Vim Kuv Tus Ex Husband Yog Meskas Dub~01/14/2025~

[@maitvang1]

My ex is black too we had a baby together. I went thru hell for him I got alot of crap from my family and his. But he kept cheating on me so we broke up after 9 years together. I was single for 3 years I was talking to some hmong guy and I tell them about my life to make sure they can accept my pass if they cant than i dont want to waste our time talking. until I met my husband he's hmong. You just need to find the right person that respect your past and accept you for who you are. There still nice respectful hmong guy out there.

[@Justin-q4w6d]

Why you decided to come back to Hmong ? Isn’t bigger better 😂😂😂😂..it won’t be satisfying no more right 😂😂😂

[@bearbear2196]

@@Justin-q4w6d even Asians have different sizes. 🤷🏻‍♀️ if you’re small, you’re small. Who’s to say the one before you wasn’t a big one? If a girl loves you, no matter how big or small the past ones are, YOU are the best. 😂

[@maitvang1]

Because I'm still a shaman and is not that bigger is better it's about loyalty and faithfulness, and the right person even some hmong guy are disrespectful like u. And you must be small that's why you are worry.

[@Justin-q4w6d]

@@maitvang1haha lol not worried at all ..want to come try me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Justin-q4w6d]

@@maitvang1I have a question tho..since you been married to a kaydoo..when you fart does all hell comes out hahahahahahahaahhahaaha

[@hmongsiabzoo]

It’s a preference darling, you can’t blame him for his preferences. He was straight forward and didn’t string you along. You weren’t honest and straightforward with him in the beginning. There are a lot of men out there who don’t care who you were with previously. You just haven’t found the right one. Start your new relationship with honesty and straightforwardness to avoid any misconceptions. Love comes in all colors, shape and form. Good luck!

[@cal3243]

So many rude comments. She is telling her story because she learned something. Regardless of what the race is Hmong men never treat their wife with respect only newer generations does sadly it happen to her but she will find the right one when the time is right whether it’s a different race or Hmong if they truly accept you and love you then it is true love. As far as in law it depends on your husband if he truly love you or his family but never tell someone to stop going to their family it’s better to just tell them only “you go since your family” we don’t have good open doors to each other.

[@KathyLee-p8i]

@@cal3243 u right...when u say regardless of what race is Hmong men never treat their wife with respect only n newer generations does...I totally agree with u...I do see that too..true...about Hmong men..mistreat n no respect their gf or wife at all..it sadly

[@mileslee6426]

@@cal3243 yes our ego are too big lol plus I rather not drive a broken down use car lol

[@mileslee6426]

@@KathyLee-p8i broken down use car.. I’ll pass lol

[@ChewyVangPYSH]

So how does marrying different race worked out for her and most Hmong women??? People like you already judge all Hmong men so you’re no different and as disgusting

[@yinglor8962]

Koj swb lawm os tus muam aw..koj tus hluas nraug coj tau nqaim zog lawm xwb..tab sis koj twb rov mus tham mev ces txhais tau hais tias koj yeej nyiam yam khoom loj es yus tsis txhob dag yus mus ntxiv lawm os..hmoob los tus tseem xav ua neej yeej muaj kawg os

[@nkauj00j]

Honestly, this lady just makes poor decisions, who gives up their kids! Don't hide your past, especially when you have two beautiful black children that you were trying to hide!!! This has nothing to do with hmong men!

[@Iriyatl09]

Totally agree!

[@MissPeachie]

She dated one Hmong man and generalized them all. I wonder if she generalizes black men too.

[@ms.mainou]

Dear sister, not all Hmong men think the same. The guy that you met is not the right one for you. Good thing he is out of your life. He only care about your beauty. Always know your self worth and pick someone who truly loves you. May God bless you 🙏

[@Iriyatl09]

This lady already hide her kids and their race and from the beginning!! Sounds like she was ashamed of her kids. Her kids should come first and it doesn’t matter what race and color they are. For her to hide that they aren’t Hmong from the Hmong boyfriend, she should be ashamed of herself. Such a bad mom! I don’t blame the boyfriend for being surprised.

[@tylerhang1838]

If you love your ex like you said how come you left him? It doesn’t make sense. Once you go black you can’t go back. Honestly, you have made up your color from the beginning.

[@LaBelle22]

I just feel so bad for the innocent kids. They didn’t ask to be born to be treated like that. They just experienced first hand racism at such a young age and they didn’t even have a clue what’s going on. I hope you always put your kids first when it comes to dating. Good luck to you.❤❤

[@MissPeachie]

What’s sadder is that she’s ashamed of them.

[@LifeOfTheYangs]

Sorry to disappoint you but what that Hmong guy did and said to you, he was 💯 right and he was very honest. At least he didn’t use and lead you on. If I was him i would’ve done the same. Also, even you yourself knew you didn’t want to have your two son around you so people won’t know right away… even you were ashamed of it so what is so wrong about what the Hmong guy did to you? You need to go love your two son before they don’t care about you in the future. Dont worry about dating other race or chasing love…

[@helloemvee5877]

Don’t abandon their children for a man. Be more present in their lives please lady

[@TusNxthaisHmoob]

I agree with Kablia Niam Neej Vam. You should've been honest and upfront. If someone love you, they will look pass it, Hmong or not. You need to not be ashamed of your past and embrace your children above all things because that was the road that you picked and already walked it. Not all hmong men are the same. I am a hmong female and I am not even married to a hmong man. My husband is meska dawb and he loves me and my son dearly. I have a son from a previous relationship with another meska dawb guy, he was my high school sweet heart. Point is, all men are different. If that mev guy don't workout, come join my club. Whatever makes you happy.

[@bosslady8498]

I know many Hmong women married to kaydu and come back single mothers! 😅

[@PhoHmooAmerica]

Ain’t that the culture

[@maiyouavue5928]

Also know of many that married Hmong men and come back single. Or end up having a mistresses.

[@Huabtaisdav1972]

Once you put desal

[@Huabtaisdav1972]

Return Of The Broken Hole that I know more then a Dozen.

[@bosslady8498]

@@maiyouavue5928 sorry to say, but majority women married kaydu don’t work out or last. Maybe 10 percent out of 100 . Hmong married Hmong, 80% Hmong couple still together and last. 15% percent divorce hmong are from MN because they high clace in that state . Haha

[@Faifferz]

Parents should teach children to find a partner who has love and respect for anyone. There is no such thing as GOOD race or BAD race, just GOOD people or BAD people. Regardless of who you date or marry, there will be people who prove you right or prove you wrong.

[@jasmineflower7115]

What an insecure man 😂 he knows he can’t measure to your ex so he rather dump you to save his ego only.

[@slaiyaj1147]

Kuv los ib yam yog mus yuav lwm haiv neeg lawm ces. Tseev zoo nkauj kuv yeej tsis yuav lawm thiab

[@chengsAdventure2331]

Dub ces tsuas dag nej cov ntxhais mhoob coj mus tsuav ntsuag yav thaum hluas xwb os nkauj mhoob aw. Lawv yeej tsis yuav nej txog hnub kawg os

[@nancymoua4982]

Ho yaus cas koj nim hais cuag... li hmoob tsi muaj poj rauj, yawg rauj , poj tso yawg tso li nas. Tsi matter li os, ib haiv neeg yeej muaj cov phem cov zoo ib yam nkaug li os. Nyob ntawm koj xaiv tau tus zoo tus phem xwb.

[@kiannalyyong9507]

Yog mus yuav lwm haiv neeg lawm ces txhob rov qab los yuav hmoob nawb mog....kuv agree.

[@christophermanners6390]

When you are used to driving a semi truck and now you want to drive a Corolla? Ain’t gonna happen. Got it?

[@MissPeachie]

@@christophermanners6390 but we all want to drive all kinds of cars 😜

[@AneeN1995]

Not all but most older (40+) hmong men feel that way towards hmong women who married other races especially kaydoo. It’s sad but true.

[@thatasainboy1346]

Tus phooj ywg siab zoo heev li

[@keolor9333]

I agree with what your ex husband said! You should not of move far from your kids! You’re still responsible for them! You’re their mom still no matter the situation!

[@YiskahYaj]

Number one rule: BE HONEST & BE YOURSELF. Don't be a fake and be genuine in all ways.

[@wizardga]

Once u go black, u end up being a single mother...lmao

[@PhoHmooAmerica]

It’s funny because it’s TRUE to the next galaxy and back to Earth 😊

[@tylerhang1838]

yeap! Life is all about making that executive decision. She didn't listen to her parents so be it. So, better off stick with other colors or else will not last long either. Her own kind is not worth to her from the start that's why she went outside. People can learn a lot from watching The Animal Kingdom such as one kind can't survive with other kind.

[@pangyang7551]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@krisloveseat]

you were wrong for hiding your past. if someone really loves you, they will accept you and your past, but that doesn't mean you hide from that person.

[@LinaLina-gv3hs]

You said it yourself “love has no colors “ but when you decided to leave your kids, you said they look more like your husband versus you. You went against your own words. People make bad decisions and they eventually learn from it. Whatever you are going through, I wish the best for you.

[@vaahyaah9160]

Don’t hate your parents. They just want the best for you. You are smart. Do your research among black and white divorce rates. I’m not being racists, just the truth. Hmong people are heading that way too because we are adopting the American culture. I have kids that are dating other races too. I let them know how I feel. I disagree but I respect their decision. At least I told them. If it fell as I said. I can say I TOLD SO. 😂

[@northshorelight35]

We have to live with the decisions we made. Not everyone will accept and they are entitled to feel that way. Move on.

[@leejmuam1]

I had a kaydoo classmate, she has 6 half siblings, same father different women. All those women are single mom. That's the kaydoo life. 😂 I hope you learned your lesson and txhob ua ntxhais siab twm xeeb lawm.

[@huashi06]

Sister, to tell you the truth, majority of Hmoob men will not marry Hmoob women that are married outside the Hmoob race but Hmoob women will marry Hmoob men that married outside the Hmoob race! Btw, your ex-husband sounded like a good man but it was your fault for not getting along with his family just because they called you shorty which that’s normal for kaydub!

[@SheEye9111]

There are two kind of kaydo, the ghetto in da hood and those respectable well manner kaydo. Listening to this story it seems like she married to those ghetto kaydo.

[@MissPeachie]

😂😊

[@LinaLina-gv3hs]

It’s your fault you didn’t disclose this information to your boyfriend. You should never lied from the beginning

[@lindayaj1333]

The fact that you moved to a different state and your children and ex didn’t know already tells me who you are as a person. Your ex don’t need to know BUT you have children together so yea he should’ve known for their sake.

[@hlubyang4072]

Koj yuam kev loj....qhia kiag koj lub neej tu neeg hlub koj tiag koj thiaj li paub....yog koj zais npog thaum kawg ces tau kev mob siab

[@blueberrysmilie1]

Those are men who are insecure. Find someone who is confident and they wont care who you have been with.

[@Hmooblubneej-y7j]

This is an example of a selfish person. Why did you ask Mab Vaj if your situation is fair, ncaj ncees? Before you asked that question, you should ask your parents first it was fair for them that you dishonored and disobeyed them. They warned you but you ignored their advices. They now have 2 grandchildren who father does not want to have the children seeing them. They have a daughter who life is ruined and now cannot find a good Hmong husband, instead marrying another race, mexican, again. Secondly, was it fair the Hmong boyfriend that you intentionally lied to him about your ex black husband. You wasted his precious time with you, you played game with his emotion, and you were hoping that he would be so in love with you in times so that he would not be hurted by your lies. Even your roommate advised that you should tell him about your black children, but you lied again to him. You shocked him and disappointed him. Do you know that you hurt him? So what if fairness? To you fairness is just on your side. You don't care about fairness to other people. Here, you make a general claim that all Hmong men are alike, this is not fair for us Hmong men. I think you were spoiled from the beginning in high school for not taking any advices from your own family, so now you continue to be selfish on fairness.

[@leejmuam1]

💯

[@TubLaibVaj]

Yes, she made some poor choices I disagree with what you said about dishonoring and obeying her parents. We live in the US now not 1975. No need for parents or anyone to decide who or what race anyone marries. It just sucks her life turned bad with a black husband but even with a Hmong husband you think it’ll guarantee a happy and lasting marriage? Doubt it. Love is color blind but cheaters will be cheaters regardless of race. Some Hmong men are just too insecure and this is coming from a Hmong man.

[@dhuavneegphem2795]

Sister aws, is not that he is not respect you. At least He is telling you the truth and not wasting your time with him.

[@mosvaj1385]

Leej twg tsis paub tias dub heev ces kav tsij mus sim nawb. Ua hauj lwm nrog dub xwb txaus lawm, tsis tas yuav mus yuav es mus nrog nyob. Lawv mas heev ov. Co-worker, phooj ywg los thaum hais tsis sib haum ces heev tshaj plaws li nawb.

[@mayyang4423]

My husband and I been together for 15 years. He is white and we have a beautiful son who is 12 years old. At first my family didn’t really me married him because were still traditional and I’m the only one married to a white husband. But when I got pregnant with our son, my parents seem a lot more caring for my husband. When I had our son, my mom cook chicken and rice for me everyday. I didn’t really have to explain to my husband and his families. They’re very understanding other cultures. My husband would eat chicken and rice with me just 2 days and he wouldn’t no more but I ate chicken and other Hmong foods. My husband and his families are very understanding, loving and respect!!! As years go by, our son loves both families and culture because we taught me that I’m Hmong and his daddy is white so he’s mix. My son knows a little Hmong but he loves Hmong foods and pizzas😂. I’m just so lucky because now my families accept my husband and his families. Nowadays, my mom call me, she always ask how my husband and my son.

[@m.muaslis6902]

I think it is crucial to know your self worth and have confidence regardless whom you have married. Once you know your self worth and have that confidence, you will look back to this story with a different view. Good luck to you.

[@KevinVan-Kresnik]

Mab your advice is 100%. You can't control people's opinion, and she should have been honest to begin with.

[@cmxiong8989]

Both of my niece married black American and another married a white man, too. Both married got abused and cheated by their ex-husband. They got divorced and found a hmong man love her unconditional 💕 ❤️. You just haven't found the right one. Not all hmong men think the same.

[@ChewyVangPYSH]

@@cmxiong8989 a lot of Hmong women will hate you for this exposure

[@MsPangY]

Even I am with a Hmong man, it's still hard to find anyone GOOD and I am staying single now but it doesn'tt matter what if its PURPLE, BLACK, WHITE, ORANGE, BLUE, GREEN or GRAY, nobody still wants someone who is with a HMONG GUY... these men don't know it's not the color, it's the heart... My parent's don't care but I wish I married another race years ago, he was so into me and I still wonder "WHAT IF.. he was white mixed Korean... saw him one last time when I was married... sigh!!

[@houayang7219]

Man so many haters in here be nice and respectful ppls

[@warlordswarriors4613]

Qhov peb cov txiv neej hmoob feem coob peb tsis kas yuav nej cov poj niam hmoob uas mus yuav lwm haiv neeg lawm no mas tsis yog txiv neej hmoob siab me los yog peb qias nej saum txaj saum chaw os. Vim peb txiv neej hmoob feem coob peb tseem ua neeg nrog kwv nrog tij nrog neej nrog tsav nrog teb nrog chaw ces peb tsis xav kom luag kev neej kev tsav taw tes thiab taw ncauj lub koob npe tsis zoo rau peb os. Yog hnub twg peb txiv neej hmoob ua neej kaw rooj nti nyias nyob nyias vaj nyias tsev lawm xwb ces hnub ntawv teb zaum txiv neej hmoob yuav rov qab yuav tau nej cov poj niam ua mus yuav lwm haiv neeg os.

[@PUREMEATPURSUIT]

Koj hais yog kawg.

[@MissPeachie]

Sadly, you are right

[@seerenadee]

Girl….people will judge no matter what. It’s life and life goes on. You’re beautiful and kind. Someone will be so lucky to have you.

[@MTlee-zr4oh]

Cas TxivNeej Hmoob xuv siab txog pojniam hmoob yuav & nrog dub abtsi na..?

[@sandyvangyang110]

I agree with Mab, if he truly loves you he wouldn't have made it a big deal. Leave the children out, they are innocent. Good story!

[@mileslee6426]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 like the Hmong guy said.. she’ll never be full eating shrimp instead of lobster lol

[@sandyvangyang110]

@@mileslee6426 those are his insecurities. I respect that, lol. Size doesn't matter to some women.:)

[@mileslee6426]

@ some.. like 5% .. like the Hmong guy said.. she will not be full lol

[@krissiekhang0218]

You don’t need a prejudice dude like him. Don’t be sad, you will find better man.

[@Justin-q4w6d]

Well of course your 2 kids are naughty..they are the usual suspects 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@PhoHmooAmerica]

I’m dead. Hahahs

[@ljvue]

It’s deeper than that. I thinks it’s more historical trauma. A woman will never understand because they can’t experience seeing it from a man’s perspective. Men compete in a hierarchy. Sleeping with others outside the ethnicity is sleeping with the enemy. You are now viewed as a traitor. We can’t take you back. This is how men exist among each other. Strip off all the social rules and this is at the core. It’s primal. We feel the same about Vietnamese, Laotion, white, black, etc… I hope this gives you more insight. And I’m not speaking for the outlier.

[@hmoobqabteb7943]

Yup! Majority txiv neej hmoob yeej yuav nqias neeg thiab xu2 siab lawm os!

[@0wnerse7en73]

I'm with the boyfriend. 100%

[@yajvaj4958]

Qhia ncaj qha rau nej cov pojniam tias yog nej mus yuav dub thiab mev lawv yij meem thov ntuj kom nej ua lub neej kawg nrog nej tus txiv nawb. Peb river Hmoob ces yeej tsis ntsia li lawm os.

[@mosvaj1385]

Yog lawm . Mus yuav dub yuav dawb lawm ces txiv neej hmoob yeej tsis lam yuav lawm , tabsis cov txiv neej hmoob uas coj li no yog cov yug sab teb chaws tim ub tuaj lawm mas lawv yeej coj li ov, tabsis cov minyuam tuaj yug teb chaws no xyhov yog lawv siab loj los yog lawv npwb2 , lawv tsis tshua xyeej lawm. Lawv tsis tshua paub xyeej dub, dawb qub lawm os 🤣🤣🤣ib yam koj tus kheej 😂😂😂 . Kuv tus kheej mas no way too. No black be my boyfriend or my vauv.🤷‍♀️

[@xayxiong1061]

Should’ve been honest with your ex in the first place to prevent heart aches. Your mom was right but you didn’t listened.

[@yermoua7448]

Paub lawm lov koj txhob xav tias lawv yuav nyiam2 koj no luag tej laus hais npaum li cas los tsis mloog na paub lawm lov

[@leejmuam1]

This woman is funny😂. "Dub mas lawv hlub hlub yus ne" mag nrauj. Kuv tsis K K. Now she's like.."why hmong men are discriminate against her past?" Lawv tsis K K thiab ma 😂😂😂

[@ginamoua9989]

This my exact comment when i heard tat!😂😂😂

[@christophermanners6390]

Every Hmong women I know who marry khej dub end up divorce single mother and a baby mama. I have three cousins who date and marry khej dub all are now single momma. 🤦‍♂️

[@chyc-g4h]

Txiv Neej Hmoob lees tsis tau. Yog koj yuav lwm haiv lawm ces Hmoob yuav koj tsawg lawm.

[@Dr.HmongLawyer]

DUBs call Hmong husbands “SHORTY”. After yo marriage with yo cashier DUB husband, Hmong men hus koj “LOOSY”.

[@shaggythao7538]

Kuv lo yeej xum siab tsi yuav ib yam thiab nawb

[@yerllor86]

It sounds like you are still hurt about the breakup. It's okay to feel hurt, but don't overthink it. He was honest with you about his feelings, thank him for letting you know how little he sees your worth. Move on, his honesty was all the closure you needed.

[@nancymoua4982]

Yuam kev lawm ces yuav yuam kev tag ib sim.

[@hmooblubneejsibpab3471]

Yog yus tsis kam qhia yam lub siab dawb paug ces thaum kawg yeej tsis zoo os zoo tshaj yus yuav tsum hais qhia txhua yam kom tag yog lawv hlub yus los yus hos txaus siab os hos lawv tsis jlub yus los kav liam xwb mas tim koj ne koj siab phem tsis qhia txog kawg ces yus nyuaj siab xwb os mog

[@Xavtauntsejmuagcedagtxhuayam]

Hahahaha vim nws paub tias nws yam noob neej me2 xwb nws thiaj tsis kab yuav tus mus noj yam loj li nws hais hahahaha

[@meexiongvang3373]

Me ntxhai kuv hai rau koj tia hmoob ce feem ntau lawv yeej xyeej cov ntxhai uas mus yuav lwm haiv neeg tsi hai mekas dub ,mekas dawb nplog, nyablajj mev lis nawb. cov uas lawvtsi tshuam xyeej es lawv yuav tau ce tejzaum yog cov hmoob tuaj yug rau tebchaws mekas no xwb nawb dua lis ntawm ce tej zaum yuav muaj tus puav hnyuag yuav tsi xyeej thiab tiamsis yog koj coj ib cov me nyuam lwm haiv neeg los ce feem ntau koj tus txiv hmoob tsi hlub kiag lis nawb.kuv yeej paub lis no kuv twb qhia rau kuv cov me nyuam tas los lawv tsi care lis kuv tseem muaj 3 tus vauv mekas dawb thiab os.tiamsis lawv kuj sibsib hlub thiab os. Es lavliam mog.tiamsis nco ntsoov hai tia koj yuavtsum tau qhia ua ntej rau tus txiv neej uas koj yuav mus nrog nws ua txwjnkawm nawb yog nws lee rau koj tia nws tsi xyeej koj thiab koj cov me nyuam nws yuav koj nws yuav hlub koj thiab koj cov me nyuam mas koj mam yuav nws nawb.mog.

[@sunnygirl973]

Sister, hmoob yob me me lis ces thaum lawv hnov hais tuas mus yuav lwm haiv neeg lawm no ces hmoob yeej paub tias lawv tus yob piv tsis tau lawv cov yob lawm ces lawv kawg tsis yuav yus lis os.

[@yahookv15]

Unfortunately most Hmong men think like your ex boyfriend there. You can’t blame him though, just like you chose the black guy, he didn’t choose you. You weren’t upfront with him, you should have told him then you wouldn’t have had all that heartache when he broke up with you. Move on and find a guy who wants you for who you are regardless of who you’ve been with. Good luck to you in the future!

[@paLeevang]

To be honest you weren't honest with him in the first place so can't blame him.

[@BLONGYANG-nw4oq]

Love don’t matter but life matter. If you marry difference race, 90% prepare for single within 10 years. I not mean Hmong not divorce but mostly last long and fit in communities.

[@meemeezong1827]

Well the guy is right about one thing, once we tasted bigger and better lover, you’re damn right, why would we be satisfied with a little one?

[@dhuavneegphem2795]

Cov yuav mekas dub ces lawv nyiam rab loj. Thaum koj rov qab los tham hmoob ces Hmong li me2 ces Tsis txaus koj yees thaum ntawd koj yuav muab txiv neej Hmong piv rau dub. Qhov hno txiv neej Hmong yuav yuav tsis tau.

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

What a funny story 😂 Can’t even imagine how shock Seng was when he first met the kids. Once you go black, you never go back.

[@baothao2471]

Some Hmong guys don’t care because my ex in the past it’s not even Hmong n my husband Hmong still marry me until now

[@kayang3898]

Some people cannot get past their own insecurities. It's ok, let them go. Your mom tried to warm you from the start but you told her color didn't matter. So why does it matter now?

[@nancymoua4982]

Tus mes niam tsev to luag tej laus sij hais2 yus kom yus yuav yus cov neeg xwb lo yog vim luag tshais2 tsam yus lub neej zoo li no luag thiaj sij hais2 xwb. Tus laus nyob ntev duas, noj ntau diav mov thiab luag pom deb duas yus luag thiaj sij hais kom txhob yuav lwm hais neeg tsam luag hlub yus tsi kawg ces yus ho mus tsim tau ib cov menyuam tsi muaj leej twg nrog yus hlub.

[@maiyouavue5928]

Some Hmong men are just insecure about themselves. They think their little brother too tiny so they know they can’t compare to your ex. The though of not being able to please you in bed and the thought that since you married kaydu, you like it big so they’re just insecure. Not all men are like that, girl, the right one will come.

[@trulylee9055]

This is normal and to be expected.

[@maryly09]

Girl, u can't say he didn't love you enough to accept your two black kids. U can't blame him. The same can be said, u obviously didn't love him enough to be honest with him too. Stop the double standard and victim mentality. You played a vital part in the failure of that relationship too, don't act like he's the only bad one.

[@xya773]

I think it's the poor self-esteem of the Hmong men. Hmong men should have more self-esteem and do their best for the woman that they love no matter what the woman's past might have been.

[@shouavang2156]

Peb cov Ntxhais yog yuav lwm hauv neeg lawm txhob yuav hmoob lawm cov coob yog cov lawv tsis hlub yus vim yus yuav lwm hauv neeg ib zaug lawm

[@houathao-k1w]

Pab tu siab txiv neej hmoob 99% xav tib yam nkaus li tus txiv neej no

[@chatvang5648]

Vim nej cov poj niam mus nrog khej dub thiab mev tag los nej phem thuam2 txiv neej hmoob tsis zoo ne.

[@KrystalVang]

Nothing against dating black men. But they do tend to leave baby mama's where ever they go. I read somewhere that 70% of black men leave. So if you don't want to be a baby mama find that 30%.

[@Hmoob-LisTsuamYeej]

Tsis pom dej dub ces siab yeej tsis nqig.. Nyaj pom dej dub lawm ces siab yuav nqig..

[@tengher6111]

What do you expect. That Hmong guy knows his shrimp can't compete with a lobster. Hmong women who's had lobsters know it's not all the same. She said its all the same, get real. At least he was an honest man... he doesn't have a small heart. When a man knows when he's defeated mentally, its never going to work out. She knows he can't compete with her past and he'll never be able to perform at her level. It's good they went their separate ways.

[@trulylee9055]

You Should’ve stay married to the black guy. Why you chose to marry him but quit so easily !?

[@CloverStarz]

Vim hai thia kdo aim ne kho loj2 hmong tsi nhia.

[@Herikane82]

When they say...."I told you so" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nouyang3166]

It's a good thing he is straightforward with you. Most hmong will think like your ex bf.

[@whachamamacallit]

That ex-bf of yours is siab me me. He knows he can’t compare hence why he brought that up. You’re better off with someone else with an open heart.

[@Flyly1234]

Niam hlua mab kuv xav tau koj tus fb es kuv xav muab neej neeg kj pab hai

[@pml2671]

I’m sure not ALL Hmong men think like that. It’s just the little ones that may think like that only. 😂😂😂. Good luck on your love search in life.

[@nlchannel4682]

Some of us thinks we know it all like this young hmong lady. When we think we know it all we don't pay attention to other's instruction. This lady in this story might have learned her lesson so she should be forgiven for her past.

[@menavue9633]

Sister, ur parents warned u from the beginning how hmong men are. U want a hmong man, continue searching for the one who can accept you. If they feel disgust or deframe, ask them if they are willing to pay for a tight p..u..z…y surgery. Anyway, its also up to u. Dont be so sad. Make sure u are honest from the beginning whether a man ask the right question or not, the consequences is u wasting ur time and falling deeply in love when a man no longer wants to be with u because 1. U are not a honest and open person. 2. U hold secrets. 3. U wasted their time. 4. All this says a lot about what kind of person and woman u are. If u can make him feel disappointed now, u will again more later on…full of surprises. Sometimes even if u are honest, a man will hurt u and use u as well. So be thankful he didnt stay to hurt u and use u…this could be very ugly for u.

[@kvang1045]

Not only did u married a black guy, you also didnt want your children and that altogether will give you a bad reputation in the hmong community. Therefore hmong men will not consider you as wifey material. In their eyes, youre not damage goods, youre damage and no longer good, period. Its alright sis, you pave this road, now you just have to follow it. Just bc it didnt work out with this hmong guy, doesnt mean it wont work out with another. But i hope this mexican guy will treat u better. And if somehow u end up with a white guy later on, girrl, dont even look back. U just keep going cuz there is no chance a hmong guy will see u as a treasure anymore. GL.

[@crystalsong2039]

Wow, finally a hmomg guy who isn't afraid to speak his mind....

[@AndyVids2011]

Why is it that u call it empowering and just your personal preference when u decided to date/ marry outside. But when a hmong guy prefers not to marry or date the kind of women like u, then it's him being an asshole/ siab phem? The double standards i tell u. 😂😂😂

[@Fuii-qv3zz]

Tus muam maiv ntxawm aw seb yog koj ho nco tus txiv qub to thaum hlawv teb tas ces koj nqa kau mom mus looj cov pob ntoo tom plawv teb es ho mus thau duab nrog ces yeej zoo li koj tus txiv qub lawm mam es txhob tus siab os tseem tshuav ntau yam yuav pab tau koj thiab

[@mayotao1024]

Girl why you lying that you didn’t know. You knew he was gonna have an issue if you told him ur ex was black. That’s why you never reveal the truth. Trying act all shock, 😂😂😂

[@PandYThao]

Good riddance girl. People always judge you regardless. You were right to wait and hold off on telling him the truth because if he really did love you, it wouldn’t have mattered either way. But at least now you know his truth.

[@kenxiong5540]

Kuv li kuv kam tham UA si thiab tab kuv tsis kam yuav thiab...🫰