I'm not even 3 mins into the video and can see this man isn't just abusing the dogs he abuses his entire family
@floydefisher Жыл бұрын
Three words: Child Protective Services.
@lindziep6319 Жыл бұрын
He doesnt know being a father is not only being the one who is the head but he must also take the lead for the better lives of the whole family not only financially, being the role model for his children and being a good partner for his wife, not only by using force or shouting 😢
@M1nn0w Жыл бұрын
Is this the 1920s? Men aren’t the head of the family. Equal leadership from both partners.
@Goobers_United Жыл бұрын
@@M1nn0wso true
@Nyxgazer Жыл бұрын
Yep.. And 4 minutes in shows how the circle of violence continue through generations. It's really sad to see.
@das_moendchen3250 Жыл бұрын
"She just cries to cry" ... do you hear yourself? This man is unbelievable!
@anima6035 Жыл бұрын
I lost it when he said that, this is exactly why I am HAPPILY single and carefree 😊
@Kaiprettyasl11 ай бұрын
like WHAT ??!
@sheam637410 ай бұрын
My ex was like that. He would accuse me of crying to be manipulative after berating me for hours.
@suzyra12128 ай бұрын
He just sitting down on the couch and watch her getting bitten by dog or he scared that he get bitten by a dog too 😳😵
@alexHandle4767 ай бұрын
I would slapped hike
@atherisGAY Жыл бұрын
I hope Shaun is doing okay these days. I hope he got ptsd/trauma counceling by now. His father is horrible.
@Spoink58711 ай бұрын
@@Ella827ptsd/trauma trauma counseling
@Thewavedemonjackal11 ай бұрын
@@Ella827No, they’re saying that they hope that he got counselling for his trauma.
@prettysnowy210 ай бұрын
@@Ella827they said that they hope shaun gets treatment for PTSD/trauma
@cybremystica938 ай бұрын
Shaun had the best growth on this show for real
@Puuws6 ай бұрын
well he was willing to look at his behaviour, admit it and work on it
@jacquelineh5029 Жыл бұрын
I admire Sean's personality. He's young but he's so wise, open-hearted, and witty. I think he's going to become a great man.
@tookitogo Жыл бұрын
Well, this show was filmed many years ago, so maybe you can look up Sean and see how he turned out.
@sussy5626 Жыл бұрын
@@tookitogowhat did u search up? I tried first and last name, nothing
@tookitogo Жыл бұрын
@@sussy5626 I didn’t search, I was just suggesting it might be possible. Check the video for his full name and correct spelling, I think it was actually Shaun or something.
@lunawolf628811 ай бұрын
Geeze That Man needs therapy for his traumatic experience
@elsvaughn795911 ай бұрын
Well, he would be one now... but I can't say that I'd agree w you.
@SilverStormzAndGoldenRain7 ай бұрын
Your kid saw someone get SHOT! And you seriously wonder why he won't walk the dog?! That poor child
@GypsyGirl317Ай бұрын
Exactly!! 🤦🏻♀️😢 Sean needs trauma counselling. 🤯💔😵💫
@KassieKreep Жыл бұрын
Shawn is a clear example of how to break the cycle. He is going to be such a great person. I'm proud of how he did with this whole training. He buckled down and took it seriously. ❤
@JLBSICS11 ай бұрын
He really does seem like an absolute sweetheart, I hope he has a good life.
@nitzan378210 ай бұрын
Considering how old this show is, I bet he's grown up to be a wonderful young man.
@DullyDust6 ай бұрын
Totally agree! He seems like such a good, sensitive and thoughtful young man ❤
@rainbowlady15326 ай бұрын
Though I won’t lie Shawn annoyed me at the start of the episode. However at least he’s not an obnoxious waste of oxygen like his father
@urgae91254 ай бұрын
@@rainbowlady1532he actually has a reason for avoiding the walking like his mom, unlike his father. Poor kid really rose to the occasion at least.
@jackiesharp669 Жыл бұрын
Victoria should get together with the nanny Jo Frost, both deal with the whole family not just dogs or kids they would be great together with the right families.
@andyv2209 Жыл бұрын
Oooh that would be amazingggg
@aliceb17 Жыл бұрын
Well, IMOTD was based on Supernanny. Victoria saw the first episode, realised how similar hers and Jo’s jobs are (working with everyone, using positive techniques rather than fear or corporal punishment etc.) and she ended up pitching the show to them based on that realisation.
@emmananii39 Жыл бұрын
She should be a therapist
@elgc8782 Жыл бұрын
Yeah. That would be something wouldn't it? I like them both too.
@TheGoodSamaritan8557 Жыл бұрын
😮 now thats an idea! Id watch that!
@gjenispeling4138 Жыл бұрын
what a waste of oxygen with that guy, I not only feel sorry for the dogs and his family, but also his colleagues and work environment. his entire personality radiates rudeness and negativity.
@dillzilla445411 ай бұрын
did you catch the "welcome" matt? really tells you the kind of person you're dealing with when the matt at the front door says "go away" on it
@rachelbennett543811 ай бұрын
I thought the same thing. He's an episode of Gordon Ramsays Kitchen Nightmares.
@camisnyder34608 ай бұрын
100% a Narcissist.
@morgangrosser3578 ай бұрын
@@rachelbennett5438which episode???
@heatherward50537 ай бұрын
Omg yes!!! I hadn’t even thought about the poor people that have to work under that troll!! He has no empathy for his own family, so how bad is he to his staff??
@mm-ln9sw Жыл бұрын
i’m not even married to this man and i want to ask him for a divorce
@aliciakillen1940 Жыл бұрын
Lol, that was funny!
@Pinkalicious11211 ай бұрын
Haaahaa!!! Right?! What an absolutely vile excuse for a man.
@trapjar11 ай бұрын
for real! what kind of man abuses his whole family, including the dogs and kids! not only mentally, but physically!?
@kimchapie933210 ай бұрын
Me too!
@N0Sheeple9 ай бұрын
Perfect sentiment. I couldn't have said it better myself.
@makaylam947 Жыл бұрын
This was a hard watch.. I can’t believe he doesn’t get it. Everything is “oooh me oooh me I have to take care of my dog and kids” meanwhile the kid is like “I hid that this shooting traumatized me for a year” and the dad DOESNT CARE???
@anonymoose11611 ай бұрын
As soon as that event happened, they should have gotten him to see a therapist. Maybe he needed it, maybe he didn't, but better to have him talk to a professional.
@krdiaz80268 ай бұрын
That's probably why he hid it, because he knows his dad wouldn't care. Experiencing dismissal after opening up can hurt more than the actual trauma.
@AllThePeppermint7 ай бұрын
@@krdiaz8026 Bingo! And experience has likely already taught him that his dad won't care. If dad doesn't care about the little things, why would he care about the big things? The dad is a selfish baby.
@lifeisadrag77054 ай бұрын
@@krdiaz8026 There's a reason why he hid it in the first place so yeah. I did the same with my parents too after opening up about my issues with school.
@serendipidus84824 ай бұрын
He's a narcissist. I hope she gets away from him and all his crap god love them. The poor mom would have such peace if american society valued her enough to give her the financial support she needs. She's getting financial support form the husband but thats all. He's taking everything else away from his family and only bringing a pay check. I hope he did change. But if he didnt i hope she gets far far away from his crap.
@madz201311 ай бұрын
It's clear this man severely abuses his entire family both physically and mentally.
@angieoh211 ай бұрын
Agree. This was hard to watch.
@emmahepburn29699 ай бұрын
I see it very much , I know its a lot easier to say when your the one looking in, and for what its worth I was in a horrible, overly controlling relationship with my sons father, so in get it , honestly I do , but still couldnt help but think they all would be so much happier and better off without him around.
@melissabarbosa-gx7np9 ай бұрын
No, it's not 😂😂😂😂
@angieoh29 ай бұрын
@@melissabarbosa-gx7np Notice there are plenty of other comments here observing the same. Familiarize yourself with the signs and you will see it too.
@cybremystica938 ай бұрын
23:29 bruh he admitted to beating her up. Kicking, punching, bopping 😢. It’s awful
@leighhauserman954911 ай бұрын
wHy Is OuR dOg So FeArFuL?!?! Because she was abused the second she came into a new home 🤯 Seriously
@Motaki666 Жыл бұрын
This show has a talent for finding men who are utterly vile. How any of them have partners or children is mindboggling 🤯
@beckylietzow Жыл бұрын
Why exclude women? This show had some truly despicable ladies as well…
@joey28 Жыл бұрын
@@beckylietzowBc it’s mostly men who are bad in this show?
@1_star_reviews Жыл бұрын
They’re at their wits end by the time assistance arrives. Having an untrained animal in your home could be extremely stressful
@topbottomswitch Жыл бұрын
I don't see that as a reason for only specifying men. It's like making it look like only men are 'utterly vile'. The comment should include women too@@joey28
@genthespacewitch Жыл бұрын
@@topbottomswitch The point isn't about making sure all groups have equal criticism. It's about recognizing that there's a common pattern in a lot of the men depicted on this show.
@Rcc335010 ай бұрын
I really like how direct and honest Victoria is. No fear. As to the father....His body language alone tells me he doesn't even like his family. He pretends on camera. I don’t see a happy outcome here.
@susanhawkes25198 ай бұрын
So polite when he was opening the door to Victoria. BS.
@Nukaria5 ай бұрын
i saw a change towards the end tbh. at least with the dogs and kid if anything. he definitely turned a corner and realised the life he could be having with his family and how to get there.
@GypsyGirl317Ай бұрын
@@Nukaria here's hoping he can maybe get some help for himself and continue making changes. I wonder if he has some unhealed trauma deep inside himself and hasn't dealt with it. His behaviour would seem to indicate this. 😢
@mkrauss12311 ай бұрын
I think it would be best if the husband were returned to the shelter.
@MassageDiaries10 ай бұрын
❤ 💯
@tamipierce59169 ай бұрын
I concur...!! Best comment in this section...!!
@susannahkeneda86929 ай бұрын
And no take backsies
@mariahillenbrand83964 ай бұрын
I'm sure he would never be adopted because he's not "trained"!!!
@chainamarie034 ай бұрын
2nd BEST comment ❤@@mariahillenbrand8396
@stephsnyder7768 Жыл бұрын
Ugh, as a mom of a teen son, I just wanted to reach through this computer and give Shaun a mom hug. That poor kid!
@anonymoose11611 ай бұрын
Same. I don't even understand this dynamic. I have 4 kids, a handful of pets including large dogs, I work full time and am in law school in the evenings. Yet, I don't treat my spouse or kids like this, my animals are all well trained and well cared for. There's just no excuse for any of this. These parents need to correct their own behavior before trying to fix their family dynamic or their dogs.
@gargwinvinesnake696111 ай бұрын
Him being scared of the collar choking her more than being pulled was so heart warming. It's incredible how children can grow up as amazing individuals even with "less than stellar" parents.❤
@k.m.186 Жыл бұрын
It’s sad that the dad thinks that Saun just needed to be “strong” or whatever and it wouldn’t impact him. And Sean heard that and thinks he just needs to “get over it.” Emotional intelligence is so important, and a lack of it can be passed down father to son unless the cycle stops
@haileyscott714411 ай бұрын
The smile from the wife when victoria talked about getting him arrested is proof the family needs him gone.
@AnetaMoonshield3 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@mr.ridz19522 ай бұрын
I agree so much with u❤
@karyannfontaine8757 Жыл бұрын
Adore Sean, he really took the training to heart and gave Peter concise directions while showing how what he was saying worked to help Brook.
@hopebullard4607 ай бұрын
💙💙💙 agreed!
@peronfitz395311 ай бұрын
Something that hasn’t been mentioned is how nonchalant the little girl was in hitting the younger dog when it misbehaved…I think that shows what exactly is going on in that house with that family
@cookiesandpudding84858 ай бұрын
Right? It feels like nobody noticed that
@rjay70197 ай бұрын
I didn't see the dog do anything 😮 looked like it was just standing there.
@jupo99284 ай бұрын
It was addressed in the show
@cookeepuff11 ай бұрын
"I dont really care what Kelly says," wow. Awful man, you can tell he hurts his entire family all the time. I hope she leaves him for the kids sake.
@susanneandersen34175 ай бұрын
And takes the dogs
@Nukaria5 ай бұрын
i'm glad he didn't and instead admitted his faults and wanted to and did make changes towards the end of that episode. this helps heal the family rather than tear them apart and cause more trauma...
@lifeisadrag77054 ай бұрын
@@Nukaria I doubt he kept the behavior up ngl. People like this don't change for the better all the time.
@JamminMammy9 ай бұрын
YOU DON'T NEED TO SHOUT AT THEM THEY CAN HEAR REALLY WELL!!! 😆🤣☺
@kelseygolden5175 Жыл бұрын
the way the parents were so nonchalant when bringing up why Shaun doesn’t wanna walk the dog is so concerning
@gargwinvinesnake696111 ай бұрын
No doubt! CPS would get involved here because of a failure to get him counseling for the trauma.
@jmo53214.10 ай бұрын
@@gargwinvinesnake6961I wish CPS would. Honestly, anytime I've ever seen CPS actually make moves and get involved it goes nowhere.
@jenniferrollin57778 ай бұрын
I know! It's not that Shaun won't walk the dogs, he emotionally *can't* and his parents aren't supporting him.
@thedeviouspanda2 ай бұрын
She's an EMT, you have to just be able to move on from that kind of stuff in that field. She probably tried to set that example for Shaun but that doesn't work for everyone.
@GJBilliards11 ай бұрын
He abused an animal and disrespected his family. No excuse. Makes me sick
@lilyvilla864610 ай бұрын
That teenage boy is so emotionally mature. The parents need to stop and learn a thing or two from him.
@user-zz4vb8wl6v3 ай бұрын
When some one is traumatizing they become way more mature
@lorrainegouland1905 Жыл бұрын
Im sorry but, Mum isnt innocent in this story. She joined in shouting at Sean about walking the dog. She said if he didn't, the dog would end up going to the pound. So much emotional blackmail and so little insight. I truly hope they really learned from this.
@cybremystica938 ай бұрын
I don’t really agree because Pete doesn’t support Kelly, she has no other support network. Her husband tells her to stop crying and he is cold, calculating and shut off. She’s at her wits end and desperate. She might not be a saint but tbh sending the to the pound would actually be better for them
@zion3675 ай бұрын
How she laughed when Victoria scolded her husband for beating the dog was truely vile and sneaky. Its a sad thing, but she enjoyed him being scolded. That also says something about her own mentality.
@lifeisadrag77054 ай бұрын
@@zion367 I think she was smiling at the idea of him going to jail rather than abusing the dogs?
@Br0nto5aurus4 ай бұрын
I don't think anyone is saying Kelly is innocent. She just isn't the villain of the piece. And she wasn't threatening that she would take the dogs away, she was warning her son that Pete was going to take the dogs away.
@thedeviouspanda2 ай бұрын
It is what it is though. She's disabled and can't walk the dogs. The dogs need exercise. If he's not willing to do that then they will have to leave and find a family better able to meet their needs.
@patriciasinclair1463 Жыл бұрын
This man confesses his own issues with zero remorse! Like admitting he planned to train it and then changed his mind and washed his hands of it; like dude you CANT wash your hands, its YOUR dog you have to follow through. Welcome to the word COMMITMENT. and saying he screams and doesn't know why!! Oh man so manybred flags. Victoria maintains a level if professionalism i could only dream of!!
@MassageDiaries10 ай бұрын
💯
@stephanieburgess82178 ай бұрын
And putting it ALL back on a child is wrong! Even though his son is a teenager and capable ultimately it is the parents responsibility. At the end of the day the son is still a child and the responsibility is 100% Peters.
@theb33prince4 ай бұрын
"she cries just to cry" yeah well you scream just to scream so are you any better?
@Sam-mh4mc11 ай бұрын
These dogs are such angels, I ended up realising that they didn't require correction of any kind, they didn't bark, they didn't nip, they didn't jump up on anyone, the leash pulling was easy to correct and one lil trick helped Princess come out of her shell, even in the beginning I saw how she kept wanting pets from her mum. They are such sweet angels, as far as I am concerned they are the ones who are keeping this family together - helping Sean and Kelly through their problems. Sean is really sweet and I am glad that he could talk to Victoria coz his dad is a mess and is emotionally unavailable and idk much about the mum, I am really glad he spoke that much to Victoria - traumatised teens usually just close down ! Father and son dog walk is such a great idea,, the boy clearly wants love from his dad. If the dad doesn't give his love now unfortunately Sean will go in the wrong path if that continues :( and Sean deserves better
@TheRingedIndividual11 ай бұрын
“she cries just to cry” im sorry- WHAT?!
@TheRingedIndividual5 ай бұрын
@severidad Agreed.
@Fairygroveyt11 ай бұрын
They had him ACT OUT him running with the dog away from gunshots for this episode. Ameican Its Me or the Dog is wild.
@AllThePeppermint7 ай бұрын
Agreed. I'm an American and get so frustrated by the American versions of UK shows.
@drendraleigh47227 ай бұрын
I so hope they just got footage of him running with his dog after the training and editted it that way for the show. It still sucks but yeah...
@alexiscoomer-moto24476 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. Kinda messed up really.
@Teriiiyakiii5 ай бұрын
"hey kid can you reenact your crippling trauma in the exact same location for the show"
@rhythmandblues_alibi4 ай бұрын
I thought the same thing. Such poor judgement on the producers part.
@BabyRastasaurus11 ай бұрын
I found a guy that shot himself once I was out walking with my dog. It was traumatizing and I was already a lot older. I don't get how those idiots of parents can't see what her son must have been gone through. Those people shouldn't have kids or pets
@mandysmayhem55172 ай бұрын
I am so you had to go through that hon
@rogue7723 Жыл бұрын
That pull away Caitlin did at 31:26 spoke _volumes_ about how this family raises their kids. 😬
@vickienna_games11 ай бұрын
Honestly...
@RetroMonkey199910 ай бұрын
I don't want to argue about how bad things are, because that's obvious- everyone in this family is traumatized, but that timestamp is just her pulling back because Victoria reached to stroke her pigtail so she ducked her head and laughed
@4frantastic9 ай бұрын
But just before that when she yelled did you see how the two younger kids reached. The boy jumped and the girl covered her ears 😢
@seemorebutts17989 ай бұрын
Yes!!! I came to the comments to see if anyone else noticed that. 😢
@rhythmandblues_alibi4 ай бұрын
Wow I didn't catch that the first time round.
@TYANTOWERS Жыл бұрын
I don't have a dog, but the show has made me realize that the volume in my house is also very loud and I will try to be more gentle and patient, because my son is learning these habits from me.
@erinnorwood61243 ай бұрын
I'm proud of you
@Bergziegen353 ай бұрын
I love this comment.
@DeeSnoopy Жыл бұрын
She's not a dog trainer, she's a human trainer.... lol.
@weebleevideos98478 ай бұрын
To train the dog you have to train the owner after all! 😆
@mayorofsimpleton567411 ай бұрын
I hope that poor family will get away from Pete. What an absolute piece of sh*t. I feel so bad for Shaun especially. He’s been so downtrodden, but he’s such a bright, kind kid.
@paulinedanielsen843810 ай бұрын
Such a great example of how advocating for men dealing with their emotions rather than just thoughen up and get over it, can truly change the world! the man in the beginning of this video is not the same man as the one at the end. Mind blowing!
@Lilly-tn2mz11 ай бұрын
Victoria being a therapist in every episode
@chrismunoz579110 ай бұрын
I suffer from PTSD, too just like Shawn. I had to pick my mom off the floor when she collapsed from a diabetic seizure. She was literally dying right in my arms. I still have nightmares from that morning. My dad passed away from liver cancer three years ago. My mom is doing okay now. We adopted a Goldendoodle puppy from a good breeder. The breeder is my friend now. My dog saved my life after my dad's untimely death.
@susanneandersen34175 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss, hope you are doing well
@emilyb143811 ай бұрын
“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, “ This is so sad.
@laurenschenck5355 Жыл бұрын
So proud of the Shaun for taking responsibility for the dogs and he is amazing and so mature for his age wonderful ❤
@Sweetpea_2139 ай бұрын
Shawn is going to be amazing. He is breaking a cycle which is possible i broke my family’s cycle. I’m so glad that Sean is doing so well for being so young and seeing such bad things. I’m glad a fellow Victoria could help them so much
@glzgowlass3 ай бұрын
Totally agree. He’s a better man than his dad. I wasn’t that impressed with the mother either tbh.
@laurenschenck5355 Жыл бұрын
Love Victoria’s firm and hardcore talk conversation and so the owners can understand this is serious ❤
@amandacarter884111 ай бұрын
This is why you get to know people before having kids or even getting a dog! I couldn't be around this man for a day let alone have kids with him and he would be in jail 1st time he treated ANY animal or kid like he does!
@sowsa22086 ай бұрын
don't need a lot of time, to figure out how bad of a person this guy is. Maybe it's the show, I don't know
@MachimoLP11 ай бұрын
That father should not be a father. So much respect for Victoria for keeping up with people like this… but I do hope these children got some help
@laurenschenck5355 Жыл бұрын
No dog should be ever be abused so sad and heartbreaking 😢❤😢
@NikkieRoxxx Жыл бұрын
Its 'beign" trained to be a "reliable" night guard
@Jacoe41311 ай бұрын
2:58 the fear and sadness in Brook's eyes says EVERYTHING!
@ShazWag10 ай бұрын
Victoria's not only a great dog trainer, she's a good family counsellor - which inevitably helps the whole family, including the dogs.
@newdark Жыл бұрын
I’m glad Peter was able to change in the end, because in the beginning it’s upsetting to see the son nearly get ran over for getting pulled and the Dad only insults the son. Which is terrible to see
@monkeyorchid4081 Жыл бұрын
Why waste anymore time call the police on this guy everyone says he changed at the end but everyone knows that man hasnt changed he will go back to exactly the way he was before the cameras came in!
@Unknown_Baddie-r6g4 ай бұрын
@@monkeyorchid4081How do you know that? Did you see Peter in real life and talked with him after that or what?
@dillzilla445411 ай бұрын
when the "welcome" matt says "go away" on it, you have a good idea of who you are dealing with
@rhythmandblues_alibi4 ай бұрын
Omg does it really!? 😅
@glzgowlass3 ай бұрын
Oh I just said that too! I feel very bad for their oldest Shaun. He is a better man than his dad. I just hope the parents don’t slide into their old habits.
@TakeTheRide11 ай бұрын
Pete said, he wanted to have a better relationship with his dogs and with his kids... He never said he wanted a better relationship with his wife. 😢 I hope Pete figured that part out too.
@Splintz24611 ай бұрын
I think they are on the verge of a divorce because at the beginning of the episode she said she would rather have Pete go than the dog which frankly I think is a good idea
@karenlloyd170511 ай бұрын
@@Splintz246agree
@rhythmandblues_alibi4 ай бұрын
Yeah I noticed that too. Really told on himself there.
@mystiquemysteria685 Жыл бұрын
Sean is such a brilliant young man, my heart breaks for him!
@kmsbanr8 ай бұрын
I adopted a 3-month-old Malinois puppy who was so seriously abused that although we had a good life together her reactivity limited our life. I love what you said about fear memory being imprinted in the brain forever because using another famous trainer's methods for our first 6 months never decreased her Cujo response when she saw people even through car windows. So much for living in the moment.. I had been "in dogs" for over 30 years trained my own and others but this girl sent me on a quest to help her. We didn't have the life I wanted for us but n the end she was a superbly trained dog who knew love from us, ran supervised around our 2 acres, learned many ways to help me but most of all we were best pals and I loved her dearly. I always felt guilty and wondered why I couldn't help her enough to forget her past. Thank you Victoria. You help so many. There is hope for all when a light is lit.
@constancemohrbacher3870 Жыл бұрын
The son is so sweet. And trying so hard to be the man he thinks his father wants him to be. He doesn't realize his wife is hurting and the wife doesn't realize the husband is being crushed. I really hope they just find a way to relate to each other and just let the love out!!
@R0291-l1l Жыл бұрын
This show really convinces me over and over that I don't want or need a husband around lol.
@tracym6297 Жыл бұрын
Thankfully, they aren't all like that.
@carolegreen9938 Жыл бұрын
Luckily my husband loves dogs, 😁
@lindziep6319 Жыл бұрын
Well i can relate to that I had a father much more like Peter and that makes it a thing why i had so high standard for a guy in the maturity part coz like Peter my father shows hes the head hes the rule and if you cry he doesnt want that, he keep saying why cry just stop and those moments makes me think why? And from then on i dont like guys who shout a lot, who use fist when frustrated to our pets or say bad things to us coz hes frustrated 😢
@stephaniemiddleton3740 Жыл бұрын
The good thing about husbands is you get to pick yours, if you do it well you get an absolute diamond that treats you, your children, your pets, family and friends really well.
@Skrunkly_Velvet_Worm Жыл бұрын
🚫 Get A Husband ✅ Get A Wife
@klotothemontothex11 ай бұрын
Victoria doing work out of her pay grade, jeeze. This couple needs so much more help than dog training.
@axessenter9 ай бұрын
"It was really nice seeing him in his calm state". That actually made me cry. It's heartbreaking to hear Shaun say that. But I also kinda just get it... It's those little calm moments that make you remember your dad behind the beatings and the shouting and the name calling and the fights. And you see, for a split second, what your life could be like. But you can never trust it. Cause it can flip at any second. And that's even more heartbreaking. Wanting to trust your parents, but just not being able to. Never told my parents about some of my traumas to this day. Never saw the point. I was better at looking out for myself. Shaun is a really brave kid, and I hope he is leading a good life today, because he deserves it. He's breaking the cycle and I hope that he managed to find love and comfort in his life. He has a lot of emotional intelligence. And you can see that Brooke is really bonded to him as well.
@branfeather Жыл бұрын
That "Best Walk Ever" made me smile. I'm glad Shaun was able to find a moment of happiness, that kid deserves it with all the BS and trauma he's gone through. If no one has said it, Thank you Victoria for helping this kid, and his dog.
@MassageDiaries10 ай бұрын
💯
@Suzie-he9ni Жыл бұрын
I hope Pete doesn't revert back to his old ways......if he does I hope his wife changes the locks while he's at work. Those poor dogs and family.
@kunolacarai Жыл бұрын
Pit bulls have a lot of drive and energy, they can be wonderful dogs, but only if someone is willing to put in the effort they need.
@tookitogo Жыл бұрын
Well said.
@kayahenry929311 ай бұрын
I have a pocket bully and I agree I have to wake up between 4-6 in the morning walk him play with him walk him again at 10 and again at 2 before I start work at 3 I then walk him again at 6 when I come home walk him again at 8 these dogs are not for the weak and I’m only 17 but I’m way more responsible than this family
@karenlloyd170511 ай бұрын
I love pit bulls & have never came across a nasty one. I couldn't have one as a pet as I'm not well enough to care for them, so I just ask "can I say hello to your dog" every time I see one 😊
@Cartoonshipper Жыл бұрын
The way this man treats his dogs and family is terrible
@beesknees95653 ай бұрын
As a parent my heart forever breaks for Sean.. He is absolute wonderful kid who is continuing to grow wonderful despite his parents
@lucianacarolina219710 ай бұрын
"Does it take ME? A frickin' DOG TRAINER??" art
@DaniS39810 ай бұрын
Poor Shaun. I couldn't imagine a child seeing that and of course he doesn't want to walk around the neighborhood. How did they not get that poor baby into counseling as soon as that happened.
@Jeng4280 Жыл бұрын
The thing is that dogs know whether or not you like them. And if you don't like them, then there's an issue.
@conniemorgan84027 ай бұрын
I’m a firm believer in harnesses. I’m 70 yrs old and have had 4 strokes and balance is an issue. I have a 107 lb German Shepard and a 65 lb husky. I have trained them to look out for me.. they walk at MY pace.. the German Shepard has had to come and pull me to my feet, when I’ve fallen. My dogs make it possible for me to live alone.. I feel totally safe with my girls. I take good care of them and they take good care of me.
@420alfonzo69 ай бұрын
The kid saying "brook is a menace to society" gets me.
@rosedewittbukater4203 Жыл бұрын
Victoria, you are First Class! I hope the family is helped now. Lots of love from Germany
@blackthornhealing5 ай бұрын
An abuser does not change. I’d leave with the children and dog. It takes an abuser two years to change according to abuser programs. And that is only if they want too. So it is unsuccessful. The guy lives on planet me.
@myungahong926511 ай бұрын
I am allergic to the sentence: "I have high standards."
@LawnOrnament11 ай бұрын
Especially when it comes out of an unhelpful man
@susanhawkes25198 ай бұрын
Made me retch a little bit.
@Mandaraminu8 ай бұрын
Would’ve replied ‘Mine should’ve been higher.”
@musiclover1345510 ай бұрын
i was so amused seeing the wife trying to hold back her smile when she said i would have you arrested. I love Victoria she is saving familys and lifes I was so happy when she said shed take him if he hurt a dog I would love to be her freind!
@sapphireblu76 Жыл бұрын
Ive seen this episode several times and i still feel the same; that 'dad' is a waste of oxygen.
@Sam-mh4mc11 ай бұрын
These dogs are such angels, I ended up realising that they didn't require correction of any kind, they didn't bark, they didn't nip, they didn't jump up on anyone, the leash pulling was easy to correct and one lil trick helped Princess come out of her shell, even in the beginning I saw how she kept wanting pets from her mum. They are such sweet angels, as far as I am concerned they are the ones who are keeping this family together - helping Sean and Kelly through their problems. Sean is really sweet and I am glad that he could talk to Victoria coz his dad is a mess and is emotionally unavailable and idk much about the mum, I am really glad he spoke that much to Victoria - traumatised teens usually just close down !
@isla757411 ай бұрын
Bro shawn seems like suchhhhhh a sweet kid I feel so bad for him and the dogs.
@judyives183211 ай бұрын
Horrible man who puts his own needs first over his family’s needs. Why even get married and have kids if you just want to focus on yourself?
@Seductive_Psycho11 ай бұрын
It makes me so sad when people fight about taking care of the dog... Poor dog doesn't have a choice... A dog is supposed to bring good things into your life... If you can't appreciate them then find somebody who can... This is such a chaotic environment for these poor dogs and these people seem to have no patience with them... And these kids are freaking nasty too... This family doesn't deserve a dog
@schrottvanda11 ай бұрын
There was a time when I wanted to be a dog trainer, but I changed my mind…because of humans. I dont want to manage mentally sick people like this guy.
@lnhoward58796 ай бұрын
Sean seems like the most sweet kid even after what hes been through. i hope hes okay now and doesn't have to think anything would happen like that again.
@saragalea913411 ай бұрын
they should rehome peter 😂
@judyives183211 ай бұрын
I loathe how people say “I don’t want to get RID OF the dogs”. As if they were garbage that can be discarded.
@Bebedollie4 ай бұрын
Hurting animals is a major red flag in any relationship
@madhatter728711 ай бұрын
I didn't know someone that looks like my toe could have high standards 😂
@imle9279 Жыл бұрын
awful awful parents, those poor kids omg even after Victoria left, they're still doing their usual "casual" hitting 39:53 just watch in the background
@laurenschenck5355 Жыл бұрын
It is everyone’s responsibility to take care of the dog and take stress of the wife and it is so important plus keep the dog on a schedule ❤
@jupiterzombies Жыл бұрын
the dogs are fine..... the only beast in the house is that man.
@iElepple11 ай бұрын
Why do people feel the obligation to have children if they don’t want to take care of them?
@Bonitaslifestyle6 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!! Same goes for their animals! Don't take on the responsibility of a living being if you are not going to care what happens!
@rhythmandblues_alibi4 ай бұрын
Amen 🙌
@mariecafe293411 ай бұрын
He has no business around dogs or kids
@Boo_0v011 ай бұрын
I love that Shaun was better than a lot of the dog owners that pull hard on their collar because he knew doing that would make it hard for the dog to breathe ((Edited for typo
@jennthya698210 ай бұрын
Honestly, Victoria is an amazing dog trainer. But even more so she is an amazing people trainer. She walked into a toxic house and helped them on the road to breaking the cycle of generational trauma. I truly think those kids are going to have a better life for having Victoria's influence for those few days.
@JEUndisputed Жыл бұрын
I cant believe Shauns parents were so oblivious to Shawn's trauma and that he had no help at all, dont they have CBT in America?
@Kiku91 Жыл бұрын
This is an old episode. Not sure that was even Available yet.
@alanj543811 ай бұрын
It's available but can be expensive especially for low income families like this one
@oscurasignora11 ай бұрын
What's CBT?
@SirPunkie11 ай бұрын
@@oscurasignoraI’m not sure. Cognitive behavioral therapy is the only thing I can think of with that acronym
@karenlloyd170511 ай бұрын
Cognitive behaviour therapy @@oscurasignora
@soniahannah82637 ай бұрын
Telling his son, "your weak," is sheer projection. He bullies people more vulnerable because it makes him feel powerful. He probably was bullied as a child and can't show authority in the workplace or to adults outside of his own home, His son is a lovely guy and is ten times the man his dad is... I cannot stand weak men who beat animals.
@stevesworld756010 ай бұрын
bro why does he look like peter griffin😂😂
@susanfaulkner23049 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@AnimeWolf56 Жыл бұрын
ah yes, my son wont walk the dog because of trauma, better get a dog trainer instead of a therapist!
@amayasasaki2848 Жыл бұрын
Why not both?
@preciousowusu3561 Жыл бұрын
@@amayasasaki2848why get a dog trainer if the dog isnt the problem?
@makaylarae1000 Жыл бұрын
@@preciousowusu3561 the dog still needs the training they aren't getting
@amyfu204711 ай бұрын
@@preciousowusu3561😂😂 did you see the chewed up furniture? How hard that dog pulled while being walked? How that dog never responded to commands initially?? They definitely needed a dog trainer.
@preciousowusu356111 ай бұрын
@@makaylarae1000 ahhh gotchu
@jesuisdanaa888 ай бұрын
Just seeing Kelly actually smile at the end was so sweet.
@NoThortsHedEmpty4 ай бұрын
Damn, Victoria is a dog trainer, therapist, marriage counsellor, family counsellor, teacher, AND a miracle all at once?
@Petrapossible791611 ай бұрын
Kein Hund ist böse aber der Mensch, dieser Mann ist das beste beispiel
@susanfaulkner23049 ай бұрын
Well put.
@winterlite32435 ай бұрын
Thanks! ⚡️Dear Victoria, thank you for everything you do for dogs and their owners. Your dedication and love for dogs is incredible. Your kindness and compassion for people is heartwarming and inspiring. I soo love how you went above and beyond for this family - And that HOME DEPOT stepped up to help out too!! 🤩👏🏼💖🙏🏽🐶
@alongcamekarma Жыл бұрын
This show makes me feel like a failure of a dog owner, while also making me feel like I'm the best dog momma in the world. ;.; I gotta go hug Wilfie.
@susanfaulkner23049 ай бұрын
❤
@jeronimofrost699011 ай бұрын
Pete is vile. Poor sean, that poor kid.
@gittenielsen9511 ай бұрын
Poor dogs. I'm glad the family gets help.
@jenc90863 ай бұрын
I just love seeing the transformation that these people go through, the journey is just beautiful. We are blessed to have the forgiveness of dogs, and the humility to admit and try to put right our mistakes takes courage and introspection. We are none of us perfect. I hope this family found lasting peace, they all deserve it ❤️🐕🦺🐾