An ex-gf of mine wanted to go out tonight because she said that I owe her dinner. I responded with, "Yeah. I owe ya dinner but we were technically dating at the time. Right now, it's a different story because you're in a relationship with someone. How do you expect me to buy you dinner if you have a bf?" She then immediately got quiet and didn't respond anymore.
@user-jg2uc2fu3wАй бұрын
Not cool. 👎
@Martin-rh7mfАй бұрын
The more sex that is shared around by individuals, the more oxytocin bonding attachments they form. This leads to devaluation of sex, lack of empathy, emptiness & numbness toward intimacy. It sounds like your boundary startled her. Good for you because many guys nowadays are manginas who say yes to terrible options that might feel good in the moment but will ultimately leave them feeling used. 21st century casual sex is a monumental scam that has turned large swathes of females into sex zombies. They don't do feelings, which was traditionally how males were portrayed. Then, in their 30s, many of these zombies will want to stop taking the pill & change their perspective to wanting a baby. Imagine settling down & doing family life with a zombie. Actually, don't! Keep your standards 💪🏽
@Denis-zb5pfАй бұрын
Thank you, Leela, so does resonate very accurately as hits the nail squarely on the head. Just this morning, Taurus loved to dump on me her fears, till i said I'm entitled to my take on it. To which she walked away. Didn't like me bringing it back to a two-way conversation. I'd begun closing the door on this crap after my being blamed for her fears third time in the past week. Partner I'm seeking is coming to me, patience a little longer.❤