor your boundaries and do this differently. Standing our ground is not always easy when it comes to those we love -- just in case you need to hear it, you're doing great.

[@ClaireR-zk2ge]

I have this natal placement Venus in Aries opposite Pluto in Libra. I’m great at detoxing and healing the body but it’s not so great for relationships tbh!

[@CanadaDhryyy]

I am a leo Sun and venus conjunct in my 8th house and i love anything taboo❤❤❤❤

[@olakl1]

#grabbed Venus opp Pluto.. After some misunderstanding of my guy and many things that he's been reflecting to me, were coming up for me to process and release, about myself and our relationship, i thought it was over, lots of tears, but i couldn't make a peace with that, as we had beautiful times together, so i just couldn't but to text him and actually ask, that i can't get any sort of conclusion and that i have no hard feelings but i guess i just need to talk about things.. which i find quite hard thing to say and to do, even to write this message to him..! but then i got a long reassuring reply, that things are good between us and that he understands my feelings as the energies are intense.. so then i cried again, lots of humble tears.. so i see this as a rebirth or a transformation of our relationship.. as we don't really talk about these things, just feeling each other when together.. and also as my personal breakthrough in actually addressing what was on my mind for some time of not knowing what's happening with the two of us.. (the May 5th lunar eclipse hitting our composite Scorpio stellium, and Pluto sitting on our composite Moon 0°Aqua!) blessed by seeing this beautiful man, with whom we not only help to heal each other, but also perfectly reflects the astrology for me.. 🙏🏽💜✨

[@unfoldinglotus1572]

Its Venus conjunct my Jupiter in the 1st house opposite Pluto in the 7th. Venus rules 3rd. Just got my license for the 1st time in 44 years. Today i scraped my new car so bad. My 1st marriage was very abusive. I was so triggered. My fiance took me on a drive after dinner because he knew i was triggered. We had the best talk. Ended our night in an erotic display of love. He makes everything safe.

[@SpencerDwight]

So true, but not sure if I'm the darkness or calling out the darkness, perhaps that's a Venutian theme in itself?

[@irene2081]

That's my natal placement, 1st-7th houses..

[@donnariseborough2641]

Ouch 😢 how has that been for you whats your sun ?

[@irene2081]

@@donnariseborough2641 Aries ♈ sun and rising... transformation through relationships, attachment style recovery,, the journey back to self ..and so on and so forth..😵‍💫😁

[@donnariseborough2641]

@@irene2081 bless you some soul contract you picked there 🙏 😇

[@irene2081]

@@donnariseborough2641 thank you! Oh, yes, I definitely did!..

[@lilstars5599]

#grabbed waiting to find out if I have a tumour on my ovaries. My sun is 00° Leo in the 7th. So pluto in the 1st.

[@uranusten9540]

Pluto in Aquarius 8th house transit opposes my venus leo 2nd house

[@astro9774]

What's the difference between holding the tension and balancing two sides of the opposition?

[@Radiant.Disruption]

How do I submit a story about this transit? I have a very applicable one.

[@yngvesognen1092]

Can you mention the day when you talk about yesterday or tomorrow, and the date when talking about next or last week? Sorry, Virgo rising here.

[@user-bt3gw2jz1t]

I am experiencing this transit as submission to my dad My dad has a daddy complex So there's this sexual submission to He s very jealous and we visited my grandfather and my mom was talking to my grandfathers roommate my dad is jealous of him There was this energy last night from dad I had a slight anxiety attack I felt like my dad was putting pressure on me Boone else notices his energy His controlling energy But my unconscious is springing up all this daddy issues But the talk of taking action Basically the dark stuff of Venus has came up With my dad

[@barbaraalexander4730]

I love hydro facials 😀

[@essveekaye]

These revolutions! Jupiter is conjunct my ascendant. My sun and mercury... in my first house. Uranus of course... creating strange art n weird homemade clothing choices, internal outbursts n small (thankfully) electrical mishaps for ages now. I feel great Adam. Idk why I have no shame rn but I'm going with it whilst tryna keep it reigned in. My son was scouted by a talent med rep while we sat eating under a tree.. I won 1200 bucks two days ago. Am I going to overindulge or explode inevitably? Probly hey. I intend to burst like meta confetti when I do. Pluto amps my ultra imaginary side so he can fully strip me down. With this line up on my first house im full regalia. I'm 46. For once. I feel authentically wholly me. I'm a unified mess n I'm really happy.

[@1Lovelife11]

Natal Venus in Leo 9th at 2 deg. I’m not looking forward to this pluto. opposition over the next few yrs since venus rules my 6th. Need to fix some health things or i might regret it soon. 😕Not sure how it’ll play out with relationships as i’m a pretty solitary creature anymore. Weirdly, i’ve had mars, mercury, and now venus retrograding over their natal placements over the past year. It’s almost been like a mini inner planet reset. 🙂

[@zitapuskas2772]

❤

[@InterconnectedUniverse]

I have this natally.. 😅

[@firecrackerkitten4907]

Thanks Adam! 😊✨🙏 Personally, I am SO Ready for some unnecessary relationships in my life to transform and/ or die! 🤪L O L 😂

[@athena144]

same, firecraker kitten !

[@abrahamjaleel9463]

really weird but this transit coincided exactly with a national election we are having here.

[@sophiashekinah9872]

Yep. Really dark stuff.

[@laetitiavisagie-gg6kk]

My wake-up call comes from this dream - I open the faucet in the kitchen and sewerage comes out...

[@yelojazz6199]

❤❤❤

[@violenceislife1987]

The dark venus. Beware if you are in a dysfunctional relationship.

[@cynthiam1381]

Volcanoes eruption 🌋

[@armchairastrologer1858]

Venus/Pluto - Anne Rice's erotica

[@blessedgraceindeed]

Change or have no money😢

[@user-te8ft4nc9r]

Literally two stubborn blackheads I’ve had for many many months from wearing masks came off last night 🤭🤭🤭

[@venusstromberg1500]

Dang and first I just thought I had to get a pair of Joe Biden aviators …

[@fredwiggins4610]

Thank you