Is He Missing Me? THIS Is When He Starts To Miss You! 🤔😍

[@VixenDaily]

Questions? Comments? Experiences you want to share? Let me know here right now! 💖💖💖

[@rachaelgarraway2846]

I'm giving him the space he wants as he is giving me silent treatment. I've been in a 4 year long distance relationship which has regular bouts of silent treatment from him. Can you please do a segment on silent treatment and how to properly deal with it as it seems to be his pattern.

[@jaskaransyan4867]

Also what to do when the man blocks you after break up

[@VixenDaily]

@@jaskaransyan4867 Best thing you can do after a breakup is not be in contact with him. Watch my full "How To Get Your Ex Back" playlist and it will answer every question you have (and questions you haven't even thought of yet). Hope it helps you.

[@VixenDaily]

@@rachaelgarraway2846 The quick answer is to have a life that's so interesting, so engaging, so fulfilling, so HAPPY that you don't even notice when he's not engaging because the rest of your life is so full and wonderful. When he does this, take it as an opportunity to love your own life more. Also, I have to ask... you've been in a long distance relationship with this guy for 4 years? Have you ever lived in the same area or has it been long distance the whole time? And is there any plan or desire on either person's part to live somewhere close to each other physically?

[@rachaelgarraway2846]

@@VixenDaily thanks for your quick reply and your advice is spot on. We have always been long distance, 120 miles between us. We see each other every weekend and text/chat daily. When things are good they are awesome and then outa the blue silent treatment. We knew each other 30yrs ago as friends only, went our own ways and met back up again 4 years ago. I was 6yrs post divorce and he had just left his dysfunctional marriage. His divorce proceedings are still going through court and very messy and nasty. I give him the benefit of doubt with this nasty part of his life but I dont deserve this emotional blackmail in silence. I have been his rock, best friend, secretary for court documents and lover through it all. We have heaps in common, we travel regularly and he talks of future travelling but never about moving in together. He is anti marriage and said earlier in the relationship that he wouldn't live with anyone but that was 3 years ago. Time flies and nothing has been bought up again since. It seems that this silent treatment is a pattern for him. We dont fight but if I say something that may offend him then the silence starts and last 2-3 weeks. I'm pretty much past all of the crap but wonder if it's worth hanging in there. My life is great and I have other interest that I peruse..... just never had to deal with silent treatment before and how long to put up with it...loo

[@finaashafinah3043]

1) Give him space 2) Bettering urself while give him space 3) Variety of female energy 4) Be in a good mood

[@macanoke7597]

Thank you!

[@tweetymay2000]

I'm ready

[@baby24142]

Thank u thanks

[@victorianorris1916]

I'm ready

[@finaashafinah3043]

I just realised this comment lol. As far as i remember, during this time i was looking for smting that could help on my past relationship 😂 naaa, i already ended our relationship. It felt i just wasting my time trying to repair it. He cheated on me anyway 😂 gosh, dumb me

[@karenmoreau1737]

I'm giving him space. I just got a job and a new apartment and I'm finding happiness

[@kurrves]

That is great!

[@LoveBugg2010]

Girl!! That was such a confirmation to my spirit! I have been waiting for my guy for two years and I realize that I was stalling my journey. I just got my dream job in this season of my life as well as just living the life I love❤✊🏾

[@melodyjoypollard937]

You are dead on..... women struggle so hard with the space issue.... we want reassurance.... but your emphasis on us finding our OWN reassurance by developing and pursuing those things that add meaning to our own lives.... are HUGE.... this self care and wisdom makes us balanced and healthy..... stable, safe... and naturally more appealing to all people in our lives.... doesn’t mean we can’t express negative feelings.... but if we have a way of addressing those ourselves.... it shows inner strength that is so important....loved your clarity... explanations and truth.... THANK YOU❤️

[@leahanderson30]

Some guys like to be needed in that way not all, not all men are the same

[@anjalir4967]

If I do all these things, I'm going to better myself in so many ways and by so much.. that I wouldn't even need him by then. If I don't feel like I can need a man, I don't even want him

[@lizdelaplain5135]

I really appreciate that you don’t have the glasses. They were a distraction, reflecting the lighting. You have a great look now, and I also appreciate your advice!

[@VixenDaily]

Yes, many are happy about it! :) Glad you like it!

[@tianiemitchell5692]

Always give them the impression you can walk out of their lives at any given moment while you're happy

[@marinamarkaki3247]

This is the best Advice I I have heard in. A long time....

[@victoriacaropreso1506]

I did a marathon of your videos last night!😆 You are absolutely correct with what you’ve shared! You’re a gem of a woman! A straight shooter! I feel that’s most level headed gals know these amazing pointers but sometimes we fall off our straight path and lose our ways which makes us human🤪🤗 Thank you for putting things back to its proper prospective and giving us a kick in the pants that help lead us back on the right path to logical solutions.... Warmly, Victoria C.

[@chezzeeX]

I love how you explain that giving him space so he can work out his emotions in order to fall in love. I understand that. I give him space and he always comes back. He told me he loved me a month ago but he has gone silent on me since. Its been 3 weeks since we last spoke.

[@firstladyqueen5985]

True! Relationships make no one happy! It reflects the happiness both people add to it! Wwwowww! Sooooo simple and sooooo true! So fresh and so cool!

[@VixenDaily]

Yes!

[@firstladyqueen5985]

@@Sarahgreeneyes32 miserable much? And wow those low blows surely come from a place of emptiness, incredible insecurities, severe shortcomings and ugly upbringings. Only weak people bully or stoop down to low down dirtiness unwarranted! Save your smart comments for someone else! Misery loves company! Go back and re-watch! Clearly you've missed the mark! Deuces! Sad to see you come happy to see you leave! This will be my only reply to you. I've already **wasted** a few moments of my precious time setting the record straight! Get a hobby! Read a book! Bake a pie, eat a pie!

[@TRAVIESAMALDONADO323]

I actually blocked him because he was pushing me away..and 1 week after he called me on private and told me how much him and his dog which I love with all my hear miss me!! 💕💕 now it's my time to shine i will be really distant since we started talking again!!

[@maggiessong]

How is it possible for someone so young to be so wise? I am 66 years old and just learning this...thank you.

[@katiewelsh88]

He dumped me in April, but we’ve been close ever since. We still told each other we love each other. It was a complicated situation. And he told me we’d get back together someday when he’s ready. So the other day I told him I was gonna give him space. It’s been so hard. I love him so much. It’s only been 2 days😭 but I’ve been in the gym. It’s making me feel better.

[@nativechique7589]

I'm "just a friend" now and had to pull away for myself

[@ayeishaj9281]

Katie, any update? What happened finally?

[@angelbaby3175]

Just came across this....my ex just left me I messed up and he wants to be single...so glad I came across this....I was taking my stuff as well, but told me to leave it at his house so I did

[@azaleabroz6880]

I always say Ego and Expectations are enemies 🤷‍♀️

[@Chrissybell1210]

Giving a guy space can backfire because he will find someone else trust me especially with all this social media fb, Instagram, etc...

[@sheilannnataucappo4275]

I lose him and I gave him space . He found someone else which I had to find out the gross way he took her on a vacation and that's how I find out . But what ever I found new love

[@lucybee3361]

You met someone else. Good for you.

[@sugarmagnolia7647]

I just want to say thank you, I really appreciate what you are doing. I only found your channel about an hour ago, and I've been watching all of your videos, and your advice and perspective really make a lot of sense to me. One of my struggles has been not being interested in any man since my spiritual awakening a couple years ago. I just recently met someone who has just completely set my heart on fire, and I find myself struggling with reverting back to old ways because I have never experienced dating or interest or a relationship with my newfound self (after spiritual awakening). It's like I am learning all over again, but am trying to keep myself in alignment with all I have become, if that makes sense. It's funny how much I have realized from your videos with you spelling everything out, because I notice when I am staying true to myself and focused on myself everything is perfect but when I find myself starting to doubt or worry things aren't as great. Anyway, thank you lol. 😘

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you for your comment, I really appreciate it. I think the lesson in this new relationship will be in maintaining that connection with the true "you" within, who you've found... We can get emotionally attached to wants... wanting things to be a certain way, wanting them to be a certain way or do certain things, wanting the story to play out a certain way... That wanting and insisting on things being some other way than as they are now... that causes us to suffer. Like you said, you saw that when you start to doubt or worry (which is largely your mind conjuring up images to compare reality to and feel bad about), then that's when you experience suffering (versus when you stay true to yourself and focused on yourself). Your joy is a very wise teacher. There is so much more joy within life than just what a partner can give us... so when you're with your partner you can be enjoying them, but when you're apart you can make your life an exploration of just how much joy you can find in living.

[@sugarmagnolia7647]

@@VixenDaily thank you so much, I really appreciate this ❤️💕😘

[@michellecoleman716]

So good to see your face with your hair pulled back. So pretty

[@VixenDaily]

Ah thank you!

[@vaneeta1]

What about the out of site out of mind that can happen too

[@VixenDaily]

@@vaneeta1 If that's true, then how does anyone miss anyone else ever? Think about it. I'm not saying that giving space is the ONLY ingredient for a guy to miss you, but it's a required ingredient. If he's not that into you, yeah, he's not going to miss you. If he's extremely, extremely busy or stressed, his mind might be on other things he has to deal with at the moment and so he's going to be caught up in those things. (And if you're going to be with an extremely busy guy, you better be great at keeping yourself entertained and busy within your own life as well).

[@vaneeta1]

@@VixenDaily I agree but what about the guy thats really shy doesnt make a move, just follows you around. s Sometimes the female has to show him too and by talking to him and also chase sometimes. I agree a degree of missing you helps by being busy. maybe they do it to make you miss them or lure you back in.

[@victorianorris1916]

I'm giving him space, working on myself I'm being in a good mood when he comes back around

[@jacquesyu8571]

Did he came back?

[@victorianorris1916]

@@jacquesyu8571 yes he did

[@jacquesyu8571]

@@victorianorris1916 how long does it take? Mine it's been 4days I'm having an anxiety we're already in long distance relationship I haven't heard from him

[@victorianorris1916]

@@jacquesyu8571 it was 5 months for me it was a struggle though, good luck to you

[@jacquesyu8571]

@@victorianorris1916 he texted today and angry 😅😂

[@loveg1171]

I broke up with my bf a few months ago and I regretted it instantly. I tried contacting him only to find out that he blocked me. I called from a unknown number once and texted, he ignored that too. It’s been a few months now and I haven’t reached out or anything and neither has he. I’m just enjoying my life and giving him the space he needs. Our relationship was great I was just afraid of getting hurt. I’m hoping in the future he reaches out but as of right now I’m giving him the space he needs. I’ve already tried reaching out once and he ignored me so I won’t contact him ever again. If he doesn’t come back I know I’ll be okay but I’d love to share this life God gave to me with him.

[@kaoshi_kutie]

You look so nice without your glasses! 😍😍

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you!

[@carolw1624]

Becareful of this. Are you giving space but always available when he wants to talk - thats not balanced. I gave space and enjoyed an exciting life like jet skiing, bbqs, time with friends and he called me a party girl. Huh, I dont drink and home by 11.30pm. Controlling narcissists are rife out there ladies, becareful.

[@VixenDaily]

I agree with you on the point about balance. When I recommend giving him space, it's in the context that you yourself have a life you love, that entertains you, engages you and fills you up. In order to be great in a relationship, you need to be able to fill yourself up so you "show up full" and bring that happiness into the relationship. Your partner needs to be able to recharge his batteries as well, so to speak, so he can bring his happiness into the relationship as well. If he's calling you a party girl unironically and intends to restrict your behavior, yes that's usually a red flag. It doesn't mean he's a full-blown narcissist, but it is something that should be addressed intelligently. At the core, both people need to be capable of living a life of their own that fulfills them and brings them happiness. That's the only way they'll be able to build a happy relationship together. It's self-destructive to the relationship if one partner demands the other stop doing the things that bring them happiness. Sometimes, though, their demands are coming from a place of genuine concern and desire to create a good relationship with you. Other times it's coming from a place with selfish intentions and they cannot be reasoned with. Before concluding someone is a narcissist, it's good to openly discuss what their concerns are. If their concerns are towards building the best relationship and commitment with you possible, then they're worth hearing out. If they're selfish or he refuses to explain himself (or worse, takes on punishing behaviors like going emotionally cold or threatening you if you don't oblige his demands), then those are definitely bad signs! In a situation like that, you're doomed if you oblige the demands at face value. If you give up the things in your life that bring you happiness and fill you up, you'll be drained and unhappy, which will not only make you miserable but destroy the relationship itself eventually (after a long period of misery). Your only hope is to openly discuss his true concerns and vision for the relationship and reach some kind of understanding of what each of you needs. But that's not always possible. This is, however, where you want to aim in a situation like that.

[@genievelee372]

This channel deserves so much more attention than those “love guru” channels that make you buy stuff at the end. Way to go queen! ❤️

[@livinggood6876]

Great advice, with all the dating options people have today, self fulfillment is crucial.

[@VixenDaily]

Very true!! And thank you, I'm glad you liked it!

[@leesteal4458]

Love is a delicate but crazy thing. There are no strategies to making a man fall in love with you. You can upgrade yourself so much and a man will still not love you. It's also bull crap about being happy. Fake happiness if you are not? I suffered from depression and the person that loved me, still loved me and accepted me. I won't fake a good mood for any man. They will leave you no matter what you do or don't do. Just be you. Live your best life and if this attracts love, then so be it.

[@reneeshoregirl8526]

I'm ready. giving him space is so scary, but I have to...

[@VixenDaily]

Hope you liked the video! And it's easier to give space when you realize it's a GOOD thing for your relationship!

[@lorrainethoko6638]

Is it working?

[@tyinglongkonyak6731]

I miss some one but I think he did not miss me

[@sunbeam9222]

That's why I m forever single 😂😂 I fall in love when the connection is nurtured. If he needs space I give space but I can't keep my emotions up and they die out. When they return I am just not interested anymore 🤦

[@loredanabarth765]

You look ADORABLE! Cute jacket👍🏼 Once again, great advice! I wish this was around when I was your age!!!

[@VixenDaily]

Ah thank you!

[@nicolaking5057]

Can this help with an ex that I'm now talking to. We did no contact and have met twice. It's been amazing but I want him to fall for me again 😭 please help me

[@VixenDaily]

Everything in this video will help, but really you should go to the playlists on this channel (VixenDaily) and watch the entire Get Your Ex Back playlist and the No Contact Rule playlist too... I walk through everything in great detail. If you still have a question after watching it all just ask and I'll do my best to get back to you. Can't promise these days because so many comments come in now that I don't get notified of all of them anymore, but I always try my best to...

[@simplymarilyn5295]

It sounds like you two are already on your way to rekindling your relationship.....otherwise you wouldn't be seeing each other "again". There must be some mutual feeling on his part, for you.. Just take it slow and enjoy the time you have together w no expectations. Let him take the lead because he is the man. Just relax and let him pursue you....Do not rush anything. If he is into you, he will slowly but surely fall in love w you and it will come naturally....Not because you are forcing it! Good luck!

[@nicolaking5057]

@@simplymarilyn5295 I really hope so. I just worry if he's only wanting to see me as a friend. He said there's no chance we'd be together again. Xx I really hope you're right and something can come of this and it's starting to mean more than I think xx

[@simplymarilyn5295]

@@nicolaking5057 Like Erin said.....Give him time and space in between your dates, so you allow him time to miss you. Let him pursue you and ask you out on a date. Men like a challenge and enjoy chasing the woman. Remember that you are the princess, not the other way around. Let him be the man & do the pursuing. And don't worry about what he is saying and watch his actions. His actions will tell you how he is "really" feeling about you. You don't want to appear clingy, needy or desperate...You will only scare him away!

[@nicolaking5057]

@@simplymarilyn5295 amazing thank you so much. You've been amazing help. This all makes sense. Xxx

[@ClaudiaSanchezQuintero]

Oh you look so pretty without the glasses. But I do like your other look too! It’s cool!

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you!!

[@franlaws417]

You look GREAT today!! So peppy and cute!! YOU GO, GIRL!!

[@morganh5611]

Watching your videos, i see everything I did wrong. My crush was getting closer to me but he pulled away when I was stressing out about something that didn't have anything to do with him. My situation is complicated. But , yeah now i want to kick myself in the butt because I messed up and i may not have another chance with him. Kind of hard to make him miss me since we work together. But i do try my best to avoid him.

[@crazcurlyq311]

I was dating a guy for a few months after I had final felt like I had become the best version of myself. He's going through a lot at the moment: An amicable divorce, kid out of state, contemplating moving back home and personal stuff that I believe is all causing him to be slightly depressed and down on his luck and turn inward. We started out super fast and had a great connection. We get along really well, have tons of fun together and have great chemistry, but ultimately he said he wasn't ready for a relationship after 5 months and needed to work on himself and setting goals for what he wanted for the new year. I totally respect this and get it, because I was once there too after a divorce. I still really like him and like him as a person and there was nothing wrong with us except for timing and him not being ready which caused him not to give me 100% of himself in the relationship. It almost makes it harder to move on. He's texted me about random things that made him think of me and likes and comments on my social media posts. It's confusing to me, even though I know time means you need time and that won't change things. I'm trying to distance myself and have no contact allowing him to see how amazing I was but also give myself the time to heal, move on and make myself the best version of myself again. I guess I want to know that if timing was bad and someone wasn't ready to be committed due to timing and circumstances, is there a chance that something could work out again?

[@ZodacTarot]

well what happened did you guys get back together?

[@crazcurlyq311]

No, I finally realized he was not for me by a lot of his actions. He was already seeing someone else but still trying to hook up with me. Even 9 months after we split up, he tried and he was still dating the same girl, talking about her moving with him, but still trying to get with me... He’s a sleaze. I have gained so much confidence since this and learned so much about dating and myself, red flags are clear, interest is obvious and I don’t put up with shit anymore... bye, next! Best mantra, it’s not about you, so I stopped taking things so personally. Still single and looking for a good fit, but I’ll wait until I find it- no more settling for less than I deserve!

[@inshirahashim4444]

@@crazcurlyq311 Good luck. You deserve someone who is 100% sure about you. The loss is his girl!

[@daliwood12]

I think one has to avoid making sweeping generalizations like "do not expect anything". The danger in that is no standards. For instance, you should expect him to stick to agreements he has made with you and to be called out on if he does not.

[@tinyah6208]

It reall depends about the situation. Space also makes a man realize that they can live without you. When i was traveling for 3 weeks (we were still talking through text all the time i was gone), all of a sudden my husband texted me for a divorce cuz he realized that he can live without me. We've been having problems for months its because i dont give what he wants. So Space can make a man miss you and wants to get back or it can make the man leave you forever

[@paulasmith3577]

Love your new hair color and style. It’s nice to see your pretty face!

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you!

[@pumbabre8937]

If I have to do all this I promise I'll leave and never look back

[@KirbyScruples]

I just got a jacket like this yesterday!!!

[@VixenDaily]

Great taste hehe

[@LS-bu6qk]

You're gorgeous without the glasses! Never wear them again in your videos... Ha! Happiness and positivity are contagious! Thank you! 😍

[@angelastewart7327]

You look very nice in the video. Good points covered also, and we have to love ourselves before someone else can. Thanks

[@Galing76]

If your in a long distance relationship, giving him space is almost all I do... Texting is pretty much our only communication and if I give him space with this a lot... will he still be interested?

[@shirleymarion1804]

I am ready now

[@alessandramalfitano1902]

Dont talk to him all the time, so he misses you in those hours he is used to talk with you

[@Galing76]

Ale Malfitano Thanks! 👍🏽

[@VixenDaily]

Yes... the thing about space is that you have to really give him that space psychologically too. Sure, you might not be in contact, but if he feels like there's pressure from your side that he HAS to be in contact or he HAS to do this or that, then that's not really space. That's just not being in communication... Space is when he knows you're totally 100% good on your own, you're happy, you're fine, you're having a good time... there's no "problem"... THAT is space. So you have to reflect on that... would you say your LDR is like that, where it's very light and both of you are happy in your own lives, no pressure, no problems, no stress?

[@joud9482]

Now im more confused abour space as well🤣🤣🤣,

[@LiChow]

I love your classy and sassy appearance 😍

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you dear!

[@doloresolivaria3521]

I'm ready right now! That jacket is really nice👍👍

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you!

[@dreammanifestor7223]

When does space need to happen when you've just started dating someone? On date #4 in 5 weeks. It's going well so so I need to create space already?

[@tianiemitchell5692]

I love what you talk about the information is spot-on thank you

[@abbygodfrey3282]

definitely feeling the pain of my boyfriend of 7yrs going from hot to warm. We do not live together and even though he wants me to come over often I find myself cooking...cleaning and watching him on his phone. we are both hardworking and successful with no kids...all that I say tends to just irritate him and I am not sure what TO DO? I go back home a couple days a week and he feels I am playing a game and never comes over to my place as he feels more comfortable at his. I am going into quarantine psycho as I feel maybe he is cheating again etc. HELP!

[@mariacaballero2653]

What if you start going through a very tough time in your life? What if it started off really well, but something unforeseen happens, and it takes work to always be in a good mood?

[@VixenDaily]

It's OK to have a tough day or tough week or even tough month. It happens. The big point I want to get across is that your mood matters. If you're a person who's generally happy and in a good mood, you'll have been naturally investing that happiness into the relationship over time. Your partner will know you are a happy person going through a tough time and it will be easy to cut you slack. The big thing to be aware of is how important it is to be in a good mood as your normal state so that, when the bad days come, it's easy for your partner to give you credit, be understanding, be supportive, etc. because they the relationship is already so "full" with good energy.

[@mariacaballero2653]

@@VixenDaily thank you so much for clarifying!!!

[@mariacaballero2653]

@@VixenDaily 🤗😘

[@MysteriousRNP]

😍 I love this look. You look gorgeous .

[@VixenDaily]

Ah thank you!

[@sriyapaul7023]

What can I do in long distance relationship my boyfriend always creates conflicts

[@territhomas6773]

So when is the magic moment when you know he misses you?

[@VixenDaily]

When he is reaching for more of you. He might not necessarily say "I miss you"... after all, he's a man, if he misses you it's likely he would just take some kind of action to connect with you instead of talk about it. That said, if he's reaching out for more of you in some way (any way), then that's a sign he's missing you.

[@KA-ub4rc]

Love your jacket 💯

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you!

[@savelikeaprowithleah5157]

Amazing Content ! Thanks for Sharing!

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you, glad you liked it!

[@jamiecee4960]

I know I am him. I miss talking to him and seeing him.

[@sophiakatherine7985]

right now I give him space no call no message

[@AlexinMadrid]

I just discovered your channel and you’re wonderful! Just what I needed right now. Can you give more details on how to have variety in your female energy? Thanks for everything you do!

[@nikoyoart]

This video is so wise I really found it helpful 👏👏👏👏

[@bonabysharia3]

I love your advice and signs. It truly help me

[@elizabethbingham134]

Im so ready.You look very pretty as well today!

[@saraviles787]

I was in a 11 month relationship we had a little fight for 30 seconds... we were engaged and had 4 kids one his 3 mine.. he went to work at 5 am last Thursday and never came home.. I found out from his mother his not coming back.. it’s been a week and still have not heard a thing from him..

[@cherylvoight4258]

I'm ready right now!! ❤️💃

[@VixenDaily]

Hope you liked the video!

[@sb822]

You resemble Allison Holker from DWTS.... I love seeing your face like this. You're beautiful.

[@VixenDaily]

Ah thank you. I've watched a bunch of DWTS over the years!

[@dawnblight759]

I'm giving him space to see what he really wants I just started working a new job and it was meant for me and him to be together then he will come back to me but if not I let him go then he's going to really think that he misses me so much

[@annalizaamando8048]

You looking gorgeous and different now.🤗💖💐

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you!

[@bambiiii4858]

Giving him space during this pandemic is it fine?? I mean he didnt ask for space. But when this pandemic started on our country, we talk less. Unlike before we are talking everyyy single day even if he’s at work. Now, there were days that we are not talking. We are not a couple yet but before this pandemic we used to go on coffee dates, and we also told ourselves that we like each other but we dont want to be in a hurry as both of us dont wanted to get hurt again like what we felt with our last relationships that ended couple of months ago (both of us) I need advice 😭

[@tinyah6208]

How do i know if he is missing me after a breakup?? I also wonder when men say mean things to you while they are angry, do they mean it?

[@angelam.ebrace8385]

Do you ever mean it?

[@tinyah6208]

@@angelam.ebrace8385 sometimes i do but another time i dont. It depends on their attitude towards me

[@angelam.ebrace8385]

@@tinyah6208 we all get mad. Confused and angry, and say things we don't mean.. we need to watch what we say, we have to train ourselves how to communicate and not use hurtful words. We have to teach our loved ones this as well. If he means it, he will certainly show you. Nobody deserves an emotional slap in the face either. Know your worth and importance! And make people respect you, especially the one u love and claim love u.

[@VixenDaily]

If you are broken up, the best thing you can do is watch the "How to get your ex back" playlist and the "No contract rule" playlist on this channel. It will explain a ton in great detail and answer a lot of the questions you have right now. I hope you watch them and I hope they help a lot!

[@angelam.ebrace8385]

@@VixenDaily no contact rule works . You find truth. ❤️

[@snowjasmine9644]

You look absolutely stunning 💖

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you dear!

[@kathrinejoyremodaro2326]

All of your advice, it works ❤️❤️❤️

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you, I'm glad you like it!

[@modernallure]

What if your ex battles depression and anxiety as much as you do? We were anchors in the beginning and somehow got lost along the way. He broke it off with me because I didn't understand why he was distancing himself from me and wouldn't communicate things either. I'm glad I found this channel and its helping me understand but it's complicated if we both have a slight mental illness. I am currently trying the no contact rule rn also. Any advice along side this I need to be aware of?

[@jasminekrueger9909]

You are awesome! Glad I came across your videos 🌸

[@dorag1150]

You are beautiful! And I love “ No expectations No disappointments!”

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you! I'm glad you loved it!

[@fasiahmedkhan9837]

When you love you do expect sadly😭

[@paulahudson527]

You Are So correct about your answers Thanx 💖

[@fionafeeney9464]

Is this the same for women too?

[@nataliedomanicoreportingin1163]

What can you say if he texts you he misses you? Sometimes I think it is just words and no action.

[@VixenDaily]

Why do you think it's words and no action? I feel like if you're asking me this, a part of you doesn't feel like it's genuine from him and that's the real reason you don't know how to respond... which makes it hard for me to give you a response since that's a whole different conversation, you know?

[@nataliedomanicoreportingin1163]

@@VixenDaily We have been on and off for 7 years. So I don't feel it's genuine. I have recently asked him if he would give us a chance at a relationship. He will text things like, "I miss you." He said just the other day, "I have always loved you." He sent me one that said, "You ready?" Meaning he's entertaining for us to have a relationship. I texted back "Yes." He texted, "I always knew it was going to be me and you." And then there is radio silence. These texts all came within the past month. He never asks me out, though. He will sometimes come over, but that's it. It's very rare. He's introvert, strong silent type, a former marine and can be very sensitive. He is always sending me songs to communicate with me how he feels. When he tells me he misses me, it really pulls at my heartstrings. I would love for him to take me seriously. He will go a week to 10 days without texting and sometimes we've gone months. I have dated people in between and so has he. But I am so emotionally, spiritually and physically attracted to him. we've prayed together in the past and have gone to church together. It's very hard. He is raising his grandson and his priorities are different right now.

[@lubasolonenko5909]

This is where I go wrong. I don’t give space via contact.

[@cherylworghs9372]

This is so true I love this video😍😍

[@VixenDaily]

I'm glad you loved it!

[@SherylF339]

I'm ready, right now!..

[@barbarawentzel6202]

You are so right, however, my man does love me but we are just friends. I am all that (had to learn) to him, but the sexual attraction is not there for him. He says I'm attractive loves my smile and rear end, but not more. What more can I do. Lose weight?

[@fireanddesire804]

I'm Ready💗

[@amandaserle3343]

How long to give him space please? Been 9 weeks now nit chased him at all.and wont be.

[@TheNillyp]

I'm not trying to attract my exes necessarily, But Im ready right now😊❤❤❤

[@sabinesunflower517]

I am ready right now !!

[@VixenDaily]

Hope you liked the video!

[@Dizzynomads]

What do I do if we live together. Space seems hard when we have to see each other everyday😔

[@moniquemichelle.9374]

I’m ready!!

[@VixenDaily]

Hope you liked the video!

[@moniquemichelle.9374]

I did very much. Thank you

[@dianelong5859]

Awesome advice

[@VixenDaily]

I'm glad you liked it!

[@ladydee9292]

How much time is sufficient space?

[@jessicacruz2974]

What if you go a month dating a guy and spend too much time together that it clashes and he disappears.. is it too late to get him back? I have been keeping my distance to heal myself and focus on my life. Is there a chance things can work out later down the line??

[@cjjohnson7801]

I love your jacket!😁

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you!

[@monadeng1336]

Me 2

[@catchingupwithparis2284]

He said he will move where I'm at in 2 weeks

[@aperosmall4935]

So true,I love your videos

[@ClaudiaSanchezQuintero]

Great video!!! Thanks 🙏

[@VixenDaily]

Thank you!

[@traceyscott5852]

Do you tell him you’re backing off or just not contact him

[@naomihjelmberg3738]

I’m ready right now

[@VixenDaily]

Hope you liked the video!

[@relayne6609]

Is the 2 weeks no communication will be effective ? I have a 3 yrs no label relationship and i asked him again a week ago why he can't commit, his reason is he is not ready for the responsibility of a partner like updating etc. But he is a annulled man, but still he is pursuing me.

[@VixenDaily]

Doing 2 weeks of no contact is going to be pointless unless you face the real problem at the root. The real problem is that for 3 years you've been participating in a relationship dynamic that isn't what you actually want. He says he doesn't want to be in an official, committed relationship and you've accepted that and acted like his committed, exclusive girlfriend anyway. If you think about it, why would he act any different at all? He said he doesn't want commitment and you demonstrated that you're OK with that and will just act like you are anyway. So the real issue here is that you're not willing to say no to what you don't want. And I have to imagine the reason is that you believe that if you said "no thanks" and walk away, he will let you go... What does that tell you?

[@traceyscott5852]

Yes please I’ve met a younger man who says he doesn’t want a girlfriend but I’ve been seeing him for a month when is it time to walk away and can I ask him about relationships

[@incognitonunya8584]

Space is amazing 🙌

[@Juztkiki]

Yasssssss Queen! Great video. Lolzzz😂💕

[@VixenDaily]

Lol thank you!

[@montanamtngirl]

Very helpful!!! 🙏💞👍👍

[@afrikafuentes]

Thanks for this video! Also I hope you don’t mind me saying... you remind me of the beautiful Brittany Murphy 😊

[@simplymarilyn5295]

I am ready right now!