Videolog 214. Venting thoughts

[@madeline_alice]

sorry that family is giving you problems. it’s a source of conflict and stress for me too, especially at this time of year. ❤

[@LionelM-i2f]

Sounds like normal family drama, live your life Emil, you are talking things through with your friends and on here, a sounding board to get it out get it gone - that's half the battle right there, take it from an old guy, you are doing it right sweet heart 🙂♥️🌼💜✌️👍

[@BubbleLandia]

It's very illogical for her to say "you don't know" when she can't give an example of what other treatment could be tried. When Ginseng is one of the best things I can recommend, this isn't a well understood illness! :p I think she has an issue with boundaries in general and you are someone she perceives is ok to press boundaries with. Personally, I don't see any positive impact of pressing against that behavior, as it will likely create tension between you and your brother. I feel like ignoring her in general and just showing you don't care will shatter the facade and she will move onto some other way of trying to feel "of value" within your family, hopefully a more constructive way.

[@ImjustaTboy]

@@BubbleLandia Exactly!! I feel like she thinks its totally ok to stomp on me whenever she wants. Maybe i give out that energy, who knows! YES very great tip!! Im gonna try to just ignore her remarks from now on, or just be more firm in the way i talk and adress things. Not making any room for arguements

[@Pedigru]

I'm sorry, did you say you worry about your 11 month old nephew growing up and judging you? So like...in 16ish years? That's a bit far of a future to be worrying about it now. 😂 I'm fairly confident that many many things will have happened between now and then. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.

[@Pedigru]

I dislike the sister in law. People like that genuinely bother me. It's YOUR body! Surely you are doing everything in your power to help yourself feel better and be better. Because...duh...of course you would! Millions of people have IBS. It's a thing!

[@ImjustaTboy]

@@Pedigru HAHA im dying 😂😂😂🤣 I was so caught up in the moment ok?! 😂 ever since they announced that they were pregnant with my nephew, i’ve been nervous of me and the baby’s upcoming relation to each other…maybe i need to sit tf back down a bit 😅😂 waaaah thank you so muh

[@ImjustaTboy]

@@Pedigru and yes, exactly! She really grinded my gears when she said that but i figured it wasnt any use to argue further about it. Feels like she’s already set on me being a sucker. Oh well 🤪😤