Video Killed The Relationship: Teresa Harvey v Marvin Lockhard Pt 1

[@islandgirlruby2750]

No one falls in love faster than someone who needs somewhere to live

[@nix_myrnie_cello]

Preach!

[@cjohnson7004]

😊😊😊😊😊😊 hobo love

[@erinjohnson4273]

Facts.

[@sharondriastradford2907]

This screams Hobosexual !!

[@cn7andr]

Ahhhhhh…. The hobosexual 😔

[@ronnimartin7033]

She set herself up for this, unfortunately.

[@SassShea]

Invited a grown dependent into her home then act shocked 😮😮😮 when he behaves accordingly

[@kimaleycreese28]

Yes she did

[@virgochild4216]

​@@SassSheaIt's soooooo many of them 😮

[@virgochild4216]

OMG!!! WHERE HAS SHE BEEN😮

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

EXACTLY

[@Butterfly-cl6wb]

Wow.. she got her son paying rent while she's laying up with a dead beat... oh she's a sad individual...

[@gospel4303]

I searched for this comment before I posted!! He’s a user, I’m certain she never spoke with her son about moving in a total stranger. She’s desperate and he’s a loser!

[@VashtiPerry]

That’s insane

[@wordplay6665]

And he had the nerve to complain about the son!

[@naturallyflawed5472]

If I was the son I would’ve moved out so fast then see what he had to say

[@lavidaloca2344]

I have 2 daughters, we all work. The youngest is 17, a senior in high school SHE WORKS. As their mother, I can't fathom moving a man in that don't work 😳😳😳 WTF

[@rozzjack]

Ain’t nuthin worse than a dusty man and a desperate woman.

[@DJ-vj4vi]

The woman dusty too

[@janellerudloff5073]

Girl yessss!!!! They both ridiculous

[@Yeshuadaughter727]

True definition of double D's

[@NotYourTypicalNegro]

My god you just preached...

[@mariavargas7751]

😂😂 lol

[@trinawestcoast8719]

Really, “she never told me I had to pay rent”. REALLY!

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

So he thought he was just going to move in and that was it?? That he would have electricity, heat, gas, cable, etc provided to you free of charge?? You wouldn't have to pay for anything - she's got to TELL YOU that you needed to contribute to the bills?? Seriously??? He says he's "on a budget"!!! Then y'all need to get another job so you can contribute to the household bills boy!! Get your ungrateful, lazy butt up and take care of your house!!!

[@yemedemure414]

I had one of those many years ago! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😩

[@deja14]

But then have the audacity to say “let’s join forces on our bills in the beginning. Lying 🗑️

[@lindacowan3962]

Ahhh run run hun run

[@lindacowan3962]

I can't stand a freeloader. Theresa you know what you have to do hun. Pay for a weekly massage and a trip to the toy store.

[@minae9935]

He’s complaining about the son living there but the son is helping to keep a roof over his head. No way a man is moving into my home and not paying any bills

[@erinjohnson4273]

I'm with you on that! been there and done that

[@1111_Millionaire]

He want the son to leave so he can control the mother more

[@2tactbrilliant51]

He is looking for someone to house him FOR FREE while he saves him money. Woman you better send him packing

[@KayloveGreen]

She's at an age where she shouldn't still be making these silly mistakes. Desperation smh

[@vanessakenney3144]

Right, she's putting all of this energy into a man she only knew for what a week or two before she moved him in? Now she's on Divorce court acting like she wants some answers as to why he's disrespecting her. I would have checked out long time ago and I wouldn't have brought that mess to Divorce Court

[@jacquelynn2051]

Exactly. I figured out the players in my mid 20’s and wished I had figured it out sooner! I went full speed ahead by age 40 became selfish, self contained, not needy and unapologetic knowing who I am. I hope she realizes her worth AND get her eyes checked because where was any PLEASURE while she was with this fool? I could NEVER!

[@charleslee1644]

SHE BROUGHT THIS ON HERSELF

[@charleslee1644]

@@vanessakenney3144 THEY NOT EVEN MARRIED AND ON DIVORCE COURT

[@healthyliving9231]

Have women today lost their minds? Are you crazy lady? One week and he's in your house? You have lost your mind my sister.

[@virgochild4216]

😮

[@veevee4461]

And sleeping in her bed. Nope, nope and nope

[@kimaleycreese28]

She was so hard up for a man that she chose anything. Bad choices equal bad outcomes. I hope she looks back at this and see how desperate she look.

[@cookeeboucher3584]

Exactly...

[@aprilshelika]

yep, he's a bum and she's blind to it

[@mariacollinsthomas8706]

He doesn’t want to pay rent but wants the person helping pay the rent out. 😮

[@sereneamani1713]

Imagine that?

[@kimmy-anndumas7586]

The audacity eh smh

[@zara198522]

The mindset of people who refuse to think they should pay towards rent or at least contribute towards a bill, food etc is mind-boggling. Even if you're staying with a family member or friend, if you're grown and able; pick up the slack.

[@cherylwest-boyd9356]

Thank you.

[@Sabrewood13]

It’s amazing to see a dusty in real time. A grown man who charmed an annoyingly desperate woman with talks about combining forces but then thinks he needs a prompt to pay bills as if they don’t come monthly, who then thinks as long as he slang peen every once in a while it should be enough intimacy for her but then tried to scapegoat her son as the real reason he’s not into her meanwhile he wouldn’t be able to eat without said sons contribution

[@brittanyhawkins960]

U just said a word. Amen

[@nix_myrnie_cello]

Preach!

[@cadillacdeville5828]

💯💯💯

[@meghanwilliams4295]

Annoyingly desperate...Jesus. Smh......😮

[@mogsonmushrooms]

He is a narcissist and she is codependent.

[@B.Melanin]

Wow. Just wow! This is a perfect example of what not to do 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@SassShea]

Poor David Mann got some damn nerve. You living for free but want one of the rent paying adults to leave?

[@CiCiRenaeMusic]

Not Mr. Brown 😂😂😂

[@nondo2.045]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@LoveAngel333]

He said I’m in a meeting tryna get money for us. But he not paying any bills 🤔😳

[@bigsweet03]

This woman is trying her best not to take accountability for anything. Everytime the judge asks why she did this or why she didn't do that, she gets stuck and then tries to move on to the next subject. I understand not wanting to be lonely, but when someone doesn't meet your basic standards, like paying a bill, you need to move on to the next or just be by yourself.

[@janiceparkerson4727]

You pay where you lay. That's common sense.

[@larosa5891]

Baby girl, he’s PLAYIN you. Run for the hills and never look back! 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️

[@mlm1916]

She doesn't need to run, that's her crib. She needs to put him out. ... But I do understand what you mean.

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

I love when I see “Part 1”, that’s when you know it’s gonna be good! 😂😎👌🏽

[@SheniceSays214]

Ain’t that the truth ‼️‼️‼️😊

[@Jedi_Jonson]

I can see why she's single with a mindset like that. Letting a dude move in within one week of knowing him is VERY telling.

[@gabriellesmith-perry3465]

She's a damn mess. Then it's mine, mine, mine.

[@arayaklove]

It’s sad her son has to see her choose this type of man and then move his bum in with them. She can’t be this blind and desperate ugh.

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

That lazy jerk just said "It's either going to be me and her or her and her son!" Bye - don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out!! Don't go away mad - just GO AWAY!! Her son is ALWAYS going to be a part of her life - you are not!! See ya!!! 👋

[@dnyce8224]

Her son is in a position to see a lot more since he lives with his mother.

[@cjohnson7004]

It's all bad from all sides, she desperate and he a bum 🤡

[@janayh2817]

She never told me she needed me to pay the rent! I’m sorry, WHAT??? I had to move in with my Grandma at one point. We didn’t HAVE TO discuss it. I needed to contribute to bills and groceries. That’s it, that’s all. And so I did because Janice would have bust my head to the white meat. I wasn’t about to, as she says, “eat up my groceries and suck up my air conditioning.” He DUSTY AF!!!

[@janayh2817]

The man was raised wrong!!! I knew off rip I couldn’t play with Janice that way!!! Luh you Grandma 💜

[@Donmecca415]

Both of them are sad. For Him: you are to damn old to not have your own ish together. No man should move into a woman house. For Her: he smelled the desperation. You go out a few times & let a man you don’t know move in with you and your son!

[@tyraw1005]

I was sick to my stomach this whole episode. I just don’t understand how people freeload so nonchalantly…so sad

[@winniewera2510]

IKR…..

[@charleslee1644]

DID HE REALLY SAY SHE DID NOT SAY HE HAD TO PAY BILLS SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE TO YOU KNOW YOU HAVE TO PAY THIS GUY NOT MAN IS SICKENING

[@yennegob.0401]

So I’m guessing when he told her he was in between places to live, she did not bother to ask why, she just moved this stray dog right on in🤦🏾‍♀️.. He’s dusty and she’s desperate🤷🏾‍♀️

[@mlm1916]

Dusty A N D Dusty-looking‼️ 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@rodokorley9456]

same i just said!! Did she ask why he was in her building's laundry room yet he was "between places" I mean come on 40 year old sis. Pipelaying must have been serious over th top or seriously overdue, perhaps both!

[@wordplay6665]

Lmao he was not in between he didn’t want to pay bills nowhere!

[@gailsmith836]

Probably living in his car.

[@agathangenzirabona8339]

My brother did this to a woman for 10years. It’s really sad to see the woman struggling emotionally

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

WHY DOES SHE HAVE TO ASK? I'M CONFUSED…

[@carriepriegel6477]

He's a huge waste of time. She wants a 5 star meal at a dynamic French restaurant. He BARELY gives her crumbs off his shoes 🤦

[@SabrinaLink8888]

She was extremely desperate. Wow moving someone in in one week rediculous

[@DVWMT96]

This relationship feels like she’s buying love and he’s accepting payment! She did not and do not know him.

[@Laleece]

She doesn’t know if he’s a serial killer. She and her son could have lost their lives. SMH 🤦‍♀️

[@lakeofalltrades]

Why is she this desperate 🤔

[@ElaineLoyd]

He moves in and don't pay and wants her son to move out.

[@mlm1916]

. . . the son who's paying, no less‼️

[@sexymama1966]

He was looking for a place to stay.. Please wake me when this is over.

[@ShawnteAmoure]

@ 1:51 Did she start the sentence off with "My boyfriend?" But this is divorce court, right?!?!? Okay delusional 🙄

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

My thing is HOW IN THE HELL do you move with a person and not expect to pay ANYTHING??? No he knew she was desperate to have a MAN!! Ain’t no way sis we definitely need to do better 🤬

[@cherylwest-boyd9356]

Just carry that man back in the laundry room with his dirty clothes and return to your apartment alone........😎

[@rodokorley9456]

he might not have even had no clothes lurking in the laundry room of somewhere he likely didnt stay, between places, etc!!!!!

[@cherylwest-boyd9356]

@@rodokorley9456 Exactly, Dah !!

[@wyvonne1996]

OBVIOUS red flags🚩🚩 1) He started talking about moving in right after yall met baby he's a hobosexual. 2) He started asking about your son moving out even though your son pays the bill and he pays nada. 3) He moved into you and your son's house but calls you clingy and says your son is invading yalls privacy. 4) He never answered what kind of job he has sounds unemployed to me. 5) Says yall never talked about him paying bills as if he is 44 years old. That's financial abuse. 6) He's got time to be controlling but no time to be contributing to the household. Your son does not need to move out this Child does. If your son moved out I strongly believe this boy would try to abuse you physically. Did I miss anything?

[@symfonidezuan]

The fact that they even brought this petty mess to this show is ridiculous. He moved in with her because he realized he met someone desperate enough to let him move in within a week or two. This is a relationship out of convenience for him. That’s why there is no real intimacy. Sex is sex. She’s too grown to still be mistaking that for love. He won’t even hug and kiss her. Like what?!! That man didn’t even take the time to learn her sons bday and she still allows him to remain there. Her and her son are paying rent while a 44 year old man gets to do whatever with his money?! I cannot. She taught that man how to treat her and this is what it has come to. She did this to herself 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Greatness_876]

He is either saving to sort himself out or he is waiting to find another desperate woman to take him in … a joke of a man … this lady is embarrassing

[@michelleroyall351]

I really dont feel sorry for her. SHE'S the author of her own heartache.

[@NikkiRen]

He saw a desperate woman and took advantage. She didn’t ask those questions because she wanted him to stay and she just HOPED that he would do the right thing. I know her son had to be ILL!!! If I’m the son paying rent for a grown man to live free, I’d be out. Mama got this 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@MsBizzyRae]

Sad but true!

[@cn7andr]

Real spill!!! And I’m a chick with two sons. Get me together kids if I ever lose my mind like this. Ain’t no way!

[@briteinwilson8148]

Sir her son lives with u, but the fact is . He is paying rent& u are not! Ma'am he is homeless. .

[@ichoosemeblessed6135]

This young man 🙄 felt as though he didn’t have to pay rent….WHAT ? 🤣

[@myopinion214]

Woman put the broke man out of your place!!

[@HadiyaNuriddin]

We need a better criteria on what deserves a two-part episode. They used to be so rare that I was like, "Ooooo, chile. This is gonna be good." And it was. Shocking testimony. Drama. Intrigue. All of it! Now, it's the same lies from episode one. Guess what? If he wasn't sh*t in part one, he ain't sh*t in part two. Maybe that's the lesson. Ladies, stop letting these men make a two part of episode when one episode told you all you needed to know! LOL!

[@helenburke3499]

He sounds like my ex...he is using her for his own needs...to fill in the spaces...and fill in the dots...nothing else...the words: 'FREE LOADER' come to mind...that is why I am single now... watching from the south east of England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@alkalinelifestyle638]

If a man says he’s in between places to live. Tell him he’s grown enough to decide which location he wants to make permanent

[@ayefo7800]

They're both nutty. Sums up this entire relationship.

[@viviancoleman8109]

Happy to Be Single💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

[@lindacowan3962]

Being single gets hard sometimes but no thank you to the Drama

[@TwiceSmittenOnceShy]

Cases like this really grind my gears.. Have some self-respect and expect more.. Lady literally set herself up to be disrespected..

[@brendalenoir2840]

And a sex tape smh!!!

[@mariannehappiness2227]

He was only interested in having a place to live for free.😅he does not love or care for her!!this was her worst decision to move a stranger in her personal life!!!she has a very respectful and loving and caring son.!!!

[@dailyvitamindee1932]

The more i keep watching the more i see how this man is using u boo

[@jeanp1323]

Every time judge asked him a question he answered with : "she did this or SHE didn't tell me that" we're talking about you, Sir, stay focus #accountability

[@angelamarshall3807]

Not even 5 minutes in and they are giving me a headache! Sir-don’t blame it on the son🙄

[@ELLIEOwO-o7d]

How you pay for everything but when you need money from him its I only got 30 dollars? Huh you been pocketing your whole pay check all that time. If your not putting in the house hold where could it be going????! 😂

[@shaunlewis8484]

He’s a sorry excuse for a man…she should have left him in the laundry room where she found him

[@sanfrocisco]

Drop him, Teresa. He does not respect you now or ever.

[@loracro4284]

Ohhhhh my god. My favorite part is when this “unhoused” said he wasn’t told he’d have to pay rent or bills.

[@kareenwatson6084]

I blame the lady for not having those discussions to lay a solid foundation.

[@nikkif9873]

I know he didn’t let clingy leave his mouth 😂

[@lisasanders9999]

She clearly found herself a boy and moved him in. A mess.

[@tyronshippy5207]

Guess it's not enough married couples in the world to have an actual show about divorce from an actual marriage smfh

[@keishasmith379]

It really wasn't that he charmed her like she said. It's about wanting to be with someone so bad that u let them in too soon and now ur mad about who they already are but u didn't know them long enough to find out. A grown adult does not need to be told to pay a bill. It's common sense to know u need to pay bills. He doesn't want to because she lets him.

[@rbraxton00]

I heard “no one falls in love faster than a man who needs a place to stay!” That’s definitely not about to work for me at all.

[@lotusgsxr750]

Hes pointless... imma gonna need her to go build some self esteem and practice self love until its a default!

[@barbiebarbie8849]

he using her sugar mama 🚩☠️😭

[@rodokorley9456]

she aint even sugar mama... she is clueless Splenda Sistah

[@NADYFIT]

Not him asking her to pick him over her son and he can barely provide, this man is delusional 😂😂😂

[@jo-annbastings]

Can we all say DESPERATE?!? It’s pathetic to see a woman, with supposedly experience, fall that fast and that hard for somebody she hardly knows. That woman was played like a fiddle and was too desperate to acknowledge any red flags in front of her.

[@cherylwest-boyd9356]

He's in a meeting, where's the money

[@valenciaburnette3949]

Wtf......this is ridiculous....geez

[@BrittnePtheBestGirl]

And if the son in there paying rent. He needs to be knocking headboards against the wall. 😂

[@LeshaFBaby]

He is just not into her..if youre so uncomfortable with the son being there its ways around it..cut on some 🎶 and knock her fro back..as far as bills go they should have discussed that before he moved in...met at the laundromat and got desperate off a hello

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

Why is he even there? You can't help her with the bills? He is the worst? I can't

[@rodokorley9456]

the bigger question is beyond sex which apparently quickly got him in door and she now complains that's all he wants, is WHY is SHE having him remain there

[@justlola11]

When a man or woman is easily irritated with you, sorry, there's someone else in the picture.

[@ladybug0908]

The mother should be ashamed having her son man up and allowing this bum to move in at her son expense. She so sad and desperate, she setting a horrible example.

[@t.c.5456]

I am embarrassed for them😂

[@MishasMama]

How does someone have to give you notice for bills? Bills are due every month. He's a user and a liar. And then talking to her like a dog? That's a no 👎🏾

[@sierra6467]

No way in hell is a man moving in MY house and is gonna try to tell me what to do. AND not help with the bills. The audacity!!!

[@maysuabdullah]

This hilarious to watch, its me Teresa Harvey😂 This is not all facts😅 Dont believe everything you see on tv. It was a fun experience, shout out to divorce court for having us, and shout out to star jones for helping me see the light, yall will be glad to know that i kicked his ass to the curb🎉 Im happily married with the love of my life who treats me like a queen❤

[@thisismyinferno]

This lady could have been murdered. Thats so scary

[@veevee4461]

She could have found out all she's complaining about, if she had taken the time to get to know him.

[@Fleefromsin]

Romans 8:6 The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the spirit is life and peace.

[@alsherrod1]

I really enjoy the 2 part shows 🎉

[@BibleTellTale]

I feel u on that

[@juanmanteca1527]

I wish they upload more of the second parts of episodes. It’s nice seeing the outcome

[@skb2108]

The plaintiff looks like she’s 60.

[@LeshaFBaby]

60 is a blesssing

[@toyunpredictablegemini]

That's how you know a woman is desperate for a man when she doesn't even know him & let him move in within a week 🤨 weird 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Cartersjourney15]

He’s not even cute to be this silly 😑🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ he thought he found a fool smh

[@nakitanewsome2924]

I’m a woman and I’ve been in relationships in which men have tried to do dum things to me as well. But at some point I had to stop blaming them and take responsibility for ALLOWING that person to treat me the way I didn’t appreciate. A lack of communication on the needs you expect and the desperation of needing to be loved by anyone for that matter is causing her difficulties in this relationship that is Not meant to be!!! She need to make better/different decisions and get rid of him. Last he wants her son out so he can dog her more in peace!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️👊🏽

[@highlander666]

No one is "charming" enough to allow them to move in that fast; sounds like she should've left the stray where she found it. #saynotobumsponsorship

[@karenjones7794]

Why should you get rid of her son who pays the rent keep you there and you don't know that make it make sense that sounds stupid to me

[@7Diva504]

I was thrown off once I realized he is older than she is. I really initially thought she was an older woman with a younger man until I watched it again and to read their name age profile in the beginning

[@reddqueen9722]

Wow she could not be this desperate that was a foolish dangerous choice to make.

[@aprilwashington4966]

I went to school with Mr Lockhart (Marvin) LOL this is HILARIOUS to me.

[@CJ-jx1xw]

Her son does not live with you BOTH. Her son lives with HER.

[@LadyNStreet]

He's so quick to say, "I live there," but won't dig down in his pockets to help pay bills. He's pitiful

[@ShavontaJones]

He was not looking for love or relationship, he was looking for a place to stay and she fell for it

[@patrickmiller1834]

Can’t wait to see part two. But thus far she needs to run

[@ManiAnger]

Absolutely NOT, I’m 3:36 in and I refuse to watch this lady. Ladies love yourselves!

[@jocelyngardner5711]

The only thing they had in common was her home. Just look at him!!!!!!! GRosS! 🙈 She need to have a FEMALE therapist on speed dial.

[@bernardtalbert6729]

Women keep proclaiming "they don't need a man" but then turn around and move some dusty dude in they just met in the laundry room? Make it make sense?